7 Reasons Why Introverts Are So Attractive

[@FrankJames]

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[@tikaardhany7568]

110% agree that introverts are attractive

[@MLion-pz9lk]

I am introvert+ Extravert . . . . and I am so F***** ATTRACTIVE ! ! . . . . . . . . . . . .

[@MLion-pz9lk]

Anytime at the end, when you say "stay cool & attractive ", you have that kind of smile+ sight that the soft Dominatrix have, like Heather Locklear or Bo Derek

[@Julia-LArt]

M_ Lion this made me snort laugh seeing you’re comparing Frank to two women!

[@MLion-pz9lk]

@@Julia-LArt he's actually compared to TWO Big Stars !

[@newlovetv8212]

Introverts can talk a lot when they are with people they are comfortable with

[@edenlust1638]

Yup!

[@newlovetv8212]

@@cameraflash150 Well personalities differs, for me i can play a lot when i'm around friends

[@patienceaddo2625]

Exactly

[@mani_saber]

So true

[@gregorysagegreene]

Yup! That's me. All that info comes right back out.

[@dolamara]

"Tension creates attraction" -- that's awesome news because I'm tense all the time ahaha... ha...

[@juliemay9295]

🤣🤣

[@simplepsyche4919]

Me too...I'm worried I might get high bp

[@di3486]

LOL

[@awkwardzoltar3529]

Just pull a gun out on a person and the tension between the two of you will cause him/her to forever be in love with you.

[@awkwardzoltar3529]

Elise S not a dude. Don’t reply to me. Why would I care what you think if I don’t know who you are?

[@mr.silver1614]

*After watching this video* Self-esteem: *Improved* Confidence: *Improved* Optimism: *Improved* Reality: "YOU THOUGHT"

[@n0_n0]

😂🤣

[@YuchanLeo]

😂😂😂 accurate lol

[@dovee1]

Had us there in the first half not gonna lie.

[@mollyp2529]

Ha

[@vminisfuckingreal998]

same lmao

[@christianhunt8009]

Being an introvert myself, I always found it funny that my high school peers would freak out when ever I spoke up or when ever I laughed about something in class. They would always say " I have never heard you speak or laugh before" .

[@vkookarebestbrosintheworld1619]

Same here✋

[@nicholasdunbar2932]

My teachers laugh

[@UnwittingMango]

My teacher once asked the class to be quiet so they could hear me talk for the first time.

[@Potencia_Hispanica]

I went through that

[@rsuriyop]

Sounds like myself back when I was in school. One kid even asked another kid directly in my presence, "Can he talk?" (referring to me). To which he replied, "Of course he can talk, everybody can talk!"... Lol

[@sususnandes]

“hell is other people“ this is such an introvert thing to say

[@weirdwolf888]

And animals, I think they'd agree with that! I believe Nietzsche said something along the lines of 'if animals have a devil, it would be in the form of man'. So, introverts, and animals (and probably nature as a whole!).

[@sususnandes]

Weirdwolf wild animals yeah, my dog would be extremely sad though as for nature, the problem relies with the kind of people that don’t respect it, we see many great kind hearted people trying to do justice to our nature, unfortunately they are not as many as they should be ♥️

[@lidial9299]

Sartre said that because he was ugly and he felt that people were looking at him that way.

[@shilpapatel6493]

Yeah 😂 I found a new line to say now

[@believewomen165]

Yessss👏🏽👏🏽

[@christinekobzeff]

“Introverts are good listeners...”Me: trying to listen but half way spacing out lost in a cloud of thoughts. “or at least they appear to be good listeners.” Me: Snaps back to reality, feeling personally attacked.

[@tehxing4703]

Ayyyyy twins!

[@sankalpsingh2117]

@Divya Divyanshi me to introvert

[@sankalpsingh2117]

@Divya Divyanshi from where you are from India

[@VibingMeike]

@Divya Divyanshi Lol I have this too, it's annoying because I have genuine great conversations with my best friend, but I just can't concentrate for too long. Same thing for studying, I just can't concentrate for long enough.

[@hannahgrace920]

No Bc literally same

[@juliajewel_ee_a5479]

Other people: "This introvert has it together" Me: *screaming internally*

[@hopeworld9515]

The keyword was: "it APPEARS that the introverts have it together"

[@r24803]

Exactly xD

[@Pleading_Souls]

LMAO

[@President_Salsa]

Hold it together hold it together *HOLD IT TOGETHER*

[@EmiDucky]

Lmaoooo yep

[@imnik98]

The problem is that some people just don't understand introverts and they often judge them superficially. I consider myself an introvert but if I have the right person in front of me I became really open. People cannot imagine how big is the universe in a mind of an introvert. Give chances to introverts to converse with you, insist also if the situation becomes awkward and you will see that you will not be disappointed.

[@tejaspn6836]

Reminds me of komi san

[@kunjanmushyaju3300]

As a Schizoid myself, i think of introverts as - " Thats so normal "

[@Magda-uo2jn]

Same

[@theyesowl]

So tru ❤

[@aviralsinghal1274]

And still we are single. And without friends. Are we really cursed or something ?

[@Paparoulis]

I feel you 🤣

[@vatsalaykhobragade]

I feel attacked as an introvert. Sometimes i feel like only if i could just talk to people.

[@Paparoulis]

Personally, I think people are attracted to us because we look mysterious but when they get to really know us they realize we really are just normal people 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@saraamnadis4218]

@@Paparoulis GOOD ONE😉 YEP we are just like the others.....but a little weird....like Albert Einstein😉❤👍

[@winterdragon560]

Damn your comment describe ma whole life , but we are independent and mysterious, people find me intimidated, alot of people told me after we talked and am like what am simple and just living btw am INTJ.

[@adelwalid9402]

"Why Introverts are so attractive" Me: Don't do that... Don't give me hope.

[@madonnauchehara7755]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@rosieposie05z]

That’s exactly what I thought!!-.-

[@vivienamare2231]

Exactly!

[@marjanaaboobacker2268]

Yeahhhh😂😂😂

[@megrocks3026]

Ikr 😭

[@TestaRosssa_]

As an extrovert who loves introverts.... I humbly request a video about what introverts like and don't like about their extrovert friends/partners. Though I'm scared, I'm more curious... hahaha! 😆

[@FrankJames]

Great suggestion!

