If a guy really likes or loves you, he will never give you the hot and cold treatment which is sort of a mental bully and mind game that torture you
@queendee64895 жыл бұрын
I agree am almost giving up to this guy I date been 3 months now well he was observing me and liked me for 3years. I will observ him but I won't risk my heart for stupid indecisive man again
@kathylebouef61455 жыл бұрын
I TOTALLY AGREE👍👍
@Leticia-ub9kl5 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏
@arnelabih18455 жыл бұрын
Jessy Ng well said.
@lisalefleur29775 жыл бұрын
I totally agree...
@kaorimakimura1145 жыл бұрын
yes, now when I meet a guy who doesn't show consistency in his investment, I focus on my life and invest less on him, I have other activities and I am less available for him. I fact you have to reverse the relationship: when you like a guy, instead of asking yourself how you can make him like you, wonder if HE deserves you, if HE is investing or not, with consistency. If he doesn't, no matter how great his qualities are, you deserve better than someone who is not investing. Period.
@kannadathi5554 жыл бұрын
Same here
@lilycherotichkirui84932 жыл бұрын
Wow Alex your tips work 100%
@FeliciaEkanem-pm1uz9 ай бұрын
Am passing through same issues here now...am really trying hard to forget him.. though am not giving him time because we just started talking just this January 2024..but he has been admiring me and I do the same to him but I never show up
@arckocsog2535 жыл бұрын
When a man sends you mixed signals, run!
@verginiafua24345 жыл бұрын
Hello Alex i want to join your live chat waiting for it from Philippines very nice topics i want more.......
@birabirobirabiro9894 жыл бұрын
As fast as you can 😂😂😂😂
@aladynamedSusan4 жыл бұрын
For the HILLS🤣
@user-msjazzy5 жыл бұрын
When a man sends you mix signals, it’s means your not the one. Men go after what they want and you will know that he wants you to be with you. What he says and does will be consistent.
@aladynamedSusan4 жыл бұрын
Say it🗣
@mansi17155 жыл бұрын
I promise you Alex i wont let a man have control over me and i wont fear of losing a guy . ☺
@HD-Australia4 жыл бұрын
You are right Alex. I really love him. Once I love someone, I can't undo it. Once I have let you into my heart, my most intimate space, you will have a place there forever, even if you say you change your mind. Love hurts for those who are brutally honest and loyal
@jasmineolsson94474 жыл бұрын
Respect. This man tells the ugly truth. His advice helped me to dump an unavailable man that pursued me for 3 yrs, against my will. He sendt me several thousand texts, selfies, seeked me out personally more than my best friends. In the end, I was almost brainwashed and almost gave in. After I heard this french coachs advice, I was able to DUMP him, send a nice but strong message for him to hit the road for good - not letting him even near me for breadcrumbing. Please keep tell us the truth, and not manipulate confused women in a screwed up modern dating world. When a man gives you reasons to watch mixed messages, hot and cold etc. videos on KZbin it's time to kick the dog to the curb! Many women does not understand they are wasting months and years of their energy and focus on men who does not commit, stacks us up or treat us right. If you ask why for the 100th time just leave!
@toscadonna4 жыл бұрын
Alex, you are so sweet to help women like this. All women get this kind of treatment from men, and it’s so hurtful. Thanks for helping us.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert4 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome.
@ak-47intelligence754 жыл бұрын
Be WILLING to walk away.
@111TreeofLife5 жыл бұрын
mix signals=no feelings, got it?
@honifit5 жыл бұрын
I find that when I'm genuinely not interested in someone they come to me even more! So showing disinterest in someone you like should also make them come to you eventually. People want something more when it's slightly out of reach.
@shenequakimbro51464 ай бұрын
Yes! There are two guys l know who are like this. I ignored a guy and then he spoke to me and sat across the room where I could see him.
