How to Be Confident in Spite of Your Insecurities (Matthew Hussey)

[@paulesaturday9490]

"Someone isn't better than you just because they have different resources"

[@selectiveoutrage6617]

Yet that's the excuse a lot of men who are failures give. "But, but, but, his father was rich! I'd be successful if I had a rich dad."

[@Carsonbobarson98]

Are you quoting that bc you agree or disagree?

[@paulesaturday9490]

@@Carsonbobarson98 I agree with the message. People come from all walks of life and defy the odds...my life is an example.

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[@Chrysilla_QuantumHealing]

I can be in the worst mood but seeing your optimism and smile is contagious and just makes me smile.

[@kyliebennett2494]

Mmmuuujjaahaha. Discombobulating I see

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[@SamElle]

I think the fake it till you make it mentality truly works. I was never very confident to begin with but I started acting as if I was confident and loved myself and eventually, it became reality. I started to realize all the different qualities I loved about myself and I stopped putting other people on a pedestal

[@daliathaler756]

Wise words

[@SamElle]

@@daliathaler756 thank you!!! I hope you had a great new year!

[@craigpurcell1628]

Hello Sam Elle

[@morganbaraffe8833]

How do you fake it until you make it? What specific actions did you take? :)

[@MiMi-ch8zr]

that Cooking show/ingredients analogy really resonated with me

[@emiliabolsas]

Brilliant

[@teressaginthe303]

Ditto.

[@morgandouglas9455]

Me too!

[@meganable123]

yes, especially the part where we only got 1hr life is too short, for us to feel sad about what we aren't given at birth.

[@natsnicnacs2346]

Yes! A great metaphor!

[@oocarpa]

This guy's energy, vibe, logic, communication skills...really? So inspiring 🙌

[@fabiohuston7776]

Hello how are you?

[@lioydwilliams1850]

Andrea Cornejo,I admire your lovely smile

[@craigpurcell1628]

Hello andrea

[@Hailey-Poulton]

“Life is like Master Chef” That’s one of the most brilliant things I’ve ever heard!

[@TheRelationshipDoctor777]

2021 should be the year that we embrace our insecurities in order to face them head on. Wishing you all a Happy New Year!

[@IevaKambarovaite]

So true.. Some of those insecurities are our biggest strengths if used in the right way 💜

[@gratefultammy]

Happy New Year !

[@kmk7367]

Start 4:12 This is the best motivational/self esteem/confidence video I’ve ever watched. Thank you Matthew for this amazing gift for new year’s

[@aslanholmen7467]

thank you so much

[@tomaspeixinho4447]

"Being confident isn't about accepting the worst version of yourself", very good, sir! I always thought that but I've never heard it stated like that. Powerful stuff, dude

[@ladygood7384]

True

[@hayleyferguson3346]

Exactly! this is why I don't understand the media glorifying crude, judgmental, brash or disrespectful people as being "confident" (and the loudest of them will say "I'm just being me, so deal with it") because it's accepting the worst versions of themselves.

[@AndreyZenperial]

Embracing who you are is one of the greatest acts of self care and love✌🏻

[@ismeneedecaste3592]

Matthew always makes sense. Always sounds like he's actually genuinely been listening to people around him. Always gives me references. Reasonable things to think about, revisit. He's being honest about things both men and women think or do about themselves or other people. Personally, not things I don't already know, but hearing them again, like this, like a caring older brother or father or whatever; it just makes you confirm things. You trust him and so you keep trusting yourself and you keep moving. Stay grounded, buddy, as you are; wishing a happy 2021 to everyone.

[@natalievelikaya2161]

Matthew, this is what I needed to hear today. One couldn't use a better metaphor about life than you did about Master Chef - absolutely love it! It's so true - how quickly we forget what we've already achieved and how often we don't even celebrate our achievements!

[@fabiohuston7776]

Hello how are you?

[@angelachiazzese]

Anyone else hungry for a better version of themselves. Love this. Now let’s see if I can make tofu taste like the best steak dinner ever.

