16 Personalities Dealing with a Difficult Person

[@FrankJames]

Guys I made a terrible mistake and the type at 0:47 is supposed to be an ISFJ not ESFJ... WHY IS IT ALWAYS THE ISFJ WHO SUFFERS WHEN I MESS UP? ☕ But anyway, if you'd like to show me some love, buy me a coffee ❤️ infj.me/coffee ⚡Explanation of what the 4 letters mean in 4 minutes 👉 infj.me/intro Subscribe 👉 infj.me/sub

[@og3072]

I am ENTJ But.. in same time I am intj...Don’t ask me how..

[@randomidvplayer8907]

Why are there two ESFJs?

[@wecouldlaugh]

I'll send it to myself.

[@randomidvplayer8907]

@@ashleyroman9483 I know that's why I noticed hahaha I am an ISFJ

[@soulfulspec]

@@ashleyroman9483 yea it's the second one. The isfj would only tell the story to max 2 ppl lol

[@shannonglaser2506]

Plot twist: 16 personalities being a difficult person

[@Indosentia]

Gasp of shock

[@probablynotasith5355]

INTJs were being difficult people since the dawn of time. You other humans merely adopted it.

[@mahalrishda5683]

Interesting..............

[@I-Cant-Feel-You-There]

INTPs and ISTJs will have a falling out about who is the most factually accurate.

[@I-Cant-Feel-You-There]

@Justa Human Yep.

[@afzalsheik5288]

Great idea: 16 Personalities stuck in an elevator

[@shh2484]

omg yeah

[@Laura-Yu]

Oh this will be great for ISTPs

[@shh2484]

@@Laura-Yu why?

[@Laura-Yu]

@@shh2484 We’re stereotyped as the “badass mechanic” so I’m pretty sure we’ll get presented as “breaking apart the elevator and escaping on our own”. I‘m personally not confident in breaking apart an elevator, I only know some electronics as a physics grad student so the stereotype doesn’t really work for me...

[@mantecada5660]

@@shh2484 they'll fix it,and if there's people in the elevator it's a great idea to avoid conversations

[@Laura-hw8im]

INFP stays quiet for as long as they can, then the difficult person says something and it's the final straw. INFP loses their shit and speaks loudly with a quavering voice. Afterwards, INFP will cry, 100%.

[@micaelasalicru3852]

i confirm

[@Diaming787]

They became a full ESTJ and blast due to Te-grip.

[@emmagreen6120]

Yep, INFP here, and I can confirm that this is true.

[@ashlyns2161]

Sometimes I just skip the yelling

[@emmagreen6120]

@@ashlyns2161 Same

[@WhisperAudiosASMR]

I literally had this exact INFJ moment a few weeks ago and I felt like I wasnt even human anymore

[@God_3712]

Same my mind just came to a full stop. I had no idea how to make the situation better and I felt so disappointed in myself

[@Adragos17]

I guessed the INFJ one before he finished cuz that was nearly my exact thought pattern in that situation!

[@khyrole]

Lol

[@HaotoAnimeOnPiano]

That Si function causing immense confusion for us lol.

[@shadowkat678]

I'm an ENFP and I constantly have those moments.

[@fishnewt1331]

Other Personalities: “You are the one who is difficult” INFJ: “What’s wrong with me? I can’t read them to make it better!”

[@finnmonaghan4812]

enfp too, we blame ourselves and put it down to self improvement

[@consuvideo2165]

@@finnmonaghan4812 I agree absolutely with you

[@jamesw288]

As an INFP I also hate it when I can't read people

[@arundk817]

@@finnmonaghan4812 and infp

[@notjohn2672]

@@finnmonaghan4812 ya ENFPs are the other side of the INFJ coin

[@emzie6277]

INFJ around the difficult person: *pretends they’re very cool, calm, collected and acts friendly around them* INFJ arrives home: *cuts ties, ignores, burns memories and deletes their entire existence*

[@sunnysal3889]

The road gets narrower. 👍🏻

[@heystobit651]

.... Yup and that's me right now

[@joex1084]

Avoid the conflict and then slam the door, never dealing with them again. It's a win win.

[@oathboundhero1782]

I hate this part of myself.

[@aquariusstar7248]

OMG! So true! Then the person is like "what did i do?" Wish i wld just be more upfront but i realize i hv trouble clearly expressing what i expect and so talking abt it becomes either messy or just downright futile. And in the back of my mind i know the other person isnt even capable of comprehending much less able of giving me what i want--so what's the point?

[@aviralsinghal1274]

INFP here. I AM the difficult person. i don't know how to deal with myself.

[@samuelpardo1430]

INFP here, Nobody would ever notice the complexity of your inner self, so why would you care?

[@Laura-Yu]

@@samuelpardo1430 But are you truly complex as you think you are? (ISTP, couldn’t resist)

[@rudi7525]

INFP here. I feel you guys. I hate this world. Mine is so much better.

[@prntrfxr]

@@Laura-Yu ENFP: I absolutely love ISTPs. There is one where I work and they are a blast, but they love pushing all the buttons and leaving with a smirk, which can be maddening. I love the banter though. Just so you know, I haven't met an ISTP who could keep up with my banter. They just don't think fast enough... ;P

[@proshathaghighi8927]

😬😬😬👍🏻

[@MariahDolenc]

INFJ: every conflict with my parents since childhood.

[@valentinavalverde8122]

Yes 👁👄👁

[@Somperzu]

Especially when you accidentally voice your opinion on something that they disagree with. And they try to make you feel like you are obligated to agree with them, but you know your opinion isn’t going to change.

[@bluelogois]

@@Somperzu Exactly

[@j.davila4523]

Yup 😲

[@gonzoguy-ra]

🤣🥰

[@SilentMads]

INFJ: absolute silence while internally freaking out

[@milokeresztesi4997]

That's me lol

[@chaoskitteh]

Yep.

[@thousandyardgavri2785]

So accurate

[@autisticdancer]

This is accurate lol

[@Missmagazinebura]

Me

[@Karla_wthaK]

Me an INFJ, inner monologue: “I understand you feel upset...no, I truly can understand your perspective. But, you’re still wrong.” Everyday of my life.

[@momomom81]

Then within a week to 10 years the person knows they were wrong too.

