Feminism: The Worst Thing to Ever Happen to Modern Women? | Louise Perry EP 19

Tammy speaks with Louise Perry on the subject of her new book, The Case Against the Sexual Revolution. The conversation ranges in topics such as, what agitates rape, Marilyn Monroe and legal consent, how the pill changed the sexual culture, and much more.
Louise is a writer, journalist, and a campaigner based in London. In 2022 she co-founded a non-partisan feminist think tank called The Other Half, where she serves as Research Director. She's the author of the debut book, "The Case Against the Sexual Revolution: A New Guide to Sex in the 21st Century," which was released in the U.S. in August 2022.
Find more from Louise:
The Case Against the Sexual Revolution: a.co/d/0yL3SKu
Website: www.louisemperry.co.uk/
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- Chapters -
[00:00] - Intro
[02:31] - Why Did You Write the Book?
[08:26] - Youth as the Agitator of Rape
[12:12] - On Victims & Victimhood
[16:22] - Marilyn Monroe and Legal Consent
[28:08] - Factors of Sexual Vulnerability
[29:23] - Status & Status Signaling among Women
[38:22] - The Pros & Cons of Homosocial Groups
[46:23] - The Most Common Type of Rape
[47:52] - How the Pill Changed the Sexual Culture
[59:05] - Kids Break the Hedonic Treadmill
[01:01:38] - Alcohol Induced Vulnerability
[01:05:42] - The Upper-hand of Biology

[@user-nq8nw7nv6k]

Conversations like this are not blaming the victim- it’s teaching young women like me how to avoid becoming one. Thank you for this conversation

[@TammyPetersonPodcast]

Thank you for your comment and encouragement

[@raquelstolze104]

​@@TammyPetersonPodcast😊.

[@christelle9122]

When I was 18, I studied at a sewing school for three years. We were only women and these were three very precious years of my life. We laughed so much and had a great time together. We spent our days sewing and speaking. This moment of my life taught me that women were individuals and that they were all very interesting in their own way. It still is one of my most valuable lessons. This summer I went to Verona in Italy and stayed at a female-only hostel. I could really feel this mother-like energy from the tenants and the women living there. I felt at peace and so secure. I would have been really disturbed if a non-female would have been there. Women-only spaces are essential for the well-being of women. We are more prone to negative emotions and need these spaces where we can just be without having to protect ourselves one way or another. I loved this conservation. I hope many young women will benefit from it.

[@TammyPetersonPodcast]

Thanks for your comment. I also worked in a women only situation and had a good time and built long friendships. Men also need these male only spaces. I think separating boys and girls in school is also for the best, there is less distraction from their studies.

[@anthonycho6344]

Thank you for sharing this.

[@MaciusSzwed]

You have been utterly brainwashed, women have much more negative energy than men but you probably cant feel it or see it. Men are not the enemy to women, its usually the other way around since women have been brainwashed with the "feminist" ideology which leaves nothing but death and destruction in its tracks...

[@TammyPetersonPodcast]

@@MaciusSzwed women suffer with more depression and anxiety than men on average and I fully agree with your comment

[@MaciusSzwed]

@@TammyPetersonPodcast Men and women suffer both a great deal in this inequality/gender war, there are no winners here and thats the way the whole thing was designed! Its meant to destroy the family unit completely

[@anarchist_parable]

I'm nearly 32 pregnant with my second child only three years apart and I've lived an interesting series of lives by now. Until having my son I was a chef which is demanding and competitive. I wasn't really interested in having children until something like 25 when I became more open to it but I always had a time limit on it. I happened to meet my husband and build my family before my window closed and it's been incredibly nourishing for me. What I see amongst my peers is a lot of sad women who felt like they'd were pushed to choose. Successful professionals who sidelined making a family and now even with technologies at their disposal, aren't able to make it happen. The truth is still that most people, women and men included, still want kids and our society and cultural values have them postponing it until it's not reasonable anymore. Even a lot of men who sleep around expect to find someone to settle with at some point but without focusing on that, you won't. There are a lot of sad, lonely people stumbling through their forties in our society right now. Thank you for acknowledging that stats on family decline don't necessarily represent happy people making choices.

[@franmorrison1080]

Sold a bill of goods: "you've come a long way, baby"

[@klarafuchs1372]

I absolutely loved this conversation. Tammy is a fantastic interviewer. She asks difficult questions while simultaneously exuding perfect calm and charity. What a skill! Very graceful!

[@AFringedGentian]

I have never clicked on a podcast so fast. Thank you so much, Tammy and Louise, for everything you do. Your work is so appreciated and we love you both so much. God bless!

[@SpankyPUA]

Every time Louise is on a new podcast, I can't click fast enough. This woman found the answer and explains it in a way women, feminists or at least those brainwashed with modern feminism, will actually listen to her and strive for a change. Feminists may never listen to a man explaining the problems with their ideologies but Louise presents it in a very calm and well articulated manner that it comes across to liberal women also. Modern Feminism really made everyone suffer and lose, both men and women. There is still hope and there is a shift changing in the sexual/social norm.

[@aservantinbabylon]

It's all feminism, not just modern feminism. Listen to Janice Fiamengo if you haven't already, Tammy has had her on at least twice, and she has been an anti feminist activist for about 10 years, producing dozens of very well made videos. It is very crucial, I'm making videos on the matter right now, that all of feminism is understood for what it was......as Janice says, a hate movement from the beginning. Everything that was painted as exemplary of "female oppression" in the pre modern era all have perfectly reasonable explanations for the time as being common sensical for the organization of society, not oppression out of bigotry. Such things as women not being able to vote are mentioned completely without the context that at the same time either most or massive proportions of men didn't have the vote either, and in order to get it, they had to be property owners and pay poll taxes, pass literacy tests and eventually even register for selective service, with millions of them being sent off to war. This was not the case for women in the least. Just one example of many. Why is this important? Because I have come to realize that close to 100 percent of people today, and I was included as well until I came to this realization, concede that feminism was a righteous, needed movement to win the emancipation of women from historical oppression until it became "toxic" in the last few decades. As such they are conceding that men were brutal oppressors in all of history and only ceased to be since maybe the 1960s when women finally, after decades of literally struggle, were able to "fight them off". In other words, if men were brutal oppressors for 1000s of years of history (and make not doubt, that is the feminist position, whether one is aware of it or not, read the declaration of sentiments of 1848) until about 50 years ago when women MADE THEM STOP, the men didn't "come to their senses" on their own, it was a fight from oppression, or so goes the narrative, how could you conclude that men are anything but demonic beings? And if one were to suggest that perhaps we return to some semblance of a traditional family structure and or marriage (which we know works by far the best for society, couples, and children), why would anyone even entertain listening to returning to the structure that the "brutal men" imposed upon women for thousands of years? I sure wouldn't. If we can't establish the truth, and have no doubt, it is the truth, that there was no systematic oppression of women by men for all of history, in fact, men have been much more brutally oppressed by other men and exploited, and at times, even by women, the conversation will go nowhere. Not in today's culture where almost everyone, even those like you that are pushing back against "modern feminism", are completely convinced that 98% of history has been a stream of abuse and exploitation of women by men. Not only that, but millions of men worked themselves to early graves selflessly providing for their wives and children and even gave up their lives since time began. No, I'm not saying that it was only men that suffered....everyone suffered, but men's sacrifices and suffering have now largely been completely discounted from the narrative and instead replaced with "white privilege" and all kinds of other cartoonish, childish nonsense.