[@christinabs5636]

Nooo 🤣Tofu will never taste like a steak! Just try to make it taste like the best tofu ever! 😄

[@TheUIATarot]

@@christinabs5636 that in itself is a lesson! :)

[@lioydwilliams1850]

Angela Chiazzese,your lovely smile can make the news

[@marihoney3057]

Simple analogy but effective. Thank you Matthew and God bless everyone reading this♡

[@zahavapappagallo3240]

"The extent to which your insecurities dominate you" , that's the difference- wow....

[@fabiohuston7776]

Hello how are you?

[@christyroberts6628]

This is my favorite video of yours to date. I run events for plus size women and men that prefer to date plus size women. People ask me constantly how I'm so confident. I just had to decide to be and run with it. I've still had insecurities, I just couldn't let them define me. You just explained it better than I ever could have.

[@lioydwilliams1850]

Christy Roberts,you got a lovely smile

[@ElyottRyan]

"This is what I got, What can I do with it" such a powerful soundtrack I am going to steal.

[@DDDina456]

Stellar "vintage" advice. Thank you.... I am blooming into the REAL me...I was there all the time, and now becoming a better version of myself.

[@fabiohuston7776]

Hello how are you

[@lioydwilliams1850]

Diane Schertzer,your lovely smile can make the news!

[@anitatodorova8563]

Hey Matt! The topic of confidence you dedicated this first video to has been incredible. Personally, I have a few challenges in that area and your insights have supported me to live a more happy and fulfilled life. I would kindly ask you to talk more about it on your channel because you bring a unique point of view on confidence that truly made my life better. I believe that to be true for other people as well. Hope to see more confidence content from you. As always see you in the next video. Sending kindness from around the world to you and your whole crew! Yours truly, Anita ✨

[@janelleespinosa6247]

That was the perfect example of what we are given, and how we get it all together

[@agiorosz9705]

I watched this after watching your home retreat. It's crazy how much your accent has changed!!!

[@hosna7211]

I loved the way you described confident and life . I'm pretty sure that ,I'm never gonna forget it!

[@godsplan7726]

Matthew Hussey..u make this world a better place just by being in it.. Matthew Hussey..u r d only person in this world who understands emotions.. Matthew Hussey..u r d only person in this world who understands relationships.. Matthew Hussey..u deserve all the love,all the respect and all the happiness in the world..

[@Lisa-mw8fi]

I think the reason Matthew comes across as a very confident person is he can articulate extremely well. I have always wished I could do that instead of going around the houses before I can get to my point.

[@rhondaalladin9918]

The cooking show you’re thinking of is ‘Ready Steady Cook’. This was a wonderful video and you really hit the nail on the head and explained in such an easy and relatable way. Thank you so much for sharing your insights.

[@ashc222]

I can’t count how many times I have listened to this today. Couldn’t have come at a better time. Thanks Matthew!

[@lamialamou242]

I think exactly like u.. Every thought... Every technic..every rule and strategy...and it's amazing how u can explain all that so easily ithought im the only one thinking that way ..Im also introvert...and most of people, friends don't understand that and make me feel awkward ...until i found u, u made me feel more confident and i think you are so special

[@dianaso]

I've been watching a lot of these lately and have loved all of them but this one definitely takes gold

[@lisacrawford1378]

I've watched this over and over! Nail on the head!!!

[@ninjabreadgirl]

"Anyone worth talking to isn't going to grade you on your ingredients." Damn son. One of the best lines from the analogy. Thanks again Matthew you've gotten me through another heartbreak (I'm binging all of your videos again, hahah)

[@cunhokim7299]

That Masterchef analogy makes it easier for me to digest all of the important information from this video. English is not my first language✌ but still never miss a single video of Matthew Hussey because I need his advice to grow better

[@mazdaybro]

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[@wildwoman4911]

This is brilliant! "Doing the best I can with what I got". My insecurity is my face as I age. Your words here remind me of reading years ago, about a woman in the society world, who wasn't a great beauty....she had a horse-like face or something. She dressed with grace, elegance, and beauty, carrying herself regally. Her looks weren't ever an issue in her life. Thank you. I appreciate this. Namaste 🙏

[@mazdaybro]

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[@wildwoman4911]

@@mazdaybro Thank you for your kind thoughtfulness. "Frankly, my dear", I don't see how it applies to my issue, which goes back to childhood where my mother said got that parts of my body, like my knees, were ugly, etc. .

