Fearful Behavior in Dogs

(Illustrations by Lili Chin)
About this video: Our dogs attempt to communicate with us when they are stressed. They do this by exhibiting stress signals. If initial stress signals are ignored the fear can lead to severe anxiety and/or aggression. Punishing symptoms of fear (barking, growling, air snapping, involuntary urination) can make fear more severe, and can also create or intensify aggression and anxiety.
If you find this video helpful you might also like these playlists -
Reactive or Aggressive behavior in dogs: • Reactive or Aggressive...
Anxious behavior in dogs: • Anxious Behavior in Dogs
Fearful behavior in dogs: • Fearful Behavior in Dogs
If you want more structured training, take a look at my online classes: www.legendsdogtraining.com/on...
If you enjoy these videos and want to ensure more videos are produced you can contribute on ko-fi. Contribute here: ko-fi.com/legendsdogtraining
Alyssa Rose

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hey everyone! If you liked this video then you might want to join an upcoming discussion about Fearful Behavior in Dogs on April 5th, 2023. To reserve a spot to this online webinar you can go to this link: shorturl.at/ovIOR Tickets are purchased as a donation of any amount to The Dog Rehoming Project. Hope to see you there. - Alyssa Rose, Certified Professional Dog Trainer and Behavior Specialist

[@Leschwa89]

Note that a dog that is showing some of those signs does not necessarily mean that it is in a state of fear. A dog showing calming signals can also try to tell you that it does not like something or use it to calm itself. How to read dog body language strongly depends on the given situation.

[@thepenguin4043]

Thank you I am trying to be nicer to my dog and this helped me understand what I might be missing

[@legendsdogtraining]

Thank you for watching, I love what you wrote. Let me know how it goes. And just in case you want to train together - I have an online class starting this week that would be a great way to establish trust and communication, and to build confidence. Here's a link if you want to learn more: www.legendsdogtraining.com/online-classes/ The Calm Connections class would be a good starting point. Best wishes to you and your dog. - Alyssa Rose

[@agandl1]

Thank you for this video Alyssa, it is really helpful, especially showing Lili Chin's pictures so you know what to look for then seeing it in real life. I run a terrier forum and I'm always looking for good videos and blogs to refer members to when they have problems. I have a fearful and aggressive terrier myself so have spent some years working with a real life behaviourist backed up by some wonderful on-line help. I very much appreciate the contribution you and others like you make with your free videos :)

[@ABowo]

thanks for information

[@MrPrestonryanj]

Great video! Now that I've started to become more aware of canine body language, I see more and more stressed out dogs. Thanks!

[@legendsdogtraining]

Ryan Preston thanks for watching the video, Ryan!

[@BrooklynsCorner]

Thanks! This video explains a lot!

[@Kodakaneh]

great, thank u so much :)

[@kahlibra10]

Very helpful..

[@forestdwellerresearch6593]

I adopted a pitbull 6 months ago and he was so abused and traumatised he would literally attack speeding trucks head on....or anything else for that matter. Now he is the friendliest & happiest guy in town. He has one problem left; when the doors in my house rattle in the breeze he get's totally freaked out. This video is right; Ignore the fear and be confident yourself, that's what example they go by. Don't feed that fear by attention, petting and cuddling it.

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hi, I really appreciate you taking the time to watch and comment. I also apologize that it's taken me so much time to respond! I do want to clarify - the video discusses being neutral and not petting. It also says to avoid direct eye contact and direct body language. This recommendation is directed at people who trigger fearful behavior in a dog. For example, this could be a friend, visiting family member, in some cases a family member that lives in the home that the dog is not yet comfortable with. The more neutral these people are the easier it is for the dog to feel safe and comfortable in their presence. However, a trusted caregiver should definitely offer guidance. In most cases, it's most constructive for that trusted person to move the dog farther away from a trigger so that they can observe the trigger from a distance where they are able to calmly observe. The dog in this case is learning a practical response to a stressful scenario. In this scenario, I don't think that petting would necessarily feed the fear, but I also believe that there are other more constructive responses to build a dog's confidence. I think this is a great discussion topic and I really appreciate you taking the time to write in. Best, Alyssa Rose www.legendsdogtraining.com

[@forestdwellerresearch6593]

@@legendsdogtraining What a nice thing to say. Do you know much about dogs? I play with my pitbull and it is roughh and tumble...i will kick his ass around. He bites me and that is all good fun Never had a decent home untill now.

[@forestdwellerresearch6593]

@@legendsdogtraining I apreciate you too for your lenghty comment. I always just say; be normal and friendly around animals. Just had a funny thing happening btw. A cat just came running through the rush hour traffic and slammed my Pitbull right in his face. Runs off again like a bolt of lightning. My dog was like...what the fuck just happened? I'm like....watching out for traffic...making sure nobody gets into an accident.... Animals need rest...a sense of security. Relaxation not training. People often forget; to them we are like gods. We put food in their bowls, tell them where to go ...what to do. A dog owner who is relaxed does not need any training...the dog knows it allready haha :) The Dutch police dog trainers were just caught out...beating them with rubber hoses....freaking out and giving their dogs all the stress. I walk right upto them and they just disapear. Bunch of lazy bastards they are...can't even walk their dogs. They just throw them out so they can take a crap and right back in the cage they go. They have their youtube channels showing off how their dogs bite suspected people. A lot of training and stress going on. I am like....you don't even dare come near me you frikking cowards. They just get the fuck away from me...i take over their territory. I make sure it is a safe place. My dog does the same. No training required.

[@schwartzenheimer1]

Advice, worth every penny...one size fits all.

[@legendsdogtraining]

schwartzenheimer1 thanks for watching and commenting, appreciate it.

[@2floridadogs]

We're still young and learning. Thanks for the info.

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hi! Thanks for watching and writing in, really appreciate it. I have a couple of online classes for behavioral training (for dogs that are anxious or reactive). You can find them on the live online classes page. I have two new classes starting in a couple of weeks. Best, Alyssa Rose www.legendsdogtraining.com

[@lorenzodiego5145]

We got a dog and it was abused by a male so it’s scared of me and it’s so hard to gain it’s respect 😭

[@legendsdogtraining]

Poopy Stupid hi, I’m sorry to hear this. It can be really challenging when our own dog is fearful of the people that love and care for them. I can tell you that the number one biggest mistake that anyone makes is they put too much pressure on their dog! Be neutral. If you do deliver food, make it high value, irresistible food, and instead of me making him (or her?) approach you - toss the food and walk away. No pressure. Do things like this everyday. How long have you had your dog? How old? What’s the breed? Is there anyone in the home that the dog does trust? Best, Alyssa Rose

[@JamesJackson-yd3ql]

@@legendsdogtraining my puppy pit Liked my girlfriend over me Do male dogs likes females over the men in the house

[@chrisbarone515]

My dog Gunner Is a friendly Great Weimeraner Dane mix who has separation anxiety, but he also curious and really energetic. He may be a little bit clumsy and mischievous at times, but I can't blame him for everything, there where all completely accidental. My parents hit and yell at him when he makes a mistake and I find it really harsh and it's making me really sad. I tried to reason with them but they never listen. I know there trying to discipline him, but that is no excuse to grab a belt and hit Gunner. I don't like when they hit and yell at my poor Gunner. PLEASE help me. What should I do?

[@lonlonjptheking5845]

We have a small dog and it is always afraid of me. The bad thing is that it causes me to be mean to it so it's like I gave it what it acted like. I hate the fucking dog! All because it acted like a pussy.

[@sophiaetka22]

Not respect. Trust. Take it slowly and help your dog realize that they are equal. Don’t give up

[@MackenzieColeandCanner]

Great work. Thanks! Sharing this with students, hope you don't mind!

[@legendsdogtraining]

Mackenzie Cole Feel free to share, thanks so much for watching my video. If you are interested in any training / behavior topics that you do not see listed on my youtube channel, let me know.

[@skgoode75]

Great video of showing how to. Training my dog

[@legendsdogtraining]

Glad it was helpful!

[@janmclain6301]

Thank you. Best vid I've seen on this subject. I've always had rescue dogs. I avoid small dogs because of this issue. You have no idea what a dog has been through, They can get PTSD just like people. Add the human tendency to breed a dog for looks, rather than temperament, and you get unbalanced dogs surrendered to kill pounds. Neuter, people! And choose dogs based on disposition, not looks or breed! Just saying.

[@snicker12]

Jan McLain - Well said!

[@Heather-hv7me]

I agree completely ☺️

[@paul3538]

I just realized that my dog does some of these things and am currently heartbroken, I dont want my dog to be scared of me.

