Japanese Dad Whose Daughter is Pornstar [ENG CC]

[@TheJapanReporter]

If you found that your daughter or wife was working in porn (or prostitution), would you be able to accept it?

[@jadenquest9544]

I would not accept it. Not in my house

[@stevai6732]

No. Porn is a joke and a demonic plight on the soul of man and woman regardless of your race, religion or background. If you don't see that, you're damaged. Watching people screw is an unnatural abomination of behavior and never a thing before the modern realm of technology outside of groupplay or watching your husband or wife/girlfriend/etc hop on someone else. The damage is spiritual and scientifically documented if you aren't knee-deep in coomer brains. If my daughter went down this path, she could speak to me after repenting and giving the profession up for good, otherwise, she is no long a daughter of mine. The body is a temple, not a swamp of prostitution and anti-reproductive pleasure farming. This world is cursed and porn is an aspect of the spiritual downfall of many peoples.

[@petsandthingsilike]

No, I couldn't accept it because sex work is so exploitive on both sides. Such a scary environment. I would try my best to advocate to get out of that. I went no-porn(and I used to to never be able to imagine a porn-free life) after I found out how awful it is.. I can't support it. The only people who benefit are the ones off of the exploitation of others. Even if one pornstar is making billions and says its lovely, there will always be a younger and more naive person being taken advantage of. A lot of assualt is recorded and is now legal because its 'porn' (filmed in front of a camera). Theres also many illegal porn that's posted on legal websites because anyone can post and it's not regulated. Same with revenge porn. No one wins, really.. (also a good way to educate yourself is on how drugs and sex trafficking is used to control sex workers and addicts, a lot of 'porn' is also advertising for those been trafficked or kidnapped). There are so many good ways to make money nowadays, even if you like sex, there are much better ways (getting into a trade) that don't hurt the exploited. I also find myself a lot happier without porn and I have better relationships, sex life and friends.. I found that I was missing human connection and wanted that instant rush.. not worth it.. just always think why and how did this happen.. what happened before this.. what will happen to them after?

[@ZACHANDJACKSZACHSMAFIA]

I could never -JACK JUST CANT

[@ZACHANDJACKSZACHSMAFIA]

@@stevai6732 you sound like you prefer drawing or using your mind to pretend do the girl next door -JACK

[@anastasiskarlis1282]

Imagine all the sweet memories this guy has since his daughter was just a baby. I can't even think what kind of trauma he went through when he realised that the girl in these videos is his daughter. I don't even know what to say to him.

[@TubeDeviant]

He has an integral role in how his daughter's life has turned out. We just don't know that side of the story.

[@ericvalverderosado2046]

@@TubeDeviant then why mama fucking left?!

[@TubeDeviant]

@@ericvalverderosado2046 What are you even asking..?? I'm saying that both of her parents are at least partly responsible for how their daughter's life is currently.

[@lorisofi543]

Absolutely so.. So sad, really.. I feel this poor father, especially when he said, it's like a blade in your heart..

[@tearsonblades8134]

@@TubeDeviant that is true to some degree, but ultimately it was her own choice and the state of the society is fucking sad

[@nietzchan]

The saddest part is the girls probably did it out of their good intention wanting to support their family or not being a financial burden As the single father said, more than the fact that their kids is doing porn, it is more painful knowing that everything you have done for your kids is still not enough nothing is more heartbreaking than that to a parents

[@yuddinwarri6824]

Yup especially when they start riding the BBC on video

[@MrKlausHeisler]

They wanted to be famous as a Celebrities make huge chunk of money to surpass other women.

[@aryantzh2028]

@@MrKlausHeisler nah, they just wanted to feel good every day

[@incelotl]

Lmao no.

[@jusforfun9840]

No brother thats not sole reason and everyone knows it

[@tusharkashyap8688]

I understand that daughters don't want to put financial burden on their parents. But a huge number of girls choosing to get into porn or prostitution for this reason shows something is very wrong with the society/system.

[@tsuchus]

agreed

[@mellowblueu]

i mean if you could easily earn money just by selling pictures of your body to hungry men, why not? it's easy money. just play it safe and always take precautions working in that kind of industry though.. now, actual sexual intercourse is a different story. but there are ways to practice safe sex and birth control pills along with that. as long as you are not planning to pursue a career as a public figure in the future, it's alright to have people know that you worked in a porn industry, why should people dislike you for that?

[@tsuchus]

@@mellowblueu why would u want to become a thot bruh

[@tusharkashyap8688]

@@mellowblueu I am taking about those women only who are looking to supplement, support their higher education, family etc with their income and don't actually want a career in porn or related industry. Because for them the disadvantages always outweighs the advantages of earning money through this medium. That father in video got very disappointed with his daughter but that doesn't mean he didn't loved her. He even thinks it's his fault that he didn't raise her properly. If the word 'family' has importance in someone's life, he/she should understand that their decisions might affect their family as well. That being said it's a free society, and people have a right to choose their profession.

[@aryabp]

@@mellowblueu do you guess in the future, the internet society will accept porn leadership or what?

[@dimitrilee6286]

The fact that the father put the full blame on himself as a parent shows the heart of a truly loving father. Then you see the parents of the other girl who only cared about status and acceptance show no love at all, I hope you get your little girl back man,

[@lan_dev]

I agree, Mr Vegeta.

[@Ester90000]

She did that knowing that her dad could find out, and that if he did, he would be heartbroken forever. She does not deserve his love. She's no little girl, she's gross

[@dimitrilee6286]

@@Ester90000 well regardless of what you think the father seems to still love his daughter.

[@secho88]

maybe its the other way round, the girl who wanted status and acceptance wanted that solely because her parents werent giving her said status and acceptance so she goes out and tries to search for it elsewhere idk im probably bullshitting

[@suyumivie]

​@@Ester90000 💀💀💀

[@IKEMENOsakaman]

There are many "confessions" by porn stars, but it's one of a kind when it's a "confession of a Japanese dad who's daughter is a pornstar"! Thank you so much for this video!!!

[@ideal5535]

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[@abdullahzafar4401]

That girl kaho looks pure evil , laughing on how her mother felt more "stressed" than her I'm a guy and I don't do so much things no matter how desperate I get because it would hurt my mother and my father Today's parents are no saints I agree but an adult child is also not so innocent in situations like these

[@rrrrr0_]

whose*

[@kojikkooo]

what lmao

[@lemonade4865]

@SUBSCRIBO share the name homie

[@MissesWitch]

"It's a permanent digital footprint that could ruin your life" the guy has got it right! that's certainly one of the many reasons I wouldn't get into such a thing!

[@wombat5252]

Exactly. Very few people are wired to work in porn. Takes a special kind of person., woman OR man.

[@leibniz4455]

I have sympathy with them, as there are debts that a single student can't just use a summoning jutsu to get money, or some that don't have parents at all and have influences from the wrong kinds of people. However, it just pains me, this actually convinced me not to marry at all, but it's not about me. It's the fact that it brought me to that conclusion, is one telling factor that people in this industry wouldn't only struggle from finances, but also socially.

[@alexdhamp]

@@wombat5252 Men don't get judged like women do, though. If anything, they're celebrated. Double standards...

[@buriedomasta3375]

@@alexdhamp no they don't stop spreading bullshit it's disgusting both ways

[@jason4275]

@@alexdhamp Most fathers wouldn't support their daughter dating or marrying a pornstars

[@matejsvec4451]

Japan could really benefit from more open conversation between family members about uncomfortable topics. Saying this as someone married to a Japanese wife

[@klaudinegarcia8932]

Agree! The more I socialise with Japanese people, the more I can see the dark side of their culture. I felt uncomfortable around most of them because they're so reserved and obedient. They're like robots...I've never seen anything like that before.

[@jmtheelitefan9616]

@@klaudinegarcia8932 I think that traces to the ingrained belief within their culture of social coherence/ subservience and conformity. Unfortunately that brings numerous stark negatives alongside the positives.

[@killertruth186]

@@klaudinegarcia8932 You can even tell about most of the Japanese porn, the woman looks obviously uncomfortable. And there's nothing telling if it was scripted or not (most porn sites never was unified, mainly because most of the uploads are just nearly brain dead sex crazed people who forgotten what literacy even is).

[@yogadarmawan3051]

Japan slowly killed by their shy.

[@madmanmark08]

100,000% agreed. the family needs to have these age appropriate conversations.

[@scribble9431]

As a dad of a 9 yr old daughter, it would certainly hurt if she chose that path. I would do whatever it takes to take her back even if it cost me my life. That's why I'm striving to raise her good and God fearing. Edit: I just researched this, but most of the female actresses who works in that kind of industry die way before their 40s, mostly from suicide and drug abuse. It's just so saddening to hear.

[@maheshkisku4296]

Amen may Christ be with you

[@Bookooky]

Then get a good income. That's the main reason.

[@scribble9431]

@@Bookooky nope.

[@exiaR2x78]

Ircc that is more so in the west with the suicide/drug abuse. The mental health aspect of going into that industry is kind of like any sort of "fame" where some people are ill suited to deal with it. I follow a bunch of JAV stars and read/watched a ton of interviews cause its honestly interrsting what lead people down that path and there is a whole lot of different reasons ranging from being tricked by dodge "model agencies" to being a PT for AV actresses and deciding to give it a go to have a better idea of what there PT customers needs are.

[@MAHORAGADAOPPSTOPPA]

God fearing? Why should a person fear God? Cultist ahh beliefs to keep people in line to force them to believe a mystical being will strike them down if they dont keep in line

[@3X0SK3L3TON]

The father looks and sounds so heartbroken. Especially when he had to watch a video to verify its his daughter.

