FENTANYL KILLS: Jack McCarthy's Story

[@ReneePerrin25]

This is not your fault, dad. Bringing up your child in a sober home is amazing. This . Was. Not. Your. Fault.

[@katie0303]

He appears to have been a great father. No one is perfect, but you can tell he loved his son dearly.

[@jordanark9784]

It was his fault entirely. No accountability whatsoever.

[@vincentperagine]

@@jordanark9784 Seriously? You have no idea what you are talking about.

[@lynndinovo3500]

YOU are an awesome father. Please continue to talk to others especially our youth about these murderers who sell fentynal laced drugs. Jack is an awesome spirit and he is guiding you to do this great service for others. God bless you and give you grace to find just a bit of peace. 🤍🕊

[@jordanark9784]

@@vincentperagine Should've been paying attention to their children. Whatever the child does is a reflection of the parenting. Or, in this case, lack thereof. The truth hurts.

[@AKA-Nana]

The fact that this country cannot get a hold on this drug is beyond me. To me, fentanyl is as dangerous as an automatic weapon that can take out multiple people. How many have to die? I get the addiction, I get it, but none of these stories begin or end with, my loved one knew they were taking fentanyl. The people that are knowingly putting fentanyl in other meds (Xanax, Percocet, Norco) are murderers.

[@sarahwales6276]

The Government doesn't want to fix this, it is not a problem for them it is a solution. When the wealthiest people in the world are telling you their goal is depopulation, believe them.

[@caroljordt8045]

So sorry for your loss 😢

[@kalpajha3002]

You're right but sadly addicts do struggle a lot and they are always searching for another high as the ones they usually take do nothing for them. Whats scary is that, this drug Fentanyl is so so much stronger and in many places this drug is cheap and so easy to get hold off. People are still ignorant about this drug and the effects. I really hope people start waking up and seeking help before they sadly wont be able to wake up. The dealers who sell this stuff and a lot of other stuff are, i cant call them murders but, they are definitely aiding the addict. All they care about is money money and more money. To know that this particular drug is laced in so many other drugs is scary beyond belief.

[@RLFinTX]

It’s coming through the open borders.

[@JIMKATSANIDIS]

@@sarahwales6276 The US has collaborated with other countries, particularly China and Mexico, to disrupt the production and distribution networks. Efforts have been made to improve information sharing, enhance law enforcement cooperation, and promote regulatory measures to control precursor chemicals, but all these failed.👋

[@NoseyFloridaGirl]

You’ve turned Jacks memory into a MISSION. Bravo Dad . You will change lives . Save lives.

[@SaWilliam]

I see a lot of mothers speak out but it’s special when a father is speaking. Bless you sir!

[@Decoration_lady]

I lost my son Brian Todd 5 months ago to Fentanyl poisoning. Your story inspires me to try and find a purpose, because I haven't been able to do anything but grieve. RIP Jack. Hugs and prayers 🙏

[@Freddybender123]

Very very sorry for your loss

[@lovemy3babes17]

Sending prayers 🙏🏿 your way. So sorry for your loss. ❤

[@MimiCoco-gt7zo]

My condolences to you

[@AussieAmy]

Condolences to you 🙏🏽💜 Maybe you were meant to see this to find your purpose- your reason to get out of bed. Sending love and positive vibes your way. You can do this!

[@DaisyJane0318]

I'm so very sorry for your loss. Prayers to you and your family. 😢

[@HP-rp5nn]

I believe that he saw his son in the dream.. God knew what he needed to go on. God bless you and your family.

[@Craig-wi5bv]

🤣🤣🤣 yeah righto...

[@marsianer4842]

needed to go on? next time ask God not to take a child. problem solved.

[@greenie75]

@@marsianer4842 God didn't take his child - sin did. We live in a fallen world.

[@lemaa4820]

Most definitely bc when a dream is vivid like that and so real then that's a visitation. That's why it stands out so much bc it's not a regular dream. I've had a dream like that & it's definitely different. One you'll never forget.

[@lemaa4820]

​@@marsianer4842Yeah your ignorant so being on this channel is the right place for you. Learn about fentanyl at least bc you didn't learn anything else. #Ignorantandjustliving

[@justbrowsing1278]

Jack sounds like the type of kid who would be extremely proud of his dad for sharing his story. You raised a good one! Sorry for your loss. Also, it’s okay to not be okay sometimes ❤️

[@roselee1974]

AMEN! , and agree

[@andreawhite3672]

Jack came to visit his dad. Jack is ok. I lost my 13 yr old son on 5-10-22 to suicide, bullying was involved. I found him that morning. Elijah has came to see me In my dreams only a few times. But I know he’s perfect. I know he’s in Heaven. There’s life after death. But I’m still very shattered. Sending my love to Jack and his family.

