Fear of Rejection Paralyzing You? Then Watch This (Matthew Hussey)

[@IevaKambarovaite]

Rejection sucks. But when you look back at someone that's rejected you, don't you think it turned out to be one of the biggest blessings? I remember going through years of attracting guys that were not choosing me in the way I wished they did. Now when I look back, I think, 'Thank you so so much. If I stayed around this guy I'd have never ever been able to meet this truly amazing guy I'm with now'🙏🏻 Every rejection gets you closer to the person you're meant to be with 💜 don't give up

[@elahem2851]

You are so right ❤️🙏

[@IevaKambarovaite]

@Eris you're so right. It all happens for a reason 💜

[@robertzsombok7661]

I love this way of thinking :)

[@ladennayoung2939]

Thanks for sharing. That was nice.

[@Leggs013]

Thank You ♥️

[@chelseaellis1626]

I love this so much. “You can sleep at night knowing you tried, but the thing that will keep you up at night is knowing you didn’t put yourself out there” this applies to everything in life and not just relationships. I have started to base my life off this and it’s so true and it makes life so much more fullfilling “fear regret more” “decide regret is the scariest thing” “no rejection is as painful as the regret you feel later on” “Doing this we keep creating the best version of ourselves...” all these are so so so true.

[@TheAlkebulanTrust]

True or correct?...rejection simply is re-direction. Just because you may feel you didn't get what you wanted it don't mean you didn't get what you needed.

[@annaknowmay7807]

OMG it really works for me he came back to me 🌹🌹I'm so glad it worked out who needs any help???👩‍🎨

[@annaknowmay7807]

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[@oksanamielniczek7945]

So true in relationships and in life in general, I think.

[@annaknowmay7807]

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[@Bendis_10]

This video have me the courage (for the first time in my life) to tell the guy I like about my feelings. I haven’t slept well over the last weeks, trying to interpret the mixed signals he was sending. It was the scarriest thing I have ever done. He does not feel the same and it hurts, but at least I can sleep well knowing that I have tried and I have no regret. This has also saved a lot of time that I would have spent torturing myself with questions on if he reprocicates or not....

[@aescala]

OMG, same thing happened to me a couple days ago... At first, I felt miserable due to his rejection, but now I'm starting to feel a tad bit better because it's as you say... I feel like I've saved a lot of time of his mixed signals

[@howthetidefalls]

Guys, saaammmmeeee

[@vincal.3178]

Guys, I’m going to do the same. Even typing the previous sentence is a first step. Even sending this comment is a first big step. I’m going to do it, I can do it. I can.

[@elahem2851]

This touches my heart at its weakest part, it touches and pets my heart. I understood now. Thank you.

[@cheesecake6811]

You are so right 🙏🏾

[@irie800]

Just wanted to write the same

[@1stevecy]

Okay, I'm going to rock the boat a little. To those who have experienced childhood trauma through abuse, rejection can feel like death and going into "the cave" was a means of survival. Often rejection hits those same nerves and triggers so much pain that it's hard to know how to knowingly decide to put ourselves through that again. I'm not saying we shouldn't work on reframing rejection, like you said. But, I think, for some, it's going to take far more effort for them than for those who aren't triggered in the same way. Abuse survivors were rejected at their core when they most needed love and acceptance, so coming out if it is going to take reprogramming of a way of thinking that's been embedded in our minds since childhood... And for some since infancy. I've been working on this, and I feel a change, but sometimes rejection still hits that same paralyzing nerve that it still takes me out for a week or more.

[@a.g.5396]

I know exactly what you mean. I was constantly rejected during my childhood so I'm extremely triggered when rejection reoccurs. For people with this kind of trauma it is particularly hard to work on that. However, this shouldn't be an excuse either. We only have one life, so working on that is never wrong, at least when faced in a manageable dosage.

[@amandahaupt1327]

🙋‍♀️In agreement with you love... Totally...

[@valentinaa36]

I was this person rejected my whole life and of course it still hurts a bit but I’m here to tell you it’s possible it’s possible to “love” rejection and embrace all of its good things I believe in all of you 💛

[@1stevecy]

@@a.g.5396 Yes, I agree that we shouldn't waste our lives being afraid of rejection. I think we have to be ready with necessary supports in order to process the pain that will come when our risks are rebuffed. If we try without an arsenal of tools for dealing with rejection then we'll probably not be all that successful in trying again.

