Signs Each of the 16 Personalities Are Attracted to You

[@FrankJames]

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[@StephanieJeanne]

I'm all for easy peasy breakfast. Will check this out.

[@coloraturaElise]

Great bed hair, FJ!

[@nirgunawish]

i wish you would do a video with/for jumpers. like im both esfj and entp sortof. but neither is as accurate as could be most of the time. it would only make for 32 types instead of 16, and youd get more people considering ops!

[@nirgunawish]

if you do, i will use your link, pinky promise, ive had my sights on athetlicgreens for quite a while already

[@EvergreenOliviaTV]

shhhh - don't tell. INFJ here. that was unexpected. (and yes)

[@alishastreet7110]

INFJs at home: "I'm such an individual." INFJs around people they want to impress: "I can be brown I can be blue I can be violet sky."

[@graysonwoods7399]

Yes queen I’m INFJ and this is me

[@darkbluealpha]

I'm kind of disappointed that he didn't say INFJs would just stare in awe trying to read you.

[@mjoymusic]

@@darkbluealpha sneaky stares from across the room

[@Jjj6212]

I'm an INFJ in my 50s and have 2 kids, never lived with a man, never married. I can read men too well. I would freak them out head tapping them. I have an ability to read people analyzing every word, facial and body movement, that I know the lies they tell. I'm heterosexual and I have never met a man I liked who wasn't a cheat and a liar and found spending any significant amount of time with men draining and disappointing. I also never find anyone physically attractive, there was one and he was the dirtiest dog of all. I attract a lot of men, I'm much happier alone and with my kids.

[@rachman.syahril]

@@darkbluealpha yeah, i will charm you with my awkwardness... Kind of things

[@veronica_sawyer_1989]

1:46 ESTJ 2:11 ENTJ 2:44 ESFP 3:14 ESTP 3:44 ESFJ 4:39 ENFJ 5:31 ISTJ 6:06 ISFJ 8:37 ENTP 9:33 ENFP (hey that’s me :D) 10:33 ISTP 11:11 INTP 11:58 ISFP 12:48 INFP 13:53 INTJ 14:19 INFJ UPDATE: I am now an INTP. I only kept the intuitive part of me. 6/6/24

[@vfrank222]

ENFP gang 😩

[@JapanFreak2595]

Hey me too :D

[@VYMQGSOH]

Actual biscuit, and ENFP? yeah, makes perfect sense to me. ✌

[@strawberrycanoe]

I’m a INFP! Nice to meet you guys!

[@strugglingandissapointed]

hello! im am intp :D

[@trinaq]

"Trying too hard?" Wow, Frank really knows his stuff, unsurprisingly, since he's an INFJ himself!

[@joshuasukup2488]

@@AbbaOjcze bold statement, is that because he seems to be very aware of himself? Curious what you see to make you say that?

[@joshuasukup2488]

I think he is kind of proud of being an INFJ, especially since his initials are FJ! Need to be careful of the barnum effect...

[@hamoodyrody]

@@joshuasukup2488 well INFJ's no Introverts in general are self aware

[@hamoodyrody]

@@AbbaOjcze I am also an INFP

[@estherkosonen1022]

@@hamoodyrody me too!

[@maguremagure7275]

As an INFP who just started dating another INFP, I can tell you that the moment we knew it's mutual, we just started interrogating each other to death LMFAO

[@jessdk7223]

😂

[@Crazy_Chriz]

lol. As an INFP I guess I don’t like anyone at school since I don’t really act like that, at least at first

[@lvncr]

😂😂😂

[@leth4_ul]

OMG my crush is an INFP and he was doing that too me 😭🤌🏼

[@Hannah.hanan05]

How is it dating another infp?? As a single infp i feel like infp males are the best 😔 i want my partner to be an infp pr enfj

[@marionfaure4270]

As an INFJ, thank you for telling me what my sign is! Now, I'm gonna try really hard to look like I'm not trying hard at all when I'm in front of my crush! 😂

[@fvm8906]

Unless your crush has strong intuition because if he does, he could still sense that you are into him no matter what you do or how hard you try to hide it. Love tends to radiate anyway whenever somebody is around his or her object of affection. 🥰 Don't be afraid. Love prevails.

[@manager-nim2623]

Gonna start dressing in all black around my crush so they think I don’t dress to impress

[@marsh2361]

Exact same thing I was thinking after that 😂😂😂

[@justahumann26]

EXACTLY!! 🤣🤣

[@kiralakash]

Well, if you don't want a relationship that could be perfect. But if you do, we need to tell them that we are interested cause they're never going to know unless we said it directly...

[@joanaborrellsanchez9225]

As an INFP I can: - Be really sweet, good listener and shy. - Ignore you. - Act as a self-efficient person that doesn't need anybody. Generally it's difficult to tell if I like you or not, so I will end up by giving you compliments until you'll finally realize it... or I'll simply love you and daydream about you in the long and painful silent of the night.

[@soph.b6054]

Haha INFP here too and I relate to all the above. Sometimes I feel we're walking contradictions

[@annekecrouse1870]

Yes! This comment is INFP confirmed.

[@Anonymous_Anon882]

Mature INFPs generally don’t need people. They love who they love (including their mums) and there’s usually a certain shy amiability about them but that’s it. Whatever the interpersonal relationship is when it’s voluntary (and not essential - aka in networking/occupational/extended family situations) that circle (or bubble) is highly-circumscribed and only a very small amount of people are allowed to pull through. If you’re entertaining the possibility of letting that person into your innermost bubble that’s a sign but it could just be the making of a strong platonic friendship.

[@annekecrouse1870]

@@Anonymous_Anon882 true!

[@joanaborrellsanchez9225]

@@Anonymous_Anon882 I think your comment is parcially true, it depends on the INFP. Being introvert isn't the opposite about being social, the factor introversion-extraversion it's more focused on how do you use your energy. I actually need to feel loved as every human. I love going to university and seeing all my friends there, laughing, studying, talking or simply being relaxed, all together. I love harmony, and I need to check out everyone is ok, and if I see an injustice my shyness disappears and I'm very very cutting. As you said, I don't share my inner world with anybody, I sometimes have conversations with the sea and with the mountains because they teach me lessons and things that no human couldn't. And no one knows that. I only share my most private thoughts and feelings with my sister. But I need people like the air I breathe, to experience love and to feed my Ne...

[@mbtiparty5320]

Frank James has really taken over the MBTI community on KZbin😆Keep going muchacho!

[@jtwright4095]

he's pretty incredible & gifted

[@Sly-Moose]

I can explain why us INFPs ask those "interrogation" questions. We're trying to see if you would be someone that's safe to date, and other such things. Because we're very guarded. We wanna be 200% sure about a decision so that we don't stumble into an unhealthy relationship. We're basically profiling you- 😂 It IS an interrogation.

[@guilherme832]

Yes

[@ma_rene9204]

as an INFP I can confirm 😌

[@oliviadawn9002]

FACT

[@GilbertBlytheisinmyfridge]

Yeahh

[@Apisha0013]

100%

[@joanaborrellsanchez9225]

Advice for INFPs: - Don't put too much pressure on being yourself - Work on yourself first and ask if the relationship is good for YOU. - Accept that you're not as weird as you think. And everybody has quirks. - Just vibe and have a good time, show your feelings if you want. And: PLEASE JUST STOP PUTTING PRESSURE TO YOURSELF, IF YOU'RE NOT PERFECT OR YOU CAN'T DO ALL OF THE ABOVE CALM DOWN ❤️❤️❤️

[@strawberryxoxo6841]

Great advice ❤

[@joanaborrellsanchez9225]

@@strawberryxoxo6841 Thank you love ❤️❤️

[@azukib2230]

Thanks this helps

[@joanaborrellsanchez9225]

@@azukib2230 you're welcome

[@jatnamoquete]

Great advice. Actually, the second one is the major reason why I'm not in a relationship right now, there's a lot of things I need to fix about me physically and mentally before I do that 😖😖😖😖

[@moth6132]

That ENFJ was spot on with my first experience with my fiancee. We were both at a party, and she would talk and laugh with pretty much everyone, but when we were close to each other, she wouldnt talk to me or even greet me. I only knew she was into me because her friend tipped me off. So me, the INFP introvert, had to be the one to start the conversation with the extrovert. Pretty wild

[@licithelion1174]

Yah that's sooooo true😂 I'm an ENFJ and if I really like someone I will not look at them as much anymore, talk to them as much, I'll act all cool, tough, and uninterested. Probably because I don't want them to like me back, because I'm afraid they'll hurt me.