[@TestaRosssa_]

@@g.i.r.l. that's not true at all... My cousin who is an extrovert watches. So that's at least 1 other person... ;)

[@TestaRosssa_]

@@g.i.r.l. I was joking Haha! There are way more than just 2, I actually feel like I see a lot of ENFPs here gushing over you beloved introverts! 🥰 We love you guys! There are so many introverts in the comments though, I agree hahaha

[@XxKawaiiCookies]

I love that extroverts are easy to talk to because it’s hard for me to continue on a conversation

[@TestaRosssa_]

@@XxKawaiiCookies that's really nice to hear! I like to make introverts feel comfortable and see what's inside when they're quiet Haha I have a lot of introvert friends. I appreciate you guys. 💖

[@clap-melior8294]

"people are really attracted to those who can go out on their own from the crowd and be okay with it"....I'm so glad to hear this.

[@rainevalmonte2085]

Expectations: Vs Reality: Too nervous to make friends, people think your snobby and mean, doesn't interact with people because afraid of judgements, actually wants to socialize but is scared of what people would think if they made a mistake

[@clomyst]

If only you knew how cool you are ;)

[@svetajkp]

Same, plus I'm afraid to speak English more,bcz it's not my native language, and I just moved to English school so..... I'm akward af

[@harumi6198]

true

[@a.u.m.4489]

So true ;(

[@a.u.m.4489]

@@svetajkp awww its okay you'll get the hang of it 👏👏👏 I was you like 8 years ago 😂

[@moonchild430]

"İntroverts are good listeners" Me who zones out in the middle of conversation: 👁👄👁

[@artyszea]

Samee

[@ritaruggerone4434]

Story of my life. Infp here:)

[@Novaheim]

"Introverts are good listeners" Me: Eavesdropping on people on "accident"

[@moonchild430]

Floof Bone LMAO

[@julyuhhh6385]

Same 😂

[@okya6399]

"Why introverts are attractive" Every introvert in the world: *DOUBT*

[@jofunny7425]

Not me:(

[@SwaggerToast]

True

[@jofunny7425]

@@SwaggerToast hey

[@SwaggerToast]

@@jofunny7425 are you, like, simply wanted to say hi or are you not liking me for saying 'true'

[@jofunny7425]

@@SwaggerToast why you say true i don't get it😤 do you know Albert Einstein was introvert

[@babetteeatsoatmeal]

I am an Introvert, though once I feel comfortable in your presence I will talk more and my full personality will show. I usually don't just go up and talk to people. If people come up and talk to me I will be quiet but I will talk back. When you first meet me you might think I'm shy. But in reality I'm just with new people I don't know. If your in my friend group then you know your special to me. And if I come up to you first then your really special to me.

[@raebutler1407]

"Hell is other people". YES! 🤣

[@kiileetsoku2397]

💀

[@maddymaddyval]

Theres a kdrama with the same title its a good one

[@blankieten5384]

@@maddymaddyval OMG THATS LITERALLY MY FAVORITE KDRAMA

[@maddymaddyval]

@@blankieten5384 TASTE

[@OnlyGods-s7l]

to all the bullys and people who tease introverts for being quiet REMEMBER- 'no on plans a murder out loud'

[@lalimoreno1]

🤣

[@savageme7330]

Shit got dark real quick💀

[@OnlyGods-s7l]

@@savageme7330 hehe

[@mexicanburrito138]

@@kr4v389 report that

[@zaukonig6265]

As an introvert I can confirm this

[@user-fc9eb6wm7o]

"Introverts are attractive" People to me: Why r u so weird?

[@svetajkp]

People to me: Why r u so quiet?

[@zer-atop3032]

Omg me too almost everyday

[@mohamedsenharshan3016]

@Sumedh Kamble 🤣

[@nilsber.]

@Sumedh Kamble ikr i hate that bro

[@-_deploy_-]

@@svetajkp same but I just say: eh

[@TechOverFlow]

I'm always in my head. Thinking, processing, questioning, and improving!

[@the_wolf9997]

This guy is the most extroverted introvert ever.

[@prysrek8858]

@@TT-rz5td or in other words 'normal'

[@myoldchannel0]

He is being himself, online, with no one around. He had also been at this for years...

[@franciscobaltazarlabranago6248]

Yeah, that's INFJ for ya

[@MrA-jz8co]

I agree cause he has ayt channel

[@debjaniray8138]

He's an INFJ

[@matthewnick693]

Extrovert: Hey, you wanna hang out this weekend? Introvert: * actually has nothing better to do this weekend* Sorry, I already have plans, maybe next time Extrovert: Wow, I guess he's too cool for me

[@mar9183]

Jajaj we really do that! We tend to decline making them think we haven't it clear. But in our head we know from the minut one we're not going. It's an akward situation. Sometimes in my head I think...maybe I cannot have it so clear? But 99% of the times I finish really not going because I really feel I prefer to be on my own that day. Sometimes when you finally decide to let yourself go and give it a try! there you finally end up thinkining...what am I doing here? I would be better home alone. Luckily in some situations you end up having a great time but it's not what happens most of the times.

[@di3486]

I don’t decline those invitations because they are so RARE!

[@violetdusk1968]

Yes my plans are doing nothing but I'd rather do nothing then go out and socialize.

[@yonathanrakau1783]

Ugh... no literally thats not what we think or at least not what i think we would just say this person is not for me and just ask for other extrovert to hang out with us especially for me ENTP i dont mind being alone and hanging out with myself probably forget you exist few weeks later

[@LegoDude568]

Damn this hurts when it’s a girl because I can’t tell if she’s rejecting me or what

[@limbs8468]

"introvert are good listener" Me daydreaming during math class : •-•]

[@ShinziiArt]

Ahhh

[@MagisterArtiumExylon]

In this case it means you can hear others' problems well

[@AbadurRhaman-vq9ui]

@@MagisterArtiumExylon wait what? how?

[@iaminevitable5696]

*in a conversation.

