Freestyle with Love is Blind’s Marshall Glaze | The Viall Files w/ Nick Viall

[@annab0511]

It’s amazing how Jackie has no problem demonizing Marshall and yet he is giving her so much grace when he is free to go in on her …..tells a whole lot

[@bobococo89]

That’s what I’m saying. It’s weird people are still finding holes at Marshall…

[@epiphanyperry1877]

Thats her character

[@flowerbommbxx]

That’s so respectful of him

[@genesisgil3994]

So freaking respectful 😭

[@slondiletshabalala5709]

Dude! He's not perfect but the grace and respect? I'm in awe!

[@veronicachav7647]

This is so much better then the reunion. Please interview the rest of the cast lol

[@donteverfckwithmyvibe]

I second this! He did interview a few people from previous seasons, they were good as well

[@sunlight-ok9dr]

Absolutely

[@honestreview169]

Nick is ok.. there are better host out there

[@jennwatson4634]

Interview Micah!!

[@zafikamkhwanazi5843]

Bret and Tiffany plus Bliss and Zack.

[@laurenbanister6805]

i love that he didn’t try to overly bad mouth n talk shit abt jackie and josh. he just kept it real, said his side n left all the extra shit out. mature n emotionally stable king

[@erikstone2321]

Closeted gay man!

[@RockyAllPurpose]

@@erikstone2321 real sad

[@TRAGICWAVES]

@@erikstone2321 lmao but most gay men are MESSY so b fr

[@AmandaSVida]

@@erikstone2321 JACKIE, WHAT ARE YOU DOING HERE??!

[@ab6551]

And gay

[@pahoualor9699]

11:32 Marshall starts 33:35 Marshall pt 2 57:25 Marshall pt 3

[@Fabianxx32]

I love you❤

[@themysticwarriorgal9465]

❤

[@mariew5326]

thank you

[@EllLeslie]

Cluuuuuuutch lol

[@JadaLW818]

May your pillow stay cool at night ♥️

[@adrienneedwards8844]

This was a really good interview. I like that he held Marshall accountable but didn’t attack him the way Vanessa did.

[@ourgiftisLOVE]

😮 how did Vanessa attack him???

[@ezzb]

​@@ourgiftisLOVE did you watched the reunion? She didn't ATTACK, but kinda.. she had 0 energy towards Jackie, barely asked anything.. but whit marshall she was way harder like he was in the wrong??! to the point that got uncomfortable to watch. The entire reunion was cringe af

[@HopeAndrea_HFG]

@@ezzb Vanessa was AWFUL

[@kaylawhitehall3544]

@@ezzb I agree the reunion was whack. They didn’t hold Jackie accountable for her behavior at all. And they were also kind of like that with Paul and Micah.

[@honestreview169]

Nick kind of threw in some shade and talked down on him because Marshall is younger. That’s the only thing I didn’t like

[@TimeBucks]

Better than the reunion

[@ghazalafareed4733]

Nice

[@LifeChang]

Thumb up

[@robin.monique]

Right?!

[@jannatulferdos1170]

DO NOT POST ANY REPLY! DO NOT MENTION ANYTHING ABOUT TIMEBUCKS.

[@MrCph2200]

That’s a huge understatement

[@ellebom]

I have no respect for Jackie. She was questioning his sexuality publicly & privately so I'm glad Marshall is finally having a chance to speak.

[@modelk25]

Questioning someone’s sexuality privately. Someone you are planning to marry and spend the rest of your life with was not wrong. If she was concerned she had the right to bring it up and address it. She was wrong to not just bring it to him but to tell her friends. That part was nasty.

[@PRODbyKingDavis]

@@modelk25 we know the context was evil…. Jackie is wrong!!!!

[@margaretcraig1598]

Amen Marshall speak Your truth! I pray for you that God will bless you with loving companion who will love you!🙏🏼💕

[@lisah8438]

​@@modelk25 Jackie was still wrong

[@sherilicious6446]

@@modelk25 As a viewer I can see things in Marshall that leads me to understand why she would question. Even at the reunion. Sorry IJS 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@msnandimarie7023]

Brett understands struggle. He also observed his father lovingly deal with his wife's mental struggles and remained beside her. That's what shaped him. He had the most important person in his life demonstrate unconditional love. We NEEDED to hear more from Brett and Tiffany during the reunion.

[@malyss3]

Agreed! I feel like many could learn from their success in this experience. Especially, Brett! That's where the story really should have been focused, right? Tiffany can totally guide women who are her age and have to wait for their person. I know how she must have felt before she found gold. Brett definitely landed gold as well. Seems Tiffany is a gem. They're so sweet.

[@Tasha8626]

Exactly!! That’s a TRUE example of unconditional love we do not see. Especially within the black community demonstrated in this day and age on daytime television. I honestly think that’s part of the reason they didn’t want to focus on Brett and Tiffany during the reunion. It didn’t fit the narrative of struggle love.

[@casiedomingos5197]

They ha done measly segment no I was HEATED!!!

[@musetimeful7892]

Please interview them on the podcast 😊

[@VashtiPerry]

Yes I longed for much more from them.