[@rathelmmc3194]

@@aservantinbabylon I think Janice is great too, but the way Louise approaches the topic is far harder hitting in my opinion. At the end of the day most people want fulfilling relationships and families. Louise drills straight to that point and explains why we're having a harder time doing that.

[@btb554]

​@@aservantinbabylon if not feminism, what do I've to thank for the rights I now have as a women. Until my mom's generation women were not allowed higher education, even in well off families and was married at an early age, in most cases without their consent. Atleast from where I'm.

[@grannyannie2948]

​@@aservantinbabylonThankyou for the recommendation, I'm a first time listener. I very much like your comment, and I agree. My whole life I've been fascinated by history and after over forty years of reading the actual diaries and letters of men and women living in England from 1500 onwards, and my own country which was settled by the British in 1788, I have been asking myself when was this mythical period when men oppressed women? I simply can't find it in the last 500 years. Even in the Middle Ages in private letters husbands saw a wife facing childbirth in the same way they saw men risking their lives in war.

[@grannyannie2948]

​@@btb554What country is that ? As I explain above I cannot find this mythical time. Forcing people to marry has been outlawed by the Christian church for a thousand years. Individual cases of bad families abuse happened but it applied to boys as well. And what did it matter about higher education? Girls and women had their own schools and intellectual pursuits. Once women wanted to enter universities, it was only a short period until they were accomadated. And how could a working class boy receive higher learning? Upper class women were going to university before working class men in most cases.

[@Leo-mr1qz]

I had to take a Music class in college as part of the Liberal Studies curriculum. It was a night class, my Senior year, and I was really over the college scene. I did the work, but showed up intermittently. I had taken the final late because I had a job and couldn't drive the 45 minutes to the university to take it on time. I aced the final, but due to my attendance he had the power to knock my grade down. He said, "if you go out to dinner with me, then I'll give you the "A" instead of the "B." I had been r@ped and tortured that previous year by a college football player, the last thing I wanted to do was be in an intimate situation with a narcissist pr!ck. I told him that I'll take the "B." He was astonished that I turned him down. I remember the look on his controlling face, to this day, 27 years later. I'm in no way a feminist. Although, when I was a younger women, it was astonishing how much "power" older men precieved to have over younger women.

[@voyd1507]

I know it has been 27 years ago. But good on you girl.

[@aservantinbabylon]

I'm calling bullshit. According to women today, 80% of men out there have been raping and torturing women every other weekend for decades now. And yet, the bars and frat parties are full every weekend as well with scantily clad women that get blackout drunk......in supposedly such dangerous environments full of predators. Dating apps are full of millions of women serial dating and hooking up every week with someone. So either women on the whole are the dumbest creatures that ever lived, which is nonsense of course, or it is all cap. Cried wolf too many times. Tired of these stupid ass stories and no one has the balls to call these lying hags out. And yes, you are a hard core feminist. Quit lying.

[@aservantinbabylon]

@@btb554 Your statement has nothing to do with anything about the topic of the thread. Who is talking about the percentage of people on dating apps?

[@btb554]

@@aservantinbabylon I think I replied in the wrong thread. I'll delete it.

[@OscarLimaMike]

Tami, I can see why Jordan loves you. You are a solid wise and thoughtful woman. Very impressive.

[@CatchupWilliams]

Tammy, you're the best kept secret! Jordan is great for me as a man, but your episodes give me a great view on women and help balance so much of what I had heard from many feminists. Thanks!

[@QLaHa]

What a wonderful talk. I am a Muslima living in Germany. My religion taught me my worth as a woman and to protect myself regarding men. Whereas society, school, advertisements etc.) wanted to educate me to become free/ free myself. It never felt right. I stayed strong! I still get criticized for being conservative, but I am loving it. Because it feels like nobody can harm me because I am relaying on my religion.

[@user-pc8ee8sx7v]

Speaking about single sex spaces.....I taught team gymnastics at a high level for many years. There was the boys team and the girls team. Both teams were relaxed and were able to focus when separated. Whenever they came together, be it in passing or for social events in the gym, there was still fun but also visible added tension. Competition between teammates for attention by the opposition sex was obvious. Then new rivalries among team members cropped up as well. It was interesting to watch.

[@TammyPetersonPodcast]

Thanks for your comment. That’s interesting

[@user-pc8ee8sx7v]

@@TammyPetersonPodcast thank you for your reply. I love that you engage with your audience. I found this whole conversation very interesting. Thank you for posting it.

[@user-jt3ze4lg8l]

​@@user-pc8ee8sx7vبالفعل اغلب مدارس الثانويه في العراق هي منفصله الاولاد لهم مدارس والبنات لهن مدارسهن هذا الشئ مهم للتنشئه والتركيز على الاهداف وليس الشكل الخارجي هو المهم بل الماده العلميه عند الكثير من الطلبه لا اقول ان الجميع سوف يبرع لكن بهذا الانفصال حللنا الكثير من مشاكل التنمر والعلاقات الغير مسؤوله

[@dawnmuir5052]

Such compassion, erudition and common sense, with two softly spoken, gentle women taking a courageous stand together on behalf of our beleagured femininity. Beautiful. Thank you.