[@justsomespartanwithinterne7301]

Same I'm always day dreaming because as Thanos once said reality is often disappointing

[@EdgeWithin]

“Confidence is silent. It doesn’t need to announce itself; it simply is.”💪🏻🔥

[@ay-tj7pj]

yeah true...most people can't accept this fact

[@martenrust7436]

exactly

[@cynthiamartinez9804]

I'm introverted to a point where people find me intimidating and well that sucks because they don't talk to me and of course I'll never start a conversation so I just end up alone lmao :(

[@JohnCena-wv9es]

I know exactly how u feel it's a sad feeling 😣 do u have snapchat ??

[@cynthiamartinez9804]

@@JohnCena-wv9es I'm sorry Mr. John Cena, but I don't

[@JohnCena-wv9es]

u don't have any other platforms I could reach out to you

[@demetrarossi4212]

classic introvert interaction going on here lol

[@JohnCena-wv9es]

@@demetrarossi4212 uncover your face lmaoo

[@pebbsiie]

“They wonder what’s going on in your head” *whats going on in my head* Wii music

[@nik1llz]

*_plays shreksophone_*

[@kiyoshi5430]

Yes

[@-Yosei-]

Yep.

[@angelcore1669]

😂😂😂

[@moreespressolessdepresso6834]

My head: *cricket noises*

[@perfectmatter6599]

Introverts are extroverts when they start talking to their best friends.

[@nick5zone827]

THIS!!!

[@ShijioHirojima567]

True, and also for me its anyone that has played or watched what I have.

[@Sari-ip1uz]

So true 😂

[@naminegirl21]

I'm an introvert around people I feel very comfy with (literally only 2 people at my job) and only on Christmas or New Years for like 5 min. I'll kinda sorta scream "Happy (insert holiday here)!!!" a few times and go WOOOO and then it's back to my bed eating chips and coke all day

[@cherryphoenix9083]

Yup

[@vasu7520]

want to create me own destination without caring what others think of me or about my age. feel intense shyness inside, outward appear grim. hesitation stops me to think one more time before doing things. conscience is my best friend in helping making decisive steps. staying calm is the best option rather than leaving superficial topics.

[@meerasomasundaram8564]

When he says introverts does a lot of internal processing to figure things out. Me arguing with myself and creating imaginary situations and day dreaming all day.

[@reham_.2156]

Same😂😂😂

[@marcocappelli2236]

Meera That's called Maladaptive Daydreaming. Look it up.

[@lachyp7049]

That sounds exactly like what I do

[@NoOne-dz5vm]

same

[@ananya_the_dreamer]

Same

[@UmLammyJammer]

It’s like a roller coaster with this channel FJ: INFPs are the best girlfriends Me: :) aw yay FJ: are INFPs dumb? Me: uhh.... FJ: why introverts are attractive Me: : , )

[@BambaEater]

i'm not dumb i'm mentally lazy! ):

[@Julia-LArt]

I think that’s cos the INFJ mind is a rollercoaster!

[@Alinda1308]

Ahahahahahah, INFP and I can relate to this

[@_DeadlyNightshade_]

🤣🤣🤣

[@loisrabies8713]

Lol

[@panlis6243]

"introverts are good listeners" - me, an introvert, who skipped the whole video and just looked for the key points

[@AJ-hl6tn]

I am a fucking awful listener lmao

[@ambie7437]

Lol

[@bablurohith9482]

😄😄

[@innowebtechsolutions]

Lol bro 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣. He want to say in real life your good listener

[@dinkin_flicka14]

"Or atleast they appear to be good listeners"

[@NTAunofficialGOV]

Introverts are the most calm people and have a great heart !!

[@ghostydraws3732]

Strangers:she's so quiet and mysterious My best friends: dhfjesj no she's a loud ass crackhead

[@peika8324]

Accurate

[@atomcat5242]

Well at least you have friends

[@thefoolsfavorite]

@@atomcat5242 yup. I'm new at middle school and in the first 6 weeks, I still don't have a friend because people think I'm antisocial because of how quiet I am. It sucks.

[@atomcat5242]

@@thefoolsfavorite omg really? I AM having the same problem too

[@rm-hr1yx]

me 😂

[@iveology_]

"Why introverts are so attractive" * Looks in the mirror * *Ya no.*

[@youtaeatscake4588]

RIGHTT 😭

[@nej6246]

Plot twist: you said "ya know"

[@nej6246]

I'm gonna regret writing this comment

[@keariocabinet8836]

I gave him glasses 👁️👄👁️

[@iveology_]

@@nej6246 XD big brain plot twists

[@lilacphile2439]

"Introverts are attractive" People to me: She looks so scary and serious

[@hirokimura1316]

I'm a boy but I can relate, everybody thinks I came from a funeral of my bloodline and rejected by my girlfriend. And I don't have a girlfriend.

[@aakriti3116]

Agreed and they think I am angry with them

[@fik8453]

I agree. People around me always thought I was angry because my face was serious and expressionless.

[@charmelledelrosario1556]

True🤧

[@masterdanielm5821]

@lilac Phile yep they also think that im serious and scary

[@moonTerfixx.]

To all extroverts out there, please dont ask us too many questions. Idk about other introverts, but too many questions just make me uncomformtable. Also when we dont talk much, it means we are uncomformtable and dont feel like talking. Im not attacking any extrovert, im just saying. Have a great day/night :)

[@sakshichand4204]

When introverts gets comfortable with their fav person they become extroverts...😁

[@mohammedsami9996]

😂😂

[@ataraxia_05-t4q]

And then they stop being cool and mysterious and get really annoying ~ Me, a professional introvert

[@Jewel351]

@@ataraxia_05-t4q Exactly...then we talk too much and become annoying...😒

[@sarahk6996]

🙋🏽‍♀️😄

[@sarahk6996]

@@Jewel351 🤣🤣🤣

[@myrtila]

When I don’t talk, people find me scary not attractive lol

[@marcosbrenner140]

How do u know what they think of u?

[@kiyoshi5430]

I was gonna say something but I don't know how to spell the word so nope

[@dottiet6688]

I was told I am creepy for staring at people, I just like people watching. I don't like PEOPLE I like PEOPLE WATCHING.