[@Starr_Gazerr]

Marshall is a class act. Jackie took all the internet hate she received and used it to attack Marshall while Marshall constantly protected her. It speaks volumes to his character. Wishing the best for him.

[@erikstone2321]

Class acts don’t call women trannies. 🙄

[@tritamtran7264]

ok

[@giangtran-to6tb]

ok

[@lifewithyenkosi1922]

I love how Nick cautioned Marshall on how " attempting to make Jackie better" and how it can come off as condescending. Nick's approach was so gentle and Marshall immediately recognized it and was able to see how he was projecting. Both of these men are so mature and emotionally intelligent.

[@kingaustin6985]

I agree with everything you said but I have a question. How come if the roles were reversed and a woman in a relationship with a man and she attempts to make her boyfriend better people mostly would not tell her or caution her that it can be condescending for her to do that but they tell men or caution men that trying to make their girlfriend better can come off as condescending?

[@Youokhun]

@@kingaustin6985 it happens all the time - the whole “you can’t fix him” trope is been around years whereby it’s a cautionary tail about getting with a guy thinking you can change him and you’ll always get hurt cause you need to love him for who he is - you can’t change him

[@kingaustin6985]

@@Youokhun they rarely tell her that it can come off as condescending though and that's the point

[@sebastiaanv]

@@kingaustin6985 they do.

[@kingaustin6985]

@@sebastiaanv no they don't

[@sunflowersentimientos]

I appreciate Nick, for gently letting Marshall know that he doesn't neeeeeeed to be captain save a h** lmao

[@bobococo89]

I don’t like this guy but I’m glad he did too

[@sarahthenwankwo]

no fr because like i feel like sometimes it not genuine and its okay to not always be happy for someone who has wronged you or be captain save a hoe. like just be honest whether that invovles being mean by default

[@WilliamsPinch]

I want to know what gives these people the authority to even suggest that they’re in a position to fix someone. That’s such a weird quality to try to impose yourself on romantic partners in that way.

[@daniellesimone7939]

​@@sarahthenwankwo or maybe he really has let it go. Its been a year

[@joanna0988]

​@@WilliamsPinch I don't think it's conscious behaviour. I was like this in my 20s too because I pulled myself through so much and overcame a lot of obstacles so when I saw someone struggling I was like ok I can be there for you because I didn't have that when I needed it. Now I went to therapy and learned that everyone is responsible for their own feelings and growth and now I just let people know I'm here if they need it 🤷

[@leggs4113]

Marshall may not have gotten a wife but he found a great friend in Brett. The way they speak about each other is amazing.

[@chele4real453]

Marshall should be the next Bachelor… he already has a following… it would be a hit

[@lolamar6064]

No, he’s too boring

[@ziiiiiiii754]

@@lolamar6064 what bachelor isn’t boring?

[@brittanyalexissinger]

He would be perfect

[@Itstoolate-q7g]

​@@lolamar6064

[@rays.3242]

Love Marshall but no more Colton's

[@iampamkayks]

Jackie used her family as an excuse. She wasn’t attracted to Marshall and that is totally fine, but just say that! Jackie wanted OUT; and of course her family dynamics didn’t prevent her from being in a relationship with Josh; so we know it was all excuses because Marshall just wasn’t her type.

[@ahmorgan]

Truuuuuuu

[@Anacaonas_Flowers]

Exactly! I think that’s what makes her so unlikeable. She uses fuckboy tactics. Instead of just being honest about her feelings- she prefers to play with his emotions, nitpicks to try and find ways to blame things on him in order to absolve herself from the guilt of stringing him along, keeps him in limbo/ guessing/ not knowing what she wants, and when it’s over tries to paint him as the villain/crazy one in-order to validate her choices and new relationship.

[@ahmorgan]

@Francheska you just stated everything wrong with what Jackie has been doing.

[@jwilliams7477]

Exactly!!!!! ALL of what you said.

[@brandybaker3280]

Idk how she isn’t attracted to him, he is very attractive!

[@kpuk_ix]

Better than the reunion 🙄🙄

[@SerialNapper]

SO much better!

[@isabellaelizarraras8276]

Tell me about it, the reunion was TRASH! I hated the way they were questioning Marshall and Paul if I’m being honest. Also, they didn’t let people speak. I don’t care about the follow up questions… we there for the cast and not the hosts.

[@kierrataylor8344]

I haven’t even watched this interview yet and I 100% believe you lol

[@jordanmontague6]

I have only watched 30 seconds of this podcast so far and can already agree with you that I just know it will be better. A rat could have interviewed the cast and been better than the unhinged Vanessa Lachey.

[@slondiletshabalala5709]

Glad I didn't watch it. This is the actual reunion 👏🔥

[@Blabla-li6bg]

This has an offensive amount of ads and yet its STILL better than the reunion

[@acd1168]

Just because you see potential in someone doesn’t mean they see it in themselves. I made that mistake once and never again.

[@donteverfckwithmyvibe]

Amen 🙌 "Don't fall in love with someone's potential"

[@whitenoiseforrelaxationstu9090]

So true.

[@acd1168]

@@donteverfckwithmyvibe Don't do it. Accept people for who they are or don't be with them.

[@joanna0988]

Yes and they'll be mad at you for it too 😅

[@MandyWasHere]

Soooooo true!!!