[@momomom81]

@@jellyfishi_ I can consider other possibilities. It's not how it looks to people who are not infj. It's long experience in both fighting and trusting your gut. See, we are pleasers by instinct so this ability to problem solve into the future for other people, against the flow of traffic, in a sense, is something we fight. we learn to trust ourselves because it's against what we want to be doing but the J compulses that we set it straight at least internally. For example, when you see that the theory you knew was important in your field 10 years before many people knew what it was more than once, you learn to trust yourself professionally. When you realize it happens in most the patterns, you gain more self trust. It's not snobbery if I have a different skill than you. You have a different skill than me. 🙍. Life would be easier if it would stop. People don't easily believe you. It's simpler to sit on your hands than to share sometimes. Want to know what I think is up and coming best practices in autism? Or what should be being researched for patients with hydrocephalus? Or the conundrum of people who are asthmatic and allergic to animals but need to shop in the same space with service animals? No you probably don't 😅. I think Adrian Monk said it- it's a gift, and a curse.

[@euanmabrown97]

Sounds pretty obnoxious.

[@-_.....]

@@momomom81 Yeah, that's kind of the worse part. While they feel they are right, here I am still feeling guilty that I kinda hurted the person's feelings. And then they forget about the argument that we just had. And leave us with a freaking dilemma, only to ask us 'You still remember that?'. Btw, I'm replying on your first replies..Just in case you're confused. 🤔

[@kaboomgaming4255]

@@momomom81 not an INFJ, but my morals can relate. I won't share my opinion literally 99.5% of the time because 1: It's often mean and 2: half of the time it's not really my opinion, I don't agree with it, I just feel like I'm supposed to have an opinion, even though whatever opinion I come up with is almost always worse than not having one.

[@jadev8679]

INFP: says something slightly mean while running away only to dwell over all of the mean things they wanted to say while already feeling guilty about what they actually said.

[@breeeeeaaathofthewild]

Y e s. Done this a couple of times in the past. Still feel terrible even tho the things I said* were only very vaguely and passively mean...😶😶 ~INFP

[@proshathaghighi8927]

This right here is funny😂😂😂

[@vanshome7612]

THE ACCURACY THOUGH-

[@emmagreen6120]

EXACTLY

[@neranderthal]

All the while forgetting that the other person did worse so we shouldn’t be blaming ourselves, but we do anyway 🥴 The accuracy is too much...

[@cellyonthego]

I can now tell the personalities of each character by the outfits FJ is wearing 😂

[@Laura-Yu]

I personally don’t like plaids lol

[@soaphope3398]

@@Laura-Yu cool

[@janesilver2746]

Me too- not sure if that’s a good thing or just sad 🤣

[@ritaruggerone4434]

Me too! I love his infp tee shirts ☺️

[@Laura-Yu]

@@soaphope3398 🙄

[@vincenticious]

"One of us has issues, and I'm hoping it's not me this time." Ah, yes, large emotion.

[@faicotone]

I love the fact that INTP and ENTP are both so analytical that we are completely emotionally removed from the conversation.

[@arv7074]

INFP here. After weeks of built up anger against my manager who is a jerk, I finally confronted her, angrily. I didn’t yell but I raised my voice, I went on and on about how her behavior and actions towards me were racist and unfair. Honestly, this bottled up anger made me talk way more than usual. I’m impressed

[@ender4344]

Yess!

[@Suzy292002]

Did you cry or feel guilty after that? Lol

[@imdcoolest1685]

So proud of you INFP

[@arv7074]

@@Suzy292002 I almost cried out of anger but held it back. I didn’t want my emotions to control me

[@arv7074]

@@Suzy292002 sorry, I misread your comment. I actually felt good after telling her off!! No guilt, no nothing. Just pure happiness 😆

[@fairysdream7]

INFP: *Disappears into the bushes like Homer Simpson*

[@Merkavabernak]

Actually I use this gif all the time🤣🤣🤣🤣 so fitting for INFPs🤣🤣🤣

[@evas.2587]

@@Merkavabernak Me too 😂

[@breeeeeaaathofthewild]

😅😅

[@annalambert7577]

Literally 😂

[@kairos116]

Lmfao. Also *Aight imma head out*

[@Mia-jw5hh]

0:10 INTJ 0:16 ESTP 0:26 ESFJ 0:35 INTP 0:48 ISFJ 0:58 ENFP 1:11 ISTJ 1:20 ENTJ 1:30 ISTP 1:38 ESFP 1:48 ISFP 2:01 ENFJ 2:13 ENTP 2:26 INFJ 2:42 ESTJ 2:52 INFP

[@metanoia8517]

Thankss

[@serulu3490]

Where ISFJ

[@Mia-jw5hh]

@@serulu3490 0:48

[@ayannalopez3308]

I think there are two ESFPs?

[@Mia-jw5hh]

@@ayannalopez3308 There was, fixed it

[@julay629]

the INFP part should have been 5 seconds longer, where you can see that infp in the shower thinking through their possible answer to a conversation from over a week ago, in which infp of course did not answer at all

[@proshathaghighi8927]

Ah shit! 😂😂😂

[@Lorenzaccia]

I'm sorry but... are you in my mind ? I just did it right now ! (Sorry for my bad english)

[@proshathaghighi8927]

@@Lorenzaccia that's perfect English right there👌👌

[@Lorenzaccia]

@@proshathaghighi8927 oh, really ? I always say that because I'm french and I'm really afraid to do any mistake, and if people judge me... euuuh... Sorry, I'm going too far, I've forgotten that people doesn't care about me 😅 (Oh, I have to be tiring (is that word english ?) with my thoughts, sorry 😅)

[@good_c0ffin575]

@@Lorenzaccia oh God, same, I'm mexican and I always write that cuz it's so hurting when someone judge you and you've learning the language for so long (╥﹏╥)

[@SmittenKitten.]

My husband is an ISTP and while he was in school for engineering (lol) he worked at Circuit City installing things into people's cars (radios, video screens, alarms, etc.). One day a lady needed someone to yell at, and found my husband walking around. She started yelling about poor customer service, how she was going to take her business to Best Buy... My husband stood there staring at her, then turned around while she was mid-sentence and walked away. Apparently one of his friends (who worked there) saw the whole thing and said it was hilarious to watch happen. His boss, who GREATLY valued his workmanship, told him he'd have to write him up, and my husband said, "That's okay... I got accepted at Lockheed [an aerospace/defense company], so I was going to ditch you in a few weeks anyway." I'm an INFJ, and I've always marveled at his ability to deal with awful people. Instead of feeling like he needs to solve every a-hole's problem, he just laughs at them in his head and walks away.

