Francesca & John Stirling Relationship Dynamic Breakdown | Bridgerton

Bridgerton season 3 might have introduced us to the cutest and most peculiar couple just yet. Francesca Bridgerton and John Stirling, Earl of Kilmartin seem to be a very unique love match that we are eager to see more of.
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[@carleemburch8531]

I love Franchesca and John’s storyline probably the most this season. There is a sweetness and innocence to it. It is lovely. I love Colin and Pen’s story of course but John and Franchesna was a great surprise. Waiting impatiently for second part!!!

[@jo4vt]

It’s interesting that Francesca’s love story will actually be with John’s friend Michael, though.

[@boiri]

​@@jo4vt its not his friend but cousin

[@AnhNguyen-lq5qo]

How is it becoming Francesca and John's story while the main MC is actually Michael? 😂

[@leesajune7763]

Same here!

[@chathuperera906]

But they doesn't match.

[@LarissaFay]

I knew as soon as the gentleman walked up to Francesca, the way he approached her... I knew he was going to be her love interest. The body language and facial expressions says it all. They have chemistry, it was absolutely stunning to watch. I was in awe at how beautiful and serene their relationship is shown on the screen, in all the quiet moments. 💖

[@05mridhunabaiju68]

And that is why Francesca's story will be the most painful one.

[@melissamcfarlin6840]

Exactly.

[@lauramathews3151]

John is a man of action not words.

[@Marialla.]

From my heart, I agree that the truest love is love that needs no words. You just have the energy with someone as comfortable as swimming weightless in a perfectly body-temperature pool. There's no stress to loving them. It feels as natural as breathing. In fact, you breathe even more naturally together than you do apart. You feel finally HOME.

[@kathryn1304]

I’ve never felt that.

[@whykor]

Love the dynamic between the two introverts or the lack thereof 🥹

[@ninaschust3694]

Hyperfokus on music ❤

[@lou2791]

Their lines may not be that much, but the amount of research and work just to portray different kinds of emotions or gesture to show that a person is uncomfortable, introverted, different, weird etc. is awesome, kudos to both actors!

[@thaisgesterling]

That’s true she’s such a middle child, speaking from experience😁

[@aliceeve6421]

Francesca has Daphne's poise and Eloise's passion. Shes knows how to behave and how to be herself

[@nicoladuru1591]

you have theeeee best insight i felt it but i couldnt express it or actually get to this point but yahh i felt the combination of both energies Daphne and Eloise in this girl like if you felt Eloise most relatable to you you could feeel a connection with Francesca too but not tooooooo much

[@RixxeyG]

I like Bridgerton well enough for what it is, but I think this is the first romance that I’m like - these two fundamentally UNDERSTAND each other. 😭 When they sat on the couch not talking and the family didn’t know what to do with themselves my heart was seriously beating so hard and there were tears in my eyes. I’m so in love with their dynamic and they’ve barely said anything to each other. They don’t need to. ♥️

[@GeminiLesbian]

Well said 😊 no toxic theatrics... just mutual love for music, silence and peace.

[@isamar3301]

They became my favorite couple! Kudos to both actors, they did amazing while not having to do much at all 👏👏

[@melissaisloud7404]

I am so happy they’re giving Francesca and John their story before her season. Her love with John was so pure and true, and her love with Michael was so passionate. John is her soul mate while Michael is her great love.

[@elm457]

They became my favorite couple of season 3. She seeks peace and he is her peace. I’m obsessed and thought both actors did an outstanding job! Gorgeous couple!

[@elaine1380]

This is my favorite match so far, silence is golden. While love and sex speak their own language and levels of volume it is when sitting in silence we make since after all the talking and listening is done silence is timeless like music.

[@amyj4438]

She's def different from the Francesca of Season 1 & 2. They changed her personality some IMO. I do love her and John's story, as well as her love story in coming seasons. My son is autistic, and I see they are leaning on that for her this season as well as highlighting persons with disabilities. IE (the young lady who is deaf and the Lord who is in the wheel chair).