[@nh-ko9sp]

@@licithelion1174 makes sense

[@SwayTree]

I'm ENFJ and made ISTP make the first move. 😂 So yeah, this is true. But you can be sure that we will still try to make you feel comfortable and warm in our presence to make you open up.

[@tyree3774]

It’s so interesting but I think extroversion works on a scale! I can be shy and seem introverted sometimes but I’m an extrovert at heart

[@ricebowl4]

@@licithelion1174 that’s so me tho i do all of those stuff around my crush too lmao

[@Launibu]

As an ISFP, this is 100% accurate for me. I'm married, but when I was younger, no one had a clue if I liked them or even remotely had a crush.

[@crayzee436]

Sucks! I am an ISFP with same experience.

[@tatemitchell1479]

You’re married?! So there is hope for me 🥹💖

[@dazzlebreak4458]

In my late teens I (INTP) had a big crush on a girl who had textbook ISFP qualities. She said that she kind of liked me. Of course, I asked a lot of questions, which maybe became awkward at some point and she soon started acting distant, especially in person. But she didn't like seeing me talking to other girls (especially one of her classmates; we were in the same "friend group") and she sent me videos of her practicing with her band a few times. The weirdest thing is that later I found out that her father knew about me flirting with his daughter.

[@icingcake]

😮

[@purplemind93]

accurate for me too. I do my best to try to hide my crushes and only glance at them when they are not looking. My ex actually thought I was interested in his friends instead because I talked more to them than him.

[@jordims21]

As an INFP, I think what Frank says is true, but in my opinion we also pretend to be more grounded and in full control of our life.

[@healingandgrowth-infp4677]

I do relate to grounded n in control.

[@joshuasukup2488]

Makes sense, an ne would try to show off some si sensibility. And fe would try to show they are not reactive to everybody else's moods!

[@alexderbeste5770]

i often tried to act cool like „oh you want to do something okay have fun“ while i say this i die in the inside just wanting to ask if i can come along

[@irene404]

Yea I agree they try to be more grounded

[@gabmoon2940]

@Endless Twist same same

[@vyctoria9966]

I am an INFJ and you are absolutely correct. When I was on school, I had a crush on a classmate for 3 years and even my best friend didn't notice that.

[@vyctoria9966]

It was my first love and I felt very nervous, so I kept hiding the fact that I liked him...

[@frogingtum.thecrumbling]

AAAA NO COS SAME- ive had a crush on this guy for, like, months now, and no one noticed. at all. the only person that knows is my sister, and the only reason she knows cos ive told her abt it. its strange to me cos im thinking abt him everyday. and the emotions are THERE. its odd and a little funny. wonder what my best friend will think once i tell her.

[@d--kx8km]

LMAO NO FR that was meee toooo 😭😭😭😭😭

[@vyctoria9966]

Fun fact: nowadays we're friends and he said that his mbti is ISTP. :)

[@frogingtum.thecrumbling]

@@vyctoria9966 ooooo, congrats to you!

[@MrsLarsen89]

Now I get why it took my husband and I 6 years to figure out we liked each other. I’m INFJ and probably masked my feelings. My husband is ENTJ and was so relaxed and we just talked and had fun. He made me relax as well. We were really good friends but none of us saw the other one show signs of more for a very long time.

[@gongoozleriam9783]

As an ENFJ if I start sharing unsolicited opinions with you it means I see some sort of future with you. Because ENFJ's are chameleons and we don't share our opinions easily. If we're being our true selves and not mirroring you then you'll know we like you in a very special way.

[@camillabenson04]

!!!

[@Ice.muffin]

Huh funny, that applies to INFJs as well.

[@mckamy4711]

an INFJ is the type to learn about signs other people like them back... me watching this video as an INFJ I'd say that's pretty accurate

[@nh-ko9sp]

I literally wrote the same thing I just wrote a whole paragraph cause why not

[@natrivera1022]

Not me asking google ''how to know if an ENTP likes you'' xDDD

[@ohtoobeetall]

Sooooo accurate!

[@seomse7908]

As an INTJ, I completely disagree with this description. Usually I say what I think no matter how it affects the way other people perceive me, but when I'm attracted someone it's just different. Suddenly, I choose my words more carefully and don't talk about my controversial opinions to make sure that the person doesn't feel offended. I plan ahead everything I am going to say and try to predict how the person will react. I become more quiet and shy, I try to talk as little about myself as possible, I'm afraid they won't like my interests so I avoid talking about them. Basically, if I like you, I will cancel all my meetings, change my plans for you and listen to what you say for hours, even if I thought it was boring before. Also, I will probably agree to everything and treat the other person as if their opinion mattered more than mine, I will do whatever they ask me to do. I just want this person to feel comfortable with me and to know that they mean so much to me. Also, I will try to sit really close to that person and be around often. It is very possible that I will buy them a small gift or send them pictures of cute animals. I will want to know what they are doing during the day and I will text them back in seconds.

[@jay9780]

This. It is so accurate. I was thinking, If I liked someone I’d literally lay down everything for them. Including my time. I would be invested completely in the other. Maybe I’d show off, but that is not surprising for an INTJ. What’s shocking is our ability to prioritize someone else over our plans. ~an INTJ

[@m.2673]

Fellow INTJ here... usually Frank is pretty spot on, but I agree with you, this time I didn't connect to what he said about the INTJ tells at all. Your comment, on the other hand, I can attest from personal experience is 100% accurate.

[@thehowlingsoul2382]

This is facts

[@silverfox004]

I agree. Our time is sacred, but when we like someone they become a priority.

[@Jooney91]

Frank was talking about unexpected things each personality type does. So even if I agree with you as a fellow INTJ and admit I would act similarly - especially the part about being around as much as possible - I believe this is something to be expected from us. Yet I don't think we brag like Frank said. Of course we want to show off a little bit but I think it's more in accordance with what he said about balancing out. I personaly definitely become more easy-going and bubbly to balance out my severe general vibe. If I brag it's about my travel experiences so I seem more adventurous and spontaneous than I am in reality 🙂 it's actually silly, isn't it?

[@natashadavis2959]

I'm a female INTP and I married a male INFP. The beginning of our relationship probably sounded more like a fact finding mission than a relationship. lol As a matter of fact we still ask each other lots of questions. He's constantly asking how I'm doing, if he makes me happy, if he's upset me in any way, what I want to do with our life, and all sorts of existential questions. I'll ask him about his work or games or stories, except for his stories, I'm really not interested in those topics, he works with clients to get their claims paid from the insurance companies. I get the jist of it an I love that he does it, it's just so, so boring. This is love in an introverted world. LOL It'll be 15 years of marriage in a few months. So, we're happy.😊

[@delll372]

same! :D female INTP with male INFP. our quality time consist of throwing questions and get derailed to random facts/nerding/intermezzo/"how we end up talking about this". he is the only person I don't get tired talking with. happily doing so 🥰

[@AlexandraVioletta]

I am an INTP and those questions would be to personal. Even for me. 🙄👀😂

[@cytolei]

AWWWWWWWEEEE I AM AN INTP FEMALE AND I LOVED YOUR STORYYYYY

[@tinyteume]

This is actually the relationship I aspire for and I'm also a female INTP

[@ENFPerspectives]

♡♡♡

[@jenna2720]

INTP here, so accurate. When I like someone, I’m like, “what’s your favorite potato chip flavor?” Then I go to the store, intent on buying them the sour cream and onion, realize I forgot to ask them what brand they prefer and buy one of each brand. Go back to them with like five different brands of sour cream and onion and be like I wanted to surprise you with your favorite chip, but then realized that I didn’t know which one of these is your favorite. So enjoy! And then leave because they’re looking at me strangely. Love: so weird, gotta hate it. Basically, I guess what I'm saying is that, when in love or liking someone, INTPs start to focus their intense interest and focus on the person they like and basically go about learning about said person, often in direct and slightly embarrassing ways. Actually, now that I'm typing this, it makes it sound stalkerish, but it's really to find out what the person likes and what makes them happy so that the INTP can, well, love them and cherish them.