[@moonlight_pixie8395]

LMAO I applaud that trait. Wish I had that ability 😂😭

[@Lacter12]

so chad

[@onalbetul1809]

0:09 INTJ 0:15 ESTP 0:26 ESFJ 0:34 INTP 0:47 ISFJ (It reads ESFJ but FJ says it's actually ISFJ) 0:57 ENFP 1:09 ISTJ 1:19 ENTJ 1:29 ISTP 1:36 ESFP 1:47 ISFP 2:00 ENFJ 2:11 ENTP 2:24 INFJ 2:42 ESTJ 2:51 INFP

[@-0m3rcy0-8]

Not to be a bitch or anything’s But 2:11 is actually ENTP, ypu put INTP twice

[@onalbetul1809]

@@-0m3rcy0-8 oh thanks! Don't worry this didn't make you a bitch, never does.

[@keiraw1853]

Here, you dropped your 👑

[@esteralee4749]

Istj is 1:01, not 1:09, but anyway thanks for making this list

[@omdam9]

INTJ - If I choose conflict instead of complete apathy and indifference, something is wrong and you need to stop me

[@wraitheory]

Legit, INTJ bringin down the real is no joke.

[@jocelyneke6445]

I'll take indifference and apathy any day.

[@Naiddou]

i agree why confront it when you can avoid it

[@ry8880]

Me as INFP: **Notification: 1 Message** "I guess it's not important" Tomorrow **Checking phone** **99+ Notifications** "Sorry, I forgot 😬"

[@proshathaghighi8927]

The same situation happens to me😐😐I wonder why though😂😂!

[@junsjulywonpilsyonpilchany5241]

Well, that's me weeks later. I am an INFP, too.

[@bmb4rllyxcgsss837]

@@junsjulywonpilsyonpilchany5241 I can relate. Btw, INFP here too

[@palmonjune5597]

Omg are we twins lol

[@mushroomsinmygarden6764]

Match mine ,7777+ notifications 🥴

[@ficialintelligence1869]

INFP here. If someone has pissed me off to the point where I actually say something, I'm already in nuclear mode. I zero in on an ugly truth about the person, say it out loud and plop it down on the hot pavement for everyone around us to see. I then let that ugly truth ferment there, writhing and contorting while everyone watches in horror. You can take back an insult. You can take back a lie. But a horrible truth? That's there _forever." _Every_ time they look in the mirror.

[@v7089]

I’m in this post and I don’t like it

[@niennasaralonde7471]

Yes...!

[@moonlight_pixie8395]

😂 Omg I love it. This was so accurate, it hurts. Nothing’s say fu than something that makes them regret their existence..ok well that’s mean but yall get what I mean. 👉🏻👈🏻

[@SamAsm367]

Word. Sometimes you have to go there.

[@danika9411]

ENFP here...I did that in the past...very rarely, but I can relate so much. You have to really really push my buttons though, over and over again to make me snap like this. I kind of don't regret it, it even feels satisfying in that moment, but I generally feel bad, because I want to treat everyone good 😭 Aaaaah But it was deserved...but my behaviour also isn't making anything better 😣

[@salmaaa.-.]

As an infp who has actually called a difficult person literally "a big baby" and felt guilty about it i feel personally attacked

[@shortcut101]

I'm so early the timestamp guy doesn't show up yet

[@ssss-dm8nm]

me too man 😂

[@aussiejubes]

I really need timestamp guy! Please come soon! 😆🙋

[@ausernameiguess7058]

he's still not here! we need u timestamp guy

[@jr-jl9702]

You mean Flando- wait

[@jr-jl9702]

You mean Flando- wait

[@Luxe_22]

0:10- INTJ 0:15- ESTP 0:26-ESFJ 0:35- INTP 0:47- ISFJ 0:57-ENFP 1:10-ISTJ 1:20-ENTJ 1:30-ISTP 1:38-ESFP 1:48-ISFP 2:00-ENFJ 2:12-ENTP 2:25-INFJ 2:41-ESTJ 2:51- INFP Though I would recommend watching the whole video.. it’s worth it 😁

[@Laura-Yu]

Woah edited real-time lol

[@freshsans1926]

Its been made in real time, i love it Edit: oh, it's done. Good job!

[@olive_riggzey]

I love that I got to see this timestamp be made in real time thank you

[@Luxe_22]

Idk which one is isfj

[@seventhsheaven]

Yeah I think 0:47 is meant to be ISFJ but FJ made a typo

[@randomjac970]

ENFP: Changes the entire structure of their personality to get some random person to like them

[@alianar.d.8724]

I hate that this is me

[@leiliabug5240]

No 💖

[@prntrfxr]

ENFP: I used to do this when I was younger and before I found out about MBTI. Real-life examples: 20+ years old and my boss was ENTJ. Worked for 2 years, basically ran her company and simply endured daily screaming from her every day. Never told her how I felt. One day, I ended up in tears by the time I got to work, decided I had enough, so I called her, told her the job was too stressful, left the keys with accounting, packed up my things and left without another job to go to. It worked out ok because I found another job on the way home, but I hate that I didn't tell her why and provide some kind of closure. Now, I am in my 50's and I tried to make peace with an ISTJ supervisor. I had discussed with her on earlier occasions that people are different and we aren't all machines. When it became clear that she wasn't going to make an attempt on her own to understand, I went in her office and told her: "I respect you, I think you are one of the hardest working people around here, and I think that you are one of the smartest people I have ever met, but being a manager means helping your employees grow and develop. You have like zero people skills and have no desire to even try to understand your employees point of view! Until you learn that, you will never have people to back you up when you need it!" This is something I would never have tried to say in the past. She actually improved and tried harder afterwards and our work relationship improved. Thinkers like it when you show you have a backbone and just tell them straight out what you think. Also, if you never tell them what is wrong, how will they ever learn?