[@Thegraylady]

I disagree with what she said about rape based on the insight given by serial rapists. If we are talking a college guy slipping something in a girl’s drink or statutory rape- yes, that seems likely to be about sex. Violent rape and/or murdering the victim is about rage and control (and it’s important to note most of these men were either in a relationship and/or had no trouble getting consensual sex). The sexual element is directly connected to those other emotions. I point this out because 1) it is backed up by actual criminal research 2) violent rape is NOT a normal male drive. It’s a twisted act that is continuously researched by criminal profilers, detectives, etc. Historically, rape has been used to demoralize in war (and is still done to this day). Again, there is a male pattern of aggression and hatred towards women that causes men to have a proclivity to rape, but it is NOT normal male behavior.

[@Thegraylady]

Resource: Cold case detective Ken Mains interviewing death row inmate kzbin.info/www/bejne/kHWtXopsg8iUg7M

[@AFringedGentian]

@@Thegraylady I agree with you, Jo, all my research agrees with yours.

[@Thegraylady]

@I Vega I think probably, yes. What I find concerning about the whole gender wars thing on the radical feminist side is that men all get painted with the same brush. Men are NOT all the same. There are abusive men with no empathy driven by a desire for control, and there are men with principles that they live out with kindness and generosity towards others (and of course varying degrees of these behaviors, other nuances, etc). I’m very concerned that toxic behavior that’s generally associated with men or the masculine is being conflated with masculinity in general, and that’s not only completely untrue, it’s dangerous to society. Let’s not, under any circumstances, normalize criminal/bad behavior as being somehow either inherently masculine or feminine. Are there patterns of bad behavior that are more often found in females? Yes. Same with men. But let’s not forget the simple fact that bad behavior is just bad behavior and should not be excused by society in any way. A man once implied that rape of women was part of the natural world, and I disagree. It’s used in tribal warfare as a means of CONTROL, but no society I’ve ever heard of condones it, and even animals seek to woo rather than force (I have livestock, and I’ve watched my big ram carefully and gently woo small ewes into consensual interest). Again, I feel it’s important to call bad behavior bad behavior and recognize that it isn’t “normal” or healthy in any way (I don’t think that is what she was trying to do in the video, I am just worried it was a little bit implied).

[@VedantFalcon]

Incredibly well thought out comment. I was going to ask how you then reconcile events like the Rape of Nanking, but you addressed that kind of tribal violence as well.

[@piomal2232]

Proclivity to rape is pretty normal male urge. Why we rarely act on that urge is knowledge of the retailation of other males. I’d like to point out that we have to protect family unit in society, because that is what trigger protector mode instead of predator mode in male mind.

[@peabodyjenkins9772]

I want to hear more about Tammy's experience of being a mother and being in charge of the home front. I feel as though intelligent women are being pushed to pursue careers and jobs and are deterred from having a family. Growing up, I viewed stay-at-home mothers as bland and thoughtless. I felt that it was beneath me. I now understand how difficult it is. It would be nice to have a take on this from an intelligent, thoughtful woman.

[@voyd1507]

There is a mother daughter interview between Tammy and Mihaela. Very warm and down to earth.

[@manfrombritain6816]

Let's be real... Many stay at home mothers ARE bland and thoughtless. But a lot of humans are in general. Most boomer wives were about keeping up with the joneses and they didn't have much else in their heads, and they became riled-up karens

[@TheAcad3mic]

Genuinely curious, but did it honestly not strike you as unbelievably sexist and denigrating towards women that THE most important role for the function of a healthy society was ceded to women for millennia -the creation and nurturing of the next generation- and then magically as capitalism is kicking off its decided that it's actually the least important role for society and what women need to do is become wage slaves?

[@maricamaas2326]

​​@@TheAcad3micAs highlighted in 'The Sexual Revolution: The Triumph of the State Upon the Ruins of the family'... Removing women from their homes provides direct access to and control over children; this besides for turning women into tax payers and/or making them dependant on the state instead of on individual men/ their husbands.

[@TGP109]

When the average life expectancy of a woman is around 85, it kind of behooves women to have a job/career at some point. You forget that society/families too often expected/put pressure on their children to marry and have children even if they didn't want them. It's also the repetitive nature of child rearing that makes it seem lifeless to many women.

[@ajisenramen888]

Feminism failed because we tried to use “Male advantage” Feminism must come from being female Female strengths and truth While also recognising there are male strengths and truths To be truly grounded in reality and by working together to make space for both Would be making life better for all

[@jennymcgowin9140]

What’s fascinating conversation! Tammy, you have really become excellent as an interviewer. I really enjoy all of your podcasts! I always look forward to seeing the next one . Thank you so much for sharing these important topics!❤️

[@otiliahusu5792]

This was so lovely! Thank you both. I just finished Louise’s book. Her insight and wisdom reminds me of King Solomon from the Bible. What she proposes, sexual self-preservation and valuing marriage, is God’s original perfect design from the beginning. It is true that no human has perfect self-insight. But God does as he created us and loves us. Thank you for writing a powerful book. And thank you Tammy for ending with an encouragement towards forgiveness of others and ourselves, lest we become bitter about past mistakes. I really enjoyed this!

[@TammyPetersonPodcast]

Thank you for your comment

[@ldevon2318]

I enjoyed this so much. Just listening to the ideas of both of these women is fantastic. I just want to ask them a ton of questions and sit and listen, regardless of if I agree exactly. Such a joy!

[@Jaa_morant]

thanks for the time stamps! Gonna explore more from you Tammy

[@auk7447]

This is so interesting. I'm a Catholic woman in my fifties, and as a young woman had very strict sense of how boys/ men ought to behave towards me through my teens and twenties. It did mean that I was a bit different to many if my peers and I wouldn't want to give such strict understanding to my daughter, however I suppose I always had a strong sense of my value as a woman independently from sex/ men. As well sex was always understood in relation to the possibility of pregnancy and so it always had a status that was serious / of gravity. I knew I would never have an abortion. It has struck me that in older societies and perhaps in some developing countries now, that nuns had freedom from becoming wives and mothers, but we're also protected (when communities were functional) from the vulnerability of abuse. Another thought is that recently we have had scandals in the UK in the navy where women soldiers have now come out as having suffered sexual assault. Of course this is a crime and undoubtedly wrong, but I also had an instinctive response that it was an inevitable outcome of putting young men and women in enclosed environments (boats and especially submarines): that this kind of outcome is going to be inevitable. There are many who would disagree and for good reason. I wonder is my instinct wrong... Can men and women learn to live in these close quarters with indoctrination (I don't mean this in a negative sense) in the importance of consent / abstenance whilst on duty. Finally What a lovely conversation. So nice to see two women in discourse.