[@LMadeleine]

Oh, im so sorry! You are so so strong. Sending you all my love and strenght! ❤

[@3mexhuas]

Andrea, I am so very sorry for your loss. I too believe he is in Heaven. Someday you will be together again. I wonder if you have ever watched the videos of people who have had near death experiences or nurses who work in hospice. Watching them helped me when I lost my parents. They made me a firm believer in the afterlife.

[@louern123]

my daughter went through depression and psychosis after her father died, and she screamed at me a few times blaming me for not getting her a therapist for her anxiety in grade nine. i didn’t even understand what anxiety was. we aren’t psychologists, we are just parents. 💔. sending so much love for you, to get through this. 🙏🏻

[@RLFinTX]

Were you unable to get her an appt with a psychologist?

[@chargennaro976]

I hope you were able to get her a psychologist appointment now it's better late than never for the mental health is so important

[@DaisyJane0318]

I've been struggling with severe anxiety, depression, PTSD, and ADHD for about 21 years now. It's horrible. I don't feel right at all if I don't take my meds. I wish they can come up with a cure at least for the anxiety cause it's the worst. RIP Jack. I'm so sorry you lost your life. My condolences to you dad and the rest of your family. God speed. 😢❤

[@RLFinTX]

@@DaisyJane0318 I’m right there with you! When I sit down to take my meds, I feel so humiliated that I need all of these medications in order to stay alive. The worst part is when you start suspecting that your dosage needs to be increased. It makes me so nervous thinking about what I will I do once I reach the highest dosage. I’m so sorry that you suffer from these awful mental health issues as well. I’d give anything for a cure. Big hugs to you!! 😊💕

[@barbedwire_lace2160]

It's true there is no manual for parenting. I wasn't loved or wanted. So when I had my daughter, I was really lacking in skills. Sometimes love isn't enough. She is a strong, lovely woman. Fortunately, we never had to deal with substance issues. She has chosen to remain childless at 50.

[@mrbrightside7193]

This is by FAR the most moving and heartbreaking episode.

[@billymclaurin5762]

RIP man this is so sad

[@matthewleonard386]

Right? I tried a small handful of drugs around that age and have to conclude I just got lucky.

[@jodiepetersen5041]

Your story about your son Jack was beautiful...My daughter Dani also died from fentanyl poisoning in 2017 at the age of 31.Leaving behind her beautiful 8 year old daughter..The pain of grieving never goes away.

[@NonperfectionPerfectionist]

Condolences

[@VelvetRoma]

This is the most sorrowful and heartbreaking episode to me. I don’t watch as often anymore, the stories and parents/ families left to grieve is taking a toll. Truly courageous parents. RIP Jack 🕊️

[@CaroleLeamer735]

THIS DRUG IS DEVASTATING HUMANITY😢 MY HEART BREAKS FOR THESE FAMILIES. I LOST MY YOUNGEST NEPHEW WHEN HE WAS 26😢HE DIED FROM COCAINE MIXED WITH FENTENYL AND CARFENTENYL. IT BURST THE BLOOD VESSELS IN HIS LUNGS 😢 THAT WAS IN 2017 BEFORE IT WAS WIDLEY KNOW😢GOD BLESS YOU FOR SHARING THESE STORIES ❤

[@matthewleonard386]

Geez. That's horrible. They're finding that fentanyl shit in all kinds of things these days. Even some samples of illegal weed have been positive for it. Scary stuff.

[@mattneil1449]

YOUR CAPS BUTTON IS STUCK ON

[@kalpajha3002]

Im really sorry for the loss of your nephew. It's heartbreaking how many teens or young adults are losing their life to this awful awful drug. I hope you and your family will heal in time. Best wishes

[@tsungigudza8803]

@@mattneil1449 and that’s all you got from her story 🙄🙄🙄wow !