[@moej9624]

Marshall is literally everything. So emotionally intelligent, mature and kind. Such a king!

[@nader85021]

11:32 is where we start with marshall

[@alexandria4401]

Thank you😂🎉

[@care-a-lot1051]

THANK YOU WTF😂

[@acd1168]

Thanks 🙏🏾

[@alexism1470]

😇😇😇😇

[@Stormy575]

🙏🙏🙏

[@tracyjohnson9000]

The undeserved grace that he's still giving Jackie shows you exactly what an amazing person he is!!!

[@Airmelvin]

and that was her favorite line " we need to give each other grace" she said it so many times🙄

[@tynie626]

i'm praying that somehow Nick is able to get Jackie on this show too because he is asking all the right questions

[@samiam5434]

She won’t . A coward

[@dianna0307]

I was really about to say the same thing. She won't; she's not accountable.

[@SpottedTiger89]

I think the best thing is that no one give a platform to Jackie at this point. She also doesn't seem interested in using other platforms besides her own because on her platform, she gets to control the narrative. Plus, she just does not seem stable enough to have a conversation/interview. I question her mental health and think she should not have been on LIB at all.

[@hbj8991]

I was thinking the same thing but honestly I changed my mind within seconds. She had not only her chance to speak, but also the comfortable chance to speak alone with vanessa without confrontation unlike Marshall had to face at the reunion. She already got more of a chance than she ever deserved. I don’t think we need to hear anything else from her. It will either be already-said regurgitated lies or new lies to shape her narrative that she is not the villain in her own origin story TBH.

[@jking-]

She didn't have no balls to go to the reunion so she won't have no balls to comw on nick show

[@susievelasquez4988]

What Marshall did for Jackie is what REAL MEN DO, she was upset that he wasn’t a toxic man and wasn’t keeping her on her toes, he didn’t talk bad about her, he is telling his side, I’m so happy she pushed him away because he does not need that toxic relationship with her, he is mature emotionally and mentally!

[@carolinasouth3117]

Real men force a connection????

[@Birdyboys]

@@carolinasouth3117 where did they say any of that bro

[@kingaustin6985]

​@@carolinasouth3117 he did not force anything but nice try 😂😂

[@whiteInk-fm4tt]

@@carolinasouth3117 They don't seem to get it.

[@WilliamsPinch]

@@carolinasouth3117 exactly 😂 real men don’t move like Marshall.

[@SerenityAtLast87]

So glad Marshall got the platform he deserved. Not saying everything he did was correct but hearing his side of the story was very interesting. The difference in how he tells how things went down and how Jackie did in her interviews just proves her immaturity level. Hope he continues to grow and learn and find his better half.

[@abigailm.b.williams7413]

Agree with u fully.

[@reneewoodside45]

Marshall is such a reality tv breathe of fresh air. Love that he is just his authentic self and doesnt give a crap how he will be perceived.

[@wenziedube4616]

I'm glad he got a chance to speak, seeing as Vanessa attacked him at that reunion.

[@terrycrews1760]

Wait when? I don’t remember her attacking him but I do remember her attacking Paul.

[@arianalg2020]

Nick should host the reunion. I love how real he is! Answered all my questions

[@rays.3242]

Lol you're joking right????? Let nick stick to the rivers and lakes that he is used to

[@macarmenadoree]

I was thinking the same thing!

[@Chatgirlrak]

@@rays.3242 lmaooooo 💀

[@brown14suga]

​@Ray S. Can we agree that he can at least help with the questions? His nosiness is gets answers lol

[@rays.3242]

@@brown14suga Nick is really messy ill give you that....I wish we could get Wendy Williams out of retirement she would unravel it all

[@sydneysheen]

Thank you Nick for challenging Marshall on the topic of “bettering yourself” because you’re right… it could come across as “she’s not doing enough” Marshall, you’re a gem and an awesome representation of what a healed black man look like! Best of luck to you! You’ve got this!

[@erikstone2321]

If you mean closeted black man sure he excels at that!!! Just like most! I literally can’t walk through a black neighborhood without almost every black man checking me out and wanting to f*ck me. I feel sorry for black women. Y’all so blind!!!

[@terrycrews1760]

Yea that was probably THE gem of this interview. In an indirect way I do feel like he fathered a few strangers in that moment (myself included) bc sometimes we that are ambitious and driven need to take time to pause and listen more than we speak. We need to stop trying to fix people also who either didn’t asked to be fixed or quite honestly don’t need fixing but we erroneously think they do.

[@suras8984]

@@terrycrews1760 I also really liked that part of the interview. Pushing someone to go further in their career before asking them if they even want to do that can make that person feel like you think where they are at is not enough.

[@megansm2]

There's a difference between should and could. I don't think there is anything wrong with what he said, but depending on the mindset of that person, it may come off as pushy. That was a great idea for Nick to challenge Marshall to take some time and think about how he approaches a future conversation like that, but only kids (young children) need to be handled with kid gloves. Jackie is grown. She could have stated her reasons for not wanting to advance if that's what she chose not to do.