[@1stevecy]

@@valentinaa36 I've been practicing so I feel like I'm not so saddened by rejection as much as I used to be. As long as I see each encounter as just a practice. I think I've been really sensitive in the past and I still am but I've got a lot of tools (the at-home retreat being one of them.) I think of those who are just starting out while still carrying around baggage like I was. I think that I have empathy for those who are still deeply hurt when they get rejected. I just think it might take more than just a short pep talk to be okay with being rejected.

[@jcruz5050]

The fear of rejection has imprisoned me in my own head for most of my adult life & it is absolutely miserable. If ur young, work on overcoming it ASAP bc it only builds worse & worse over time. I wish I would've faced it earlier

[@joymae]

I've been living in a cave, it's called my room during the pandemic lol. But, I told the guy I was into him and he felt the same way...so now my cave is a happy place

[@Taylor.h]

Your words don't help me feel better about just romantic relationships... As someone who deals with social anxiety in simple everyday matters, this gives me a more confident outlook on life in general. I can tell you that every opportunity or risk I didn't take because I was too insecure or anxious, is a decision I always end up regretting. You speak an objective truth we could all stand to be more mindful of. Thank you so much for this. Reminds me of a fantastic quote which reads: "It is better to have tried and failed, than to live life wondering what would have happened if you had tried"

[@Lev1232]

I have to say, even though I am a man, I find your videos really encouraging and it shows that you are speaking from experience. Thank you, Matthew!

[@FranksCreativeCorner]

Finally found the video that I really was needing. I have this girl, I met in college some months ago, and I fell in love with her, basically. I think she likes me; when I'm with her she smiles a lot, she laughs at my jokes or when I tease her and stuff so I might have a chance. The thing was, I was so afraid of being rejected that I didn't have the courage to make important moves, and for some time since I met her I only could act friendly. In school I was really shy and when I liked a girl I was so terrified I'd never even dare to look at her. "What if she says no? What will I do?" I'd think, and my mind wouldn't stop overthinking about all the scenarios or reasons why it wouldn't work. I really didn't know how to approach them either, so that blocked me too: "Should I confess right away, or get to know her better first? Do I have to flirt with her? But how i do it?? And it's so hard..." I've hardly confessed my feelings to these girls, and don't even talk about flirting. One time I mustered the courage and did it, but it was too late, and she rejected me. Later on I found that many times, some of these girls actually liked me too, for a while, but given I didn't realize or made a move, they moved on, some of them got a boyfriend, or just lost interest. What happened at the time was, when I liked a girl I couldn't help but fantasize about kissing, going out and stuff, so much so that I kinda put an expectation on myself, and I knew subconsciously that wasn't totally in my control, so these thoughts only put pressure on me. Years passed, and I never got a girlfriend. I've never had real experience either, so there's that too, and every time I look back, I don't feel as bad for being rejected, but I regret not having been braver since the start. Not trusting in myself more, that was my real problem. Because I knew if only I had faith in myself, no matter the result, I could be rejected, but I'll sure have no regrets, move on, and sleep peacefully again. I'd do progress! I always kinda knew it, but I let my fears get the better of me. So this time is different. Yes, I might have a chance, no matter. Yes, I still cannot help but imagine us together and stuff, no matter. What matters is that I'm finally taking action. As I said, at the start I only managed to act friendly around her, but lately I started acting more playful around her, teasing her, holding more eye contact, touching her more (not in a bad way, obviously), and the best one yet, I asked her out! I still feel I didn't really showed my intentions to be honest, but I'm more confident 'cause, for once, I'm daring to pursue my goal, getting a girlfriend, even though I have fears that pushed me back every time. And you know what? Every time gets easier. Each moment, I'm able to go a little farther from my comfort zone. Like today, I invited her to go out! I had never done that in my life! I still really want her to be my girlfriend, and get to those beautiful moments I imagine when the time is right, but one thing's for sure: even if it doesn't work out, I'll be proud of myself. Thank you for the video, it was really helpful in reinforcing this mindset and staying centered.

