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[@ARTOBSESSIONOZ]

Ive been a widow since 38 my husband died at 40 with prostate cancer in 97 and being alone has given me the time for inner reflection. You dont need a guy to fulfil your life, sometimes god wants you to be alone so you can give him your full attention.

[@yoanasahm]

Yes I agree! I say people needs to do what makes them happy.

[@neveragetv]

Very true...and He satisfies

[@BREEZYM6015]

I'm far from broke and staying single to remain that way. No marriage, living together, or sharing finances for me.

[@yoanasahm]

nice! whatever works for you and makes you happy!

[@neveragetv]

Mmmhhh....

[@ramily7554]

Preach

[@gengrant5291]

Do not marry broke man or broke woman. Both have to be hard working and have a common vision.

[@yoanasahm]

Yes I agree with you 100% exactly my point in the video.

[@IamaNewCreature]

Yes exactly. There are also many broke women. Marriage should be both spouse taking care of each other.

[@yoanasahm]

@IamaNewCreature I agree 100% that’s why I don’t understand when men attack other man for not being able to provide enough.

[@IamaNewCreature]

@ those men are all talk. They’re either single or they just say things, but they themselves are not in a situation like for example yours and your husband (may not be on paper), they’ve no idea. You should read ‘broken money’ by Lyn Alden. I think you and your man will understand better of why it doesn’t seem to be ‘enough’ even though you both work hard. I wish you well.

[@pamelascottAZrealtor]

Love your channel. New subscriber. Praying for you! We got this! My husband and I both work. I'm in real estate and he's a 9-5. It works, but we work hard and love each other.

[@yoanasahm]

Thank you 🙏🏽 I love that for you! That’s how it should we both take care of each and work together!

[@Ali01007]

And also don’t marry broke woman.

[@yoanasahm]

Yes I agree 100% it goes both way

[@jimmya5398]

One thing you have to take into consideration, all men want attractive women. Not all women are attractive, so unfortunately the women that aren’t attractive don’t get the choice because a man with money will choose to be with an attractive woman.

[@nemesisut8793]

People think 🇺🇸 life is easy and cheap... they couldn't be further from the truth.

[@joelrosales9478]

Interesting how people will have kids with a person but won’t get married. 🤔

[@neveragetv]

Interesting....

[@MissMariahNicole]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@erikmartinez7439]

Engineer Family of 4 with one in the oven Made 120k this past year Have a single income household we live within our means have been fortunate to have no consumer debt. Have a house and we do have retirement and savings and goals for another house in another 4-5 years. My work has great benefits and I work around 40-50 hours a week on average.

[@ramily7554]

Moral of the story boys, wear a rubber. Keep dating

[@genemartinez2833]

Your partner is a hard working responsible man who is trying very hard. It’s outrageous for anyone to question his work ethic or commitment. We can all improve but start by looking in the mirror.

[@yoanasahm]

I couldn’t agree more. Thank you so much for being here 🙏🏽

[@Cathy16011]

There is a difference between someone being broke because they are lazy and broke because the don't earn a lot. A person who is willing to work hard can improve their situation. That said, good qualities can come in all income levels. But sometimes people who have never struggled financially don't understand what it's like to be one paycheck away from not being able to pay their bills. They don't understand how hard some people have to work just to have the basics.

[@yoanasahm]

Yes I agree. That’s why I said that people that never grew up like me would understand just like me I probably won’t be able to understand them because I was not raised that way.

[@OnboardingInformation]

The broke man might just be the nice man. The rich man could be just down right nasty

[@yoanasahm]

Yes I agree

[@MichaelCamacho-l9g]

Im a crew member at McDonald's making $7.25 an hour and can't find a woman to even talk to me. However, im going to get my CDL drivers license next month that will up my income to 50k a year minimum. Im sure that should get some females' attention somewhere in America. Im going to be driving OTR all lower 48 states. Goodbye, McDonald's 🤡 🍔 🍟 Hello, Trucking. 🚚 💰 🤑

[@loliwelch9151]

Out of curiosity, how old are you?

[@electropentatonic]

Both the poor and the rich can be awful people. I'm 40 with 3 kids and a wife. We live the privileged life you describe, but it took sacrifice and resilience. My wife met me sweeping floors at a hospital, I was a janitor. I worked my way up to a dishwasher lol. If I could sum up one piece of advice for anyone that asked, it would be: There is no fruit on the easy path, it is picked dry by the lazy.

[@yoanasahm]

I love it thank you so much for sharing. Yes i agree no amount of money could define a good or bad person. I’m personally willing to work through the struggles and build a life with my fiancé.

[@Sg01111]

Wealthy/financially stable does not equal mean or evil. You don’t have to choose between financial security and love. You can have both. Having a child with someone is more binding than a piece of paper tbh. However, you are past that rn. I pray that you make the best out of your situation and find financial freedom. You can do it!

[@floatacoconut]

Sounds like you have a wonderful, hardworking fiance. It is difficult these days to make enough to save, to buy a house or for other things. One income is hard in our culture today.

[@neveragetv]

Sounds so...

[@ronnie5329]

Most earn around 50 to 70k where I live, difference between what the genders earn today is less and less and im not sure our societies here in the west has adapted to this with how we date and and share responsibility in the home yet. If both have a stable income then 2 can work it out with good planning and humility. But i must say social media give everyone a warped idea of what is normal and what they should be able to get.

