Does Angie’s Date just want to Hook up?👉🏽👌🏽 | First Dates South Africa

[@billstapleton1084]

She is all about herself. She needs to understand, a relationship is about "WE". not "ME".

[@truthteller99999]

You could spend your whole life trying to explain that to women. Women nowadays have "Main Character Syndrome."

[@Elle-vm3ge]

It’s only in the past century women haven’t been subjugated. For the rest of history, women were basically second class citizens, and in some countries, they still are. As women we have to assert ourselves, otherwise many men will take advantage. We still live in a patriarchal society that expects women to play small. She also explained her history, which I’m sure has fed into her more assertive character.

[@billstapleton1084]

@@Elle-vm3ge Women are free to do as they wish. Has that been a good thing? Only time will tell.

[@hebahamid884]

​@@Elle-vm3gesoo true

[@Godisfirst21]

She's awesome. I love her.

[@polska4968]

" i make the rules and you have to follow them" i wonder how she would feel is a bloke said that to her , relationship are50/50

[@a.wilcox5690]

Good luck with that. That will blow up in your face. Strive instead for mutual equality and respect.

[@polska4968]

ehh did i not say 50/50 @@a.wilcox5690

[@samsongomah1318]

She'll be single for life, guaranteed.

[@elizabethmenegon8057]

Really 🤦

[@richardrawden8894]

No wonder she is single…..

[@Myplop]

He tells her how his dad died and she laughs

[@phily8093]

Only in South Africa

[@jacquelineadams8363]

I'm so glad Chad got a second date.! I'd take Chad and run out the door!!! He's funny, sensitive and very handsome.

[@lunarsabbatical7906]

I get the feeling she’s a handful

[@barbaracook7142]

​@@lunarsabbatical7906well, could be Very defensive from worn down cynicism.. This guy is a Catch! So LoVely. Wonder if he's worn her defences down...

[@FrankskinOrweed-ep4ij]

They seem like a great match! He isn’t intimidated by stronger personalities.. although I think relationships should be 50/50 equality or mutually agreed to be complementary in whatever way they see fit and both want

[@NancyFoshee-cl1rl]

A good relationship is...whatever % one needs at different times...50/50...60/40...at one point when hubby was ill...90/10...It is or should be We...We a unit...never I or me....

[@NancyFoshee-cl1rl]

...been with my husband since 1990...we keep our vows!

[@zariisofficial]

And this ladies and gentlemen is the reason why she's single.

[@Bunny11344]

As forever will be

[@megalattie3824]

Acting like when a woman is single it means she stops breathing, walking ,eating, sleeping, working, etc etc...😂😅😂😢😂😅😢 She's still ALIVE!!

[@oliviahope3728]

Really? It’s not because she has a demanding job, spent years in school, and doesn’t have time to date? 😁

[@zariisofficial]

@@oliviahope3728 So why is she on a dating show if she is all of the above in your statement?

[@rosiemackenzie5976]

@@oliviahope3728 People who want to make time do , people who don't don't. How this is going to play out,- she will end up being demanding, he will try for a very long time to please her, because he really likes her, but he won't, she will then dump him and he will be back at square one, .. and so will she.. No give and take on her part part once in the relationship. In the end nobody wants to live with someone for life, when it has to be their way all the time. Six months on, I wonder if I am right?

[@jarradhurley4866]

"I am a catch because... well... look at me" says the exceedinly average looking woman who remains single.

[@loosecannon830]

He seems to be too nice for her. She is kind of a controlling.

[@HansBohr]

So, he needs to be commited , a follower, a cook, a cleaner, tone/muscular...and in exchange for all, she's "pretty", knows the law in case of a divorce, argumentative and stubborn... Sound like a terrible deal.

[@nattie911]

She's an attorney candidate, she's not just pretty. People are allowed to have standards, preferences, and know their legal rights regardless of gender.

[@samsongomah1318]

She uses high standards to keep people away because she has unresolved trauma.

[@samsongomah1318]

@@nattie911 Yeah, but egotistical people with their 'standards' stay perennially single.

[@thefirm4606]

Remind me, what is the rate of young women being unalived in SA…

[@marriagecausesdivorce7540]

"knows the law in case of a divorce, argumentative and stubborn". finally someone who saw all the RED FLAGS.