[@BB-ef3ev]

I’m gonna assume this is sarcastic and agree with you! He did not have to watch them at all, he could’ve asked her and spared himself the trauma. But he willingly went ahead and did it anyway

[@jwh9987]

@@BB-ef3ev right like can we abt how he heard a rumor his daughter was a p star and he decided to look at the videos for himself instead of confronting her or minding his business

[@shashankdixit8949]

​@@jwh9987 so he is at fault for not minding his business? but his daughter is not at fault for doing porn

[@jwh9987]

@@shashankdixit8949 all I am saying is that it is weird for him to hear a rumor about his daughter doing that type of stuff and then going to look it up on the Internet, that’s weird. Why does it have to be the daughters fault, if anything it’s the fathers fault for being such a crap father then

[@adrammelech6323]

@@jwh9987 maybe because it's scary to ask your daughter about it and hear yes or embarrassing to ask and hear no. Especially because they're Japanese, Japanese people don't talk about things like this, it's a very traditionalist, introverted society. And as you seen in the video most realistic would be she would just make up lies why it's not her.

[@AlexanderPews]

Can we all just take a moment.. to appreciate Nobitas CC subtitles for us.. Correct translation, timing etc.. then repeat, This takes lots of time and is alot of work👍

[@CubSATPH]

Yeah

[@anuragrai9]

Ok

[@thesuplexguy7789]

Ah Nobita!!!

[@raufwarith2197]

All thanks to doraemon

[@xmylerx4618]

it's his youtube channel and he is making money out of it, stop being dramatic

[@ProletarianTakeover]

This is horrifying. I hope their relationship can be repaired.

[@syrehn7684]

Im pretty sure when you commit to that kind of industry you kinda just accept that youre ruining your parental relationships, especially when you know your parents would be against it, even more so in a very traditional conservative country like Japan.

[@yomamawanmadikku9094]

Never she's betrayed him

[@Stoonk]

@@syrehn7684 Its the same story even in America, probably everywhere

[@Helmutlozzi]

@@yomamawanmadikku9094 necessary evil to pay for the tuition. A responsible parent would understand. You can only blame the system that put them in this situation.

[@yomamawanmadikku9094]

@@Helmutlozzi she's should've married and not taken a boys spot In that college

[@hakimhomecent1619]

"Money can't buy happiness, but it can prevent unhappiness" is what I learned here

[@atilla4352]

or Fatherless, single parenting does not work and school or friends cannot raise you.

[@raulmason723]

Agree

[@rishabh600]

It's true but the ways you earn it could leave some devastating impacts

[@johnmaco]

A more accurate phrase would be: "Money does not buy happiness, but it can buy joy." Happiness and joy are 2 very different things. Joy is temporary, like drinking alcohol. If you don't fix the underlying problems, you will never be happy in your life.

[@einstorage1766]

@@johnmaco this is modern world, you can fix every fundamental needs with money. like house, food, cloth, medicine which prevent you from unhappiness. without money you could even lose your own house if you don't pay tax...

[@BonazaiGirl]

In the vast majority of cases, people who find themselves in porn or other sex work industries such as prostitution or stripping don’t typically enter those businesses if they’ve had a fairly well-to-do background or circumstances. They’re usually strapped for cash or fame. However, I’d imagine that her father must’ve been blindsided by seeing his daughter in such an industry and can’t imagine how much he’s been replaying how he raised her to see “where he went wrong.” I can’t imagine how hard it is for him to grasp that the young girl he raised is now in such a rather risqué job and hope and pray he’ll be able to find the strength to grasp it and move on.

[@BonazaiGirl]

@@firstLast-jw7bm You’ll be surprised how many people want to make it big and what lengths they’ll go for their name to be heard. OnlyFans, TikTok, KZbin… there’s an insane amount of people who want to get famous by any means necessary.

[@justadummy8076]

@@firstLast-jw7bm don’t underestimate some people’s lust for fame, there are people out there who would do anything for it, just look at clout chasers on tik tok or Instagram doing whatever it takes & embarrassing themselves to go viral

[@seraby7151]

@@justadummy8076 fame brings money(not always), though for extroverts and narcissists, it does bring them genuine joy. So you'll occasionally find some porn stars who actually enjoyed the work.

[@jinjigu8913]

He spent time to earn money and love take care of his kid. But finally, the girl decided to work porn star and prostitution because she doesn’t want him to feel burdens. Do she really ask for his feeling first? At least, the girl should talk it out before doing that kind of work. Her father felt happy even he worked so hard but now he feels depressed and sad after know his precious daughter is insulted on the social media, and mock by many male.

[@irvancrocs1753]

@@firstLast-jw7bm There are people who will do everything to be famous, a guy crashed his plane for his YT content, two girls making content of hanging dead man on tiktok, a fake instagram model who spend thousand of dollars to buy million of followers for her insta and twitter even faking sponsorship, a teen sit in front of moving train and almost getting hit.. Don't underestimate people's idiocracy to be famous..

[@nogitsune4452]

Kind of curious how bad the job market is for people in Japan who only completed a high school education, knowing all this now. It sounds like getting a college education is heavily encouraged, but lacks any real financial support/aid outside of predatory loans. Can't say it's better over here in America.

[@antonioc7186]

With so many graduates and low job opportunities, the competition is fierce. The temptation for a woman to work in the sex industry is even more so. When they see that sex workers around them are making 5x or 10x more than the regular job that they pursue.

[@shimizukebin]

Wages are just too low for a developed country when you’re doing a job that doesn’t require a university degree. Besides that the whole mental social situation in Japan is also fucked up just like in most developed countries nowadays

[@olegvinokurov1738]

Pretty much limited to low pay and loose the job anytime. Japanese care a lot about papers and "proper" way, so even if someone is extremely skilled but lacks education background he won't be able to find decent work. The best solution would getting into trade school if can't afford university. Only high school and as a japanese national is asking for a rough life. Another good option would be moving to country side and go into agriculture/fishing. Pays quite well and is steady long term work, but few young people want to move away from big city.

[@emancebo13]

If there is one thing I can tell you, is that people get a lot of help in the US, be it financial or educational. I’m not saying the system is perfect, far from it, but people have lots of opportunities…

[@klaudinegarcia8932]

I believe Asian cultures in general highly value education. We value it so much we're teaching our kids to tie their self worth to it. Failing, receiving a low mark or dropping out from school. People don't know who they are anymore and they're beating themselves up. As a result, so many died by suicide for those reasons.

[@parasthakur7432]

i can`t even imagine how he felt to see his daughter like that

[@cottoncandykawaii2673]

probably similar to the George C Scott scene in Hardcore when he discovers his daughter is doing porn kzbin.info/www/bejne/baaagalnoaakepY

[@alexlinkinparkful]

@@cottoncandykawaii2673 I just saw that clip of the movie and you're absolutely right.

[@wing2300]

I know what I'd feel. If you know what I mean. I wouldn't be able to stop lusting on my daughter if that happens. lmao

[@cherrrycola3902]

@@wing2300 Typical male, not surprised.😒

[@cottoncandykawaii2673]

@@wing2300 wtf

[@wakeupsheeple81]

I feel so much love and compassion for both of them when he speaks about her not wanting to financially burden him. My daughter is off to Uni soon, she has no idea how simple it is for her.

[@nessamillikan6247]

I hope she realizes how much of a blessing and a gift it is to have you in her life, that opportunity to be taken care of beyond becoming an adult and to start that adult life with advances! I know that I am glad that my parents did that for me, even if I had to work at the same time. :)

[@dradvyrk6162]

Nobita-san, you're courageous to share this to us, your audience. I appreciate your efforts.

[@kittenmimi5326]

Shouldn't you applaud the people in the video instead of nobita san

[@etcetera1674]

@@kittenmimi5326 true but you just got to see the video due to his idea of filming about a highly controversial topic which, yea, that takes courage. Of course, the individuals in the videos have a lot more courage to talk openly about family issues and the devastating world of pornography that they are drowning in to this day.

[@RayMak]

It's devastating. But it's becoming a culture in Japan because salarymen just can't make enough, wives are not working, there are no interest from banks and not much residual income left for investments, country been in stagflation for over 3 decades... Plus the Karoshi culture.... It's just tough.

[@tiahnarodriguez3809]

Japan has always had s*x workers, pron stars, cam models, etc. This isn’t new 😅

[@fraughtlmao]

fr

[@penelopebaricaua5224]

Didn't know you know this much but this is informative:~

[@Bully_who_made_goblin_Jr_cry]

You really are everywhere arent you?

[@1chibanKasuga]

If wives don't work then why are these girls doing prostitution to pay college?

[@bunnybunnyhophophop]

That moment when the distraught dad says "Now I feel like my daughter became a criminal. It's that heartbreaking (...) And I wouldn't say we should abolish all the sex businesses or industries right now." Many women and girls working in these industries are also the precious daughters of dads like him. I wonder how many men continue to patronise these establishments all while at the same time wishing that their own daughters would not work in the industry.

[@alexdhamp]

What about sons working in the industry?

[@davidwelch2791]

@@alexdhamp I have two sons and one daughter. Most dads would probably high-five their sons, if they did porn with women. If they did it with other men; I think that they would be devastated. As for myself, I was in one porn back in 88 when I was in the USN. It was a spur of the moment, but fun experience. Be safe and be 😎

[@NestorSaliven]

@@davidwelch2791 Now just imagine for the sake of the point taken that your son gets infected by aids during his fun work in the industry. He might want to marry some day a nice girl and have a family with children, but no sane woman would want to have sex and make a family with aids infected. Extreme case i know, but in this situation they might also pass down aids for the next generation and their life also gets ruined. (Your grandmother/ grandfather was a porn actor/actress/ prostitutes, and they have to head this through their entire time at school. )

[@Whatsup_Abroad]

@@davidwelch2791 Most sons that get into the industry do it are forced by circumstance or worse and do gay for pay

[@bendover7841]

@@davidwelch2791 I would be pissed off if my son did crap like that

[@PalestineLivesOn]

Every father's worst nightmare. I wouldn't even wish this on my worst enemy. Poor guy.