[@janedoe3648]

I think the intermingling in the military makes the excess rates of sexual assault there inevitable, especially since you are talking about particularly red-blooded strong males who can easily overpower women etc. It's not an excuse to the men, it's just a reality of life.

[@saintejeannedarc9460]

There is always going to be sexual exploitation and assault between men and women. We used to minimize it by largely separating the sexes. Which didn't even need to be forced, there just wasn't indoctrination telling women they could do any man's job and pressuring them to go into male dominated jobs, or these jobs were rightly closed off to women. Women teachers and women bosses can exploit men and boys, and men, like in the priesthood can also exploit boys. In war, and military, sexual assaults happen from men on men, there is so much shame involved, that it largely a well kept secret. So it isn't just a co-ed problem, but that is the most likely scenario for it to happen.

[@Artek604]

How did I managed to miss JBP's better half's podcast?!? Following & looking forward to dive into the archive and new stuff. And Louise - and her podcast - is awesome, too!

[@noraanderson3503]

Lovely ladies 💗 Thank you for this conversation 🙏

[@derekbentley334]

I like the volume it lends itself to a better conversation

[@luthiengs]

48:10 I think the issue with the Pill is it removed women's ability to save face when they were saying no and make it about something OTHER than "how they felt about it", which can easily be misconstrued by the man into "how she feels about ME". Before the Pill, women could claim they'd love to have sex with a new guy they just started dating and saw potential for a relationship in, but "shucks I just don't want to get pregnant you know?" And he could readily understand that, and the budding relationship could continue to take its course and they could see how it worked out. Now that's taken away, and so then it just becomes "Well I guess she doesn't like me the way I thought she did, so I'll move on" and women lose opportunities to explore relationships they'd like to be in, all because now the Pill has roped women into a situation where they have to have sex as soon as the man is ready, not when the woman is ready. Which is why I think religion and morality was actually the friend of women-by having a religious code to point to she can say "Shucks, it won't let me", and it helps a woman to be able to maintain some boundaries around early sexual activity without the man taking it personal. He may still think its silly and unnecessary, but that reflects more on him than her. A decent man would understand that reasoning and go "Oh ok, I guess we have to wait a bit here. I'll wait and see what happens", instead of writing her off.

[@margaretmaeda2548]

I'm 72 and I needed to read the book more than fifty years ago!

[@debbiewood3819]

I so agree, Tammy.....thank you for this episode/video

[@CharistDragonsong]

Such a gentle, insightful and interesting conversation. Thank you!

[@JadesFitnessBucketList]

I love Louise Perry, i think she gives an articulate, insightful and studied opinion on the modern day issues of dating and relationships, however i must admit the title was quite misleading. Feminism enabled women to vote, fights for women to have autonomy over their bodies, financial freedom, amongst many other things. The negative impact of some aspects of the sexual revolution Louise talks about is not synonymous with the click-baity provocative title implying feminism is bad.

[@ghfudrs93uuu]

Feminism deliberately focus on the wrong things and spreads hate. A great example of that is the abortion debate. Men are VASTLY morem pro-choice than women, polls show around 15% more. The justificative from most of these men is "well, if women say they need this, they need this, so they should have it". Yet, how is the abortion debate set by feminists? "These men want to control our bodies, we must shame them, publicly attack and destroy them. Take away from them the most we can" This deliberate misdirect is hurting and alienating your biggest ally on this issue. This is because the debate itself is a misdirect. It's objective is not to promote pro-choice sentiment, but to create division. Other thing that simply appals me is to see how all the smart hard working women who do not buy into this crap are treatd by feminists. You'ra simply just a bunch of self-involved clowns.

[@jin8982]

Modern day feminism is bad, modern day feminism isn't about voting or bank accounts, it's something entirely different

[@KatAdVictoriam]

Wonderful conversation and I wish that I personally knew more women who were open minded to hearing this, it needs to be shared. It would be an even more fascinating thing to see you, Louise and Janice Fiamengo all together in a conversation. I appreciate all three of you ladies and your work.

[@user-rc9ju3qk7l]

Thank you Tammy!

[@elainelee4828]

I was going to make a recommendation of Louise to Dr Peterson’s interview. Thank you for having her on your channel. Both of you have soothing vocal quality.

[@user-pc8ee8sx7v]

This may be off topic, but I would appreciate a conversation about young women who accuse men of sexual indecency either falsely or grossly exaggerated to gain power and act as bullies and ruin his life. I work in the legal field, and depending on what state you're in, girls are always believed no matter how preposterous. I would like to see a conversation that ties in this phenomena with feminism.

[@TammyPetersonPodcast]

Thanks for your comment. That’s an important topic that Ib would definitely want to talk about. I’ll have to keep this in mind, which won’t be hard

[@NiniskoMueller]

Am 37, happily married, stepmother, no own children. I learned the painful way about the importance of personal boundaries. About the power of NO. About mindful self-protection. But I did. And thanks to teachers, such as nature, horses, disease, reflecting upon harsh lifes events... i continue to deepen my understanding for the topic of boundaries. Sexual behavior within a relationship, if not well-informed and healthily communicated, can easily be an act of a repetitive rape. And body speaks very clearly - recurring vaginal infections and mycosis are bodys cries for help.

[@lynncrf]

Can you explain further about what you mean about sex in a happy relationship and rape?

[@NiniskoMueller]

@@lynncrf sure. I can explain only what I experienced. Coming from a certain cultural background, where it is subliminaly understood that when you are in a relationship SEX is A DUTY of a good wife/partner. There is no thinking about "do i feel like", "am i in the mood", "am i emotionally ready" - none of that. And that is not healthy at all ! The body says NO for example by reccuring vaginal infections / yeast. One gynecologist I visited in Munich confirmed that hypothesis from her experience and also said, that women hate to hear that. They hate to hear that they might be participating in sex without really wanting to. The duty is carved deeply into their mindset and they would keep supressing and ignoring their own feelings and simply DO IT. And that is a form of self-rape. The woman forces herself to dutiful intercourse within a relationship. Night after night. For decades.

[@lynncrf]

@@NiniskoMueller Wow, that makes so much sense.

[@jackiebiggs7071]

After having practiced Karate for 17 years I will unreservedly endorse learning a martial art to women. Not only do you strengthen your body you also learn to face and assess physical conflict and also find your voice because of the kie (shout) used upon striking. I imagine in large cities you might have to sample a few to find the right fit as some clubs are very macho even for men.

