Well This Plan Did Not Go As Expected…

[@freespiritequestrian]

Hey Horse Lovers! Time for a Lightning Update!-Shae ⚡️🐴 Also, I’m not selling Lumiere. He’s a good boy and has been doing well despite these minor incidents. Don’t be so quick to discard something that provides challenges. He is my dream horse and I’m thankful for him. And no he’s not a stallion and yes he was gelded properly. If you want to support FSE ⬇️💖🐎 thespiritedhorseboutique.com/

[@EquineLover-ASMR]

Hi! ❤ Your horses are so cute 🥰 It’s so awesome seeing them run around together! I also love seeing Lightning adjusting!

[@ellensmith8470]

What you are doing is amazing. Giving the horses from sales new chances. Running your barn program for the kids. And I love that you give the kids and horses the opportunity to experience so many experiences. Showing, hacking, jumping, liberty, ect. I learned to ride in a very similar way. And I am grateful for that because I got to find out what I enjoyed doing. You are amazing.

[@arelybrannigan7075]

Hello! Lightning is so cute omg! I cant wait to see more of him on the channel!!:)

[@shontellepetersen4445]

this might be a dumb question but could you get lumi tested to see how high his levels of testosterone are still, could it be possible that he wasn't fully gelded properly?

[@DigitalCannibal]

​​@@shontellepetersen4445 Honestly, I would love to know, also! But, his "stallion" behavior can just as easily be explained by being gelded late in life and being isolated. Makes me so angry when ignorant or lazy owners/backyard breeders isolate their stallions. 🤬

[@bobbi-c]

I am so sorry that you were presumably deceived by Lumi's previous owner. You were so happy to find him. My hope is that he eventually integrates into the herd. If not and you have to make a difficult decision, it's ok! You HAVE to do what's best for your family and the horses. Don't worry about what people think. That's life on a farm!

[@djbrockman8389]

@bobbi-c. Perfectly said! You have to do what you need to for your "family".

[@naenaew.7442]

Right, There is Better Suited Places for His Beautiful Ness

[@andnalanta2224]

Agree ❤️👍

[@TheLindagdetroit]

@@bobbi-c Agreed!

[@debbieking3442]

Beautifully said ..we all what Shae less stress and be her happy self.

[@VampireSentoki56]

it's so sweet how beauty has adopted the babies in belle's absence

[@carolinechew2432]

😊❤️

[@tunanoodle]

Thank you for not "glamorising" Lumiere's aggression. It was helpful to see his behavior, but the clip was not given the Hollywood treatment.

[@HorseLady1109]

I agree!

[@maluskeq]

Me too, very honest, and transparent. (Refreshing 😊) I know Shae will solve the puzzle though, and every horse will still have what they need and more.

[@cjwalthall11]

Yup she stays real. It's just one of her fantastic qualities this super star equestrian has.

[@Kamalu0nalani]

This is why I like you: You're truthful, good or bad. You're honest and know what you can handle.

[@nancyduncan5810]

Agree. I am so sorry for your heartbreak at this development. I wish I could help with more than faith in your decision making.

[@BlaeykeLei]

Beauty is like "OMG. These geldings are a threat to my babies." I love how she's so protective over them.

[@annjohnson8437]

@BlaeykeLei I think she liked having an all-girls' paddock, LOL!

[@marybabler788]

Maybe for a while you'll have to keep him in with the girls. If Lumi is going to be upset he must smell something or sence something something. Maybe he was gelded recently

[@ArcielxJackel]

Lumi was gelded when shae got him​@@marybabler788

[@karaamundson3964]

😂🎉😂

[@ASurfgirl]

Beauty is an amazing horse! Next to Belle and the goals she’s my fav she’s reward for Belle.

[@elisel3984]

LOL Baghera just standing there amongst the chaos, “This is fine, I’m fine”.

[@evantesseract737]

I feel like she's a great model for the younger ones 😂 look, it can't be that serious, Bagheera isn't worried about it....

[@sherryskinner855]

I noticed this too. She is like it is just another horse guys

[@wooperlovesbts2987]

"I am too old for this shit"

[@none_ya001]

​@@wooperlovesbts2987 😭🤣 that's exactly what it looked like she would have been saying in her mind. 😂

[@ivanejorland3930]

She is the kindest most reliable of your impressive herd ❤ Bagheera the mare of the East

[@cjwalthall11]

RANT GIRL, RANT. WE ARE HERE FOR YOU EVEN IF ITS JUST AN EAR.

[@daredevilcowgirl8519]

Yes 🙌 spill it. You are not the only one having these feelings with horses and challenges

[@BishPlease93]

Mushu is the annoying little brother that Lightning never knew that he wanted or needed LMAO

[@quietone748]

He's the annoying little brother for all the geldings I feel lol

[@jeno264]

He's so cute! 💖

[@2cats24GOD]

Lumi cannot help his instincts but your stress is completely understandable. You are the one responsible for every horse's safety and well-being. I hope it works out for you.

