FINALLY FOUND LOVE AFTER BEING ABUSED AND ABANDONED AS A CHILD

[@adebolaakinwale3510]

The fact that her husband didn't take advantage of her, because of the type of father she has, is another victory on it's own.

[@adeolaoke4165]

@@adebolaakinwale3510 True, usually it goes on and on because of the low self esteem, the person tends to marry wrong etc. In fact it’s the major victory. The grandfather’s protective function cannot be overemphasised it mitigated the effect of the trauma to an extent. Some pple had no one at all…..

[@libeige9022]

So true!!!

[@joyceeniayeye]

This is very true, God bless him

[@user-fr3li7rk2p]

Fact. She is blessed.

[@Cee_tee1]

Lord you didn’t bless me with a father figure that stayed💔pls give me a loving husband who will stay and live long🙏

[@azeeztaiwo34]

My prayers too ❤

[@idoghosylvester3590]

Amen

[@maryamnuhuusman7299]

Amen to Us both sisterly

[@maryamnuhuusman7299]

Amen to Us both sisterly

[@carolynsolanke6426]

Amen!!!

[@vanessawellington7269]

May God heal everyone who experienced one form of trauma while growing up.

[@faithyyyMoreroa]

🥺🤍 Amen.

[@mosesjenni]

Amen

[@beckyidowu173]

Pastor Kayode Elebiyo is my father and my Pastor when he act as a father to you, forget it, he will do his fatherly duty with all his heart and that includes scolding. He doesn't let go of anyone he takes as his own.

[@maryamnuhuusman7299]

I love the fact that she is sooo relaxed and talks comfortably. It only means she is really healed. Praise God

[@charityarhinquaye6547]

Are you me? I've really suffered similar version. Don't know how to maintain friends, don't know how to deal with people, a whole lot of shameful secretes and no one to talk to.....😭. God be my helper🤲

[@mathew6vs33]

All is well , all will be well , we are all in this together. God is more than capable, sis, u are loved and a blessing madam God be praised always

[@kemegloria4470]

Just rely on he,am always available to be your friend

[@hellenajayi9567]

Am here for you sis, it’s well for you ijmn❤❤❤

[@favouredvessels]

When someone just seats and talk about most part of your life story. Thank God for healing process. Thank God for SLC

[@constancealaka]

Childhood trauma is real. When it comes from your beloved, it lives scars that takes only God’s mercy and grace to be healed. This season is our season of Therapy, I can’t wait to soak in all that God has in store for me. Thank you Apostle for the STORIES, they have been a blessing to me.

[@chayilsmoments1384]

Pastor Kayode ELEBIYO is a great man of God , proudly my father , selfless and He is always there for us all .

[@oluwaseunaleriwa7486]

Daddy (Pst. J.K. Elebiyo) is not just a pastor; he is truly a father in every sense! With great glory often come battles, but when you have a father who, with God’s instructions, stands by you, never giving up, even when humanly speaking one might be tempted to rest-he pushes on because God promises He will do it or He has done it! Hmm! Daddy, God’s servant will be there until you are 100% victorious and free! We thank God that he answered the call! All glory to God🙌

[@edehjanet8204]

My Dad was super protective,won't even let my brothers friends talk to me,bought my first pad and pants 😂. Daddy I love you. Keep resting in God's bossom.

[@comfortmoses625]

God this woman just narrate the story of my life in one video 😭😭😭😭 God bless my grandmother. So many things to say but not even one person that will understand how I feel

[@Cee_tee1]

As a girl who lost her dad at 7😢 he used to love me so much that I wanted that love so much from the one I could shear that love with😭and when they decide to leave it’s as if my life has come to an end💔 Apostle I bless the day I came across your page, your teachings have been doing so much in my life

[@rebeccalukusa3538]

You are not alone sis 😢 The way I cried while watching this is ah I related to almost everything she said May God bless A.Femi lazarus for allowing God to use his platform to heal us ❤