[@moonlight_pixie8395]

I hate how I can relate to this and Im not even an ENFP

[@elmosy99]

This goes against the desire of ENFPs in general to be accepted by others tho, I see this as more of a high Fe behavior correct me if I'm wrong lol

[@paolaprz.9090]

As an ENFP I can confirm we don't like to be rejected even by people we don't like. 🤣😅

[@jawaanwatkins6569]

TRUE

[@kathrynmanes2417]

FACTS. I was dying at that part😂

[@Texaslawhorn]

That's also true for INFPs. How dare this difficult person not like and reject us?!? We're good people!

[@g5918]

Fact 😉👍🏼👍🏼

[@malloripaige6868]

yep 😂

[@shlisayeahboyee2737]

You forgot the profuse apologies after the INFP “lashed out”.

[@bio.Luminescence]

Exactly, unfortunately that happened to me recently in work. I even cried, what an idiot! I hate to painfully wait for others to realize that just because I’m nice, it doesn’t mean I’m not dangerous ⚠️. Then they start fearing my intelligence. Who fears intelligence?! Dealing with people can be frustrating at times...

[@shlisayeahboyee2737]

@@bio.Luminescence Yes, they need to not take our nice side for granted! I have a terrible habit of being passive aggressive when someone really upsets me. I know...how petty.. But if you're going to treat someone like trash, I'll happily reciprocate when angry. Then of course I'll later get upset for going against my core values of being kind to others. "SCREW YOU FOR MAKING ME FEEL THIS WAY. But also I'm sorry for allowing my emotions to take over.. BUT YOU WERE BEING AN ASS. Although I shouldn't have been an ass back. I STILL HATE YOU. Yet I'm still also very sorry." 😡😭😡😭😡😭

[@_LunaSubtitles_]

"One of us has major issues and I'm hoping it's not me this time" That hit me XD

[@veecudi]

i was trying to go one day without seeing someone with a kokichi pfp. guess i failed.

[@detective3940]

Ok green maki

[@veecudi]

@@detective3940 “H”

[@bee-hd3lw]

" Wait a minute, you're using the face i reserve for dumb, annoying people " - INTJ Probably the face i have all the time

[@sunnysal3889]

Why I think my INTJ daughter doesn’t like me. - INFJ Mom 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@gravetiger9333]

*default setting is useful at keeping most dumb, annoying people away* 🤣🤣

[@bluesonicstreak7317]

@@sunnysal3889 - Well, you're her mother, so at least I'm sure she loves you. I'm most used to/understand my family's quirks the best, so I generally like them a little more than other people.

[@JocieFire]

Take time each week to listen to her projects and dreams- actually ask questions and mentally get your hands into it- and validate her feelings (yes, she has them). Once she trusts you actually care about her and believe in her competence, she will love you back. You still get the eyebrows, though. It just means she's thinking.

[@sunnysal3889]

@@JocieFire Thank you. That’s actually quite helpful. Ironically, she actually had micro blading done on her eyebrows. 😂

[@alverrann3097]

As an ENFP I can confirm that every single rejection has me up at night for weeks But the fridge and my 50 unfinished projects have me up every night anyway, so honestly it's not that bad

[@jocelyneke6445]

That is me.

[@danika9411]

Oh god 🤣🤣🤣 it is 4 am here and I can't sleep because I know I need to finish stuff. I just slept 4 hours and then my brain was like: stress, stress, stress 😂

[@meixichen2007]

I’m ENTP but I’m exactly the same! I don’t handle rejections well honestly. Cause I’ve already put my heart out to make it right for everyone!

[@mlleopera]

ENFP: So accurate I started clapping my hands and jumping around like a 3 years old.

[@sophia1851]

im an ENTP, but the INTP in this one describes me perfectly, that’s exactly how i react when im dealing with other people, like “why are you letting your emotions control you? that’s so pathetic”, but... a few days ago, a friend of mine was being a pain in the ass, so i said “why are you being so annoying?” and she was like “are you really saying that? you’re always annoying”, and i realized she was right, so i think ENTP is correct too.

[@amrkamel8971]

Hahahah, you have any idea how long i been searching the comment section to see a comment by another ENTP like me, so accurate too xD

[@LauraLaChapeliere]

@@amrkamel8971 ahaha!! Exactly the same here! And also accurate! 🤣🤣

[@selassiesys8794]

ENTP never feels intimidated by a difficult person. Rather impressed

[@alicebonandi8685]

omg same my brother is ALWAYS reminding me how annoying I am like...at least a couple times a day 😂 I'll be starting a debate about any small random thing and he'll be like "omg AGAIN????? you're a pain, don't you ever get tired of treating literally anything like it's an argument???"...no. no I don't :)

[@athos401]

INTP here, I feel like INTP and ENTP memes are relatable for both of us.

[@Maria-ro9vy]

No one: Frank James: replys to comments and puts hearts . You’re so down to earth 🥺🥺❤️

[@FrankJames]

oh thanks

[@didinau]

As an INFP I hate arguing so I usually just leave in the process of argument. "Nice meeting you, bye. 🖐️"

[@alittleinfppanda]

Did that with my manager today, even though I love him like a little brother.

[@tsbio]

The difference between INTJ and ENTJ. "Are you stupid" ENTJ will say it, INTJ will think it. :)

[@ayannalopez3308]

Haha that is true.

[@lisad6542]

Same with ENTP and INTP lol

[@gildedphoenix]

ENTP will make a joke about it, INTP will consider that it is the case

[@anav8598]

Truth!

[@roonarific1086]

Agreed. Although if pushed to my annoyance limit, the shadow extroverted side will take over and let the thoughts out almost involuntarily

[@kattissmall8373]

INTP here, I would probably say the things NASA t-shirt dude said first. Then I would go into INTP problem solving mode, trying to figure out how the person works, where it's broken and what I can do to fix it. For some reason when I offer to help people to be less illogical and irrational they don't seem very grateful.