[@GoodKarma1020]

She doesn’t want a relationship rather a golden retriever who will obey- run gentlemen!!

[@punkybrewstar83]

Thankfully pick me Goddess- there are all these men getting rejected... with standards so low you must be swamped with offers

[@GoodKarma1020]

@@punkybrewstar83 what? Your comment makes no sense? 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@JimmiAlli]

I am a catch, just look at me. Therein lies the problem.

[@b.k.3280]

This angelique sound more like a nightmare than an angel

[@mizhomesiq]

It's not that men don't want a relationship. They don't want to have a relationship WITH HER.

[@rosiemackenzie5976]

Not long term anyway, not once the novelty of the good looking body has worn off and you have to live with someone who always wants their own way.

[@Sebastian-px3bl]

‘I make the rules and you have to follow them’ mate for the sake of your self-respect RUN

[@kylescott4973]

“I run the law, I wear the pants and you have to follow them” And she wonders why she’s single, the mind boggles 🙄

[@gillowens24]

He sounds like a nice guy

[@cmpremlap]

But the whole deal about being with someone for 7 years only to say they weren’t compatible 🤦‍♂️

[@Samuel-hd3cp]

We all get that she doesn't need a man, but does she even want one? Some people are just happy on their own.

[@yasminmohamed2674]

"I make the rules and you have to follow them" now imagine if a man said that...

[@hugevagiine]

That would be MASAGONY

[@Jay-oh1li]

She needs a simp not a Chad 😂

[@lovingnature1151]

Did she totally forget about he needs to cook, clean, and have big arms? 🤷‍♀️

[@dtbristol]

Chad happy to say yes, for a chance at intimacy, but does he want a domineering, opinionated, argumentative, woman that will certainly be pushing for marriage or children? I think not.

[@helenlingard7790]

Love this.... exactly... swings and roundabouts, hopefully she becomes more easy going with the 'right guy'..

[@samsongomah1318]

C'mon, he just wants to hit and run!

[@LeMerch]

@@samsongomah1318 Yup, 100% hit and run type. I'm the same. I know one when I see one.

[@user-lt1jd1ye3v]

He literally said he is unsure about marriage, I think he’s the one who needs to be convinced about kids and marriage, not her

[@thefirm4606]

Projection much? 😂😂

[@sparra3819]

She's a confident lady and he liked it, nothing wrong with that. Seems a nice match to me.

[@Halp1819]

She seems very overconfident and he’s too immature to start dating

[@rosiemackenzie5976]

I wonder if it is such a lovely match seven months in?

[@tomcat1517]

"I make the rules and you have to follow them" "There are not men out there who want serious relationships" I wonder why, Angelique, u can't find anybody..

[@sm3296]

Yes Chad, it can be taken away quickly, but realizing that can make you enjoy and celebrate all the moments, not just the big ones.

[@stevent425]

She is very humble and I quote: "Look at me"! She may very well be a catch, but when you call yourself one there may be some people in her past that would beg to differ!

[@helenlingard7790]

we're all a catch for the right person but she sounds more arragant than confident.. it was the 'look at me' that got me... beauty is more than skin deep. Looks fade, character and personality do not..

[@samsongomah1318]

@@helenlingard7790 And, she doesn't seem to have much of a personality.

[@SausageSideways]

I don't think you know what humble means

[@stevent425]

@@SausageSideways I don't think you know what sarcasm is? Good luck in life!

[@TomNook.]

Her: "all guys don't want relationship" Also her: "I'm very picky" What are the chances "all guys" are just the top 1% of men she's referring to in her checklist?

[@JamesCraigWhoop]

It's bullocks. Guys want a relationship...just not w that person

[@mazedar_tv]

😂😂😂😂 ☕️ women

[@ladistar]

Exactly, if every guy is passing on you for a relationship, you're clearly not good enough. She's entitled and narcissistic with an awful personality. Prime pump and dump material, nothing more, nothing less.

[@djamilawilschke7259]

@@ladistarlove it when buzz words are thrown around as if narcissistic is an actual character trait and not a medical diagnosis after proper analysis…maybe just go with egoistic next time instead, fits more accurately and doesn’t make you look uneducated by just picking up random trendy words

[@zipinha]

Why shouldn't women be picky... And settle by anyone not to be happy?