[@LifeOfLiisa]

The more rejection you experience the better you get at handling it 💪🏻 I actually filmed a video today where I asked people online to roast me, I was nervous of course but I ended up laughing so much! These are people I will never meet anyways, and they don’t ACTUALLY know anything about me so it doesn’t matter 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@janem2796]

If you dont ask, the answer will always be no!

[@annaknowmay7807]

OMG it really works for me he came back to me 🌹🌹I'm so glad it worked out who needs any help???

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[@williamanthony4431]

Did you need help?so that he can love you more than you think?

[@williamanthony4431]

I know a powerful man who can help you.

[@williamanthony4431]

He was the one who help me to restore back my broken💔 relationship of six years...

[@sweetlullaby5156]

listening to this message made me smile and say to myself "it's okay, I've been honest about my feelings and if he doesn't like me back, he has the right to not like me back. I'm not a failure, I tried. I won't have what ifs in the future."

[@KanonLooksLikeL]

fear of rejection is such a god given gift. It gives us the ability to know our limitation, to understand where we are at, to not try our best because of that, and to live with regrets for the rest of our lives.

[@stephaniealaia769]

I’m trying to learn to not get upset when I get rejected and just tell myself instead it wasn’t meant to be and god has a better plan for me for sure

[@jamesmelly1094]

Hey there

[@annajones346]

He is an incredibly articulate speaker. So much of what he says hits home!

[@adiroots]

I am now in my forties and after some failed relationships, I am afraid I retreated to a cave. This video is a reminder I am not fully living if I am leading with fear.

[@amandahaupt1327]

i reject myself before anything can even develop its like a knee jerk reaction.. a guy can give me the wrong look like i perceive it as disappointed and i immediately distance myself from via social media .

[@Leggs013]

I'm the same!

[@iras.375]

He was giving me mixed signals n i was confused about his feelings. I love him a lott but i was unable to focus on my future due to this confusion. I day i asked him directly, do you have a girlfriend, at very first moment he hesitated but after a moment he said yess! He knew i was in love with him n i decided to walk alway. i still love him but i walked away from him. I m more happy now.

[@annaknowmay7807]

OMG it really works for me he came back to me 🌹🌹I'm so glad it worked out who needs any help???🌴

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[@williamanthony4431]

He was the one who help me to restore back my broken💔 relationship of six years...

[@diruholic]

How can you love someone you're not in a relationship with? That sounds more like superficial infatuation. And why spend energy on someone who is not showing you clear signals and sincerity? You're worth more than waiting around for a guy that's not into you sis x

[@iras.375]

@@diruholic it's not a superficial infatuation...there are reasons why i love him...we know each other since a long time...everything can not be shown here😂

[@_pitschool]

The fear of rejection is not always based on a “tiny moment,” or 1 incident or situation. I have never been able to have a legitimate, serious relationship & I’m 35. Rejection is my middle name. I work on personal development like so many others. I try to approach dating & relationships in ways that will give me the result that I want. I want to marry & have a family. But, it seems like it just won’t happen for me. I feel ashamed. I feel like an alien, an outlier & that there is not much space in this current dating/relationship culture for people like myself. I hope someday I get to a place where I no longer fear dying alone & where I no longer care about being married or having a family because it’s painful to care. It’s painful to think about not having had anyone who loved you as though you were a priority.

[@anaportillo142]

oh my goodness! I am about to turn 34 and have experienced this as well. Reading your comment felt like I had written it myself. It is comforting to know that there is another person who understands this pain. ♡

[@fatoma9120]

Same here :(

[@amilicamanj]

Like A nightmare

[@Leggs013]

Sounds like me!

[@nurgulkyn]

I wish i could hug you! You just described me...im turning 29 but i feel like its too late. Im not ugly, indeed im very attractive, im intellectual etc..it just never happend, i never get approached. I just dont know. Its sad. But well make it!

[@TheTripstraps]

i absolutely love it!! i have been afraid of rejection all my life and done basically nothing.. but this short video has helped me a lot. thank you so much..