[@yuukinoyuki9064]

It took 20 some years before someone turned to me and said, "you know when people complain they're rarely looking for a logical solution, right? They just want to hear themselves talk?" ...no, I did *not* know. I think they were trying to help me out for future social situations, but it turns out asking, "are you complaining to hear yourself talk? Or do you want me to fix this problem?" Isn't an appreciated response, either. **shrugs**

[@mr.midgardville]

I get the same urge to fix the poor broken person but i resist it or try to plant little bits of super glue if i see a good window for it. But it can also just end up frustrating me more cause they still refuse to think about it. 😂🙈

[@iJuulia]

same here. if i'm arguing with someone I start criticizing them by pointing out they're being illogical

[@daylight3999]

i’m also an intp, learned this trick that works every time. when comforting someone, they rarely want help or solutions, they just wanna complain. so a nice way of shutting them up and reminding them that they’re babbling is saying “i’m so sorry to hear that. is there anything i can do to help?” or any variation of that. usually the person will realize you can’t do anything and will stop

[@iJuulia]

@@daylight3999 some feelers would just say “no, i’m just venting”. Or if its by text, will ignore

[@settheray2jerry1]

Why is nobody talking about ISTP when that is a massive frigging mood

[@ViolentLadder]

Me: I hate how ENTPs are represented, we don’t all have short attention spans, we’re reasonable Also me: where the hell are the time stamps I just wanna see how ENTPs are represented-

[@k.ichigo1219]

Literally the same!!!

[@briaharris183]

2:12

[@ViolentLadder]

@@briaharris183 you are a amazing person.

[@lithiei]

Sameee lmaoo

[@Runkization]

You know that ESTJ is coming when you hear the word "Timmy"

[@NeverEverClever]

until he purposefully mixes things up when it's suddenly the ENTJ. Btw, what do you think is Timmy's type?

[@Runkization]

@@NeverEverClever idk, maybe IxFP. Fi doms easily piss off Te doms

[@NeverEverClever]

@@Runkization I would have guessed ISFJ, ESTJs usually kinda like Fi doms, atleast from my experience

[@dakshitajoshi2228]

I was fully prepared for ENTP to BE the difficult person everyone was talking to

[@Is30old]

Haha and us ENTP wear that badge with honor!!! I've been told by my mom that she loves me, but I'm a dick after 2 hours of arguing about some pointless thing my brother did. It was a very enjoyable evening.

[@danieledwards2708]

@@Is30old facts

[@jamiehenderson6387]

Same.

[@guesswho5790]

@@Is30old haha psycho 😒

[@conspiracypanda1200]

Sometimes I see INTP skits and think "I'm not a technology obsessed, emotionally detached, knock-off sherlock holmes that belongs in a big brain montage; my 2 identical test results spaced 3 years apart were obviously a fluke!" Then I see skits like 0:35 and I just...Yeah. Yeah, that's much more like it.

[@cartlona1202]

Samee

[@diyneko9793]

As an INTJ: INTJ: shows up to work with default face. Without saying a word. Random Karen: WhY ArE yOu So RuDe?! INTJ: ???? *Insert confused Kot Kat meme*

[@probablynotasith5355]

I've had many a teacher assume I'm having a bad day simply because I exist. This being said, any day where I need to talk to people at school tends to be a bad one.

[@JocieFire]

Yes!!!!

[@trackee2024]

If I had a nickel for every time I’ve heard “what’s wrong” or “I thought you hated me” or “you seemed really mean before I got to know you”. 🙃

[@probablynotasith5355]

@@trackee2024 Well, even after getting to know me some people still tend to think I'm an elitist jerk.

[@trackee2024]

@@probablynotasith5355 that may be a fact about you unrelated to your INTJ status. 🤣

[@cashewhobbiticus8644]

*The INFJ one is the definition of perfect.*

[@tosia11]

INFP is actually talking to a mirror

[@Lynn-bc9zi]

RIP

[@breeeeeaaathofthewild]

ouch. yes.

[@amiibopimp852]

F

[@SEXgoddess.]

No...🥺🥺🥺🥺we're not......*sniffs and sobs*

[@freespirit5250]

Yoooooooo dont call us out like that

[@romanpreetkaur1306]

The INFJ part😂😂 I try to avoid conflict as much as I can, because arguing takes up too much of my energy, but when the person doesn't stop, I'm like "Darling, you're pushing yourself into something really serious"

[@mosi021]

I'm an INTP and I wouldn't say a word, I just leave.

[@yessenianunez7980]

I get so angry I cry 😅

[@mosi021]

@@yessenianunez7980 me too!!

[@fredrickkittle1431]

My words: Oh, my bad. I didn't know this was an issue for you. Let me just give you some space. My thoughts: This dude's emotions are so thick, they've created a clot in their brain.

[@chocmintlvr]

Yes, me too. I just leave.

[@ashleigh99]

verbally: asking someone else to confirm that I'm right while being polite mentally: they are so wrong I can't even comprehend why they would even consider the possibility that they could be even a little bit right

[@amostunusualday]

ENTP - Oh, you think you’re difficult. I’ll show you difficult.

[@flutenanyidk1806]

ENFJ... amen. Amen. Inside an ENFJ brain in this situation: “Be nice... don’t judge. Be nice. Don’t judge. Be nice. Don’t judge. I’m sure they’re just having a bad day or somethings going on at home. Maybe I could make them feel better? Nope... that’s not the right face for my interference. They’re not going to be swayed by my attempts at peace.” *Goes home* “Hi pillow, you’re my only friend.” “AAAAAAHHHHH WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU YOU MEAN HUMAN WHYYYYYYY I WAS JUST TRYING TO HELP YOU!!!!! Ok, I’m alright now. I’m going to find my friends and redeem my hope in humanity.”

[@Miluielle]

Yep, 'be nice, don't judge' but also 'don't utterly destroy them by going for their weakness', 'you don't want to be that person'.

[@erenattack2325]

@@Miluielle exactly

[@0DlREoAMvERe0]

@@Miluielle YES

[@fz1792]

This is so true

[@reggie9897]

@@Miluielle too bad I do that once that person really did something wrong only to remind them that they need to become better and not just feel bad and do it again and again but when in an unsure situation I just vent it out loud to myself what their actions are like in a stupid way powerful enough to make them mad or feel bad only for them to try and change and become better.