[@Odumase]

Womp womp

[@lifeline_]

1. I like that there is finally a perspective from the family that isn't like Shibuya's that is out there. Not every family is abusive and I understand her situation, but I am also aware of the advancements of technology especially around de-censoring and reverse image searching. Of the effects on romantic relationships. The effects of a single life into later years, especially on women (increase chance of poverty/homelessness)... As cliché as it will sound, these are things I wouldn't wish on anyone and I'm sad to say I've tried and felt like sh*t. 2. However, I can't deny the problem many modern societies have either, such as extreme ambition over being content. It isn't something I like saying, but this idea that "everyone is meant to go to college" just reminds me that even the military doesn't accept everyone... they say no if you aren't fit enough, complaint enough, or smart enough. People need to understand their limits at one point and work within them to achieve the best they can... but everyone wants the lives they see in movies and fantasy. On social media, etc.

[@thedarkone5459]

Agreed

[@andthestorybegins5597]

Same.

[@kittenmimi5326]

I like how the direction in this is more like... not judging, and was more like "just make sure you are really sure if you want to get to that industry, cos once you get in you will be forever be known as a pr0nst4r, think carefully if it is worth it or not"

[@xyruz690]

Yeah and not really because they decided that for themselves it's also the lack of knowledge and oppurtunity for a proper education that a proper life isn't contained to going to college so u can get a good job and have a lot of money so you'll be happy

[@Unan1mouz]

I feel sad for people like Kaho. I hope she's doing well on her own.

[@boohop9566]

I really like how honest and insightful she is. I hope she can live a happy life.

[@f6cks]

seems like she is happy and doing well wdym

[@Unan1mouz]

@@boohop9566 Amen to that. She just needs to have good friends around her that treats her like family!

[@oonkadoonk544]

I believe that that the woman featured in here is doing well for herself as of today. She constantly does cosplays of anime characters, livestreams playing games on Twitch and is friends with popular anime KZbinrs and she seems quite happy doing it!

[@picnicbros]

@@oonkadoonk544 you never know. People only show what they want others to see

[@Peanut_Von_Strudel]

As a responsible/loving parent, your child's choices, attitude, and actions is a reflection of you. Even when they become an adult, you still feel responsible for them. If you have never felt responsible for a child, or been very involved with your child's development, then this probably wont affect you very much. If my daughter started a career in porn, I would be devastated. I would feel I have failed my daughter.

[@madmanmark08]

i would feel the same with my daughter.

[@luscao8444]

I'd feel the same too, so terrible.

[@roguescorner9042]

If I had a daughter and she did it out of necessity like most of these Japanese college girls, then yes, it would hurt me quite a bit. But if she chose it because she simply wanted to or saw it as a legitimate way to work, as long as she's happy and, especially, safe, I would be OK with it. Each day that passes porn becomes more and more of a legitimate way to work. If my daughter chooses to work on that industry, again as long as she's safe and happy with that decision, I'll respect her choice and won't think any differently about her.

[@erenjaeger6082]

@@roguescorner9042 I don't respect your opinion however it's not mine so I can't do much or say much But I'm just gonna Keane with " sex is a sacred act of intimacy between two people and if you can't teach a child that much then your parenting is flawed"

[@roguescorner9042]

@@erenjaeger6082 I'm sorry, I just don't agree with that. Sex is just sex. I respect those who do view is as a sacred act, but I just don't see it that way. It's a natural human act.

[@Bonkbork]

What surprises me is how half of them arent doing for entertainment. They do it strictly just to pay of living expenses.

[@maddie6321]

Your surprised?

[@Vibesmen]

@@maddie6321 in america, most pornstars say they did it because they wanted to, there was this one onlyfans model who admitted and proved she had a law degree, but said she decided to do porn instead of be a lawyer.

[@scoobsshrooms109]

That’s what they tell you but it’s not that simple

[@immortalirx]

Why would anyone do it for entertainment?

[@deltaechomusicnh555]

I'm surprised at how dumb you are.

[@Ritik_Nandan]

I agree with every single word the father said. If it's someone else's daughter you don't even care a bit But if it's your own daughter you will feel the worst. There should be some other options for poor students to work and pay their student loans instead of doing AV or Pørn.

[@Ritik_Nandan]

@@y2kg356 I didn't get what you are saying, which issue are you talking about? Please reply

[@j.rjunior5584]

What's AV?

[@Ritik_Nandan]

@@j.rjunior5584 AV means Adult Video Basically pørn videos

[@Joshuamazed]

@@j.rjunior5584 Adult videos

[@crotmoncrot8437]

@@j.rjunior5584 animal video

[@ducktail4068]

This is pretty heartbreaking. They sacrifice their body, life and mind for the lust of losers online just because they got debts or need money desperately. All for money. I wish they could find better ways to deal with money.

[@Hauke69]

And there is no other way for them to earn money in Japan? I mean to earn enough to pay back debts?

[@franksinatra7325]

@@Hauke69 to make ends meet by yourself you need a strong stable job. You can't get that kind of job as a young person because employers are obsessed with exemplary CVs (especially the previous experience section). Most college students don't have that, for obvious reasons. Part-times at fast food might not be attractive as experience, even though that's the only option for highschoolers, but you can't even count it as an option for college students because of how low the pay is; and a part-time during highschool takes a lot of time that you have reserved for academic performance (olympiads, contests, tutoring, even charities) which is something that is seeked when you apply for college. Internships generally don't happen in the first year of college, and even so internships also have low pay, that is if the employer even wants to pay the student. See, if you get an internship at a multinational, let's say, it's likely that they will not even pay you because "it's an honor to work for them" because that gives them strong material for their CV. And also, a job oftentimes means you have to sacrifice your education. This is the case in my second world country, I don't even want to think about what happens in Japan.

[@pinukrakasa201]

that's the path of permanent damage, one would rather beg than work in such a vile industry

[@adale2771]

Why? It’s her life , she’s a grown adult . She can do whatever she wants with her life and body, it shouldn’t be anybody else’s choice but hers or any body else’s business for that matter.

[@busubalang2361]

​@@adale2771 It's true that her choice but she must deny morality for money. She definitely forces herself (I'm not a native speaker and I hope there isn't any typo).

[@RodChar49]

Nobita should really emphasis more on the donation link (at the start for example), since his videos are not sponsored. The growing quality and the work to bring new and difficult subject should be more rewarding. Anyway, I'll keep supporting the channel and if you don't and you like the content (and have the budget), it's a way to keep promoting a good youtuber 🙂

[@Skynomer]

Thanks for making this video! I really loved how you showed so many different aspects of this topic!

[@fatedzero1039]

Divorced and now left by daughter, man I feel so sorry about him no more family 😢

[@Peanuts76]

I have mixed feelings regarding this videos and the story behind, it was such tricky topics involving so many perspective, like cultural taboo, and modernized-altough very conservative japan people (father perspective and dilemma here).... Not too try overanalyze everything, but good job Nobita-San, you're such a brave man to bring this topic into KZbin, and being very honest and professional regarding this topic, it answer a lot of curiosity...

[@Sylpharts]

Thank you for this video. It helps me to understand some of the darkness lurking in Japan that people don't normally see but resonates everywhere below the surface. Please keep it up, your videos are truly great and insightful.

[@serenityssolace]

Another excellent video from the best Japanese youtuber! Thinking of all people's perspectives

[@julianocean1734]

I don’t think you will see this comment Nobita but I wanted to thank you!! My ex was an AV/ pornstar and I discovered it thanks to you last year when you made a video about how ex pornstars can’t go back to normal life and get s normal job. I had doubts those past 10 years because I couldn’t understand how she managed to live in my country with savings as a former secretary she said and on top of that have latest iPhone etc. but that’s your video that pushed me to investigate. I found an AI that recognize faces and found that she made about 20-30 dvd. When I saw the first cover with 2 men I was in disbelief but I checked several films and sadly that was her. After that I had issues with my health because of the shock so I can’t imagine parents that find out. I am quite sure now she also did either hostess or prostitution. I regret sometimes that I found out because it reopened wounds but I think in reality I am glad I know.

[@ryukimizukashi5598]

That hurts man i cant even imagine being in that situation that must be hard for you😢

[@Hauke69]

That's tough to learn. But she couldn't tell you. Sounds like she honestly wants to leave her past behind and start a new life. Isn't she still the same person who has shown you her genuine love?

[@Srevengel]

@@Hauke69 She was literally banging other dudes and lying about it. How is that genuine?

[@crotmoncrot8437]

Hope you get happiness from other women, a better woman.

[@jinjigu8913]

If she did prostitution but only in the past and now with you while you two having relationship is okay. I mean okay if you can accept that she was ex-porn star but not when she is with you. On the other hand, if she still continue to back to her job while she had you, which means this girl is very bad deal. End relationship is really the right choice. At least, you don’t add other sexual illness which is long run and ruin your body.

[@esm1817]

That would be hard to know, as a parent. What I especially would worry about, I don't know if it's a concern in Japan. It is the safety of their work, with STDs and such. And a secondary concern would be that mentally and emotionally, are they really doing okay with all the issues that kind of work presents? If they're putting on a brave face how do you know how to help? It would be hard. 😭

[@roguescorner9042]

Exactly. If I had a daughter and she chose to do this because she genuinely wanted to, knowing the risks and all that this kind of work entails, I would be OK with it as long as she's happy and stays safe. What would really trouble me is if she's unhappy with that kind of job but chose to do it out of necessity. Like not being able to pay for her things and that kind of stuff. That's what would really trouble me greatly.

[@mrpiss802]

@@roguescorner9042 no ofc you wouldn't be happy if this happened to you....Saying and experiencing it is a different thing

[@valtress96]

@@roguescorner9042 yuck!! I’d rather her be a toilet cleaner than to be in this loathsome evil world that would depresses her before it would to me just like it did for many pornstars who ended up killing them selves!

[@susanwjoh0re735]

@@roguescorner9042 you are not a man, you are a h03.

[@Cecilia-ky3uw]

​@@mrpiss802no, you're literally just being closed minded, your idea of sex work is like the dalits in the indian caste system.