[@daniellakarenina8634]

Just DON'T DO DRUGS! PROBLEM SOLVED😊

[@lesliekenion7540]

Mr McCarthy is one of the Best Storyteller's I ever heard on this platform. He's intoxicating. Wishing you Recovery in your Heartbreak 💔

[@garyh5541]

Dear Jack! RIP! I got out of bed late today and had to drink warm coffee! Even though it was my fault! I was so mad! I turned on my Room Screen and saw your picture and knew what it meant. Another fine young man no longer with us and with his family! Jack you will not be forgotten! Prayers for all who love you. 🙏🙏🙏

[@IndigoRoses7]

This is a wonderful father. You can feel the love for his son in everything he says. You can sense the deep, wonderful friendship they had. Jack deserved his life, I'm so very sorry for his and Jack's family's loss. May Jack's menory continue to live on, his dad is saving lives by speaking out.

[@AussieAmy]

You can just see the pain in this guys eyes and his voice. Thank-you for sharing your sweet son’s story. This can happen to anyone no matter their socioeconomic status. Condolences to you and your family. 💜🙏🏽 P.S- that was your son visiting you not a “dream”.. He wanted to apologise to you. Hopefully he will visit you again. I’m sure he will visit his sister & Mum too. 💜

[@salindalopez8550]

Yes, that was not a "dream". He came to visit his Dad and apologize.

[@corinadaschievici9002]

Nothing is more devastating than losing a child. Really sad.😥😥😥Such a good looking kid he was!

[@vendulazelenkova6803]

He is so brutally honest and real,poor dad❤Made me cry

[@donnarice6209]

From the mother of a son ( who went through his own similar issues) in County Fermanagh, Ireland, to the father of beautiful Jack - I'm so horrified & deeply touched by your familys loss. Your description of your son really moved me because you know him so well and all the various wonderful aspects of him - all the shades of Jack. I listen to you and I think 'how could this father have parented better?' And the answer is you couldn't. And thats what scares us. If we could all manage to know and enjoy all the shades of our children half as much as you clearly did. I have learned the importance of liking those we love, in fact that is so important. So many children don't feel liked, though they may know intellectually that they are loved. Jack seemed to be surrounded by people who loved & thoroughly enjoyed the talented & lovely human being that he was. Your pride & love for Jack is clear. Thankyou for telling us about your beautiful son. I'm so sorry for the trauma you & your family has gone through. You're doing a great job 👏 on Jack's behalf. He would be very proud. Sending you, your family & Jack much respect & love ❤ I

[@KMac-nw8jn]

❤

[@3mexhuas]

Donna, I agree with everything you said. Very well said.

[@pihalcott7066]

This is one of the most devastating Texas Documentary. They are all devastating. Tore me apart.

[@TexasPictures]

I suppose that's a kind of good news, bad news thing for us. I mean, the stories should be kinda devastating. If they're not, we failed. We do also have stories of survival that have happier endings. Here's links to playlists for other series we're working on. From Addiction to Recovery kzbin.info/aero/PLdCPA32W_p39Z8hi7xSIX3Fkqmhd7mRzj Trafficking in America kzbin.info/aero/PLdCPA32W_p38cSrYYZkYUbetem8Kbtzpp American Peace Officer kzbin.info/aero/PLdCPA32W_p39sXSZ20d3KraG42gWNu0rB Impaired Driving Awareness kzbin.info/aero/PLdCPA32W_p39ZsRl6ezU_QhWTlBOs3YVg We're also in the early stages of developing a series about domestic violence, and another about mental health.

[@Freddybender123]

Same here this one was very devastating 😢

[@patriciasams7105]

Agree 💔🙏💙💙

[@laurie-lionessnotaewe5902]

I lost my 19 yr old nephew in 2018 to a tragic car accident. That pain never gets easier or goes away. I’ve just learned to live with it. I’m so sorry for anyone who’s lost a child, senselessly or otherwise. I can’t begin to imagine your pain. May God be with you all, whether you believe in Him or not.

[@inipin510]

That dream of your son must have been the most beautiful and the most gruesome thing at the same time…I cannot imagine the moment when you woke up and realized that it was just a dream. I want to reach out and hug you. I wish you and your family all the best. There are never enough words. ❤️

[@cindyburton]

I hope anc pray that the Fentanyl Fathers will get around every state and speak to every high school kid in America. We need you so much. Our children need to hear and feel your loss, because telling them isn't the same. Thank you. You are giving a great gift to parents.