[@kurumifuyumiya300]

Yes. Same. A lot of people afraid of me too because I'm quiet and look cold. But, it just my normal face. （￣へ￣）

[@jettsteel7305]

Same here 😐

[@isaamaandaa]

"why introverts are so attractive." me, being one : *aRe yOu sUrE aBoUt tHaT?*

[@Rezzmari]

To me, they only are if they are good looking. If not, good luck. Just being real.

[@worldwidehandsome52]

Army 😏

[@laylakunis7881]

@@Rezzmari attraction isn’t always looks, curiosity plays a role too and I believe that’s what this video is referring to why they say introverts are attractive

[@s_ckem6846]

Everyone is good looking

[@moretrenmoreben2523]

To me, I like that they're challenging to talk to since they had either soft or avoiding attitude towards talking and idk why but they do speak softly and a lil different to others. Which is a turn on. And also for how they dress, ain't revealing.

[@kevinsantos8439]

why introverts aren't attractive: -being mysterious is usually seen as being weird (in my experience) -being a good listener makes you a good friend (& nothing else) -powerful (others can take advantage of silent people, since they don't talk back/doesn't seem like we got much power) -not annoying (I definitely embarrass myself a lot, but idc/there's more ways to be annoying than saying dumb things) -introspective (having a clear vision of how life should be doesn't mean your life is actually that way/example: I wanna go out more; have a hobby; find a girlfriend; start a family. reality: I sit at home; watch a youtube video; comment what's wrong in the video; watch the next video) -people complain about me staying inside, not having a life, being a loser (they clearly don't think I'm cool/having a party by myself?) -people usually don't want me to be there & invite me mostly out of politeness (if they invite me at all, which is usually not the case) I did like the positive side about all of these that you mentioned, but as an introvert/pessimist/realistic thinker, I know this isn't the case most of the time (or maybe I'm extremely unlucky & I just happen to meet all the wrong people & live at the wrong side of the planet)

[@princetraxk]

I believe there is atleast some truth in what ur saying even tho I don't agree with it completely

[@I_Yogita]

We are on the same page dude. People always manipulate me, assume me as a dumb. They would ignore me if i put forward my opinion. They don't want me to even talk with them (if i message someone with whom i have not interacted much , they would just block my number). Don't know why they behave like this, it sometimes breaks me to think that i am of no value for others. However, fortunately i have 3 good friends who understand me and talk with me.

[@tobiaswiest]

It seems that way to you bro, because you are pessimistic and look at things with a negative twist. I used to be extremely pessimistic (it's still there), but no one likes a downer. This video has a lot of truth to it with the right approach. Just because you are introverted does not mean you are all those things he said. You might be invited more, well received, and appreciated if you kept the pessimism to yourself and try to speak more positively. Yes it sounds cringe but people don't always want to hear how the cup is half empty. I'm a realistic thinker too and that's good, keep it. We need more thinkers like that. But pessimism isn't as helpful with friends. I've found life to be more enjoyable when I make an effort to see the brighter side of life, and accept that theirs a lot of awful things but to not make that my focus. We have the rare ability to make a difference since we easily see the problem. I hope this helps 👍

[@tobiaswiest]

@@I_Yogita Those kind of people aren't worth your time. Move on and focus on others who give you their own time too. Don't worry about the others, life is full of jerks, it's our responsibility to ignore them and accept people who aren't.

[@kevinsantos8439]

@@princetraxk that's fair, this is just my experience after all

[@ceilinh6004]

"...or at least they appear to be good listeners." I'm dead.

[@berlizgonzalez6736]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@sensimania]

😂😂

[@ayanokouji5784]

ikr, my teacher thinks im a good listener because i always look people in the eyes when they talk and used me as an example of how to be a good listener infront of the entire class, i had to stand infront of him and listen to what he says, and after he finished, he was like "see this is how to be a good listener, look at the speaker in the eyes while they talk, *my name* could repeat every word i said if he wanted to", and i literally couldn't remember a single thing he said, good thing he didn't tell me to repeat it

[@ceilinh6004]

@@ayanokouji5784 I relate to that a little too well. People assume I'm a much better listener than I actually am.

[@wesrm1]

Don’t you just love it as an introvert when you say something profound, like say in a class, and then later someone comes up to you and says, “that was so interesting! You should talk more!” (Cringe)

[@jose91807]

This used to happen all the time to me in school hahaha

[@QUARTERMASTEREMI6]

I had the same thing said to me plenty of times, though if that someone who says "that was so interesting!" is your crush, I'd guess that makes it more special(?) More of a guess I suppose.

[@imimposter5424]

Introverts in a conversation with another introvert: .... 3 hours later: sooo

[@blackeagle5217]

😆😆😆😆

[@zionjohn6048]

😂

[@reznovvazileski3193]

You'd be surprised how much of a conversation I can have with my friends each just speaking like 3-5 words an hour :') We call it mental chess because we're bouncing thoughts of each other yet though we don't share most of them and elaborately we still end up with the same conclusions in the end.

[@aquazz1]

It’s not even a conversation it’s standing and looking at each other in awkward silence 😥😅😂

[@MedicalParasitology]

Yup

[@joannedmello6204]

Why do all of these points apply to me! Thank you for saying these things in a positive way instead of you know, saying they are just shy n choose to say in or nerdy. This makes me feel good about myself. I'm glad i got your videos as yt recommendations!😃💛

[@eunoria2437]

Me being an introvert. Students in class: Why are you so quiet?? *My mind: because I don't want to talk.🤷‍♀️

[@VibingMeike]

Yes. One time a teacher walked to me and she asked if I was okay because I was so quiet. I just smiled and said 'It's alright, I'm just not a very talkative person.'

[@SilvaDreams]

@@VibingMeike Me being an introvert. Students in class: Why are you so quiet?? Me: *shrugs and goes back to whatever I was doing*

[@GoPackGoBaby]

I’m an ambivert it’s both, I can get energy from social interaction depending on the circumstances but it can also really drain me. It’s a very interesting tug of war

[@白キロ]

Or just say 'Why are you so loud?'

[@TheBlueInvader]

I hate this question. Then it makes me think so quiet is wrong¿ Then I think we don't have to talk all the time. But give me a beer or to and I'm not quite.