[@bagaskarahadjarputra6070]

Nobita really reach one of the new peak of the subject matter that is so grey that it cannot be easily penetrated to the media for such a long time. YT really gave this shade of grey area a chance to be seen for a learning lesson. Nice One Sir, keep it up 👍🏼

[@mrbob4104]

"if it was a stranger i wouldn't have a problem. But if it's my child it's something I don't want" Guys we have to remember that every p** star actors whether men or women are all someone else's child. And if you are okay with enjoying it, then don't be surprised the day your child becomes one of them and other people enjoy watching them. But all in all, it's quite a shock for a parent to see their child they raised doing those things on camera with random people for the world to see.

[@mrbob4104]

That's why I believe majority of people in the p* industry are not here cause it was their dream job but because circumstances forced them into it

[@ashharkausar413]

Yes I was thinking exactly of this. I wouldn't want my daughter to do it but I have no problem with someone else's daughter doing it. Cuz of this I feel it's a black and white issue. You are either for p*rn or not.

[@yomamawanmadikku9094]

@@mrbob4104 bull she chose it

[@yomamawanmadikku9094]

@@ottam idgaf

[@sechabatheletsane9784]

Yip. Don't consume and pay for it. Your paying a very dark industry. Theres lots of hentai manga to consume😏

[@AirEnderman13]

I've actually been thinking a lot about this recently and was super glad to see a video addressing it...from Nobita! You always provide the best informational content from Japan, so thank you.

[@---qu9uf]

Every Father’s nightmare. Love your daughters and guide them full please.

[@tonberrykid02]

One of the biggest arguments I ever had in a relationship was with an ex-gf over whether it would be acceptable if our (hypothetical) daughter was a sex worker. I was on team “absolutely not” and assumed she would be too. Instead, she was on team “I’d respect her choices and I think it’s judgmental and disrespectful for you to not support her.” It was the first sign that the relationship wasn’t going to work because I felt like she was living in a naive fantasyland where, apparently, it was wrong for me to want more for my child than selling her body for men’s sexual pleasure, and where it was judgmental to accept that your mother respecting you being a sex worker doesn’t change the fact that the other 99% of people in society won’t and that that matters (a lot).

[@stubborndirt5432]

You should show her what men do when they watch porn. Explicit.

[@channeldoesnotexist]

L gf. Guaranteed feminazi

[@sk-sm9sh]

so you broke up over a hypothetical issue that 99.99% wouldn't even occur and even if it did occour your hypothetical daughter wouldn't care of your opinion anyways?

[@averymacneil3822]

@@sk-sm9sh How are you going to make a wild statement like "your hypothetical daughter wouldn't care of your opinion anyways" off of a hypothetical? Doesn't even remotely make sense. You also clearly lack basic reading comprehension skills considering the OP said it was a SIGN, not the sole reason for them splitting. Quit criminalizing wanting a good future for your kids, it makes you look like an imbecile.

[@tonberrykid02]

Never said we broke up over it. The relationship ended over something else entirely. Beef up those reading comprehension skills. And even if we had, it would be breaking up over a major difference in core values which is as legit a reason to break up as it gets.

[@nicoleraheem1195]

Poor dad. You didn't fail as a Father. Her choice was her choice. She's her own person and chose that route for her own reasons. It DOESN'T make you less of a good man and a good father.

[@arihantkumar6469]

@Trinity M there was everything wrong with her doing porn and prostitution. If it was my daughter she would not live to see another day. Either act like a decent woman or die like one.

[@ZhiyingChoo]

i think it's society that failed them. It's a society issue since it's a rising trend that many families cannot afford the girls' education, and the girls are forced into this industry to survive and stay in college.

[@arsenal_84]

No matter how good intention a parent may have, having a kid in a developed country does not mean that they won't get corrupted by choices in their later lives. Prior to social media exploding on the material lifestyle, kids are already comparing among themselves when they are in high school. The Japanese and Koreans culture has that element of bullying from young, it could very well built up resentment or envy along those teenage years.

[@t.k.9801]

@nicoleraheem1195 👌😁😷 True that, parents shouldn't blame themselves....these women who ventured into the dark side of the jav industry only have themselves to blame....unfortunately the ones who regret appearing in jav films regret their decisions. Kaho Shibuya was right, once it's on the internet it's there forever....👀😳🤔🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️

[@61subsandnovideos]

you never know the full story as to why his daughter became the way she did. hard to say "you didn't fail as a father" when ones daughter ends up like that.

[@DiogoE6]

Damn! this has to be one of the worst pains a father can feel

[@vickybengali]

Is your mom a pornstar?

[@wkwkwkwk9433]

Definitely the worst Pain

[@user-wx4nv8xr3d]

nah i would support my daughter no matter what

[@suzu500]

@@user-wx4nv8xr3d base on your comment I have this assumption that you'll bang her as well

[@perun5984]

@Lamou Lamou ?

[@iliannaisreading]

I really do like that Nobita provides many viewpoints to a question. His videos are always very interesting. Thank you for your hard work for quality videos, Nobita-san 🙏

[@abdullahhakim47]

Thank you for the insight nobita san. Honestly i hope that all the young girls in japan would have more options in getting work and cash to pay college fees etc 😊. Stay strong to the father in this video! You are very courageous in sharing your view. Do not put all the blame on to yourself. I hope that your relationship with your daughter will stay strong and one fine day she will exit the porn industry. Keep supporting and be there for her. She needs you more than ever . Love and support all the way from Malaysia.

[@Stoonk]

In America, when pornstars are asked about their parents they breakdown crying. They are usually completely disowned from their family.

[@Stoonk]

@@ottam caught red handed

[@klaudinegarcia8932]

@@Nukarot No, it's not good....They're depressed because their family disowns and society shuns them. Its already bad people are working in porn. I believe its worse to disown and shun them away...

[@killertruth186]

Which the issues between America and Japan is two sides of the same coin.

[@stassadar]

Im curious to know if men in the porn industry receive this kind of resentment as well or it is mostly women.

[@daveedel1491]

You mean like in person or in interview?

[@TRSega]

If my daughter [God forbid] were in the porn industry I would be heartbroken. A child you held in your arms as a baby, you sent to elementary school, you loved and treasured... and to see that child end up in such a disgusting state... what an absolute nightmare. I would do everything in my power to get her out of there.

[@silverwings8486]

What about hookup culture - since they are pretty much same but different kind of return

[@frillylily8005]

@@silverwings8486 I would still feel heartbroken

[@silverwings8486]

@@frillylily8005 That why it,s better to conservative for me it,s same => when you try 2 surf 2 boat it of course sink unless the person operating them is good enough

[@irvancrocs1753]

I see both parties at fault here.. For the parents, they clearly became oblivious and never thought there was probably something wrong in their method raising their daughter, i don't blame them completely but they are still one of the influencer to make it happen since they are the closest people to their daughter. As for the daughter, she should and really speak her mind sooner, at least there was possibility something would change between them in positive way and it could lead to another ending before she decided to chose that career. I know i said it like so easy, but still i assure you talking each other can make a difference, there a lot of problems can be solved from it, since if you keep holding back without you realize it's too late and you can just think about "what if.."

[@apatheticpanda182]

Yeah im 17 and i would never do that to my parents. Gosh.

[@InMaTeofDeath]

To me it's fascinating to see parents struggle with the opposing beliefs "I want my child to be free to choose their profession" and "If they pick that one I will feel like I failed". Interesting thing is it doesn't have to be porn, sometimes it's something many would consider normal that the parents disapprove of.

[@nitinthakur6569]

These high and mighty statements are good until your child starts working in porn.

[@THELORDVODKA]

There is no opposing beliefs there. He explained how he views the job and why his daughter choices were painful to him. Being free to choose the job you like quote is only surface of massive iceberg under which is all from ideas,values, habits, lessons that parents try to bring to their children. Any profession that child picks will to some extent worry their parents, especially if it is something they have no experience with. It is derivative of broader "fear of unknown" (sometimes even of known).

[@coffintears5821]

Theres many things that aren't normal that parents would disapprove of for example Crime Drug abuse Gang violence Murder The list goes on and on so your argument is flawed.

[@InMaTeofDeath]

@@coffintears5821 I wasn't aware I was trying to make a perfect argument considering most arguments aren't perfect. However I've seen parents also pick things like: Not following the family religion Choosing Not to go into the family business Marrying someone the parents disapprove of Joining the army Picking a school they don't like You may call some of these things normal or abnormal but what is normal always depends on the individual, some people think it's normal to hit their children, others consider that as bad as hitting your wife/husband. All these things also have parents who disapprove of them. But hey since bad things like the stuff you listed also exists that means everything I just listed doesn't matter right? Obviously kids shouldn't do things you listed anyone who believes there's is no such thing as parents who disapprove of things that are either helpful or at the very least not harmful is lying to themselves. I've had friends who were told they were not allowed to READ Harry Potter because it had witchcraft. Do you believe that is good parenting?

[@InMaTeofDeath]

@@jesin0005 Like I've said in previous comments what will and won't traumatize/be normal/abnormal depends entirely on the person. As previously stated I met parents were traumatized their kids were READING Harry Potter. You don't have to like the fact that parents like this exist but you're only hurting the children in denying that they do.

[@FuriousVI]

Every father's worst fear towards their daughter ever.

[@MirrorminD1989]

But they all watch corn. When that comes to their daughter they get shocked by that, this is pure double standard mentality! It exists that a group of women enjoy corn and exhibitionism.

[@Odumase]

But if their son did that they would celebrate

[@FuriousVI]

@@Odumase Welp for me personally everyone has a different approach of criticizing someone which changed the way I think of how the world works, this is very sad to be honest

[@satellite964]

The AV industry is tearing Japanese society apart bit by bit.

[@kristen2693]

Nobita you offered a truly human look into this situation. Thank you for your empathy.

[@NachtKaiser666]

This does bring back the question of accessibility to higher education in the spotlight. Japan is still a somewhat conservative society economically speaking, and the aging population would put healthcare above education in terms of national priorities... But hearing how common it is to get into porn and/or prostitution to be able to pay for higher education reveals just how bad it got. The solution isn't to go the reactionary way and ban sex work, but create a situation where women don't feel compelled to get into it to pay for necessary expenses. That father shouldn't blame himself for this situation. In a perfect world, we would all have an equal start, but he had additional handicaps that made it impossible to provide everything for his daughter. If a single parent works hard to provide for their family and still can't make it, shouldn't the system itself be pointed as the issue, especially in a society known for how hard working and productive their workers can be, like Japan? I sincerely hope the interviewed father comes to peace with it and stop blaming himself. Thank you for this video!