[@GentlRebel]

Thank you for sharing your son Jack with us. I am a bereaved mother who lost my son, and I felt your pain physically in my chest while you were speaking. I am so very sorry. ❤

[@NonperfectionPerfectionist]

So kind of you to offer your condolences to him yet you’re grieving the exact same pain. Ma’am condolences 💐 🙏🏽❤️to you&your family sincerely.

[@ginalanier4836]

Your Son is incredibly proud of you and is waiting patiently for you to be happy again. ☘️ I thank you immensely for the many lives that you have already saved by sharing your precious Son’s story.

[@Star_07835]

Thanks for sharing your beautiful memories and stories about Jack, l loved hearing them. l am so sorry for yours and your families loss.

[@angeesteiner8493]

The pain this father has is absolutely gut wrenching, it takes a lot to watch this, the sadness is difficult to see.

[@pdig2963]

Losing your child in any manner is heartbreaking , We as parents should not be burying our children before us , I lost my daughter on September 29th, 2023, to drugs also, 😢 My heart goes out to you and your family 🙏💔

[@3mexhuas]

I am so sorry you lost your daughter. That is so sad.

[@helenmcqueen607]

It is so brave of these families to tell their stories ,a few years ago this wouls all have been hidden and no one would be aware 😢😢

[@dorisandujar8277]

I've been binge watching so many of these videos about lives that have been affected by fentanyl. This is the first Dad I've heard and how you speak of your son is so heartwarming. I just can't get over the loss of so many young people to this epidemic. I lost 2 sons to AIDS and I don't know if I would feel any differently had I lost mine to this Fentanyl poisoning. Losing my boys at 23 and 25 two years apart was devastating as a Mother. But I had known since they were in grade school that their lives would be cut short. Losing a child is hard, period but losing a child to this drug poisoning is murder. So much more should be done to prevent this from continuing on. Thank you Dad for sharing a part of your son's life, he must have been an amazing child to have had the pleasure in calling your son.

[@kellywarren8228]

It took my nephew, Luke Thomas Caraccio. He is loved and missed. God help us all. ❤

[@Picuasco]

I'm sorry for your nephew.

[@ginaverdi6101]

What an absolute beautiful child and young man! So sorry for your loss😢

[@HaveFaith_11]

The doctor was my drug dealer… I had a lower back fusion in 2014 & he gave me a ton of percs. He upped the milligrams way too soon. I didn’t even know how addictive pills are, the doctor just told me “Take as needed.” I’ve been 4 years clean & I NEVER want to go back to the empty numb shell of a human being. The withdrawals are HORRIBLE! After a while you have to take opioids to be able to feel ‘normal’ & get through the day.

[@alexwyler4570]

Doctors until 2018 would get a 5% yearly bonus for pushing the Sackler's family opiates.

[@JasonBrown-dd7dj]

Your stories sounds like mine

[@HaveFaith_11]

@@JasonBrown-dd7dj how are you doing? Seems like a lot of people have the same story. The sackler family & big pharma has ruined a lot of lives !

[@claudehaggart2413]

Sounds like mine too,… Suboxone saved my life… I highly recommend it to anyone who wants to quit all that shit… it really works… though it will take a little time to stop that also but at least you’re out of that whole dirty scene

[@kechiahignight565]

I get this. Went through the same thing. When I stopped all of the meds, given for severe pain following an injury, it took me no less than 18 months to remember what it felt to be myself again. What a nightmare. Nearly destroyed my family. So awful.

[@rebeccab.463]

Beautiful to hear a father's story. Thank You James for bringing your precious son Jack into our hearts. I can't imagine the pain & sorrow. Your courage to speak of this devastation will resonate as a wakeup call & healing balm to so many others. Blessings to you & your family.

[@jenniferwagner9206]

I have been watching a lot of the stories in the last weeks . Today I felt so sad for Jacks father . My children are 20 and 24 and since I heard so much about the fentanyl problem , I have started to talk to my family at dinner about the loss of the parents and all the things I have learned . Thank you at Texas pictures for bringing awareness to the world.

[@NoSnowflakesHere]

You can have the best life in the world and still battle depression. My mother never understood that. Depression is a chemical imbalance in the brain. I am thankful that he touched on that. I have been an advocate speaking about this. Those who battle depression are the only ones who know how difficult it is. I'm so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@animalshaverights127]

Thanks. It is extremely difficult. And on top of that society who expects you to be perfect all the time. So it doesnt help.