[@ELEKTRARE]

Chad is my kinda man , I will date him right away 😊 tall handsome charming & everything 😝

[@deannaivetic7935]

As a non selfish person still have no true intentions of any relationship status will not destroy spoil or ruin it for genuine sincere people who are really looking for love

[@LeMerch]

''I make the rules and you have to follow them.'' Goodbye.

[@isadekker7870]

😂😂😂 exactly my reaction to that sentence!!

[@RuPaulCharley]

I’d be willing to bet she’s very insecure and it’s a false confidence.

[@samsongomah1318]

Definitely, and she has had to develop that false confidence and bravado to work in the legal world, which is well known for being shady, unethical, and cutthroat.

[@mvnorsel6354]

We are all actors😅.

[@heribertfassbender5759]

The stuff she was saying in the intro, was HORRIBLE!!! The man can't do that, he has to do this, I want. Just a shopping list without self-awareness. If this kind of talk was the other way around, oooooh dear!

[@janheffernan4792]

She loves herself so much only a pain that is why she is alone happy she is not with my son

[@powerup9035]

The stuff she said before the date were hard to digest, but she was pleasant during the date, so they might work out

[@islandyyt]

He’s a very nice guy. I’m sure he’ll treat her well. I hope she reciprocates in kind.

[@sahra8935]

It's crazy why some people like her cannot see y they r single

[@scottyh8494]

Red flags avoid her.

[@marriagecausesdivorce7540]

More red flags than a Chinese Communist parade. She likes to argue, wears the pants, and is stubborn????

[@TheMacThat]

People who haven’t found themselves are the ones sullying the perception of marriage. You must first be ready in order to care for another. That’s like a vegan trying to review a steak dinner, lol. See how that’s not in order. You must first be 100% with yourself.

[@leezlvontrapp]

As a vegan, I support your analogy. 😉👏🏼🤣

[@samsongomah1318]

And this woman is clearly not interested in anyone but herself.

[@lizzlebizzle5003]

@@samsongomah1318As a woman, I couldn’t agree with this any more.

[@samsongomah1318]

@@lizzlebizzle5003 Thank you and have a wonderful new year.

[@asandi4444]

OMG Chad is adorable, humble and his infectious laugh is pure joy. As an extra bonus, he is also incredibly handsome! Sigh from Canada.. 💓

[@navalfa7291]

He is a single mom maker.

[@sparra3819]

I completely love that he's humble.

[@sm3296]

😅

[@OfficialTeeLucero]

As a woman...this woman is living in the land of DELULU 😅😂

[@gailzaranek6958]

Oh I like this couple. I think he'd let her be boss which would definitely add to their compatability.

[@arielaltairch]

So she wants a dude who is a stay-at-home husband who just works out, cooks and cleans ? lol

[@TheMiist]

Nah, just someone that’s capable of not being a slob

[@thefirm4606]

Not listening to what being said is see…

[@avril.227]

Yes, some men are all for it. Only women can do that?

[@LeandroVelez7]

I like them together. I wasn’t sure at first. But good match imo.

[@Christifit406]

Subscribed 😊

[@jennistone364]

hes a sweetie hope she treats him kindly

[@Godisfirst21]

Match made in heaven. I love them both. Update?

[@lunarsabbatical7906]

Why do women always want to know about past relationships and ask why you’re still single like they’re a private investigator relax and get to know each other and leave the past behind

[@helenlingard7790]

well when she was told to ask that - I was thinking 'Ok he needs to say the same thing' it works both ways.

[@dtosmanm4743]

but will flip out asked about bodycount

[@guyrose2350]

It’s a very telling question. Asking about ex’s shows how a man interacts with women even when they are no longer in contact. A man who can be respectful about his ex, usually is kind, a man who goes straight to she was crazy, I had 0 faults in a relationship, will usually wind up being a terrible partner and either a chronic victim or have narcissistic tendencies

[@ppumpkin3282]

@@guyrose2350 Right because women are never crazy

[@guyrose2350]

@@ppumpkin3282 they can be for sure… but I can tell you almost any time a guy throws his ex under the bus like that, he’s usually the one with problems 😂 from first hand experience and you’ll find almost every women has the same experience with men like this.

[@sarahcaitlyn88]

She grew up without a daddy.... Explains SOOOOOO MUCH! And uet if she's not engaged in two years.... She's going to make her child grow up the same way! She's beyond selfish!

