Four Emotions Sabotaging Your Goals

[@MsPrincessaj]

I must say, I have never heard anyone break down the realities of life and the process of achieving goals in the manner that you have. Absolutely amazing and very informative. Thank you for all the work that you do. I would request a video that speaks on how to breakdown multiple goals in order of value, and the mindset required.

[@ColinHiles]

Thanks for the kind words +MsPrincessaj. I do my best to simplify things so it's always pleasing to hear when I've achieved it! Thanks also for the video request :o)

[@cheopspyra4108]

I have never ever heard somebody explaining these things so clearly. Big respect and thank you for posting this video! It helps me not to give up!

[@ColinHiles]

You are welcome Cheops Pyra, thanks for the support :-)

[@amalhope8431]

Dear Colin, I recently come across your video clips on KZbin and watched a few clips that was amazing, while watching this clip I realised that was me you were talking about, Your lesson had an impact on me and brought tears to my eyes, it was almost a reality check for me your video clip has helped me a lot today and I want thank you for that great job.

[@ColinHiles]

That's very kind of you Amal Hope. I'm pleased this video has meant something very personal to you. Onwards and upwards :D

[@joellesahar]

WOW!! 10 all the way! Best advice I've heard after educating myself on self-help after all these years. I'm taking this advice and running with it! Nothing should really freak me out anymore, I'm coming in prepared, and ready to conquer... obstacles don't look too scary anymore, they are the lessons that we need to learn to get to our goal! Wow, very helpful! Thank you Colin :)) You're very gifted!

[@ColinHiles]

Awesome! Thank you joellesahar. I'm delighted you're inspired to keep moving towards your goal. Good for you :)

[@Rigo.SoliDeo]

Well, another Colin's masterpiece, and I am not exaggerating. Thank you for this video. There is no doubt in my mind that you are a gifted teacher/coach. If I have to describe or give a uniqueness attribute to your presentations, SIMPLICITY is the key. Simple and Powerful. Keep it up, Colin!

[@ColinHiles]

Aww... you are too kind Tony. Thanks for the kind words and support. It is much appreciated :))

[@chabaca1]

I stumbled across your videos at my darkest moment when i had decided i have to change my luck and not wait for it ....if that is not the universe ringing a bell ! very powerful this particular one i see me all over ! thank you ..

[@ColinHiles]

Good for you Chabaca. A true decision is always the starting point of better things/ Onwards and upwards :))

[@LifeCoachingVideo]

Totally awesome Colin, what an amazing explanation. Life doesn't happen TO you, it happens FOR you :)

[@ColinHiles]

Perfectly put Paul Dalton! Thanks for the big up sir x

[@ThecoolkiddWah]

Another great video keep up the brilliant work, I loved the video of how visual it was how simple the ideas were and your positivity. Thank you for the time you put in to this so people can benefit from it!

[@ColinHiles]

Thanks for the support ThecoolkiddWah. Plenty more to come so stay tuned :o)

[@elharrop]

Excellent, I could identify with all of those so i'm glad that this is 'normal' and not just misfortune :)

[@ColinHiles]

Thanks +Emma Harrop, yes those emotions are all part of the journey and they are universal - everyone experiences them to varying degrees :))

[@ColinHiles]

I just watched a couple of your video - stunning voice you've got there Emma :)) +Colin Hiles

[@robrebel223]

10/10 Thanks Colin, this is the second time I've watched this and each time I've learnt something more. The diagrams really stick in my head more than just words.

[@ColinHiles]

Awesome! Thank you +BLUEBIRD :-)

[@tessa0803]

10!!! This really set me for going forward. Thank you!

[@ColinHiles]

Bullseye! Thanks Radiator :)

[@RTL2L]

10. This one was one of your best. Thank you for sharing this!

[@ColinHiles]

Bullseye! I appreciate the support Artemius. Thank you :))

[@vinayseth1114]

Thanks for the video- I loved the visual way of explaining . I would still give this 7/10, though, and I state the reason below. There's one thing you didn't touch upon, which is pretty difficult to discuss, really. Self-doubt OR Doubting your goal. Now this is different from Doubt that follows fear. For instance, you might have entered a field of work or expertise which you were enthusiastic about, and then after a while realized that the field itself is something you're not interested in anymore. In this case, you need to really reflect on yourself and RE-ASSESS your goals. This happens because you're continuously growing and turning into a different person- what attracted you a few months back might not attract you anymore. In this case, then, rather than go on a GUILT-trip for having chosen the wrong goal, it is important to ask yourself what it is that you really wanted in the first place- you have to keep peeling off the layers of yourself to discover your hidden desires. So the 5th emotion that results in sabotaging your goals is GUILT followed by anxiety or depression, which you can overcome only by digging deeper- being more self-aware and learning as much as possible concerning the nature and importance of your EVOLVING goals. In this case, then, you realize that the goal isn't a fixed point, but rather keeps changing its shapes and ADAPTS to you as you evolve. All the best for the future videos :) hope you keep helping people. PS: Apologies for the caps : didn't find any formatting option that would let me emphasize the words.