[@LexisHauls]

This one hit me. I just want to hug all these parents. I feel so bad and the kids are all young teenagers or young adults 😞 I pray that you get the peace you need🙏

[@acelialeedy7923]

Im a recovering heroin addict and have been clean for 6 years....i appreciate what you said about addicts.....i just want you to know that the dream you had definitely meant something....Jack, your son, knew that you needed that dream to be able to move forward in your life. It was his way of giving one last thing before he went to be with Jesus. He wanted you to know that it was a mistake, that he loves you, and that he is okay and in Gods hands. The dealer in your casd will get whats coming to him. I hope one day you can stop hating that man and maybe begin praying for him. He is obviously lacking in many ways and may not have been as lucky as Jack to have a loving, strong and proud father like you growing up. That is not a justification; just a way for you to forgive. You are doing wonderful things in your sons honor and are going to save many lives in your mission.

[@anotherdayinthislife]

Congratulations on maintaining sobriety! It’s not easy, I’ve never been addicted to opioids but I hear and see the struggle in the streets and in my best friends home, they’re all on fetty and I can’t even handle going over there anymore even with all this Narcan in my car. Thank you so much for sticking with it and freeing yourself from those shackles, you not only saved yourself but my gosh you’ve likely saved some random citizen from being traumatized by the sounds and sight of an overdose with death rattle and all…I’ll never unhear that sound. Stay blessed 🙏🫶🏼👏🏻

[@TraveloSOPHI]

Congrats on your sobriety! I am very proud of you and the work you've done to lead you to the 6 year mark. Here's to 6 more years and counting.......

[@tamimoncrief2264]

Im so sorry for the loss of your son Jack. Its heartbreaking. Your story makes a diferrence. This fentanyl epidemic needs to stop. God bless your family

[@debracarmack3404]

Love hugs thoughts and prayers for comfort strength and peace for u ur family and loved ones..I'm so so sorry for ur loss.

[@debbieworthington6151]

God bless you with your family!

[@nancycook8284]

I am so sorry for your loss, I know your pain. I lost my son to Fentanyl poisoning 3 23 2023. I pray Jesus gives you comfort and peace.

[@minwade5436]

I’m so sad for yr loss, the pain may ease slightly over time but it’s always there when you go to bed @ night & then as soon as you open yr eyes ea morning. This horrid poisoning of our young people leaves me speechless, worse is the fact the everyday people are reduced to “statistics” so any Govt. can deal with the issue without feeling pain. Yr son has placed indelible hand prints on yr heart, may the love of Jesus comfort you always 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 God bless. Sending cyber hugs across the globe & you’ll be in my nightly prayers. Take care fr Adelaide; South Australia🦘🐨🇦🇺💐

[@porcupine783]

Best interview so far. Someone honest and easy to listen to.

[@denisepaulsenful]

Thank you so much for making this. Your son sounded a lot like mine. They were empathetic and my son was an artist he liked to paint so I have his paintings. He’s gone now only 6-weeks ago. Your son Jack was incredibly creative. He was amazingly funny too. … but some days some moments are just so difficult I try not to get lost in the moments of sadness. But this was awesome. I got a lot out of it. Thank you 💯❤from Toronto 🇨🇦

[@natashayasha8087]

What an amazing and brave father! You are doing a priceless work to save our children from heartless drug dealers and prevent unnecessary death! Enormous thanks 😊

[@robinlanier6886]

Hun, that was not a dream, it was a visit with a message. I'm so sorry for your loss. RIP Jack!! Hugs to the family. 💔🕊

[@angelawilson3313]

I realize nothing I have to say will help but know that what you shared and how articulately you shared has touched my heart. I shared this with my son and my granddaughter who are 18 and 20. I pray your message has a profound impact to stop this evil. God bless and comfort you and your wife. And your daughter. 🙏🏻💗

[@Marymaryblackman]

I’m getting a real sense of this great young man, you have set it out for us wonderfully. I’m so so sorry for what happened to him and to your family.

[@Kimber-san]

I don’t know if you will see my message. Hear the pain in your voice. Your son was a empath. It was much more than empathy for others. The description of him the helping Carly. He was special. An empath can feel what others around them feel. The anxiety truly describes this. If you see this can look it up I hope it brings you peace. We all think our kids are special, your son was really a special soul. I’m so sorry for your loss. Know he’s with you and your dream was real. Bless you sweet dad. 😢❤

[@angelharte764]

I never thought people would intentionally be murdering kids. But that's the reality of this world. So sad

[@CarolynCoy]

Sadly true 😢

[@JessicaRodriguez-zy5gz]

It’s not murder. Kids/adults chose to take pills/drugs that aren’t theirs. There’s consequences to our actions, good or bad. I am a recovering opiate addict. 9 years clean. My Dr was my drug dealer. But it was a choice. Not a disease or murder.