[@daniella5884]

I loved this conversation ❤ and completely agree. Thank you. And Tammy I love your videos! Such a beautiful, feminine and needed voice to have out there. Breath of fresh air.

[@TammyPetersonPodcast]

Thank you for your comment

[@CatchupWilliams]

I was a journalist in Germany for 15 years. Would love to hear more about your friend in Berlin.

[@juliantn]

I had a funny experience similar to your hypothetical scenario. I volunteered to teach programming as part of a so called electives program for young teenagers at my local mixed sex elementary school. I was teaching about 10 boys (it was programming after all) and one day the kids who had chosen the media elective (all girls) came in to briefly interview us and take a picture for the school paper. Immediately what little order I had was lost. I wish I remembered whether we ever recovered. Anyway, I'm very interested in the mood of different podcasts and I love the calm sensible feeling I have here. I find the age difference helpful too.

[@balapalaida1437]

The thing Tammy mentioned about a girl coming into class and boys going into fantasy mode is absolutely true. As a former class boy can confirm.

[@TammyPetersonPodcast]

Thank you

[@ewitherell7205]

After listening to a lot of very separatist feminists and reading some of the writing from before and around the time I was born, I understand the need for another perspective. I appreciate this tremendously because I'm watching the new ideas unfold in utter horror. Suddenly no one is motivated by sex. I so understand the forced to be on you're own due to financial constraints and I look back seeing that so much of my life and other women's is likely more dependent upon security related to resources combined with vulnerability.

[@manfrombritain6816]

Male on male rape is mostly about power and is used to humiliate and punish

[@et1016]

Tammy, you are a beautiful soul. It’s so easy to understand why Jordan is so crazy about you. You are a gift to our world.

[@annabelnicholls]

This is a great discussion, thank you both. I would say that I would disagree that the single woman with no children is a foreign scenario. Of course, it is not something women wanted and there were far less of them and usually not through choice....but they were there, the spinsters and the old maids, often aunts or Godparents, littered throughout English literature and history and elsewhere in the world also. They were of course to be feared as something one did not want to become, but they were there. I am one. I would say I wouldn't have wanted it but maybe I chose it in some way. Certainly I would agree with almost all you both said. However, life doesn't always give us what we want and while it is important to try and achieve what we do want when young, it is also important to be able to deal with not getting it. Resilience is a real skill. One has to find purpose and meaning where there is seemingly none and extended family can be part of that.

[@timwo1f]

Very Good Video!

[@zandi3426]

This entire video makes a very good case for why feminism is needed. The fact that she acts as if the obsession with female virginity is a good thing is disgusting. Women being sexual is NOT masculine, it means women do not want to be repressed and held down by the barbaric idea of basing their own worth on virginity. This is conservative radical modesty culture that is ultimately disregarding to women’s personal sovereignty AND sexual sovereignty.

[@bethaniacounseling]

I wonder how much the pornography industry has influenced the narrative as a power rather than lust as a motivation for rape. It’s easier to place collective responsibility on men rather than financial and social controls on a lucrative pornography industry.

[@Kate-rv6kx]

Thank you for acknowledging that not all women who are childless and single and past their 20s chose this. I decided not to go to grad school because I wanted to stay home with my potential children. Now I have to cope with being family-less while being told it's my fault for being a feminist and putting my career first. I would love to hear any wisdom for women in this situation. There are a lot of us.

[@manfrombritain6816]

Depends how old you are but most men will bend over backwards for you if you are: not obese, are pleasant to be around, make his life easier not harder, show him appreciation and affection Its really very easy for women. Don't be a chore and don't be fat. Male expectations are very low. Problem is you most likely overlook many normal men who would be glad to have you

[@BarbaraMolin1]

I think a lecture series on how to marry successfully and hapily for life is on order.

[@BarbaraMolin1]

And to man frombritain, the same goes for the men: not fat. Most middle aged men are fat.

[@Joyloulou]

I think we will always need a form of Wisdom-Feminism. Every woman I know is eventually alone again after raising her kids and her meaning cannot only be in deference to her role as wife and mother. It is my experience that women WANT more than motherhood and “wife hood”. It reminds me of that period when Tammy Peterson finally asked herself WHY is she here? Is her meaning only in “helping” Dr. Peterson. No. She talks about that in many of her talks about him coming down to the office and asking her about something and her sending him away. Feminism helped up to a point but has morphed into something it was not meant to become. Wisdom Feminism points a woman towards developing HER OWN Calling (which CANNOT ONLY BE IN DEFERENCE TO HER HUSBAND AND KIDS SHE MUST HAVE SOMETHING OF HER OWN)instincts/ intuition.

[@scapps8173]

The headline is correct. Listening now. Feminism has ruined just about everything in my mind. Sad it went so far from its beginning.

[@yeshuadvargas5552]

A few years from now we're going to look back and realize that the pill was one of the worst imaginable things that happened to women....and men as well.

[@ShowMeMoviesInc.]

Probably not I don’t hear anything close to that from young women today

[@yeshuadvargas5552]

@@ShowMeMoviesInc. Young women today don't realize it, but they will. I think more and more are confronting the fact that they were sold a lie. A lie with horrible consequences for human relationships, sexuality, the family, etc.

[@crockmans1386]

Thats what the pope would say .... yes .... but no educated man. With out modern medicine you d have tooth ache evry day like they did in medieval times. And this example can be transferred to any subject or idea. The pill exists like chocolate. What you do with it is your personal talent, skill and vision. Mr vargas .... just stop jammering .... and in case you are serious : okay. Go live with Amish communities. Prove your faith. Or hush.

[@yeshuadvargas5552]

@@crockmans1386 Or.... Here's an idea: You can just kiss my puerto rican derriere. You are not my judge, I'm not accountable to you, and I don't owe you an explanation. So you can hush YOUR self-important and entitled self. How about YOU prove your point and THEN you can ask me to prove mine. Lead by example, ok sweetness?

[@paulineliste4545]

Funny how we look for excuses or ideas that are not actually correct. Nothing has changed for women, except now the fear of pregnancy is less… health wise it is certainly not a good thing. Behaviors are the issue, lack of respect, televised sex/love… young people have sexual urges , this is biological.