[@hrgirl26]

I did wonder if she was autistic! My husband is autistic, so I saw lots of similarities.

[@amyj4438]

@@hrgirl26 At first I thought she was just really introverted. I feel like because I was the one who noticed my sons signals before he was officially diagnosed and I quietly diagnose my family with ADHD etc that sometimes I might overdiagnosis people/situations period... so I just said "Nah". Then I talked to my dad and he mentioned it and told me to rewatch and I was like "Aaaahhhh"...so I def think they are leaning on it...

[@nm0852]

I agree! Although the previous Francesca didn’t have many speaking parts, her personality did seem a little more sassy and confident than the current Francesca. I like them both, but from a continuity perspective, she’s a totally different character, literally and figuratively.

[@missis_jo1017]

@@nm0852 I just finished reading the third book and in those Francesca doesn’t seem as introverted as in the series. Now I‘m curious about how book-Francesca and TV-Francesca evolve. But I have to admit so far I‘m not a fan 🤔.

[@JT14-rz7fx]

​@@missis_jo1017 in the book she's more bold so I was surprised they changed her so much.

[@user-mk9bs3ml8i]

This season is so relatable to me in twrms of how love is expressed . As an introvert my expressions of love and gestures of love is very subtle so watching a couple who are subtle is so refreshing for me❤

[@user-ow4pv2ff2p]

"When he was wicked" is my favourite in the series. As an introvert, I am looking forward to Francesca' story.

[@bluerose665]

Oh God...I think they have ruined it for us. They are changing it to when she was wicked😬

[@user-ow4pv2ff2p]

@@bluerose665 Just watched the last episode and I was like whhhhhhhat??

[@tammiperaza1345]

They will 😮‍💨​@@bluerose665

[@Tatie1996]

I loved Francesca and John Stirling!! I look forward to seeing more of them

[@mada5045]

One thing they got right about introverts: we like peace, discretion and avoid loud people and places. But I think this trope is a bit exaggerated in this season with this couple. And I mean it's like these 2 represent everything that is stereotypically perceived about introverts and only that. Yes, we like to feel comfortable in silence with someone else, but we also know how to articulate words. When interested in someone romantically, we don't talk excessively, but are interested in having MEANINGFUL conversations, not always sit in silence together. So far, these 2 characters seem like caricatures of introverts made by highly extroverted people. Like , whomever wrote their scenes was thinking: "how shall I write some introverted characters?" 🤔 "Got it, yeaaaah, duuude, those 2 probably just sit together in a corner in total silence"🤣🤣🤣

[@nasihaazzahra1232]

This is exactly what I had in mind! We are introverts but talk is still necessary...

[@crazygamer_1082]

I don’t think they’re introverts though. The way their minds function doesn’t exude “introvert” to me. They act…kinda autistic to be honest. Especially the quiet lord. Even the way they talk to each other is abnormal even for an introvert. Penelope is an introvert. To some extent Eloise is an introvert. And they interact with people in a way introverted people might interact given their own personalities.

[@africansweetheart9590]

Part2 is coming btw. They had like 5mins screentime together so as for us to get acquainted with them. The actors also said that part 2 is when we'll see John get forced out of his comfort zone in order to make his intentions clear and declare his love for Francesca.

[@mada5045]

@@crazygamer_1082 Interesting take 🤔I think you might be right about this. I totally relate to Penelope as an introvert. She seems more like a genuine introvert. On the other hand, Francesca seems better adjusted when dealing with social etiquette ( this might be also due to her halo effect, she is considered as more physically attractive and thus not under scrutiny for most of the time, so her awkwardness doesn't show up on any radar). But the way Lord Kilmartin showed up uninvited and left abruptly with no concern about "common sense" seems like a good indicator for some form of autism. If that's the case, I understand where the script writing is coming from 🤷

[@ameliesrezensionen2631]

@@crazygamer_1082 Eloise is sure as hell not an introvert. She just hates balls.