[@vivianespinoza1549]

@@JessicaRodriguez-zy5gz Wrong. This is murder they did not choose to take fentanyl. And ultimately that’s the drug killing ppl.

[@bob2k375]

@@JessicaRodriguez-zy5gzLow IQ reply, dissect the above comment properly and then reply with a proper observation

[@therosarylady]

Oh God, I wept through this entire video. I have watched them all, but Jack's story ripped my guts out. I'm so sorry, you're doing all parents A SERVICE. Sending all my love and respect ❤️

[@cherokeeheartct8633]

They are dying,younger and younger.Lost my Beautiful Mom "my best friend",to COPD.Lost my middle Brother in 2016,drug overdose, lost my baby Brother Aug 5,2022, to drug overdose. LOST My Dad Aug 17,2023.Im so glad n thankful that my Mom wasnt here when I lost my Brothers,if she had been,she would have given up soon.But I saw my Dad loose his 2 sons,n Ive never seen my Dad cry,but he broke down like a baby.Its crazy to loose my Baby Brother Aug 5 2022,n loose my Dad 1 yr and a couple of weeks later.I am so sorry for your loss.

[@carmenl163]

I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine how it is to lose that many people you love. I wish you all the best.

[@cherokeeheartct8633]

@carmenl163 Thank you.Its been a tough devistating,heartbreaking road,and I still feel like I'm grieving,probably will the rest if my life.I have no family left.

[@berbilo]

wow, how he poured his heart and soul out, it's beautiful. This is all so difficult but the only reasonable explanation to this hell, to this world, is that everything happens for a reason of love.

[@kimmathews622]

Such a well spoken man. So sorry you lost Jack , he sounds like an amazing kid. Keep speaking to the kids and warning them about this terrible crisis.

[@jessamyers8761]

His death was more of a murder than an overdose. This is so devastating. May God bring you some kind of peace. Jack is walking with Jesus in heaven.

[@shirleymcgrath2821]

Dear Jack's Dad, your son came to you in that dream. My Dad came to me, as well,, after a difficult illness....I was supposed to be in and out procedure and woke up 7 days later in the hospital. I must have suffered PTSD when I was finally discharge. My Dad came to me , it was real and vivid. My family are Irish Catholic as well. My thoughts are with you and Kathy and Samantha. Keep that dream and you keep him close. I never had another visit 20 years later

[@evanmerrell5310]

I’m so blessed for your story about your son my heart breaks for you I lost my 23 year old son on September 10 2021 to fentanyl mixed with herion and a divan and alcohol god bless you for sharing your sons life

[@whendis.roberts9903]

Music is not always all about what others want to hear. If you believe in what your playing and it uplifts you and gives you joy.....Thats great.Its also about what speaks to your Soul when listening and Playing Music. It matters what touches your Soul. A three Chord Song is not all that everyone wants to hear always.To me a three chord song gets boring to play. I like the challenge of multiple vomplex chords and Rhythms. Its great. Its also about what you want to play. Whats in your Soul is what im trying to say. Im sorry for your loss. My Daughter passed away 22 months ago from a Fentanyl overdose. She was only 31 years old and has three yound kids...my Grandchildren. Its Devastating. Absolutely devastating She is my Best friend. She will always be my Best Friend. Im totally Devastated. God Bless you.

[@MissWV007]

This one had me bawling! I agree with Jack’s dad Fentanyl is killing everyone and we have got to step up and do something NOW!!! Rest peacefully Jack ❤

[@lizdumbrell6799]

I'm watching from the UK...My teenage grandsons will be watching this at the weekend......Sincere condolensces, we can see you adored each other...I'm so sorry xx

[@jrockin9221]

This happened to our long time neighbors son … he just got his teaching degree , hadn’t even started teaching yet. We also learned very in N. Michigan . His grandfather married my husband and I and was pastor at our church . His mom came over to our house in hysterics wanting our help because she found him in his upstairs bedroom on the bed with his Carhartt snowsuit still on (he came home from work the evening before wearing it) his arm pulled out of snowsuit sleeve with a syringe still in his arm . Parents didn’t know he was doing drugs … it was poisoned with fentanyl .😢 It can happen to any family!! Your son sounds like an amazing kiddo❤! Lifting you all up in prayer 🙌🏼

[@melanieredfield9736]

You are an amazing dad to share Jack with the world and to put yourself and your story out for the purpose of sparing others such pain. I'm sure your encounter with Jack was real and meant to help you in your journey through grief. It doesn't get better...but WE get better at channeling our pain into purpose. Your work will save lives & honor Jack's memory. So sorry for your loss.

