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Found Out My Online Boyfriend Is in Prison
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@alyssapowelltate4000
@alyssapowelltate4000 Жыл бұрын
I’ve worked in a prison. Women fall for it. All. The. Time. There’s inmates with 3-5 different women writing to them, thinking they’re exclusively dating. The women send them money and try to work on their legal cases. It’s CRAZY what these diagnosed psychopaths get away with manipulating women… Oh and inmates aren’t given internet or cellphones, but they’re smuggled in by dirty staff and visitors all the time.
@NvrDieNvrSurrender
@NvrDieNvrSurrender Жыл бұрын
I worked in a jail sis for almost a decade and my comment is exactly this!
@VS-fo9py
@VS-fo9py Жыл бұрын
I hope the caller reads these comments, and opens her eyes.
@ConnieFoster1
@ConnieFoster1 Жыл бұрын
I've heard similar things. Inmates are master manipulators and these women want someone to 'save'
@elfascisto6549
@elfascisto6549 Жыл бұрын
​@@VS-fo9py me too
@ES-7766
@ES-7766 Жыл бұрын
Some women just have bad taste in men. They are their own worst enemy. Love yourself first.
@soothinggentlesounds
@soothinggentlesounds Жыл бұрын
She's channeling her energy into proving her boyfriend isn't guilty instead of living her life. She'll look back at this time frame with regret when she's older.
@RoseWater20
@RoseWater20 Жыл бұрын
I hope she sees this comment. This is for her now and future self.
@bettysmith4527
@bettysmith4527 Жыл бұрын
For god sakes he isn't her boyfriend, he is some criminal in jail that charmed her into believing he is not guilty and fulfilling his own needs!
@kaglaw
@kaglaw Жыл бұрын
@@bettysmith4527 and guaranteed, she is paying his legal bills.
@JustinCase780
@JustinCase780 Жыл бұрын
She spent *years* getting involved in his case with a lawyer trying to make his/her career and it was denied in the courts. The guy has zero to lose playing her. Sad pathetic story.
@TonyCox1351
@TonyCox1351 Жыл бұрын
@@bettysmith4527yeah this guy is literally just some child toucher, reaching out from prison to lonely overweight women. He’s probably got 2 or 3 other ones putting money on his books
@betbabe8222
@betbabe8222 11 ай бұрын
“It’s Easier to Fool People Than It Is to Convince Them That They Have Been Fooled.” - Mark Twain
@kellylott9296
@kellylott9296 10 ай бұрын
This is so incredibly true. I had a boyfriend who was an addict,(though at the time i was also.i just didnt lie to others or do anything to anyone else in order to get my fix) Anyways i worked across the street at a dairy farm, milking cows. While working one night, he came running over, no shoes on, out of breath, saying someone had broken in and had a board for a weapon. I was so freaked out, I ultimately end f up knocking on the boss's door , talking to his wife, using her phone to call 911. I was not there. I was at work. when they pulled in they asked if they could take a look around the perimiter. I said yes. So didn't they end up going inside, seeing paraphernalia and charging me with that. I never gave permission to go inside but I see now life doesn't work like that. I was very frightened after that. I lived alone, you know? Anyways all this to say, i ended up having serious doubts and questions as to whether it even happened. I have come to terms with the fact that it was all more than likely an elaborate lie, that he created and I don't know entirely what his pay off was, I know he asked his dad for help with money to get locks. I'm sure he got far more money than I knew. It was extremely upsetting to think the person I loved would not online deceive me, but take away my sense of safety and security in my own home. So... I feel that quote.
@angela-ml8ir
@angela-ml8ir 4 ай бұрын
Good one 😊
@sarahmurphy-nf4yl
@sarahmurphy-nf4yl Ай бұрын
The mannish a convicted paedophile a d she feels lucky to have him 😮😢 💔
@ryanjohnson6636
@ryanjohnson6636 8 күн бұрын
This is what happens when women think feminism is the way to go and that guys care about a woman’s degree or profession
@seasoning7
@seasoning7 Жыл бұрын
Meeting someone online, falling in love and thinking they’re “the one” in less than 3 months all without meeting them once in person? She got catfished and is choosing to roll with it. 🤷‍♀️
@boston312
@boston312 11 ай бұрын
most of the time its lonely gullible men being catfished by a Filipina overseas. The few times ive seen it happen to women is when the woman is well past her prime and she is very desperate to settle down
@coolkidvt01
@coolkidvt01 11 ай бұрын
Delulu
@lucilleyoung4744
@lucilleyoung4744 10 ай бұрын
Why do women make such a big deal about wanting to have children, not everyone should or can't, but can't accept that dreams are unrealistic. Instead of taking responsibility for bad decisions, they justify them. Be happy for yourself and live your life and quit having an unrealistic life that everyone has. When she says she wanted to have a wedding so her mom can see her in a wedding dress. Her whole existence was based on an overpriced dress that would be worn one time.
@alladreamwedreamed
@alladreamwedreamed 8 ай бұрын
You're right and I think her hang up that she's "a smart person" is what keeps her going with this delusional "relationship" with a prison pen pal. A smart girl wouldn't be fooled by a child-molesting con man! Therefore, he must be real and innocent. Lol
@Molbokei
@Molbokei 5 ай бұрын
​@@boston312so if it's men they are lonely but women are past their prime? And when would this prime be, exactly?
@ladytea697
@ladytea697 Жыл бұрын
This guy is 100% guilty. He conned you. Sold you a dream. Its easy to be the best boyfriend ever when you’re stuck in prison. If he ever did get out, he’d turn into a completely different guy. Watch Love After Lockup😂 Stop wasting your life.
@Mysterious_Moon
@Mysterious_Moon Жыл бұрын
I’ve lived it. Mine was a master manipulator. I was 17.
@ladytea697
@ladytea697 Жыл бұрын
@@Mysterious_Moon You were 17 though. That’s understandable. This chick is 38 years old. Just goes to show a master’s degree can’t buy a person common sense.
@Mysterious_Moon
@Mysterious_Moon Жыл бұрын
@@ladytea697I didn’t have an excuse. I stayed and married, until I was 30. Point being, I realized time and my efforts didn’t change who he was or his situation. Someone who would lie, cheat, steal to benefit himself. I learned that once in jail, they become a different breed.
@kimberlysmith7625
@kimberlysmith7625 Жыл бұрын
She should also watch KZbin channels dedicated to parole hearings of sex offenders. They are skilled manipulators and liars bc that's what works for them....to get what they want.
@mw6346
@mw6346 Жыл бұрын
I watched a coworker marry an inmate and you are completely correct. Once he was released he cheated and was gone in less than a year. She had to pick the pieces back up and begin again.
@_Coe
@_Coe Жыл бұрын
It’s very interesting that she says she wants a child the most out of life. But she’s chosen a man in a situation that can’t get her pregnant. And is accused of hurting children. Very strange contrast there.
@slaviapolandia7541
@slaviapolandia7541 11 ай бұрын
great observation
@bakedbeans9546
@bakedbeans9546 11 ай бұрын
Exactly. I hope she never has children, it's women like this who allow their children to get abused. The fact she thinks a convicted pedophile is innocent is just WILD, it takes a lot of evidence to secure a molestation conviction.
@caterapullett6235
@caterapullett6235 11 ай бұрын
I could not have put this better it's a little scary 😟
@eleonora6980
@eleonora6980 10 ай бұрын
Who choosing to artificially inseminate is selfish as well. Shes bringing a child into this world without a second parent intentionally.
@alanarama
@alanarama 10 ай бұрын
Plenty of kids with no parents that were born the "right way" plenty of kids whos parents abandon them. It doesn't hurt in the same way if you're just lacking a parent it's being rejected by one, that does the damage. ​@@eleonora6980
@FancyAnneX
@FancyAnneX Жыл бұрын
Dating a convicted child molester with a felony she can never have kids anywhere near him. They can’t adopt kids. Her only option is to get pregnant by him but he won’t be able to attend school functions or pick the kid up from school. Honestly I side-eye anyone that openly dates/marries children abusers, I start thinking they also hurt kids. Her doubling-down on this relationship gives me the icks. Dr John handled this call with a LOT of patience.
