The Greatest Adultery Repellant Known to Man

[@bobtoner9820]

My wife died of cancer in 2010. She was very beautiful but it was her smile. I couldn't imagine doing anything to permanently turn it off.

[@TheFredericks]

So sorry to hear it

[@rockyp32]

Come to Jesus

[@HotelCharliHill]

@@rockyp32who says he hasn’t?

[@rockyp32]

@@HotelCharliHill If you died right now are you a 100% sure you’d go to heaven? All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. Due to our sin. Hell is the punishment .“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.”Revelation‬ ‭21‬:‭8‬ ‭KJV‬‬ but Jesus who is God. Came down to earth as a man lived a perfect life never sinned people got jealous of him got him convicted on false charges then he died buried and resurrectedRemember how I said our sin is why we can’t go to heaven? The only thing that can wash away your sins in the blood of Jesus “But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him.” Roman’s 5:8-9 KJV So to get saved is super easy “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: not of works, lest any man should boast.”Ephesians‬ ‭2‬:‭8‬-‭9‬ ‭KJV‬‬ Salvation is a free gift by faith alone. You can’t earn it by going to church, getting water baptized, or by any good thing you do. “For godly sorrow worketh repentance to salvation not to be repented of: but the sorrow of the world worketh death.”2 Corinthians‬ ‭7‬:‭10‬ ‭KJV‬‬ Then you just have to feel guilty and sorry for being a sinner and repent for being a sinner. Do you feel guilty for being a sinner? If you do then there’s just one final step. “that if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.”Romans‬ ‭10‬:‭9‬ ‭KJV‬‬ all you have to do is tell God out loud with your mouth that you believe the gospel. You MUST mean it from your heart to work. You can pray something like this “dear God i repent as a sinner. i believe jesus is God, who died, buried, and ressurected, so his blood can wash away my sins. so i only trust in the blood alone to save me not my good works. Save me from hell in jesus name i pray amen”

[@deborahlindsay6291]

My heart to yours Dear One!

[@User-wv5rx]

Absolutely, this works. When a spouse is bad mouthing the other to the opposite sex it is the precursor to adultery.

[@hiddenhand6973]

I neverrrrr talk to my marriage to anyone. Ever. That’s between him and me and nobody else.

[@Pumpkinboogers]

Absolutely. Happened all the time

[@awomansstory.2019]

Affairs are common. Sad but true. Dont flirt. Dont respond to flirting. BE angry if you get hit on. TURN TOWARD YOUR SPOUSE.

[@Sean-e5r]

10 years is a long time, but many couples are divorcing after 10 years.

[@Thor-o1v]

Solomon had 700 wives

[@h.g.5141]

​@@Thor-o1vand 300 concubines....he also started worshipping as they worshipped (paganism) and he fell out of grace....he writes about what he learned at the end of his life in Ecclesiastes 12:13-14. "Let us hear the conclusion of the entire matter: fear Elohim and guard His commands, for this applies to all mankind! For Elohim shall bring every work and to right- ruling, including all that is hidden, whether good or whether evil.":) HalleluYah! Now THAT is wisdom!

[@jr0079]

Today women cheat as much as men do or more. I read an article that close to 100M men don't know the children that they are raising is from another man. So if you do the math that 200M men and women are having affair out of 350M in the America. Only GOD could curb your flesh temptation.

[@Sir_Viver]

​@@h.g.5141imagine how effective he would have been if all 1000 women were Hebrew God fearing women who helped him remain focused on God!!

[@nicolem1738]

My husband got an anonymous letter on his car when leaving the gym early in the morning a couple weeks ago... The letter from this woman said she thinks he's extremely attractive and can't get him out of her mind. She said she was waiting for him a few lanes behind him if he's interested, and if not, then it's ok. 🙄 Thankfully, he showed me that morning and thought it was weird and funny. He said he doesn't know who this woman is either . I have my insecurities sometimes bc I know a lot of women look at him that way 😕 But I'm glad he does talk about me a lot, though. Sometimes he calls me from work just to talk to me and I love that ❤ This conversation helped me feel even more confident in him bc I know he wants people to know he loves me ❤

[@EdelweisSusie]

He’ll still meet up with her, though - trust me. Men are hunters - they like the chase - so you need to up your game to spice your marriage up (flirty texts, weekends away if you can manage it, bring him a cake to work etc) so YOU have his attention. Hope all goes well.

[@nicolem1738]

@EdelweisSusie He still doesn't know who she is and I trust that. I do work on making things spicy for us because I know how men need that.