[@sydneysheen]

@@megansm2 I agree with you. She could definitely communicate that. We don’t know if she did. Maybe that’s not her passion. However, he’s still pushing his beliefs of “could ofs and should ofs” She was literally in the middle of studying to advance when he came into her life, barely knowing her or her struggles, trying to share what she “could be” or “should be” be doing. Nothing wrong with voicing that you want your partner to elevate, however she was already in the middle of elevating to the next step. You have to meet ppl where they are in a relationship, and understand how they got there. Also becoming an anesthesiologist can be at least 10yrs worth of school. Maybe that’s not what she wanted

[@britj14]

Brett mentioned just a few times about his moms mental illness. I think growing up with that experience gives you more understanding and that’s where he gets that skill of listening without needing to ‘fix’.

[@sunlight-ok9dr]

Good point

[@loveafrica97]

I do remember him talking about his dad sticking it out with his mom for years. So maybe his dad is the blueprint

[@samsylvia1036]

@@loveafrica97 I like your wording on this.

[@Notapplicable-e2m]

Makes sense

[@JennaLoomar]

I love the whole convo at 50:00 because it’s such a learned behavior to want to fix and push someone to meet their potential and feel like it’s showing you care when in reality you aren’t holding space for what the other person wants or feels.

[@epiphanyperry1877]

I think that would be true here except Jackie expressed a desire to be better do things differently. Marshall's mistake was thinking he could help her heal and be her motivation . This is a lesson to everyone who is compassionate and healed. You can care for someone but you shouldn't be with them if they haven't done their work and demonstrated that they've mastered many of the skills necessary. Anyone can talk about who they want to be but few actually do the work

[@Anacaonas_Flowers]

Excellent point. A lot of people pleasers feel the need to constantly fix people that don’t need to or want to be changed. Not everyone has the same goals and values. Also it’s not always the case where they are doing it solely for the other persons best intentions. Sometimes it’s actually to make themselves feel better, or superior, etc. You see this a lot with self-proclaimed nice guys who actually are just operating from a self- serving place. It’s important for people pleasers to unpack the reasons why they feel the need to constantly fix people, bc if left unchecked it can lead them down a path of resentment, self righteousness, or even make them manipulative.

[@WilliamsPinch]

@@Anacaonas_Flowers yes!

[@WorldBossJodz]

Marshall has been disrespected and slighted so many times and is still so objective, genuine and kind! Beautiful soul 💛

[@cheolranghae3818]

Marshall’s careful with what he says because he doesn’t want to hurt anybody. He can spill on Jackie but he’s the bigger person. Mannn, respect. 👏🏻👏🏻

[@shavonaford]

I love how Nick is such a good listener and allows his guest to fully articulate their thoughts. I also love how he asks permission before giving advice. I really liked the advise he gave regarding acknowledging your partner for their strengths instead of telling them about what they can do next in their career is so relatable. I’m a dental assistant and I dont want to go back to school to be a dentist. I’m happy with the career I chose and will grow in different ways i desire.

[@Frioxo]

This season has the potential to have the best reunion ever cause the show and the cast gave everything, but ofc the host had to lack last min

[@adaobieisreading]

If only Jackie wasn’t a coward

[@andedom]

The whole cast was just focused on being PC and protecting their image. No host was going to change that. Look at Kwame, Chelsea and Micah. They weren’t trying to get into conflict. They were just focused on their narrative.

[@Radiance230]

@@andedom thank you!!!! Vanessa is getting so much flack. But the cast gave the most PC non transparent answers that made things less interesting. You’re pointing to Kwame Chelsea and Micah. But the fan favorites also have a lot of well crafted and rehearsed answers. Also, it may help if the time between wrapping the season and filming the reunion is shortened.

[@andedom]

@@Radiance230 agreed, I even felt like Brett and Tiffany seemed like they might be kinda going through a rough patch but they weren’t going to let on about it…

[@Radiance230]

@@andedom the surface level depiction of Brett and Tiffany bothered me all season actually. I just know that’s a very unpopular opinion since everyone loves them as a couple, But I desired much more depth from them in terms of the evolution of their relationship which only naturally probably has BOTH highs and lows. Her move to Portland, at age 36, with having her support system in Seattle probably has been very challenging. But none of that was explored or unpacked. Wrapped up in a prefect “Brett gives great dates” bow.

[@user-pd8lc3ow6x]

Nick is so mature now. It’s so good to see him gently let Marshall know where he could’ve grown.

[@megansm2]

It seems like there were some things he could learn from Marshall too. "Unwilling with toxic traits" vs "being toxic", Marshall saying he's genuinely happy for her relationship w/ Josh vs Nick saying he didn't have to be, etc.

[@user-pd8lc3ow6x]

@@megansm2 I think Nick said that because it’s more natural to not be happy for the people who cause you pain. The hurt in Marshall’s voice and his body language at the reunion gave me the impression that he was not truly over this situation because Jackelina kept refusing to give him closure. Hard to be happy for anyone with that mindset. But he likely just wants to move on and for all of this to die so he says that he wants her to be happy and move forward.