[@am5ntq220]

This is like an introvert friend comforting another introvert that it's okay to be an introvert for 4 min straight

[@muskaanfatima7629]

Exactly ryt😂

[@aryankamble8141]

You exactly got the point my friend 😂😂

[@cedesley7296]

And I LOVED it 😊 Very informative and comforting!

[@coppersulphate002]

Right??

[@laxmidas188]

Ya

[@Beanie--]

Me who does all of these: I'm such a boring person. People probably think I'm weird. *Sees an Introvert with all the same traits as me* Me: wow they're so cool and mysterious 😍😍😍

[@sharonranjit4227]

It’s weird how true this is

[@vminisfuckingreal998]

literally me

[@HawkinaBox]

LMAO SAME!

[@psychoivy1883]

That’s also me.

[@HealthandFitnessCentral]

Hey there! Just watched your video on "7 Reasons Why Introverts Are So Attractive" and I absolutely loved it! As an introvert myself, it's refreshing to see our strengths being celebrated. Keep up the great work and keep spreading the introvert love! 👍

[@yobiyobi8138]

FJ: "Introverts are mysterious. This is simply by virtue of them being . . . quiet." My crippling tendency to overshare: Am I a joke to you?

[@jettsteel7305]

Relatable 😭

[@chi6454]

@Warda Siddiqui damn same when I get comfortable I start talking I don't stop and then I start talking about my childhood then Leads to awkwardness😂😭

[@alexs6746]

I’ve somehow found a way to over share yet share nothing

[@jettsteel7305]

@@alexs6746 Teach me please-

[@mikatosis]

me trauma dumping on the bus

[@hummingbirdcity]

Only people I'm not attracted to think I'm attractive.

[@raygengamer8440]

that is the law of life.

[@shanapreston_]

@@raygengamer8440 aw shucks

[@raywang7995]

jokes on you no one even likes me

[@themadhatter8178]

@@raygengamer8440 The ugly ones chase, the pretty ones run away. Makes me wonder why mankind hasn't gone extinct.

[@optimus2183]

Tell me about it

[@cryjello]

I'm an introvert who says ONLY annoying things so talking less doesn't help at all lol

[@hawk6143]

🙌🙌😂

[@princecarlos5597]

It helps because it prevents you from talking lol

[@nova22584]

I love you already

[@citriz]

You're not alone :,)

[@muaoribia4140]

I mostly second this

[@aryaisperfect]

Subject matter is sooo accurate!! I wonder if you're an introvert too and process your thoughts about mbti

[@aryaisperfect]

edit: he is (INFJ) and I'm INFP btw:)

[@littlepearlsofrandomness]

Some extroverts just thought I was snobby when I was younger but didn’t realise that I found their non-stop talking intimidating. So funny how people perceive things differently

[@praveentummalacharla5165]

Yes😩😩

[@EmmaR]

The idealized version of an introvert, sadly. Most people don't put much thought into why a introvert skips out on a party

[@lovingkokichi4159]

Lmaooo “too cool to go to a party” more like “I’ll be alone and have no one to talk to and I’ll be too nervous to talk to someone new and maybe start crying if I go to a party”

[@lilly3923]

loving kokichi fr and then I just have a meltdown when there’s too many people

[@twisted-art8009]

“Lazy ass” Yes hun im lazy and dont want to interact with people 👄👁

[@abhishek8987]

Coz they are busy with their "assignments".

[@twisted-art8009]

Abhishek .G gurl thats a flaker not an introvert

[@LilSigmaRatThing]

“Introverts are good listeners or at least they appear to be” Did he just call me out like that-

[@AmnaAli-ci7lg]

Mate I zoned out in middle of the video what else do you expect from me!

[@kerrymartin7557]

😂😂😂

[@etelebulcsumarton2234]

🤭

[@meliamedaverman3558]

🤣😂 I'm am an introvert and I appear to be a good listener but I am actually not.😂🤣 They think I am listening but they don't know I'm overthinking what they're telling me.lol

[@MsSecretlady]

😂

[@1982Alycia]

"This introvert 'has it together'!" Best line in the whole video. 👌😂 I humbly believe that I do, so if that's what others perceive... Perfect!

[@liliango52]

I'm introverted but my parents are extroverted and it drives me crazy how they always want to make small talk. Like no, I could care less about having a meaningless conversation rn.

[@nishinosekai]

I feel u :'(

[@GutsPsn]

true bruh

[@Cheri_Ariru]

Both of them are extroverted? Alright, you're adOpTEd!!!!

[@karazakiakuno4645]

@@Cheri_Ariru lmao

[@karazakiakuno4645]

@@Cheri_Ariru Plot twist : he adopted his parents and didnt know they were extroverts

[@fiorellalescano]

If you want another reason: because you tell us to stay cool and attractive, haha 😎. I remember I had a conversation with another introvert and he told me that I was the least annoying person of our group of friends and that's why he felt so comfortable with me. I really felt flattered about that. :3

[@fiorellalescano]

@@smalltownvvitch 💖

[@nobody_fadhhlanndy7]

How is this comment is from 15hrs ago, when this video is uploaded literally 7minutes ago?

[@Mia-de8xf]

@@nobody_fadhhlanndy7 it's a mystery

[@juliemay9295]

did you get his phone number?

[@juliemay9295]

@@nobody_fadhhlanndy7 FJ puts out an early view of Ko-fi.com for subscribers.

[@lisa_9608]

The “introverts give themselves fewer chances to say annoying things”- not true for me because every time i say something it turns out being annoying and i regret having opened my mouth once again

[@clintdona4586]

lisa_ The few times I actually speak I say dumb things so same lmao

[@mysticfellow9843]

Yeah it happens. I have ADD so I do it more often that usual, despite appearing to be a good listener.

[@anjaliroy1139]

@@mysticfellow9843 what is ADD?

[@m3rl1n4]

@@anjaliroy1139 Attention Deficit Disorder

[@bishiw2949]

Same. Then I'd reflect and blame myself and say less.

[@june8658]

This video is the most accurate for true introverts among all other videos on KZbin, you did a really good job man 👍

[@aidadenisa0]

This video reminded me of one of my favorite quotes: "The need to find another human being to share one's life with has always puzzled me. Maybe because I'm so interesting all by myself. With that being said, may you find as much happiness with each other as I find on my own" - Sheldon Cooper

[@juliemay9295]

Oh I miss Shelly! This is soo him.