[@aryasasidharan7115]

INFJs after they deal with a difficult person : "That person doesn't exist in my world"

[@SL-xf5re]

🤣🤣😂😂

[@ykitten5857]

that's true OMG 😭

[@neranderthal]

As an INFP, this is accurate 😂 I could never intentionally hurt a soul so I pull back, but I like to think I’m actually a baddie and pack a punch! Just saving it for the times I will be pushed over the edge (which is never, I am too forgiving haha)

[@theflashgordon193]

exactly

[@ruy399]

“You’re not happy with me? Too bad. I haven’t been happy with anything since I was like a child.” I can never relate more to an ISTP thing before lol

[@wilsonl3911]

Too many words for me. I would have said "Too bad" and stare at that person till he/she goes away.

[@anayaosmani7942]

istp here and that literally describes my life

[@aestheticpotato2349]

16 personalities in Hogwarts 16 personalities in Middle Earth 16 personalities in Camp Half Blood Pleeeeease

[@Laura-Yu]

ISTP: find all the secret passageways because why not

[@laomedeia5957]

I love those posible future videos

[@laomedeia5957]

@@Laura-Yu That's true, also INFPs wearing magic strange stuff like Luna Lovegood

[@ritaruggerone4434]

Yes yes yeeeeeessss!!!!😁

[@luks303]

Tbh he probably wont do these, but as an infp I really wish he does still 😅

[@maryh2730]

INFP's dealing with difficult people: *and on that note, I'm out of here* 💃🏻

[@ritaruggerone4434]

The answer is... We don’t

[@Laura-Yu]

Pretty much all the introverts

[@rafliavriza3651]

We don't deal with difficult people. So if we do deal with them, you know they've really really fucked up

[@lulutea3925]

I can confirm yes

[@madasandwich7009]

Attempts to fix things, ends up crying

[@AJHaydenTV]

"If you could just clarify why you don't like me..." Me: "Relatable." >ENFP< "Huh. Well, that explains a lot."

[@girl2wolf535]

I have said that to every person who doesn’t like me.

[@Raindancer221]

Ahhh that crushing feeling of rejection I think enfps have a good way of picking themselves up after everything, but for this moment there's nothing i can do about it I depend on others to give me that reassurance that everything's okay, and only then can i get some closure and stop feeling terrible

[@ssomnuss6966]

As an INFJ I can confirm the situation portrayed in this vid. I had that with one very VERY difficult person (not difficult with me only tho) and it really did feel that whatever I tried only made things worse.

[@CatLemur-d1v]

I have literally thought the exact words he said in the INTP section so many times, like word for word.

[@ananyaphulwani6274]

Try to see it my way.. You can get it wrong and still You think that it's all right.. Only time will tell you if I am right or I am wrong.. And a Beatles T-shirt. ISFP is such a mood.

[@noodlesky6641]

INTJ 0:09 ESTP 0:15 ESFJ 0:25 INTP 0:34 ESFJ 0:47 ENFP 0:57 ISTJ 1:10 ENTJ 1:20 ISTP 1:29 ESFP 1:37 ISFP 1:47 ENFJ 1:59 ENTP 2:11 INFJ 2:24 ESTJ 2:41 INFP 2:50 (me) ♡

[@Laura-Yu]

벌써 있어요-

[@dragonair2013]

Lies. As an INFP I would just pile up my issues to later argue with them in my head until I win the arguement and regret that I couldn't think of it at the moment for the rest of my life...

[@emmagreen6120]

SAME!!!

[@breeeeeaaathofthewild]

yes. simulations of conversations in your head must be a common thing among infps... ~fellow INFP

[@emmagreen6120]

@@breeeeeaaathofthewild Yes it is, I do so much in my head xD

[@disconsolate3235]

Y e s

[@bpowell7999]

THIS. Exactly my INFP response.

[@bimbitashaikh8331]

i feel like the infj is the difficult person, we can read others but never understand ourselves and then freak ourselves out

[@lukemckenzie0121]

INFP/J: “alright so you have about 10 seconds before this conversation goes one of two ways depending how I am feeling today. Either I completely obliterate you and everything you stand for or I immediately go cry and have someone else handle you. Either way, you’re going to feel awful”

[@iCookieChan1]

This is absolutely accurate -INFJ and her INFP little brother

[@triscardenas5382]

Please tell me 16 personalities with their ideal pairings is next 😭

[@shh2484]

yes 😭

[@Mystery-Spot]

Comes up with the perfect comeback one hour later after difficult person leaves, then another even better comeback than that later that night still obsessing over the situation. -INFJ

[@thousandyardgavri2785]

O my God! This is so true

[@guythedude6293]

Alternate title: 16 Personalities Dealing With Timmy

[@rainclouds4346]

This is spot on! As an ENFP, when I find out someone doesn't like me, it keeps me up at night, and I try my best to get them to like me again, even if I don't like them either :"D And if that's not doable, I spend A LOT of time thinking about what I could've done to avoid that and not let it happen again in the future! :"D

[@Awntry]

That ENFP one is the most relatable of your sketches for me personally. I've written letters to people pleading them to tell me what I did wrong/whether they still want this relationship going. I can't deal with the shadow of doubt hanging on my shoulder every day

[@madmaddie6712]

Intps be like: why do you have emotions what's wrong with you

[@farewell-done2412]

Lmao fr tho-

[@madmaddie6712]

@@farewell-done2412 something similar literally happened to me xD

[@farewell-done2412]

@@madmaddie6712 I can confirm. Most people doesn't understand us for not having emotions but we're being confused for people that being controlled by their emotions. Intp thingy I guess😂

[@madmaddie6712]

@@farewell-done2412 we do have emotions, they're just BURIED DEEP INSIDE US

[@TheInsomniaddict]

@@madmaddie6712 Emotions are a tool and at times a way of parsing information, they should not be in the driver's seat of ones' life.

[@NiamhCreates]

Yep the ISTP one is basically my attitude when dealing with difficult people. However, I am actually happy. :-)

[@sunflowerstrength]

Me as an INFP: *Pretends everything's okay, avoids conflict, nods, feels throat tightening, tries to put on a brave face* Also me as an INFP: *internally screams and tries not to get angry, lest I lash out against the other person and lose my moral superiority* Also also me as an INFP: *damnit, can't find rational arguments, I just feel the raw disapproval and spitefulness in your voice and actions and it's just--just--ARGH!* Me, some time later: "Well, all that bitchiness was all you, after all. Now, if I had a way to express myself without reprisal... Hmm... Whatever. It's not worth it, mulling over that."