@sarahb67585 жыл бұрын
It's so crazy because there are so many beautiful, intelligent and great women who all have the same kind of experiences with guys... I guess this really does all come down to understanding how men think lol.
@zoeglover83235 жыл бұрын
Actions speak louder than words to me, I've recieved the hot & cold treatment. Lost respect for the man totally. Im not the one for him (which is ok) but he didnt have the decency to let me go. Move on quickly from these types sisters.
@brandymcfarlane88734 жыл бұрын
going thru it right now. sometimes we are hot and heavy and then its like strange and off
@alexandriaderamus16602 жыл бұрын
Just blocked a man because of this ❤️ I deserve so much better .. you are absolutely right
@lauraos85263 жыл бұрын
I definitely felt the energy and empowerment!! Hahaha absolutely love it!! I have control over the situation, he cant control me!! We got this ladies! 😂💪🏽
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing!!
@Mushroom321-5 жыл бұрын
YES!!, distance works!!, HAHA 🤣 excersice is for physical & mental
@brandymcfarlane88734 жыл бұрын
dude thank you. I didn't realize I was being controlled.
@bettycooper93835 жыл бұрын
I finally got tired of his games He's been playing with me jus a little too long 😠 I'm too old for games so I ghost his ass,,, I was like,, Poof 👻
@sweetrheesy28115 жыл бұрын
Thank you Coach Alex for this another video of yours. You're an angel for us women. Your advice can help us women to be empowered by our own emotions and feelings. 😊
@aladynamedSusan4 жыл бұрын
Your advice was spot on but your voice to my american ears is so soothing I hit that like button👏🏾
@vivianeehui33215 жыл бұрын
How ? Very just. For example : "How can i be sad to fear to lose what i don't own, when he sends mixed signals." it's really wonderful, you reform our brain and our system of thought. All time tell myself : how and how to make. That must be a challenge for myself.
@lilyedwards54075 жыл бұрын
Great video. Been confused about my ex sending me mixed signals for months. He is quite responsive when we do talk and has even initiated some conversations but then he will go cold again afterwards. He has even shoved a couple flings in my face. I do not like the mixed signals because they are confusing and I don't like being kept on the side. I will continue with the no/light contact.
@colilaobalioca5 жыл бұрын
Lily Edwards That's what losers do
@noenanl81745 жыл бұрын
”distance ur self" 😊 all my friends called me stupid for doing tht, but heard u said this making me hella sure tht i did the ryte thing♥ . "Dont let men ctrl ur feeling"-definetly👌 best advice ever😉
@alinzizi51705 жыл бұрын
I'll never make a man have the power. I promise myself and I promise u. Thanks alot really from the deepest point of my heart! U really change my life. God bless u 🙏🙏
@farhiyaali48444 жыл бұрын
Of all the videos I watched this the only videos by Alex that makes sense & loving the ascent too.
@mayfairmoore45184 жыл бұрын
Thank you Alex..there is no better thing to do with your emotions than to release them In your sport activities, learning a new language, obtaining a professional license as an auditor,swimming on the weekends, and having peace with my God. *Real men* don't play games, they know what they want..and they go for it.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment!
@Minad925 жыл бұрын
Your videos are truly worth watching and paying attention to. I kind of feel that I resist in a way because modern dating in this area confuses me and I stay away from Instagram/Tinder and all that nonsense (to me then) . I am old fashioned despite my age which is 27. But it gives women hope knowing that one day you can meet the right partner. Merci monsieur for your hard work and dedication.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your support!
@pixierose11795 жыл бұрын
U r my new weapon thank you ❤️️
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being here!
@mansi17155 жыл бұрын
Your videos are always helpful . When i broke up i watched your no contact video and i had zero contact with him for a month . Later i realized i have moved on and no more need the guy . And you said that they message back after no contact..initially i didnt believe it but he texted after 45 days ....there are also guys playing hot cold games . It is a very helpful video!
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 жыл бұрын
So glad this has been helpful.