[@truthteller99999]

It's almost as though you've never met a woman!

[@Jmc349]

“I’m a catch “ then proceeds to explain why she is not a catch.

[@dickydoodle]

Modern woman, party of one, your table is ready.

[@mrbtrn]

Guys want a relationship, they just don't want you.

[@stevansmith9582]

And....this is why she can't get a relationship. No man wants a masculine women thats argumentative, and controlling. We want fit, fun, friendly, nice and caring demeanor. I heard 2 mins of this and it's easy to see why she's struggling in the dating market.

[@GeorginaJett]

Women also want their men - fit fun, friendly, nice and caring demeanour.

[@anatoliagolden-hall4553]

@@GeorginaJettExactly 👏👏

[@luisae6917]

It’s giving sexism Stevan. You should be able to take care of yourself

[@Aaron-kj8dv]

100% I don't know why people go into dating like you're going into a wrestling match lol Just be nice and interested and if doesn't work then it doesn't work. This would be like a guy leading with his money or what he's packing in his pants. The type of person who's interested in that I'd probably not the type you want. She really has nothing to offer and is going to turn into a mean old bitter woman blaming men for her loneliness.

[@helenlingard7790]

Masculine? I think you mean Strong and Assertive. Nothing wrong with that for the right guy. However her demands and "Look at me' Im a catch, is a turn off. We're ALL a catch for the right person...

[@rimantasbuivydas2321]

She lost father at 8 now makes sense why she is so bossy

[@seancrowe3353]

Wrong. The guys you're going for don't see you as marriage material, so a hookup is all you're going to get. There are plenty of guys who'd like to settle down, but you don't see them

[@Turnpost2552]

This girls is a fate worse than death. Honesty if the grim reaper existed as a female it would probably be her

[@KorisnickoIme84]

''Men don't want relationships'' moments later: ''I want someone with big arms''

[@lav7161]

How many episodes are they behind? 2019!!!!

[@AS-cc8mp]

Sounds like she’s been picking the guys that don’t want a relationship, time to try something new !

[@LargeEnsemble]

This was 5 years ago, so it would interesting to see how it all turned out with both of them. But she had quite an ego and a long list of requirements for a partner.

[@NKatz]

This girl is horrible! What does she bring to the relationship if the man makes all the money, looks hot, cooks, and cleans? What does she do? Seriously? It's pathetic!

[@CostasPatralis]

Run my friend, run! She's the prime reason why women are single these days. Go buy some cars instead, that's all you deserve.

[@sandymclean9630]

updates please 🤩🤩 nz

[@robertgelblum5154]

She is extremely picky, perhaps unrealistically so. I'm not sure he is so serious about settling down in a long-term relationship. I was blushing when he made the comment about "not being big enough"!

[@brownpleasure9320]

perhaps ? her first 2 lines and i already knew she crazy

[@ZakkyB]

How did she say her father died? I couldn't entirely understand her accent

[@Caucasian187]

Men , understand women don't need a man...this way they can justify leaving you. It's very telling when they say the wedding is for them. Don't need a man. I will take your house and children though .

[@Br0wnCh3]

Must have 100000 things. 😂 gl with that

[@player_two710]

Can’t be a catch when she’s single

[@marilaucher9989]

I like her independence however I think she's a tad conceited

[@samsongomah1318]

A tad ... ?

[@ovingtonful]

Keeps commenting on his arms 🙄!!! Shallow of her. He’s the full package!

[@Skeezer66]

??? They liked each other and want to have another date, why all the negative comments? As for the date, they enjoyed each other! I hope it continued to be good for both of them.

[@TomNook.]

Chad is literally just being Chad She will be complaining when he doesn't want to marry her.

[@janebaker4912]

Why is he 34 and single...true. but are we looking for something wrong? I like him. But also if he goes after women who don't want him that 🚩 That says self sagatage. Also self hatred. She has her flags too. She needs to learn to compromise or shes smother a person.

[@EdInDC]

Why does she look green?

[@chriswiebers1135]

Disgusting mindset…. “Look at me, I make the rules, you can’t tell me anything “….and obsessed with big arms 😂

[@elizabethmenegon8057]

Two supposed to be smart and wanting smart people just picked out of the hat the star signs' argument?! 😳🤣🤣 Wow.. 🤦 well, at least they suit each other. All the best with the big enough part! 😁

[@aquamanGR]

Me, me, me... with an infinite list of demands. How toxic...