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hi Paul, Thanks for watching and taking the time to write in! Some dogs are just a little more sensitive. When I adopted my dog Beatrix (my little white terrier mix) I realized that I had to take more time to observe her responses. She was ok with sitting next to me, but she didn't always want me to pet her. I would invite her to approach and sometimes she was eager to come to me, and sometimes she said "no thanks." It was a relationship that was very different from any of my other dogs. She needed me to take things slow, but with time and patience her trust and confidence has grown in ways I never expected. Thanks again for writing in, let me know if you need any more support in training. Warm regards, Alyssa Rose www.legendsdogtraining.com

[@legendsdogtraining]

Here's a video I made about Beatrix's training: kzbin.info/www/bejne/m5uWi419erCCpNU

[@dorenemellene2201]

This was helpful, and interesting. I tell my dog to yawn, and she will. If I tell her to stretch, she does that too. After she stretches she'll jump on my lap wanting me to pet her. I always yawn, and stretch with her. She's a very sweet, and smart Chihuahua that loves people. Also, she never shows aggression. I love her to pieces.

[@sipnkirbii3057]

Great video 🖒🖒

[@legendsdogtraining]

Sipn Kirbii305 thank you! - Alyssa Rose, CPDT-KA

[@dollys5927]

one of the best videos iv ever watched about dogs fearful/behaviour examples.. one of the best videos overall on youtube too id say, because its descriptive, short, thorough and very helpful.. im going to now check to c if u have made one on 'how to know/tell if your dog has been abused signs/displays of character'.. if u dont have one id love to watch one or be msgd back with some simple keywords of movements or actions their behaviour would display? if youd kindly like to share with me any knowledge on that if any then id be appreciated and very much grateful! 👍😇🐕

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hi Dolly! Thank you so much for taking the time to watch the video, and comment. I apologize that its taken me a bit to respond. I don't have a video about signs of abuse. I can say that very often there are dogs that are prone to fearful behavior due to poor genetics, and inadequate socialization during critical periods of their development. Fearful behavior is not always linked to abuse. That being said, a couple of indications include a dog that has a strong emotional response to a stern word, a raised hand or a broom (or other similar objects). Behavioral responses could include a dog that growls, snaps, cowers, urinates, or runs away in response to these triggers. If a person suspects a dog was abused - they should focus on actionable training steps that can help the dog develop positive coping strategies, and improve trust, communication and confidence. Thank you again for your kind words, and your great questions. Very appreciated. Best, Alyssa Rose

[@screwballentertainment]

I have a dog that I got from a shelter and they let me know that she had been abused by former owners and was very skittish. She was scared of almost everything when I got her 4 years ago. Since then of course she has seen me mad or yell or got scared because something fell in the room she was in but every dog has experience this. I've even gone out of my way to even a lot more lenient when she's in trouble. Why has her fear gotten nothing but worse as time goes on. Two-thirds of her life have been incident free, but I can not even stand up out of my chair to leave the room without her literally being scared half to death.

[@statikquote9265]

Omg me too I know I have a strong trait but jeez can u please not be scared. Idk I've tried many things too I just dont know what to do it's no fun having a dog like that -.-

[@miamimotogroup5371]

I just adopted a 5 year Yorkie who was used as a breeding dog. He is very fearful and shy of everything. It looks like he may have never been walked either. I’m going to continue to give him treats and hope eventually he becomes more comfortable

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hey! When working with a fearful dog it’s important to be systematic in your approach. It’s easy to “poison” food by offering it in situations that are beyond your dog’s comfort level. If this happens you’ll notice your dog shows less interest in food. Make sure you work within your dog’s “comfort bubble.” Take it slow. Keep it simple, and take it step by step. I have an online course that might be helpful to you. If you’re interested you can check it out at www.basetrainingmethod.com let me know if you have questions. Best, Alyssa Rose

[@stever7157]

We’ve had my one year old Shih-Tzu for almost two months. He was a bit skittish around me, but instantly bonded with my wife. Unfortunately she fell ill and has spent the last two weeks in a hospital and rehab facility. She should be coming home soon, but meanwhile our dog gets very nervous when I try to pet him and often hides under the table. I know I have to be more patient and try some of these suggestions, but it’s very discouraging. He exhibits a lot of these characteristics like licking his lips, yawning, and pacing. He often will even hide under the kitchen table when I enter the room.

[@enriquemosqueda580]

My little puppy goes to one corner and starts crying there we bring him to the sofa he keeps going to that certain spot and cries what's wrong with him plz help

[@tamarindelampshire3887]

Ask your veterinarian.

[@lisarose4729]

If you bought him without seeing his mother he’s probably from a puppy farm which means he’s been taken away from his mother to early and kept alone in a dark kennel with no human interaction!! It also means his mother is kept in a dark dirty kennel and forced to produce babies over and over till she dies!

[@AllisonChains64]

@@lisarose4729 You can't assume those things. Please don't spread assumptions like that while presenting them as facts.

[@lisarose4729]

@@AllisonChains64Do you know what 'probably' means?? You should look it up in the dictionary! I never said it was a fact, and I will assume whatever I like thanks...who are you???? I will continue spread the word about puppy farms to make people aware because they ARE a FACT and if you don't like that, tough luck Miss Nobody!!!

[@AllisonChains64]

@@lisarose4729 Lol you are incredibly ignorant. Probably means "most likely". You could've said "possibly" and that would've been more fitting. Of course puppy mills are very real, you moron. What I'm saying is that you can't assume right away that just because a dog is scared like that that they are from a puppy mill. But nice job at getting all stupid over something I said politely; it really shows how much you know and that we should listen to you lol. That was sarcasm, btw.

[@isuckatlife5608]

I have pomeranian that have the exact same you told in the video i never know that before but i live in small city so idk if there's a proffesional dog trainer here and he is also growling and barking when get approaches by other dog how can i help him ?

[@Linkophere]

My dog recently has gotten more aggressive and I dont know what to do. Full story but I'll try and keep it short. Hes (poodle schnauzer mix) always been a bossy dog but good. One night I hovered over him with both my hands on the bed and he got extremely defensive and growled very aggressively. I had heard it's good to show them their bites arent a threat so I balled up my fist and put it in his face. He growled VERY intensely and in my confidence I flattened my hand and that's when he got my hand in his mouth but stopped short of biting me, I pushed forward and out my hand to the back of his mouth and he began to truley bite me as hard as he could. He bit up my pointer enough to leave a couple punctures and make it numb. He was in constant defense mode that night and eventually he got on the floor and in his bed. I put his stuff on the floor (normally sleeps with me). He was punished by me ignoring him and moving him out of my room for 2 days entirely. No entry allowed. Than I let him back in and a day later, he mildly lunged at me when I walked toward him and went to pet him. A few days later I'm playing with him and in a tug of war he took the toy and when I went to go grab it from him to keep playing, he snap at my hand. I dont know what I can do to help this if anyone has any advice or training tips please help me. I have anxiety where I once had love for my dog but now I'm so scared whenever I approach him because I just dont know if hes gunna bite my hand again. I really need guidance.

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hey! Thanks for watching my video and taking the time to write in. There is a lot of advice on line about using confrontational methods when a dog exhibits aggressive behavior. This advice might be well intentioned but it can easily make a bad situation .... worse. These methods will erode trust and undermine your ability to effectively communicate with your dog. Here's what you should do instead: Rule #1 Respect warning signs (hard stares, growling, snapping). Give your dog space in these moments. Rule #2 Don't use verbal or physical reprimands to correct warning signs. We can teach dogs not to growl or snap, but if anything this suppresses the behavior and creates a powder keg. Verbal or physical corrections can (in some situations) create a short term fix, but exacerbate the underlying issue long term. Rule #3 Management. Make note of the situations that are triggering the aggressive behavior and try to create an environment or routine that minimizes the amount that your dog is able to practice these aggressive responses. If your dog is resource guarding your bed you can put up a baby gate by your bedroom door. If your dog is resource guarding toys you can let your dog play with the toys independently. Don't test. I'm going to say it again, don't test your dog. Sometimes our curiosity gets the best of us but its truly a good idea to avoid putting your dog into situations where they are likely to practice aggressive behavior, the more its practice.. the more habitual it becomes... the harder it is to work through in training. Rule #4 Train Using Positive Reinforcement. Positive reinforcement training engages your dog. It teaches them to love learning. It improves trust. It improves communication. It minimizes stress responses that would otherwise feed into the resource guarding that you're currently seeing. It also reduces the necessity to use force. You're going to need to set your foundation first. I recommend at least a solid 3 weeks of rock solid foundation training before trying to use training in situations that have previously triggered aggressive responses. Rule #5 Keep a behavior log. Be a scientist. Make objective observations about your dog's behavior and what's triggering these responses. The better you are at predicting the behavior, the better you will be at preventing aggressive behavior, the better you will be at implementing an effective training plan. If you're interested - I offer online classes (starting a few weeks) and skype consultations. My website is www.legendsdogtraining.com Thanks again for taking the time to write in, keep me posted on how things are going with your dog. Best, Alyssa Rose

[@meowmeownoir]

My dog is acting very strange. All of a sudden she seems scared of something or extremely stressed. Her ears are tilted back in a way that shows fear. Her eyes also show fear. She costantly changes her position even after she gets comfy. She seems to be scared, but not towards me. She finds comfort in me because she jumps onto my bed and lays there for a good 4 seconds and then moves her position. She doesn't find interest in eating or drinking water. My mom does this where she wraps my dog in a blanket and fills a baby bottle with warm milk and force feeds my dog. It is very strange, but she recovers from this weird state. My dog loses this behavior after a day but it always seems to come back in about every 3 weeks. My mom takes pills, but makes sure not to drop any on the floor. No constant bug spray or anything dangerous for my dog. I'm really confused and hoping for a little help.