@name9601
@name9601 11 ай бұрын
she's complaining about what her life became then chooses the exact scenario so it stays the same
@name9601
@name9601 11 ай бұрын
best not, her believing bf over kids or worst doesn't care enough denial just to keep him
@JanHagen-rt6qi
@JanHagen-rt6qi 11 ай бұрын
Her choice it’s a good thing she didn’t get what she wanted
@CassandraV-kl4hq
@CassandraV-kl4hq 11 ай бұрын
Even if they were married. He’d have to move out and can’t be around his own kid.
@skeeterbug589
@skeeterbug589 11 ай бұрын
💯
@Mysterious_Moon
@Mysterious_Moon Жыл бұрын
Why in the eff aren’t prisons blocking dating websites from inmates? They’re supposed to be rehabilitating AWAY from the public, not unleashed upon them while still serving.
@Lucius-z6e
@Lucius-z6e Жыл бұрын
Bcuz we liberal lawyers, judges and politicians who care so much for the inmates they fight for every right for them.
@tduck828
@tduck828 Жыл бұрын
THISSSSSSS!!!! Why the heck are inmates even allowed to get online???
@MeowmyandMe
@MeowmyandMe Жыл бұрын
Many of them have friends posting on their behalf and sending the correspondence to them in letters or reading it over phone calls
@ceelothatmane9421
@ceelothatmane9421 Жыл бұрын
Becaus inmates lives matter too right? Inmates don’t deserve love?
@greenAbbot
@greenAbbot Жыл бұрын
@@Lucius-z6e No prisons allow internet access outside of monitored texts. And all the evidence shows that recidivism is greatly reduced when inmates are integrated into and connected with society upon release, rather than just punished. Or does talking about data make me too much of a liberal?
@Miss_Judy
@Miss_Judy Жыл бұрын
I'm seriously crying for this lady right now... It's so pathetically sad... I married a man who was a pedophile - unknown to me... After being married to my husband for 9 years, he was accused of raping a child... He swore he never did anything - to my face - crying, denying everything... it was not until I heard the mother's side - the mother of the child he raped... that I realized my husband lied to me - the entire time... He had been so convincing... I believed every word he said... I hope this Megan lady does research on the psychology of pedophiles and their need to lie... this Megan person just breaks my heart that she's throwing away her dreams of having a baby for a pedophile.
@Veracityseeker7
@Veracityseeker7 Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry that happened to you, but your situation is very different. You didn't know. She knew, and still decided to stand by this guy. Someone like you would get my empathy, where this woman gets none. She's earned where she is right now. I hope you can do some healing around your situation❤
@emilyemily6316
@emilyemily6316 Жыл бұрын
Ask yourself, what kind of women KNOWINGLY does it? You would not have. That's her!!! Don't feel sorry for her.
@Veracityseeker7
@Veracityseeker7 Жыл бұрын
@@emilyemily6316 THANK YOU. I had a friend who was in the situation where, she didn't know and the cops busted him when they were hanging out. Of course she dumped him immediately, and went to therapy. This caller decided to fight for him! The caller is getting exactly what she deserves.
@emilyemily6316
@emilyemily6316 Жыл бұрын
yup!!!@@Veracityseeker7
@olivialisonbee8153
@olivialisonbee8153 10 ай бұрын
I understand this because I also married a pedophile unknowingly. I remember the police showing up to my door and arresting him. The police officer that explained everything to me was so kind even when I didn’t believe him at first. He showed me some evidence that showed they had the right guy. It still didn’t really hit me fully until I sat down with his lawyer and saw the evidence and arrested statements. I picked up divorce papers the next day. I hadn’t been married long, but it was still very traumatic and haunts me. I’m remarried now and have two beautiful children, I never could have had that with my ex. This woman needs to move on, they don’t put you behind bars without evidence. They stalked my ex for three months before they arrested him to make sure he went to jail.
@bethford6884
@bethford6884 Жыл бұрын
"Wrongfully convicted", lady wake up! He also LIED TO YOU/chose not to tell you about being in prison. Of course he's lying about being innocent. You should have been mad enough to end it right then. Love yourself enough to want more for yourself.
@roathripper
@roathripper Жыл бұрын
everyone in prison can't wait to tell you they are innocent. all those prisoners - innocent! who knew?
@marysaltlife1427
@marysaltlife1427 Жыл бұрын
You said it all, and so well!!!
@annt7384
@annt7384 11 ай бұрын
Enough about him. She’s got some kind of virtue/white knight syndrome, and nobody’s paying her any reward.
@alladreamwedreamed
@alladreamwedreamed 10 ай бұрын
All she has to do is stop sending him Jpays and see how much he still loves her 😂
@lovetodaylisa3967
@lovetodaylisa3967 5 ай бұрын
Prisons are filled with " innocent" convicts. How do you know? Just ask them 😂
@AT-bt1cu
@AT-bt1cu Жыл бұрын
What’s the difference between being single or with a guy that’s in prison? You’re alone regardless
@JaZmine147
@JaZmine147 Жыл бұрын
At least she always knows where her boyfriend is. 😂
@ineedhoez
@ineedhoez Жыл бұрын
Pahahaahaha!!!! Facts
@MixUpTheVideos
@MixUpTheVideos Жыл бұрын
It's physically no different. But relationships have many elements apart from the physical.
@lav7161
@lav7161 Жыл бұрын
The guy in prison showers with other men.
@chocolatte8301
@chocolatte8301 Жыл бұрын
Agreed
@mrsmomrach
@mrsmomrach Жыл бұрын
Dr John’s poker face is UN👏🏼MATCHED👏🏼
@faraha2826
@faraha2826 Жыл бұрын
I would have been doing so much eye rolling 😄 I don’t know how he does it.
@thecramptons
@thecramptons Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@rz8753
@rz8753 Жыл бұрын
@@faraha2826😂😂😂😂😂 I know lol at this point just meet a guy and have a baby , when women try doing ivf solo I’m like girl there is lots of options
@alicef128
@alicef128 Жыл бұрын
@@faraha2826me too. I’ve about given myself a headache from rolling mine so much just listening. 6 years.
@ihateallyall
@ihateallyall Жыл бұрын
@@faraha2826well he’s been doing this for years, his face has poker face muscle memory when he hears something cringe 😂😂
@tracygomez53
@tracygomez53 5 ай бұрын
As a lawyer who took a series of post-conviction defense-oriented classes in law school, I know that technical errors leading to an ‘unfair trial’ do not equal innocence.
@bback4078
@bback4078 23 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. That's what I suspected!
@lisaobesaful
@lisaobesaful Жыл бұрын
I just got married at 38. I sympathize that it's sometimes hard to find the right person. But even in the worst of my loneliness, I wouldn't have put up with this nonsense! This is truly baffling. It's extreme self-sabotage at this point.
@rae7782
@rae7782 11 ай бұрын
Hi Lisa, hope you do not mind answering but I would like to know firstly, how did you know your husband was the one and secondly, how you coped with being a single woman for so long. I desire to be single but sometimes, societal pressure makes it difficult to be a single woman especially when I constantly see women my age getting married and getting pregnant etc. Thank you in advance ❤.
@alanarama
@alanarama 10 ай бұрын
You'll know when some one makes you desire them, more than being single. Never give up a good single life for a mediocre relationship, regardless of the outside noise.​@@rae7782
@amymain2213
@amymain2213 10 ай бұрын
I got married at 39. Oh how I GET this gal. Yeah my life didn't go sideways toward a prisoner (that's my sis - another story 😮) but I did marry someone who turned out to be abusive. Man she is telling my story otherwise.did all the right things. Even her timeline was similar. Instead I married at 39, failed IVF and still sticking it out for pennies. 😢 I appreciate his recommendation to write letters to my younger self. May need to try it. The grief is INTENSE! My life looks NOTHING like I thought!