[@faridmousavinia2401]

well said. the problem in japan specifically is that porn/prostitution is the only way to pay for college! if their was an alternate way for them to pay for college or colleges were cheaper then she wouldnt have gotten into the industry. the lack of options to make money is what i think is causing the most problems in japan. nobita has also touched on single parents alot and clearly that single parent cant support the kid and the kid has to make money somehow. the thing that makes me mad the most is that all of this is cause because of money... not only in japan but pretty much everywhere else.

[@rwatertree]

No one is compelled to prostitute herself to party for tuition. The idea that it is the only way to pay for university is obviously bombastic and false. Just by comparing the number of women in university and the number of female porn stars it's more likely that Japanese women work normal jobs to pay their tuition than work in porn or prostitution. The issue is that there are alot of hedonistic people willing to do anything to get rich quick.

[@dneiliz5809]

Imo, giving higher accessibility to higher education may only work out in the short term. Even today, having a degree itself doesn't necessarily guarantee you to land a job since people with a degree is more common today than the past making degree worth less. Making degree more accessible will just make more people to be "forced" to pursue further study in order to compete into the job market. I believe the problem has to do more with school main focus of pushing their students into getting into college/university without showing more alternative path such as apprenticeship/trades.

[@rerakantarera]

I think the 90s it was already a common problem, now with the growth of the Internet, porn is even more accessible which surely attracts even more students to these businesses.

[@rerakantarera]

@@asdfghjjhgf that's still a lot. some countries have almost free universities.

[@dbzlive7177]

I was explaining to my therapist how I've been trying to quit watching porn for over 10 years now and she never really understood why I would want to stop. It's because of experiences like this and my beliefs that I want to stop. I remember mentioning to her how most people are not happy to do porn but she just rolled her eyes and missed my point. I wish I wasn't an abuser of pornography, but I am. So by extension, that makes me one of the scumbags who is perpetuating this industry.

[@Denbagus823]

Gudall

[@noellerzzzz]

Sounds like you need a new therapist. She seems awfully rude.

[@viktoriyaserebryakov2755]

Keep guilty yourself mate, I'm serious. I don't know if you have a daughter, but imagine that you do. There's no easy way to get rid of bad addictions.

[@sk-sm9sh]

Majority of people are not happy to do their job and do it for money. Your therapist also has no interest in listening to you weeping about your lack of self control and yet he/she is there. So this argument about porn actors not wanting to do that job is completely moot. The way I see it - if you watch it - then you have no right to judge them in bad light. They are performing job that is no worse than one that your therapist is performing to you. If you don't watch it then at least you have moral ground to be judgemental of the activity of watching and producing it however if you do watch it then you have no moral grounds to be judgmental of this job. But anyways soon this all problem will be solved with generative AI. Which IMHO is even worse that watching real people but at least the social dilemmas of someone working this job will be gone.

[@lissaizu]

@@sk-sm9shthis is a sick take. The porn industry is extremely harmful and cancerous to society, people in it are victims. Treating this like any other job diminishes the terrible physical emotional, mental and spiritual harm the industry does to them. The porn industry sells you the idea that the workers are empowered but they’re not. They are treated as objects for pleasure and denied dignity by those who orchestrate it. The whole idea that sex work is like any other is a western joke that wouldn’t be said anywhere else. A lot of women who get into this due so because of abuse such as trafficking or pressure from unfortunate financial situations. Trying to paint this as a normal job puts millions of women and children who are trafficked for sex work into even more harm but justifying their abuse. Porn sites like pornhubs host billions of videos that consist of rape or child pornography that is up till this day and when victims speak up they are ignored for the longest time and have to live knowing this industry profits from their abuse. The porn industry is cancerous and should never be compared to other jobs.

[@malazkarar1171]

I didn't know this is how it is in Japan. Quite heartbreaking. Wish for all of them a way out of this life. It's not right for ones heart or body.

[@ルリ-ruri]

Im pretty sure its always been like this everywhere. Just imagine you try your best raising your daughter, protecting her for harm, making sacrifice for her so she get bright future just for her to be ended up getting pounded by random dudes on daily basis for money.

[@killertruth186]

@@ルリ-ruri Well it is more than just pounding her for just money. But I do think the problem is the market is being too demanding and or becoming unreasonable, to the point that it is damaging people's mental health. Which it goes for every country. There's girls who did gotten tricked into porn in the United States as well. I had heard this one woman who is willing to do porn except for it to be offline only (the men who promised her, lied) then ended up on the internet. There's no tangible regulation to porn.

[@haziq0007]

@@ルリ-ruri Private Uni fees are really no joke, they drive people into these extreme method. Capitalism shouldn't be included into education! The system need to be changed!

[@f6cks]

@@ルリ-ruri it is so sad 😭😭😭

[@BB-ef3ev]

@@ルリ-ruri so you never watch porn right?

[@tonygriego6382]

That would be my worst nightmare actually. Great video Nobita, very thought-provoking.

[@lalakuma9]

5:52 Honestly parents should stop mentioning anything about image, reputation, and shame when they disapprove of their children's behavior. It only shows how self-centered they are, that they don't really care as much about their children's actual wellbeing. Children don't live to make you look and feel good about yourself.

[@baonguyenxuanthai711]

It's so weird to me that a country as open sexually as Japan is would have such a hard time accepting sex when it's someone they know. I don't have any issue of a family member wanted to join the sex industry. The industry you choose doesn't matter. What matters is how well you run your business, if you're paying your bills, and if what you're doing brings you joy. Rubbing bodies together is not a shame. Bad sex is a shame. Getting caught in debt traps is a shame. Not knowing how to provide for yourself or how to adapt to do something different and or better is a shame. Sex as an industry shouldn't be a shame.

[@ii-dh7lq]

I also don’t like the way this man said “I feel like my daughter is a criminal” Can we stop criminalizing sex workers?? Can we stop demonizing them?? Can we as a society start respecting sex workers specially women and start seeing them as human living fucking beings?

[@baonguyenxuanthai711]

@@ii-dh7lq Let me go against the grain here with regards to the popular opinion in the comment section. There is nothing degrading about being a sex worker, sex work does not make you a lesser person or less educated and while you might end up being on the internet forever, as long as society doesn't judge you, that shouldn't be a big deal. Would I want my child (daughter OR SON) doing this stuff? No. Why? I don't trust some of the higher ups in these industries. Some of these people are shady and treat women particularly like crap. But that could improve and has made significant progress as more women started to take control. My second main reason is the misogyny my daughter would face by both men AND women (including Feminists) for simply recording and distributing something that most people do. Some of these women, maybe not in Japan but in America and Europe, make ridiculous amounts of money by simply showing the physical intimacy I their monogamous relationship between themselves and their partner. They're doing the same things they'd do, just recording and distributing it for tens of thousands to hundreds of thousands of dollars. Why does this affect them with regards to how they are perceived? Why should this affect them with regards to getting a job or running for office? How are they inherently bad people because they filmed themselves f*ck?

[@PlaceholderDoe123]

@Vega Twice It shouldn’t be predatory and it shouldn’t be demonized. Two wrongs don’t make a right. They should always be treated like human beings and respected. We as a society are labeling everyday human behavior as subhuman. It’s not right.

[@lazytravelerv]

@Vega Twice kids are not consortium. If you think they own you shit just because you “had them” I hope you never have kids.

[@tropik5724]

I feel like humanity needs a big reset.

[@manbeman1819]

if their problem is about college's fees, then they need to change their mindset about college. nowadays, college's fees are expensive and people's view about education is college. so the things they need to change is not to find the job based on their college's status, but to create their stores or small businesses, maybe food stalls or something, and they learned it from business books or economy books or specialty's knowledges. that means, they should view money as positive, as long as it's not scams. one japanese business savant once said, "money is bad, but poverty is poor to the soul, poverty is leading men to mobster and women to prostitution." they need to have happy family relationship as well

[@jhsemoxitha3821]

You are saying this based on American scenario, just opening up a food store or never going to college is not an option for most Japanese people, the society and the culture you just wouldn't even think about not going to college. It's different than the US where going to college seems fansy and most people would just get a job after highschool or even drop from highschool before finishing it, in Japan not going to college is rare it's just not something you would even think besides you can't even convince your parents they wouldn't accept it your relatives neighbors friends classmates everyone would keep asking questions looking down and you wouldn't even dare to think of just opening a stall or whatever it's different from the US we wouldn't give af about our extended families or neighborhoods but it's different there the social pressure is so different

[@honeymelonade]

As nice as that sounds, even in the UK, there is a lot of pressure to go to university and choose a good ranking uni. Your school will expect it and so will your parents then they will all push you to go and if you don't you're probably just "lazy" and "what are you going to do with your life then?" etc. Not going is still pretty much frowned upon and employers will want those who did higher education. There's a lot of competition so you have to do what everyone wants you to do no matter the cost or whether you want to or not.

[@sab-nm9di]

If their problem is college fees, then the problem is college fees. Why should anybody feel the need to go into porn when they don’t want to? Why should anybody feel the need to start a business when they don’t want to? Your solution doesn’t address the problem, it’s just another way to skirt around it.

[@manbeman1819]

@@sab-nm9di so what? in this video, their choices are between porn or not college, so i am just adding alternative choice : business. it's the least popular choice, it's not worse as porn, it's not high as college though, so it's not solution either. it's the middle ground, just seeing from other angles

[@sab-nm9di]

@@manbeman1819 the “so what” issue here is that they’re doing porn instead of college. Opening a business is an alternative to college, not to porn. These people didn’t make the choice to not go to college not because they don’t like college, but because of money. Opening a business also requires money. So it’s just the same struggle and the same question all over again. Where do you get the money? The people in the video would tell you the same thing: porn.

[@matheusgoncalves7282]

Some children will never understand their parents, sometimes even after bacame adults they still will not undestand them.