[@legendsdogtraining]

Melissa Thorn hi Melissa, start a “behavior log.” Have a journal on your kitchen counter and each time there is an incident like this - write down these notes: the date, time, location (where was she when you first noticed this change in behavior), the behavior and body language you observe, and also any other factors that might contribute to stress: rain, construction, noise from landscapers. Sometimes anxiety is linked to “trigger stacking” meaning, it’s a combination of factors. The dog might tolerate a trigger when it occurs by itself, but when it occurs in combination with other mildly stressful events the dog can be pushed over threshold. The other thing that I would keep an eye out for is underlying health issues. Rule out any underlying health issues that might be causing her discomfort. If you do think it’s behavioral, I would encourage you to do some training that helps build better communication and trust. I have virtual classrooms that might be a good fit. If you’re interested, let me know, and I can send you more info on that. Either way, keep me posted on how she’s doing. Best, Alyssa Rose my website is www.legendsdogtraining.com

[@AN-dg9bi]

Someone abandoned Daisy on the side of the road. I picked her up and adopted her. It took me two weeks to get her to let me pet her without moving very slowly. She would scream like I was beating her. She's still super skittish. The other day I dropped a pillow as I was getting up from the couch and it landed on her and she screamed and hid in the corner until I coaxed her out. Poor baby. She's a happy girl now though. Just a little skittish.

[@forestdwellerresearch6593]

When i adopted my Pitbull he was shaking. So afraid and abused. I knew right there some tender loving care was needed. He bit me a few times. Totally tried to take over the house. Now he is not needing any of that. Just a happy dog. People are like...how is that possible? Brucie finally has a good home??? If i were to give one advice to prospective dog owners it would be; just be your normal self and do not stress.

[@Saved-Christian.Catholic_120]

I've seen many of these and it's sad to see. No dog should ever be fearful of a human being. You have to gain their trust first and that can take time. Sometimes leaving them alone at first is the best. I let them come to me first. Sometimes it really pays to be very patient.

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hi Amy, Thank you for watching. I agree 100%. The more people try to rush the process with a fearful dog, the longer it will take. If a nervous dog jumps up on the couch, or sits by my feet, I just let them rest next to me without forcing unwanted attention. Many of these dogs are very sensitive to being touched, handling - petting isn't always the peace offering that people believe it is. Patience is key. Thank you again for watching. Best, Alyssa Rose www.legendsdogtraining.com

[@xenocrateshokim5439]

I have adopted a dog about 5-6 months ago. he has big mood swings. He has tried to bite me multiple times. He seems to be very afraid of males. Anytime he sees a male, besides myself. He will become tense and aggressive. Thank you for this video, I’m having a very hard time. I hope patience and this video helps me help the little guy readjust to become less fearful.

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hi, apologize for the delay in responding. How is everything going? Do you still need support? Let me know if you have any questions. I also have an online class that teaches people how to work on exercises with their dog that will create good communication, trust and confidence. The class meets for one hour, once a week for six weeks. Here's a link if you want to learn more: www.legendsdogtraining.com/live-classes/ best, Alyssa Rose

[@tlrecxless6267]

Thanks for this i just got a puppy from this family and I think they been hitting her because everytime I reach out she shows her teeth and barks but sometimes she lets me pick her up to put her on my bed

[@gantulgaganhuyag717]

My puppy is showing skittishness towards other people when she started having her period. It's been 2 weeks and actually becoming worse as I take her out, she would bark and growl towards random people, low on the ground and sniffing people. She is a beagle but her obsessive sniffing has become even worse. Won't listen to calls without leash, she was so good behaved puppy but all these in few weeks and to make things worse, I got sick and hospitalized during her first period.

[@stevcass1822]

our rescue dog is scared of me but not my girlfriend, shes totally normal and playful when im not around, but when im home shes scared of me and also just sleeps. I even shaved my beard off cause i thought she was scared of my beard...

[@legendsdogtraining]

Stev Cass First off, just have to say that that’s really sweet that you shaved your beard for her. You clearly really care about her. I have a few quick tips that might help 1. Be neutral. Neutral body language and behavior is one of the best ways to create a sense of trust with a nervous dog. 2. Your girlfriend can do some training exercises with her (with high value food) whenever you first arrive home to create positive associations with your presence. Positive reinforcement training in general is a great way to build confidence with a fearful dog. 3. Never use food to coax her to approach or interact with you, this usually backfires and makes a dog more conflicted. 4. This is a process.. I wouldn’t expect any overnight changes. I’m not sure how old she is, how long you’ve had her. But in general you should be thinking more in terms of months, than days or weeks. If you ever want more support in training you can go to legendsdogtraining.com I have online courses coming up for fearful dogs. I also do Skype consultations. - Alyssa Rose

[@nobody-zk7lx]

I have an adorable adopted doggy since 2014 and she always shows this behavior, all of them. She's spoiled and loved but I don't know if she had a trauma before 😔 I don't know what to do

[@thiis_foo]

Same here I'm he gets scared if I raise my voice at my siblings or just period.

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hi Alexandra! Thanks for watching my video. I have a “Shy Dog” class with the Humane Society. It is conducted by Zoom, so you can join the class regardless of where you live. You can find more information or sign up through my website www.legendsdogtraining.com Best, Alyssa Rose

[@JackGeezy85]

My Malchi does most of these things. She gets scared easily. I wanted to take her to many different spots so she can get used to people and other surroundings. But she is scared to go in car and I didn't want to stress her out. I just hope she is happy, she is everything to me.

[@legendsdogtraining]

JackGeezy hi! Thanks for watching and for taking the time to write in about your Malchi. The best way to help a fearful dog is to take things slow! I like to start with confidence building on a training mat inside the house. Use high value foods like happy howie’s rolls or boiled chicken diced small. As the mat starts to build value you can start to train with the mat in front of your house. Small stepping stones will make the fastest progress. Thanks again for writing in, keep me posted on how she’s doing. Best, Alyssa Rose

[@legendsdogtraining]

JackGeezy I also have this video as a case study for training with a fearful dog: kzbin.info/www/bejne/m5uWi419erCCpNU I hope this is helpful. Best, Alyssa Rose

[@JackGeezy85]

@@legendsdogtraining Thank you I will try this, ill be back to let you know

[@guap6921]

What if my dog gnaws on my hand and forearm frequently

[@OffixialGem]

This is happening to me Nd its very very frustrating and heartbreaking

[@Playlistv2]

My dog does this when I call him in after going mad round the garden and barking/annoying the neighbours. I always presumed it was because he knew he was being bad lol

[@anacondadreams4762]

Good video, unluckily it doesn't help me with my otherwise perfectly superconfident and friendly dog's megascare of driving, which gets worse and worse, and I can't avoid it :-( (with it I mean, she has to drive with me)

[@legendsdogtraining]

Anaconda Dreams, thanks for watching and leaving a comment. I appreciate it. what kind of dog do you have? With clients that have dogs that are fearful or become sick when traveling in a car I start off by creating positive associations with the car. I use high value food to teach the dog to jump in and out of the car, like it's an agility game. I will also feed the dog for settling in the car on a special training blanket. By building up positive associations with that space even when the car is stationary, I find that the dog becomes less scared when driving. I would not try to use food before or during drives - if your dog is very scared it will likely make her nauseous, and possibly even throw up. It will take time, patience is key, but 5 minutes of training 2-3 times per week can make a difference over the course of a month or so. Good luck! - Alyssa Rose, CPDT-KA