@turtlevillanueva118
@turtlevillanueva118 5 ай бұрын
Probably the same concept of hot women seducing lonely men just the opposite. Women desperately in search of companionship the way some men desperately in search of sex
@JaxLittles
@JaxLittles 5 ай бұрын
​@@rae7782 I'm getting married at 39. I'm grateful every day that I waited to get married. If I married any of the people I dated in my 20s, I'd be miserable. I met my soon to be husband in my early 30s. We could have gotten married, but I wanted to make sure we had enough time to really know each other. During my single times... I dealt with loneliness by working towards being the partner I wanted in someone else. I focused on trying to get as many experiences in life as possible... traveling solo, going on cruises, going to yoga retreats, picking up new hobbies, learning new things like pole fitness, cooking classes, painting classes, video games, etc. What's awesome about that... I made a lot of friends along the way and gained enough confidence to be alone and not date trash people. Trash people are intimidated by people who have lots of life experience and stories. The loneliness goes away when you are deep into living life.
@mirabella2154
@mirabella2154 Жыл бұрын
A child molester (allegedly) as a boyfriend with a prison sentence over his head... Where did she meet that splendid specimen? At some point we have to take responsibility for the choices we make.
@CarnivoreStork
@CarnivoreStork Жыл бұрын
👍🏼
@angryox3102
@angryox3102 Жыл бұрын
Not allegedly, convicted. He did it.
@pegzpat
@pegzpat Жыл бұрын
Choosing to date a CONVICTED child molester, while wanting to be a mother... She's not ready to have a child.
@Thetruesauce100
@Thetruesauce100 Жыл бұрын
Not allegedly he has been convicted and sentenced 😂😂 there’s nothing alleged about it
@Amsh-r9t
@Amsh-r9t Жыл бұрын
@@Thetruesauce100 😂😂😂
@alinamanoochehri3844
@alinamanoochehri3844 Жыл бұрын
Lady, regardless of him being guilty or not, he didn’t tell you that he was in prison when you met. He started your relationship with lies. Please move on. You still have time to build the life you’ve wanted.
@ders972
@ders972 9 ай бұрын
She is mentally ill and he is using her
@theartofcrashingout
@theartofcrashingout 5 ай бұрын
This part!
@genevievekeillor8821
@genevievekeillor8821 5 ай бұрын
💥
@genevievekeillor8821
@genevievekeillor8821 5 ай бұрын
Having been once married to a child molester they are the MASTER MANIPULATORS
@genevievekeillor8821
@genevievekeillor8821 5 ай бұрын
That should be the most eye-opening thing for her
@bleh3039
@bleh3039 10 ай бұрын
As a person who was sa as a kid - do you know how brave that kid was to come forward to report the abuse - and then for the police to find enough evidence to convict the perpetrator? This woman is disgusting to try and find excuses for something he probably did do.
@lovetodaylisa3967
@lovetodaylisa3967 5 ай бұрын
People forget how hard it is to get a conviction. How bad was it for him to get actual prison time?!?!
@carriemays6935
@carriemays6935 4 ай бұрын
100%​@@lovetodaylisa3967
@khorns1
@khorns1 3 ай бұрын
THANK YOU! I was this kid. Except it’s VERY hard to convict a child molester and no one really understands how hard that is to do. Mine is free.. they flat out told me it’s very hard to have them convicted that you need physical proof, a video, a picture, another witness, physical on your body abuse, or a birthmark on him, a detailed thing to describe that you shouldn’t see as a kid, or a tattoo down there… literally crushed me that he got to walk free. While I spent my childhood in intensive therapy from 5 grade to freshman year I was sexually abused.. My abuser was my uncle married to my aunt. He has cancer now and for me that’s his punishment and I hope he’s suffering with it too. I haven’t seen him or spoke to him since I came forward and it was the HARDEST thing I’ve ever had to do in my life… I’m 31 years old now. I have PTSD, depression and anxiety and I’m still in therapy to cope with my life. And I work at it every single day. I’m a mother of two daughters and a wife of 11 years and I still have triggers… I don’t like men around my girls, let alone men in my family I NEVER leave them alone with anyone. I am hyper aware and I speak to both my girls about their safely and using their voice and how to protect themselves and letting them know I’m safe always to come too. And what is not ok for anyone to do. Things my mom and dad never did they didn’t protect me. They didn’t know but I still struggle with resentment. It affected my whole life.
@khorns1
@khorns1 3 ай бұрын
She is a moron. To invalidate the child he’s caused life long trauma too. She would be the worst enabler if he ever got out. It’s disgusting
@Azari8030
@Azari8030 3 ай бұрын
​@@khorns1he is a manipulative psychopath who is good at grooming and she is in a very bad place in her life so she cant see clearly what he is doing.
@zitroanor
@zitroanor 11 ай бұрын
They're ALWAYS innocent and Prince Charming in prison. She might not even be someone he would choose if he was out. She provides letters, conversations that she pays for, visits, money and whatever else he "needs". He's a stand in, a "fantasy" of the life she dreamed of. This is one of the saddest calls I've heard on this show.
@Gardenpath11
@Gardenpath11 11 ай бұрын
How do you meet someone online and have fireworks, and know he’s the one without meeting them? That’s insanity.
@marissa7459
@marissa7459 5 ай бұрын
She’s so desperate that she clings to anything that looks like love or connection…even if it’s from behind bars.
@AvaEFF
@AvaEFF 5 ай бұрын
And she didn’t even know he was in prison at that point. She basically knew nothing about him.
@anapuscau2236
@anapuscau2236 4 ай бұрын
Lonely and desperate people will convince themselves of anything
@ericalashan1923
@ericalashan1923 Жыл бұрын
Please caller...if I knew u in real life I wouldn't bring my children to ur house ever...if he ever gets out. Sorry.
@michelejohnson6459
@michelejohnson6459 Жыл бұрын
Legally he can never be around children. Why did you say sorry? Sorry you won't let your children be around a child molester? 🤔
@jasongilder22
@jasongilder22 Ай бұрын
@@michelejohnson6459tone hard over internet
@prody666
@prody666 9 ай бұрын
This poor woman would better use that money on a good therapist instead of wasting it on the inmate imaginary boyfriend...
@eveallusion
@eveallusion Жыл бұрын
This story is beyond disturbing. I hope the caller sees her kindness is being taken advantage of. Please caller, find purpose in finding a great man and building the life you've always wanted. If you decide to stay, which I hope you don't, DO NOT EVER HAVE CHILDREN WITH THIS MAN OR BRING CHILDREN AROUND HIM. EVER.
@tiffanynicoley
@tiffanynicoley Жыл бұрын
Oh John tried SO HARD to be nice here lol but we all can clearly see she’s just headed for more pain and more heartbreak. I hope she wakes up.
@JacksonvilleTammy
@JacksonvilleTammy Жыл бұрын
I hate how people say "I met someone" when all they did was talk to someone on the phone or text etc.... You are speaking to someone you didn't meet them
@murdahmammiez
@murdahmammiez 5 ай бұрын
Well in 6 yrs shes modt probably visite him in prison
@santafilipina9020
@santafilipina9020 Жыл бұрын
I'm innocent and wrongfully convicted are very common refrain of inmates, don't you know?
@mamat1213
@mamat1213 Жыл бұрын
YES AND the fact that they are trying to get him off on a procedural technicality?! HUGE red flag 😳
@bettysmith4527
@bettysmith4527 Жыл бұрын
I just hope she hasn't spent her hard earned money trying to get his perv out!! @@mamat1213
@miltoncat
@miltoncat Жыл бұрын
I can’t help but think her choosing to get pregnant on her own isn’t going to complete her life like she thinks it will.