[@natalijanikolovska4326]

Okay, am I the only one who comes to Matthew's chanel in a bad mood and leaves with a huge smile and feeling 10000 times better 🥺 Love you Matthew!!!!!

[@maddyG7414]

One of Matthew's gifts is communication. That's a huge factor as to why he has the fan base he does. He knows how to articulate ideas in really impactful ways that make sense.

[@reidpurcell3949]

Hello Maddy ❤️

[@Teigh_fro]

I just saw this right now and I am so grateful I did because I really criticize myself alot and always end feeling extremely insecure. I was literally just breaking down because I felt not good enough or the best in things I am actually good at. This popped up on my screen on time Thank you for those words. Really impactful video

[@Anita-uf8lc]

Absolutely love the way Matthew starts answering the question slowly and then fires up with the passion and just sweeps you off your feet with amazing truth that we all think to ourselves but ignore it until someone tells it to our faces😅🙌🙌🙌 Thank you Matthew I SALUTE YOU!! Your Genius!! Xxx 🍀❤🍀 🔥 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💪💪💪💪 xx

[@mazdaybro]

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[@Shurkett1710]

I LOVE this video. Exactly right, we've all been dealt cards in life that we then decide what to do with. What can we do with the cards we've been dealt in life? It's not going to be like anybody else's, only yours. And that's what we as individuals need to find out for ourselves and learn to be confident with. "These are the cards we've been dealt with and this is what I'm going to do with them.". Thank you so much, will inspire me to for one of my next videos on my channel 💜

[@mazdaybro]

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[@ashleys1411]

Wow. Just wow Matt. I will carry that idea about being the chef of your life close to my heart and remember it when I doubt myself. I will remember all the amazing recipes I made three, five, seven years ago when I wasn’t even that great a chef compared to now. Thank you for the affirmation.

[@emilytaylor1001]

I think people need to feel worthy enough about themselves in order to deal with their insecurities. ♥️

[@IevaKambarovaite]

Or attract love 💜

[@mazdaybro]

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[@szabopal85]

Matt this video is unbelievable fantastic. I am a big fan of you but this is so fundamental to life like the Bible. All the best for you in 2021.

[@briellehunter7233]

What a wonderful person u are. I thought the world was only darkness.

[@camismight3397]

I like an old video of him talking about 3 levels of confidence♡♡♡♡

[@mazdaybro]

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[@clarissag2134]

Matthew you are a genius. Your insights are truly incredible and I am SO GRATEFUL for all your videos. Thank you so much

[@mazdaybro]

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[@Nah-ah]

All these cooking and food talk is making me hungry! Thanks for the message behind that, Matt ! 🙏🏽

[@teressaginthe303]

This hit home. I've been keeping tally on how many followers I have compared to a friend in music, but she can't claim she's award winning, and I can. I need to stop comparing and obsessing about this because it really is frivolous. Thank you.

[@sunkissed104]

So good ❣️ best is that you weren’t prepared so the message is extremely authentic!

[@fabiohuston7776]

Hello how are you?

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[@RecreationalUseOnly]

Confidence comes from taking action, not fearing silly things.

[@kavithabnair4549]

You are an amazing person Matthew.... what an epic example.....Thank you so much for your wonderful words.

[@mazdaybro]

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[@v.m.7239]

This came at the exact perfect time. I really appreciate your work, Matthew, you are saving lives and dreams, one “regular” girl at a time. Happy New Year to you and your team! 🥂

[@killeenryan7284]

I love your videos and advice. I suck at relationships. I hate dating. It is so hard. You help me feel better. Thank you

[@creditviral4858]

You want to talk about it?

[@devammitra3262]

Kudos Matthew! This is perhaps the greatest way to look at life and yourself. That masterchef analogy is genius.

[@BadmintonBombshell]

I'm a very visual person , so thank you for the cooking show analogy ; it makes it very easy to understand.

[@sarahgriffin6408]

I’ve listened to this multiple times and love it every time. Thank you Matt!!