[@QueenDaestra]

@@EdelweisSusie This is honestly horrible and of very little faith. She doesn't need to compete with some random mystery girl. If her husband loves her, he will be unphased. If not, than he has deeper issues to resolve. It wouldn't be his wife's fault in the slightest.

[@QueenDaestra]

@@nicolem1738 I don't know you, but I got your back girl, haha.

[@jeffellis1800]

@@QueenDaestra if she's withholding affection and intimacy from him then she is "part" of the problem. for sure.

[@ronlanter6906]

Godly husband and wife here. God bless you both 🙏✝

[@RockNRecipes]

Love this, and love this commitment to fidelity above reproach! I think this is an awesome practice even when you’re just dating. As a single guy, I so appreciate if a girl I start talking to intentionally finds a way to mention her boyfriend. It’s a clear signal for me to adjust how I’m proceeding and back off in that way which I am so thankful for!

[@TheFredericks]

Good man. May the Lord bless you with a helper fit for you! (-Ryan)

[@jaymccord-hf3ef]

When I was married to my late wife and i was attracted to a woman at work, I would tell her about it. When you bring it out in the open Satan loses his power over this situation. Keeping secrets from your wife creates a place for Satan to work.

[@sitka49]

Good Lord you think you're the only man that has seen a woman they're attracted to? Since I was 16 I probably seen a woman everyday I was attracted to.

[@TheFredericks]

Transparency is always a good, biblical, and wise choice. Well done!

[@d_Gnome]

​@@sitka49he's probably talking that he "likes" her. He has a "feeling" towards her he doesn't like feeling. Not that he is like...oh pretty girl!

[@WW3_Soon]

For me, I am not attracted by all beautiful women but the ones who have a special look that triggered my brain.

[@rrickarr]

jay: Your first problem is attributing this to Satan who does NOT exist.

[@ericmwai1149]

My marriage is on the rocks. Financial instability greatly impacting. I’m optimistic, and trust in GOD till the end. But what I’m going through I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. Thank you for what you guys are doing! Be Blessed!!

[@laurab6214]

Just prayed for your marriage 🙏

[@rev.steveandrews2227]

Certainly, prayers for you brother. Dave Ramsey set out to do financial training to help people, and he didn't realize how many marriages he was helping to repair. If you haven't already heard of it, Financial Peace may be worth checking out.

[@deborahlindsay6291]

Luke 12:32

[@lambo6325]

I feel for you cause been there. Draw closer and trust in the Lord for wisdom and walk in Love and forgiveness and leave the rest in His hand. You do your part and He will do His. Don’t respond in anything out of fear! Trust in His promises and meditate continuously in them and speak life and positive words over family for life and death in power of tongue.🙏🏼

[@JRRodriguez-nu7po]

Strongest predictior of divorce is the wife earning more money than the husband. Over 70% of divorce filing are by the wife.

[@TwoBCre8tive4Life]

I started praying for a man and his marriage when I thought there was an attraction.

[@withlloydallen]

Yes. Please listen to her more. Apart from that, you are a good example of marriage. Thank you.

[@duhg6059]

Respect is something i never got in 33 years..

[@MaryElizabeth-g1b]

33 years of marriage, or are you 33 and nobody has shown you respect ?

[@duhg6059]

@MaryElizabeth-g1b married 33 years

[@ethanwells2712]

Hard when intimacy is very inconsistent and rare. Pray for me.

[@placeholdera5512]

The Lord put this video in front of me. My marriage is not where it should be. Wife quit attending church ~5 yrs ago. She cut off intimacy yrs ago and critical comment on seemingly everything I say. I provide and offer to help more but no appreciation. Men need respect. We also need companionship and thought intimacy. Its a battle when women are around that give any kind of attention...even just a passing comment or a smile. I have come to realize the sacredness of marriage that I am lacking

[@laurab6214]

Just prayed for your marriage 🙏

[@placeholdera5512]

@@laurab6214 Thank you. First and foremost, my wife, daughter, and son need to let the Lord lead their lives. I've been praying for several years without the result I desire. I wonder if it's me the Lord wants to work on or if this is the way it will be...which torments me considering if they will suffer the absolute, continuous torments of hell.

[@mfawls9624]

Same boat here...only 10 years now.

[@johnx140]

My brother in Christ God hates divorce but he loves you more. Get a divorce, that ship sunk years ago, people don't change just because you want to, give it up PLEASE. don't be like these type of people that think that marriage needs to be eternal regardless of how much alive it is or how much pain it causes you. I was like that but I realized the sad truth. You gotta let it go.