@tishataray
@tishataray Жыл бұрын
Agreed, being in a similar situation it sucks too when you miss the chance of using your fertile years because life didn't provide the one.
@Veracityseeker7
@Veracityseeker7 Жыл бұрын
She'll just project all of her weirdness onto her child.
@Veracityseeker7
@Veracityseeker7 Жыл бұрын
​@@tishatarayThat's valid, but in this case she made bad decisions to stick with this dude who was convicted of CM. You could also choose to adopt, and not be so selfish and dedicate your life to an unwanted child.
@tishataray
@tishataray Жыл бұрын
@@Veracityseeker7 some women desire to experience the journey of pregnancy , the baby kicking and all that. Even if you choose to adopt , you still grieve having your own if that was your dream... I get you tho ...i hope she gets someone better
@tishataray
@tishataray Жыл бұрын
@@Veracityseeker7 some women desire to experience the journey of pregnancy , the baby kicking and all that. Even if you choose to adopt , you still grieve having your own if that was your dream... I get you tho ...i hope she gets someone better
@RoseWater20
@RoseWater20 Жыл бұрын
You’re holding her accountable for her choices. I’m glad you emphasized this.
@tracy5721
@tracy5721 Жыл бұрын
I’m betting she’s paying for his lawyer and legal fees too. I think he’s using her.
@VV-er3zg
@VV-er3zg 5 ай бұрын
“We found a post conviction lawyer” na na na babes that’s HIS legal issue, even if it was a traffic ticket lmao
@kathleenbueter1272
@kathleenbueter1272 5 ай бұрын
I think he’s a scammer
@YouTubeGalPal
@YouTubeGalPal 2 ай бұрын
💯
@elettramia6380
@elettramia6380 Ай бұрын
Well when you decide to knowingly date a man convicted of being a p3dophile then You deserve to be used
@amendaalmonte2236
@amendaalmonte2236 Жыл бұрын
I use to have a friend who also supported her boyfriend at the time who was in prison for “wrongful accusation of child molestation”. She swore up and down his ex was out to get him. Anyways the guy was released and they break up. He went on to be one of those “repent for your sins the end is near” wackos holding a sign. Then contacted her years later to repent for his sins and tell her that he actually was guilty of child molestation. Anytime a man’s name and child molestation are in the same sentence, just turn the other way.
@SaystheTruth3
@SaystheTruth3 Жыл бұрын
Wrongfully convicted??? Bruh......🙄
@eurekahope5310
@eurekahope5310 Жыл бұрын
He may be, but I wouldn't waste my life hoping he was telling the truth.
@ramblinmama
@ramblinmama Жыл бұрын
particularly not with a charge like that. @@eurekahope5310
@raraavis7782
@raraavis7782 Жыл бұрын
At the very least the doubt will always be there...
@Veracityseeker7
@Veracityseeker7 Жыл бұрын
Yeah that was a cope
@chuckokoye2410
@chuckokoye2410 Жыл бұрын
It does happen way more than people think in this country. the court system does get it wrong. buuuuuut, that sounds like his problem, not this poor womans who’s been wasting her time dealing with it
@FrankS111
@FrankS111 Жыл бұрын
Imagine throwing your life away for a convicted child sex offender. There is no saving her.
@bcc7777
@bcc7777 4 ай бұрын
Hopefully, she'll save herself.
@ProfessorOfLogic81
@ProfessorOfLogic81 4 ай бұрын
Dr. John didn’t want to say it but he has seen enough people like her to know that she chose this man because she does not want an actual partner. She wants a project. She spent her whole life avoiding relationships and this is more of the same. She knows she can never have a happy and fulfilling relationship with this man. She was damaged at a young age and is acting out rather than healing herself.
@JC-ov5yz
@JC-ov5yz Жыл бұрын
I absolutely hate it when you get falsely imprisoned for child molestation.
@katiewaves
@katiewaves Жыл бұрын
😂
@TonyCox1351
@TonyCox1351 Жыл бұрын
Happened to me on my way to work this morning
@RepentImmediately
@RepentImmediately Жыл бұрын
😂
@atdepaulis
@atdepaulis Жыл бұрын
😂
@Zumcho
@Zumcho Жыл бұрын
​@@TonyCox1351 same 😂😂😂
@alladreamwedreamed
@alladreamwedreamed 10 ай бұрын
This call was insanity to listen to! She says all she wants it to have a child. Yet she attaches herself to an unavailable man for years. A man in prison, for harming children! Her self-awareness of this is very low. Is this limerence - living in a fantasy world, wishing for someone or something that can never be?
@James-k9p4w
@James-k9p4w 11 ай бұрын
I met a girl on a flight to Atlanta . We started talking trauma. She then showed me her bf of one year she never met that was in the US military on a peacekeeping mission in Ukraine . I politely mentioned to her that I am quite familiar with the military situation there and the us military does not operate as a peacekeeping in Ukraine . She looked very surprised that I mentioned her online bf was most likely fake
@blueyellow3621
@blueyellow3621 Ай бұрын
She , obviously, has not watched news for the past 2-2.5 years. Peacekeeping corp in Ukraine????😂😂😂 why there’s a russian invasion then??? People need to have more critical thinking skills.
@teachingthepetites4614
@teachingthepetites4614 Ай бұрын
Omg
@amberdavis7481
@amberdavis7481 18 күн бұрын
Why would someone on any type of mission like that try to connect with anyone new online ?
@James-k9p4w
@James-k9p4w 10 күн бұрын
@@amberdavis7481 You should have seen the picture lol
@amberdavis7481
@amberdavis7481 10 күн бұрын
@@James-k9p4w Aw poor girl.
@mexicanachulax3
@mexicanachulax3 Жыл бұрын
Let go of your timeline and let go of this man.
@name9601
@name9601 11 ай бұрын
cinderblock
@Fred2-123
@Fred2-123 Жыл бұрын
That poor girl, she fell for a prison inmate romance scammer.
@catherinewilke5583
@catherinewilke5583 11 ай бұрын
Yep but she won’t let the fantasy go. She said she’s fat so I’m sure that makes irl dating hard so she can lose weight or own it and find someone who likes fatties
@Ash-kb9hn
@Ash-kb9hn 10 ай бұрын
4:05 She put SIX YEARS into this man and is still completely delusional. Wow. A convicted child molester and she gave away SIX years, six very important years of of her life to try to free him. She is out of her mind. She doesn’t want help, she wants people to feel badly for her and say “aw poor baby it’s not your fault” it is 100% her fault. If she wants to be a mom so bad she could’ve put money towards an adoption attorney instead of her prison inmate, child molester boyfriend. This woman is out of her mind. She’s clearly too far gone for help. Dr. John made some amazing points and spoke them with empathy and she just sat silent because she wasn’t told what she wanted to hear.
@elettramia6380
@elettramia6380 Ай бұрын
Agreed, Not everyone’s worth saving. Her and her p3do boyfriend qualify for that status
@Amsh-r9t
@Amsh-r9t Жыл бұрын
I have seen so many late 30s single women who have made insane choices when it comes to dating but this one was whole new level of desperate / crazy 😢
@jaylucas10
@jaylucas10 Жыл бұрын
😂🤣😂
@bettysmith4527
@bettysmith4527 Жыл бұрын
Agreed... I eventually learned to just enjoy being single, and if Mr. Right comes along great, if not, that is ok too! Happiness is an inside job!