[@Cee_tee1]

@@rebeccalukusa3538 we will overcome my love🙏🥰

[@ChristianahOmolara-s8r]

Pastor Kayode Elebiyo is a father ❤❤ Thank you for everything you do sir, God will continue to bless 🙏 and strengthen you Sir

[@OladejiAmos]

Apostle Femi, when will you be interviewed for your own story😢☹️

[@gistwithjimmie3331]

Pastor I really need to talk to someone about my hurt

[@princesskatumba6184]

May you receive grace from sharing such a sensitive story

[@youngwomenforjesus]

I have had similar experiences with her when it comes to her experiences with her father. My father left when I was two years old, and it took 18 years before I saw him again. At that time, I was already married. My father was never present when I was at his house. Many people will not understand the loss of a father in a girl's life, but we thank God for his grace. God, my Father, filled that void and gave me a husband after his own heart. God is always faithful.

[@beulahspeaks]

It takes God’s grace not to be loose. I can testify to that Ma.

[@realfatmanan]

Wow!!! sometimes we can be in our bubble and not realize that life hits people differently, what a strong woman, God bless you Ma'am

[@oluwafemiajisafe1520]

Pastor Kayode Elebiyo of Word Chambers Church International is a father indeed 💯

[@jenniferalexander2288]

Sir, Have you seen the second episode?

[@oluwafemiajisafe1520]

@@jenniferalexander2288 I will

[@oluwaseunaleriwa7486]

💯 Our daddy! Our daddy! God bless and keep upholding him!

[@beckyidowu173]

@@jenniferalexander2288everyone have seen it ❤

[@thulanimlauzi]

24:51 literally crying ,this is more than an interview , it's her pouring it all out and us just giving a listening ear and understanding❤may God heal you completely Thank you PS femi

[@Cee_tee1]

We never really get over childhood trauma💔for some reasons it just appears on our faces

[@mmesomaruth1465]

When u think you have gone through alot, and boom, u hear what another person has been through, then you will thank God, that u didn't really go through alot😢 because what are my hearing!!! someone went through all of this and still standing, God is Good.

[@Sweetmusu]

Thank you for telling your story. People will never believe you and will never understand it. If you don’t go through it you will never understand, I don’t care what people or your therapist says your trauma would never goes away.

[@nomakhosikheswa5176]

Please share the sermon that brought about the change.

[@Ladyromford]

He has a series on church hurt and trauma pls search it

[@Cee_tee1]

Omo this just brought me back to all the trauma’s 😭Don’t think I will ever be able to tell anyone even my mother😣

[@Gennivaa]

I understand you, me too

[@beulahspeaks]

This woman oh. I feel you too much. You are speaking my pain.

[@sochiwisdom2898]

This womans story is exactly my story, both family n social wise. Pastor femi Lazarus i wish to speak to u, ur messages always inspire me

[@beulahspeaks]

This woman oh. You are touching matters!!!

[@efegbemre5306]

She is blessed ..... she won by marrying a kind man. I pray that breaks any more generational trauma

[@princess9854]

😢 This is making me realize, I'm not alone 😢 I'm completing this year from uni, and I have just a friend or 2. Childhood trauma😢

[@nanyafoodiesncakes6941]

She even know her papa, you de lucky wella, if not my mother’s family I don't know where I would have been today. I thank God for God’s grace and the salvation of my soul.

[@viviananyaso4319]

This is similar to my story 😭😭😭. Till today my life has been greatly affected by my childhood experience. I wish all pastors will understand the topic of love and compassion as Jesus showed us. And stop being overly judgemental when they hear the mistakes you have made.