[@silverwings8486]

Me 😑:- i seen it crystal clear ? But facts is what they want is not what I want & but they still keep on reflecting there wants on me ( personal experience ) It,s not always child don,t understand - but when you yourself clearity towards the future you looking for your child + but keep on pushing idea of something *Good* What is good ?? They just want good thing for their kids -> They just want 😑 facts - not that much who willing to put efforts for their child & doing bare minimum since everyone do that is not called parenting - that,s consider being shallow & that why many parents end up at old age home 🏘️ =] they love in assumption they did good in reality they just force their one sided opinion & confuse the heck out of child => which bring anxiety & depression. Anyway that the end of story. You need comment just feel like saying it

[@matheusgoncalves7282]

@@silverwings8486 i know how you feel man, there are parents and parents... But if i could give you a suggestion, if you allow me. I don't even know of it's you case but. For example, of instead of became a porn actress and a prostitute, bouth, the Kako and the old man daughter opened their feelings clearly with their parents, do you think that their future would be the same at it was? you could say that some parents don't listen their children, but when i say "listen" i talking about support the children in their decision. It's not like the old man would say "my daughter, i don't have money, i can't help you" at least he could say "of you do... Or if you work with..." You know what i mean? In this world man, parents are the most likely people to love us. As about being love to someone that never had or lost their ones. They you talk about it sadly at least. I think the real problem is that most family members are far from each other. That's why kids can't understand parents and sometimes, parents lose their children, cause the are careless when it comes to be close to you children.

[@silverwings8486]

@@matheusgoncalves7282 Man ( smart man seek aid for long term basis which they think will be their source of peace ✌️ during difficult times -> reality speak otherwise 85% of marriage is not good it,s burden for man ( and most man don,t break it because the choice they made & they consider it a Responsibility ( & you don,t go back on responsibility because you feel like it & child is also bigger responsibility - due to co dependency man stay in relationship most likely - that why there are some abusive man ( but you can see they are mostly from low finance background see the pressure Become too much & ultimately it kinda break ) So the man ❤️ love is more of sincerity towards the responsibility he decided to take. ( It,s sad to see - how femanism is totally discarded that facts & treat them like expandable ) As for parent - as i said before they reflect their ideal - which confuse the heck out of child -> ( Personally my father keep on going like we support you all the way to deadline without clearly telling which one - i was like make up your mind -> 2 during collage selection i gave them 2 choice ( rather than picking myself since they was trying tell what study field i take while they have no idea ( of that respective field - it,s like owing PC make you Software designer ) they got to say & even i told them it not same -> Ultimate they made the choice which was Convinent for them ( cheap one with shorter route which trying to impose ) & ya i must tell ( my sis went to college near which I wanted to go expense were same as the college i have thought ) when i ask them they rejected & sad it different branch when i with my friends he told me & show me that it,s different branches but on same location ) You 😂 it get me good to the point i don,t weather i should cry or laugh but the the day made their choice regardless of my explaining ) - i kinda done with them. I should mention fact i Was 1 year drop out & because 1 subject got undermark & ( also the teacher which teach me that subject is in extreme odd with me so i am not sure weather i failed or made to be failed ) i was less than avg but not too bad. Later i done that & get increased my overall score ( like 10% on other subjects & 70% for that subject ) Overall i was also able to overcome my anxiety of 2 years ( wrost phase of my life ) ( in that 1 year inbetween fail & reexam mean time & make up my mind ) I guess parents done with me after the drop & wanted to priotise sis & i guess So all in all their circumstances and the fact parents the only one love is not true -> There is no free meal Regardless of you likely i told you both good & bad ( since i don,t like lying ) & ya my sis 10% higher on average she is kinda jack of all & i am master 1-2 ) I am done with them ☕ i have my. Low good - i am rise 2.5 year since that time ✨ Anyway we can see from that parents are just human being - who priotise thing which is Convinent for them who take best possible option which was not me subconsciously. I am personally done with them ( just bit more to go before i completely repay the financial debt with interest 4-5 years with my current income ) So the fact is as i said it,s not what it appears and some time they lost in touch with them - there is more than one form of intelligence & maturity. Having a child doesn't make you parents & as i mention loseing faith of child make things happen => If it happen with my daughter - it,s be my failure not her ( as a father & i am not blame she regardless have to face consequence for her action & the best i can do now is give up my ego & repair what I can ( since life short imao )) Ya secret information ☕ Japan one of major red light centre in world & the father who is talking ( may not be that good of person - he is being interviewed & he ( like normal human wanna show good side ) to get true answer it,s better with censored phase ( as they don,t wanna be judge for telling truth ) With you comments i can tell your emphatic person but i guess you consider my last point. It,s not always what it seem to be...

[@kartik_a3767]

I find your videos very intriguing. You touch taboo topics and offer unique perspectives with honest curiosity. I always wondered how people from such a conservative culture got into porn industry. Thank you. No parent wants their child to work in porn industry but various reasons that both, push a person away from taking up regular jobs (low wages, non availability etc.), and pull them towards porn and prostitution (no skills required, normalization of such behavior etc.), ultimately leads onto this path. Another trend that i have noticed is how tolerant we have become with the portrayal sex and sexuality in mainstream media such as KZbin, Instagram, Tiktok etc. I think this has contributed towards normalizing sexual behavior. So it might be helpful in future to get opinions from handful random general public of what they think about the issue. Perhaps you could have some of them as permanent guests and get their reactions. You interviewed a father (with iguana) but you could also interview some college students, females as well as males, who are not associated with porn industry, how would they react if they found out their peers worked in such profession and would they ever consider that option for themselves?

[@thetalantonx]

My sincere thanks and condolences to this gentleman for sharing his story.

[@agamersinsanity]

Sadly it's easy money, and becomes more or less an addiction. Same goes with women who uses OF. But it's a great viewpoint and video you made there Nobita. Keep up the good work. ^^

[@kittenluver4lyfe]

@Trinity M agree 100%, they act like they’re qualified on a topic that is about female sex workers specifically

[@albertp3721]

This is a way of live than out of need sadly

[@powerplayz1975]

@Trinity M Are you one of the 'I hate men' community? cuz it's getting old

[@KentuckyFriedChildren05]

@Trinity M What did he say that was wrong? If you're more experienced, elaborate?

[@randyboykalakal]

This was really heartbreaking to watch ngl

[@ridmadissanayake5201]

good work bringing awareness to the people. it is mainly the fault of a corrupt government and inadequate leadership that forces citizens to take this route of earning a living. the system needs to change

[@tearsonblades8134]

Those people know very well what they are doing. If they wouldn’t want to do it, then they wouldn’t, whatever it takes.

[@blackroute1527]

Blaming the govetnment now😂 Japan is a first world country and these women where not forced to do this.

[@tearsonblades8134]

@@blackroute1527 facts

[@ridmadissanayake5201]

Corruption is hidden deep inside. Even in first world countries. For example, the event that happened to the chairman of nissan. The existence of the Yakuza even though it is declining. The underpaid jobs with long hours of work that benefit only the ppl at the top. Are all signs that corruption runs deep even in Japan. For the existence of a system that makes it hard for parents to afford higher education for their children shows how messed up the insides of the government is

[@joedoe4595]

@@ridmadissanayake5201 There's corruption in every developed country though and the student debt crisis even in the USA is probably magnitudes worse compared to Japan. Yet the prostitution problem doesn't seem nearly as prolific here in America. There are definitely decent paying jobs in Japan, but nothing pays as well as selling your body.

[@samle1801]

Holy shet, I've seen, or let say I know Kaho from people mentioning her autobiography. Seriously waiting for the English version as I'd love to have an insight. Admire her courage and strength, quite. Hmm... being an Asian and somehow grew up from the dirt as well somewhat I can understand and respect them. And thank you Nobita, great video as usual.

[@amoswang1473]

Great interviews...got from both perspective. The actress and the parents.

[@jc30081983]

As usual Nobita deliverying a kick ass video!!! Wow the story of Kaho is rough, she is a tough woman. Putting a smile to provide us entertainment while cosplaying or in her former job. While at the same time dealing with all those issues. It is true what they say, you never actually now what peoole are really going through. Uffff Japan is not for everyone, it may be low on crime but it is so stressfull in many other ways. Even more for women apparently.

[@tealuxe]

Where is life easy?

[@sab-nm9di]

@@tealuxe where there’s money

[@marianne4902]

Hello. Speaking as someone who was in the industry, I briefly worked in it because my parents are old, and one fell extremely sick for that short period of time. In my country, we do not have affordable healthcare. In fact, our doctors will not see you if you don’t have the full amount for a check up. They will not touch you (for operations / procedures) until you have paid half the amount up front in cash. It was a dire situation. My father doesn’t know what I did to come up with the money, and if he were to ever find out, he would immediately disown me. He has often said he would rather die than lose face, but as the only child with no other family to rely on, I can’t bring myself to regret it. Better a father who is alive and hates me than one who loves me and is dead.

[@baonguyenxuanthai711]

Some comments make me wonder what would they say if instead of a daughter, it was a son. Even this father, like, if he had a son who is a pronstar, would he be in this video? I've read a lot of people talking about how ashamed female pronstars should be, but when it comes to male, it's totally different, i've even seen people joking about how every men's dream job is to become a pronstar from age 13. Imo, both can be good or bad, of course, it is more common to have women being degraded in pron videos, even if it is a vanilla one, but i'm sure that there are bad sides for any gender. At least, there are people trying to change this scenario, maybe one day people will stop saying so many bad things about women who want to and work as pronstars, and just think that they chose this job, because they like it.