@Amsh-r9t
@Amsh-r9t Жыл бұрын
@@bettysmith4527 good for you😊 myself divorced with s child at 21 and single ever since (now 50) to date i have not known one couple whose life is better, more fulfilled because of their relationship. Ppl either have the art of happiness or they don’t. Ppl who are happy in a relationship are those who had a great life when they were single too. Miserable single ppl end up marrying and establishing a miserable family 😂
@Shaara1
@Shaara1 Жыл бұрын
You have to have a large number of insane men who are players, so all these women can choose them. If all these men had integrity no women could find players to ruin their future with. :)
@name9601
@name9601 11 ай бұрын
@@Shaara1 so you settle on insanity, that choice is still on you :)
@gingergann3934
@gingergann3934 Жыл бұрын
Megan, none of them are "guilty". Sorry, 95% are guilty. You feel desperate and unloveable. That is why you're "settling".
@Chicagocubbiegirl
@Chicagocubbiegirl Ай бұрын
Exactly. She picked the one guy who will never leave her. Her self esteem must be zero.
@thenorthface4
@thenorthface4 Жыл бұрын
There is an amazing book called “it’s not supposed to be this way” that sheds a lot of light on how to navigate life when it takes a different turn.
@goodgirlvicki
@goodgirlvicki Жыл бұрын
Author?
@thenorthface4
@thenorthface4 Жыл бұрын
@@goodgirlvicki Lysa Terkeurst 😊
@dudeorduuude5211
@dudeorduuude5211 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this recommendation :-)
@barbarahansen5353
@barbarahansen5353 11 ай бұрын
Fantastic book- I’m reading it as well. Highly recommend!
@christawarrington3795
@christawarrington3795 10 ай бұрын
Thank you! Im going to see if my library has it.
@cindycarlsonallen72
@cindycarlsonallen72 Жыл бұрын
WTF is wrong with her?? It’s so frightening!! Please lady, think! A jury would take this kind of crime/criminal very seriously and before ruining his life, they would set him free. HE IS GUILTY! RUN as fast as you can!!
@texasdazzlers
@texasdazzlers Жыл бұрын
I like how John didn’t try to tackle the elephant in the room - she’s dating a guy in prison for child abuse because she feels like making good choices got her nowhere so what heck…why not? Hopefully once she’s able to make peace with herself, she will accept the things she can’t change and take control of today. Just because life didn’t turn out the way you want doesn’t mean you have to reduce yourself to dating a convicted felon.
@mirabella2154
@mirabella2154 Жыл бұрын
Good point (or elephant 😏) that you mention.
@cbyt8759
@cbyt8759 Жыл бұрын
I understand why he didn’t address it. She’s already been through a lot in his put all her eggs in this basket for this relationship to work out. She chose this relationship out of desperation, and she’s not open to changing her mind because accepting that reality will be devastating for her. He was wise to not judge her choices openly (though he did comment on it), but encourage her that she has to accept what comes with her choices, which is true, whether she was making an amazing decision, or a poor decision, such as this one. Now she won’t see this advice as an argument, and as she follows it, she will naturally have to ask herself honestly, if she is OK with this, and she will convince herself instead of John trying to argue with her.
@socku5850
@socku5850 Жыл бұрын
He was attractive to her.
@Mike-sj9si
@Mike-sj9si Жыл бұрын
That last sentence should be on a refrigerator magnet
@texasdazzlers
@texasdazzlers Жыл бұрын
@@mirabella2154 Agreed…she isn’t ready yet. She just would have become defensive. Best for her to figure it out on her own.
@whitney9429
@whitney9429 Жыл бұрын
Wrongful convictions exist, but come on. She wasn’t even in the picture at this time so she should stay out of it.
@uhhggg9335
@uhhggg9335 4 ай бұрын
They do exist, but not so much nowadays a lot of people when they think wrongful convictions, they’re thinking of the conventions that are coming out. Today is wrongful but got convicted years ago nowadays, it extremely unlikely for someone to be wrongfully convicted with all the evidence you have to provide in court.
@kcourtney6826
@kcourtney6826 Жыл бұрын
Bless her heart, she’s looking for someone to complete her instead of working on and valuing herself
@BMAN1able
@BMAN1able Жыл бұрын
Be careful with that jail talk, They will tell you anything. once they get out It's a different story.. Guard your heart..
@marissa7459
@marissa7459 5 ай бұрын
And guard your finances
@Slickmouthsweetie
@Slickmouthsweetie 5 ай бұрын
They sure do!! I know a couple people in prison and they use women constantly for their money. Thankfully I’m not stupid. I’m just there because they were my friends before they got locked up. It’s sick what they do and say to women.
@CiaoColeG
@CiaoColeG Жыл бұрын
First I can empathize as a childless, never married 38 year old woman. I know what it feels like to do "everything right", stay slim, volunteer, be involved in church etc....and still not meet anyone who is compatible at church, at work, on dating apps etc... HOWEVER, I realized around 32/33 that my life is NOW. And I'd rather be single, ambitious, joyfully serve God and others, and live a fun life than lower my standards to hades just to have someone. Being a wife and mother is not where my value lies. Being a child of God and walking with integrity is all I ever need. Singleness can be lonely at times, but I am beyond thankful that God has given me grace when I had desperate moments to not choose a toxic or deadend relationship. He's given me a great family and friends, whom I have more time to pour into because I'm single. I hope this lady shakes herself and wakes up, because life is not a game where if we accumulate enough points we are rewarded with whatever we want. Life itself is the reward.
@tishataray
@tishataray Жыл бұрын
I wish I had your mindset.
@jillianwickham31
@jillianwickham31 Жыл бұрын
If women don’t have a relationship with God, the One True God, who is our everything, our eternal Husband, our closest Friend, then… women are going to channel their desperation for love into fruitless relationships. Life doesn’t begin once married. It has always been and always will be NOW. Much love and heart peace to you, sister.
@jw70467
@jw70467 Жыл бұрын
You don’t have to lower your standards to Hades, you just have to teach yourself to see the men who aren’t six feet tall and maybe has a boring job he loves and is good at.
@kagnewcobra5228
@kagnewcobra5228 Жыл бұрын
Big difference between being alone and being lonely. Big, big, difference!
@RepentImmediately
@RepentImmediately Жыл бұрын
If you watch this show you know that many, many married people are lonely and are worse off financially and otherwise than when they were single. Couldn't pay me to get married.
@miltoncat
@miltoncat Жыл бұрын
I feel for her. I was the same way, expected to meet Mr Right in my 20s and have a kid or two. By 30 I’d had some failed relationships and was so tired of dating and the whole thing. I didn’t want to be single forever and that sadness is SO hard. And it can make you do stupid things. Like trying to tell yourself that a convicted child abuser is really a nice guy and would be a great father. 😮 So as lonely as it was, I just kept living my life. Then at 33, I very randomly met Mr. Right. Got engaged 4 months after we met, and got married 10 months later. Both our families were shocked as to how similar we are. I’m 51 now, marriage got rough sometimes but we still love each other. I wasn’t able to have kids and that about crushed me. I even told my husband he should leave me and get with someone who could have his kid. He knew I was insane at the time and assured me that was never gonna happen. So yeah, life didn’t turn out like I thought, but it’s still pretty dang good. Hang in there.
@mamat1213
@mamat1213 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@TruePathLiving
@TruePathLiving Жыл бұрын
Wholesome ❤
@JohnWilliams-cx3ip
@JohnWilliams-cx3ip Жыл бұрын
Women are pushed in different directions at the same time....have a thriving career and have thriving families at the same time. Yet, if both are not achieved they feel like failures. Societal judgement (unwarranted) "Oh, you are a successful lawyer but alone with no kids.... failure." "Oh, you are just a housewife with kids....loser."
@miltoncat
@miltoncat Жыл бұрын
@@JohnWilliams-cx3ipHmm. I think it’s worse when women don’t have kids, regardless of a career. People always say “Parenting is the hardest and most important job in the world!” Or “You just don’t know what real love is until you’re a mother!” Both are very dismissive and cruel to those who wanted kids and never had them. I could cure cancer, but nope, not as important as popping out a kid. There’s people in my life that I’d take a bullet for, but nope, I just don’t know what real love is. 🙄😒
@JohnWilliams-cx3ip
@JohnWilliams-cx3ip Жыл бұрын
@@miltoncat Agree 👍
@Germania72
@Germania72 Жыл бұрын
She doesn't understand the point he's telling her.