[@gabriellavictory3080]

Ask her if she is will go to counseling with you.

[@cindyjean3208]

Very good! Subscribed and liked… As children of God… Part of our witness is to show the world what a Christian relationship looks like - Our Bibles have lots to say.. it must be our guidebook… Great content!!! Blessed be the name of the Lord! 🙏🏻😊

[@mikecattermole2979]

Poor Ted...so incapable!! Lol You 2 are way too fun but this subject is very pertinent and so needed to be addressed! Though I'm not married I can really see its importance!! Thank you!

[@willIV9962]

This is a timely message and reminder, considering the current pastor scandal.

[@TheFredericks]

Indeed, and we had no idea! We recorded this before the news broke. Horrible stuff.

[@aleciawimer8506]

Which pastor?

[@Marc-r4d]

@@aleciawimer8506Steve Lawson?

[@Adakataba]

Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.

[@PrettyTasha-k8q]

It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.

[@Adakataba]

Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?

[@PrettyTasha-k8q]

His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@PrettyTasha-k8q]

he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.

[@Adakataba]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤

[@michaelsandersstudios]

Any other men watching this to prepare for marriage 😄

[@QueenDaestra]

My husband takes care of me, things aren't all bad, but he never tells me I'm beautiful and never physically affectionate (his whole family is like this). Because of it, I've become extremely insecure and I never feel beautiful. I don't look at other men, to the point I usually look at the ground walking past anyone. Even with how much it hurts not feeling physically special to my spouse, I never want my eyes or thoughts to go anywhere near anyone else.

[@Malevolentguppy]

I'm not assuming here. Have you ever spoken about all this to him? I recall a story my dad told me once, when i first started my relationship with my wife, about an interaction between him and my mom. He was on the way out the door to work, and they got into a bit of a tiff when she said, "you never tell me that you love me." He explained that he went to work every day to provide for the family, and came home in the evenings rather than go out gallivanting, and she knew he loved her. To which she replied, "I know, but it would be nice to hear it sometimes." I came along much later in their marriage, but my father was always telling her he loved her, giving her kisses and being affectionate. If the man loves you, he should be working on that, even if he didn't grow up that way. But you need to communicate that to him, possibly more than once. If you have already done so, then you'll need help from someone wiser than an internet rando like me.

[@QueenDaestra]

@@Malevolentguppy Unfortunately, yes, many times. He doesn't feel the need and doesn't believe in giving me validation. I don't think it will be solved anytime soon-- but thank you for the input either way.

[@JoeSmith-gb4ng]

@@QueenDaestra Queen, maybe a different approach can help. Letting him know you understand his family wasn't that way with affection but that's not how all families work. Maybe even ask him to watch a few videos with you. Prayers for you, I hope it works out and he gets to understand your side of it. Empathy isn't always easy for people, especially if they never had good examples of it.

[@charlesbefus6242]

Excellent presentation. Blessings and thank you. Sending it to all nine of our married children.

[@muma6559]

wow! I'm one of nine

[@brooke96591]

Selena is so pretty and her glossy hair is top-notch.

[@kadetheus]

First time hearing you. This was a very nice listen. I will be checking out more videos!

[@olatunjiolakunle6908]

Same, and I am not even married yet

[@kevansmith3660]

What a great video!! I've been checked by the Holy Spirit to change the way i act at work with the opposite sex. I appreciate your guys transparency!!

[@EAAmin]

First time on your channel and listening to you both. Just subscribed.

[@TheFredericks]

Great to have you!

[@carrielegg5480]

I personally feel that women don't care if you have a partner they will flirt anyway. I have seen this happen over and over. Not sure what women get out of doing this.

[@JuiceBox26]

Ego boost. They’re bored in their current relationship and need a new “high”

[@project.family4]

Great podcast guys! Keep up the great work and keep loving God and each other well!

[@TheFredericks]

Thank you!

[@mrright1068]

The algo just sent you to me and what a great topic. New subscriber.

[@scottearlsmithFTC]

Great video. Great message. Thank you.

[@jackandjill9065]

I purchased these books and I read mine but my husband didn’t. You can’t make someone get on board with making a strong marriage!

[@yesorno1768]

Even if people do or would flirt with you, when your train of thought is focused on what is good and pure I think you don't notice those types of people. I feel like only the people who want that attention notice how others "Want" them.

[@OneWingedShark]

LOL You need to talk to the young men that are labeled 'incels' - they're so starved for affection that it's heartbreaking, and renders your observation trash. Would you say, to somebody who hasn't even had a hug in 20 years, that any desire for that or any pain over it was wrong? Or, how about the kid that acts out because they don't get attention?