[@Maamefrimpomaa_6]

May the Almighty God bring you healing. Sending you love ❤️

[@gloriaibrahim2794]

God bless you ma for sharing. Thank you for your vulnerability and honesty. Apostle, I'm grateful to God for this emotional intelligence you have and your empathy in this regard, honestly its rare. Apostle please invite someone to talk about Stockholm syndrome in relation to SA whether as a child or an adult, please talk about the mental struggles and effects of SA and how the trauma leads to medical conditions like high blood pressure, binge eating disorder leading to obesity, non epileptic seizures, suicidal thoughts etc and how to truly heal. Hope you see this sir.

[@MsCee612]

Childhood trauma has broken a lot of us 😢. May we all find the healing we all need in Jesus name, amen.

[@ojuolapengbede-shaibu9105]

Amen. You are right

[@OlayinkaGodwins]

Amen.😢😢

[@gbemmieajayi9718]

She’s so well spoken, so grateful to God for her life. God is indeed the giver of all good things

[@MissLia.]

You can actually be in a dysfunctional nuclear family unit where father and mother are present. There is so much to unpack in this tell all interview. Childhood and family traumas are real and it is more likely to find unhealthy, dysfunctional families than healthy families in this world. When she talked about her relationship with her dad, it hit home hard for me and mine even worse was living in the same house with my dad with zero love, communication and connection. May God heal our brokenness

[@redlove-x9e]

She is basically telling my life story especially the secondary school part. Infact, she is luckier. I live with adopted parents who dont know how to connect at all. I just came out of chronic addiction and isolation syndrome. She is right that women like this tend to be loose. If not for trauma, I would have been also.

[@Rachel5643]

Mummy! Thank you soooo much and May the Lord bless the works of hands and your household! The Lord Jesus will be your strength and refugee, in Jesus Name!

[@EstherChidera-es9wv]

Thank you Jesus for healing your daughter

[@theidundunibukun]

Hmmmm, thank you for sharing your story. I have an almost similar experience, suffered seriously from low self-esteem, like Apostle said, you feel people loving you are doing you a favour... hmmmmm, I am grateful for growth I am grateful for the house God planted me. Sphere of Light Church Global

[@EstherChidera-es9wv]

I can relate but thank you Jesus for your healing

[@kachikachi118]

Praise God 😊

[@nanyafoodiesncakes6941]

One day by God’s grace I will be able to share my testimony and life history fully. God is good all the time

[@libeige9022]

God bless you for you this series Apostle!

[@rydspace9460]

Her grandpa was my grandma 😭 thank God she is still alive! May God continually keep you in good health

[@SHINELORA]

Thank you Jesus

[@oladeleabisola1629]

God please help me I pray one day I will be able to put into words what I have been through in life

[@miraclechijindu5255]

God help me, I want to have similar testimony. I tell myself I am ok but...

[@ebelekaine7673]

In this part of the world we don't talk about abuse. We cover our iniquity. Good thing we about it now..

[@yongojennifer2117]

Ahhhh. This hits differently. I hope I'd one day talk about my trauma. Just realised i still have to forgive.

[@Phumzy280]

This is why I don't allow male family members from my side and husband side to stay in my house, especially because of my daughter. Whoever want to assault my daughter must first kpai my enemy because, as a mother, I made sure it didn't happen and by God's grace will never happen. May God have mercy on all evil cousins, uncles, brothers and even fathers who have assaulted a female family member.

[@abenaagyeiwaaacquah7671]

Even male house helps

[@joyokebugwu9554]

Away from the interview, Abia people, especially Umuahia people, are good people.

[@sirriroseline8608]

Thank you sir for this different story be is heal us this woman story is just like my but different is just l have a child out of wedlock

[@Relaxation_Music23]

Listening to this story made me cried literally, bcos I am also going through some hurt...I get angry easily, I have zero emotions, mean I know something is wrong with me emotionally but I'm yet to understand why, I still don't know the cause.

[@ChristelleinesDangaaloleko]

Whaooo . Just want to be happy. One man to love me. Not every one understands this part. We all come from a different background with painful experiences. Most times we try explaining but no one get it.