[@murphymomof9]

I love Louise Perry! Great podcast, Tammy. I went to an all girls' school (with a brother school nearby) and I am so so grateful for such a wonderful education and environment. You hit the nail on the head with how females immediately compete against one another as soon as males are present. I too believe teenagers are able to form deeper friendship unions and focus more on study without the energy of the opposite sex present (or at least diminished for most of the day). I was surprised to hear the rape statistics (involving young people as opposed to mature adults). Anyway, thank you to both of you! (Your comments regarding confession, the nightly examen, and forgiveness towards the end were very insightful and appreciated as well.)

[@debrawehrly6900]

i wonder if there is any benefit to an all girl's classroom if the teacher is a male

[@et1016]

Tammy, you are delightful!!

[@lifearttimes]

Brilliant dialogue for the current times🤍🙏🏽🌟

[@stefan1924]

This was highly insightful, thank you!

[@S4A7]

Thanks for your beautiful videos,, greetings from Paraguay, South América

[@karin38539]

I see Peterson, I subscribe- never subscribed to a channel so fast lol

[@ktoth29]

I've watched pretty much every interview of Louise on this book tour. She has a very soothing voice and is pleasing to look at. These are things I notice because I am a man.

[@neshomahtuttle3901]

I must be a man too! Thought the same thing even though I don’t agree with her she’s still very sweet to look at and listen too

[@drkarenbukharibukhari9931]

i am humanitarian not only feminist

[@linguafrancacoaching]

There is much talk about "female only spaces". The root of the problem becomes much more aware when you take men their "men only spaces". I always believed it has to do with "feeling save", until we (young girls) invaded men's spaces (shower room after sport).

[@janedoe3648]

You ladies have about the softest energy I've ever experienced lol. Great talk, what the world is needing desparately at this point, very worried about this very oblivious and foolish next generation

[@szkoclaw]

We are social animals and we have an instinct to submit. Children do what their parents say, sometimes through the tears. Employees do it at work, when the boss gets angry. Soldiers just 'follow orders'. Consent becomes really fuzzy when men learn how to press those buttons.

[@maricamaas2326]

A very important issue to consider, is that supposed liberated women working outside their homes alongside, and for men other than their own; are notorious for becoming instrumental in breaking up marriages - including their own; this in order to attain for themselves men high/er in status. It seems that because they are not busy with and dedicated to the role they are supposed to be fulfilling at home - especially towards their children; that they are easily lead into giving in to temptation in this regard.

[@TammyPetersonPodcast]

Thanks for your comment I also wonder if having women now in every male only club, group, association, workplace has caused this backlash of cross dressing narcissistic men wanting to go into women only places, sports and bathrooms

[@maricamaas2326]

@@TammyPetersonPodcast Interesting point... It could well be behind the motivation of some? What I had noticed over the years, is how female images and characters are glorified by mass media; for example through the beauty pageant/ modelling/pornography business, but also in films in general (including children's animated movies)... This could also be partly behind why boys would be fantasizing about rather being female?

[@russellpizel3750]

The discussion of "status" amongst females was interesting but left too much unanswered or me. Why do females wear make-up? who for? and the clothes? why is there such outrage about asking girls to dress less seductively at school or church for example, so as not to cause too much distraction and temptation for males? What is that about? Why do they want to dress seductively in the first place - for social status amongst the boys? or the girls? And why is it so hard to get a straight answer to these questions? Even my wife struggles with them ... is it because the answers lie in the unconscious, in biology, and not in conscious decisions.

[@Anna-tj7mp]

Both wonderful women. However as someone who spent five miserable years in an all girls boarding school I would not recommend single sex schools unequivocally.

[@janeproctor5542]

Families themselves, often a father, in fact, may signal that if a rape occurrs( perhaps thinking back to his own college campus experience), that it is because the young woman permitted or encouraged the sexual experience up to point, in other words the blame falls upon her. I've know women who really were raped, in the most devious and preplanned set-ups while in first semester university, far from home, who did not feel able to ever mention it to either parent because of feeling it would just cause them to be blemished in a parents' eyes, in fact, in one case, by her own father, who she had a very strong bond with, her whole life, whose faults never eclipsed her love and admiration for him. You have to ask, how he could have been so biased, to have written off a young woman at college whose reputation was ruined and who basically had to leave off her university career because she was blamed for being raped by a fellow student, who it seems was instantly exonnerated by people there at the time, as though nothing had even happened! This was our parent's era, the late 1940's. It happened to his daughter in the mid-1970's. Sometimes parents and families are worse than useless and thank God for rape crisis centres. At least women don't have to risk being sanctioned or second guessed by their own parents. So, if these two generations have been the lead-in to the "Free Love" era, then why didn't people reckon with the price to be paid for it, because obviously there is a hell of a silence hanging over the price imposed by the silence.

[@manfrombritain6816]

There's an even bigger silence about the migrant rape problem in Europe. But feminism is part of the same school of thought that pushes the migration so they cant acknowledge the issue

[@VedantFalcon]

Powerful comment Jane.

[@doma3554]

I'm enjoying the podcast, but I just wanted to say it's interesting seeing and hearing phrases, facial expressions, and mannerisms, that I normally attribute to Jordan, but coming from Tammy. Interesting how people rub off on one another. Not sure which things originated from whom, but just thought it was interesting.

[@TammyPetersonPodcast]

Thanks for your comment. Who knows! We been together so long and we have been negotiating our relationship for ever. Bucko was mine🙂

[@derekbentley334]

Phones have record lol it would be interesting to hear those conversations it may enlighten more than you think

[@BarbaraMolin1]

I think that the solution to rape and sexual promiscuity lies in the Greek social model which is still being practiced today. Young people meet in public and in groups and are superwised by the adults. This is relatively easy to do because of the cafe culture and relatively stable family and community. Furthermore, girls are chaperoned until married. Meanwhile, young men are drafted into the military where they learn self discipline if it was not taught to them in childhood.

[@navtektv]

This whole family is a gift to humanity.

[@navtektv]

@@phasespace4700 I guess, if you feel that way, then you're entitled to your opinion.

[@IronKing66]

I quite like Tammy's content; this wa excellent! On the topic of mix sexes in school, I'm 28, and recall speaking recently to my best friend since highschool, and we both came to the same conclusion: highschool is INCREDIBLY sexual. I was less privy than he, but the degree of sexual activity that happened in my highschool is frankly revolting. Hooking up left and righy, house parties, sexual assault, drugs, etc. The most interesting part though, was teachers actually thinking they were in control of their students, and what went on in the school. Highschool is a desolate and savage social wasteland, where the adults present are the ignorant, and yet distant a.d arrogant watchers, surveying all, seeing little or nothing, and doing nothing when they do see. There are fewer categories of people I have less respect for than highschool teachers. You could not pay me enough to relive that 😂

[@TammyPetersonPodcast]

Thank you for your comment!