[@tiktoola]

Well, to sum his idea up: you need to do something to eventually get a result and chances rise with you not being scared to do more attempts, so overcome this fear and you’re good

[@jacobhussey7192]

Hey my name is Jacob hussey I have never seen someone outside my family with my same list name. I've been struggling with fear of refection and you have truly help me

[@himanshisoolankiashokbhais663]

Sending love from distance... Love you Matthew... And a big thank youuuu

[@PriyankaPatel-ug9my]

Matt, you should do a video sometime regarding dating after a marriage separation. Dating when we’re young and single is drastically different than dating in mid 30s post marriage separation! I look forward to your many more dating videos. You’re a life changer!

[@leichun8396]

Dr Steve can actually help you attract someone you really love the most and want in your life. He once helped me and can help you too.

[@leichun8396]

Believe me I'm not bragging or trying to make unnecessary comment here, this was what really happened to me. he helped me attract (Jeremy) the guy I wanted in my life the most.

[@leichun8396]

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[@leichun8396]

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[@albadure]

For me, every person that reject us become our teacher, but it's on us to pay atention and take advantage of the situation (and the lesson), and I'm not talking only about love... It really hurts, but at the end failure is nothing but learning. I truly believe that most of the times the difference between someone who has achieved success and another who hasn't its only how many times they've failed before. The sooner we start to fail, the closer we are to achieve success. This is what I remind to myself whenever I'm scared of doing something or being rejected.

[@womenlovelessons5667]

Great video Matthew! Rejection sucks!

[@desireetman]

This message touched my soul. You have the wonderful gift of taking the hardest life lessons and making them a practical application. I appreciate your knowledge and guidance. Thank you.

[@jojohanna217]

Got rejected via SMS after 3 years spending time together and being so close. He just blocked me, cut all the ties and moved on as if I never was a part of his life even though I helped him out with everything. I don't know how to deal with this heartbreak. He was my only, both lover and friend.

[@annaknowmay7807]

OMG it really works for me he came back to me 🌹🌹I'm so glad it worked out who needs any help???🦿

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[@williamanthony4431]

He was the one who help me to restore back my broken💔 relationship of six years...

[@jojohanna217]

@John Smith i really don't know, he just wrote like "sorry, I don't want contact anymore, you were always good to me but it's enough now. Good luck for your future" It hurts like hell :(

[@jojohanna217]

@@edith_musika he was my first and he even said i am the best he has ever meet. Thanks for your input

[@pumkin9128]

Yes Matthew Speak to my heart Matthew YESS!! I really needed this message today, and truth be told its such a confidence boost right now at this moment. I know what to do now you are so inspiring with your positive energy. Thank you so much Matthew

[@nagsfaith1476]

Oooh my God Mathew thnx .thru ur videos I started seeing the light again ,have learnt a lot en started believing in myself once more coz almost the whole of my life I havebeen miserable

[@rociolopezzapata9145]

This video just became one of my favourites! Fresh, powerful and sweet! Thanks for creating such amazing content that gives a new perspective to our inner self to go and exeperience the world.

[@godsplan7726]

Matthew Hussey..u r d most valuable person in the world.. U make this world a better place just by being in it.. I have subscribed ur channel..nd thz z one of the best decisions of my life..

[@jarenlio8772]

The idea that we can become the best version of ourself by our own ability is unrealistic in nature, circumstances shape and largely determine the version of ourself, our own ability to make ourselves better can subject to many external realities of life.

[@ChiaraCapuano_chrcapuano]

Thank you Matt, this video came out when I had to meet the guy who rejected me a few days ago, because we're in the same volunteering group. I'm sad because of his rejection, of course, but at least I tried 😪

[@Janlynn04]

What a coincidence...or is the timing of this upload a sign? This is a sign of my self-growth. I am building thicker skin and trusting myself. To be honest, I would rather run away than to feel raw emotions. If it's any other topic but dating, I'd be totally fine. But it's just something about dating that makes me feel like I'm standing naked in front of a crowd. Each time I put so much weight on someone's opinion of me, I remind myself of who I am and of my strengths. I remind myself that this goes both ways: instead of me not being good enough for him, what if he's not good enough for me? I want a good match not a boyfriend; it's really not that hard to get one of those. Lastly, I remind myself of the character of taking a risk; THAT speaks so much more than the result. I can't control whether or not he and I are a good match, but I do have control over my own actions. It's important for me to take risks because all my life I've been mature, responsible, and logical. Now I want to show more of another side of me. I want to be more spontaneous, adventurous, and take more risks that push me out of my comfort zone in other parts of my life (that's not work-related!). So here's to being more spontaneous and lighthearted! To this day, I don't regret a single thing in my life, and I will not let the fear of rejection be the first one.