@tootbilal10145 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much.I really appreciate you.I am very greatful to you 👑. You are very honest with your information and advice.I really suffered a lot with my person .he played that game for long time and broke my heart so many times.💔 He wasted my energy and time.
@helenneka10544 жыл бұрын
Alex its so interesting listening to you you just straight to the point
@Bianca-sw5id Жыл бұрын
Alex 🥰 , I love 💕 how you say boundaries with your French accent 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 , I am South African and I have French genetics from my father's mom's genetics , but I totally appreciate your accent 🥰
@DaphneMarina884 жыл бұрын
I will never let a man control me
@fate27023 жыл бұрын
Thanks Alex. Listening to you has brought a lot of inner peace within me. I can listen to you repeatedly and achieve zen. Till I get emotional again! haha... Thank you for being there for us.
@almatoppo955 жыл бұрын
You are really an ideal man every girl wants. How perfectly you understand women . Thank you so much for your videos .🥰🥰
@ChelseaEdmunds5 жыл бұрын
😁 I'm totally watching this for the accent.
@novajolejole51855 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being a wonderful love adviser 😍😍😍
@kannadathi5554 жыл бұрын
Hi Alex... Thanks a lot for proper n wonderful advice. I promise you that I never let him allow to bend me & my feelings. I never chase him & allow him to control me or my emotions. I made my mind. I never keep him on pedestal. Now if he really wants me let him come back. I repeat I never chase him anymore. I promise you & myself.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert4 жыл бұрын
Wonderful!
@kannadathi5554 жыл бұрын
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert thanks Alex
@kristenmoonrise5 жыл бұрын
The balances are starting to tip in my favor. I'm not as focused on the guy like I used to be. We aren't dating, just a lot of push/pull. Also - Alex: Fwench 🍾 Me (from Texas): FRANCH 🤠
@FeliciaEkanem-pm1uz9 ай бұрын
I really like this...i was looking forward to this He told at a point that he as started having feelings for me but yet he's not consistent.. showing mix signals He called me after one or two weeks yet wanting me to do all the callinhd and texting..if i don't he will complain Now i understand very well... just praying for grace to move on now because it up to 1week we haven't talk since I told him not to single me out again in the public because we are just friends
@FrenchRelationshipExpert9 ай бұрын
It's really frustrating to receive mixed signals, especially when someone expresses feelings and then acts inconsistently. In my experience, when someone shows interest and then pulls away, it's important to maintain your standards and not chase after them. I invite you to attend the free masterclass "LEARN THE BEST TECHNIQUES TO ATTRACT THE GUY YOU WANT!" on Sunday, February 25, 2024, at 12:00 pm (EST). www.alex-cormont.com/gtg-webinar-registration-v1
@janevillasor03264 жыл бұрын
If the guy is giving me mixed signals ...I got no problem ditching him 😊😏...I got no time for kids
@xuzuyonkyonk50295 жыл бұрын
As true and pure as GOD, oh my Jesus🙏🙏 you are THE BEST! *INFINITY* is the word for you as you are always spot on point with logical practical real advices. You rock and god bless you. Lots of Love to you Alex (my all time favorite) from India. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 жыл бұрын
Shout out to "India", so glad you are here. Thank you for your support.
@xuzuyonkyonk50295 жыл бұрын
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert indeed😊💕 In fact the pleasure's all mine😇🙏
@simi61525 жыл бұрын
Your videos are very reassuring! Thanks for opening my eyes on how to control my emotions!
@evanovak31835 жыл бұрын
You are right ,you are so smart and i like what you explain about hot and cold treatment, you opened my eyes.
@saniayousaf68585 жыл бұрын
Thnx Alex bundel of thnx for ur info ur help. I m in healing process pray for me.