[@noname-zd6wu]

too relatable 💯

[@andrearadl5758]

i really appreciate, that the ESTJ was represented in such a nice way! usually we are portrayed as harsh and unfriendly, so this was really a nice suprise. thanks!

[@jananezbedova6298]

INFP: proceeds with a breakdown for saying something so bad to someone

[@ritaruggerone4434]

Well, here’s an event that will keep me up at night for years to come and will give me never ending cause for self-loathing...perfect

[@rudi7525]

im an infp. those words hurt me. But seriously that did hurt

[@farrex0]

@@ritaruggerone4434 Me an ENTP: is that the best you can do? INFP: this will haunt me for the rest of my life... Love you INFPs you are so pure.

[@ritaruggerone4434]

@@farrex0 Awwww thanks 😊

[@emmagreen6120]

@@farrex0 Exactly! And thank youuuu! :)

[@note2self88]

That INFJ one is definitely me every Christmas

[@Leah-vb3ud]

I've been watching your videos throughout my zoom school and have to keep turning around because I'm laughing so hard. Also some suggestions: -16 personalities at a concert -16 personalities getting in trouble with parents -16 personalities babysitting -16 personalities getting hit on -16 personalities playing chess -16 personalities in church -16 personalities in a pet store or zoo -16 personalities listening to music -16 personalities in a band or talent show Anyways I'm an infp and love your videos, great job!

[@breeeeeaaathofthewild]

good suggestions 👍 hope FJ sees them 🙂 (edit: also heya fellow INFP🌈)

[@karlymartin3502]

Timestamps: INTJ 0:09 ESTP 0:15 ESFJ 0:25 INTP 0:34 ISFJ 0:47 ENFP 0:57 ISTJ 1:10 ENTJ 1:20 ISTP 1:29 ESFP 1:37 ISFP 1:47 ENFJ 1:59 ENTP 2:11 INFJ 2:25 ESTJ 2:40 INFP 2:51

[@LoborianProductions]

T o t a l l y t r u e INFP here: we just explode after a long time of letting things "slip under the carpet" and right after we cry. I'll let a rant/example down below: Just like 4 days ago I lost it because a friend (who I've been telling *multiple times* in the most polite way possible that he was making me feel bad, that he had to respect me and be more empathic to people) made fun of my grief because my pets died and literally said: "Stop. One more, one less, whatever" like if I annoyed him. My pets died in a span of 2 weeks and it hurt so much because I loved them and everytime I told my group of friends what happened, this friend would be like "yeah ok lol" and a joke about my pet's death or make fun of me. I haven't talked to him since and I'm not planning to do so. He told my friends that I was being a baby, immature, etc just because I know my feelings matter and I don't deserve to be treated like someone you can do shit whenever you want because they won't do anything to you. He once even said that I should not speak my mind because I should not have human rights. His comments hit me real hard because I also have *LOW* self-esteem... My others friends, who talked to him, know he'd been acting pretty shitty lately but they let it pass because that's how he is and asked me to go talk to him because he said he was not going to "plead to me" but was willing to hear *my* apology. Needless to say, I won't apologize for having feelings and him being an asshole. Yesterday my friends told me he got worse and disrespected them as well and his father. They talked to him about his behavior and now he says they're all babies like me, for not handling his bullshit. I'm not going to crawl for a friendship; any relationship must be based on respect and if someone doesn't respect you, your feelings and your boundaries then they don't love you. To my fellow INFPs and anyone who read this: You are worthy of respect and a healthy relationship, don't settle for less just because you feel lonely or to fit in, your mental health is way more important than sharing an evening with someone who doesn't deserves you. Stay safe.

[@SEXgoddess.]

As an infp I find this really beautiful and I 100% agree with you. You did the right thing. Cut someone off because THEY didn't/don't care, not because you don't. His time will come. Stay safe aswell✌️

[@emelieha]

INFP here also. You did the most correct thing anyone could have done. No one has to put up with such behaviour, and it is up to that person to realise how they're acting, whether if that is before or after losing people/friends. I once had to walk away from a toxic friendship as well, and the air felt a lot cleaner when I had put it all behind me. I hope you'll feel a lot better now, and I applaud you for being brave and standing up for yourself.

[@jeronimselles7840]

You did the best thing, you don´t have to put up with that kind of behavior, I once was in a toxic friendship and it took me too much time to realize it and leave, please INFPs you´re not anybody´s therapist, if someone´s is disrespecting you or taking advantage of you just leave

[@Vivi_thenight]

Omg I love you... thank you for your words I really needed them... and also sorry for your pets I totally understand you🖤💔 good choice not talking to that guy anymore👌🏿

[@freshbakedclips4659]

I may not have read the entire comment, but as an INFP we do cry after we burst some emotions then feel guilt and embarrassments for our actions even if we're right. Our forgiveness and tolerance is sure wide.

[@avasolar282]

16 personalities selling something: INFP: this is worth at least $60 Person: I'll give you $50 tor it INFP: you can have it for $40!

[@rudi7525]

hey I'm an INFP. that hurt

[@joyceseminario4776]

True xD

[@FrankJames]

lol

[@joyceseminario4776]

Soy INFP, y sí, eso es verdad, aunque duela :'v

[@ritaruggerone4434]

Ugh it’s so true...🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

[@LadyDragonbane]

I'm an INFP and my go-to with annoying people is "Grow up!" so this matches well. 😂

[@manda4831]

I'd like to request the types public speaking Had this idea when watching a news conference recently and two people who spoke back to back had such drastically different personalities and ways of speaking

[@emmagreen6120]

Yessssss!

[@CH1K3N99]

ENTP is what one may think, but wow, who would say that and not literally start a fight. We have some Fe!

[@SSNNPBCC]

1:47-1:59 How us ISFP's truly feel more than half the time but will almost never admit it.

[@heathercoll5407]

But i think our bad feelings may come out when we are mad making it easier to Express ourselves usually we sugar coat things are just dismiss our thoughts and feelings for the other person but in the heat of the moment we will feel they dont deserve our kindness anymore

[@Oishiahmmed]

INFJ: ignore and cut off

[@shireads2954]

Oh good, it's not just me then

[@mantecada5660]

ISTJ parent: you're braking the 15.9 rule in this house: do not ignore conflict. Because of that, you'll be a month without wifi

[@noemirodriguez9137]

Oof. The INFJ doorslam

[@chaoticbreeze6262]

After it's too late...