[@joytamar9675]

I wish to be whole too Lord😢

[@evidencekufakwemba1137]

Hi there. Can someone help me to locate that sermon, l would love to hear it for myself please.

[@ZoeyBe]

People have been and are going through things 😢😢😢 I didn't see normal families till I got to secondary school outside ..it's strange how dysfunctional families are but look normal outside

[@olayinkaadebayo6590]

Why is she talking about me 😢 Goodnesses

[@jenniferalexander2288]

You will heal

[@abenaagyeiwaaacquah7671]

Yes oo I am here in tears because I feel this is my story

[@sarahnafula2955]

Child trauma is so real. May God heal our hearts. Fatherly love is important. I pray that my kids will experience it since i didn't.

[@adeolaolatunji862]

Lord help me to be able to tell my story one day,😭😭🙉

[@TheRefinersVesselsNetwork]

❤❤❤❤❤🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂

[@Mandieyy]

Unfortunately, this is a very common occurrence, and children don't know what's going on until they are much older. Or even if they know, they don't know how to speak about it, or even if they do, they are shut down and not believed. Parents please listen to your children, a child doesnt make such things up.

[@estherjohn001]

Thank God for healing🥺❤️

[@lillianeberechukwu282]

I tried all i could but it ended regardless i feel God will heal me better.

[@joyouscharity]

Pastor lazuras I understand what this woman is talking about. People may not understand but I do. Is a psychological issues. Even if you wanted to share your pain to someone that thing within will held you back , because when you remember the hurt of the past, you will always feel hurt

[@CollinsChimenem]

Thank you Apostle sir and thank you madam for sharing your story. Sooo...how do we restore broken parents and child relationship?

[@Mrs_A_talks]

Do we ever fully recover from childhood trauma 😢

[@OgechukwuUmeji]

Do we?

[@tinaocheni2684]

It's almost impossible

[@favouredvessels]

Do we ever? Same question in my head

[@Mrs_A_talks]

I’m really believing God for total healing and restoration

[@adejayandorcas8920]

Yes, healing is possible with Christ. Don't give up. I pray God heals your heart ❤

[@ighojoan3384]

This is the same way am feeling 😢

[@EmmanuellaWuese]

I wish I can tell my story 😢😢😢am really hurt and it's affecting me badly

[@Gennivaa]

I don't want to talk about my own, family go break oooo, so my own revenge is to make sure it doesn't happen to my love ones or anyone around me.

[@TheRefinersVesselsNetwork]

😢😢😢❤❤❤

[@UchennaFavour-l2y]

It is well 😔 💔 I pray we all heal.

[@EuniceAbah-o2z]

May asotele The day I joined 😊

[@andinmelani3656]

God please heal us completely 🙏

[@joyouscharity]

Chia, this is my story, am still in it but am coming out soon

[@GiftofGod5]

I THINK IT IS WRONG TO SAY GIRL'S WHO DO NOT HAVE A FATHER FIGURE INTEND TO BE LOSS. GROWING UP, I HAD NO FATHER FIGURE AND I WAS NEVER LOSS. I WAS RAISED BY A SINGLE MOTHER WHO THAUGHT, "I AND MY SIBLINGS SEX EDUCATION AND TO STAY AWAY FROM BOYS OR MEN. THAT WITH AT THE RIGHT TIME,& AGE THE RIGHT MAN WILL COME FOR US. MY MOTHER THAUGHT US TO LOVE GOD, LIMIT HAVING TOO MANY FRIENDS AND FACE OUR STUDIES. I KNOW COUPLE GIRL'S WITHOUT A FATHER FIGURED THAT ARE WELL BEHAVE AND NOT LOSE. EVERYBODY STORIES COMES WITH DIFFERENT EXPERIENCES. THANK. YOU SIR AND THE BEAUTIFUL WOMAN WHO SHARED HER STORY. 🎉

[@enny34]

Your Mom put your foot on the path of God... He said it takes the Grace of God, don't you think you enjoyed that Grace that he talked about? Imagine, your Mom didn't put you in the right path?