[@yesorno1768]

Unfortunately, I do agree that there are so many people starving for attention and need love. I am speaking, mainly of married people who always love talking about getting "unwanted attention". Yet, somehow they always noticed it. If you're not interested in it and you don't want it I don't believe you will get it or see it.

[@shunwilliams6180]

Thank you so much for sharing ❤❤❤

[@sarahbeatty2419]

I agree with the text message part 100%

[@gypsysoul279]

There is a difference between being nice to someone and then flirting....like a man holding the door for you isn't being flirty....its being a gentleman...I think a lot of people mistake someone being nice and think they are flirting.....if you go around thinking that everyone is flirting with you... you have issues....sometimes people are just nice and friendly.....doesn't mean they want you.....and my husband and I don't wear rings....it doesn't mean anything....its your heart posture....been married 25 years.....someone giving you a compliment is different than flirting.....and or pursuing....take the compliment and move on....its not difficult. ...

[@hotice8885]

I have ALWAYS used opening the door as one of my ways to flirt. And I have always used the complinent as another way. I have seen a lot of teaching advocating for it, too. Oversimplified comments really set people up for a train wreck.

[@zellerized]

​@@hotice8885open door to flirt.. lol

[@tonytiger8451]

Why would you & your husband NOT wear wedding rings? If you are "married" to each other, why open the door even an inch??

[@Pieflavourman87]

​@@hotice8885you must be flirting with lots of old ladies then lol

[@johnx140]

This is ego talking. You think youre so invincible and inmune to temptation not wearing the ring, you're that type of girl I don't wanna consider marrying 🙄

[@rogerweisse1213]

Thank you for sharing too late for my marriage but thanks anyways!!

[@ZommBleed]

You knew better. You didn't need a video from KZbin.

[@Malevolentguppy]

To be honest, I think most guys are oblivious to flirting, or they assume the woman just wants something from them.

[@tashainjena]

What if your husband spoke lovingly of their spouse DURING an affair? To the other person involved? Telling them they didn't want to hirt them, blah, blah, blah.

[@brentleary2227]

The best repellent to cheating is to hold the cheating party responsible for their actions. Provided the other spouse wasn't intentionally sabotaging the marriage. They are 100% correct though on having Christ as the center of the marriage. Without a solid foundation, any relationship is doomed to sink into the sand

[@CamCordelia]

Liam Neeson, ope... NOPE! haha that's why i clicked, but i will listen too. A very good topic btw!

[@jr0079]

Women told realize that if you don't look physical attract for your husband.

[@tdrive398]

4:57 Husbands do this FAR more often for their wives than wives do for their husbands.

[@mikehiers3332]

I read Proverbs chapter 7 often. The reality is it's a daily battle. We are seeing so many preachers being brought down lately because of adultery. This is telling us just how dangerous this sin is. This is a very good and informative video.May God bless your endeavors.

[@feelinit213]

Sit down Ted hahahaha made me laugh in the middle of a serious topic lol

[@jodythi1]

They will still flirt with your significant other in front of you it’s crazy.

[@rplewis]

I don't see flirting when I'm on an actual date.

[@themichaelbarrow]

Keep your man faithful just put that thang on him

[@DennisJMarkakis]

Being a good person is the best adultery repellent. only selfish people commit adultery and if you’re a selfish person, you aren’t a good person.

[@cebuanakonthego7143]

@TheFredericks is there a label or an amount of how much the husbands give love to his wife and a wife gives respects to her husband?

[@slardebard]

What do you mean?

[@brentj.peterson6070]

Wives cutting off sex ..i'm talking when things aren't awful...and resists your attemps...that's when the relationship is in serious trouble.😮

[@jomellesamuel7053]

Hhmmm

[@slardebard]

There may be someone else already?

[@Fallout777]

I wish they would have talked about sex less marriages. That's something that alot of men are experiencing today. As well as the rise of social media.

[@wesb211]

Excellent

[@lerixia2807]

Married people should always use their 💍

[@jonycruz2430]

Where do they talk about the repellant? I don’t have time to listen to the whole thing. Wish there was time stamps.

[@mikehiers3332]

They said when you are faced with a flirtatious woman start talking about your wife in a positive way. Unless you want to cheat.

[@karinmassey7806]

Illicit titillation daliances occures regardless if you are the best wife and are praised by your spouse. Most people in my opinion were sexually abused when they were in their former adolescent years especially when hiden and parents werent involved.