@animsai
@animsai 5 ай бұрын
She doesn't want to 😢
@Myraisins1
@Myraisins1 Жыл бұрын
Girl, no. Move on from him! You have time to turn things around.
@janetstraw191
@janetstraw191 Жыл бұрын
Poor thing thinks her life is OVER!! At 38?! She still has her whole life ahead of her - she hasn’t even hit her prime yet! I am 77 and I wish I could be 38 again.
@jennprescott2757
@jennprescott2757 10 ай бұрын
She’s past her prime for having a family but doesn’t mean life is over.
@FilthyMcNasty69
@FilthyMcNasty69 9 ай бұрын
You women are funny lol way past her prime
@Monk7791
@Monk7791 8 ай бұрын
@@jennprescott2757 That's not true. Many women still have a family, even via the natural way, at that age.
@gambers20001
@gambers20001 Жыл бұрын
Should be Ex Boyfriend soon...
@ladymusiqka
@ladymusiqka Жыл бұрын
Spot on
@darcycolborne2565
@darcycolborne2565 Жыл бұрын
I really think this lady needs to figure out why, out of all the men in the world, she's drawn to one who is locked away and needing a ton of effort expended on them. Something about him actually being unavailable while at the same time needing you pings your radar. If you can unpack that, you can figure out why you remained unattached for +15 years and never realized what you thought your dream was.
@TK1258-EXP4
@TK1258-EXP4 10 ай бұрын
She admitted she had 50 pounds to lose at one point so she has probably struggled with body image insecurity her whole life. She probably struggles to attract men.
@leahboynton1280
@leahboynton1280 2 ай бұрын
This made me think, thank you
@flashthecorgi2053
@flashthecorgi2053 Жыл бұрын
Megan, please sweetheart RUN from this guy. You are worth so much more than waiting for a guy to get out of prison who is just using you. You could find an amazing man, and start a family if you just grieve and leave this convicted felon. He’s not worth your time and he’s certainly never going to be allowed near a kid that you so badly want. You have no clue (nor do I) if he was wrongly convicted. He can tell you his cute little sob story but the reality is cops don’t just put guys in prison without evidence especially with something that serious, it’s also a red flag that this lawyer you hired who specializes is wrongful conviction cases couldn’t help you. Your life is just worth so much more than waiting around for this guy to get out of prison when chances are it will be a long time and won’t be the fantasy you dream of if he does. Dr. John, me and many others are rooting for you. You have so much more potential than you think! ❤️
@thenorthface4
@thenorthface4 Жыл бұрын
Totally agree! Anytime someone is/was in prison, the first place to go is the evidence and police reports. This dude is lying about sexually related crimes with a minor. Absolutely disgusting. These dudes don’t make it long on the inside… she also forked over her own money for an attorney to help this dude. I could just cry in her behalf. I hope she moves on.
@MeowmyandMe
@MeowmyandMe Жыл бұрын
“I’m the only guilty man in Shawshank!” -Red
@mellowbirddreamer77
@mellowbirddreamer77 Жыл бұрын
Awesome book and good movie!
@ditttch
@ditttch Жыл бұрын
lol, ask any person in prison if they were wrongfully convicted and the answer will almost always be yes.
@katiewaves
@katiewaves Жыл бұрын
Girl, stand up! Better to be alone than have a boyfriend in prison. 6 years?!!
@my7thoughts7exactly63
@my7thoughts7exactly63 Жыл бұрын
Sis . I thought my life would go a certain way to . I too am husbandless, childless, and alone . It’s painful but please don’t make this choice. You’re moving from desperation. This man has nothing but time to figure you out and be perfect for you (aka manipulation) . He also has nothing but time to figure out how to make you feel that he was wrongly convicted. Beware of someone hiding the truth from you. This is not your golden opportunity, it’s the beginning of your nightmare.
@shimmeringchimps3842
@shimmeringchimps3842 11 ай бұрын
"Own your choices." So simple yet so important! This lady clearly is in a lot of denial and John very patiently showed her the next baby step that she'll be mentally able to take.
@mver6262
@mver6262 2 ай бұрын
I'd never stay in contact with a person who was , wrongfully or not, convicted fot such a crime
@emily-zv7fs
@emily-zv7fs Жыл бұрын
My observation lately is that while we do not properly prepare our young people for married life, we also do not prepare them for the possibility of the single life. While I'd love for all my children to grow up and have families, I've also started trying to teach them how to be single. Recently we read about George Washington Carver and were just blown away by his single life and all that he accomplished and the godly man that he was. Can't recommend his biography enough. I'd much rather see my children single adults than in terrible relationships.
@lavienestpasunlongfleuvetr2559
@lavienestpasunlongfleuvetr2559 Жыл бұрын
Yup. The advice should be, 'get up every day, give it your best and learn as much as possible, no matter what. Take each day seriously, because doing so will stand to you the next. You may not get everything you want, but there's peace to be found in knowing that you did the best you could with what you had.'
@candyluna2929
@candyluna2929 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the suggestion.❤ I knew a bit about him. I'll look into this book.
@Veracityseeker7
@Veracityseeker7 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@jugendamthamburg-ggkonform381
@jugendamthamburg-ggkonform381 11 ай бұрын
I agree, I hope we can start having match makers for young people to guide them and help them avoid the time wasters and so on...so the don't waste their 20's.
@angel794
@angel794 5 ай бұрын
Excellent point. There are pros & cons to any lifestyle but knowing how to care for yourself well is essential, no matter if you have a partner or not. People who thrive alone can beuch.bettee partners because they don't depend on another person to make them happy or because they can't do things themselves. I have been in various situations but can truly say that, if you can't be happy alone, you can't be happy with someone else, either.❤
@AlexaFishburger
@AlexaFishburger Жыл бұрын
Getting a masters/PhD or constantly climbing the career ladder to prove to yourself you’re worth something hits so hard to a lot of people.
@neisci
@neisci Жыл бұрын
Because they are doing for the wrong reasons. Like John said,own your choices. If a Masters ( which is not that hard to get anyways) is what you want for yourself the go for it. It should always be about hour selves, not others.
@FilthyMcNasty69
@FilthyMcNasty69 9 ай бұрын
Women who do this even though they just want to be moms are retards lol maybe she would've found a good husband and had a family if she wasn't at school for 8 years and working constantly. She girl bossed too hard
@elainepatterson5587
@elainepatterson5587 Жыл бұрын
She needs to start living life every day, today, in the day. She's living her life somewhere else on the daily.
@gareof
@gareof 5 ай бұрын
I was in a Christian Prison ministry for years as Chaplain & Counselor . . It is impossible to help anyone who is hell-bent on self-destruction . . Every guy that changed direction had to make the decision for himself (Phil.2:12) . . I could counsel & teach all the righteous Word of God & Pray Pray Pray, but it was always up to the individual . . If this woman wants to make the best decision for herself she will have to change direction . .
@A_w_200
@A_w_200 Жыл бұрын
This is embarrassing. Reeks of desperation. I’m also a 38 year old woman and I would never stoop this low.
@Veracityseeker7
@Veracityseeker7 Жыл бұрын
Yeah that's why I'm having a hard time feeling sorry for her. It's not like this guy was locked up for selling a baggie. Being convicted of CM is the lowest crime you can commit. In my opinion. The fact that she attached herself to him, shows a lot about her own character.