@linhtrinh57305 жыл бұрын
Stupid... childish game playing won’t get them quality women. They’ll just end up with the fish John West rejected!!! Well... live and learn
@nathynath20665 жыл бұрын
You are the best Alexandre. Merci d'être toi, merci pour tes conseils et ton meilleur coaching
@simpsongoon92564 жыл бұрын
Everyone deserves a loving and meaningful relationship, no time for mix messages bye bye 👋
@FrenchRelationshipExpert4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your support!
@YadalovevrGomez5 жыл бұрын
Hi .I love the way you go straight to the point loud and clear. Thanks for the advices and strategies. At the moment am single but subscribed anyway.
@hakunasjamatata98163 жыл бұрын
I so love u for all your videis. It's so empowering and HEALING💖💕💞❤️
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@sussegemsmean70645 жыл бұрын
Absolute true I learn a lot of you Thank you.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being here.
@erikaguzman22735 жыл бұрын
I met this guy 3 months ago and he does that hot/cold game. He messages me asking a question like "when are you coming back?" but when I answer back he never replies back. Yesterday he Dm on IG & I asked him if he wanted to hang out & he said, "depends if he comes back alive from his trip." Told him to let me know which he said definitely, but never heard back from him. I don't know if he's even interested in me at all or he's just bored. But I am quite confused cause I really like this guy, I just don't know what to do anymore.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 жыл бұрын
You deserve someone who will reciprocate your interest!
@anoukc69285 жыл бұрын
I would pull back and ignore him for a while. Don't answer his texts/calls/questions. Date other guys in the meanwhile.
@ashokarora10804 жыл бұрын
I overthink because of this gives me headache! I cry sometimes!!
@mariageorghiades94205 жыл бұрын
Great video. Wish I knew about you years ago. Btw. Love to listen to your French accent every day 😁😍❤️
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 жыл бұрын
So glad you are here now!
@kiransharma78483 жыл бұрын
I love the tip to keep distance . Merci alex❤👍🏼
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 жыл бұрын
You're welcome 😊
@isabels85744 жыл бұрын
Thanks Alex for advise u are always here to help u are amazing adviser thanks soo much ❤️🙏🙏
@TorontoKaraokeClub4 жыл бұрын
some nice suggestions. Your advice is quite different from other coaches as well which is good. A slightly different perspective is always good.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert4 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@kovacevmartha5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your very helpful advices.
@arezoumoayedi51975 жыл бұрын
Eye opening 🙏🏻🙏🏻👌🏻👌🏻thanks dear🌸🌸
@TheSentinel5555 жыл бұрын
I simply love your accent!
@alaynakhan37862 жыл бұрын
Appreciation 🙏Thank a lot
@bridgetulrich17115 жыл бұрын
You office update looks great!
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@rartinderkaur34995 жыл бұрын
Dear Sir .U r the 👑 "Real Crowning Glory ,"man . like the way you r sir n whatever you teach every time in your lessons .sir I have purchased the coaching sessions n waiting for your reply n email . looking forward to work with you . Always stay blessed n move to your never ending success with smile . lots of regards sir
@sharonthomas8654 жыл бұрын
Thank You Alex ,Great advice 😊
@FrenchRelationshipExpert4 жыл бұрын
My pleasure!
@Marivilovetv5 жыл бұрын
Thank you alex..this video is amazing!!!
@shilpamehta95664 жыл бұрын
Hey Thank you soo much Alex...😘😘😘
@FrenchRelationshipExpert4 жыл бұрын
Any time!
@missliz20vn685 жыл бұрын
Your awesome ! Thank you !
@missliz20vn685 жыл бұрын
I have the control and power. Never again will I let him play me like that haha..
@luwamadhanom15885 жыл бұрын
I love you you are the most amazing guy bless you xxx
@Bianca-sw5id Жыл бұрын
Men who were spoilt children , don't understand how to be patient
@rartinderkaur34995 жыл бұрын
Bonjour Respected Sir . Thanks sooo much for your teaching ❣️.So true that mixed signals mean half of the door of relationship is closed .Best way is to get emotionally distant.Make a man to think what n why .it will lower his self esteem .it's imp.to lose something to get something better . thanks once again sir 👍. looking forward to ur reply . wishing you a journey of health , happiness n being blessed always .lots of regards n waiting for your mail to work with you sir.