[@rimurutenpest2310]

Same am a intp too and it like the persone give me energy and i become like a hapy cat 😅😊❤

[@senoritasigun4864]

Aaaww the efforts that count...INTP is so cuteee, my boyfriend INTP acts this way too -from ENFJ

[@FreakyNightmare]

My ex is INTP and it was so heart-warming to read this, 'cause it was so accurate, but he could never tell me this kind of things. Love for INTPs ❤. - ENFP-A

[@BlazeIsTyping]

As an INFJ listening to these I always feel like I'm being unmasked, like "NOOO DON'T GIVE AWAY MY SECRETS!" 😂

[@bethb.6813]

Ah yes, and that's so INFJ to want to keep our secrets. 🌛

[@floz9956]

Yes! As an INFP, I do the super direct in-depth questions to determine: - their values - a sense of their real self underneath what they show to the world - whether they share my dislike of small talk and my preference for 'deep' conversations - their tolerance for weirdness (because they're gonna need a high tolerance!) 😁 I flirt by hiding any obvious signs of interest, but once I am on a date with them, the questions start. Also lots of absurdist humour to see if they'll roll with it!

[@Chatoyancify]

INTP and I question for the same reasons except I test the boundaries of their tolerance (open-mindedness) in general, not only weirdness. But I sound casually curious. No interrogation vibes. :)

[@gravyz2cute4u]

YESSSSSS!!! Their tolerance for weirdness is especially important because this will determine how I act around them XD Always gotta dig deeper to uncover their real self underneath :D

[@tommyblade8093]

i like to do that as well but sometimes i feel maybe im pushing too hard or i should mind my own business instead of asking them questions about why they do this or that. would they think im annoying if i asked this? especially when they are complete strangers, maybe i should start with normal questions. but what are normal questions tho? what are considered normal questions? how do i even talk to them? i had an infj friend but once i learned he likes to have deep conversation. i always wonder what stuff is considered deep?? arent they just talks? im so confused rn. i think i confused myself.

[@ZenocydeQuinn]

an infp has a crush on me. he asked me to be his girlfriend right after we got into a deep Convo. ngl he was the one who'd been bragging about heyy what'd you like what'd you do in your free time tell me about your family it was like I was being interviewed 🤣 and later that night he just proposed me saying he's deeply fallen in love with me. I was like dude! I don't even know you 😑 we started talking 12 hours ago

[@YvdorianThe1st]

That's soooo me, with the absurd humour!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@artsyanne1192]

I’m an INFJ and this was completely accurate for me. I really have been known to read up on the signs that someone’s into you, as well as trying to look extra nice when I know I’m going to see someone I’m interested in.

[@Mis_lady_cat]

Oh hello how are you fellow INFJ

[@saraghenheoo1189]

@@Mis_lady_cat hii fellow injf

[@ECLynn]

@@Mis_lady_catwhenever I liked someone back in high school my fellow INFJ friend would say to me, “it’s time to wear a dress”. And of course I agreed.

[@rezzieggg]

Me right now in my new relationship 🤭🙃

[@KM-fd8bw]

The part of the ENFP signs of attraction that I related to wasn't the teaching part as much as the getting it wrong part. I get soooo awkward and self-conscious around someone I'm attracted to that I will fumble my words, my ideas, things I totally know forward and backward, everything.

[@DKENyoutube]

could not agree more

[@mythilirajendra307]

Same

[@TrayOfKimbap]

As an INFJ-T married to a ENFJ-A this is so true! Before we became a couple, mr.ENFJ would tease and roast me, but is always hanging around to go out of his way to help me. At first I wasn't convinced, but then he showed instances of being an honest and good person. And because his challenging me is balanced by his obvious obsession, I mean devotion to me 😊

[@jakubratajczak9269]

As an INFJ, I literally planned to change my whole wardrobe just to look better and cooler around this one girl. Luckily it didn't work out and my wallet is safe. So yeah, confirmed xD

[@lillyCfields]

Hmmm, I thought everyone liked to dresser nicer for the people they liked lol.

[@howtubeable]

An INFP wouldn't say anything for the longest time. She'd just stare longingly. If her beloved actually approached her, she'd either flee or, as FJ said, start asking personal questions. And speaking of personal questions, I have had many dates turn into counseling sessions. After a few hours, I knew way too much about my date, and I just wanted to run away and crash.

[@hellcat7394]

An infp and it's accurate

[@marinac444]

Haha when my crush was near I was just ignoring him

[@joanaborrellsanchez9225]

@@marinac444 Aah, that ignoring... it resonates with me. I try to not do that but it's too much intensity...

[@justsomegirlwithamoustache]

My crush is an ENFP and I swear he can read minds. He asks me tons of questions and can read me well yet I don't know much about him. I'm an INFP

[@allweneedislove965]

@@justsomegirlwithamoustache I don't know why but almost all my crush is an enfp. I just see rainbow and butterfly in them but at the same time feel super anxious😰 when around them even though they're kinda naive.

[@averybeck6901]

Spot on, I’m an istp and I have showed up at parties and dances just in case the person I liked was there so I could see him even though I was astoundingly uncomfortable there. The things we do for love.

[@thegreatAsmrchannel]

You could see him and acted like didn't care him.

[@moakittyy571]

Oh my fucking God you don’t fucking understand the accuracy made me feel embarrassed I never 🤭😲 feel embarrassed with myself ever

[@beanie_bae]

This is relatable and I'm not an ISTP

[@ACrazyCrazyGirl]

I was together with an (I believe) ENFP recently and when we were just getting to know each other he was once suddenly like: 'You know it's not healthy to be on your phone at night in the dark because it's bad for your eyes.' It was both so caring and informative for him to say, I miss him gosh haha

[@jessicarooroo1346]

As an INFP, I literally wrote two pages of questions for my partner at the time and sat them down in front on me to ask them, writing all the answers as we went down the list. Luckily, they didn't mind it, but I was made aware by my best friend that might not be the most natural tactic...you said it well, it was a little interrogation/interview like.

[@whereisthatbustlingmarketp4227]

As a fellow INFP, that's oddly romantic

[@sarahmeadows5432]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 I would have them... but do it discreetly...ISFP

[@blancheb3533]

Yes. I felt so interrogated by an INFP and I wad so taken aback lol

[@monikap8777]

Which type was the other person?

[@jessicarooroo1346]

@@monikap8777 I think they were an INFP too which would explain why they didn’t mind it too much 😂

[@cansueceklc5020]

Frank, I hope you know the fact that you literaly are the Beatles of MBTI right? Not just about being the greatest but from every aspect I could look at it. For instance every type of video you try you're killing it just like them with different types of music. Or the amount of innovativeness you have. They made me love music and you made me love MBTI. Also unnecessary information but you both kind of saved my life. 🌟 Thank you for existing and sharing your intelligence with us. 😌😇

[@FrankJames]

haha well thank you, that's a big compliment!

[@Gulongers]

damn mbti ost comin out soon

[@maddiemae73]

I know you can’t tell from my pfp at all, but I’m a huge a Beatles fan I totally agree

[@cansueceklc5020]

@@maddiemae73 I should change mine too! 🤣

[@jrcmes]

@@cansueceklc5020 this was the best, sweetest compliment I have read all day long. What's your personality type, if you don't mind me asking?