[@ER-xg4md]

I want parenting tips from Marchalls mom. She raised a good man 👏

[@epiphanyperry1877]

She sure did

[@giftyabayem7508]

No doubt

[@victoriaenglish750]

For sure ❤

[@erikstone2321]

She raised a closeted gay man 🤣🤣🤣

[@Ninialiindaaa08]

I know!! 😭 I can’t believe Jackie couldn’t see the great man he is and chose Josh over him… that’s why I say they deserve each other! I wish I could meet my Marshall 😭😭

[@shaunaguglielmo]

It's so refreshing to hear two men who are confident in their masculinity, can talk about feelings, and aren't in competition with each other.

[@ciaras3170]

I love marshall cus he is definitely keeping it real. He’s had multiple opportunities to try to make her look worse cus the way they show depicted things leaves it open for interpretation but he’s got so much integrity and I love that❤

[@joanna0988]

He could definitely make shit up and we'd believe it because Jackie has acted so immaturely and been cruel to him.

[@kalikayy]

This interview just confirms that the reunion was pointless. I just need these types of interviews 💯

[@longdistancedisneypodcast2704]

We love a mature and caring, pancake-making KING 👑

[@erikstone2321]

Who calls women trannies... Got it. Some “king” 🤣🤣🤣 Definitely a peasant!!!

[@Danesspace]

Not just pancakes, COMPOTE

[@KT-dp6vq]

Righhhhhtttt! Can we normalize the Marshalls of the world?!! 😩😩😩😩

[@wearenotpoetsx]

@@Danesspace COMPOTE!!!! I was so impressed.

[@raritysmagic8545]

She didn’t make you feel safe. I think that’s the MOST IMPORTANT THING in a relationship.. you really deserve that. Honestly you WON MARSHALL 💜💜💜💜💜 she is a project and one you don’t need

[@melisarose7052]

Marshals level of intelligence is so captivating he's not for an ordinary woman whomever gets him will have to be at that level otherwise it won't work

[@Stormy575]

Agreed! He needs intelligent, mature and self-aware

[@epiphanyperry1877]

Agreed!! He needs and deserves a woman as emotionally intelligent and serious about love as he is.

[@matariki9818]

the thing is, i'm not sure he is attracted yet by a woman on that level. He does have a savior complex, and the whole "i fall in love with a potential" and "i see you as a project" says a lot about his character. Don't get me wrong, Jackie is the villain in their story, but he also definitely needs to grow and learn to fall for his equal, instead of going for a girl he thinks he can save.

[@melisarose7052]

@@matariki9818 could be a result of how his dad pounded down on him as a child making him feeling like he's nothing now his validation comes from being mr savior to get praised

[@angeleyes3386]

@@melisarose7052 Some people don’t help others to get praised, some just have empathy and believe in humanity and second chances

[@duparcg]

Marshall is a class act. He still did not badmouth Jackie

[@jking-]

He should had badmouth

[@ms.braiderlyfe2476]

I'm literally 14 minutes in and I already know this is going to be better then the reunion

[@yeniajete8501]

Marshall is such a gem. The grace he gave Jackie even after everything is amazing. I love his emotional maturity. He and Brett are such top tier men. And shoutout to Nick for his A1 interview skills and for his growth.

[@Themariacomplex]

He’s so emotionally mature wow… she really wasn’t ready to work on herself is what it seems and it was easier to choose Josh than to learn accountability and healthy love behaviors

[@flyersgirl929]

Marshall dodged a bullet for sure

[@suras8984]

I think her and Josh are a perfect match. The disparity between her and Marshall is too great. She is ghetto and immature and speaks like a teenager from the hood. She was attracted to Josh at the moment when he was disgustingly intoxicated, sloppy, abnoxious and embarrassing. That is what turned her on and made her nipples hard as she says. That says a lot about a person. There is nothing that she could work on to be compatable for Marshall. They are on different levels and different planets.

[@slondiletshabalala5709]

I am shamelessly ready to marry Marshall, flaws and all😭 This man still talks about Jackie with so much respect and grace? Gosh! I'm sold, again! ❤

[@VashtiPerry]

😂😂😂😂😂❤

[@WilliamsPinch]

Doubt most of the women holding the line for him are his type.

[@raymondh5456]

Slide into his IG DMs!😅 fingers crossed you guys vibe

[@dedecampbell5879]

Thank God Nick for asking the questions Vanessa should've asked. Like yeah it's only an hour reunion but these should've been asked and she should've asked Jackie the same thing. Team Marshall never changed. His self awareness is attractive. He will be alright 💜

[@alinakarimova14]

can i just say, put simply, how refreshing it is to watch two men have such an emotionally mature and self-aware conversation? my favorite episode of the love is blind contestants hands down

[@keacful]

I liked Marshall on LIB but this interview solidified how mature and understanding he really is. I hope he finds the one for him! He deserves love and happiness.

[@leratomakibinyane8877]

What Nick said at the 50 minute mark was so insightful. Sometimes suggestions are well intentioned but definitely make the other person feel less than. That was solid advice.

[@marisolnavarro8357]

Agreed! I had to learn this! Along with the stop seeing potential in people

[@yulitza.0198]

I’m here just for Marshall 😊

[@epiphanyperry1877]

Me toooooo

[@adaobieisreading]

What else would you be here for

[@juliette13101]

Honestly Marshal came across even more sincere and graceful in this podcast. Great guy ❤ he didn’t deserve this but I’m sure he’s grown a lot through all of it, good vibes only ❤️

[@strongenoughtent]

Nick is such a great interviewer-he makes everyone feel comfortable and just spill the tea

[@leahharing6916]

I agree I just wish he would sit up a little

[@Greenhumanclay]

And get to the point his questions are long winded at times.