[@wh1chkraft]

shoutout to my friend Olivia Gaines for showing me your channel years ago. Your videos have brought me so much comfort Matthew, I've seriously learned a lot and I'm so thankful also "You do realize we still hate ourselves, don't you?" ARE YOU KIDDING ME HAHAHA i'm cracking up

[@renatacosta1716]

I really liked this analogy. Thank you Matthew. It especially clicked in my mind, because I’ve recently binge watched some cooking shows 😄 Perfect timing!

[@reidpurcell3949]

Hello Renata ❤️

[@lioydwilliams1850]

Renata Costa,I admire your lovely smile!

[@hoagapyear]

Thank you Matthew, this is the best video I've watched so far this year.

[@DianaThermopolis]

Loved the analogy! It made me feel inspired and a little hungry. Hugs from Mexico!

[@mazdaybro]

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[@archiylevent9387]

Love what you say, on so many levels 😁! I always say - it's not what you have, it's what you do with it

[@nizagarza5214]

BEST analogies on confidence… EVER!!! 🙌🏼 I wish I had heard it explained that way years ago! It would’ve made a huge difference! ♥️

[@hemajadeja]

The show you are taking about is Ready Steady Cook. Nice positive message 👍 to be secure with what u already have & to find ways to make the most of what u have now. Look at all things you have made & think about how to be content & move forward for this new year.

[@LL-sd2fc]

It’s Iron Chef. I love the show as much as I love your channel. 😍

[@gwood4307]

What a great way to explain confidence and insecurities it just makes sense. I'm going look at my ingredients and create a beatiful meal😊 Happy 2021! 😘

[@fabiohuston7776]

Hello how are you?

[@lioydwilliams1850]

G Wood,I admire your lovely smile

[@abrarvadgama]

This guys is a legend

[@mazdaybro]

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[@helenzielasek1812]

"Which extend of insecurities that dominates us"...it does resonate to me. you help US to ask ourselves god questions. I love the picture of the ingrediends🤹. "What are you do with your ingedruents". I love IT🌤️

[@kslash_lady]

Daaaaang. That chef analogy hit it head on

[@reidpurcell3949]

Hello Kelli ❤️

[@reidpurcell3949]

How are you?

[@lioydwilliams1850]

Kelli Stewart,you got a lovely smile

[@beckylee3356]

Matthew you are sooo good - loved your chef and cooking analogy!!! ❤

[@LisaGemini]

I don't make resolutions anymore. You always feel bad when you give them up by February. Baby steps toward a big goal is the way to go. Keep the Christmas decorations out longer, Matthew. I'm always sad when I take them down. My late dad had us keep them up till Epiphany, Jan. 6.

[@fabiohuston7776]

Hello how are you

[@azgirl215]

This was a great start to a new year! I didn’t expect magic to happen in 01/01/21 at 12:01 am. It’s the continuation of the master piece of THIS 👆 thanks Matt! ❤️

[@mazdaybro]

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[@aparna8857]

I came here for the decorations..

[@boutiquebabe]

Lol me too😉actually I really appreciated the content!!!

[@babylynmontessa8744]

Thanks Mr. Matthew will really appreciate you💞💞💞💞💓💓💓

[@mazdaybro]

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[@biancabianchi2223]

I am so happy that I found this video 😀 . ,South Africa has secured Covid-19 vaccines from India (I think is was finalized on fifth January) , so that is something , to be grateful for , I am happy about it too. and I am hoping it will get things , nearer to normal when the vaccine roll out begins 😁😁I hope that you and your viewers and friends and family Matt receive the absolute best out of 2021 ♥🌹🌹 to give you all you working towards to achieve ♥♥♥ Sending love♥🌹🌞

[@shaymaaminawi2955]

BEST VIDEO TO BE DOWNLOADED AT THE VERY FIRST BEGINNING OF 2021😍 Thank you Matheuw

[@mazdaybro]

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[@kathysees4177]

This was a huge message, Matthew!!!! I was on the verge of making those epiphanies myself as the New Year snuck up on me. I've missed performing so much this year, and was listening to recordings from a Cabaret show I've done the weekend before New Years for the past two years. It was a much needed reminder of the talented bad ass that I am. I've been thinking a lot about what else I can do with my talents while still essentially stuck at home. My confidence comes from how far I've come that allows me to actually be able to accept myself and share my talents.