[@veronica_sawyer_1989]

1:46 ESTJ 2:11 ENTJ 2:44 ESFP 3:14 ESTP 3:44 ESFJ 4:39 ENFJ 5:31 ISTJ 6:06 ISFJ 8:37 ENTP 9:33 ENFP (hey that’s me :D) 10:33 ISTP 11:11 INTP 11:58 ISFP 12:48 INFP 13:53 INTJ 14:19 INFJ

[@ichinihq]

Thanks

[@kaydenbreak4283]

Thanks love Enfps ❤️ -intj

[@veronica_sawyer_1989]

Np

[@veronica_sawyer_1989]

@@kaydenbreak4283 hey i have a friend that’s intj lol

[@kaydenbreak4283]

@@veronica_sawyer_1989 me too my best friend is also ENFP she is the only one who understands me 🤭

[@RogueAlchemist]

As an INFJ with an INTJ spouse, I can confirm those hints are totally spot on! I do tend to put in more effort into my appearance when I want to impress and he lets his inner monologue out for a spin. It's a fun time xD ~Sassy~

[@Missmagazinebura]

Yes more cleavage

[@manager-nim2623]

Sounds like a cute romantic comedy

[@haidiahmed9357]

As an ENFP this is so accurate, I had a crush on someone and then I started teaching him about the whole 16 personalities and he ended up calling me his therapist

[@dariazhempalukh]

TRUE

[@MariaM-qq6kv]

🤣🤣🤣🤣😅

[@louubriones]

As INFJ, if I like you, you'll never see me look at your direction or even budge when you're around because I'm so aware of where you are and you'd never know I have already calculated how much distance I stand apart from you and how much movement I should do when you're around.... LOOOOOOL.

[@dsmlllll]

Infp asks a lot of questions to other people, especially if they like them, because as infp I really want to know a person better about his plans, dreams and opinions to better understand him. We-infp, we want to be one with a person. Only with your heart you can see what you won't see with your eyes🙋🏻‍♀️

[@ls_waifu2789]

It's the exact same with INTPs! The only difference is that they struggle with the talking part, and end up screwing everything up and asking about their traumas or something really dumb lmao

[@healingandgrowth-infp4677]

But I do that in secret private I don’t outright make it obvious I like someone I like

[@ilysra1758]

Is that a Le Petit Prince quote at the end, my friend? You are automatically amazing to me

[@andreas_rr]

i couldnt phrase it any better (infp too, here)

[@rosacentifollia]

Awww true

[@katherine6029]

We ENFPs do (surprisingly) enjoy teaching others, but that can be for any one when we feel inspired and like we have something to share that excites us. Big sign we're crushin' hard: saying things that accidentally sound rude :-(

[@badgermc6974]

FJ: Signs an INFP is attracted to you is if they ask a lot of questions like is an interrogation Me: Shit, that’s me. The person(that I like) whenever this happens: Why are you asking so many questions????? *person getting annoyed Me: *goes into INFP bubble to never talk to another being again

[@rinr7052]

Omgthis is so true 🤣😭

[@healingandgrowth-infp4677]

Me quiet avoidant distracted pretending to not be interested or coming across very lady like grounded n like I got my life sorted. Spending still a lot of time in their company if it is optional nevertheless. If anything as an infp I was the one being asked a lot of personal questions by someone. Not the other way around. I’m not the one to outwardly ask but to seek for the information I need where it is easily accessible to all.

[@natashadavis2959]

You need to find an INTP, if they're interested, they just fire questions right back. An interrogation made in heaven

[@nica_says]

I try "socializing" with that person and then when they act some way that is not how I expect, I'll overthink about it and then I'll stop talking to them then once I feel that my feelings goes down, I confess like it's nothing LIKE BRO, THOSE WORDS WERE JUST A LOGLINE OF MY FRUSTRATIONS

[@VehementVixen]

Make the questions funnier and lighter. You have to gauge people by proxy. Find out their favorite characters to things and why… then judge values based on that silently to yourself and it makes it fun for the other person when they don’t feel interrogated. I am also INFP. It works better.

[@dominikpesut7498]

I'm getting rather sure I'm an INFJ and that I'm in a relationship with an INFP. When we started talking, I was asking her about a historical painting on her IG, just so we can talk about something without it being obvious I'm interested in her, and we continued talking about European history, while she started asking me questions about what I do, with the one nailing it being "What kind of girls do you like?" She is still asking me many random questions, almost three years later.

[@strawberryxoxo6841]

me with both my INFJ best friends (1 of them is a boy and he flat out told me he’s obsessed with me)😭 I ask questions all the time I’m just curious about everything. But if I like you I definitely pull the 100 questions and try to act like everything’s in control pretend I’m an INTJ or something but I’m a mess inside and nervous wreck

[@catherinedefreitas5715]

As an INFJ, totally spot on. Spent an insane amount of time in front of the mirror to look pretty for my ENTP husband to get his attention when I first met and was getting to know him lol

[@MV-tf7ev]

Hate to be the barer of bad news but as an ENTP he probably wasn't bothered on how u looked more how u were personally 🤷‍♂️ which is probably a good thing is suppose😊

[@sethvandycke904]

So what your saying is, as an INFJ to mask my affection for someone I just need to stop wearing clothes? It’s like I have reached my final form of no one being able to predict or read my thoughts or feelings. 😂

[@FrankJames]

lol

[@sethvandycke904]

@@FrankJames thank you so much for the vids. They make my day 😊

[@Amanita._.Verosa._.]

Some dress up, some don't dress at all lol

[@13vatra]

So an INFJ at a nudist colony has their attraction perfectly hidden.

[@yasselesca]

final form 😂 hilarious

[@brynn1302]

The thing about trying to act like the opposite type when your crush is around you is so TRUE. I am an Infp and I'm always the quiet one at social events, trying not to be the center of attention. But when my crush is around, I instinctively joke around, being loud and trying to make everyone laugh. I act so different that I think that it's really obvious that I have a crush on someone around.

[@chrisiswatching]

I can relate 🤚😩

[@maddoxledgerwood8955]

Relate and not lol

[@thomasffrench3639]

The problem is that your crush probably thinks that’s your normal personality, but everyone else who knows you is definitely aware

[@brynn1302]

@@thomasffrench3639 that could be true, but my crush is a close person who knows me well so idk

[@YehudiNimol]

As an INFJ, one of the things I'll start to do if I really like someone is asking them really direct questions. I'm not usually open with people and like to keep my opinions private, so when I do finally open up and show a little bit about myself it's usually with a person I trust or want to know more. I'll usually ask a lot of very personal questions like how you describe with the INFP, although I learned to somewhat undo that since some of the people I was interested in couldn't handle it straight away.

[@joshuasukup2488]

I relate with that people think I can be too intense once I show them how I analyze them so quickly. Question, does it "irk" you when folks interrupt your explanations about yourself? Or answer your questions with another question?

[@YehudiNimol]

@@joshuasukup2488 The first one never really happened to me, but I guess it will irk me. The second one is a dead end and a sign the other person isn't interested in revealing certain parts of themselves, so at that stage I'll usually stop nagging them about it.

[@naskedai1693]

Yup, my INFJ friend used to do that. I'm and INTP. Although I could handle the topics, I couldn’t with the frequency. He was low-key demanding too much time, until I was honest and told him he was acting as if he was obsessed. “It’s not obsession, it’s just that I don’t usually find interesting people, and I just… get excited when I do”. Long story short, no matter how much clear I tried to be with him about my space necessity, I still got overwhelmed. I'm omitting a lot of details, but he sometimes gave me the vibe that he didn’t just like me as a person, but also romantically. However, he kind of didn’t at the same time hahah. Quiet confusing (and maybe on purpose??).