[@anacondadreams4762]

Hi Alyssa, thanks so much for answering. She's a Jack Russell, one year old, and startet being scared all of a sudden. (first months were o.k., now she's just panicking). She jumps in, but will start shivering and denying even the best treats, the second she's in the car. If I drive for 5 Hours she will stand, shiver and hyperventilate for 5 hours. After the drive she's thirsty as hell, as she's salivating a lot. First she was in a box, but when she startet defecating out of sheer terror I changed to a dog safety belt - the feeling she can move somewhat "calms" her a bit. With calm I mean she doesnt poop in the car anymore, apart from that she sounds as if she'd die from a heart attack any minute. I will definitely try the agility game. As a Russell she loves jumping and catching. I will throw a ball into the car, maybe that'll help for a second or two.... The minute we're out of the car she's all good mood, luckily... Thanks a lot, Sophia

[@pukasmom]

Hi, My dog is 8 months old and He was outgoing healthy and very Happy dog he lives with My boyfriend and his 4 brothers and sister his Mom and an older Dog that is very loving. Last week the dogs weren't off property and we live in a remote lace where other houses are half block away at the closest and there a lot of space out here . They weren't off property and Apache, did not come back we looked everywhere we could think of and could not find him. He was gone for 4 days Luckily, He did finally find his way Home after 4 days and He was so skinny and he is behaving like he is traumatized. I wish i knew what happened to him so I can help him. He wouldn't e eat for 2 days and he just sleeps and He looks sad. His hair is shedding like crazy the other ogs are not shedding the way Apache is. Do you know what I can do to help him recover? I brushed him and give him love and food. I don't know what else to do. Thank you for any advice...

[@md4pets]

Alyssa - I am a veterinarian creating a presentation for Deaf veterinary staff regarding non-verbal communication from dogs. May I use this video in my presentation?

[@legendsdogtraining]

Danielle Rastetter Hi, sorry it took me a bit to respond to your email. You can absolutely use this video. Always appreciate it if you are able to encourage subscriptions to the channel, and let me know if there is anything specific that you find helpful. I have other videos that talk about body language, and I try to include text at the bottom of each page to correspond with the voice over. - Alyssa

[@kahlilknick6957]

Alyssa Lapinel Thank you!

[@kahlilknick6957]

Alyssa Lapinel You have a lot of videos! Was there some titles in particular that focus on interpreting body language?

[@legendsdogtraining]

Kahlil Knick The beginning part of this video provides an overview of stress signals: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bV62np2AYrKiq80 Thanks for watching! - Alyssa

[@legendsdogtraining]

Kahlil Knick This one also discusses body language of puppies in social context: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z5zGYYWPbLOij6s

[@mlr-ir7gy]

We have a puppy and my boyfriend has a very deep low voice. He puts his ears back and has sad eyes when he approaches my boyfriend. He scoots forward and rolls over at feet but seems afraid ..it's confusing. What's happening and what should be happening instead? He also barks at me aggressively for his breakfast while I'm making it and jumps up to hump or nip, he also nips when he's over stimulated... But the fear thing with my boyfriend (who lives here too) is strange and my boyfriend thinks it's a positive reaction but his ears and eyes are typical fear.

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hi! I apologize for the slow response. Have things gotten any better? If you want a more structured approach to working through nervous or hyperactive behaviors you can go to my website - www.legendsdogtraining.com - I have online classes that take you through a step by step program, all the training is specifically designed to work through stress related behavioral concerns. Thanks for watching and commenting. Best, Alyssa Rose

[@mlr-ir7gy]

@@legendsdogtraining hello and thank you so much for replying and giving me a resource (your website) ! I will check it out tomorrow morning. He's gotten a lot better since then! He doesn't look scared anymore, he is submitting because he wants cuddles now. He doesn't pee anxiously anymore and he has given us trust and trusts us back. No more barking for food either. Very good boy ! Thanks again 💛

[@janunger7430]

Hello Alyssa. I believe I have a fearful and aggressive 3 yr Bassett/Aus-cattle dog mix. I live in Glen Burnie, Md. Can you recomend someone that got help me with this issue in this area?

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hey Jan Unger so sorry for the delay in writing to you. I do not know anyone personally in that area, but I do offer behavior consultations. If you still have the dog, and would like to set this up, fill out this assessment form: www.legendsdogtraining.com/assessment-form.html

[@MultiAstig25]

my dog has all that sign

[@MultiAstig25]

he also have severe agression towards everyone

[@goravgoyal7231]

hve u findd any solution?

[@legendsdogtraining]

gorav goyal hey! Thanks for watching and writing in. This is an extremely delayed response to your comment but I figured it couldn’t hurt to check in. A big part of working through major fear issues is establishing a strong foundation and reinforcement history for calm behavior. I typically spend a minimum of three weeks working on a training foundation in the dog’s living room before I start any training with behavioral triggers. I usually start off by reinforcing a dog in a stand, sit or down on a mat or on a dog bed or inside an open door crate. I will then systematically discuss incorporate triggers into that basic training starting with very low intensity and working up. Not only does this process help dogs build confidence, and reduce stress but it will generate strong communication and trust. If you have any interest in a step by step program go to basetrainingmethod.com I just launched a five week program that could be extremely beneficial for dog’s exhibiting serious signs of fear. Thanks again for watching and writing in. Best, Alyssa Rose, CPDT-KA

[@forestdwellerresearch6593]

@@legendsdogtraining Aaww excuse me but.....a dog requires no training. They know already.

[@IvySweetVenom]

My dog is scared of flies....fricking flies

[@legendsdogtraining]

Oh no, is your dog afraid of a lot of other things? Or just flies? Best, Alyssa Rose

[@IvySweetVenom]

Alyssa Rose Just flies :( I am not sure how to help her.

[@danqerouslyyhott]

My dog is too! lol

[@danqerouslyyhott]

Hi Alyssa! I have a miniature poodle who will be turning 8 this year. He has some aggression issues, like if he's laying down and you come near he starts to growl and then he snaps and sometimes goes to bite. He can also be petted and will snap and try to bite out of nowhere. If he's on a lease he sometimes will bark and lunge at bigger dogs like pitbulls! What can i do to help solve these problems? Thank you!

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hi Rose! Thanks for watching my video. I have a “Shy Dog” class with the Humane Society that will be starting soon. It is conducted by Zoom, so you can join the class regardless of where you live. If this is something that would interest you, let me know, I can send you more information. Best, Alyssa Rose

[@legendsdogtraining]

You mentioned that your dog is 8, has he always displayed these behaviors? Or is this something that has started more recently?

[@danqerouslyyhott]

@@legendsdogtraining he's always been this way since he was a puppy

[@legendsdogtraining]

Rose Marlyn Here are a few things to know about stress related behaviors (like growling, lunging, barking, snapping). These behaviors are symptoms of underlying stress. The goal in training is to help to minimize your dog’s stress (so that he doesn’t feel the need to guard his sleeping space) and teach him alternate, healthy coping strategies (for example, we can train him to check in with you when you pass other dogs on leash). Training and management go hand in hand. It’s important to be able to predict and prevent him from practicing those behaviors. It’s not possible to completely manage reactive or aggressive behavior, but it is important to minimize the amount that he is exposed to triggers. This might mean encouraging him to sleep on his own dog bed, or giving him more space on walks. Management is critical because the more these behaviors are practiced, the more engrained these behaviors will become. Hope this is helpful. Here is a blog that dives a little deeper into these types of behavior: www.legendsdogtraining.com/2019/03/10-rules-you-need-to-know-about-behavioral-training-for-dogs/

[@danqerouslyyhott]

@@legendsdogtraining great! Thank you so much for taking the time to educate me and respond! I'll read the blog

[@christanerosec.desbruyeres9893]

Is giving space to a fearful dog the only valid option in all cases? Is there cases, where willingly ignoring the dog's fear and breaking that space he is asking is actually not such a bad response? I am thinking this because for some people sometimes it can work to push them a little off that comfort zone. And also bcs one of my dogs when I found him, I sort of had to do it in order for him not to end up picked up by a kennel and possibly put down. (Worry not he is MUCH better now).