@amandawithlov3908
@amandawithlov3908 Жыл бұрын
I damn near fell out my seat when she threw in the word "wrongful" accusation of child molester. @@Veracityseeker7
@leahsiblerud9537
@leahsiblerud9537 6 ай бұрын
Be careful standing above others and looking down like you’re better. I’m thankful that there’s people like Dr John who have empathy and don’t speak to people the way you just did.
@A_w_200
@A_w_200 5 ай бұрын
@@leahsiblerud9537 I will absolutely go on record and say that I am better than someone and will judge someone who willingly dates a child molester, yes. Pathetic.
@leahsiblerud9537
@leahsiblerud9537 5 ай бұрын
@@A_w_200 Yes. Luckily that’s not what I’m referring to at all or I can see why you’d feel superior to take that stance. You have the ability to listen and understand that this woman firmly believes he has been wrongly accused, so in her head, which is the subject matter here, she’s not dating a child molester.
@HeidisHereAndThere
@HeidisHereAndThere Жыл бұрын
I wouldnt care if they were wrongfully accused or not...child molestation??? RUN!! If this woman thinks THAT was "her dream man"... a few screws loose. Don't get me started on her idea of bringing children into the mix without a father being in their lives!! 🙄 THANK GOD
@havwusbsb
@havwusbsb 11 ай бұрын
You wouldn't care if someone was wrongfully convicted? Let's pretend that we aren't talking about this specific person, but your son, brother, father or partner and they WERE wrongfully convicted. You wouldn't care?
@HeidisHereAndThere
@HeidisHereAndThere 11 ай бұрын
@@havwusbsb No, I wouldnt care if they were wrongfully ACCUSED!! THERE IS A DIFFERENCE! Go back and read my comment again, and stop putting the WRONG words in my mouth! ACCUSED AND CONVICTED ARE TOTALLY DIFFERENT INSTANCES. I WAS MOLESTED BY AN UNCLE, YES, HE WAS GUILTY, BUT... HE WAS WRONGFULLY LET OFF THE HOOK!! SO, THERES THAT!! Lord, help us if you ever get pucked for jury duty of a child molestation case! Youd probably be the one to let the guilty go, and the innocent be hung; due to not hearing out all the details; much like you when you failed to read my comment correctly in its entirety! ! 🙄 Good day
@AvaEFF
@AvaEFF 5 ай бұрын
@@HeidisHereAndTherethis is such a strange reply to that person… you didn’t address the actual issue they had and the clarification you made didn’t change a single thing of substance to what they were asking you.
@CG-MP
@CG-MP 8 ай бұрын
"I've always made good choices." --> "I found out he was in prison for child molestation and I've been funding him for six years."
@megscott222
@megscott222 Жыл бұрын
Aw, praying she sees her worth and moves on from this guy. She deserves so much better.
@ittybittyspaces
@ittybittyspaces 11 ай бұрын
She really believes she knows the ins and outs of what happened that resulted in his conviction - it’s sad. Her denial is disturbing.
@SoulfulVeg
@SoulfulVeg Жыл бұрын
I don't know the name, but there is a reality show that follows people who unite after prison. She should watch that. Also, prisoners have all day to talk and lovebomb. They can be so compelling because they need folks on the outside.
@kcourtney6826
@kcourtney6826 Жыл бұрын
Love after Lockup?
@SoulfulVeg
@SoulfulVeg Жыл бұрын
@@kcourtney6826 That's it. I've seen excerpts on YT Short but haven't watch the show. It looks wild.
@ss7581
@ss7581 Жыл бұрын
I wonder how many women online hes conning with this exact same song and dance. This is so pathetic and sad, caller deserves to do better for herself.
@neisci
@neisci Жыл бұрын
Love after lock-up is such a trash you. Love it 😂😂😂. She should definitely watch it.
@SoulfulVeg
@SoulfulVeg Жыл бұрын
@@ss7581 He has all day free. I bet there are many desperate women falling for his BS.
@LaCantressa
@LaCantressa 7 ай бұрын
This woman is incredibly immature. Head full of dreams and perfection. And, trust me, her boyfriend be guilty.
@kaydeemailliard857
@kaydeemailliard857 Жыл бұрын
The chances of him being “wrongfully convicted” are so low, this is disgusting. Be a better woman.
@hadenanderson563
@hadenanderson563 5 ай бұрын
She is calling the child victim a liar. Maybe she can put that on her adoption application. And when he gets out and it happens again, is that child also a devilish little liar?
@ithinkigottalent4047
@ithinkigottalent4047 Жыл бұрын
Omg bless her heart. Still striving to achieve the fantasy.
@nutellanebula
@nutellanebula Жыл бұрын
Volunteer, go to church, pray for a decent partner. Good people are out there. Hoping for the best for this caller.
@goodgirlvicki
@goodgirlvicki Жыл бұрын
I wouldn't deprive myself of physical embrace for a guy in prison. Long distance relationships are already challenging It's best to partner up with someone in your city
@missl9348
@missl9348 Жыл бұрын
Easier said than done. Not all of us are in a major metropolitan area. Especially difficult if you're a 40+ year old female trying to date in the Midwest. Its awful. I gave up. All that's left around here are men my age who are liars, cheaters, moochers, abusers, etc.
@name9601
@name9601 11 ай бұрын
​@@missl9348 well there's always prison pen pal, or move city doubt much better may be it's where ur looking
@LifehasnoNiche
@LifehasnoNiche Жыл бұрын
IT NOT TOO LATE!. It may hurt to let go but once you become intentional about what you want and going after it you will be surprised. 38yo is not the end, loosing a child is not the end, letting go of a 6 yr relationship is not the end. Many women find love and have children after 38yo you have to decide.
@tparker4458
@tparker4458 Жыл бұрын
Well said !
@tparker4458
@tparker4458 Жыл бұрын
Love your name !
@SupaKikette
@SupaKikette 16 күн бұрын
I was looking for this comment! 100% agree. She should grieve him instead of her dreams. It's not too late to love herself and choose herself for the first time in her life!
@jew-el1
@jew-el1 5 ай бұрын
DESPERATION HAS A SOUND‼️ THIS IS IT‼️‼️
@Magdalene952
@Magdalene952 Жыл бұрын
Dr. John handled this call well. She's got some very serious self esteem issues that have led her down a path of fighting for a man in prison (whether he is guilty or not is not the point) for 6 years to turn up empty handed. She can still fight for him and if he is truly innocent, I hope she keeps fighting for him. But she doesn't have to put her life on hold for that either. That was a choice she made thinking she'll end up with a fairytale and that didn't work out. Look, life is all about choices. If I could go back 6 years and start trying to have a baby I would, but those were choices I (and my husband) made when we did. She needs to work on giving Megan room to heal, grieve, grow, and love herself first. She owes that to herself.
@Grace-rx7cv
@Grace-rx7cv Жыл бұрын
The part that really gets me about this caller is that she tells gerself that she has "done everything right" she will never stop feeling like the world hasnt served her adequately until she accepts that she has made her choices, maybe because thats what she BELIEVED was the right thing to do, but its likely a justification as to why we do things rather than the reason itself.
@rebeccaoprea9917
@rebeccaoprea9917 Жыл бұрын
Desperation will make you do things you thought you’d never do. It will also put in a situation that you need to escape from because you can’t handle it.
@AULOcanugo
@AULOcanugo 4 ай бұрын
This poor woman is delusional. My heart truly breaks for her.
@suek7086
@suek7086 Жыл бұрын
I hurt for her and pray she can find peace. I can’t fault her for getting sucked in because she has lost so much. The death of dreams is really tough. It causes immense pain and suffering.
@Darkcloudzzz
@Darkcloudzzz 4 ай бұрын
Dude is in prison for child molestation and she wants children… she doesn’t see the problem with that?!!! Ugh
@lavienestpasunlongfleuvetr2559
@lavienestpasunlongfleuvetr2559 Жыл бұрын
I think she's blinded by how this guy made her feel...from prison, lol. I don't know how she can be so convinced of his innocence, when after 6 years of fighting, he still hasn't been freed, but child abuse is as disturbing as it gets, even more so than certain types of homocide, which can be the result of an accident or self-defence or provocation. I question how suited to motherhood she is, given that she's willing to take a risk on such a man.