[@rituparnachatterjee4965]

I become more straightforward with people I like very weird 😅😅 I am very quiet and private person but with people I become direct 🤣🤣

[@YehudiNimol]

@@naskedai1693 he may have had a crush on you but was very good at hiding it, but with INFJs you can't be sure. If you want to know if he really likes you, keep an eye on for how much he cares for you and tries to help you solve your problems. Immature INFJs may take on the world for the ones they love and try to 'fix' them. Also keep an eye out for long awkward stares

[@kalliopikonstantara3248]

I know many INFPs commented already, but I'd like to share my experience as well. For me everything that was mentioned was so true, plus I tend to try acting like I have my life together and I'm really coordinated. I try to really project this down-on-earth image rather than my usual head-up-in-the-clouds self. So basically I just pretend to be my sister, who is an ESTJ. But it still comes out awkward and I seem dumb because if there's one thing I'm terrible at even more than socializing it's flirting.

[@lastgunman5270]

yes, I think you have to try to act as if you have your life together and are coordinated. I really do the same. Oh, man, I really have to clean up a little bit here...

[@kalliopikonstantara3248]

@@lastgunman5270 ahahah i feel you. But I guess being ourselves is what we need (though I could use some organising skills, ngl). Now that you're mentioning it my room's a mess, I gotta clean it up too lmao. Stay happy and healthy hun

[@FactorFi]

también necesito hacer limpieza -INFP

[@LilyIglesias]

Same here

[@niccaged]

I'm an ENFJ in a long-term relationship with an INTP and I can confirm both of your approaches are scarily accurate!!! and gosh, even after the crush phase, I still get butterflies when my INTP babe asks me personal questions and wants to decipher me... as an ENFJ thats such a turn on!

[@senoritasigun4864]

ikr I agree..because we rarely share our own view and opinions..and there's an INTP keep asking about it..great match indeed..I'm ENFJ and my boyfriend is INTP

[@Celephinn]

As an INTP, I show affection by asking questions about the other person’s opinions/views/goals/feelings/ideas/preferences etc… And spend time with them.

[@natashadavis2959]

Me too (INTP). Spending time and showing interest in whatever my INFP husband is doing is my love language.

[@natashadavis2959]

Okay.... showing interest is a bit over the top, I'll ask questions about what he is doing. He then thinks I'm interested and unless I want to play the game with him, I have to make sure I tell him out right. Something I always seem to forget to do, and I've played many an online game that I have little interest in...lol

[@edi0157]

Think the spend time part goes for all introverts, if any of us seeks you out to talk to you and spend time with you they probably like you, at least as a friend. As for asking questions, isn’t that what a discussion is, people sharing their viewpoints on a subject? You should try to hear the other person out in any discussion, even more so if you like them in any way. The question the video mentioned makes sense to me, if they told you they are on a diet of course you ask them how is it going (ISTJ here)

[@cyex4311]

As an INTP (I think) I just ask questions in general o_e But would prefer to spend time as questions only go so far.

[@Celephinn]

@@edi0157 I care what someone does/thinks/feels If I like them a lot, or if they are highly intelligent. So I only value the opinions of a select few.

[@kaylaisawesome9952]

As someone who is awful at knowing if someone is attracted to me or not, this was super helpful to watch

[@louisejoel]

Not helpful to me because I don't go out lol

[@SlimThrull]

Honestly, the easiest way to see if an INTJ likes you is that they spent time with you. Time is the one resource we can't get back. The fact that an INTJ is willing to give you some (or perhaps a lot) is a sure sign.

[@m.2673]

This!

[@joelbled7648]

Try to text you back ( even in examen week ), or apologize for see you message hours later, can be a signal too, I guess. Normally, don't feel the necesitty to do that.

[@Corrinsect]

My boyfriend is an ENFP and this made me realize that on our first date he literally taught me how to fend off geese. Like, we weren't even really being bothered by them, but he was like "Just incase a goose ever tries to attack you, you can just do this!!" And ran full speed at a goose that was hanging around us. The goose (understandably) ran away. He then walked back over to me and with the most smug look on his face he said "See?" Then he sat down and continued eating. Also, I'm an INFJ and my boyfriend said that the give away for him was when for a split second I let my guard down and sighed/smiled at something he said (which was that he loves animals and wants to live on a farm). He said other than that he had no idea, and he wasn't even entirely sure and was honestly surprised when I asked him out (don't ask me how I did it, it was a fit of pure impulsiveness). Also I 100% agree with the dressing up thing haha. After I started getting to know him I went shopping and started dressing nice and got new shoes and dyed my hair all nice. Even now after we've been dating for awhile I still put extra effort into my looks lol.

[@chickadddee]

I love your stories! Especially the strategy for geese 😂 Awww.

[@qwadratix]

Wow. This is so accurate. I'm ISTP. I met my future wife one day and something just switched in my brain. She never knew what hit her. I bulldozed my way into her life and we were married two months later. We've have been together now for 51 years and I still don't understand how that happened.

[@melisaarteaga3110]

That's amazing! 😂👏🏻

[@blancheb3533]

Infj girl here. I have a crush on an istp guy but he's not bulldozing his way to me. Guess he's not as interested to me as I am to him

[@qwadratix]

@@blancheb3533 More likely it has never occurred to him that any girl might be interested in him. 🙂

[@blancheb3533]

@@qwadratix well he has had dated other girls before and I made it clear I was attracted to him (sending heart emojis) but I'm not sure if he is truly interested in me or just trying to be cool. He was the first to message me though and said I was pretty, ironically I was the one who didn't reply after a few questions since I thought his initial answers were weird, but then he suggested a video call, and then he was more attractive to me when we video called haha. He does still initiate most of the time though and set up call dates and I just mostly lean back and allow him to take the lead even if I'm crushing on him so hard, I try to keep it cool too, INFJ and ISTP ain't mirror functions for nothing lol

[@qwadratix]

@@blancheb3533 Yeah, being young is hard. You've got nothing to go by. I guess that's life though. I'm really old now and I can look back at my life and see all the things I missed at the time. I can't advise your current situation because things were really different back then in ways you probably couldn't imagine. It was a different mind-set. Anyway. I think you're doing it right. It sounds like he might be interested. Hang out, talk about stuff, visit museums, art galleries, quiet places where you can talk about things you find interesting. ISTPs are generally into that.

[@starryeyednomad3519]

INFJ female here crushing on an ISTP guy. Spot on. Him and I both liked each other. I masked all of my feelings and acted stoic around him. I thought he hated me because he was kind of a jerk at work. He didn't like interruptions while working. I seriously thought he didn't like me...until we caught each other sneaking glances at the other. Busted. After that, he became super friendly and would follow me. Teasing me. I still played stoic though because I didn't think it was a good thing to pursue. Yeah, he was a sexy ISTP.

[@Hadas1976]

Sounds like a guy i had a crush on as well....until one day i decided to be a bit more blunt at work, complimented on his new tan, he smiled (never smiled at work lol) and then he went on to throwing hints on emails then inviting me for cocktails for my bday, quite a shocker as he used to be a total mister mystery as a contracts manager until then....lol).

[@Moonlit._]

Wait so it didn’t progress? I am sorry for being nosy lol everyone’s so interesting.

[@baesungyoo6403]

As an INFJ, I'm proud that no one seems to have an idea about how I am attracted to someone.

[@bethb.6813]

With you! As an INFJ myself, I once got myself in a muddle. I had praised this one guy's athletic prowess, and immediately felt seen and wanted to hide. Well, they didn't see me, of course. But someone then asked me did I think this other fellow was attractive, since he had been working out too. Needing to avoid insult, but also wanting to deflect, I had to reply, "Who wouldn't?" I live with the fact that that gaggle likely carried that back to guy #2 to whom I was actually not attracted, but I still take satisfaction that I successfully prevented guy #1 from learning that I fancied him. Kind of INFJ of me really, as I learned from this FJ video.

[@juliel8919]

As ENFJ I can tell that everything what been told about my mbti type in this video is totally accurate.

[@Jaxmusicgal23]

ENFPs will try to help you in ANY capacity they can, not just try to teach you something. They will go out of their way to help you if they care about you in any capacity: friend, lover, family…. So its hard to know what kind of way we love you unless you ask us and bring it up. We hug everyone but we sometimes will back off the hugginess of someone we like so as not to seem too forward and freak you out. We also will try to tailor our convos to your personality type to engage you and will find out about you via you, your friends and family or side comments just so we can mention it or gift that too you or help you achieve a dream…. Whatever it is.