[@karaamundson3964]

💯

[@barbarakaffel5688]

Beauty would be a great mom and I bet would have a beautiful foal

[@mrswoodbrooke]

@@mollyragdollfan1917 Beauty still gets ridden and still can be ridden? Just because a mare has a foal doesnt mean they cannot be ridden. Obvious they need time off during pregnancy and bonding but after its fine

[@DinoPlayzRoblox-q1w]

Beauty’s not the one who had a foal it was Ms belle of the ball

[@TheRussianDollPoppy]

@@mollyragdollfan1917the commenter was talking about beauty, not Belle.

[@Mimi-ip9xc]

Mushu is so adorable. He is looking more handsome as he ages. Miushu is friendly and good and sweet and not annoying. Nice to see his feather getting longer and I hope his mane grows long and beautiful as Gypsie Vanners .

[@ShainCaldwell]

I'm glad you are putting Lummi in a separate area. You can't sacrifice the rest of the herd because of him.

[@reeritz1280]

Lumiere is just a big bully. He might be pretty...but he does react like a stallion....& reacts to Lightening as if he's a serious threat. So glad you are taking steps to isolate Lumie & he can't pick on ANY of the herd w/o isolation consequences. You did good!!

[@freespiritequestrian]

Yes and the hard part is it’s not his fault at all.

[@reeritz1280]

@freespiritequestrian dang, horse behavior can be a little like human behavior, especially in groups! If in the wild, not such a big deal...the weaker moves on...but when they are in a fenced area, the omega can't leave...& yup, Lumie is operating on instinct 🎯 competitors. Like, "don't care where you go, but you can't stay here!"⚡️🐴⚡️

[@laurenamrhein6601]

@@SandyBanks-vk5dlthere’s a decent possibility that lumi would try to mount Belle especially while she is in heat. And they’re both so dramatic idk what they’d be like

[@c.killion4170]

Possibly Luminwas used as a teasing stallion when young? To bring a mare into season before introducing a stallion in the breeding shed?

[@SandyBanks-vk5dl]

@@laurenamrhein6601 Thanks, I wasn’t thinking - of course you are right.

[@MissYurikoSenpai]

I am absolutely OBSESSED with how protective Beauty is with Ariel and Ezzy, truly the best Auntie ever. Those are her babies in her mind and soul and no one can say otherwise, the boys know that too. They know not to mess with Auntie Beauty's babies 🥺🥰

[@evantesseract737]

Lumi's behavior makes total sense given his history - not just that he's reacting like a stallion, but he was isolated a lot, right? I'll hold out hope that he'll continue to learn new ways of being in a herd and can eventually fit into yours, but ultimately you're the one who can make that call. His behavior really stands out - everyone else is pretty chill, even when they have little dominance spats. They're just communicating. I can see the difference. I do love watching Mushu with new horses 😂 he's like an eager puppy. And Naveen seems very interested in whatever drama is going on - he heads straight for it. Beauty chasing Lightning off from the girls is hilarious 😂 it's so neat to see all their personalities.

[@Ncogneeeedo]

@@evantesseract737 I agree that as most stallions he was isolated. Integrating in a herd will be difficult for him. As a previous stallion he thinks he is king, probably his mindset. Maybe in time he will mellow. Hopefully anyway.

[@victoriasperrey]

Beauty's coloring is just so dreamy... like she's been watercolored. I love her!

[@annaH488]

I’m so sorry Lumie is stressing you out. I know what he has meant to you but I get where you are coming from.

[@Panda-fg2ti]

Maybe it’s time for Lumiere to move to a less herd based home where he doesn’t feel the need to be the head horse and display aggressive behaviour t periodically

[@YogNog]

​@@Panda-fg2tiHe doesn't seem to be well-disposed to new arrivals, his size makes him a danger to the herd when he loses his cool and I wonder if he could be ridden by anyone other than Shae or another very experienced rider.

[@Panda-fg2ti]

It’s always a tough call to separate from a horse, but as it’s not a small home dynamic it’s problematic. I’ve had geldings that simply don’t cope with large group situations and it’s unfortunate but they are home bound and can’t be taken out for trail rides and events for safety reasons.

[@simoneu.nathaus7292]

​@@Panda-fg2timaybe he just needs a little time to adapt to lighning..

[@ChiIIi...]

​@@YogNogFrom past videos it doesn't seem like Lumi behaves aggressively when he's alone or when he's being ridden. If there genuinely was a problem with him bolting under saddle because of the herd then I don't think Shae would have kept him.