[@markadams9946]

Thank you for actually being fair to men. It can be difficult for men to navigate the give and take of flirting and sexual advances. It's all on the mento be the aggressor. It's a mine field. Add alcohol or drugs and it's dangerous. Particularly for men who can be accused of rape at the drop of a hat..

[@maricamaas2326]

Amidst YT comments had been involved several times in discussions connected to women, alcohol, and how we are to take responsibility to safeguard ourselves by wilfully not being in harms way; for example by not hitch-hiking, not walking the streets alone at night, and by not becoming intoxicated (especially when in the company of drinking men - even those well-known to us). What struck me every time, was the degree of antagonism against any advice, but especially about not getting drunk, and to in principle be careful about being alone with a man one is not married to. Somehow there is the misconception that it is the right of women to go wherever they want, and to dress and behave in whichever way they choose, without them coming to any harm? It apparently is only men who need to be educated about not taking advantage of and rape women, and to suggest otherwise, is victim blaming... Whatever 😅 Anyway, Scripturally we as older older women are called to teach younger women, so no, I'm not interested in even trying to advise drunk men in how they should behave.

[@archanglemercuri]

29:29 thank you permeating this valuable choice of status. • “losing virginity” is one way it is looked at isn’t it? • yet in parallel, one loses that, and becomes “ a gain to the group of “ can no longer choose to give, what cannot be bought, and what has not already been given • we add: for the joy & sorrow it can bring, in a very real sense, it increases the likelihood of disease and trauma. • i for one, perhaps among many men: if given a choice between a sexual partner with more disease & trauma vs less disease & trauma 🔽 personally, 0 disease and 0 trauma; is our preference. Call it “prude” if they like… that matters as much as i wanting nothing to do with the opposite.

[@archanglemercuri]

38:18 we made the same face at the same time haha 😂

[@archanglemercuri]

@@kc6810 and that’s the point, the good men will desire, what cannot be bought. If i would add to the point; what “can be bought” …is most cringe

[@Joyloulou]

Jungian Marion Woodman and Dr. Clarissa Pinkola Estes are into WISDOM FEMINISM which is the right kind of Conscious Femininity. We MUST ALWAYS have a Feminism based in this type of (Jungian/Developmental ) which is not anti masculine principle but more in her developing a deep grounded-ness in Wisdom … in her own healing of injured instincts and intuition.

[@paigemccormick6519]

What a charming intellect.

[@TammyPetersonPodcast]

Thanks for you comment. Louise was such a pleasure to meet

[@Audrey-cy3vr]

Thank you. You are both delightful women and I enjoyed your conversation. I have a question. Has the introduction of Viagra had any effect on sexual violence?

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

Obviously

[@tjohannam]

I don't think it is victim-blaming per se to talk about how a potential rapist would choose a potential victim depending on how assertive/self-assured a girl or woman would present herself. I was never raped as a woman but I was a victim of bullying in (German) high school. I was teased and harassed by a male classmate in French class for the second half of year 11, simply because he could. I didn't know how to defend myself verbally and the female teacher ignored it for the most part. Then after the summer holiday I had grown in assertiveness and was a lot more self-assured and the bullying stoped immediately. My behavior impacted his behavior.

[@TammyPetersonPodcast]

Thanks for your comment

[@tjohannam]

@@TammyPetersonPodcast Thank you for this brilliant podcast episode. It was my first time watching and I love your how soft-spoken, yet assertive and clear-headed you are. It's a relieve as a young woman to listen to an experienced matriarch and her wisdom, even if it's through the internet.

[@TGP109]

The friends I have who have been raped were in their 20's, one while in her own apartment and one on a college campus. Perry's ''numbers'' are a bit flawed as she doesn't seem to take into account rapes that were never talked about/reported. Ask yourself how many women (or boys/men for that matter) that you know have been raped/sexually abused who have never reported it.

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

Most rapes are NOT reported

[@derekbentley334]

Men deal with the same thing. The biggest difference from past to now is the work. People these days want things quicker and easier. Most forgetful of how much work was done to reach this point

[@katryk94]

I was 11 when I decided not to have a children. Now I am 30 and the older I get, the more convinced about my decision I become

[@TammyPetersonPodcast]

Whether we want children is not the question. A child of 11 makes that decision out of self will. Just like whether we live or die is not our question or decision. It took me a long time to understand this. Having a baby is a decision to surrender our love in an honest way. You have only a couple of years left now. Fertility is going down dramatically after 30. If you can let down your guard, ask God the father in prayer, honestly with no agenda , a truthful ask, you will get an answer.

[@katryk94]

@@TammyPetersonPodcast Well, I wonder if you will answer me the same way ("a child of 11 makes that decision out of self will") if I would write that I have dreamt about born and raised 5 children since I was 11. I guess not. Secondly, I prefer not to have children because I have depression and some hormonal diseases. It would be rather egoistic to give some diseases to this child since the beginning of life. Moreover, I am not able to raise a child as I have no panience for them at all. It would be disastrous for a child if I would raise him/her without any parent skills. I would not change my decision and I am sure that I made a good choice for me and the rest of humanity.

[@TammyPetersonPodcast]

@@katryk94 Thank you for your reply. If you are depressed, would you change your diet to put a halt to the depression ?

[@katryk94]

@@TammyPetersonPodcast I discovered myself that the best way to eat is to eat everything you want, even hamburgers and sweeties, but not to overeat. That works in my case

[@TammyPetersonPodcast]

My daughter was depressed from 8 years old. We never thought diet would take depression away. It was a surprise to all of us. The carnivore diet will take all of the depression and anxiety away. When you are ready, look at the Lion Diet and see how to do this.

[@christinehaley8097]

We wouldn't be able to vote, have a voice, pursue a myriad of other things if not for the feminist movement of past centures. How offensive to say it failed. Did civil rights fail? One doesn't hear that. Feminism isn't a new idea from this century. I respect the work that our ancestors did.

[@christelle9122]

❤

[@Searchingfortruth880]

The thing is Data is all over the place, here you hear that rapists are young whereas what we hear most often is that the rapists are actually mostly adults in the family so who to believe?