[@ColinHiles]

Hey Vinay Seth, I appreciate the feedback and the support. Couple of things... Firstly, I only have 15 mins and I can never fit everything in! Secondly, there are over 50 videos on this channel and I may not cover exactly what you are looking for in this video but I know it's covered overall. I'm sure as you watch more of my videos you'll see that. Onwards and upwards my friend :)

[@vinayseth1114]

Colin Hiles hmm true. Thanks- all the best to you too :)

[@alansaxon]

Excellent video Colin. 10!

[@ColinHiles]

Bullseye - thank you Alan Saxon :o)

[@paolamas7836]

11/10 priceless thanks Colin. God bless you :)

[@ColinHiles]

Bingo! Thank you Paola :))

[@tismeDenis]

Excellent a doubtless 10, thank you :-)

[@ColinHiles]

Bingo! Thank you tisme :o)

[@jabradsh]

Great video, ten for sure.

[@ColinHiles]

Bullseye! Thank you Joseph Bradshaw :o)

[@taskynabuhali3374]

10.............you are the best teacher i have ever see....thank you from china....

[@ColinHiles]

Hey +Taskyn Abuhali form China. Thanks for the support :o)

[@JuliusWise]

I just found this channel and I can say that your videos are awesome!! Gracias! Saludos desde Argentina. Keep up the good work

[@JuliusWise]

+Colin Hiles from where do you get this knowledge?? It is so accurate

[@ColinHiles]

Years of experience and dedication to my chosen field Julio. Welcome to my channel and thanks for the support :))

[@a.altamimi]

Thanks Man 😊

[@karkipratap]

10/10 another great video

[@ColinHiles]

Bullseye! Thank you Pratap :))

[@hypnoyog7607]

Colin OMG!!!!! I had to listen a few times because this is my lesson...I slipped into trance and had to come right back to listen again...subconsciously I know this lesson but I intentionally wanted to listen consciously this change is essential in me for life to flow properly...have known this for some time but been in a loop of toughness going stop...grhhh how the heck do I do it...that is why it took me some time to post feedback...see ya :)

[@ColinHiles]

Awareness is the first step HYPNO YOG. We can only control that we are aware of - what ever we aren't aware of control us. That's why I focus so much on mindsets. Thanks for the support.

[@hypnoyog7607]

Colin Hiles :-) thanks...neetha

[@amandakipfer7035]

Love you videos definitely a 10

[@ColinHiles]

That's very kind Amanda Kipfer. Much appreciated :o)

[@subhojitchatterjee8223]

10 that was really great sir...thanx for such a wonderful information

[@ColinHiles]

You are welcome +Subhojit Chatterjee. I appreciate the feedback :))

[@rameshvadnala]

reality teachings thank you

[@ColinHiles]

Thanks for the support *****

[@randyroll99]

10 def, ive been so discouraged in territory 2 that i went back to 1.

[@ColinHiles]

Happens to us all randyroll99 :-)

[@privatepinstripe]

10!

[@ColinHiles]

Bullseye! Awesome... thank you +ej osborne :o)

[@tiffanytiff_fitmarie6487]

Very helpful

[@ColinHiles]

I'm delighted you found it useful Tiffany. Thank you :))

[@selvamkannathasan]

10000000.....................Excellent..............

[@ColinHiles]

Wow!! Thank you Kannathasan Selvam :o)

[@carpediem7254]

10 10 10!!

[@ColinHiles]

Wow - very kind Carpe Diem. Thank you :o)

[@NotJam3s]

10!!!

[@ColinHiles]

Bingo!!! Thanks Jimmie Whorley

[@derrecktaylor8817]

Hey Colin, why don't you get one of those small mics you can tape to your clothing, you can find them for really good prices on Amazon...I'm not sure if Amazon is in UK, though.

[@ColinHiles]

Hey derreck taylor, I was using a lapel mic but I think the battery was failing. All seems to be ok now. I will check next time before i use it. Good learn!!!

[@xdigitalagency]

10+ 👍

[@ColinHiles]

Awesome! Thank you Xavier :))

[@eco2bee]

💯

[@ColinHiles]

Wow... 100!!! Thank you 🙏

[@tshepompilo5141]

10+

[@ColinHiles]

Bullseye! Thank you :))

[@husamyq]

10

[@ColinHiles]

Bullseye! Thank you Husam Qawasmi :))

[@jbenchbersco6041]

Perfect 10 ...very informative... bring it on the 7 HABITS of Highly effective people from the book of Stephen R Covey... thanks Colin Hiles ..

[@ColinHiles]

Bullseye! Thanks for the support +jbench bersco :D

[@shailjapathak3155]

10...:)

[@ColinHiles]

Thanks for the support Shailja :))

[@TanmaySoniTV]

10

[@ColinHiles]

Bullseye! Thanks +tanmay soni :-)

[@MrMoneyline]

10

[@ColinHiles]

Bullseye! Thank you Santiago :))

[@pammir631]

10

[@ColinHiles]

Bullseye 🎯