[@itpatriot]

I literally gasped when Lumi did what he did. I’m so glad that Lightning is ok and that it didn’t get even worse! Prayers for you!🙏🙏🙏

[@jacquelynmedina5401]

Mushi is acting like he wants Lightning to groom him. Lol Mushi is too funny!

[@Quincy6262]

Ariel has gotten so spicy! And she’s almost as big as Ezzy. It’s great to see her strength and personality come out! And gosh, Prince Naveen is beautiful!!! ❤

[@SeniorBliss]

Lumy is one of the most gorgeous horses I've seen. But it's a shame, they weren't up front about him. He might just be aggressive forever. It's weird he gets along with some but not all. Naveen is a standout , so shiny and Beauty is such a momma. Baghera looking at them like they're nuts. Ariel flirting it up. They all are so different. Ezzie getting bigger and bigger just like Belle. You have a beautiful herd.

[@mels7735]

Beauty is like.. “girls, don’t be falling for the boy shenanigans, boys will lead you astray” 🤣🤣 Lightening’s just adorable 🥰

[@lynnie0524]

It can take geldings who used to be stallions years to settle down enough to be safe with a large group of other horses. I think he's doing great, considering he was gelded only a few months ago. Give him time, but until then, make appropriate accommodations to keep everyone safe.

[@joannahatton99]

I agree. I heard you when you said you were just venting and haven't given up on Luminier! I know you will everything possible to help him work it out. Crossed fingers you find a new place sooner rather than later. I 'm with on whatever decision you make. One of my favorite horses is Jiminey! Such a show stopper! Gorgeous horse, color, pattern, body, head, and personality. Just love him. Glad he is recovering well.❤❤

[@simoneu.nathaus7292]

Yeah...though he's got "an attitude" too ,sometimes...ok..not as severely as Lumi...😊❤

[@mollyragdollfan1917]

@@lynnie0524 right? Lumiere can be a butt sometimes, but he's adjusted to all the other geldings. Mares may take a while yet. I can't believe the flak he's been getting from sone viewers. I went off on someone on FB for making some rather callous remarks.

[@gaywalker2117]

The hormones stick around in the system for a while.

[@yes2day100]

Lightning strikes me as a very mature character. No drama. Mushi was very provocative, but Lightning took it all in stride. I wonder if Lumiere senses Lightning's mature presence and feels his dominance threatened by it.

[@alinashirinian2485]

I think this might be the reason why he reacted aggressively to Lightning and not to Naveen. Lumi doesn't see Naveen as a threat because he's essentially just a young boy which automatically makes him more submissive, meanwhile Lightning is a fully grown adult and therefore can be a 'problem'.

[@skyandshadow679]

Lightning seems like such a nice horse.

[@pamskyland4444]

It’s so incredible how beauty looks after the babies. Like it’s her job there. Hope she doesn’t hurt herself in the process. ❤ thanku for being u and for doing what u do. 🐾❤️🐾

[@luvzdogz]

Mushu has a total boy crush on Lightning. LOL

[@simoneu.nathaus7292]

😂❤

[@poppy_pixie]

that was my first thought too lol, he was SO smitten

[@markmacintyre3422]

Horse sociology is SO complex & nuanced….I had NO idea!!!

[@freespiritequestrian]

For real lol it’s madness

[@salentipy]

It’s like… Beauty won’t let the girls play with the boys, and Bagheera is just like, “smh - get all these young’uns away from me, please.” 😂😂😂

[@nancytowers4094]

Bagerrah looked like "OH, PLEASE, I'M OVER THIS".

[@DS-ky9dl]

It seems that you are experiencing more stress than you bargained for. There will always be more horses down the road that deserve your compassion and will not cause problems. And your other horses deserve a stress free environment as well . Lightning is a sweetheart.

[@catherinee.millard1831]

Yes! Well said! Lumi just doesn't fit into the herd. It's sad, but he's not what they said he was. Shae has a lot of patience, but I would not blame her at all if she found a better home for him. One that meets his needs, that is. 🙂

[@PredictableEnigma]

This new plan for Lumiere hopefully can help all of the horses be more relaxed, and hopefully help him cool off too. This is a challenging situation and I'd be crying were I in your position too. It makes the heart ache when there's bullying and you want everyone to get along. Hoping Lumi can feel secure over time. Side note, Ariel being boy crazy is so funny.

[@Zero_tubbyjr.]