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[@Eriniiatopaze]

I have a crush and I this video helped me to get some courage and ask him out and he said yes. But I'm soooo afraid omg

[@twentysth]

The problem with rejection, though, is that it can have a huge impact on your mental health. Plus, rejection can cause regret, too - regret for letting another person into your life, when that person causes you to become so mentally unwell that after them, you become incapable of trusting others and unable to lead a relationship as a result.

[@Leggs013]

So True!

[@rossanafioravanti8526]

But I must feel comfortable in taking that risk. I must feel (feel not know, please take note) that nobodys going to die, if things turn out badly. Waiting for that to drive me. See it coming...just let me take a couple of emotional little steps forward with my inner feelings , please...

[@jasminev.2062]

Love the part about regret! Thanks for sharing :)

[@jamesmelly1094]

True

[@fatoma9120]

I’m almost 30 and I’ve never been loved or been truly admired by anyone.. I guess that makes me wonder a lot if there’s something wrong with me. Also, The only person that I loved and tried to approach in a friendly way, rejected me as a friend. so I don’t know what else to think other than that I’m not really the type of girl that guys like or dream of anyway. I guess it’s easier to stay away rather than getting rejected.

[@williamanthony4431]

He was the one who help me to restore back my broken💔 relationship of six years...

[@tiktoola]

Same here:( though as we say in Russia “water doesn’t pour under a lying rock” meaning if doing nothing no positive result is the guaranteed outcome, meaning one needs to try regardless

[@ruth..]

I feel you.

[@anaportillo142]

I am the same way :(

[@skylight_gameuse]

everyone is someone's type, you just haven't met the right people yet. don't giv up, most of people don't care or act like they don't care, but one day there'll be someone who actually does!

[@kerry_has_heart]

Daaaaamn. I needed to here this. 💯

[@ashleyomwathath8461]

Learn to be so confident in yourself that when rejection happens your personal strength pushes you forward. It starts with loving yourself first. 🥰

[@gm591]

Regret is the most scariest thing than Rejection!

[@florican07]

Bro you just lit up a light bulb in my head. Thanks man! Fear of rejection or fear of regret....which one would you rather fear. Damn!

[@bananabagel2]

Like seriously. Thank you so much Matthew. You’re a gem

[@lizogilvie8337]

Really enjoyed this video, thank you

[@annaknowmay7807]

OMG it really works for me he came back to me 🌹🌹I'm so glad it worked out who needs any help???💯

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[@tempestadiamore1]

My biggest problem is not to be rejected but always being that person who rejects. Would be so happy to find somebody who I am into.😥

[@candaceescottwiliams1496]

Matt. I have the longest story ever. Met young broke up over him giving other girls his number. Met 20 years later after a marriage. He was so much made me believe in myself and love again. I didn’t know how dating changed. Caught a lot of cheating to me. Broke up many times. Got pregnant he moved to me. Blended family. Cheated while pregnant. Broke up. Got back after proving a lot. But never opens his phone. 10 years later still not married. 6yr so. K ow he loves me but no ring, no open phone, and rarely productive convo. I work two jobs.6-7 days a week. Idk how to progress.

[@shamiphilippe3543]

You are kind

[@icyivy2424]

The ONLY regret I have in this life... Is being nice to ppl... I'm DONE

[@MissNatalieRamirez]

A rejection can became your blessing.

[@Evangeline-v8d]

Wow!! I love these kind of videos you make!! So powerful!!

[@Monicachinthia]

Everytime i feel this even before i being left out.. 😭 negative thinking always killin me

[@mediluck786]

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[@mediluck786]

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[@williamanthony4431]

@@theanaspiration He was the one who help me to restore back my broken💔 relationship of six years...

[@mayrylyv]

I've got to say the logo for the name of Matthew Hussey really made me rewind the video to the timestamp I could see it clearly. Somebody needs to acknowledge that personal branding for sure.

[@tallspicy]

Can you do a video on how to forgive myself when I made mistakes and it ended a relationship. Also videos on when rejection happens around 2 to 3 months in....