[@ayushpandey2880]

💥💥🔥🔥

[@Oo786oO]

Praise be to God for the blessing of Islam, for it suffices as a blessing Watching this video gives such a deep sense of gratitude and internal peace in being Muslim Though Muslims are imperfect, Islam has such wonderful guidelines that protect the most vulnerable, and avoid any problematic situations to arise.From the encouragement of even young children/ brothers and sisters not sharing the same bed, to the “mahram” guidelines which prevent even step-fathers from ever encroaching on their daughters, or non-relative genders from having any alone time what-so-ever, and it’s protection of community and family. Islam is genuinely the solution that everyone is looking for but just don’t know the name of. As converts will testify, entering it is like a big sigh of relief. I invite you to Islam, and if not to enter, to at least research and consider it. I say this out of sincere concern, but also so you may understand why I say the above.

[@TammyPetersonPodcast]

The more we see the positive effects of the Abrahamic traditions as the way forward to heal our communities, the better

[@mikewalsh9041]

We need to have a serious conversation -men especially need to- about the glaring correlation between declining male fertility and testosterone levels and environmentally persistent artificial female hormones excreted by women on The Pill.

[@TammyPetersonPodcast]

A book called This is you brain on birth control by Sarah Hill. Upcoming conversation in my podcast

[@danelcutler6467]

I knew feminism failed me when I became a mother I was married for a year and yes, at 60 years old

[@debrawehrly6900]

you became a mother at 60?

[@neshomahtuttle3901]

52:27 casually not trying to blame patriarchal capitalism and it’s thirst for power. Planes and trains, who laid the tracks

[@bros4654]

I hope we get all this sorted, and soon. I know that women have their own struggles, but boy, men are so tired of walking the minefield. I've really enjoyed the various interviews I've found of Louise Perry. I hope that she is able to reach some people who have rejected these ideas in the past.

[@derekbentley334]

It's about rings lol circles cycles the wheel of fortune or like computing machines before digital

[@ghfudrs93uuu]

I think women taking martial arts classes is also great for the men in their lives. A big part of women who hit men do so because they do not have the notion of how much they're capable of hurting. And talking usually does not work.

[@WildAntics13]

Beautiful women 😍😍😍 with beautiful soul real feminine spirit

[@altprop826]

The 'power' argument may be meant in good faith. But it is actually fake. The reason being that women in the workplace do not mostly flirt with men on their own level or below. In fact they direct their flirtatious signals to men with authority and influence. Why? Because there are benefits to be gained. And because they want to find shortcuts in the career and social ladder. Some men may be flirting down because of a power privilege. But most are just responding to what women are signalling to them. So who is it that is playing with power? When those flirtatious encounters wear out, the women get to say, I was abused. So in actual fact the argument is just another interpretation of "#metoo."

[@neshomahtuttle3901]

When in the position of power you have more responsibility. Knowing that more people will pursue you I think it is then the “bosses “ responsibility in creating a work environment where employees don’t feel the need to sell sex (their body’s) in order to move up in a company.

[@altprop826]

@@neshomahtuttle3901 It's not selling sex to compete. Or 'move up' as you call it. It's selling sex to cheat. And even if a man in a position of influence doesn't accept the invitation, there is always the possibility to claim that the invitation was his, and that it wasn't optional. But leaving that aside, I object to you suggesting that women are really children who cannot compete with adults and who cannot be accountable for their own actions. My wife would be offended.

[@sabrinashahab795]

Women status at young age depends on youth and beauty which leads to good marriage , next comes motherhood and relevant social capital and the last stage is grand motherhood. However there has always been women who did not follow this path eg ( saints/nuns , scholars , business women etc )

[@joss8558]

The main reason men care about power is that it gives you a better chance of having sex with attractive women. This makes the idea that rape is about power, not sex, weird and circular.

[@TammyPetersonPodcast]

:)

[@zandi3426]

It is about both, it is deranged male behavior which has been disproportionately worse throughout history. This is why feminism is inevitable and rightly so.

[@joss8558]

@@zandi3426 So, you believe feminism has come into existence as a response to deranged male behavior ? That would imply that feminism should be most prevalent in countries with the worst male behavior, but the opposite seems to be the case. It's only in countries with relatively well behaved men that feminism is permitted.

[@zandi3426]

@@joss8558 when you have a country with extreme dominance of patriarchal religion and control of women (including deep brainwashing), of course women who are pro-feminism will have a very hard time. None the less feminism (aka humanism) is surely growing especially now among Islamic or ultra-conservatives countries where abuse of women is very common. Feminism being suppressed by male-dominated institutions and religions does not change that fact of what feminism is combatting and that more and more women on the global scale are joining. Just like any ethical human right, it has and will take time to develop when certain societies for centuries have undermined it.

[@barbarasherman4870]

I'm editing this a bit so it doesn't sound as harsh. Feminism was inevitable when so many men over many decades and centuries proved unable to care for their family properly or simply deserted them, so inevitably the wife/mother had to do both the man's and woman's job. Then when she'd go to get a loan or mortgage she'd be told she needed a male co-signer even though she was more competent than most of them.

[@TammyPetersonPodcast]

Women helped raise their sons to grow up to be men, right?

[@AFringedGentian]

@@TammyPetersonPodcast we do that. I’m a single mum of two boys. Your podcast and Dr. Peterson’s are helping me to be a better mum to them and not to be bitter toward men.

[@TammyPetersonPodcast]

@@AFringedGentian that’s great. Dr P and I read your message. Thank you

[@jenniferflower9265]

These men were drawn out to war. They put up their lives for us women amd children at home. Did war make them incompetent? Sure, they came back with ptsd and war wounds and no help to get them through. They needed us to step up, as we should. Until their souls and wounds could maybe heal. But can it heal with no help. Just a community slandering them and a medical community that didn't understand it.

[@TammyPetersonPodcast]

@@jenniferflower9265 thank you for your comment . It’s much appreciated and needed

[@dannysullivan3951]

She’d have no gig without feminism and no bogeyman to rail against. What agitates rape? Sounds like Peterson blaming rape on alcohol.

[@jonathanfarley2023]

My comment is actually highly relevant: When I saw this video, I googled "Louise Perry husband."

[@stangoff2216]

Why the clickbait headline? Louise Perry has something important to say; but this kind of partisan clickbait is not only mis-representative of her very nuanced and thoughtful positions, but it drives away some of the people who most need to hear her. Don't do that.

[@derekbentley334]

Dismantling LOL it's a wall thing lol

[@jocelyn9421]

50:35

[@user-ll8mt4so4l]

When Tammy says "on her own" what is she saying