Beauty being protective of the foals is so cute lol

[@MsWarriordiva]

Auntie Beauty. ❤

[@samanthawinslett202]

I'm glad you have acknowledged that lumi is not the perfect dream horse . I am happy you have decided to treat him like a stud to keep him separate to avoid the dangerous stud behavior...Its hard because you had such high expectations for him. But sometimes the horse cannot meet them. This will continue to be a problem with any new gelding. I wouldn't think too hard on it. If you decide to sell Lumi, hang on to him as long as it takes ti make sure you don't take a loss. . . Horses come and go, its what you are about...I agree STUDS can be dangerous so takeprecautions...! Not everyone knows what a "proud cut" is...thank god Lightning didn't bolt through the fence to escape...

[@crystalnicholson4825]

Lightening...bolt....I see whatcha did there! 😅

[@bostack6714]

My gelding was injured several years ago by another gelding, the situation looked very similar to the one in the video. My gelding was a big baby (six year old half-draft horse), submissive, sociable and kind but the other horse attacked him as soon as my horse moved an ear, he couldn't eat or drink or go into the the shelter. The person who owned the stable didn't listen to me when I asked him to separate them and my horse threw himself into the fence after being attacked again by the other horse. My gelding had bites and cuts all over his body and injured right hind foot which was bleeding a lot, he had to be immobilized in a box for eight days with antibiotics, I had to clean the wound and treat his foot and redo the bandage every day, I had to call the osteopath around ten times in the following year because my horse's hips and neck received a shock during the attack and he compensated with his left side since he used his right posterior less well. I was very scared and thought there would be after-effects but fortunately it recovered well and the x-rays were good. In any case I was able to pay the veterinary costs even though the accident should have been avoided and no one came to apologize or even help me even though neither I nor my horse were responsible for all that, my gelding also kept movements of fear when a horse came too quickly behind him, he started to become more dominant and kick and he became more disrespectful with me.. I quickly left that place but the wrong was done, so of course it is a more or less natural behavior but sometimes certain horses are too aggressive or even dangerous and I think it is better not to take risks and not to let them in contact with others in order to prevent injuries. The safety of our horses is the most important and sometimes we have to make choices even if they are difficult 👍🏼

[@lindaed3594]

@@bostack6714Gosh, what a terrible experience for both you and your horse. Both of you traumatised & ongoing consequence. I hope both of you heal & recover fully & especially that your beautiful horse’s peaceful soul state is restored 💝💝💝

[@lindagardener855]

What is a ‘proud cut’?

[@samanthawinslett202]

@@lindagardener855 when the castration surgery is ill performed by the vet or individual. Which leaves the horse infertile but the animal still acts like a stud, mounting/breeding mares and fighting geldings over territory....most states allow owners or trainers to do their own castration.

[@sharonsoulsby8958]

Shae, you will figure out your herd dynamics with kindness and wisdom. I have watched you react as unexpected situations and conditions have arisen--always thinking of the best for your horses as well as your business. You did your due diligence before you purchased Lumi. One cannot control others ethics-just move forward with whatever resolution you determine is best for your peace of mind, your business, your herd and Lumi. By the way, Ariel is simply stunning! Give yourself some grace and thank you for your honesty and for taking us along for the ride.

[@lindaclarke-hq2ze]

All good beautiful lady, Vent Vent away. That what we are here for not just the joy, to be here for you when need to vent 🤗

[@annjohnson8437]

Beauty protecting the younger mares was so sweet! She is the cool aunt! Lightning seems pretty chill! I think you are making the right call with Lumiere! He can't help that he still thinks he's a stallion, and you don't want to endanger any of the other horses. ❤

[@catboisvert]

Thank you for your authenticity and transparency with your experiences integrating the herd. I feel for you and agree abut Lumiere. You and Kyle provide a wonderful service with your You Tube Chanel, Thank you!

[@catherinee.millard1831]

Sometimes, despite our very best efforts, things just don't work out the way we hoped. No matter what you decide, we all know that you will make the very best decision for you, Kyle, and the herd. ❤

[@janetsappington7421]

Lightning has a strong muscular build. He is beautiful!

[@oliviacasino8888]

Shae you explain things so, so very well. Never feel like you have to “apologise” to us who know and actually love you and Free Spirit Farm about your emotions around things happening in your life. Your goodness and kindness, thoughtfulness about your herd is always present in these videos. Blessings…ps love, love Lightening!!! So chill!

[@freespiritequestrian]

Thank you so much 😊

[@ivanejorland3930]

​@@freespiritequestriansuch a huge horse so you look petite although safely riding your temperamental horses, tuning into each individually ❤

[@moccasinlanding]

Love how the two fillies hang together. Life long friends. It warms my heart every time I see them in the pasture.

[@paulacorso7954]

Good call. Don't be too disappointed, at least you learned this about Lumi without some incident or injury. Lumi needs the exact little herd and we know u will figure that out, or know how to rotate his herdmates. Exhale!