[@carolinejouault5693]

I really needed to hear this and it comes just at the right moment

[@JulieVandenKerchove]

Beautiful video and message! I'm eager to see what life has in store for me next ;-) Love from Belgium xo Julie

[@Leggs013]

Thank You! I always feared Rejections from Ladies. I'm 52 never Married or any Kids

[@leichun8396]

Dr Steve can actually help you attract someone you really love the most and want in your life. He once helped me and can help you too.

[@leichun8396]

Believe me I'm not bragging or trying to make unnecessary comment here, this was what really happened to me. he helped me attract (Jeremy) the guy I wanted in my life the most.

[@leichun8396]

Whatsapp him

[@leichun8396]

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[@Leggs013]

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[@vincal.3178]

A month ago I left a comment here saying that I would confess to my crush. Since then, this will only grew bigger. Before going any further, the fact that we never talked to each other (should I say until yesterday?) is to be taken into account. Yesterday, as usual, as everyday, I saw him. But this time, I don’t know why or how, but I was taken by this huge force I never felt in me before. This force led me to write a freackin letter that I’ve put in my bag pack, to get up and walk to him. We were both on the street. I interrupted him while he was I think wearing headphones. I told him something similar to “excuse me but I have something for you” (the letter). I could immediately see in his eyes and body language that he was feeling extremely uncomfortable and just wanted to leave. So I messed up. My brain just got blank and I only was able to tell him for 30 seconds straight that the situation was embarrassing and all he was doing were noises like “mmmmh” or “yhhhhh” (it’s not clear, I know : but it’s not understandable for my own self). He also was trying to just leave, and he was unable to look at me in the eyes. You could see he didn’t want to be there and wanted to escape from this mortifying situation. When he was about to leave, I said something similar to “but I have this for you… well, maybe I shouldn’t give it to you” and apologized for probably ten seconds and told him again how embarrassing the situation was right now and would be even more if I gave “it” to him. He didn’t answer a full word, but I think he said something like “yeah”. Then, he just left. And I left too. Without saying a word. *He* didn’t say a word. Not a goodbye, a nice evening, or even a sorry. He just left, like if this interaction never happened. For a few seconds, I thought he was an asshole. But, now, looking back at it, I just feel like it’s me who just completely messed up and who made the situation highly awkward, by not being able to say anything but “the situation is embarrassing”, for thirty seconds straight. Looking back at it, it’s just so weird from myself. But I couldn’t do anything else, I was paralyzed. And he was too… poor him. At least, I made things quite clear : he probably knows for sure that I love him. I don’t know what he feels though, as he just left, speechless. I don’t know what to do. I don’t know what to think. But at least, I made it. It’s done now. It’s over. I “confessed” my feelings to a boy I like, for the very first time ever. And for this, I guess I can be proud. It took me 18 years.

[@lrs1992]

Roosevelt said: "It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat."

[@Janlynn04]

This speech always has me bawling in tears ❤️

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[@Casavibes24]

Thanks for your advice handsome man 💖💖 fun from Morocco 🇲🇦

[@TenenteBarbecue5949]

1:54 " The thing that gonna make you stay up all night is knowing you didn't put yourself out there" I just did exactly that. I asked the girl I like out and she accepted, but everything thing I did was ask her out. I didn't try to hold hands, kiss her, or even hug her all based on the fear of rejection. But now knowing how painful regret is, rejection is just a merely inconvenience in my life.

[@hotte93]

be free from dating and you will never be rejected

[@mikecheatham6176]

This is good advice. But if your not that persons type then your never gonna have a chance to get with the person you desire. Period. No matter what good things you got going for you. No guarantees

[@sheenaxoxo5787]

I'm flipping the script on this one, but could you make something about helping the other person overcome fear of rejection? Please and Thanks❤

[@saraedman2000]

Honestly... I dont think it's fear of me getting rejected that stops me from flirting or putting myself out there. I think it's the fear of me having to reject someone else. About a year ago I had to reject one of my best male friends after trying to take things further and hurting him and losing that friendship was a heartbreak that is far from healed...