[@marytague6268]

This man touched me so very much! My daughter hung herself in her closet several yrs ago & you never get over it - you go through it.

[@TexasPictures]

Very sorry for your loss. Here's a story we recently published with a counselor talking about how grief feels like you're going crazy. kzbin.info/www/bejne/bmPSnZWqrM-tqtU

[@SkippySkippy-oy4eo]

Any son would be thrilled to have a father/buddy…you were blessed to have those special times…for you….and your son. Your son left this world loved, the greatest gift of all.

[@annreeves77]

I've watched a lot of these stories and none have touched me quite like this one. You can feel how much this Dad loves his son. As a mother of three boys that are just breaking into adulthood, this is my biggest fear. God bless your family ❤

[@bipolarmomandnowwhat]

Thanks for sharing your story we see so many mothers discussing their trauma, fathers need to be represented, too. Thanks again

[@lemaa4820]

You raised a good boy never think anything different! Never regret being his friend. The vivid dream you had wasn't you just dreaming, that was a visitation from Jack telling you he really is ok. My heart goes out to you dad and everyone else who lost someone to fentanyl!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@nancyforoughi5517]

I'm so sorry for your loss. Such a handsome young man

[@taniakidd9678]

You touched me through your video about your dear son. You are honoring Jack in a beautiful way by describing your experience as a learning opportunity for the rest of us. I wish you peace and love and wonderful memories of Jack. He was so lucky to have you. ❤

[@roxann3654]

Your son’s story and your family’s touch my heart 🥺🙏what amazing young man your son Jack was. I think it’s wonderful what you father’s are doing. I live in Texas and it is very very bad here. In my small town/city I live at fentanyl is the reason for death. I talk to my adult kids and young nieces and nephews all the time, but we just don’t know is our talk will make a difference. Thank you for what you’re doing and God bless you.

[@LisaSmith-ei1oe]

Thank you for all you are doing to help others combat this issue. Bless you and your family.

[@marycreaney173]

On my goodness how courageous are you to share your son Jack's story. I am so very sorry that you son died so very tragically and I think Jack would be tremendously proud of your courage and strength. I hope by sharing your experience with young people they will keep your strong message in their hearts regarding buying pills on the internet. Please keep carrying the message of hope with all of these dads, you will eventually see a sea change and lives will be saved. Kindest thoughts and prayers. Mary, Belfast, Ireland

[@SandyWilcox-b1m]

I'm watching your story from Australia & I'm so sorry for the loss of your son Jack x I'm here on you tube seeing more & more stories of fentiny deaths in young adults. Unknowingly mostly. It's heartbreaking. ! Good on you for speaking to youths at schools etc . We are lucky here, so far..... that drug is probably around but definitely not an epidemic, like USA. I'm sorry again for your loss, & wish you all the best. Sandy from Aussie. ❤

[@geraldiana]

Im so so sorry. Its so scary, you had such a close relationship and you obviously are a very good father, theres nothing else you could of done. What a gigantic loss for you. Thank you for sharing this.

[@hortenciac878]

So sorry for your loss. May God comfort you in this most difficult of times.

[@wellmanfarms9855]

I’m going to keep watching these videos until I don’t feel guilty anymore because it’s so devastating to watch a beautiful life get snuffed out. Jack matters . I lost my son a few days ago. The autopsy report is coming in several weeks because he died in Louisiana and they are behind on autopsy reports too. Thank you - I have a daughter who feels terrible for not doing more when she was hurting I feel so heavy- and it’s hard to move around- I want to help her but I can relate to the anger and frustration . We will continue to pray and tell these stories- the right people need to take action. In the right direction

[@marisabryant6099]

Jack must be so proud of the work you’re doing. Thank you for sharing his story. I will share it with my preteen and young teen children. You are making a tremendous difference! I’m deeply sorry for your loss.