[@crypticmessenger]

I love how Beauty protects 'her' babies. I also love how you have your horses outside & not cooped up in stalls worrying about their coats getting bleached by the sun like Gaston coat. Forever ago my best friend had her horse at a barn where some horses weren't aloud outside during the day so their coats wouldn't get bleached. They were in pipe stalls with paddocks but they were stuck in the stall all day & only allowed in the paddock at night. Gaston looks beautiful even with his bleached coat. ❤

[@gretashepherd770]

Yes - I was thinking Gaston looks just beautiful in his new coat color!

[@Sillydk-ot6dk]

I'm totally smitten by Lightning. I LOVE his coloring. He looks like my pony I had as a kid, he only miss the light blue eyes mine had, but Lightning is stunning. 😍

[@very_jenny]

Warms my heart to see the little moment at 4:45 with Ariel and Ezzy... I know Ariel is playful but when I think back to where she started, it's SO nice to see where she's come. And what a great sister and family she gets to grow up with!

[@mamitaplantita]

You’ve stayed so positive about Lumi. You always have the sweetest attitude towards all your babies, and we’ve been watching Lumi, and your horsie musical chairs. Everyone, especially you know it’s not his fault- you were misguided and you’re being so smart by setting this healthy herd boundary. Everyone will be able to breathe a little easier hopefully. 🫶🏻 We love you and all your babies!!!

[@Auntie-Sara]

I adore everything FSE yet an absolute all the time pleasure is seeing Penelope whirling her tail like a very old spinner cap. 🐷Penelope🥰

[@TheLindagdetroit]

I could watch Penelope's tail all day ❤

[@ronsamborski6230]

If pig tail wagging is similar to happy dog tail wagging, I think Penelope is a very happy pig! 👍🏼

[@simoneu.nathaus7292]

😂❤​@@ronsamborski6230

[@lotsamoxie]

Yes. Penelope is so very cute❣️

[@sheliawisner811]

Lightening seems very calm and easy going. I like him. Hope he works out great

[@mintywolfcrafts]

So unfair to Lumi that his previous owner lied about him. He's a gorgeous boi and your work with him is fab! Maybe he could spend some time with a more dominant but respectful horse to teach him some lessons? If you do unfortunately need to move him along for all those reasons then that is perfectly fine. You always want what's best for the horse/s and we Free Spirit Followers totally understand that. Please enjoy beautiful Lumi while he's with you 💖🐴

[@VeinInthings]

That would be really interesting! That’s the thing tho. Another highest dominant horse might teach him some manners and put him in his place or they’ll have a full on fight which could be extremely dangerous.

[@mintywolfcrafts]

​@@VeinInthings Exactly! He can't just be thrown in with any dominant horse. Needs to be the right temperament so that Lumi can learn from him.

[@diannemcmullen8681]

Love the paints and how Beauty cares for “her” babies.😊

[@lisamclain2549]

Shay, you are a sweetheart. Your animals are so fortunate, as are you. I think Lumiere recognized Lightning as being his biggest threat because of his size and build. You may be right about Lumie being happier in a small herd. He’s young to be top dog. Ariel looks so happy! She needed to be “mommed” by Beauty I think. So glad jiminey is doing well. Thanks for sharing your journey with us. As hard as the downs are, they make the ups even more precious. Blessings.

[@freespiritequestrian]

Yes we think that as well.

[@danabinaz3173]

I totally understand about Lumere. Because of your working model with bringing horses in and out having one that is so possessive is not one you would have chosen because it’s too hard on the herd and you. It’s a shame because he looked like your dream horse. Everything happens for a reason. ❤

[@freespiritequestrian]

❤️❤️❤️ it will all work out. Thank you!

[@lisaharm2887]

Lumi was a Stallion for 7 yrs. You can't change that over night. The longer time goes he will get better.

[@ginavoneiff1575]

Shae, each of the animals we bring into our lives come in as teachers. You have this - it's a moment in life we stop and reassess because we're on emotional and physical overload with all that's going on and taking our attention and energies. Wish we could all give you a big hug. Sometimes that's the greatest gift - but you have that from Mushu and Naveen and all the others, including your spectacular husband. Lumiere has made dramatic strides - he's learning your language, it's just going to take time!

[@janetdoecke4391]

Mushu and Lightening, a new Bromance! So sweet!

[@maluskeq]

I've felt this off and on about Lumiere, exactly what you're explaining, word for word. He is marvelous, but is making things hard for you to manage. I was so happy for you when he seemed to calm down, accepted Naveen even! I was looking forward to even the mares being in the same herd again. This is such a setback, I totally feel your disappointment 🫂 I think your plan to put Lumi separate, is the way to go. It will be a bit like he's the new horse again, he might act a little less dominant when he comes back into an established herd again. Don't fret too much Shae, you've got this, you'll figure it out, no doubt. 💛🖤

[@freespiritequestrian]

Thank you!!