[@mediluck786]

OMG it really works for me he came back to me 🌹🌹I'm so glad it worked out who needs any help???💖💖

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[@eatplantsloveanimals]

Sometimes it IS you. If you always think rejection has nothing to do with you, then you're either a narcissist or a martyr (sometimes both). You'll never learn to be a better person or get better at relationships. Take responsibility for YOUR part, but don't blame yourself for things the other person did wrong. Knowing the difference is important.

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[@candid.303]

Great advice!

[@_natale_1621]

rejection is protection

[@starzintheskyz4477]

I'm in the situation rn where this guy works at a convenient store, and months ago i walked in and he was so nice i wasn't sure if he was kinda flirting. But im really shy and didn't stay and talk much. I went back a couple times to see the vibes on another day, and every time i went back he wasn't there. I didn't know his schedule and i guess the timing was just always bad. So just recently, i decided to go back and try again. I went in, and he was there, but he was stocking inventory and didn't see me. So at this point, im not sure if i should keep trying, or just take it as a sign it's not meant to be. I have no idea if he's even single or how old he is. I want to catch him and find out and see what the vibes are, but im also afraid of rejection. I've been rejected before when approaching someone, couple different times, and it does always make me feel like im not good enough. But this lil pep talk is encouraging to at least try one more time. Wish me luck🍀

[@catherine9808]

I usually self sabotage first that way I save myself from possible rejection, our attachment types play a major part . I’m 40 in December and haven’t got past the year and half mark in any relationship my fear and insecurities are so big 🤷🏻‍♀️ it’s very very difficult when you have an insecure attachment type and it’s so difficult I usually just think it’s better to be alone

[@LincolnFowler-ki4zw]

I don’t really know how to think about this but the feeling that I tried or didn’t try is irrelevant, if I tried and got rejected I just end up worse than I was

[@mildchaos6037]

Honestly, I’m so scared of being rejected that being 90 and alone doesn’t sound as bad. I’m very much prepared to die alone and I’m 25. I lost to Natural Selection and that’s ok. My brother already carried on the family name anyways

[@nauteeca]

Stop settling🥺

[@AndreaGomez-nv4dq]

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[@cassichloupek5715]

amazing thank you!

[@ladennayoung2939]

Good video. Thanks for sharing.

[@Temurtv.official]

Awesome! Thanks Matthew!

[@barbarawilson3153]

I was just rejected two weeks ago but you know what life goes on back when the horse

[@estherjoes5903]

Dr Steve can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him

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[@bananabagel2]

Such a helpful video

[@iambadatpickingusernames6669]

It’s not the fear of rejection. It’s the overwhelming amount of rejection I’ve faced in my life that makes me feel as though there’s basically zero chance of getting a yes, so why bother? And I’m not even someone who’s gotten rejected 2 or 3 times and am trying to overdramatize and hyperbolize my experience. I’ve been rejected hundreds if not a thousand times.

[@jesusbenitez5864]

I remember I got rejected on Kik in like 7th grade and ever since then I haven’t shot my shot now I’m in my second year of college 😐

[@confidencemagnet]

My goal is to get 3-5 rejections a day. Not by being goofy or rude to women, just show interest in a bold, solid, and confident manner. If she rejects me (which is usually polite), I tell the women to have a wonderful day. I mark my rejections in a day planner. There's a method to the madness. Personal story: One day I was about to check out my products at Walmart when two young attractive women crossed my path. I paid for my products and hit the parking lot. I had a brief moment where I thought to myself if I should go back into Walmart and shoot my shot. I told myself "fvck it" and went back into the store. I spotted both of them and got one of the girl's attention. I pointed to the girl who was with her so she could get her attention. I asked her how old were the both of them and they told me (knowing I was shooting my shot) that they were both married. I told her I spotted both of them and had to shoot my shot before I left. she thanked me and I told her to have a wonderful day and she was beautiful (not in a thirsty way, but just keeping it real with her) She thanked me again. I literally felt 100 times better even though I was rejected because I didn't b!tch out. Gentlemen, when you go out with the intent to get rejected, it's a game changer. Instead of trying to get the girl, you focus on shooting your shot and work on being more confident after each approach. You also focus on the conversation and having a good interaction instead of trying to impress her. Just remember that the more interactions you have, the more comfortable you become

[@terrymondon7649]

I love this Matthew❤❤❤

[@williamanthony4431]

Did you need help?so that he can love you more than you think?