@Jugoplastika7
@Jugoplastika7 10 ай бұрын
Bro 6 years of fighting it. Dude doesn’t have a small crime. He’s in there for life it seems.
@pegzpat
@pegzpat Жыл бұрын
She has to know that just because you have a partner, it doesn't mean you'll have a gd life. This is a case of never go shopping at the supermarket when you're hungry.
@lizwiens671
@lizwiens671 Жыл бұрын
I just feel sick for this lady. She seems like such a genuinely wonderful person. Please FLEE from this dead end relationship, you deserve better ❤
@shannonmorgan2344
@shannonmorgan2344 5 ай бұрын
If he loved her for REAL… he wouldn’t be dragging her through this
@natalieelliott1984
@natalieelliott1984 Жыл бұрын
This woman needs a lot of therapy and help so that she stops sabotaging her life with the choices she is making.
@PinkVisionG
@PinkVisionG Жыл бұрын
She’s talking like she’s 65…she’s 38!! Plenty of time to actually meet a decent human and make her dreams come true
@IHateNicolasCage
@IHateNicolasCage 11 ай бұрын
Husband, yes. Children, no.
@fishin4bogey
@fishin4bogey 11 ай бұрын
At 38, overweight, no kids.......good damn luck. This poor woman needs two things. A therapist and a personal trainer. She wasted 6 years on a pedophile. Who does that?
@TK1258-EXP4
@TK1258-EXP4 10 ай бұрын
The wall is unforgiving.
@PinkVisionG
@PinkVisionG 10 ай бұрын
@@IHateNicolasCage welcome to 2024 where there are women getting pregnant in their 40’s + early 50’s
@Monk7791
@Monk7791 8 ай бұрын
@@IHateNicolasCage Why not? There are women much older that get children, the natural way.
@LunaMorkovich
@LunaMorkovich 9 ай бұрын
Dating or being in a relationship with someone in prison or someone who got out of prison is horrible. I was with a guy for 3 years that went to prison before i met him. I thought he changed so thought id give him a chance.He was nothing but trouble. He verbally, emotionally, physically, and financially abused me throughout the relationship. He also cheated on me many times with multiple women. That part i didnt find out until after the relationship ended. I pressed charges on him and its been over a year and a half and just waiting for him to get convicted for what he did to me. They are conmen and will never change. This lady is delusional and hope she realizes this sooner than later before he gets out of prison and does somethjng to her or a child close to her. She needs to wake up. Glad i did! Never again would i be with someone in prison.
@42Ccastro
@42Ccastro Жыл бұрын
You gotta be tough if you're gonna be stupid. -A dad on a meme once said to his daughter. Sound words I live by.
@Veracityseeker7
@Veracityseeker7 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. Everybody is being so empathetic with her and I just don't see why.
@maegandiagostino985
@maegandiagostino985 5 ай бұрын
Ohhh they don’t wrongfully convict Child predators. TRUST. ME.
@1tommyday
@1tommyday 5 ай бұрын
I can imagine her family shaking their heads feeling sorry for her when there's just no convincing her that she's been and is still being scammed in the worst way. And you know that she will end this call and go right back to her false crusade of trying to exonerate an absolute pedophile. She's thinking of having children with him " once he gets out" which could never happen. Shes lived her life trying to get and live a life that she wants rather then live the life that she HAS.
@tommiller12345
@tommiller12345 Жыл бұрын
John should have told her what to do. She’s stupid to pay for a lawyer to prove her bf’s innocence. She wasted her life with bad decisions. Stop now. John told her to own her decisions, but she doesn’t know what that means. He was too vague.
@Mysterious_Moon
@Mysterious_Moon Жыл бұрын
I think once she sees a therapist in-person and sorts through her stuff, without the judgement, she’ll leave.
@davidcharnes3623
@davidcharnes3623 Жыл бұрын
For some reason most convicts will swear up and down that they are innocent.
@angel794
@angel794 5 ай бұрын
For some reason? Convicts say they are innocent because that feeds into their preferred status as a victim of the SYSTEM. If they were inclined to take responsibility for themselves, they most likely would not have committed the crime. Many of them are narcissists with antisocial personality disorder (sociopaths) or psychopaths. Few, if any, are mentally and emotionally healthy.
@user-qb4eb8vq5u
@user-qb4eb8vq5u 5 ай бұрын
She still has some years left to conceive, and yet she CONTINUES to waste her last hope with an inmate???? She hasn't learned anything & will regret this the hardest.
@Dylan-ol2uf
@Dylan-ol2uf Жыл бұрын
“Choosing to carry that with you only brings misery into today” wow, what an amazing way to put this in perspective. Love this
@Imzadi
@Imzadi Жыл бұрын
This lady 🤦🏼‍♀️ EVEN if her bf is innocent why waste time on someone incarcerated?
@Veracityseeker7
@Veracityseeker7 Жыл бұрын
Yeah like I wouldn't even speak to this man, let alone think I'm going to date him? Like wow
@jovitarich7078
@jovitarich7078 Жыл бұрын
@@Veracityseeker7. Exactly…low self stem
@havwusbsb
@havwusbsb 11 ай бұрын
If it was your husband, father, brother or son, you would just let them rot on their own if they are innocent?
@shimmeringchimps3842
@shimmeringchimps3842 11 ай бұрын
​@@havwusbsbThere was no pre-existing relationship plus he didn't even tell her he was incarcerated for the first few months they were talking. At the very least, he's a liar. She has NO obligation to help him.
@FilthyMcNasty69
@FilthyMcNasty69 9 ай бұрын
​@@havwusbsbyou're very naive and get taken advantage of alot, huh?
@taylorspastpresent1014
@taylorspastpresent1014 Жыл бұрын
How does Dr.Delony keep a straight face during these calls? This is heavy. May Jesus bless her. ❤ I pray she heals.
@improbablya7
@improbablya7 5 ай бұрын
gurl i thought you were gonna say bank fraud or something like that… i wouldnt want ANYTHING to do with someone even associated with that …
@kendrascorner
@kendrascorner Жыл бұрын
So the most important thing to her is having kids... She's 38... Even if we all pretend this guy is actually innocent, she will never be able to adopt with a convicted child molester in her life. Best chances are to go find an actually good guy, get married, and have a baby in the next few years or adopt! I promise there's better guys out there than Mr. Perfect you found online who was actually in prison the whole time he was talking to you, and is convicted of child molestation, but convinced you he is innocent. Like I said, even IF he is innocent, you deserve a better life than that.
@ineedhoez
@ineedhoez Жыл бұрын
For the money she spent on lawyers she could have hired a surrogate
@jemmajames6719
@jemmajames6719 Жыл бұрын
Why would you take that chance, an innocent child.
@kendrascorner
@kendrascorner Жыл бұрын
@@ineedhoez It doesn't sound like a surrogate would be necessary. She did get pregnant once through artificial insemination, and she could do it again. Although there are huge ethical issues with that. If she really wants to care for a child as a single woman, adoption would be a good option. But not if she's with a child molester.
@kendrascorner
@kendrascorner Жыл бұрын
@@jemmajames6719 I didn't say she should take that chance. I'm saying he is probably guilty. Even if he technically didn't do anything, if the courts found him guilty, they will not let him adopt (which is a GOOD decision on the part of the court).
@ineedhoez
@ineedhoez Жыл бұрын
@@kendrascorner there aren't any ethical issues with it. As long as you build securely attached children you're fine. Build a community and Network and caretakers for your children so your child is securely attached in your job is done. Cuz let's be real, there are tons of two-parent homes where children still grow up with all type of attachment trauma.
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