[@robin-chat2812]

Just did this yesterday. She was being annoying after I asked to speak to her manager. She said I'm so and so and I said in my cold voice, I know who you are. Went downhill from there

[@Amal91]

“I’m getting nothing” that’s real. I can’t ignore him or accept him not even stop thinking how to solve the situation😭😭💔

[@sleepdeprived_inc.]

ISTP: “I haven’t been happy since childhood. Welcome to my world.” Now how tf did you find that out- I kept that under close wraps as to lead the illusion that I both, don’t care, but am not depressed-

[@kylynnesau9850]

ISTP. I can see myself saying that, if I'm in my melancholy mood but not all the time. It's our melancholy vs. joy vice.

[@diannematos6102]

Dating this personality and I can say that is true. I'm an esfp, leaving his ass. We are too different. It is hard to date for a long time an introvert. :(

[@sleepdeprived_inc.]

@@diannematos6102 Oop-

[@moonlight_pixie8395]

Not an ISTP, but quite relatable ._.

[@kylynnesau9850]

@@diannematos6102 Can you elaborate? What is true about the person you are dating?

[@cosmiclve]

Idea: 16 personalities at their worst (as in situations they’d be most uncomfortable in)

[@shantay11]

yes!

[@orionspur]

Love the idea that ISFP's speak entirely in Beatles lyrics.

[@garbo215]

Came here to say this!

[@leenbasha]

happy late birthday FJ ❤️ consider McCartney III your gift

[@cl13913]

As an istj, this is literally how 99% of my arguments go, it’s so frustrating 😂

[@manib.]

Finally, another ISTJ! I agree, this is exactly how all of my arguments go as well.

[@christopherhaddad8841]

At this point, INTP is synonymous with a NASA shirt and glasses ; )

[@zatt4086]

I got a NASA shirt and two NASA hoodies because of that I only need the glasses and i'm done

[@jocelyneke6445]

I can tell it's a NT from the NASA shirt. NTs are basically scientists.

[@Laura-Yu]

@@jocelyneke6445 Sorta disappoints me as a condensed matter physics grad student that the NTs get stereotyped as the scientists

[@raindropsonroses3919]

It’s hilarious because my friend who is an INTP actually dresses like that 😂

[@beverlysummerlin3739]

I love the INFP We Can Work It Out part!

[@millianarakuzen]

apperently I turned into ESTJ when dealing with difficult people (I'm INFP)

[@Laura-Yu]

Usually ISTPs get stereotyped as a badass but this... yeah this I agree with 1:30 But I’ve also said something similar to ISTJs frequently, rather than outright saying “you’re emotional” just see them squirm when presented with facts.

[@niloo_in_blue]

I loved how INFP was still nice. 😂 It's so me! I'm always trying to be polite and nice with people even when they are a total B-word. Because their actions define who "they" are and my actions define who "I" am! If they want to be an A-holes it's their choice, but I am not. If I was going to let other people change me and turn me into one of them, who "I" am was long gone by now. That's my philosophy. As Jared Padalecki says: "You define you" ;)

[@kev_in_wonderland]

I was expecting the INFP to just leave, as we avoid conflict so much xD

[@allainefria4589]

the infp is talking to the mirror 😏

[@hidansektas]

I recently found out im an ESTJ and this is crazy accurate. Im in engineering and i was doing a project with 3 other people. 2 of them were morons who wanted to pretend they are helping but are actually useless as hell and i called them out on their bs. So i went to the professor and told him whats up and thst im kicking them out of the group (im the group leader) and he was like "but how are they gonna manage to to do it alone" and im like idc. And he goes "you are quite cruel" lmao. Me and the other friend got 46/50 on the project only because we kicked them out and they still haven't finished their separate project

[@seriah6970]

Okay you NAILED the ENFP, I'm an ENFP and when dealing with a friendship breakup that was exactly what was going through my mind!

[@miawstay2727]

Exactly I wanna know why so I can move on properly 😭

[@crazyliebling]

1:10 ISTJ, Sooooo me! It's frustrating that people disagree with facts because of their opinions 😭😭😭

[@loverofbeautifulthings]

It's soooo annoying, lol.

[@farrex0]

That is not true, and let me redefine the word fact to prove you wrong.... just kidding, I had to do it... -ENTP

[@prntrfxr]

ENFP: Just 'cause you're logical doesn't mean you're right. If logical was so superior, then why are so many thinkers in prison. I bet there are just as many thinkers than feelers. Also, sometimes logic makes it longer for you to understand what feelers instinctively know. Example: Fun = Logical and Fun = Good. Most feelers know fun = good instinctively, but we have to explain it to you logic thinkers. Here's the equation and you're welcome: Fun = Play, Play = Experiences, Experiences = Learning, Learning = Intelligence, Intelligence = Logical. Simplification Fun = Logical.

[@farrex0]

@@prntrfxr More thinkers than feelers in prison, wow I did not knew they made statistics of MBTI types in prison, LMAO. Let me remind you that Hitler was an INFJ, and that feeling doesn't presume morality, let me remind you that feelers act on feeling, and not all feeling is positive, therefore feelers are capable of causing great suffering when they suffer inside. Reality is more complex than that, functions do not presume morality, but rather the person is responsible for their own morality. Besides no one made an argument against morality, who are you to judge all thinkers? Do not realize that by creating a divide and presuming thinkers as criminals and immoral you have shown more immorality than anyone in this conversation? Swap thinkers vs feelers with race, and reread your comment and tell me how that goes?

[@farrex0]

@Ria.Orion How could someone make an assertion t hat an specific group of people could be more likely to be in prison without even having statistics? And even if there was, as an ENTP myself, I would never dare to suggest immorality from a group of people, specially without the necessary information. And even if it were, I would never dare to throw a complete group of people in the same basket, instead of looking at the individual. It baffles me how someone can make those assertions and then suggest that that person is more moral, when the whole premise is based on immorality.

[@harrycrosswell2844]

Ah cloverleaf, another opportunity to test the concurrent validity of the test to insure that I'm an INTJ. You spoil me FJ.