[@kaishaman7144]

INTJ here. When I'm attracted to somebody, I start going out of my way to do something for them (in terms of practical help or helping them out with information): do a difficult and boring assignment for them (this is what I used to do in school for a girl that I liked), fix their computer, come up with a way to solve a problem that they have, even do some kind of physical work for them. Acts of service, in short. Part of it is showing off ("Look what I can do!"), but the point is that this should be something that is actually useful for that person.

[@wehopoutthecoupe825]

Spot on with the INFJ, whenever I like someone, I can make it seem like I don't like them AT ALL

[@joanaborrellsanchez9225]

Oh as an INFP I can tell you that I absolutely see when an INFJ likes someone, especially for your clothes, as Frank said. I'm really good at reading people and I can see through other peoples' eyes. Basically, when an INFJ likes you, they'll start remembering all the small details like your grandmas' birthday or the name of your ancient school. They try to give you compliments in a cool way, like if they did this with everybody and as if it was natural for them, and there's a special sparkle in the INFJ eyes.

[@wehopoutthecoupe825]

@@joanaborrellsanchez9225 ohhh that's good to know someone can actually read us. As for me, I compliment everyone because I believe everyone deserves to be appreciated and I also remember small details about almost everyone, so outwardly it's hard for them to tell if I like someone, BUT the only thing that you can observe in me is the look in my eyes. My INTJ friend also told me that my eyes are so expressive it cannot lie, though my body language can. So when someone already see through me and told me about it, since I'm a bad liar, I cannot make up an excuse. 😆

[@wehopoutthecoupe825]

@@joanaborrellsanchez9225 btw I am also a good reader of people, and I can tell when someone has issues with me or when someone is lying 😆

[@joanaborrellsanchez9225]

​@@wehopoutthecoupe825 I appreciate your comment! You said you INFJs remember details from everyone, and that's true. I also do that as an INFP because I want everyone to feel heard. But, when an INFJ really likes you, they act like they are proud of knowing that things, it's noticeable that they do it with a greater purpose... at least, the INFJ I know. And yes, INFJ eyes are expressive, transparent and compassionate.

[@wehopoutthecoupe825]

@@joanaborrellsanchez9225 ohhh I appreciate yours as well. We also love it when you remember small things about us, we may be a big picture people but we see a lot of subtleties and actually small things/details remembered about us makes us happy and proud as well. As for me, I used to like an INFP (just got into a heartbreak from him recently) whenever I look at him, I feel so proud of whatever he says and I always feel a sparkle in my eyes whenever I looked at him endearingly. However, things didn't really go well between us, sadly, he took me for granted and I had to atleast build walls. I loved him so much though.

[@incite2004]

As an INFP... Yeah My INTP boyfriend has said, "Why are you always interrogating me?" I am over here asking things cause I am interested in how his mind works & why he does the things he does. Plus I like knowing things about him so I can feel superior to the girls who like him that think they actually know him. INTP has a lot of girls who like him but he normally attracts crazy. His main issue is being terrible with communicating his feelings & showing affection. It's hard to tell if he actually cares or just feeling forced to. However if you can read between the lines & see the subtle signs then easy. So as an INFP I am very good with reading him like a mystery book. He is very interesting which first guy to keep my hooked on every word. My favorite book hands down. Every other book can't compare to him ^^ Had to let go of my fictional crushes tho... I feel like I am cheating on him lol Anyways I love him & he can't leave cause he knows too much about me so I would have to commit some crimes. Thank you for reading my daily KZbin comment essay!

[@iwa2028]

That's sweet and weirdly a little bit creepy at the same time 😂 but I mean it not in a negative way i promise

[@ls_waifu2789]

Awww 🥺🥺 How cute! I'm an INTP girl, and now I just want a INFP boyfriend for me too lol

[@natashadavis2959]

I'm an INTP and have been married to my INFP husband for 14 yrs. Great match in my personal opinion. Edit: he told me he put away his fictional relationships. 🥰

[@ls_waifu2789]

@@natashadavis2959Damn! That's a truly proof of love! Haha

[@hugzpls]

Oh, yeah def. Im with an INTJ and I always ask him questions about his day and then even further questions from what he was talking about. At the end, he’d ask “Why are you asking?” And im like “Im just curious/wondering”

[@mckamy4711]

Spot on for INFJ. I really considered my outfit earlier because of the cute guy in the store I was gonna see and thought about what clothes he'd like lol people pleasing at its finest

[@jbhalodia]

As an ENFJ, I can safely say that if we like someone, we are usually pretty obvious about it, especially if we want to act on that attraction and explore the possibility of dating that person. We will flirt and flirt back, respond to advances, show interest etc. If not, we are just being our friendly (hopefully) and extraverted selfs! Easy peasy (And also sometimes we can get unexpectedly quiet or shy around our crush, that's a telltale sign too)

[@mgirl30]

Yes, totally! If I like a guy..even if he just puts his toe in flirting, I'm right there with him! But if it's someone I don't feel attracted to/just platonic..I completely skirt any kind of flirting. I stay super-friendly, but redirect the conversation away from getting romantic or whatever. Get him thinking/talking about any other female than me!

[@Musicisavibechangemymind]

As an ENFJ, it's really funny since I always hide my feelings so well, but then I go and tell the person who I like anyways so there isn't any point lolll

[@Hallfreakyzoid]

I think his statement was super true though too. That the way you can tell is that we (ENFJs) get comfortable and drop our performance. Like we think “Oh, I don’t want to make you like the social version of me- I want you to like me and this is what I’m like: a little more curt, blunt, and less careful with what I say.”

[@DarkCelestialConsciousness]

@@Musicisavibechangemymind yesss Exactly! 💖

[@DarkCelestialConsciousness]

@@Hallfreakyzoid yesss true! XD 💖

[@TailedThief]

14:19 when you're an INFJ and you clicked this video because you're currently binging MBTI content because you like someone whose personality type you know so you want to know Everything and be prepared and behave just right to keep the relationship healthy!

[@hiefia8568]

Yessss!!!😂

[@Chatoyancify]

(INTP) Whenever I had a crush as a teen I avoided him like the plague. I loathed crushes (still do) because hormones subjugate rational thought. I also had no clue how to attract him, so I spent time convincing myself that "He's not glittering wonderful," and "Cut it out, oxytocin!" 😀 Now that I'm older I still commit to a good bit of introspection, as if testing my sanity, then when I question the men due to piqued curiosity I try to sound friendly and sweet. But not as much in writing; playfulness reigns in text.

[@manymudkips8514]

Thank you, a fellow INTP who understands! I hate how crushes block your whole sense of rationality!

[@09MoonStar]

Intp female here, I can confirm this is painfully true!! 😭😭 I hate how crushes literally drive us insane! 😖

[@Chatoyancify]

@@09MoonStar Yep, it's an altered mental state.

[@lyxgacha6782]

That’s so me LMAO

[@spacedriver952]

Wow, thats me in a nutshell too xD. I just never know what to DO with these feelings. Apart from the fact that I often think/find that the other person finds my lack of intuitive emotional response insincere or manipulative, because I prefer to think even my feelings through twice and then might decide I have better things to do then to listen to them. 😛

[@hohoemi_eiri]

INFP is spot-on. Every crush I've ever had, I always ask them tons of questions. This can also happen for friendship-likes too. Any time I talk with a close friend, I usually turn the topic onto them so they know that I want to learn more about them and that I value our friendship. It's a very convoluted way of going about it though if I'm being honest, 😅

[@luisainglese2874]

As an ENFJ, I have experienced situations where people liked me/ thought that I was flirting with them but I wasn't! 🤣 Now I understand their confusion better, but the truth is I'm terribile at flirting or "playing the dating game". When I like someone I become very shy and tip-toe my way around things, the opposite of what I normally do around friends so... Yeah, Frank is totally spot on!