[@corikenya4766]

This was actually better than the reunion 😭

[@2013Kenya]

This is such a great convo between men! It's honest and positive without putting others down.

[@shavonna2188]

i love that Marshall was able to have a safe space to speak his truth!! this host was amazing and he should work as a host on the netflix shows! he wasn’t bias at all and gave solid advice! great interview!!

[@marleyyates2995]

WE NEED MORE MARSHALL'S IN THIS WORLD

[@WilliamsPinch]

🥴 I hope you’re not registered to vote.

[@RadiantAnaileh]

This host is A+. Thank you for doing a great job going into deep questions, being empathetic to Marshall, but also calling him out for trying to be savior. Take notes, Vanessa

[@Jackie-hn4yp]

It's very telling how Marshall is respectful about the conversations he has in private... But Josh and Jackie and posting messages left and right trying to defend themselves... ALSO CAN WE PLEASE GET A PAUL EPISODE!!

[@donteverfckwithmyvibe]

They're scrambling. It shows desperation. Marshall is just unbothered and he's coming out looking sooo much better

[@Jackie-hn4yp]

@@donteverfckwithmyvibe definitely! I didn’t like how Josh posted messages of him and Marshall talking about how they were good friends, but Marshall was great in saying those messages are between him and I and it should stay that way.. he’s definitely emotionally mature.

[@KingdomTingz]

Factsssss

[@eatingwithkarly]

Nick should be hosting the next round of the LIB reunion. His probing is spot-on and asks the correct questions!

[@TheSmittyShoww]

Nick gave great advice in a grace way and I love how Marshall is so mature and loves advice

[@shadysnapshot]

Honestly, some of nick's advice was condescending and not asked for ngl. Marshall already knew where he stood and I agreed with him on almost everything. Nick was trying to act like because hes older he automatically knows more and took on this "im the older you" thing. Ex: Nick arguing that a whole person is toxic as opposed to them having toxic traits? huh? Also him saying you can't fix people while trying to correct and fix Marshall in the same breath lol

[@They3nvy.Al3na]

@@shadysnapshotI agree with you especially the thing at the add with the girls new guy old flame thing

[@rejoicemwingfield4169]

We don’t get guys like Marshall nowadays, bless him for the person he is.. so mature, gotta respect this guy💯❤️

[@unapologeticallyme4507]

The mere fact that Jackie called him a “Tonto” made my blood boil. She’s EXTREMELY disrespectful she’s a liar and she needs to remember that karma is a B. She called this man my stupid. She NEVER wanted him. She displayed that immediately after seeing him. I’m glad he is not with her, he deserves so much better

[@someperson5199]

I’m not a Spanish speaker. I watched that scene with my sister in law who is Colombian and her mouth dropped. I was like “ooohhh that’s playful right??!” She was shocked and told me in no way would she like her fiancé to call her tonta in private or on national tv. Jeez she’s rough

[@donteverfckwithmyvibe]

That's right, Ihad forgotten about that! I remember thinking: "is she a 'no Sabo' kid?" Because that's actually very disrespectful, if you know Spanish well, you know not to call people that. It's never cute. You can call them other stuff that would be cute, but not tonto

[@unapologeticallyme4507]

My parents are Caribbean, I speak fluent Spanish and wanted to jump through the screen. I was shocked. She truly needs counseling she has a lot of inner demons she has to deal with. She degraded this man in every way possible. My Brooklyn side wanted to have a meeting with her lol. She needed to know how disrespectful she is and how she looked on TV.

[@indiefairy09]

@@someperson5199 oh wow! Good to know. I didn’t pick up on that at all

[@romiiivique1292]

I speak Spanish at home because I was born in South America in Uruguay to be exact and my parents only speak Spanish I’m in Miami though but when she said that about him I was like ooooh god wtf 😳 and then I thought ooo she’s about to do whatever she wants with this guy and she’s already making me cringe she swears she can get whoever she wants and do whatever she wants with the person but she actually can only get the ghetto nasty men it sucks that because of this show Marshall had to be one of her casualties but look she ended up who she was supposed to let’s see how that mess ends and Marshall has now a huge following HE CAN GET WHOEVER HE SO CHOOSES NOW BECAUSE WE ALL SEE HIM FOR WHO HE IS AND THATS A MAN THATS A REAL MAN WHOEVER GETS MARSHALL IS ONE LUCKY GIRL AHEM WOMAN ACTUALLY ❤

[@kaylalee3577]

Marshall is such a good guy. The way he answers these questions with such respect when Jackie was been nothing but disrespectful shows how emotionally mature he is. He’ll find his person.

[@kedo]

I love that he didn’t try to overly bad mouth n talk shit abt Jackie and josh. he just kept it real, said his side n left all the extra shit out.