[@donnasimmons2241]

You are so wrong about that.

[@Sean-e5r]

I am actually used to not pursuing women who give signs of flirting nonverbally. I just assume they are like that with any guy, because I am still naive to a certain extent. I do however entertain some playing around with words with a couple of women, but rarely is it me indicating something sensual. Those few times is my fault indeed. But never overtly kind of thing, but I don't know i the women can tell if I am flirting or just being nice. And I think in my heart I should be more gaurded about it and less sensual in my communication. No this is not the usual day at work, but I am definitely honest enough to say I feel lonely at times, and that is one flaw that I do have in expressing that. But I don't go around getting numbers from women left and right, but there has been this assumption that I am a ladies' man. Not even close. I should gaurd my heart better though because I am not for fornication or adultery, or sodomy of any kind. Sodomy is anal and oral sex so even heterosexuals can be sodomites.

[@Shahzaibsheharyar]

Hello dears please help me please my mom suffering kidney disease and I face poverty and unemployment please feel my I'm really needy I'm just humble request to you please 🙏

[@camilleroseministries]

You guys are great! "Subscribe!" ❤

[@heisrisen6898]

Poor Ted he must be depressed 😂

[@TheFredericks]

He’s the worst

[@Fiore-oh9bz]

My husband is the bomb - he alone has my heart 🙂 If any guys try to flirt with me it just seems so icky and eww ...a big yuck fest.

[@sarahw.mcelyea5655]

Yeah, nah. .. I think for a wife, we just need to say (to a flirty guy), "Yeah, my kids are texting me wondering where supper is. And they are fighting and destroying the house..."

[@rev.steveandrews2227]

So instead of using your words to build up your husband and his reputation, you'd rather use your words to tear down your children?

[@adimetrius]

An episode on adultery repellent and no word on sex. Leaves me guessing... is this ignorance? or do you fear bringing up sex? Or are you trying carefully to not notice the elephant in the room? Also, you both talking about wives respecting their husbands, including your wife talking over you about respecting husbands, as well as throughout the video. Or is talking over someone not so disrespectful?

[@TheFredericks]

Definitely check out our other videos. We talk about sex plenty and aren't afraid to do so. As for Selena talking over me at times: conversations can be like that, and I don't take it as disrespect in most cases.

[@gravewolfwood5747]

Is this Liam Neeson over here?😂

[@Thor-o1v]

Solomon had 700 wives

[@TheFredericks]

He did, and he was condemned for it. And David was an adulterer; doesn't make it right.

[@Reyes-f9m]

Brother SHUTUP PLEASE 🙏Let her finish speaking. You are so rude and disrespectful to your wife, embarrassing in front of other's, chill out ,are you narcissistic ? You ruined the study!

[@thesacrificialsimp7165]

Just FYI. You both sound so ingenious when you answered the question " does Ladies or Men flirt with you?" It's so obvious. It would be so much better if you answered honestly. Him: " I'm oblivious, I don't think so". Her: "not that I noticed". Please stop the BS. and be authentic. Thank you.

[@TheFredericks]

I think you mean “disingenuous”, and believe it or not, we’re not blowing smoke. Not even sure why we would. (- Ryan)

[@inchristalone25]

I am an attractive woman and I haven't detected any flirting by any man I was around because I don't dress slutty and I don't have huge breasts. I think women with huge breasts who don't know how to dress modesty get the most attention out there.

[@sergioalvarez1919]

Trust me brother. Even some of the better looking dudes tend to oblivious with women. Unless you have plenty of experience with women. Being a Christian man, he may not have that kind of experience since he was probably out there dating with purpose. I believe him. Her on the other hand. She was being cheeky about it. She knows or would know when another woman is into him.

[@donlowrance3954]

Stop picking at your beard. It is distracting. Otherwise, it is helpful.

[@TheFredericks]

You seem fun

[@RandySloan-i2t]

You are monogamous..i am polygynist. I do not agree with ...your stratigy because it refuses to agree with bible statements from Genesis. Man was created to have many wives... Not only one.

[@user-in5ru2cd9l]

Wrong. Man (originally male) was only created for no one but the Lord. Ask Holy Spirit to reveal that revelation to you.

[@lorrainea.285]

Handsome???? Girl WHAT???? He has a face a mom would love🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@plousia]

Unfortunate that between thinking that and typing out the comment your conscience didn't intervene to stop you. Not helpful, edifying, nice, useful, or anything else good at all.

[@Johnrider1234]

Fenbezadol. For the love of god. Ivermectin and fenbezadol. If you have cancer