[@phamhien2590]

I think it's good for us to recognize that there are lot of sex workers who actually enjoy what they do, some enjoy even more than other types of work. This is in part because sex workers, especially those who work independently, have the ability to set boundaries about what kind of sex work they're okay with doing. Like, some workers will only engage in sexual activity that they actually enjoy, while others may be okay with doing stuff they don't particular enjoy because they want to satisfy they other person and they want the money. Such a situation, to me, is similar to who doesn't exactly feel up for engaging in sexual activity, but consents to do so with each other because want to procreate. In that situation, they wouldn't be involved in sexual activity with each other of the possibility of procreation wasn't on table. Or, there could be situations in which on person just isn't all that into sex, though they agree to do it with their partner because they know it's what their partner is into and they desire to satisfy their partner. Consent is definitely important, though I've recently realized that always getting enthusiastic consent unfortunately is probably unrealistic for most people

[@Kos4Evr]

​@@baonguyenxuanthai711that comes from the same stigma that men who have had many partners are considered more desirable by women but women who have had many partners are less desirable by men looking for long term relationships like marriage. When one has had many partners a man is "experienced" and a woman is "used up". Whether in fuction or reality a woman who has more experience will be less likely to form a long term relationship based on love and emotion.

[@TheXantaur]

Damn, please god let me die before I have my daughter forever surrender her dignity as a woman

[@davidzhang3762]

@@baonguyenxuanthai711okay joking about becoming a pornstar is one thing and actually becoming a pornstar is a completely different matter. You see young guys joking about that but do you see them actively trying to be a pornstar?

[@FISHGOMOO4321]

I don't have any children, but I'm approaching an age with my wife where we want to have children soon. Stuff like this terrifies me. You don't want to feel like your suppressing your children, but I won't help but feel like I have failed them as a father if they ended up in an industry like this. This will be their legacy? This is their contribution to the world?

[@Odumase]

Legacy? LMAOOOOO who are you??

[@Rahim-444]

i can't imagine how the dad felt at that time when he discovered this i tired to put my self in a similar situation and i feel bad already i hope he is okay now

[@Zyphera]

It almost always seems to be due to financial hardship. Very seldom is it due to a passion.

[@은우1401]

I like how this Japanese dad is so Straight forward.

[@johnzhao4641]

That absolute chad is just holding a lizard in front of a SpyXFamily poster.

[@Preppybabiess]

W

[@etubrute1053]

As a Child i was always fascinated about Japan's Economic Growth, their robust Growth in Industry, Commerce and Technology but now i cannot process the fact that average Japanese citizens are struggling at that point where they have no option but to join the Porn Industry for survival .. And I'm from 3rd World Country basically speechless

[@rwatertree]

The guy who made that statement was being hyperbolic. Even if all 10,000 Japanese women in porn were doing it to pay tuition they'd be less than 1% of female students.

[@Reactionary_Harkonnen]

1st world nations have more then plenty of people struggling to stay at float. In America the Middle class is being gutted. The richness of 1st notions are starting to be held on the top 1% of society.

[@Reactionary_Harkonnen]

@@rwatertree Are you sure? I remember reading that 1 out of 6 Japanese women have done something related to porn or sex work doing it at least ones.

[@016Jackal]

Are u from ph?

[@gumdeo]

@@Reactionary_Harkonnen yes, if you include soaplands, hostess bars etc.

[@petsandthingsilike]

I would rather bleed, sweat and hurt my feet in steel toes for a hard days work than ever do sex work... I could not do that to my family or myself.

[@antonioc7186]

It's heartbreaking bc it's everywhere. When you see the cities, hostess bars and sex work businesses are everywhere. Living in an environment with such low opportunities for women. When they see that sex work will pay them 5x or 10x more than. areg office job.

[@gogogolyra1340]

True. Selling your body for pleasure is truly degrading ones dignity

[@aria.e]

True, I'd rather be a toilet cleaner, or maybe a delivery girl than a sex worker, it would destroy my dad's heart and that's the last thing I'd do.

[@Reactionary_Harkonnen]

Exactly!

[@Reactionary_Harkonnen]

@@gogogolyra1340 it is!

[@fisharefriends598]

She choose the quick route

[@blackroute1527]

Exactly.

[@aceval004]

The liberals be like: "It's her decision, she's an adult now. You have no right over her even though you are her father ☺️".

[@GriffithzDream]

They'll only change their stance on this when it's their own daughter 😂

[@aceval004]

@@GriffithzDream No doubt 😂😂😂😂

[@jokerpilled2535]

“You’re controlling and abusive for not allowing your child to ruin their life 🥰🦋❤️✨”

[@aceval004]

@@jokerpilled2535 😅😅

[@chasedownblocks1736]

I hate liberals. They don’t ask themselves “What if this happened to my child?”

[@ylvabrandt6767]

10:22 If you don't like the thought of your daughter going through with this you are recognizing that there's something immoral about industry and people taking advantage of collage girls like this. Why not be against it in general? I also wouldn't wish this upon my family and there for I think it's a moral issue in general. Something needs to be done so that young girls like this man's daughter doesn't feel like they need to put themselves through what the sex industry truly means. The moral issues of paying for someone else's body also needs to be addressed more. From what I've heard not many people are talking about it, other options aren't even being considered..

[@sleeper9638]

Prostitution is the oldest profession in history, there will always be women who will do it, you can't stop them. Pretty much every single culture throughout human history has heavily shunned and disapproved of prostitution, even outlawing it on pain of death and yet vast amounts of women would still risk their lives to do it

[@ylvabrandt6767]

@@sleeper9638 Just because something has been around for a long time doesn't justify it. Murder and rape are two of those things. People have always done them and will continue to, but we have laws in order to minimize their occurrence. The sex industry is for a fact over represented by poor women/children and women with history of abuse. It affects the individuals found in it and it sets a standard for the rest of the society's view on women and sex-buying. I'm from Sweden and I've always stood behind the Nordic models way of handling sex-buying as a matter of the buyer being the offender and the seller being a victim of it. When you pay for sex you're negotiating away the consent in exchange for money. Cause let's be real, there's a reason women have to get payed to do it. But money can't replace the emotional and physical trauma is causes. We do not protect these individuals by normalizing men using them for their own sexual desires.

[@sleeper9638]

@@ylvabrandt6767 No, seeing this poor line of reasoning you've constructed, you clearly just don't want women to be held accountable for their own decisions. Murder and rape are not professions, they have always been illegal everywhere. In no country in the world can you legally pay someone to rape and murder. Abuse and poverty are not an excuse as by your own argument, most murderers and rapists come from broken and poor homes, do you think they shouldn't be held accountable? Should a drug dealer be allowed to sell to children because he grew up poor and it's the childrens fault if they buy from him? In countries, times and cultures where being a prostitute was illegal, prostitution was always significantly lower. You think men should be jailed for buying prostitutes while prostitutes themselves should be allowed to continue and even protected. In reality, anyone buying or selling in any form of prostitution should be jailed and as a result, far less of it will exist. And yet throughout history it has always been women that push for the legalisation of sex work and then simultaneously say that sex workers are victims, just like you're doing now. You can't have it both ways. If you want less prostitution then it needs to be outlawed for everyone. If you want more prostitution then you can continue encouraging more women to pursue it, as they do in increasingly high numbers when given the chance, by giving them more protection and incentive to do so. Illegal prostitution = less prostitution. Always has been and always will be the case

[@ylvabrandt6767]

@@sleeper9638 By "woman being held accountable for their own decisions" you mean we should hold them accountable for being poor, suffering from mental health issues/trauma or their lack of other reasonable options? Seeing as the vast majority of women/children in the sex industry come from these kinds of situations. Our morality changes before we change our laws. There are still countries where being gay is seen as a punishable crime. Laws are diffrent in diffrent countries and therefore we can't depend our morality on it. Morality and values dictate laws not the other way around. Laws also change and new ones get established throughout time. It's also commonly known that countries with legalized prostitution have higher numbers of sex trafficking. This is partially because it's easier to hide an underground market in countries where sex buying isn't automatically seen as a crime but also because the demand is higher where it's destigmatized. "Criminalization of prostitution in Sweden resulted in the shrinking of the prostitution market and the decline of human trafficking inflows. Cross-country comparisons of Sweden with Denmark (where prostitution is decriminalized) and Germany (expanded legalization of prostitution) are consistent with the quantitative analysis, showing that trafficking inflows decreased with criminalization and increased with legalization." (Study by: Researchers, Seo-Yeong Cho of the German Institute for Economic Research, Axel Dreher of the University of Heidelberg and Eric Neumayer of the London School of Economics and Political Science) When you realize that most prostitutes don't want to sell their bodies it becomes very obvious who is the victim and who is the offender. Sex buyers ignore these situations and go through with paying for it anyway. Lack of empathy and selfishness is what it is to put it simply. So yes, we should strive to get prostitutes the basic resources they need, that's something that's currently lacking. Let's not pretend that these parties are in any way equal and direct the punishment towards those who are already in these terrible situations.

[@sleeper9638]

@@ylvabrandt6767 Yes everyone should be held accountable for any crime they commit, regardless of their economic status or emotional state. Just as I said before, you're not allowed to get away with murder just because you are poor or abused. You're trying to tell me that women should be exempt from this. And you don't seem to understand what that study is showing, it's in complete favour of what I was telling you and what you seem to be disagreeing with. I said, and the study you provided shows it too, that when prostitution is illegal then the rates of prostitution and trafficking goes down. Criminalise sex work and there will be less sex work. So if you don't want women to be prostitutes, then why are you saying that not only should it be legal but that they should be protected as well which directly results in the increase of prostitution? Like I said at the end of my last comment, if you want less prostitution then it needs to be illegal. I don't know why you think that incentivising women to become prostitutes is going to result in less of it. Most European countries already have some form of social welfare, of which women are the prime recipients, aswell as many programs to assist women and get them into the workplace, far more than there are for men, but women are still choosing prostitution. So illegalise prostitution and it'll result in less of it, just like every single other crime

[@quopi7183]

This is so heartbreaking, the girl simply wanted to achieve her dreams and not be a burden to her father but it tells so much when someone struggling with finances can sell their body for "easy cash". I can only imagine how the father mustve felt, to see your own daughter lie just for the sake of his false happiness.

[@Hieroph4nt]

She shouldn't of done it at all, she should be able to tell her father it's too difficult so he can pick up the pace for her

[@DarkMeyer777]

Imagine your friends sharing the latest video and you hoping to catch it. Then when you open it, it's your daughter.