[@AlwaysAshleigh]

I feel like lumiere brings an imbalance to the heard, I really hope they can all be together someday, but if you do decide to sell, we will absolutely support your decision…the herd is most important! Mushu is such a little character, I love him!

[@AliceSmith-d2h]

He is so beautiful, I loved his colors 😅

[@desireeohrbeck2282]

I know you love beautiful Lumiere - and that he was (is?) your dream come true horse. I am so sorry things are not working out the way you hoped. You work so hard to give these horses the best life ever and to make your dream come true. Trust your gut, we are all cheering for you 🥰

[@freespiritequestrian]

It’s okay! I’m not giving up lol

[@simoneu.nathaus7292]

​@maybe Lumi and Lightning just need a little time to get to know each other better freespiritequestrian

[@ChiIIi...]

​@@simoneu.nathaus7292 It's way too dangerous to just wait and see. Lumiere is way too big compared to Lightning to just let it go and it could end up with Lightning seriously getting injured. This is a problem you can encounter when you have a herd of so many different breeds and Shae made the right decision. If she left Lightning there with Lumiere behaving like that it could have caused some serious problem.

[@eflarsen]

@@simoneu.nathaus7292 with Shae leasing and not owning Lightning, it makes sense that she doesn't want to incur any risk as Lightning is not her horse

[@ShintogaDeathAngel]

@@ChiIIi... not so much about different breeds, but personalities of the horses. All the horses of the same breeds I’ve known were different. But it would simplify things if they were all the same.

[@SharonP8356]

Any decision that is well thought out and makes life for the horses and you safer and less stressful is a decision that is obviously the correct one. Personalities and demeanor of horses is so important when there is a herd.

[@leonamcginnis]

Prince Naveen is so pretty when he gallops and plays. His coloring and markings just set him off. Lightening looks like he's going to try and fit in. All the horses are beautiful and just relaxing to watch them play. You are such a good mama to all of them, love them all and all of them love you back. This is such a good place to visit and love animals. I am so fortunate to have found your channel. It was so good to see Jiminey and how much he likes apples. He is prince handsome in my book.

[@dianecanney9911]

They all look so gorgeous together. Beautiful herd!😻

[@renatastec5212]

I'm sorry about Lumiere, we all feel disappointed for you. Whatever you decide to do, we'll back you up all the way.

[@chrismayer3919]

If Lumi is getting a complex, you don’t want the others in the herd getting that way; IMHO, things aren’t looking good for him…

[@barbarabisson2551]

They all look so happy together, as if they're doing a kind of equine field dance! Kool🙂

[@MyFaithsaysitall]

If only people were honest about animals. I was thinking as I watched the video, would you ever be able to put him in with all of the others. I can’t imagine the stress that you feel. You’ve got this. Praying for y’all.

[@LovuxTheGreat]

Personally, I think NOT selling Lumi is the smart action here. Shae can't just go "welp, he's too difficult, BYE BYE", because that would make her just as irresponsible as Lumi's previous owners. It's her *duty* to ensure her horses end up in the best possible forever homes, but with the way Lumi currently acts I think it would be extremely difficult to find a trainer with enough experience to handle a big and unpredictable horse like him. In addition to that, said trainer must have access to lots of land where Lumi can be accomodated with his own little bachelor herd. And even then it's not just about finding the right buyer either, Shae has to keep training Lumi and desensitize him so he's easier to handle. *If* Lumi ever leaves FSE, he HAS to be as safe horse as he can be, for the sake of humans and other horses and especially himself. I hope that Lumi eventually calms down since he has not been a gelding for very long, and I believe he's still young (around 7-8 I think?) so he might not be set in his ways yet... But that's not guaranteed, and since we won't know for sure until a few years have passed, the best thing for Shae is to do what she can for FSE, and for us to support her decisions. 👍

[@freespiritequestrian]

Yes this is how I feel currently. I love Lumiere and it’s not his fault or fair to him. Now I’m not saying he’s for sure a forever with this situation but my intention is not to sell him and I won’t anytime soon if ever. He would need to be way more trained and exposed etc. this will all work out I’m just keeping it real and sharing the struggles too ❤️

[@giovannagallottini]