[@aidadenisa0]

@@juliemay9295 I really miss my moonpie too!

[@juliemay9295]

@@aidadenisa0 a piece of me died when the BBT ended. :)

[@citriz]

Sheldon was always my favorite. So wise & funny.

[@juliemay9295]

@@citriz lol, he was very annoying but funny with it. It was a good exploration of nerds in the world i thought.

[@primeemperor9196]

"Introverts are attractive." Me, an introvert: LIAR!

[@i3ignorantidelweb43]

Me

[@ME-nw7er]

I have always been extremely shy and introverted and I also don't think I'm attractive that way😂 I mean I interact like an autistic person🤷‍♀️

[@omegle9925]

@@ME-nw7er same

[@erenb.2806]

Idk some people have told me that, i still hardly believe it.

[@suja605]

@SpeedyArrow_420 that's really nice

[@wap6029]

"Why are Introverts so attractive?" Me: *So who's gonna tell him?*

[@protorhinocerator142]

That's just mean. ...and accurate.

[@Honeybee9630]

I didn't get it. Can you explain it to me

[@phoenixangel5073]

@@Honeybee9630 we all ugly as fuuuu

[@Honeybee9630]

@@phoenixangel5073 I know that. Everyone is ugly in their own way and everyone is beautiful in their own way

[@Honeybee9630]

But I don't understand what @The Duck is saying

[@loikcarothers]

It's all about who will give you the most energy and be the most interesting. Because we like to receive but not to give(mostly).

[@rinawatirinawati5705]

Introvert has their own world, peacefully is the way they tought.

[@sallangulapadma1948]

Yep

[@aliffhaikal4818]

Yeah & they'll talk a lot with the person he/she comfortable with.

[@uditgor]

What he's saying - what people perceive/what it actually is. 1. Mysterious - Weird/awkward. 2. Good listeners - inattentive/nonchalant. 3. Powerful - closed off/anxious to make a mistake. 4. Not annoying - shy/again, anxious to make a mistake. 5. Introspective - narcissistic/love myself. So, basically, yeah. Narcissistic. 6. Cool - reclusive/seriously? Us nerdy geeks? Cool? 7. Presence - okay, maybe this might be true. Edit : Thanks for the 1k likes. And the narcissistic thing was a joke, jeez guys. Calm down.

[@djefk7788]

@@sunandinighosh6037 that sounds way more like an extravert tbh

[@sunandinighosh6037]

@@djefk7788 I can assure you I am very much introvert and I talk cut into the only conversation I have with my best friend

[@Caedes69]

Seems...suspicious. But i vibe casually by myself

[@unpseudototalementnormal517]

Well i hate myself so i guess i'm not narcissistic xD

[@julianesteban4405]

I've never gotten so mad at something that I totally agree with

[@hufflepuffy8973]

"You can have a party by yourself" Me: * someone who will dance to music when no one is home and is working on chores* yes... i dance and sing when no one is watching or listening cause thats when my true colors fly. I can very expressive when im by myself, because the majority of what is in my head most people don't understand or won't understand.

[@nalaglockner7518]

Omg, same 😂😂

[@physicsisawesome696]

I sing loud when no one is home lol

[@hufflepuffy8973]

@@physicsisawesome696 being home alone can be great at times.

[@monienjeri3042]

U hv tagged me dear

[@physicsisawesome696]

@@hufflepuffy8973 true

[@さくら_4]

The thing about making others feel special...one of my friends told me about it. She told me how happy she was when she could be my friend. She said that "she admired me". I felt embarassed suddenly, and I still get the same embarassment when I think about it, because I'm just a normal person, not a star or something. I had a pretty good academic history and I was also a quizzer. But that doesn't make me special, or atleast I thought so. This friend of mine, she used to tell everyone around her soo proudly about how she's close with me. It made me laugh sometimes. I had no idea why she's so happy about it. She also told me that she thought I looked distant, yet somehow cool before becoming friends with me. I thought she was joking. But after watching this video, I wonder if it was indeed true. I'm now watching more of such videos to know what others think of me. I think it's not really as bad as I think of it 😆

[@leona41ife]

It's definitely true! My friend told me as well, not only one of them but a few, that they think I'm special and feel good to be my friends!

[@MrTrickster5]

Disclaimer: These are only true if you are visually attractive

[@iTzProLike1]

Umm no but actually yes.

[@chereo1888]

So much truth to this comment here. Not that I'm complaining though.

[@a.s.8679]

True. If an introvert isn't good looking, people think they are just boring, but if someone is attractive, they become "mysterious" in people's eyes.

[@MrTrickster5]

@@a.s.8679 yep accurate

[@Emily-rj1ij]

Yeah!

[@jedidr4918]

“People dont know what’s going on in your brain” My brain: wait is it pathologic or pathelogic liar? Oh cool that cloud looks like a fish! Woah those flowers are cool. Why are things named how they are. Why is 42 the answer to life the universe and everything.

[@freddyfazbear6590]

Omg same 😂😂😂

[@unstablerupture6983]

Because 7 x 6

[@Heli-draws]

Ah,I see that you're a man of culture as well

[@stativvenom729]

Nice reference

[@emilymarie5263]

I don’t even know what’s going on inside my brain

[@kennandunn7533]

People treat me like a deity, they ignore me until they need something, then I'm their best friend for 10 minutes.

[@kaidraws333]

Ya

[@trinuuu]

Usss Bruuhhhh 😭😭😭

[@lara-kp7lp]

Same

[@yachnachauhan]

Basic.

[@Roza_altag]

then don't be there friend in those 10 minutes *SAY NO I DON'T WANT TO HELP U* even if they see u as a rude person who care... but they deeply know that u do this because they don't treat u well (or if they see that ignoring people and not treating them well is normal and they don't do anything wrong then they r mostly having mentel problems🤷‍♀️) i know its hard its so so soooo hard to say no most of the time but its not impossible i was like that in the past but c'mon u have to stop one day.. i wish that time will come soon i will pray for u

[@nobody7011]

i was an ambivert before pandemic....but now i am more into introvert....i was wondering why i became like this, even my friends were asking...thanks for comforting me through this video 💞🥺

[@hunlinar]

I have had various teachers tell me that it’s difficult to figure me out. Like they literally can’t imagine what I’m thinking about, and I felt mysterious hearing that-

[@SweetSerenadeXyWem]

Yeah a teacher told me something similar and I thought that was really interesting to hear.