[@PriyankaGupta-ew1li]

Be a Chef❤🤗🌺 I slowly started dancing listening to this❤❤thankyou Matthew❤🤗

[@Lovelymaria66]

Very beautiful video. Thank you for your great words. I really appreciate you.

[@woogieluv2304]

WOW!! I LOVE this!!! I will keep this forever!!

[@clevergrl28]

I do feel better as a cook now, Matthew needs to use cooking metaphors all the time!

[@meenakshii72]

Hi Mathew...I guess this would be my first post to a youtuber since its 2021... you have seriously evolved and so have I.....but confidence that it's ok to be me is something I felt okay to be with your journey.. so thanx have a good one ahead😊

[@paulaa.6833]

What an amazing clear message: look at what you cooked so far. Thank you! I took a chance once, and I believed in myself. Because I already knew what would happen if I didn't try, nothing would change. And it worked out beyond my expectations. I built on that experience, used it as fuel to take a leap on the next challenge and the next and years later, I have an entire recipe book.

[@surrenderinfaith]

Your energy is different Matthew, not sure what changed but something did! You’ve done a lot of deep work I feel ✨

[@mariasilviafreire]

OMG, this is one of the best video I have ever watched about this topic! So simple, so real, so beautiful. You are amazing!!!

[@mariesham2996]

❤️Happy 🥳New🥂year😘Matthew & Crew

[@fabiohuston7776]

Hello how are you

[@klaracosic4695]

I really love your videos. They are useful and practical.

[@zissou666]

You really got me with the master chef metaphor 😍 (I am an insane foody) And we all know that kaviar, oysters and kobe beef are the most expensive ingredients and can be nice, but definitely not for everyone and it doesn’t automatically make a great dish, right? The dishes we love the most are made with simple and basic ingredients (just look at Italien cuisine for example... it’s actually a poor people’s cuisine). It’s just about what to do with these ingredients and threat them with love and care and the result is comfort food we are all craving for! Not oysters 🦪 Thanks Matthew 😘

[@renemartz1520]

Love the cooking analogy. So true! ❤😊

[@jennir7873]

The energy in that "Hello" is just what I needed today. :) Loved that podcast ep. The cooking analogy is ace. After listening, I actually wrote down "Where have I already been a chef in my life?" and was able to recall the good things I had managed to achieve in 2020 after spending a lot if it beating myself up about various things. Top video. x

[@fabiohuston7776]

Hello how are you

[@mtte8624]

Hello Matthew and brother, I thank you for this video. It was really helpful for me. I wish you love, happiness and health. 🌟🌟🌟

[@desidivine555]

Matthew how do you always always always upload the exact videos I need at the exact time? So grateful for you!!

[@safera6820]

What a beautiful analogy, you are definitely making the most out of the ingredients you possess and we are all " deliciousely tasting" them. Thank you for sharing your talents and for seeing worth in those who struggles with great levels of insecurities and self-esteem issues.

[@hanielleguedes3833]

I loved this video. I've started watching you in order to learn and improve my english skills, but I'm really enjoying the content on your channel. Greetings from Brazil.

[@noelmay9]

Wonderful metaphor and message! Thank you for moving beyond "relationship" advice and into helping people fully BE who they are

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[@Saraa191]

Brilliant video! The show you are refering to is masterchef where they get the mystery box (random ingredients).

[@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862]

Confidence starts from within, starts from self-examination. Instead of focusing on what you don’t like about yourself, focus on your strengths and develop those abilities. Happy 2021 :)

[@NicoleSerrato]

This made me cry

[@monikakowalinska6998]

always a pleasure, I really like this inspiration needed at this time, happy New Year Matthew

[@fabiohuston7776]

Hello how are you

[@lioydwilliams1850]

Monika Kowalinska, you look stunning

[@amiraolivo6979]

Make it happen 😃 ! Happy new year ❤️ we are alive 💗

[@fabiohuston7776]

Hello how are you

[@toriedimaggio2041]

I have been following you for years, and this is by far my absolute favorite video. What a beautiful analogy. Thank you!!

[@malikanakan2950]

Thank you so much for this video! The lottery and the Master Chef examples are so good😍

[@liliyabaneva]

Happy New Year! 🎄🎁☃️🍾❄️🧸✨

[@marcela2699]

You’re just amazing!!!!