[@tolkienista3783]

I'm writing this from the UK and I'm truly sorry for the loss of your amazing son. I honestly don't know anything about fentanyl but I've learnt a lot about it from your honest testament and the devastating consequences it's having on young lives. This has been a hard watch, but a must watch.

[@Rose-zn5ql]

Thank you James for sharing you and your beautiful son ‘s story. What a brilliant young man Jack was. I’ve had one of those vivid message dreams from my father after his death. It was bright, blindingly colourful and serene all at the same time, he didn’t speak to me but smiled broadly and I was reassured that he was pain free and in a wonderful place. A blessing to be sure. Keep spreading the message Fentanyl Fathers. Love all the way from Australia. Rest In Peace Jack 🎸

[@katebaxter1160]

You are an amazing father. Your son was the most beautiful boy. I am so sorry for your loss.

[@marytague6268]

What an amazing dad/father/husband! So sorry for your loss as, I, too lost my daughter at 22 from suicide but, our pain is the same. Closure is not a word in my vocabulary. I have learned to “go through” not “over”. Love to you & yours.🙏❤️

[@yvetterivera846]

I'm so sorry for your loss ❤️

[@elishamiyahira4301]

Every beautiful thing your son was while he was here. I saw it all in you sir. You spoke well. Your grief and healing will come the more you talk and share I think.

[@karliann1]

Thank you for sharing your story. I have to believe these videos and those sharing these difficult life altering circumstances are saving at least one person every time. I am so sorry for the loss of Jack.

[@lydiakinnaman3679]

Thank for giving awareness to this killer young, adults, professionals, races, male, female. Sorry for your loss.

[@KellyBroadway-qm8kz]

This is a beautiful tribute to Jack. I've shared this with others that have children, and I hope they take the time to watch it. Every word was heartfelt, and the pain in your voice was evident. I realize you never get over a loss like this, but you're channeling your pain into purpose that will help others.

[@Mskaytee]

Sending love and prayers to the McCarthy family as well as the Fentanyl Fathers! Thank you for bringing awareness to this poisoning and sharing the stories of your loved ones. ❤ Fly High Jack 🎸🕊️

[@kimpierce1483]

You can see how deep the love he had for his son. You keep going to highschools your story will save lives.

[@christinescott6344]

Dad. Don’t question your friendship with beautiful Jack. Unfortunately/tragically, there are times where we have no ability to guide our cherished loved ones, not knowing what is going on. Pure LOVE is what Jack experiences in your presence. With all the people left in the wake of this preventable, real pandemic, you are making a difference with talking about this ever growing epidemic. 😔 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@Iambrandilee]

You sir are a beautiful human being that has turned tragedy into something that can potentially help millions of people by telling his story. Jack would be so proud of you!

[@kaitlinbeste]

Thank you for being honest to your feelings

[@wandajochandler5248]

Im so very sorry for your loss. Thank you for the story of your son Jack's precious life.

[@SaphiraAnderson-he4cg]

I watch these all the time and I dont know the pain the families feel fisthand but I had my son ovedose but he was bought back but watching this it had me crying thank you for helping the word get out....

[@michelledillon6812]

You are an amazing and loving father! Jack was blessed to have you in his life and the legacy you are creating in his name will live on for many many years! Thank you for sharing your story! I pray you find peace and comfort knowing the difference you are making🙏🏻

[@JadePolk]

I'm so sorry for what this father have to go through ❤ god bless you for sharing your story to help others i hope you get the help you need to go through this rip to your son

[@pointerlover3492]

Thank you for telling Jack’s story. He was so much more before that fateful day. I really believe your dream was Jack coming to you and telling you he was okay. God bless you and your family 💙

[@shellysbrewing]

I broke down because as a girl from Arizona, and a love for blues and hearing that deep steel guitar, he had it. Don't worry, he's still playing with all the greats, and you are such a loving father. I'm so sorry he was taken from you. I hope you and your family are able to find healing.

[@kidstuff44555]

Losing your child is a grief that never leaves you, the pain stays sharp for the rest of your life

[@susettelosen8720]

You are a Very Special Parent and Your beautiful son would be so proud of your love for him and now others! I’m in Michigan and am so concerned for kids everywhere! Thanks for sharing Jacks amazing life with us! I feel like I know him🥰🙏🏽

[@hotdogwater8520]

This poor guy