[@deborahwhaley6395]

As much as I loved the first story of this series, I am loving the one with Francesca & Lord Sterling. She is imo a more natural beauty than Daphne with her quiet demeanor. I am anxiously awaiting the 2nd part of this series to see where each love story that was introduced in part 1 will go. Most especially I want to see the story of Violet & Lord Marcus(?). Waiting…..

[@africansweetheart9590]

Im so excited to see them in the next part. I hope we'll also get to see John's family cause i love his mom from the books.

[@funkycrawler619]

My favorite thing about Frannie, other than a lot, is that the ONE storyline (if you can call it that) in S1/S2(?) is that she was practicing Piano in Bath. The fact that they ran with it and made it such an integral part of her character is lovely.

[@nikkiopedia4242]

Omg i just realized I am bascially francesca she is me. She is definitely an INFJ.

[@chummychimchim]

Oh you explained so well. ♥️ I didn't understand this at first by just seeing the season.

[@prettycyber8332]

I just found your channel. It feels welcoming

[@boppingyt]

Happy to have you here💖

[@kimmi2662]

What a great description of their dynamic ❤

[@thaisgesterling]

my favorite couple, they are so cute

[@nm0852]

I really wished she would’ve married the prince from season 1 that Daphne turned down. I actually think they would’ve been cute together, even though I do understand her not wanting the attention. I think he would’ve done his best to make her comfortable

[@That_BrownGirl]

he could NEVER, he was such a golden retriever and she needed someone calm and quite, plus he is a prince, he can do nothing about it, she would have had to live in constant attention

[@linda_soos]

In my head the prince married Edwina 😁💛

[@That_BrownGirl]

@@linda_soos SAME, Edwina made a match abroad, her being with the prince makes perfect sense

[@chathuperera906]

yess, they could make cute couple.

[@eef8297]

honestly i thought it was kinda boring to watch francesca but the ending was sweet

[@StrawberryCakeStudiosYT]

I love this dynamic as (middle sibling for a time). ❤

[@grandcarriage1]

I just realized who this actress reminds me so strongly of" She's like a young Joan Allen.

[@Lillith.]

It was the love story I was looking forward to seeing most and it's amazing.

[@jungkooksgengar]

Francesca is just like me for real

[@user-mz3ii2cr2u]

Introverts need time to recharge this love interest works out for her also she doesn’t want a big family because she’s from a big family this love interest won’t burn her social battery out I want a quiet family also I don’t want all that noise

[@andreamiller135]

Violet knows her children…

[@dianemccarthy5931]

why does this show have to put black and white together for every couple.

[@harreetteB477]

These two interesting characters are a charming addition to the story line!

[@nicoladuru1591]

woow ............. loved your breakdown

[@lizzyrank5405]

Smart girl. I love her and I like so many connect with this woman

[@tiamarrow6366]

A lot of people have been hinting that Fran might be autistic or neurodivergent…..the problem with the signs of that, is that it’s too similar to simply being an introverted person. As someone who is both autistic and introverted, it can be a bit hard when people automatically assume autism without really trying to deep dive into the character development. Plus people who are autistic experience it, and behave differently. So unless it’s truly 100% confirmed that Fran is autistic it shouldn’t be just broadly put out there that she is when she could very well just be an introvert who simply doesn’t like all the attention on her, and prefers peace/quiet.

[@pearcesca]

I understand what you mean, for me personally I like to think of Francesca as neurodivergent because I myself am autistic and I just see so much of myself in her (and John). Francesca could very well just be a quiet introvert who enjoys her peace and solitude but in the same way that autistic individuals don't all have the same experiences or behaviors, it's the same for introverts. I think that's why some people see her as autistic, because her behavior can appear as more than introversion to some introverts who can't exactly relate to her. I say this because I've seen comments of people saying that the writers didn't know how to write about an introverted character and made her into a sort of caricature of what extroverted people think introverts are like. I don't think it needs to be 100% confirmed, it's just fan theories.