Shae has to balance the safety of the horses AND people in her care vs. the extra precautions she needs to take with Lumi. Imagine if a student had been between Lumi and Lightning when Lumi started to charge (or even riding him???). There is no stopping a horse (very large to boot) in attack mode. It is ok that she will try to take extra precautions and basically modify the entire operation of the farm to fit Lumi, but the time will come (sooner rather than later) when she will have to consider whether it is worth or or not. Today Lumi cannot be ridden in the program (maybe never with students?) . SHae has admitted that had she known about Lumi's behavior she would have never bought him. But she knew he had been only recently gelded-very late! and that there were mares in that farm. She still went ahead because he looked like her "dream horse". Unfortunately that dream lately has been more like a nightmare for the farm. Bottom line: we should not assume that Lumi has no potential outside FSE. There are other facilities, owners and trainers where he can fit better, and be safer. Shae is a very ethical person and she will make full disclosures about Lumi should she decide to find another home for him. She even posted the video of Lumi attacking Lightning for anybody to see! Personally I do not think Shae and Kyle can wait until "a few years have passed" to make a decision about Lumi, but if she wants to wait a little longer to make sure she has evaluated all the options- more power to her. I have great respect for her as horsewoman and businesswoman.

[@JLynn680]

@@giovannagallottiniwell said! 💯 ❤

[@reptile_barbie]

Beauty has baby fever lol I bet she'd be a great mom to a foal of her own.

[@robertshrewsbury5067]

You are very thoughtful of giving horses time to adapt and settle in. It probably prevents a lot of stress and other problems.

[@patriciamountin9564]

I hardly recognized Ariel and Ezzie, they look so grown up!

[@margaretmayekar8761]

Lumi is very, very lucky he found his way to you. It is so common, and can be seen in some comments here, that others would move him along to be someone else’s problem which could result in him ending up in a bad situation.

[@brochquine]

Naveen is a heck of a looker. My heart still belongs to Beauty though.

[@sarahk3830]

Please don’t fret Shae, we understand and completely support if decisions need to be made in the best interest of our FSE herd/family. There is no doubt Lumiere will find his ideal situation with your blessing if you so choose. ❤

[@emilymerritt3420]

I just Love Prince Naveen!! He is just gorgeous and fabulous temperament. He obviously is my favorite😊

[@CynthiaDixon-sd7ep]

I bought a beautiful Paint for my husband. He's a beginner. The horse was sweet and great for beginners. HE became very aggressive around my other horses. Our Veterinarian did a testosterone test and it was high. Some people call it proud cut. I hope you figure it out. Much Love and Respect 🥰🥰🥰

[@sueflynn9886]

I love how you give new horses the time to acclimatise to their new environment and herd. Also taking time to get to know and understand their characters and skill base, it is wonderful to see the horse’s welfare is the utmost importance to you. Thank you for being so honest about the ups and downs of your horse world, it is why we love to watch your channel! ❤️

[@elisabetta611]

Part of me admires you for not giving up on Lumi while totally being upfront about the issues, risks and frustrations involved. This is extra important since, as of yet, Lightning has not been purchased. That does add extra complications to an already risky situation. I would fully understand if you chose to sell him down the line should this behavior persist/worsen. I do however fully trust your judgment, Shae, because you always try to decide what's best for the individual horse, your herd, your students and your family. Give Lumi more time to settle down and maybe check if there's an undescended you know what bc that COULD explain his behavior as well. (Though, knowing you, you've very likely had that checked by your vet already) Praying for more land/an awesome property to come your way!

[@FestiveEquestrian]

Don't get yourself down, Shae. You'll make it work, and you'll do what's best for each of your beautiful horses! Lumi has probably taught you so much about management and given you a new perspective on your journey. I'm so sorry the previous owners did you dirty and lied to your face. Absolutely awful. It's NOT your fault- it's 100% on them. You did your due diligence, and they still freaking lied! Don't be afraid to call people out, if only to help the next potential buyer. Shady horse sellers need to be outed and stopped.

[@pamskyland4444]

I agree. Too bad they don’t have a review that would fallow there every sale. So when they do someone wrong it will show for all to see. They might think twice before they blatantly mislead people as to a real story of a particular horse.

[@katieswarbrick-vq2wo]

I love your channel. Sadly I dont own a horse, non the less I sure get my fix watching you. I learn so much to. I dont often post comments, but I just wanted to let you know how amazing and special you are. The world need many more people like you in it Shae. You make me smile when Ia watch your updates. I smile outside AND inside. You are a good, warm, positive person. Dont ever let the nasty negative people get to you Shae. Your too good. Respect and love to you, Kyle and fsf. x😘

[@breebrat56]

0:23 Love how Penelope is just enjoying foraging & listening to you talk! ❤😊

[@catherinee.millard1831]

And that happy little tail! 😍

[@npepperc4437]

That was funny Mushu was like, bro I told you don’t mess with him. We all just don’t mess with Lumi. Now you did it you made him notice you. 😂😂 good luck, bro. I tried to stop you. 😅 I love Mushu. He’s so sweet and nosy. 😂

[@Grimmbaessu]

Naveen, Zazu, and Lightning, the three painted goofballs!