[@oluwabankeoketoyin8460]

I think you should read that phrase or sentence again .... They tend to be loose . doesn't mean there can't be an exception , you are the exception and note the point of 'it takes grace not to be loose'.... The statement is reasonable... Thanks

[@idaworjoy8060]

@@GiftofGod5 Typing in caps locks means you're shouting. Calm down sis. Ladies raised by single mothers tend to be loose. The statistics are there. You can Google it. And why do ladies raised by single moms get triggered anytime anyone mentions this?

[@TheRefinersVesselsNetwork]

Thank God for you, but don't be tempted to generalise this your thought... Don't give formula for what mercy did for you. A lot of young girls would do better should there be a good model of who a man should be like a Father figure. Single parenting is never advised. Say it any how, but two are better than one. There is a level of reverence children show to the mom, but on another level to the Father. When Mom and Dad speak on a matter, it has more weight. Saying more would make me begin to cry. Just maybe, I'd do better if my so-called father had not rejected me at birth. I hope to share my story someday, if Jesus tarries, I just hope I can bring myself to do so because, ha!!!!😢😢😢😢

[@gloryothaniel]

"Tend to be loose " meaning it's under probability, and it takes the grace of God. U are a product of God's Grace

[@alfaempire4856]

😢this my story but my is a bit different because am a single mum and an orphan 😢😢😢. I wish to share my story one day😢😢😢

[@amandaevi2531]

This is my situation, I don't even know if I have really completely heal

[@momohelias]

People really went through alot.. we plenty

[@praiseokeke9126]

When Apst Femi Lazarus said he yearned to teach what people would relate to, due to his experience. I always rush to Apst Femi’s page whenever I'm looking for a solution. Thank you, Sir!

[@sirriroseline8608]

This story just touch me 😭😭😭💔💔💔

[@jaybarryblessedchild7]

Hallelujah 🙌 🙌 🙌 🙌 🙌

[@ugochinwosu8299]

That series on Truama right, it brought me healing.

[@princess9854]

Going to look for it now

[@agbeke-akewi11]

@femi lazarus(Apostle) please how can i get to share my story

[@jennifernwachukwu5210]

Why does it feel as though she’s telling my story😭😭😭 what kind of coincidence is this? We both bear the name Jennifer!

[@tachiemary5789]

This broken me😢😢

[@Thejanedavies]

Almost the story of my life hmmm so similar

[@callingcareer3522]

Help us Lord.

[@olayinkaadebayo6590]

i am tired seriously. i need to take a break here 😢.I NEED HEALING.

[@jenniferalexander2288]

Give yourself time. Work on yourself. Pray to God for healing

[@jonathanchiemerie7768]

My story is very similar and I’m still suffering the trauma

[@nazfav2757]

Childhood trauma never leaves you😭

[@maapat1431]

Take it to the Lord in prayer ❤

[@karinatecyril467]

This feels like she's telling my story 😢

[@elaigwusandra8051]

My sister at least you had papa. God is good.

[@jenniferalexander2288]

Oh yes!!!

[@adeolaoke4165]

It happened to me…

[@OlayinkaGodwins]

You cant talk to anyone bkos mama papa self will cover your mouth Say abeg no tell any one oo

[@Joy-g7n]

Thank God for healing

[@oyinelbeeogunleye3685]

Why are fathers like this though? At least she saw hers twice or thrice

[@DocKateTV]

"restoration" of relationship. Can never happen Where is Africa going All this real life story is real Alot of us have these pain and hurt and in us

[@theidundunibukun]

I cried seriously watching this. Thank you Again Ma, for sharing your story. I am grateful because a lot of my sisters, mothers and teenagers currently in this that we cant reach personally, will be reached through this video.. God blesssssss you immensely I love you very much ❤