[@deborahstevens9587]

Chad has commitment issues

[@rosiemackenzie5976]

Hard to be committed to someone who always wants her own way, even if the behaviour is ignored on for years, eventually it gets old and somebody wakes up and walks out..

[@Lil_CarCrash]

I think his arms are huge. Im scared to see her ex boyfriends

[@marybellehobbs7081]

At first I thought I could understand why she’s single but she’s so lovely ☺️

[@KJ-ez6bm]

Yikes. Why on earth is SHE single 😏😜

[@sullivanbiddle9979]

She's not worth putting effort into.

[@twrkhanasparukh]

If man have to cook, clean, maintain, protect, serve. What is left for woman to do? Just asking for a friend?

[@20165776YEAR]

have babies

[@Ubhntu3789]

They should both be able to do those things for one another. Add in compassion, companionship, nurturing, friendship, love etc.

[@avril.227]

Work and have children. Oh you thought they had to stay home? It is 2024.😂

[@qp4367]

Outsourcing questions mid courtship is mid

[@kevinknight3599]

I mean hooking up is a pretty important start to any relationship because if you're not fun to sleep with then why would you want to spend time with them just to make you feel awkward and uncomfortable if they don't want to sleep with you the first date they don't like you and even if they claim to want to see you again it will just be to waste your time and money

[@miamiwong687]

Let your clock tick.

[@mvnorsel6354]

If married it would never be our children but my children. This is so common with women.

[@tvted6160]

It’s 2019????

[@louiss3409]

That intro was cringe, there are guys who would get into a relationship, but the having to be right all the time thing I can already say I wouldn't date her. Me personally I want some surprises, there are things that I wish I were wrong about, some things that if you are not wrong you will never improve, and some things not important enough to be right or care if your wrong.

[@thebrinksf69]

She better have a baby by herself. She's too demanding and wants to be a boss and is stubborn. That spells alone

[@nattie911]

So many negative comments. I thought they seemed to have a wonderful time with eachother. Peope have different dating perferences. Just because she is domineering doesn't mean she won't find a great man. Some men love (and need) a women to be more in control...also there's the kink aspect.

[@poshniall]

these videos bring out all of the mysogynists, incels, and dating experts apparently

[@hebahamid884]

True. I wish her the best

[@hebahamid884]

​​@@poshniallvery much true. Don't forget women with internalized misogyny.

[@poshniall]

@@hebahamid884 i said misogynists, you don’t need to specify women can also be misogynistic.

[@muttonchop271]

Wait 2019 ?

[@CiaofCleburne]

When did it become wrong to like yourself? I think they’re adorable together.

[@JamesCraigWhoop]

I don't fault a woman for having standards, by all means. Why go on a blind date show if you have such high expectations?

[@samsongomah1318]

Because she is so conceited that she actually thinks she owes the world her presence.

[@rogdawg123]

she wants a simp 🤦‍♂️

[@karenstieglitz3443]

Her personality reminds a little of Natasha from Bridget Jones Diary, but she's gorg, and sometimes for men, that pardons everything. I wish them both the best!

[@SarahKelly-yv9dj]

She maybe a great liar to. Being lawyer.

[@sherrytee2962]

Whoop whoop....Amazing AGAIN. Well done👏👏👏

[@alfredovindiola6364]

Omg! Definitely younger people think and act differently. I’m 52 years old and I just want a down to earth simple woman. A woman that just likes to lay back and chill.

[@LeeHards-i9v]

She later found out he was hung like a gerbal

[@stickyfinger100]

Her biological clock is ticking hey !!!.... So what has she been doing for the last 7 - 8 yrs ? These are the type of up themselves girls who probably met some very decent guys but were not in the mood and passed them aside. Now she is panicking.

[@nattie911]

She was probably busy in law school

[@samsongomah1318]

@@nattie911 Law school is four years. What about the rest of the time?

[@selmarapoport573]

Well she answered first. I was hoping she would. That means she does wear the pants!

[@SeanChitty84]

Who starts a date with, 'do u want to get married?'

[@maravedisresearch]

She is completely delusional, the awakening will be rough

[@marriagecausesdivorce7540]

Exactly. Full of red flags. Who is going to marry an argumentative woman, who is stubborn and wears the pants?