[@mrraiarj]

Very interesting topic . Thanks for your very good VDO

[@tiamelancholyjeoncockity]

I’m so glad this exists, cuz somehow a lot of pornstars lack a father figure and I’m curious of how one with a dad would actually think of them 💀

[@powerplayz1975]

finally some FACTS

[@kombuchachacha2418]

@Hailee the demon that body you spoke of has been nurtured for 21 years by her father, not just physically but also emotionally. Of course the father would have something to say about it

[@phamhien2590]

@Hailee the demon I think it's good for us to recognize that there are lot of sex workers who actually enjoy what they do, some enjoy even more than other types of work. This is in part because sex workers, especially those who work independently, have the ability to set boundaries about what kind of sex work they're okay with doing. Like, some workers will only engage in sexual activity that they actually enjoy, while others may be okay with doing stuff they don't particular enjoy because they want to satisfy they other person and they want the money. Such a situation, to me, is similar to who doesn't exactly feel up for engaging in sexual activity, but consents to do so with each other because want to procreate. In that situation, they wouldn't be involved in sexual activity with each other of the possibility of procreation wasn't on table. Or, there could be situations in which on person just isn't all that into sex, though they agree to do it with their partner because they know it's what their partner is into and they desire to satisfy their partner. Consent is definitely important, though I've recently realized that always getting enthusiastic consent unfortunately is probably unrealistic for most people

[@MissesWitch]

21 years old.. so young. My life has gotten no where and I'm much older than that but have never turned to such things.. I really feel sorry for the parent. It should take alot of thought and not just be done on a whim.. In the long term, I found I would regret it.. And that is always most important to think about.

[@iHateincels]

Some pornstars enjoy the fame. I think being a pornstar is a good profession. Its work. Its not illegal, it doesnt hurt anyone.

[@haziq0007]

@@iHateincels But its vile and filthy, stop normalizing that man! Its the system and parents that must be blamed. These poor girls are just mentally unstable due to high debt and easily misleaded, very unfortunate!!!

[@iHateincels]

@@haziq0007 LOL. Dont give me these Conservative Bulltrash. Its not vile nor filthy. People enjoy sex. They arent mentally stable, They just want to earn money, Like I told you. Some girls enjoy being a pornstar. The Fame the money, The people that they work with. Youre mentally unstable if you treat girls that work as pornstar vile and filthy. Respect all types of women. even prostitutes and pornstars!

[@piotr004]

@@iHateincels "It doesn't hurt anyone" - are you sure about that? What about your physical and mental health (and many consequences as life-long tag of pr0nstar, having difficulties with romantic relationships and employment later, because you have to remember those pr0nstars are replaced by younger ones regularly, so your "career" is very short)? What about hurting your family/relatives/maybe even your friends?

[@johnsonkitz9938]

@@iHateincels it does hurt the pornstar herself because eventually they'll know that they are being treated as object or money making machine. It's obvious that women are physically hurt in those videos and if not comfortable their anger is being suppresed.

[@potrenia]

*There can only be 4 types of dad:* (1) I'm disappointed in my daughter (2) I don't care... (3) I didn't know ._. (4) I'm proud of her!

[@thesaint7373]

You forgot options (0) get the shotgun

[@The.rapist911]

(5) r//pes and murders the daughter ( justified tbh )

[@karl662]

I like that you speak with everyone with the respect they deserve. Nothing demeaning or disrespectful. Good work.

[@xyruz690]

That must be so heart breaking to hear that your daughter *had to* work in that industry not because she wanted to but she *had to* so she can pay her student loans so you don't have to worry about her. How devastating is that to our pride as a man and a father.

[@eduardowada358]

Bullshit, she didn't have to, people need to wake up to the fact that college is not worth that much, you can do better without college at all.

[@Cecilia-ky3uw]

​@@eduardowada358college educations are still good for your finances. And again who are you to judge them sincd the metrics are still in their favour.

[@Dbzlatino27]

I feel really sorry for the father i dont have childrens so i cant imagine how much hurt must feel seen her daughter doing that kind of things althought its not like im treating porn or being an prostitutes like kind of an crime, i think that coming from the perpective of an parent and more when are one who actually cares about his son its just weights so much more, and i think the girl in this case should think how much harm could provoque to them.I kinda undertand why dishonor to ther daughter and the way that the mother could start to take some medicine because all the stress that was accumulating this just shows how much affected to her and care that just couldnt accept that.

[@vorynrosethorn903]

Grim if this is becoming a norm at any level of society.

[@oscaka0073]

@Hopium Jesus Do enlighten .

[@vorynrosethorn903]

@Hopium Jesus Outdated, yes it would seem so. How society is changing, yes also agreed. Filtered from reality, that is a matter of perspective but I believe a vision of that reality was presented and that was what I was responding to. I don’t see how any of that is a counter however to my stance that such a situation and it’s direction is grim. It’s a moral argument and for context I’m not a determinist so saying that something ‘is’ to me has no moral bearing on what it should be, if anything saying that something is outdated just proves that there are and have been working alternatives to what is now and where we can head in our future. New is not better, new is comparative.

[@nunupon1359]

Have men stop buying and supporting it so much

[@vorynrosethorn903]

@@nunupon1359 I wish they would, but one must first convince them.

[@Cecilia-ky3uw]

No, this is a continuation of the march of progress. Sex work, is as much work as any other job, it's legitimate and productive unless you want to destroy the entire entertainment industry.

[@jaysan7463]

if you truly put urself in his shoes and imagine the situation, the sensitive part is not really about how the parents of AV girls feel but how did their daughters choose this path and are they accountable for this decision their daughter made! this father remains his posture and blames himself instead of talk himself out of this tragic.

[@joey6058]

I always heard that Japan is struggling with an aging working population but I never expected this to be a side effect due to it. It's horrifying.

[@naevisctrl6999]

the porn industry is insane, especially in Japan I heard that many girls get blackmailed into AV films

[@ben_sisko2149]

I can't help but thinking that a lot of this girls are not taking long term consequences into account. Like, one online, always online. You might not care now, but you'll probably change your mind when trying to find a proper job.

[@valstrax2121]

From all of this the major problems we can conclude are 1. Lies and Deception about identity exposure so that more girl's can feel 'secure' about joining the industry 2. Financial Situation of Normal Japanese Family

[@BlueFlameFoxX]

From someone who wants to understand people and grow in patience and understanding, I really appreciate your content Nobita-san. Keep up the good work! 🇺🇸🇦🇷

[@muhsetio]

Its not just parents, Kids will always look out on their parents no matter how look like them be on the outside. They dont want their parent to worried thats why they didnt tell many things, and thats okay actually. Thats how life is.

[@bigbadbanana]

The seemingly root of the problem being the tuition for college... It's as if the society itself is causing the problem. Jobs lasting shorter than before, expensive college tuition, the high cost of living especially in Tokyo area. It's a cesspool in which the porn industry can feed freely without much repercussions. It's such a vicious cycle. I'm still amazed at how studying in college in Europe countries is free, they even pay YOU to study, and the quality of it is good, but taxes are higher as a trade of course. I'd gladly pay more taxes to let the upcoming generation study and improve life overall, than them just getting litteraly fucked... what a shame to use the young this way, disgusting shame.

[@rhanggaputra2741]

It may be hard for the actress to relate, but for the parents facing the fact, sweet memories of their children when they was born, cute baby playing around in the park, falling when they learn bicycle, catching bugs on summerm took care when they was sick, it broke their heart so much

[@sriharshacv7760]

Once a woman exposes her intimate self online, she immediately creates a liability for her own kids (if she ever wants them) and hurts her parents (if they are still loving her). These types of decisions are called '1-way door` decisions. There is no going back to 'innocence' once you choose the path.

[@MirrorminD1989]

And you are watching this 😂😂😂

[@MirrorminD1989]

@tajiakxng double standard! They all praise innocence and abstinence on a woman. But when it comes to their own satisfaction she needs to be the hottest and wildest one 💀😮‍💨

[@MirrorminD1989]

@tajiakxng double standards! These men praise the innocence of women so much, but when it comes to their own satisfaction women need to be hot and sexy 💀 if you want a womam to be innocent then don't watch corn or similar instead 🥴🤣

[@Odumase]

Blah blah blah yet you watch porn

[@stephenaitcheson6626]

Internet + P0rn = Lifetime of regret. That's one permanent scar I could never live down or accept. Most of these chicks who end up in the industry don't realize that easy money usually comes at the highest price 💰💸💰

[@cmendy1809]

Easy said if you don’t end in a situation like that. How many times did I said “I could never” or “I rather die”, and the it happens and your options are scarce, so you make decisions who will hunt you for your life.

[@HonestFarmerLigue1Fan]

@@cmendy1809 LOL Unortunately I have brain, principles, and dignity. Would rather injure my legs walking down a narrow path of hard labor than performing segs for p0rn films. It's not only about money, but also about how you earn it. Once you get into porn/prostitution, the disgrace is permanent, the evidence of your shame can never be removed as long as digital media exist and they can all trace your background.

[@kimsichul3339]

As a victim of a broken home, my parents left me and my sister alone since I was 3 years old, raised by my aunt, thirsty for my parents' attention and love (they didn't even send money to support my aunt's finances), the reality this just hit me really bad. How can you disappoint and leave your parents when they love you just because of your selfishness and greed??? I think I understand why many Japanese people want to childfree

[@zenastronomy]

daughter doesn't want to put financial burden on dad, who doesn't mind a financial burden. daughter willing to put psychological trauma on dad by being porn star, who doesn't want the trauma. is she really doing it for her dad, or just for herself?

[@daddy6757]

The culture in Japan expect the children to 'repay' or take care of their parent when they grow up. Failure to do so bring a lot of shame towards the child, even if the parent themselves don't really mind. The problem is the culture. That pressure to help their parent out is probably force her. Nobody would work in the sex industry without the money. Working to pay back debt, saving for university, while also studying is mentally taxing. If she is doing this for herself, she would have already disconnect from her family and lives by herself.