[@dovee1]

FeAr mY PoWEr

[@itiswhatitis7200]

This statement here is my whole life. As an INTP I’m so private that even people closest to me find me difficult to figure out.

[@Bad_At_Parties]

I've been told that before too, and always say it's the highest complement, because in my mind it really is.

[@jasminemann4972]

Frank James: “You could have a party by yourself” Me: escaping to my room listening to music and reading a book. My version of partying 😂

[@ojasvigupta2321]

SAMEEEE🤝😂

[@miliel7763]

Jeez ! I'm not the only one !

[@Rezzmari]

Listening to music alone. Reading a book alone. I love these two activities A LOT. I love a lot of alone time. ^^;

[@DecemberSfy]

YASS!!!

[@hundopdz5485]

😂😂 same here

[@ela5720]

Some people have recently made me feel guilty and unlikeable for being an introvert and not talking too much. This video really helped me, thanks! The fact that there is another way of looking at things made me realise that I just need to focus on the people who like me the way I am

[@hippiea.m.o3450]

I can relate. This does happens sometimes, but thanks to my family, I've learned that I don't owe anyone anything and if they feel that way about me, it shouldn't affect how I feel about me ❤

[@edha1109]

I've felt the same these days

[@mr.sakshamsinha496]

Ignore the world & live your own life because everyone is unique & special in this world

[@galadriel3134]

Yes!! The people who wont accept that i will not sign up to weekly or even monthly conversations if it doesnt suit me - fall away! I refuse to conform. Surprised how many people accepted it. Im happy.

[@lavmatthew7283]

Very well said.. introverts are always there to listen not thinking twice to stay with you.. until u feel better.

[@joebenzz]

Me as an introvert reading the title: "I'm sorry, what?"

[@jenniebestt1195]

same 1ma0

[@sanjoyghosh7528]

yahhh exactly i think extroverts are more attractive as they can start talking to anyone and on the other side uss 😟😟😟😟( introverts ) 😭

[@jenniebestt1195]

@@sanjoyghosh7528 n0 n0 intr0verts r m0re attractive then extrverts thts wht i think

[@VergilEdits]

@@jenniebestt1195 i think by attractive he means their personality not exactly their face although face matters too . Extroverta talk a lot so you know them a lot, some might get attracted to them and some not because they don't find them mysterious

[@damaristapia7042]

:)

[@pey1918]

The title ; Why Introverts Are attractive. Me ; oh.. maybe i'm actually extrovert...

[@adityarathi8803]

@Cuong T Kong Damn😂

[@theassassin9640]

@Cuong T Kong Damn

[@tugberkaksu500]

Don't get me wrong but if you are the person on your pfp you are actually pretty beautiful

[@adityarathi8803]

@@tugberkaksu500 Simp

[@tugberkaksu500]

@@adityarathi8803 I just stated a fact

[@GrumbleGamer18]

“Introverts are attractive” Me: “don’t believe everything you see on the internet...don’t believe everything you see on the internet...don’t believe everything you see on the intern- WHY CANT THIS BE REAL”

[@Rex_Demon-1]

Yeah I would have so many friends I wouldn't talk to for a year. Because reasons.

[@ilbuzdi]

C'est la vie (same here)

[@abstract0014]

Saying I am attractive is like saying jabba the hutt is Beautiful

[@imjust8644]

@@Rex_Demon-1 same situation 🛌

[@_l.w.a.]

As a fellow introvert I love your extremely informative content! Great hair btw!

[@henryhen76543]

"Why introverts are so attractive" Sixteen years of singleness: "?"

[@AnimeVibeHarmony]

IKR XD

[@deepika6227]

damn right.

[@IndieRockerHippy]

People might be in love with us but we just hide and ignore them or freak out about it and run away 😂

[@hygormotasantos4035]

You got that right man

[@Tranitosaur]

Haha I'm on my way to 23 years of singleness! Take that loser! Hehe... 😭 Jk I chose to be single 'cause I'm not ready lol

[@superelectrasuperheroe4079]

FAAALLSEEEEEE. No one has been attracted to me. He's pertaining to introverts who are not socially awkward too.

[@njux1871]

Introversion =/= social anxiety. Thinking of it that way can be extremely, extremely harmful because you excuse a big problem in your life as a "personality trait". I know you didn't exactly do that, just wanted to leave that here.

[@harumi6198]

are u sure? or maybe you haven't notice that someone wants you as a crush

[@anitamitrovic7212]

@@njux1871 💯

[@noflameskateboarding2402]

I get u bro 😑🤙

[@johnbarney8748]

How can you be attractive and invisible at the same time?

[@jyotsanamrinal4914]

People don't talk to us because according to them "we are scary"😑 But this helps in social distancing 😅

[@umerhussein8273]

Sometimes it hurts

[@kakashicat3907]

Xd

[@gyutarogaming7517]

Honestly I don't blame them.

[@JungKook-oe5ku]

People don't talk to us because accounting to them "we are boring , haughty and weird person" and it's hurts really hurts 😞

[@miriamnabulime8461]

And distancing from any sort of nonsense...

[@marsyadchannel1110]

*BIG APPLAUSE for those that being an introvert's person & had given a quality comments. THANK YOU, FRANKJAMES for all of your informations are so true & I'm so glad that out there, I'm not alone & others will gain knowledge about us neither they misjudged us as Antisocial/Ego/Negative's person. By the way, I'm already hit your subscriber. Keep up the good work!!!*

[@jlolxd]

“why introverts are so attractive” all the introverts in the comments: *yeah ight*

[@kantanna435]

1: you’re quiet so people don’t know what you’re thinking. Me: Wonder how dogs would wear pants?

[@civilizedmonster]

My brain: is sand called sand because it is in between sea and land??🤔🤔

[@Kinra_Jade]

- Why when it's supposedly quiet in your area (no car, people, etc), you can still hear a noise when you focus enough on your hearing ? (not your breathing or anything related to your body) - How do i move my ears ? - Do names actually impact one's behavior ? Easy to talk about when you have someone with who you don't feel conversation-restricted.