[@MadameNoir]

If you think about it they wouldn’t actually know she was autistic back in those times so maybe they are trying to hold consistent with the era by not calling attention to her traits so directly. In fact families worked hard to hide all medical/mental health related conditions if they could back then. They used to refer to neurodivergent people as odd or particular that acted similarly to Francesca. II also think Lord Debling was on the spectrum. The writer, Shonda, captures the same of hiding/not directly addressing a condition to the general public in Queen Charlotte with King George.

[@samf.s.7731]

But being introverted is often part of a diagnosis, it could be a PD like schizoid, could be something more "shy" like avoidant PD. Fran skews more towards ASD because of her special interest. 😉

[@windcolors007]

Great observation and analysis.

[@boppingyt]

Thank you dearest💖

[@francesengland79]

They are my favorite couple!!!

[@cynmann4584]

Very well done video.

[@mc-ge2bt]

The change in this storyline makes me kinda sad the show won't take the path of the books. Its my favorite of all 8 and so much is off that I don't see much in common with the book version. The show version is good as a stand alone but not in comparison to original story.

[@kristinedunner988]

Agreed. I thought the actress just couldn't emote very well. How will this Francesca cope with Michael. Book Francesca was my favourite story. Disappointing .😮

[@slkbfly0183]

*Spoiler alert for non-book fans* 😅 Actually, I was wondering how they were going to tell her story as her book focuses much on her relationship with Michael not on John. I thought it was rather sweet that the showrunners thought of introducing her initial love match this season. It would give us a chance to gain better insight into their relationship before her "actual" season comes round. Remember, she does still have two more seasons to grow into book Francesca that we all love. 🙂

[@mc-ge2bt]

@@slkbfly0183 It's been my theory that production isn't going to do 8 full seasons so they pick parts of the later books and apply them to whatever current season they are working on. I don't know if having this much of a storyline on John is good because it will take away from the level of companionship, intimacy and connection that she has with Michael. I also question if the viewers will be all in that Michael is her true life partner. I also like TV John but know not to invest too much in him. Sucks, great actor who will get sacrificed like Merina.

[@Lapreghiera]

I agree, they will continue to amalgamate stories as they already are characters and time lines, primarily for time. Pandemic and Queen Charlotte not withstanding waiting a year between editions isn't fun for audiences. Should've planned it more like a tv series with a fall and spring season release. They couldn't predict quite the success but losing the other actors we were invested in as their characters is a blow. They should've been locked in for brief appearances throughout, though even in the books by the time Gregory is chasing tail who of the family is concerned about his dealings? Barely his mother, especially when the 3 eldest sons are all locked in making heirs. But part 2 will give all the drama of the Polin romance to Lady Whistledown reveal or concealment ... but Stirling and Francesca will continue to quietly court. Lady Featherington will finally get to host the wedding of the century ... and the epilogue scene will show a quiet ceremony in the Bridgerton home for Francesca...with Michael standing in the wings.

[@spellru23]

I agree with your interpretation. The costumes were a mess, and yes, I did not see the passion between the 2 leads; they should have had more screen time. In addition, there were too many characters.

[@Joce-bl7qi]

Wow, this is great!

[@robinforehand4846]

Her book is so good

[@nonofogaborone6640]

They are amazing

[@ameliesrezensionen2631]

Just finished reading her book. It was enjoyable, but I hope they change it up a little for the show. It was too far away from all the other characters.

[@Samantha-le6sw]

Most times all love could be is peace ❤

[@elenaritwells]

Okay but also super excited to see if we meet Michael in a coming season! Iykyk!

[@Travel__Spin]

They are so cute together!!!!! 🥰

[@nelodypond9282]

🥹 this was so good

[@bubblesnfluff]

There’s seven Bridgerton siblings. Anthony Benedict Colin Daphne Eloise Francesca Gregory and hyacinth. So technically, having three older siblings and three younger siblings would make Eloise the middle child.

[@hoolidii]

Count the names. It's actually 8. And that makes both Daphne and Eloise the middle children.

[@onceuponatime2403]

There eight you put their name and forgot to count 😔

[@bubblesnfluff]

@@onceuponatime2403 thank you but it makes no sense to say Francesca is the middle child when she isn’t.