[@nkosmarv839]

Marshall is soo Smart,I’m actually proud of his parenting and the way he was raised.He so graceful and you can see that he’s not pretending to be a good person that’s just who he is The fact that he didn’t say anything bad about her baffles me and he’s won me, I wish him all the best and he deserves so much love❤ We need men like this guy.

[@courtneyrey94]

Respect for Marshall...he dealt with alooot and to just simply want to move on at the reunion..pure maturity 👏

[@KatherineF0322]

Marshall is a class act. So respectful. He speaks for himself and doesn’t stoop to Jackie’s level (even though it would be easy to do). I agree with him about not labeling people. You can call out someone actions, but attacking their character is a different story. He is mature and ready to find love and will find a very lucky girl that treats him right.

[@gavipositano4774]

Thank you for doing this interview! Marshall deserves so much and more

[@HairWithCharJ]

Now this is a good interviewer, he got Marshall to clear up things that we were hoping Vanessa woulda pulled out of him.

[@fabibibine]

So Jackie never told him about her father!? Did she ever have the intention of marrying him...

[@epiphanyperry1877]

I think that's just an excuse

[@sidoniadaniella]

I think she was just that immature. I’ve dealt with ppl like this who don’t know how to be vulnerable and will take years to open up even the slightest.

[@indiva02]

I LOVE Marshall!! This interview was so satisfying. As we all know the reunion definitely fell flat. This interview on the other hand addressed everything that needed to be addressed and everything that needed to be said was said. Love that! Its pretty admirable how Marshall is willing to be accountable for any of his actions that may not have been the best. I love how open he is to learn and grow from it. That was even evidenced by how receptive he was to hearing advice from Nick. Marshall is just such a beautiful soul. Great interview!!!

[@duparcg]

You know Jackie is watching this and about to update her story to make a point lol. What a weirdo wanting acceptance after acting crazy on TV

[@anon82310]

like the toxic she is

[@tyisamess]

Evil never rests

[@epiphanyperry1877]

Her behavior is so TRASH

[@na_6910]

Lol Josh beat her to it. All Marshal debunked is that the coffee date happened after. He was very clear that suspects there may have been off camera meetings prior to that he wasn’t aware of. My spidey senses are leaning that way too

[@SheaButterBaby999]

@@na_6910 what did josh say?

[@dejalewis5239]

Omg! The point Nick made about the comments on her career! That was so well articulated. I feel the same when people ask me about going to law school as a paralegal.

[@bree1422]

I really liked that as well. I would feel bad about myself if someone made comments like this as well.

[@alondrac3829]

thank goodness someone finally used their platform to let this man say his truth 🥹🫶🏻 they treated him so poorly at the reunion

[@ashleyc.8378]

51:23 Thank you for that. Coming from someone who works in the medical field and is always pressured to become a nurse (I’m a certified nursing assistant) I have always been pressured by my peers and family. And you are the first person to understand what that feels like.

[@delilahcruz963]

Okay after this interview I love Marshall even more! 💕😌

[@humanityabovehumans5380]

Nick. WE WANT YOU AS A LOVE IS BLIND REUNION HOST!!!! Someone get the Lacheys outta here. I've never commented on any of your podcasts before, but I need to say my unsollicited piece and command you guys once and for all for the quality of your show. I'm one of the rare listeners/viewers of the podcast from Morocco. I cannot thank you enough, along with the household, for your listening skills, your awareness, your emotional intelligence, your ability to shed light on the right spots and tackle important topics while creating a safe space for your hosts, I truly don't think people realize how much skill, work and talent it takes to do that. Now onto LIB. THANK YOU FOR INVITING MARSHALL FIRST. When everybody was praising Marshall for his emotional intelligence which we can all see clearly and witness, you Nick remained lucid while celebrating that in him to, when you said he is also only human and probably also needs to work on himself and the fact that you two are having this conversation as 2 self-aware men in the 21st century is an amazing thing to see. In the reunion, the only person that wronged people and who actually had an exemplary behavior was SURPRISINGLY and I never thought I would say this, Irina. We can all agree to say she has no excuses and her behavior on the show was totally unappropriate and mean. I still dislike her as a person, but there's only so much you know about a reality TV star I feel like, and what we've seen these past few days is a willingness from her to be honest and upfront and confront her demons ON NATIONAL TELEVISION, which takes a lot. So still not rooting for such a bully, but at least she took accountability for ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING. And that is because Vanessa Lachey and her poor hosting skills wanted to drift the attention from mean girl number 2, Micah, and prick number 1, Jackie, to Irina, Zack and Bliss, and then to Chealsea and Kwame, when the TEA and the DRAMA in LOVE IS BLIND SEASON 4 REVOLVES AROUND JACKIE, and INCLUDES Micah and Irina. PAUL AND MARSHALL lead with grace, integrity and maturity through all of it. First LOVE IS BLIND season where we can actually agree to say that all the men are somewhat emotionally available and hold themselves accountable for things (we had Cameron obviously on Season 1, true eternal king, Brennon was vulnerable but kinda disappeared in his love story which good for him lol i love the Lemieux couple). We can SEE the love between Chealsea and Kwame even tho it was SO HIGHLY edited ON PURPOSE to make us focus our attention on them instead of on Micah or Jackie. Speaking of a complete MESS... Jackie is just immature, I got nothing else to say. A KID IN A CANDY STORE according to her own words, and those exact words set the tone for the entire fucking show. Clearly, it's an understatement to say she needs to either work on herself, or find someone that will take her shit, which clearly she did in Josh, and good for them may they live happy ever after, BUT LEAVE KING MARSHALL IN PEACE AND SWALLOW YOUR SHADY USELESS RECEIPTS we don't need NONE of that sh!t, you're making 0 points, and as much as the derogatory comment Marshall made is wrong, NOTHING compares to the SH!T she threw at him. Jackie is the one that should take ALL the blame; People say Netflix asked her to not come because she is so wild with her words and unhinged, but I just truly think she's a coward and seeing that all play on screen she said it herself "it's not me" she WON'T take accountability for her actions and WANTS to be the victim and the winner of her own story. So fucking disconnected. I rooted for her the 2 first episodes, felt like her energy matched mine in so many ways but I definitely take that back. This girl needs therapy and I wish that was addressed at the Reunion, Vanessa talking about mental health but avoiding the growth questions???? These 2 women are a joke.