[@shelbywoo3229]

Frank, for ISTJ, when you said, “When they like you they’ll start to make fun of you” I burst out laughing! You nailed it. I do that whenever I like someone, friend or more. The difference being when it’s someone I want to be friends with I poke fun at them, like “haha, let’s laugh together because we’re all idiots”, but if I like someone in a romantic way, my humor becomes razor sharp. Also, I have NO idea when anyone is attracted to me. They have to be VERY obvious or direct. I never ever make the assumption anyone has any interest in me. Great video!

[@belenk-poper1007]

Why r we like that? My bf says to me exactly what frank said, that im bad and I make lots of fun of everything he does or says haha

[@void7478]

bro fr, there's no way in hell I'll be able to tell when somebody is attracted to me. (I'm also ISTJ)

[@HuzaifaRaza-gr8hy]

I'm also an ISTJ and you literally described my life😂😂😂 amazing

[@carlyrios8297]

My husband is an istj and making fun of me brings him joy

[@tinkywinky3574]

as an INFJ... THIS IS SOOOO REAL, I used to watch videos on how to show someone you like that you like them without actually doing it, and yeah I definitely tried very hard and I always couldnt understand how Im still not obvious enough PS great video, hope yall are doing well

[@bethb.6813]

A friend told me that my "come hither" is like someone else's "go away." Devastating, but accurate.

[@mellowbot3521]

This is genius-as an INTJ who struggles to identify when I like someone, this has helped me figure out who I have liked. And based off past relationships-it seems like ESTPs are attracted to me! Weird but helpful!

[@handle_unknown]

Wait, you've had relationships? You sure you're an INTJ?

[@josiahtaylor7967]

@@handle_unknown lol

[@Silverswitch1]

@@handle_unknown relationships might be needed for the plan.

[@LoveYamachan]

​@@handle_unknown ikr? how?? I need advice 😅

[@edi0157]

@@Silverswitch1 Having a loyal right hand is always helpful

[@melikamsdi5978]

I don't know if it's related to being an INFJ or not, when I like someone, I actually act cold toward them unintentionally. For example, if we're in a group of people, I talk and laugh with everyone except that specific person. As a result, they tend to think I dislike them. 😅

[@champagnefadre]

I can see this! as an infj, I do everything in my power to avoid my crush, so if I were also in a group setting with my crush, I would probably talk and laugh with everyone except them as well

[@shiroiokami5246]

That's so true lmao, we're natural spies, but maybe a bit too much hah-

[@angelinamercer6478]

I can relate >

[@maronevanveijeren647]

I'm so glad there are other INFJs who also do this! 😅 I am so comfortable talking to guys I don't like because there is no real pressure to impress but when I like you I overthink every interaction and try so hard to look like like I'm not trying hard that I end up avoiding conversation or just being super awkward and unsure of myself. 🤦‍♀️

[@stephaniewashere9821]

As an ISFJ, I tend to do that also.

[@maaiker2977]

Yep as an infj we can hide it well....too well. My crush had no idea I was into him....then years later I heared he was into me as well years ago but thought I didn't care.🤦‍♀️ Also not daring to look at that person is a dead giveaway. Cause I am trying to play it cool here and I know if I end up having eye contact with my crush I will turn into a tomato so I will avoid that awkwardness by avoiding him. Works but again I come across like I don't even know he's alive. Not a good strategy.

[@champagnefadre]

omg yesssss. I feel like it’s an infj thing to do everything you can to not look at your crush. or atleast it’s a thing for me.

[@iqranuur2362]

Sameeeee I will act like they doesn’t exist and I will be more cold towards them…Plus I will try so hard to not make eye contact with him

[@Avatarglader]

I'm an ENFP and it's so accurate Yesterday I was telling my boyfriend (he's an INFJ) things about avatar the last Airbender (the show) and we were watching it together (it's his first time watching Avatar). Today we're going to watch the last episode of the last season and I'm so happy I finally get to teach him everything I know about it without worrying about spoiling anything anymore. Also the INFJ one is accurate for him too because he is like that.

[@elsadunand208]

As an INFP this is soooo accurate, I just want to get to know their inner world so I interrogate them

[@b.1162]

Pretty much nailed ISTP. I'll go out of my way to be around you. Almost creepily, in fact, because I don't do "outgoing". So it'll just be me... hovering and looking at you intently.

[@beidousimpd5309]

This is the most istp comment and I love it

[@PRIYA-mw4zd]

Yeah and if i have crush on someone i just try to look cool infront of them lol 🗿

[@Пинагод]

This kind of makes me realize how the most unexpected couples can come about. Imagine an ISFJ debating a lot more since they acknowledge that the ENTP likes to debate, and eventually that ENTP becomes much nicer to that ISFJ since they start to like them back. Or an ENFP since having a crush on an ISTJ, tries to teach that ISTJ something to which that ISTJ starts to like about that ENFP and becomes more jokey for their sake too.

[@Booball]

Yup, it's really crazy what love can do

[@eglelt219]

It's easy to know if an INTP likes you, they just start _TALKING_ 👍 Also I find it hilarious how confused Frank is about the fellow ENFJ and their flirt game 04:46 confuses the crap out of me aswell, Frank such unique creatures the ENFJs can be indeed Love the vibe of the whole video btw, great stuff👌

[@MaelisaMcCaffrey]

I would have NEVER chosen this for the ENFP but it's totally spot on lol. I've offered to help people start podcasts, start businesses, review their website, do all kinds of random stuff lol.

[@racheldaniels7143]

(INFP) Truth. Sometimes it's just to get to the bottom of their motives. "Why are you being so nice to me" "who told you to tell me I was pretty?" lol. I also want to see honest reactions and get a feel for their personality AND if I can be myself around them. It's exhausting.

[@sttech4471]

You’ve caught me… as an INFJ, I’ve been acting very calculated and serious when I’m anywhere close to my crush, seemingly cold and intimidating to approach

[@burritoo.]

Bro I’m an ENTP and when he described me I remember the time I complimented this one girl on the fact that she had a *black stripe on her pants* 💀

[@robmangeri777]

Lol! You are quite the savage of an ENTP! I’m ENTP and I probably practiced complimenting people at some point because my mom was good at it so I’m not sure if I really think of that as a trait to show off. Maybe that’s why I tried to dance. I can’t do that for crap lol!

[@ros.an.]

came to this channel for mbti, stayed for FJ laughing at himself every few mins edit: just reached the enfp segment and having my cringe self-conscious 'you give me butterflies so i'll give you support on this very niche subtopic of a subtopic while questioning why i'm even saying this but hopefully it becomes a bonding experience as you see the world 0.1% differently all bc of me' self explained back to me is painful 😭 i've not liked anyone in so so long but goodness does this give me awkward flashbacks, dark times indeed 💀

[@simpledown]

ahahaha omg same!! the “change in their perspective that will happen bc of me” is toooo true. i actually used to do it (and sometimes still do, oops) with not just crushes, but people that i just insecurely want to like me. 🙃

[@pvmim104]

My romance starter set. INFJ at 16: I need to focus on my exams I don't have time for romance INFJ 26: Yeah. My career's going smooth. Once I'm stable, I'll find a handsome, rich, good personality, guy to go out with. INFJ 36: Shit. I waited too long.

[@qazedc3]

I’ve met some rich ppl already but didn’t like them

[@blancheb3533]

Find your INTP partner. Guaranteed to make you feel relaxed and more accepting of yourself. ~ INFJ with an INTP partner and hasn't regretted it

[@nellyuriostegui300]

😂😂😂😂so me right now at this time of my life!

[@Woah9394]

I though similary as an INTP(it could be just a mechanism so i won't need to get a gf bc i don't feel like doing it rn)

[@phillconklin382]

This was super insightful for me. As an INFP I'm super self aware like you mentioned but I didn't actually realize how true this was til I heard you say it. I definitely interrogate people, but I never would have guessed that would be the thing out of all the things that could have been brought up. The reason I do this is because I think supporting Introverted Sensing likes to catalog and organize information about people, and no other person other than romance option is this true. I'm really scanning their answers to see if we have matching values, experiences, and preferences. I do think it is also a good way to show interest to listen to someone talk about themselves.