[@jasmine-xy5rq]

my dog is a pitbull and he had a bad ear infection it he would freak out if we do as much as come near him with the medicine or try to touch his ear, so we took him to pet smart to get it put in, we dropped him off for about 4 hours because that’s what they said and when he came back he’s been acting weird and isn’t as playful, he’s distant and he let me touch his ear but he looked so scared when i did so i stopped right away. i’m scared he was abused at the pet smart because he’s not acting like himself

[@connorshekelstein6432]

My dog only does this to me for some reason shes fine with everyone elze she mostly grows nd snaps at me I dont know why she hates me so much It seems like almost all living things hate me or try to avoid me

[@NaomiKauffman]

2:18 that snap is very similar to my dog’s

[@legendsdogtraining]

Thanks for watching and taking the time to comment. Let me know if have any questions. If you want a more structured approach to training for fearful/ aggressive behaviors you can go to my website - www.legendsdogtraining.com - I have online classes that take you through a step by step program, all the training is specifically designed to work through stress related behavioral concerns. Best, Alyssa Rose

[@someperson2500]

I think it is safe to assume some dogs just don't like being treated like pets. They don't want pettings, or if they do they only want them a certain way.

[@legendsdogtraining]

Some Person I think that we should always be striving to respect our dog’s individual preferences. That being said, signs of fear, stress or anxiety should not be dismissed. If a dog is struggling to adapt to their home environment, their daily routine, or struggling to develop trusting relationships with people that they see on a regular basis - people should take the time to create a training plan. The goal in these cases is to minimize their dog’s stress/fear/anxiety, build confidence, and develop trusting relationship with people that the dog sees on a routine basis. Chronic stress ages dogs prematurely and makes them more vulnerable to disease. Chronic stress compromises a dog’s immune system and leads to many compulsive behaviors like licking paws to the point of injury or anxiously chewing and digesting non digestible items. This might not apply to you, but I am a big advocate of helping fearful dogs as much as we can, not to conform to our idea of how a dog should behave, but because it leads to a happier and healthier life. I hope you are having a good morning. Thank you for watching my video and writing in. - Alyssa Rose www.legendsdogtraining.com

[@themutedmusic8811]

I don’t have the money to contact a professional but my neurotic dog gets used to people after a while. He does bite if a stranger gets too near him, so I make sure he can meet them at his own pace. He also barks and howls at any nearby person, and attacks other dogs. But the few people he trusts, he is very sweet. I got him at the shelter, almost a year ago, he would not come near people, and is very afraid of tall people, men, and deep voices, so I assume he was abused before I got him. But I’m a middle schooler, so I guess I wasn’t scary to him and he didn’t bark at me at all. I don’t know how to help him calm down around other people though ∧( 'Θ' )∧

[@firnzy4206]

Didn't help my dog is scared of something.....something not in this world but in the ghost realm someone please tell me what to do

[@jubar5506]

Move

[@avichal6630]

TwoGudThings move

[@jaelayala7248]

My neighbor was stepping on his dogs face, my bf yelled “stop that” and then the guy was like, “it alright”. We had a ton to do that day but i felt bad for that dog

[@legendsdogtraining]

Nymphet Angel that’s horrible. was the dog ok? Why would your neighbor do that?

[@fxstdribbler6427]

@@legendsdogtraining because he's barking sick

[@janunger7430]

Alyssa I am fostering this dog. that I just commented about.

[@mauricioarreortuamontiel1844]

Three days ago I decided to shower my dog that I’ve had since he was three months old (currently is 1.3 years old) and he almost bit me so I yelled at him and said no! ... after this incident he has been very scared of me. I did not hit him just yelled at him. I have tried to be friendly by offering to play but ignores me. When I sit near him he either walks away, paces, etc. I offer him his favorite toys but growls at me if I get to close and then will snap at me and try to bite me (he almost bit me when I did that today because of how close I got with the toy). Since my brother was there while I was showering my dog, my dog feels threatened by both of us. Today, my brother had to clean the back yard so he went outside and when he was almost done, my dog snuck up on him and bit him on his leg two times because my dog felt threatened by my brothers presence and my twelve year old brother started to cry because of the pain and blood cause by the bite. There are many children in our household and we are afraid this will happen again with anyone else since he did not give off any warning of the bite like growling. When I try to interact with him, he at least gives offs warning like growing to tell me to go away. I did not have the intention of this occurring since I thought yelling “no” was not causing such harm.He has never acted this way but it has not worn off in the last three days. I’m stuck. He used to be playful and listen to my commands like sit, lay, roll over, jump, give me your paw, high five, etc. I just want my dog back. I can’t afford a trainer so my mom might make me take him to a pound. Any suggestions??? Sorry if there are any typos because I’m using my old phone to type this, thank you. By the way before me showering him, he was the best, super playful and always let me put on a leach in order to go on walks(now he will bite me if I attempt to but on a leach to go on a walk), play with my family and I, etc. If you have any suggestions, I would really appreciate it since I don’t have many options but to listen to my mom and take him to a pound. Having a dog was my idea so I have to take care of him, like I already walk him, shower him, feed him with the food I bought(not my mom because it’s my dog), and train him to do the basic dog commands. All I have money for is the food and trash bags and toys... etc.. I don’t have options so please give me advice. Thank you for reading.

[@legendsdogtraining]

__Mauricio__ Hey Mauricio! Thanks for watching and writing in. I would attempt to use high value food (cut up pieces of chicken or beef) and sit down on the ground with your dog for five minutes a day to feed him. He doesn’t have to do anything (sit or lie down or go to the blanket). He doesn’t even have to eat out of your hand if he doesn’t want to. You will just toss piece by piece on the blanket. Make a routine of this. It’s a great way to build trust. Don’t try to pet him, or reach out to him. Make it easy for him to feel calm and comfortable in your presence. Hold off on bathing him for a bit, or doing other things that might be overly stressful. The most important thing is to create a foundation of trust. Keep me posted on how he’s doing. Best, Alyssa Rose, CPDT-KA

[@mauricioarreortuamontiel1844]

Alyssa Rose thank you. I’ll definitely try this out :)

[@gunslingerlegend]

I feel so bad. My dog has the licking lips and the heavy panting but I’ve never laid a hand on her and I’ve never gotten onto except only once when she growled at my one year old daughter and I snapped my fingers at her and put her in her cage for a little bit but other than that, nothing. And I’ve had her since she was born so she’s never had any previous owners so she’s never been abused. I dont know what I’m doing wrong. I mean, I do tend to lose my temper and yell at myself sometimes when I accidentally break something or stump my toe or something. Could that be it?

[@moviechilltime123]

If your dog thinks you are yelling at it, it will experience the situation that way so it is important to always be sensitive around your animals

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hey! Thank you so much for watching and for your comment. Any yelling could certainly be stressful to a dog. I love the fact that you are looking at your dog's behavior with such compassion. If you want a more structured approach in developing a calm connection with your dog you can go to my website - www.legendsdogtraining.com - I have online classes that take you through a step by step program, all the training is specifically designed to work through stress related behavioral concerns. Thank you for watching and commenting. Best, Alyssa Rose

[@ChaoTiC.4rti3.]

My brother’s friend recently gave him a half month old puppy and our other dog he’s pretty old and he’s terrified of the puppy at first when my brother brought home the puppy he brought in our other dog and he didn’t show any signs of fear until the next day we all noticed when my dad brought our other inside and the puppy was lying down on the floor and the puppy went over to the dog and our dog instantly started shaking his ears were to the side, yawning,lip licking, etc. I honestly don’t know what to do

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hi, apologies for this delayed response. How is it going? Let me know if you are still in need of support. I have a class coming up that might be a good fit. The class is called Calm Connections. This is a great way to establish better trust and communication. My website is legendsdogtraining.com I have a new calm connections class coming up in a couple of weeks. Best, Alyssa Rose

[@emilylong9474]

My dog has 3 of these signs, I should be worried right? I know that sometimes one sign is not enough, but 3 is right?

[@legendsdogtraining]

Emily Long Hi Emily! Thanks for watching and taking the time to write in. Some of these behaviors can be ambiguous, so it’s all about looking at the big picture. If your dog is showing clear signs of distress in specific contexts, it’s definitely worth the time to consider what is triggering stress and address it. When we continuously dismiss stress signals it can lead to more serious behavioral issues, lead to a loss of trust in our relationship with our dogs and even lead to physical ailments. If you’re interested in setting up a phone consultation to discuss your dog’s behavior patterns, your behavioral goals, and create a training plan you can go to www.legendsdogtraining.com and fill out an assessment form - and I can contact you to set up an appointment time. Thanks again for watching. - Alyssa Rose, CPDT-KA

[@emilylong9474]

Alyssa Rose Thanks, if need be, I'll check out the website if need be. Overall my dog rarely shows these signs, but I surely won't overlook them.

[@fxstdribbler6427]

We have a dog like this he doesn't run around outside on a long leash he'd rather sit by the slide door. We just got him from someone too.