[@williamanthony4431]

I know a powerful man who can help you.

[@williamanthony4431]

He was the one who help me to restore back my broken💔 relationship of six years...

[@williamanthony4431]

He was the one who help me to restore back my broken💔 relationship of six years...

[@julietosin6663]

I know of someone who can actually help you secure your life with him forever

[@ladennayoung2939]

Yes that is why rejection hurt us. Because we take it very personal.

[@sansadrake4133]

Well it is personal. I heard for men its mostly about looks. If they think they can find a better looking woman, then they will reject. Don't know how true that is

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[@fash9340]

I love a guy and he also says so that loves me. He always says that I will invite you and we cook at my home, but after 2 years he never invited me. We usually meet once a month or 3 months as we have distance. I just undressed him as he is a busy guy the same as me. But if he asks for a time to meet I free my time for us. Some time in the past when I cooked he canceled due to work. But he is a very good guy and seems to be good with his family and friends. His income is higher than me, so I undressed if he likes to go to the luxuries trips with his friends as now I can not afford that. So it means he is not in love with me?!

[@sansadrake4133]

Actions speak louder than words. He doesnt sound like a man in love. And its addressed not undressed lol. Two different meanings

[@johannson5380]

i stopped dating women a year ago and i dont think i will start again. Its like my brain wants to save me from this pain. Insta, Tinder, Po*n and all this superficial bullsh*t has killed love.

[@Holyflicks]

Here is one bible verse that helps me with fear of rejection. Isaiah 41:10 “do not fear for I am with you; do not be afraid for I am your god. I will strengthen you, I will also help you, I will also uphold you with my righteous hand”

[@coandien1230]

Looking forward to hearing from his opinions about when one rejects oneself. Thinking about “To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all.” -Oscar Wilde |

[@LaraItaly]

Where do you find all these men to talk to? Here in Italy if you don't use tinder (and I won't use it anymore) there s Noone out there

[@socal_sunshine2071]

Bookstore, coffee shops, church, volunteering at a community/purpose, or through mutual friends. Be sure to be friends with them first!

[@LaraItaly]

@@socal_sunshine2071 😂 I wish it was that easy. I ve got many friends and are all single (apparently with no single friends). I M a personal trainer, I meet many people but no single men at all. I ve got friends male but I M not attracted or I wouldn't call them friends. I go out for drinks on Saturday nights... but no men without women at the same table. Church here is just full of old people. Coffee shop.. Sometimes there is someone drinking a coffee but he looks only at his mobile and for me is difficult to go there and just say "hello".

[@krash6951]

Nice video

[@leakhanaem5080]

Too hard to try again no more Hope ne more love to share i m broken

[@mayanishahar7221]

THANK YOU.

[@robertarobbins363]

Matthew saying this knowing he can get any women he wants

[@Mandy.S.]

This is how the guy at one of my jobs got my number! I knew I'd regret it if I didn't. I didn't want that regret from the fact that I was too chicken to even try! Here I am still alive from it to tell this story! Lol! Time will tell - it's still too soon to know anything and I'm not putting any pressure on it! I'm doing just fine, too! 😝

[@Mandy.S.]

@Frederick Robinson No, but thanks. I'm figuring it out on my own.

[@davejb]

Im scared of rejection almost hall my life... Im 27 single guy ... I live alone because i dont want to be rejected it hurts me so much...

[@KyleConnell-if3zn]

Rejection is good for you. But I always wonder whether the 80 year who tried, was rejected, and ends up alone is less lonely or resentful than the 80 year old who did not try and is alone? I feel like at the end of the day they both feel the same amount of loneliness but in different ways

[@Queen-of_Taehyung9502]

But sir , don't you think if I just keep enjoying the feeling about my crush and don't say any thing like if I don't propose him....he will definitely propose someone else and I will regret....well I understand all of it but still I'm obsessed or I'm totally in him , if he rejects me I won't suicide that's I'm sure but things will be complicated...it my 6 years crush or u can say one sided love ...❤

[@Black_swan1617]

It's so motivational

[@Leggs013]

( I'm a Male ) I worry about my Speech Impediment I had thru my School years, and being overweight. That girls would turned me down if I did tried. But it's OK Girls can look like Blimps.