[@vickiwest7425]

Lightening is absolutely beautiful!

[@edunn2805]

I so appreciate how you talk to us, like friends that you can vent to, get it out, and then move on in your usual enthusiastic and positive way. There’s nothing fake about what you show us. It’s all real and honest and so interesting, informative, and enjoyable. You always want only the best for your herd.

[@kristinkester9392]

Lightning is such a sweetheart❤. Watching Lumiere go after him was really scary! You are an amazing horse woman, and I know you will make sure there is peace in your herd.

[@kerrismith7391]

A million highs & a million lows is just life. It does suck at times, but oh man, what a ride! You’re doing what you love. That is a big plus for all the crap that happens. Love how you keep it real. ❤

[@carolgroves4818]

Your herd is magnificent. Your dedication to the health and well being is outstanding. You have my respect. Kyle included. Free Spirit Equestrian is a work of love in the highest order.

[@mephista2246]

Beauty is such a wonderful Auntie to Ezzie and Ariel, it warms my heart everytime!

[@ivanejorland3930]

The mares are astoundingly gorgeous Shae just keep up the good enthusiasm

[@kimberlylee1329]

I am thrilled Jimini and Belle are good and the rest of the herd!! You are the best Shae!!

[@heartlesskitten88]

I would be pretty pissed off myself if I spent so much money on a horse that I was flat out lied to about. Lumi is lovely but it wasn't what you were wanting to buy. Have you contacted the seller since? Is there any recourse for the lies about Lumi's stud experience?

[@freespiritequestrian]

Yes I have. And there is no point, it is what it is and I don’t care anymore. He’s with me and honestly I feel bad he wasn’t given a proper start in life. He’s safe here and loved and none of this is his fault.

[@mollyragdollfan1917]

​@@freespiritequestrianjust a thought if you hadn't done so already. Check the testosterone in Lumiere. Maybe he was a cryptorchid and not gelded properly? Maybe a retained 🥥 somewhere? These things have happened to other equestrians.

[@elainejude4616]

Moshu is whispering in lightnings ear about Lumiare being the Boss or thinking he is!

[@christianlutes5593]

Hang in there, it’s never easy. Lumiere will hopefully acclimate with time but there is the possibility that he may never do well in a herd dynamic. You are doing a fine job, give him lots of time.

[@barbaradesimone5995]

These Horses are so INTENSE! They sure have Awesome Personalities! Lumi is OVERWHELMING! SHAE YOUR HERD YOUR RULES! You always do what's best for the Herd! We care about you Shae 💞 I love this Family you have built. Your the Best ❤️

[@What2B]

Thank you Shae for the beautiful and interesting share. 🍎🐎🍏

[@mariannebailey2574]

I’m so sorry about Lumiere. We support any decision you have to make even if you have to sell him.

[@seanmueller556]

They were ALL warning Lighting about the big guy with the hair-do!!

[@LaLaLucky7777]

I hate moving! Moving is a serious situation! I am moving right now ! It's a total disruption! Hopefully in 6 months I am settled ! But keep the great vibes and videos coming! Congrats

[@sandybowers5085]

Shae, I am so sorry that Lumi’s previous owner didn’t give you full disclosure on Lumi’s background. I know you will do what is best for him and FSE❣️You are an amazing person. Thanks so much for sharing the ups and downs of running a horse farm. I have learned so much because of your passion and authenticity ❣️💯🥰Sending positivity your way❣️

[@Revtyme7]

Whatever you decide. Praying the Lord blesses you with the land of your dreams for the love and care you give. The perfect solution to the situation.

[@sistek133]

Thank you for protecting Lightning

[@brendaredmond4678]

The other horses deserve to feel safe, happy, and not threatened by an aggressive horse. I know Lightning wasn't hurt in that encounter, but it was stressful for me to watch, and I'm just sitting here on my couch! I can't imagine how it must make you feel.

[@kingagrabinski8849]

Lumi is not aggressive in a negative way. He acts like most stallions do when protecting mares and resources. And maybe he saw a threat in Lightning. Horses are like people, they do not necessary get along with all other horses. Many factors must be taken into consideration. So yes, Lumi had an aggressive behaviour towards Lightning but he is not an aggressive horse per say.

[@M28287]

Hi what’s time stap is it?

[@mrswoodbrooke]

@@M28287 14:45

[@mrswoodbrooke]

@@kingagrabinski8849 Lumi isnt a stallion and he wasnt aggressive. He was establishing the herd dynamic, its literally the instinct so horses can survive

[@brendaredmond4678]

@mrswoodbrooke I am going by what Shae said. I think she knows better than you. They basically lied to her when she bought him. She was told he didn't have stud or stallion behavior. She wouldn't have bought him if she'd known.