Your work is excellent:)! I’m learning so much:) from an anxious attachment and secure attachment (healing it)
@lea5x5 Жыл бұрын
So glad I found you. Thank you for your work.
@Heyu7her3 Жыл бұрын
Other fearful-avoidant people have romantic relationships? How'd y'all get that far past the dating process?
@tulsalien Жыл бұрын
I’ve worked really hard on developing self-trust. By doing so I’m not worried about others as much cause I trust myself to respond well and handle it accordingly. But I am single again now by choice lol.
@stephaniewallace8673 Жыл бұрын
You're an amazing resource. Thank you for sharing your work 🙏
@brianamacwilliam.attachment Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that! Glad it was helpful
@ipaycloseattention7 ай бұрын
What if you're fearful avoidant in romantic relationships, but avoidant with everyone else?
@KarenPoirier-e9t Жыл бұрын
I have loved and waited for a man for 6 years that is a deeply entrenched DA. I'm anxious. Lots of pain and confusion. Lots of delusional thoughts AND I became addicted to the twin flame journey tarot readings which convinced to hold on in some way even longer. I grew and worked on myself and discovered both of our attachment styles. Healing mine is helping me to let go and move on once and for all but there's always this nagging feeling that he is truly my DM. I've chased him to not avail, opened up, gave my love with NOTHING back. He was my boss and fired me when the chemistry was off the charts. I forgave him for everything. We are a perfect match in every possible way imaginable. He just won't act on it. I need help
@brianamacwilliam.attachment Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story with us. It sounds painful and certainly a difficult relationship experience. One thing I might gently find out when there’s lots of pain in confusion including delusional, thoughts and feelings, love addicted, it’s not a perfect match. The ‘perfect match, twin, flame’ narrative is often the one that keeps us attached to a soulful lesson that we struggle to learn. You might find this video helpful. Am I Anxious, or Are They My SoulMate? kzbin.info/www/bejne/rH_SqYOqhsl0f68
@KarenPoirier-e9t Жыл бұрын
@@brianamacwilliam.attachment thank you so much! I'll be watching your videos on replay! I think I figured out my soul lessons, triggered from my DA. I've struggled with anxious attachment ALL of my 50 years!
@salvomig23688 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. The pain you are experiencing is real and I feel for you. The hardest person to leave is the one created in our head. This person, who has caused you much pain and heartache is not your soulmate. Write down those feelings and how this person has made you feel and all the pain he has caused. You deserve better. The bigger question you need to ask yourself, why are you chasing someone like this. Wishing you the best!! ❤
@mn9120 Жыл бұрын
💞 Your tips are on point. 💯
@brianamacwilliam.attachment Жыл бұрын
Glad you think so!
@iselinmosevoll5097 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, from a Spice of Lifers ❤
@brianamacwilliam.attachment Жыл бұрын
Thanks for listening
@SD-vw8jd Жыл бұрын
Hi Briana! I love your channel and your work. Thank you for all the valuable content you provide. I wonder what your attachment style was before becoming secure...
@Max-br6xg11 ай бұрын
know thy self and the other persons astrology it works for me
@rosiebowers1671 Жыл бұрын
Ugh. Opened this thinking it would be must-know tips *for* FA people wanting to date. Misleading title.
@barefootninja_5 ай бұрын
was also hoping this would be tips FOR fearful avoidant people. im trying to learn about self growth
@innan.599 Жыл бұрын
Its absolutely a waste of time, love and patience to b with someone like that! Just run!!!
@tulsalien Жыл бұрын
I’m not a waste of time 🙂
@innan.599 Жыл бұрын
@@tulsalien it is. I wasted 20 years of my life on that kind of men.
@zynnfindo477611 ай бұрын
@@innan.599please consider that just because a style isn’t in your relationship scope doesn’t make them unworthy of love.
@bapr38879 ай бұрын
@@innan.599 I wasted 6 months of my life on that kind of women. Yeah, avoid avoidants, this is only their problem.
@bapr38879 ай бұрын
@@zynnfindo4776 If you are damaged good, you are unworthy. Not everybody will be loved, thats it. Dont ever make baby with avoidant too.