[@protorhinocerator142]

@@Kinra_Jade Moving your ears takes lots of practice in front of the mirror. Once you figure it, it's there. You can also move your forehead. You can also make your nose about 1 cm longer. All of these involve mirrors however. So that.

[@daikonlegs2726]

I actually think of this all the time 🤔

[@EvySurvived]

yes keeps them thinking

[@wangari_wa_kamau]

I don't say much in a one-on-one conversation, but 90% of the time, I'm not even listening.😂😂😂 My brother gets so annoyed.

[@Takisan111]

Well what does he expect? It's not your fault yer too cool to waste time listening to him 😜

[@liadanryan-gerhardt7189]

Hahahah. What are you thinking ab when your mind drifts from listening? 😅

[@rl2769]

Wangari Kamau LoL. I feel ya. Anytime someone goes into a long as story, 3 mins in and I’m off thinking about more important shit. Then I do the fake smile or laugh when they finally get to the funny part 10 mins later.

[@shirleytatha8189]

I just stopped by because I saw a fellow Kenyan 😂

[@rahaj__rj1416]

@@shirleytatha8189 I'm a simple person I saw a fellow Kenyan and clicked

[@solomonherskowitz]

I consider myself an introvert but in a one on one conversation I love talking and talking and talking

[@rjrommeljanohan7904]

"Why introverts are so attractive" Me: Maybe I'm an extrovert.

[@xdem0ns180]

Lmaooo

[@doltonknight1078]

On god

[@IASpt365]

😂😂😂😂 same

[@suchitagera6754]

😂😂

[@saminaraf3349]

Underrated comment

[@MedicalParasitology]

If telepathy is real, I think we introverts, would be so much appreciated.

[@srivanimvb4154]

After reading this comment, I found myself googling if there’s a real technique for telepathy and apparently there are hundreds that work only for the authors of those articles! 😂

[@spectralassassin6030]

Oh HEEEELL NO! My mind is the one place I have that only I'm allowed. I don't no one else looking at my thoughts.

[@dynosaurrrr]

@@srivanimvb4154 lmao

[@AntonioNoack]

nah, I am very often talking to myself in my mind. It might drive other people crazy (as it did, when I talked as a kid), and then they might forbid thinking as well...

[@confusion85]

@@spectralassassin6030 ur not alone xDD

[@queenstilettos7122]

When he said the quote that 'hell is other people' I could soo relate.

[@praveentummalacharla5165]

Everyone does who feels it😩😩

[@chrismcevoy2503]

I’m definitely mysterious and a good listener.

[@niki5923]

"Introverts are mysteries. They are quite so no one knows what's going on inside their head. It creates mystery and tension" Inside an introvert's brain: But what if my fingers grow more fingers on their tips oml-

[@SwaggerToast]

Lol that's me

[@dandotvid]

Great now I'm thinking of finger fingers. Thanks....

[@rossittanotere6258]

Omg.. I actually thought about the same thing. "What if my fingers grow more fingers ".

[@usurpererenyeager649]

What if gravity was sideways and we start falling how would that work?

[@scopelearner9348]

What if our mouth and nose are the same

[@Ten-kc2yp]

Me, an INTP seeing that title: No.

[@Magical_Beats]

Well I think INTPs are interesting and attractive in a special, quirky way- INFJ

[@natashadabetic253]

😆

[@tzy5954]

as an infj, I found intp v attractive

[@thumbsupd5164]

as an INTP people that get attracted to me are the ones i v no interest in for how foolish they look to me... Sad life

[@robenkhoury7079]

same, same

[@afloatgamer8582]

"Why introverts so attractive" Me: oh thank you **Looks at mirror** **Cries**

[@harumi6198]

you miss the part of "...to others" maybe you think you are ugly but other people could think you are beautiful/handsome

[@meganmartians8372]

Omg i know. Same.

[@Himal_1]

Thanks so much for this. You really spoke to my heart!

[@tvirusnoodle8608]

“Why introverts are attractive” Random person: “Why do you look so depressed all the time?” Me: literally just glances at them Them: “I’m sorry, I’m sorry if I offended you really! I’m sorry” *runs away* Legit happened today 😂

[@cool_7391]

Same.. people that are not close to me, are just scared everytime I'm staring at them, and I'm literally not doing anything wrong tho. :))

[@heathheather9805]

This is so me!!! Im not sure why people feel like im depressed. Im just happy with no expression. But it bothers people

[@Klaudia09119]

Same here.. and I don't even understand why they get scared by someone with social anxiety 🙈

[@bimzzyamzy9621]

It happened to me too😂😂😂😂😂I felt bad tho cuz I meant nothing 👀🌚I was abt to smile I was just a little late

[@wagwanpifting154]

@@Klaudia09119 probs cus u creepy

[@KrypticKiss18]

As an extrovert I can definitely say that introvert doesn’t mean antisocial. Introverts are attractive when they don’t depend on others for validation, simply put. It makes them seem somewhat mysterious. But they can still be social.

[@sunandinighosh6037]

Oh yesss

[@jelleh7379]

Agreed. I consider myself an introvert but I can be very social. Feel like a lot more people are like this, even if they don't know it!

[@hanayuuki790]

I like how you put in "We dont need validation" because its a mix if yes and no. For me i wants to feel valid but also yes i also dont want it. Like i try not to care what people think too much but their words also affects me regardless even if i dont want to.

[@okplay9446]

@@hanayuuki790 Actually, they said that when introverts don't need validation from others that makes them more attractive, but to be honest I think that is also true for extroverts. What is attractive is the persons confidence in his ability to make the right decision. In general, I believe confidence is the key element of being attractive.

[@schottkydiode7507]

So... You're saying that me being too lazy to care about a stranger's opinion makes me attractive? Huh...

[@melissaphillis7247]

"Hell is other people" laughed out loud.... Read "Quiet" years ago, great book.

[@Yourlibrarian]

Thank you for your input. I’ve been thinking about reading it.

[@len1520]

thank you imma read as well

[@xtxpxhx]

It's funny how much I quote that on my daily life. To myself only, of course..