[@anon82310]

period, sis!!!

[@FraudScope]

I think Marshall represents the positive aspect of what Bliss said in the reunion about there being a lot of power in holding yourself accountable. He’s not perfect and he knows that. And he bares it all for us to see (or it feels that he genuinely is) and that’s the difference between him and Jackie. She just can’t seem to accept any responsibility.

[@amcra1]

Y’all really need to stfu with all the reunion talk. The creators and producers have stated multiple times they don’t want a messy reunion La Andy Cohen. Vanessa did what she was asked to do,dip

[@FraudScope]

@@amcra1 Lmao - Ok Jackie. I commented that Marshall took responsibility for his actions, not the reunion itself. You wasted your time coming here to defend Netflix and Vanessa when if you're so mad about people expressing their opinion on it, you could have just not said a word and involved yourself in something you clearly disagree with. Please be bothered somewhere else.

[@anniediep7654]

I think Marshall is a very emotional intelligent man and hes able to communicate that well. Hes a gem and I hope this experience doesn't take that away from him.

[@Verena.6394]

Better than the reunion! Marshall is definitely not perfect, but in his defense, that was his phrase as being a member of the cast. He's a keeper!

[@valeria3070]

“Sorry Mom, I am a freak” I am loving Marshall more and more 😂😂😂

[@quathetruth8314]

Jackie said he was packing 😅

[@kbeans77]

Man I’d love a Marshall podcast. So comforting to hear him talk and good advice

[@mandymechecc]

THIS MAN IS SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO EMOTIONALLY INTELIGENT!

[@teddeadkar4560]

Wow this interview is phenomenally done. Petition for Nick to host next season PLEASE

[@nikkiponcsak]

Love how you approached the conversation around the dental exam/Jackie's career choices. Completely agree with Nick's take, and I think it was communicated perfectly👌

[@leenaholly40]

Nick asked AMAZING questions!!!

[@melisarose7052]

Can we talk about how much nick has grown as an interviewer, he listened and asked important questions and gave good advice, bravo nick bravo

[@doritime2496]

Marshall handled this interrogation amazingly.

[@aflores31]

I loved the part where he talked about Brett! The love and admiration he has for his friend is so sweet.

[@mickey10jb80]

Marshall is a good person. I love that he didn't throw anyone under the bus. He seems to be a little codependent but at least he's aware. I think he will be okay

[@epiphanyperry1877]

I think it stems from his sense of responsibility as a brother and being an empath.. My son and a few other male relatives are this way.

[@mygodisanawesomegod]

Marshall is a King. I can’t even put into words how admirable he is! ❤

[@mygodisanawesomegod]

And he likes DBZ! He’s perfect. Lol

[@Rhenadhis]

​@@mygodisanawesomegod what is DBZ

[@mygodisanawesomegod]

@@Rhenadhis Dragon Ball Z! 😆

[@luvlybrii]

How could you not like Marshal? He is literally soooo kind hearted

[@vicsantana8405]

Nick I love that you said that about asking first if a person loves what they’re doing, not wanting to belittle what they’re doing in life! Beautiful!

[@Bibiana_cancino]

THE QUESTIONS WE ALL NEEDED

[@katphillips7001]

We love an emotional stable, respectful man 😌 PROTECT MARSHALL AT ALL COSTS 👏🏼

[@danielaar9219]

Marshall is so sweet he handles himself so well. Wishing the best for him!

[@StoryTarina]

I love how in this interview you were teaching each other things. Nick was so right about telling others what you think they should do and how it can feel condescending and then Marshall was so right about not labeling others. You gave each other lessons on things and both were open to hear the other. So proud of you boys! Good job

[@tourmii]

Marshall clarifying that Josh made that “you or bust” statement to two separate woman made me understand why he was annoyed about it. Bc I did not understand people getting so worked about about that. If Jackie was the only one he wanted then yeah leave… why stay lmao

[@indiefairy09]

Yea that’s such a manipulative way to get someone to stay with you and then to do it with two women!!

[@Bellamarie84]

Marshall is an amazing person! So kind. I’m rooting for him to get a happy ending.

[@thetaticiccone]

Marshall is truly a class act, bravo 👏