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hi, how is everything going? Hope your dog is doing better. If you are still in need of support, I have an online class that focuses on building trust, confidence and strong communication. Here is a link if you want to check it out: www.legendsdogtraining.com/live-classes/ Let me know if you have questions. Best, Alyssa Rose

[@ellenhuckenpoehler8246]

I adopted 2 rescue beagles in March. We have always had beagles. They are a male and female about 2 year old siblings. The female is afraid of me. She is afraid of leash walking. She is reactive to noises movements, but most of all me. She is bonding with my husband and young adult daughter but not me. I am desperate for help as she will not go outside for me. Can you help with this?

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hi Ellen, this will be a slow process. Here are a few tips: Do training with the male. 5 minute sessions 1-2x’s per day where you are working on simple exercises, with high value food (boiled chicken). The goal here is to do training that the brother loves, let the sister observe these training sessions. In these training session I will place a scrunched up blanket about 3-6 feet away from where I’m sitting and if the sister shows any interest in the food you will deliver the food by tossing it into the crevices of the blanket. Not from your hand! We don’t want her to feel any pressure to engage. Avoid feeding from your hand, direct eye contact, direct body language. I personally don’t even talk to dogs that are nervous with me as this will usually trigger a fearful response, since talking usually means we’re making direct eye contact. Don’t think of the training in terms of “can I get her to approach me” instead you want her to be curious about you. You want her to watch you from a distance that feels safe. If we coax a nervous dog to approach and then we stand, or sneeze or someone else accidentally makes a loud sound ... the dog will be even more scared because of the close proximity and this will cause a serious set back. Take it slow, give her space, encourage her to take space, model calm, healthy interactions with the brother. Hope this help. Let me know if you have questions. If you’re interested, I offer online classes. I have one starting soon that is called “calm connections.” This could be a good starting point. I would do the class with the brother and let the sister be a passive bystander. Here’s the link to the classes if you want to check it out: www.legendsdogtraining.com/live-classes/

[@alchingonbaca9727]

My dog hair stands up from back to tail walks slow or sits down wants me to shake his hands idk why his afraid of me it’s sad

[@asfscbrumaghim]

Can somebody please help me?! My malshi is acting so strange she all of a sudden sits down and whines and it's like something is around her spirit wise. She constantly whines and can't get comfy. Please help

[@nathanielgarate6671]

Hello, my dog lips he lips, has her ears to the size, and moves away from people. For some reason she won't act like this when its just me and her but whenever its me and my two parents she tends to be fearful of me. I have never hit her in any way but she tends to do this. As I said when its just me and her she is completely fine. Also, she does this to my other dog that she has known since she was a year old and she is the older one.

[@nathanielgarate6671]

Another thing she has he ears down and licks her lips around all people.

[@nathanielgarate6671]

Sorry I forgot to mention this but she is a french bulldog and she has her ears up asides for when she is being pet on the head but thats to make it so her ears arent in the way and I can tell this because my other dog does the same thing and he shows no other of these signs. He is a much more fearless dog if you meet him.

[@pinkangel-36]

Once my lab died my chihuahua got very docile and super submissive. She was even that submissive when the lab was alive. I've been trying to sooth her and keep her away from my sister's kids. I think they were doing somrething to her

[@Xileqomm]

I just adopted a dog and the owner said that it was recues from abuse she is terrified of everything toys people but once we get to pet her she trusts us then we let her outside and its like we have to start over again she loses trust idk what to do

[@gabrielladozsa8285]

I have a same issue with my new adopted dog. ..he has a fear aggression. ..

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hi, apologies for this late response. How is everything going now? Let me know if you still need support in training. I have an online class coming up that might be a good fit. It's called "Calm Connections" and it focuses on building trust, confidence and strong communication that will ultimately hold up in different environments, with different distractions. If you're interested, here's the link: www.legendsdogtraining.com/live-classes/ best, Alyssa Rose

[@pvpibryan4988]

so when i go up to my dog he growls at me when i go close but i let him sniff my hand and he lets me pet him but is still scared and at night he barks for no reason i need help i want him to play with us go on walks 😖

[@kashwrld1929]

Pvpi Bryan SAME!. Does anyone have an answer!

[@lilbean4223]

My dog does these when we play fight/wrestle is that bad?

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hi, it might mean that your dog isn't having as much fun as you might be having. Maybe try different approaches to play, and keep on eye on body language. We want to see confident, alert, playful body language, a dog that is happily approaching when we take a step back. Does your dog like playing tug or chasing a ball? Best, Alyssa Rose

[@lilbean4223]

@@legendsdogtraining yes he loves tug of war and playing ball and when I would sit on the ground he would try to play fight with me so I’ve always done it with him

[@naiyahgotdimples4235]

my dog puts her tail between her legs

[@murmur2746]

Thats a sign of the dog being scared. Its to protect its weak spot (the stomache)

[@chelseajones1904]

Same

[@matildaharden1064]

Naiyah got Dimples that’s cause dogs are pussies

[@therealandre4132]

@Emil Kovachev 👀

[@oomp9123]

Same

[@randomnibba4931]

My dog used to be so fucking happy. Then she went with my uncle and then I watched this video when she came back and she has ALL of these except biting, moving away, pacing. She usually just stays in a corner and whenever me and my family get into an argument, she runs to a near bathroom and hides, and it’s always bathrooms for some reason, even though he’s locked her in there for hours, and once, her owner dies because of overdose and she just...sat there for hours without food she barked and barked for help then....yeah the sister if the dead person came around and yeah got saved. Her other owners outside of the family have abused her too, my FaMiLy member even taught her how to fight, the illegal to death fights, cause she’s a pitbull. And I knew something wasn’t right when she came back at our house, now he’s doing this with another dog...

[@legendsdogtraining]

I am so sorry to hear this, poor dog. Is she safe now? There’s a lot that you can do to help build confidence, starting with simple exercises in your home. Let me know if you want more information. Best, Alyssa Rose

[@randomnibba4931]

She’s not that safe because he can get drunk and yeah. But I would really appreciate extra help I’ve tried so hard to help her. It’s hard to even play tug of war with her if I try to take it she just immediately let’s go and sorta cowers.

[@maiariela]

My dog is showing most of the symptoms, but I think it's her being in the state of "extreme submission". how can I make her not afraid of me?

[@AllisonChains64]

Same here! My little Bambi is *extremely* submissive and even pees herself, but idk why. Her mother is the same exact way. I think it may be a breed thing with her, though. Her mom is my brother's dog, while her dad was my dog and passed away last year.

[@nancywiltshire9919]

My (rescue) poodle mix has submissive urination. Any time you try to get him outside or reach down to pet him, he squirts. He doesn’t seem afraid most of the time, but the peeing has gotten out of hand! Help!

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hey, Thanks for watching and writing in. How long have you had your dog? How old is he? A few tips. 1. I have a video about handfeeding to build trust that you can check out. 2. Use a harness and drag leash to minimize the amount that you need to pick him up. I use a light leash with the handle cut off so it it’s less likely to get caught. 3. If petting is clearly causing stress (as indicated by submissive urination) I would try to be less hands on. Being with a dog, just sitting with them, is a great way to build your bond. It doesn’t have to include petting. I recently launched an online program for behavior modification, including fear issues, you might want to check out. Go to basetrainingmethod.com for more information. Thanks again for watching and writing in. Best, Alyssa Rose, CPDT-KA

[@marioramirez2307]

I already have two females tenneessee 10 month age. They almost fix everything about walking down street with leash in down town (where actually we live) except for the surprise people or unexpected loududed noises. It is almost nothing but considering the fact that they are a hunting breed I am trying every day with a lot of patient, thinking both are going to makeing.

[@legendsdogtraining]

Patience is key! At 10 months old you are likely to see some ups and downs. It can be very discouraging but it's also completely normal for adolescent dogs that are experiencing a lot of physiological and hormonal changes. Hope all things continue in a positive direction. If you need any additional support/ guidance, let me know. My website is www.legendsdogtraining.com I have online classes for behavioral training and one-on-one consultations. Best, Alyssa Rose

[@marioramirez2307]

@@legendsdogtraining Thank you very much Alyssa, I'll keep your website in mind. My two females are getting a little almost tiny better every day with strange people in streets. Again my pleasure Alyssa Rose, have a wonderfull week.

[@marioramirez2307]

@@legendsdogtraining I already visited the website and tryed to suscribe but I failed. The hyper vision and paranoid atitude are the profile when I'm walking with each other. I already have a nine pack all sizes, breeds and ages but the two treeing tenneessee are doing it in a positive way but to slow. Steal don't engage with me in streets.