[@roeliethegoat]

The ENFP is so oddly specific (wanting to impart wisdom into your crush). But yes, for me it's true. I tend to show off everything I know about a subject were talking about.

[@Drea538]

10:04 I literally fell on the floor laughing. I just met an ENFP who actually did exactly this, only we weren't even in a car, he was just explaining it. 🤣

[@healingandgrowth-infp4677]

See if it were any other enfp id feel offended as I hate being patronised to n had it all my life coz ppl think I look or appear young even if I’m in my 30s. But for the one I love I’d swoon,

[@Drea538]

@@healingandgrowth-infp4677 I've always loved me an ENFP, and usually it doesn't come across as patronizing. I suppose it depends.

[@legaldrugdealer8696]

Yea I texted a guy some fun fact at 4am xD so that's so enfp

[@daniellac.7588]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 ENFP here and I feel like I have to apologize on thr behalf of my people

[@Drea538]

@@daniellac.7588 Oh don't apologize, it's part of your charm! 😂 And I happen to really like stick-shift explainer guy. 😁

[@aperson2661]

As an INFP, I heavily relate. I do make it seem like I’m interrogating someone, especially with deep conversation starters about the meaning of life or something. But I also relate to the INFJ thing where you read books for signs.

[@CRohrscheib]

I'm an INTP and I lay into my emotional side hardcore when I'm in a romantic relationship. Suddenly my love language switches to physical touch and words of affirmation

[@mariatzolisdunbarDC]

Lol!! 🤣 You literally hit the nail on the head, Frank! INFJ here, and when I was starting to date my then future husband four years ago, I did such a thing as to dress up extravagantly on each of our dates. Even though if some dates were to go to the zoo or the park even. I remember that it was imperative to try to look good for my man every time we went out. Looking back on it, while listening to what you just said, made me smile because it is so true! ☺️ P.S. Hubby is an ISFJ. 😃

[@kadenneuhaus4]

As an INFJ this is 1000% accurate. Like creepily accurate. I overthink what I wear and how I act and think about what I am saying by wearing that.

[@Anonymous_Anon882]

INFJs can read through each other. Mr James knows the drill. He knows.

[@GeekNewz]

I think INTJ and ESFP are the two types that are most open about their thoughts on each other and mutual admiration/ hatred

[@kumirapau-chan9880]

True! I've never been friends with an ESFP, but even though they are puzzling and can be annoying when you're trying to get something done, they also have this strange magnetic energy and carefree-ness to them that I do envy somewhat. FJ's video made me realize that when I want people to like me quickly (not necessarily if I'm attracted to them), I tend to be more outspoken than usual, joke around a lot more and show-off somewhat. I guess I unconsciously have this idea that "my opposite is peak likeability" or something.

[@nifemiesther5311]

@@kumirapau-chan9880 Same here too. I always wonder why I did that. Makes sense now.

[@nurainiarsad7395]

It’s not so much hatred. It’s that we mutually hate that the thing the other is good at is somehow so important to society in some way, and yet grudgingly admire they’re good at that with no effort.

[@zahra2420]

My mom is esfp and im intj, i am really comfy with her and i say a lot of stuff stuff to her. But esfp are sensitive so i try to not to be negative and try to be positive and give compliments at the same time to balance things out (i try my best lol) esfp are really soft, its admirable on how good at socialising they are and they are very interesting as well. Like at the fact that they talk so good with people they don't like but also they don't talk behind their back much unless i start saying how much i didn't like the person she talked to (i say it right away 😑 when i come home). As complete opposite of me some things about her are very admirable but at the same time there are stuff that i don't like, but she is my mom i have the most respect to her and im fine.

[@Emilnananaxo]

@@nurainiarsad7395genius comment

[@lyndseystrait1513]

🤣 Frank’s obsession with Mexican food and the Cars movies were so random but greatly appreciated! Also, the concept of various personalities trying to act out opposite characteristics is very interesting but makes sense. Cool video!

[@klaramolitva]

That was SO accurate. I'm an INFJ and I do just what you said: dressing up, but apart from that act cool 😁😁

[@EG-cm5th]

I wasn't sure what to think of the "ENFP's will try to teach you something." Then I thought about it, and I realized that yeah, if I'm attracted to someone, I want to have something that feels like a meaningful interaction with them, and since I like learning about stuff, it makes sense that I'd want to "show off" by teaching someone something that I've learned.

[@nomorehuman_]

As an ISFP, it is so TRUE ! Like, when i like someone, I'm trying to not show my feelings to others and being like i don't care.

[@somewildseal]

Us ENFPs trying to teach things to every single person they meet, cuz we are attracted to almost anyone that is even remotely attractive to them in like half a way or less

[@nathydj5308]

Is funny because I obviously like people and tryt o teach them things but, is not because I like them in a romantic way🤣

[@robmangeri777]

lol! I’m ENTP and I think I compliment everyone! There is some plane where ENTPs and ENFP frolic or something.

[@lisa_gay]

@@robmangeri777 I WANT TO GO TO THERE!!

[@robmangeri777]

@@lisa_gay haha! It would be a fun vacation spot right?

[@SoniaJbrt]

So spot on about INFP'S! My husband and me, when we had our first real conversation, it was like: so what kind of woman/man are you looking for? Hahaha! And all the details followed😂 We actually described each other to each other 100% accurately without knowing each other longer than 2 hours😂

[@Seca95]

As an INFJ, when I’m attracted to someone, I will do whatever it takes to not let that other person learn about it. I will ignore him completely (unless I have to talk to him), and when I do have to communicate with him, I’ll try to pretend that he’s merely whatever it is that he is to me (you know, colleague, fellow college student, neighbour, etc.). And yes, I will wear my nicest clothes, keeping it classy (not stilettos type of classy though, I’m not good with heels, but more like Nordic fashion pieces without flowers, too many colors, and so on).

[@TheOriginal_Unaleska]

The INFP is very true. If I have the courage to talk to them (because I would be too shy and flustered to do so) I would probe them to find out more about them to see if we are compatible. Then I would back off and laugh it off. I would also put on a mask, if make it seem I have to all together, very wise and got my head on straight, but in reality, I don't. I am weird, awkward, easy to annoy, still trying to find myself and like my alone time.

[@gummybear098]

As an INFJ, I feel like -most of the time -, that even if I REALLY like someone.. I don't want them to know. Because 1. I'm scared of rejection 2.I don't want to date at all (it's tiring), but I feel the urge to look good, and I want them to look at me and find me attractive?🥹idk. And I always daydream about what is going to happen when we meet, and it annoys me that I actually need to do something for it to happen lol

[@vitoralves3093]

Now that you say it, I think is like, "let me make them feel attracted to me so they will have to confess to me, not the other way around, if nothing happens, at least I won't be rejected".

[@tasfiasharon3935]

Spoke my mind ❤️❤️

[@vitoralves3093]

@@tasfiasharon3935 INFJ here too. ♥️

[@iwa2028]

Why do I relate so much? I don't even know if I'm infj or intj.. The test gives me these two result in different times 😂

[@fwoop4848]

ISTP here, extremely accurate. I always become more outgoing and talkative around guys I like. In fact I feel called out 😂

[@Zara33647]

This was EERILY accurate, I’m an ENFJ but i related heavily to both ENFJ and INFJ

[@luminyam6145]

I love how you do that chuckle after suggesting something absurd, just cracks me up😂

[@swiftmk5480]

I enjoyed your analysis of how personality types will "project" as their opposite type in an attempt to impress others. I think this can apply to general social situations too (maybe to a lesser extent). For example, as an INTJ, when I'm in a new social group of people that I want to get along with, I become more spontaneous and open to doing new activities. Once I feel more comfortable, I might become more emotionally expressive and talkative.