[@antno_2064]

I’m not married nor do I have any kids, but both my parents had worked when they were younger. Then my mom retired to take care of us kids ( two boys and a girl ) and my dad was the only one working. Fast forward, my dad got sick, so he retired and three years later, passed away from cancer. We do receive some money from benefits and all that, but it’s not like huge amounts, which is fine.

[@yoanasahm]

That’s nice that you guys had your mom with and that your dad did set up something for you guys even after his gone.

[@antno_2064]

@ yeah, it is very 😊

[@Celineandson]

I see where you’re coming from im a stay at home mom and my fiancé is an electrician and he works every day even Saturdays and Sundays. I’m so tired and stressed to see him have to put all of his penny in bills because I don’t have an income. I’ve been looking for a job for so many months and no luck so that’s why I started this KZbin channel to see where that goes. I’m hoping to get monetized soon because it hurts me to see my fiancé carrying a gas bottle on his shoulder every time our gas done because we don’t even have a car.

[@yoanasahm]

I understand you mama hang in there and I really hope soon you can start bringing in some income to help. That’s my goal as well.

[@Celineandson]

@ thanks a lot❤️

[@ChillinwithChich]

@Celineandsongirl I’m just starting my KZbin channel so I’m here to support you. You got this girl!

[@ChillinwithChich]

@Celineandsonbtw I love your name. My name is Celina but I go by Chichi

[@Celineandson]

@ wow that’s nice

[@genemartinez2833]

You and your partner share the value of hard work, commitment and working the best with what you have at the present. That’s how you were raised and it’s sounds like your partner has a similar background. Interesting video.

[@yoanasahm]

Yes and this is why I say I would not be able to see myself with someone who has a lot of money but is not a good person.

[@angelachen4760]

What if he is rich and nice / or poor and nasty.. and only dating you because he has no other options.

[@yoanasahm]

That’s very possible too. I’ve seen plenty of poor people being horrible for sure.

[@annacoats2988]

Some low income people can qualify for a HUD house ownership or Habitat for Humanity. Money, like everyting God gives us in life, he wants us to use it wisely and not worship money. Some people chose to have name brand or designer cloths, handbags, vehicles and rent a tiny place to live just to impress people with car and clothing. God bless your journey. We all learn our own life lessons.

[@yoanasahm]

Yes totally with you on that. I’m so glad that my upbringing taught me to focus on the important things and not the superficial stuff.

[@GeoLogico-qd3vz]

I'm broke man, and I'm endorsing this message.

[@yoanasahm]

lol 😂

[@TheMikeyStory]

In Life , with love and relationships , there are NO rules with how be with each other , also keep in mind , 2 people are taking a chance on each other that it will last and at the same time , everyone is subject tot change .... I will say , be with the person that your willing to commit to , accept and love .

[@yoanasahm]

Yes!! This I love it! I agree both parties are taking a chance on each other.

[@jouiniayoub8145]

I had to play this video X2 speed 😅 so slow

[@yoanasahm]

That’s the best way to do it! Thanks for watching

[@neveragetv]

Jogging my mind now...

[@linda22_]

How is he not a good person if he started working out of school? He doesn’t seem lazy. People are weird fr I’ve been married for 12 years, when my husband and I met, he was making minimum wage in 2011, now we both make 6 figures. No kids, 3 dogs but we do have a mortgage-our only debt. If both are trying, that’s all that matters.

[@yoanasahm]

I know like even in that video I said how grateful I was to have him in my life and people were still asking about him like 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@madameclark3453]

Ahhhh, thanks for sharing about your life. Question, did you grow up with the saying si dios quierer ?

[@ChristopherInTexas]

Im an icu RN 65k. My fiance is also a RN making the same. Its hard with 2 kids. But we manage. Love your content

[@ronnie5329]

Yes even here in Denmark, most earn between 50 to 70k usd, we were poor at budgetting when we just had kids. But we got a lot better at it out of neccessity, once a month we look at if we are around what we planned. Small amounts become big over time 🙂

[@PegahSye]

Let’s promote family and growth like the vids

[@yoanasahm]

I agree thank you 🙏🏽

[@ChillinwithChich]

I’m new here and I’m here to support you girl with the views and likes cause that’s all I have lol.

[@neveragetv]

Great person you are....

[@lekatong]

Would you have been patient with your partner if he was of a different culture i.e. black or white?

[@Josephfamily47]

Here watching

[@yoanasahm]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@GMoneyD-v6f]

I know she’s not throwing stones lol

[@yoanasahm]

Not at all it’s just giving my prospective on being with someone who is not “wealthy”

[@nefirahbey]

You’re a good woman ❤

[@lueValentine]

I simply don’t understand how men with children wont work to provide! I am not talking about your husband. But other deadbeats. I met my husband when he was 24 and he would work in whatever he had to do to provide. We had 3 kiddos and thank God I stayed home to care for the children. I went back to work when all the boys were in school. You have to stay on a strict budget! It’s difficult, but when you have no money in savings if something unexpected happens you’re going to be up a creek. I wish you well. May things get better for you and your family.

[@yoanasahm]

Thank you for sharing. But I don’t think I was talking about you. There were some comments that I had to delete just because they were getting out of context.

[@ronnie5329]

Our current society is not set up for parents to be able to be at home, you gotta plan and save up for that for 99% of couples.

[@madameclark3453]

8:42 👏🏼 I agree with you

[@Cauldron-]

ran on mute 👍

[@yoanasahm]

Thank you for supporting

[@Cauldron-]

@@yoanasahm you are welcome

[@Cauldron-]

@@yoanasahm Your welcome, happy to help.

[@natividadramirez4696]

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