[@mariomargielaa]

I’ve had my dog for about a year now and all of a sudden she’s pacing and acting very paranoid for no reason. I tried giving her one of her favorite snacks (apples) and she sniffed them an didn’t even bother with it. Btw she’s a chihuahua mix don’t know exactly what she is but yeah. I don’t know what to do, she lets me pet her and stuff, but I notice that her eyes are very dilated. Help!!!

[@legendsdogtraining]

Sudden onset of anxious behavior (pacing, loss of appetite, dilated pupils) can sometimes be a sign that there’s something physically bothering her. It’s worth scheduling a visit with your vet. If the vet doesn’t find anything wrong than you might consider signing up for one of my online classes that teaches relaxation exercises. We don’t always have to know what is causing anxiety in order to help a dog work through it. Here’s a link to the classes if you’re curious to learn more: www.legendsdogtraining.com/online-classes/ The Calm Connections class would be a good place to start.

[@carollenny8586]

I accidentally Hit my dog with a Pillow I was playing with her and I missed and I hit my dog really hard and now she’s scared of me and pillows I feel so guilty

[@legendsdogtraining]

Finn Stranger hey! How old is your dog? How long have you had her? Is she a more nervous dog in general? A dog’s ability to recover from stressful events is 90% of what I do. There’s a lot that you can do to make sure that there’s no loss of confidence or trust from this situation or from difficult situations in the future. A good foundation based in positive reinforcement training is key. I have a bunch of videos on my KZbin that might help or if you ever want to dive deeper you can connect with me through my website www.legendsdogtraining.com

[@user-qx6kz2hh5b]

My puppy doesn’t growl or bark Whenever she hears a noise she runs upstairs to my room to hide bc she feels save there

[@stylish_pengu]

my dog is a stray he has a flea infection and we're going to take him to a vet

[@deekshachadha5040]

Hey guys..I don't know if you guys would see this but I have a sketchy neighbor..they got a dog I think 4-5 months ago cause since then I've been hearing whimpering barking and howling 12-2 in the afternoon 4-6 in the evening and 8-12 in the night..this goes on everyday..I recorded some of the sounds and sent it to my friend who owns a dog and she says it's either an illness or he's being tortured..I really don't know what to do..any advice?

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hey! Is it possible the dog has separation anxiety and is being left alone during those times? Sometimes an emotionally distressed dog can sound like they’re in pain. If you do think something more is happening I would reach out to the humane society / or ASPCA to see if they can do a visit to check on the dog.

[@deekshachadha5040]

@@legendsdogtraining I don't think it's separation issues cause sometimes I'll hear the sibling fighting or the parents are talking..I'm just 11 so I'm kinda scared to call the animal control officers..plus I live in India and covid is way too high I don't think the services are open rn

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hi! This sounds like a really difficult and upsetting situation. I don’t know that I have any helpful advice. Have you talked to your parents about this? Would they feel comfortable talking to your neighbors? Best, Alyssa

[@deekshachadha5040]

@@legendsdogtraining hey:) I told my mom, she said she'll try talking to them on the weekend..will update then :D

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hey Deeksha, did your mom end up talking with your neighbor?

[@AllIsFiller]

My dog, when trying to be pet, usually goes down to the floor until you stop the petting. What does this mean?

[@legendsdogtraining]

It sounds like your dog might be nervous. One good test is to see what happens if you pet for 3-4 seconds, stop petting, and take 2-3 steps back. Does the dog follow, stay where they are, or walk away? If the dog stays where they’re at or walks away that’s a good sign that they want space. Some dogs will follow, but don’t necessarily want to be pet, they might just want to be in close proximity. How old is your dog? How long have you had him/her?

[@meelo4597]

My dog does this but when i call her she comes running to me like she is scared of something other than me. I know she shouldn’t be scared of me but theres nothing else she could be scared of, shes never been abused its almost like she is dramatic and picking up habits from my dogs who are actually scared of things that happened in the past.

[@legendsdogtraining]

MEELO925 Hi thanks for watching and taking the time to write in the comments. Whenever I’m unsure of what’s triggering a change in an individual dog’s behavior or body language I begin to keep a behavior log. A sheet on the refrigerator or a note book on the kitchen counter - dedicated solely to the dog. When the behavior occurs you can write down specifics about the dog’s behavior / body language, the date, time, location, and any smaller triggers that could be “stacking” and causing an accumulation of stress/anxiety for the dog. For example, construction on he street outside. the sound of the vacuum cleaner, the sound of the dishwasher, maybe the dog becomes stressed when you begin doing things they signal that you’re about to leave the house. By writing it down you’ll be able to become more objective about the behavior, and you might also have a better idea of how to help her become more relaxed in the presence of her triggers. Thanks again for watching and writing in. If you want to set up a time to do a phone consultation you can always go to my website and fill out an assessment form at legendsdogtraining.com - Alyssa Rose, CPDT

[@LVAngelradio]

My baby grrr has been acting really strange. I thought she was in pain bc she would screaming out when I touched her. She has been moving slow inside and out. Then all of a sudden she seemed perfectly fine at one point today. Been trying to get ahold of the vet for days but the front desk ladies are terrible. Now I don't know what to think.

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hey, thanks for watching. Physical and emotional signs of distress can be similar. But I f this is an extreme departure from normal behavior I would definitely assume that there is something physically bothering her. Check with your vet first. That being said, training is a great way to become more in tune with your dog. It can help build trust and communication to the point that you and your dog share a common language. It becomes easier to read and understand your dogs needs. If this appeals to you, check out my online classes. The Calm Connections class would be a good starting point. Go to www.legendsdogtraining.com

[@rossibelcardona2886]

My 1 year old German shepherd has been acting very strange the past 3 days. She is scared and starts shaking specially her back legs when she has to pass by certain spots in the house that she wouldn’t be scared before. As soon as she goes outside she acts normal...help I’m confused

[@legendsdogtraining]

rossibel cardona Hi, thanks for watching and taking the time to comment. Many dogs go through “sensitive periods” or “fear periods” as they move towards social maturity. It’s possible that this is what’s happening with your dog. A lot of times trying to make your dog “confront” their fear (ie coaxing dog to approach the thing that makes them fearful by using a ginger bread trail of food, or pulling them closer on a leash to “show” them that there’s nothing to be afraid of) makes it worse. It’s possible that this fear will pass if you give her a week or two. If you’re interested, I have an online course for behavior modification. If you want to check it out go to www.basetrainingmethod.com It’s a five week course that can help to address fearful, anxious, hyperactive or aggressive behavior. Feel free to connect with me on Facebook at Legends Dog Training and/or Base Training Method. Best, Alyssa Rose, CPDT-KA

[@krishnaveni-vi8we]

My puppy is 2moths it is not playing with us the puppy always sleeping it is playing with other what we must please tell any thing

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hi, Sorry for this delayed response. How is your puppy doing? Is your puppy becoming more out-going? Are you still seeing concerning behavior? Best, Alyssa Rose legendsdogtraining.com

[@Adam-vp4oe]

Anyone else yawn when dog yawn?

[@legendsdogtraining]

The empathy yawn test, you must be very empathetic. ;) thanks for watching and for taking the time to comment. Much appreciated. - Alyssa Rose www.legendsdogtraining.com

[@rednezzviolet4857]

My dog scared of darkness what I need to do

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hi! What is the context? Do you mean they are fearful on walks at night? Or in the home? Will your dog be fearful of the dark, even if you are present? Or is it only if you are leaving your dog alone? Any type of training that focuses on confidence building could be helpful. I have an online class starting soon that could be helpful. It's called Calm Connections. Here's my website if you want to check it out - www.legendsdogtraining.com Best, Alyssa Rose

[@brighteira231]

What happens if your dog starts bitting the air and starts growling and running around as if chasing air and seems... paranoid...?

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hi, do you see any other signs that your dog is fearful or anxious? How long has this been going on for? I would recommend having a vet check. If you think it is behavioral - I have an upcoming class that focuses on calming exercises. These exercises minimize stress and anxiety, and builds a stronger connection between dog and human. Here's my website: www.legendsdogtraining.com Best, Alyssa Rose.

[@moisty254]

Mine has absolutely no problems with humans but it's the other dogs she becomes fearful of, and dogs sense that fear and she starts getting picked on

[@legendsdogtraining]

I'm sorry to hear that. Is she routinely in situations with other dogs that she is fearful of?

[@MrStupidpuppy]

Just rescued a Chihuahua that every chance he gets he goes under the bed... But out of the house he's a wanderer...

[@MrStupidpuppy]

Her also gets very rigid when picked up... No growling or snapping... Super submissive

[@legendsdogtraining]

Poor thing! Do you know anything about the dog’s history? How long have you had the dog?