[@onceuponatime2403]

@@bubblesnfluff they are eight no one is the middle child. She said Francesca is the child stuck in the middle.

[@LG_Hakubi]

If you have siblings in front and behind you then you're a middle child in my book. You don't have to literally be in the middle and only in families with odd number of children.

[@rayrebel]

We’re all gonna be so heartbroken but it’s worth it

[@megdelaney3677]

I ❤ this!!!

[@Ellington3]

Francesca was not seen much during seasons 1 and 2 because the actress who played her had a scheduling conflict.

[@tamaniquefranklin5120]

I am so excited about this storyline. I hope they skip to theirs early like they did Colin and Pen

[@Go.to.chimp99]

I think the are TEA

[@misszil4839]

Where did she come from, she wants t in season 1 or 2

[@boppingyt]

The character was in s1 and s2 but they recasted the actress 💖

[@Vic-mj4ts]

My bf doesnt get that francesca didnt not like the guys because theyre not as handsome (tv casting ofc the lead guy will be at least a little more styled) and tbh its made me wonder abt alot

[@user-jj4pm2wr6o]

helps that there both clearly on the spectrum

[@lilianapuppo7476]

Non mi piace come copia o meglio adoro Frances ma la vedevo con un altro più simile a quello del romanzo

[@differnet]

In the books, John dies. I wonder if we will get to meet Michael Stirling.

[@easyveganfoodie]

I’m guessing they put this part in season 3 to build up to her being with Micheal when her season comes around. Just like they set up marina and how she ended up marrying sir Philip, which will come around later.

[@jessmyapinyon1287]

Wow! You’re a fun one!

[@tbasset]

A realistic représentation of autism. Thanks. We are not just freaks.

[@Evelyn.Schwarz]

Ich finde es schade dass Franziskas erster Mann drauf geht ich hätte ihr John gegönnt

[@grayb7420]

Don’t see the chemistry unlike the past couples. Perhaps it’s because her character is so solitary

[@plumaguerrera2130]

Química cero. No pegan ni con cola.

[@Lilbird05]

Neurodivergence? Maybe?

[@tbasset]

Of course!!!

[@kristinedunner988]

I love Francescas story the best. I just hope this actor playing John is relatable as he is not good-looking. I definitely hope that Michael is both.😮

[@onceuponatime2403]

And I believe you are not racist. Their facial features played a big part in story.

[@ksettinger]

Who is Michael?

[@onceuponatime2403]

@@ksettinger her second husband.

[@kristinedunner988]

​@onceuponatime2403 thanks as I guess you are American mentioning race. I am an Australian &if you look like Rege or even Violet's new fella then Wow! Who cares if you are green?❤

[@onceuponatime2403]

@@kristinedunner988 Yeah I'm American. People think judging white people for their color isn't racism .I respect your opinion . I mean they say facial features doesn't play a part in storyline but come on. I love his acting he's cute but not the charismatic John I loved in the books. I mean its like making Hitler black. I was in heaven when I saw Simon I liked kate even though she was kinda annoying to me but they are going to far now.

[@doublelayerofcheckout3612]

Sorry but I just don't see their chemistry.

[@user-ep2pi9od7b]

They have more chemistry than pen and that guy she’s in love with tbf

[@MultiMonkeylady]

I agree i don't see a chemistry between francesca and lord stirling.

[@nanakorobiyaoki9191]

After the Duke and Anthony... did they give up finding handsome actors? I'm not calling them ugly, they're just plain.

[@christmaswife10]

It's really about your idea of what's handsome

[@arrowversedceu3073]

Am I the only one who doesn’t like the casting of John ? Victor Alli is very talented but he’s not how I imagined him in the books. Am I really the only one ?

[@nish3603]

They literally don’t talk about anything, I don’t like him introvert is one thing but he just stares at her. Like ew.

[@mshollywod]

Whew, I hate this storyline. I also do not like the actor casted for this.