[@MrStupidpuppy]

Only know he was purchased by an older lady, then taken back by the breeder for breech of contract and sent to rescue... We got him on July 4th

[@mangjuan223]

Our dog became afraid.. Im not sure but after we asked someine to clean our air conditioning our dog is somewhat acting traumatized.. Perhaps he doesnt want strangers in the house or got stressed too much..

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hi, apologize for the delay in responding. Some dogs can be very fearful with unfamiliar people in the house. Let me know if you have any questions. I have an online class starting soon called "Calm Connections" that can help build trust and confidence for situations like this. Here's a link if you want to check it out: www.legendsdogtraining.com/live-classes/ Best, Alyssa Rose

[@alaynac1610]

my puppy has many of these signs so we bring her to a dog park and she’s getting friendlier to people

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hey! Thanks for watching! How old is your puppy? One thing to be aware of is that the social behavior you see at the park might not generalize well to other situations or environments. For example, your dog still might be fearful of people entering your home or if someone approaches her when you are out with her on leash. If I were to give one piece of advise it would be to make sure people give her space, avoid direct eye contact and direct body language. Essentially, you’ll be asking people to ignore her. This is important because it will give her the time to become comfortable with people without them forcing unwanted interactions and triggering fearful responses. It’s also the opposite of what most people will want to do. I’ll be posting a blog about this and other tips for fearful dogs in the next few weeks at www.legendsdogtraining.com

[@alaynac1610]

My puppy is 9-10 months old, and she still is scared of new people. But after seeing the same person for a while, she will act friendly to them. She plays with her sister a lot and it’s cute ❤️

[@legendsdogtraining]

[REDACTED] oh nice! best of luck with your puppies, and if you ever have any questions, let me know! - Alyssa Rose

[@alaynac1610]

In that case, I would like to ask a question: Do all dogs love tummy rubs? I put my hand on her tummy and immediately her hind leg shoots up like she wants it. But then when I start to rub her tummy, she stares at me and gulps. Does she like it or is she uncomfortable?

[@legendsdogtraining]

[REDACTED] great question! Puppies or adult dogs that roll on their back can do it because they enjoy tummy rubs, or because they are nervous and are offering an “appeasement” behavior. Essentially saying “I’m nervous, I need space.” One way to test this is to pet her for 3-5 seconds and then step away.... see if she follows you, stays where she is or moved back in your direction for more petting. If she’s nervous with unfamiliar people (or anyone she doesn’t know very well) I always recommend giving her space. Hope this helps. - Alyssa Rose

[@bsyo2665]

My pit bull is suddenly scared of me at night? I don’t understand why?? In the day he is supppeerrr needy.

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hey! Sorry for this delayed response. How old is your pit bull? It's also good to know that clingy behavior is sometimes a sign of stress/anxiety. If you would like more support in training I have a virtual Fearful Dog Class that might be a good fit for your pit. The class is one hour, meets once each week, for six weeks. And it takes place by Zoom. You can find it on my website www.legendsdogtraining.com Let me know if you have questions. Best, Alyssa Rose

[@tynelson7704]

i did the treat thing and my dog runs away from the treats and is scared to pick them up

[@legendsdogtraining]

Ty Nelson hey, thanks for watching and commenting. How old is your dog? What’s the breed? Have you had him/her since she was a puppy? If you have any interest in setting up a consultation you can go to www.legendsdogtraining.com and fill out an assessment form. I would love to help. Working through fear issues can be a process, be patient, and go at your dog’s pace. Thanks again for watching and writing in. Best, Alyssa Rose, CPDT-KA

[@SnowFoxParty]

My Maltese cowers behind me when around other dogs

[@alaeddinmsetri4788]

my dog becomes afraid of everyone at night and doesnt play or eat only at night he shows all the signs what should i do

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hey! Thanks for watching my video and taking the time to write in. First of all, know that management is key. Respect your dog's comfort level and minimize the amount that your dog is put into situations where he/she will go over-threshold. Second I would begin working on building confidence in easy situations first. That means - do training that your dog loves (it should be positive reinforcement based) during the day in your living room. Once the training is well established you can slowly begin integrating the training into situations that might trigger some stress/ fear/ anxiety. I have online classes that provide step by step training exercises that can help dogs work through these types of challenges. If you want to learn more, check out my online classes on my website: www.legendsdogtraining.com Thanks again for watching. Best, Alyssa Rose

[@thecrazybassman3102]

My sisters dog use to like me a lot when he small but it’s been a year her dog is afraid of me idk why

[@legendsdogtraining]

Hi! Sometimes dogs show what's called "appeasement behaviors" when they are young or when they are first introduced to a new situation. The dog might come across as being "excessively friendly" - lots of jumping, licking, rolling on their back. These are nervous behaviors that can come across as a dog being friendly, but the reality is that it is more like the dog is waving a white flag and saying "I won't hurt you, please don't hurt me." As the dog matures, or adjusts to their environment, the same stress responses can present differently - barking, backing away, cowering. The best thing is to be neutral, and patient. If a nervous dog jumps up on the couch next to me, or sits by my feet, I just let them be. The more neutral you are, the easier it is for the dog to develop trust. If your sister has any interest - I have online classes starting that go through foundation exercises that might help. If you're curious to learn more, here's a link to those classes: www.legendsdogtraining.com/live-classes/ I'm not currently offering the "Fearful Dog" class, but the "Calm Connections" class would be a good fit. Best, Alyssa Rose

[@luma9624]

My dog goes to the side like a cat, his ears go down. It’s anytime I pick him up or when I call him to come to bed.

[@forestdwellerresearch6593]

My Rottweiler once escaped my attention in the red light distict of Amsterdam. That had never happened so people were telling me...you need to sort ou your dog! He was in the egyptian snackbar. The guys there just tried to get rid of him by feeding him meat. One piece of meat after another...go away dog! Dog is just sitting there saying...give me more meat! I will be a good boy! When i picked him up the snackbar owners were like thank god! We just keep feeding him amd he won't go away! Please just take him away...get him the fuck away. Here have some meat to go for free.

[@legendsdogtraining]

That’s hilarious. He sounds like a smart dog, making the most of his time. I had a Golden retriever that would routinely make his way to the nearest mini grocer because he knew they always gave him slices of Turkey meat. Whenever he got out, we knew exactly where to find him.

[@forestdwellerresearch6593]

@@legendsdogtraining Sounds like your dog got out a lot. I made a deal witth the animal shelter. Never let him out of my sight. Traffic is a nightmare here. If i let my dog loose accidents would happen. It is my responsibility to prevent that. So he walks on the leash always. I see people who don't have that control. Their dogs are perfectly trained so they let them run loose and expect it to be fine. No responsibility...one loud noise or a cat can mess that up and cause an accident. I keep two hands firmly on the leash all the time. Better be safe than sorry.

[@legendsdogtraining]

@@forestdwellerresearch6593 I could not agree more. This golden retriever was our family dog when I was growing up and one of the reasons became a trainer. This dog was the sweetest dog you could ever ask for, but his life would have been much fuller if I knew then what I know today. He had no recall, and he jumped on everyone. As a result, he spent a lot of time confined to a separate area of the house. We also took too many unnecessary chances having him off leash in areas. When you know better, you do better.

[@forestdwellerresearch6593]

@@legendsdogtraining Responsibilty. You can't expect a dog to handle traffic no more than a little kid. Actually...little kids were dying here getting run over by cars. I phoned up the council and they were like...but there is a crossing for them there! No there was not. They just had that in their computers. Not a single child has been run over ever since. Hindsight is wonderful is it not? I been called the dog man, the dog expert and so on. I'm like yeah yeah right whatever...you need to watch out and be responsible. You need discipline.

[@maulanwong3841]

Sometimes even if my dog isn't scared she still tucks her tail in between her legs

[@legendsdogtraining]

Maulan Wong Hi Maulan! Thanks for taking the time to write in. What breed of dog do you have? Some sight hounds, like whippets or greyhounds can carry their tails lower in a a tucked position. Otherwise, I would say that stress (a dog that is in pain, feels sick, is experiencing generalized anxiety, or that is worried by the environment at large) can also result in a dog that tucks the tail. Thanks again for writing in. Best, Alyssa Rose, CPDT-KA legendsdogtraining.com

[@BK-pp6og]

my dog is always safe in my house and he nos that

[@legendsdogtraining]

BK0808 that’s great, so important to establish that sense of safety in home. It makes it easier to expand and help dogs feel safe in novel environments, or with novel activities.

[@fxstdribbler6427]

Same but more in a cage