@rowenamanalo74264 жыл бұрын
Hi coach thanks for ur great advice of love you are really amazing God bless you 😇
@FrenchRelationshipExpert4 жыл бұрын
I appreciate that!
@colilaobalioca5 жыл бұрын
To sum up: u hafta control ur own self Tell him what you want>give a distance(if he ai't change his behavior, then go to step3>go to gym$ do a meditation( to let him know you ain't available for him)
@charissemeans94094 жыл бұрын
Love your videos, great advice!!
@sangitarouth64825 жыл бұрын
So muchhh needed this explanation.🙏
@ilsewenzel94245 жыл бұрын
We know each other 1 1/2 years. He used to text or called daily or every two days. Now it's once a week or once every two weeks. I told him I need stability and consistency, honesty, etc after he asked me to forgive him. He has disappointed, hurt and made promises he did not keep. I am now waiting for a response which I am not sure will come
@mariaseidi47645 жыл бұрын
I'm tired ,tired 😅 !Getting a good man or relationship today in 2019 is harder than competing in Olimpic games, you have to get a,"love couch", "relationship expert" and apply strategy,psicology,mind games,look always stunning ,guive him the best sex (oral )of his life ...you have to run faster , run longer, be stronger,beat the competicion...And still can't win the prize.
@msmarie95194 жыл бұрын
This !!
@vijilovesvinuforever51143 жыл бұрын
If I built around boundaries he is running away....
@savee435 жыл бұрын
LOVE your videos!! Thank you!!
@margaritam.91185 жыл бұрын
Alex, we love you and all but it’s unbelievable how a some person undeserving of us makes us watch so many videos of yours to just understand what’s on their mind and - maybe - get us a chance to date them 😭😭😭
@miracletv.kaukabnoreen53714 жыл бұрын
May God bless you and your family 🙏😇❣️
@summerposkas83124 ай бұрын
I promise I won’t let him control
@FrenchRelationshipExpert4 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching!
@Nikita_8484 жыл бұрын
We don't need to meditate....We just need to keep these flaky creeps out of our Zen zone
@alenar63725 жыл бұрын
Thank you Alex 😇🙏🏽
@nogalistictuber71665 жыл бұрын
You’re absolutely the best
@savelikeaprowithleah51575 жыл бұрын
Lovely video! Thanks for sharing!
@CStejaswinimishra25134 жыл бұрын
Sometimes guys do give mixed reactions even when they are in a relationship and comitted ,then too they try to be hot and cold with their girlfriend or lover..then what is the reason of being so?
@sammiechua56744 жыл бұрын
I really like your videos
@BlueDancerIntuitiveReadings4 жыл бұрын
excellent videos...thank you
@FrenchRelationshipExpert4 жыл бұрын
You are welcome!
@marlenebragelman72515 жыл бұрын
Great advice!
@abigailisibor24785 жыл бұрын
Am so move thank you, more strength to you
@maryanntexas524 жыл бұрын
Alex - you rock 😊
@saniayousaf68585 жыл бұрын
Soo true agree I couldn't control that wrost condition I just walkway he is narracisst.
@user-gu6vf3je1d5 жыл бұрын
If you only have power when you disconnect then how can you ever have an actual relationship. You CANT! Some men are so worried that you’ll see they have absolutely nothing to offer so they use drama as a distraction. Men who gave something to give aren’t in their head this way. They are living life with their women.
@aladynamedSusan4 жыл бұрын
Powerful
@mabintoukamara32075 жыл бұрын
Great video thank u 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤
@Trex71242 жыл бұрын
He wants the girlfriend experience without the relationship. Ive told him that I have a lot of respect for him but Im confused, backing off, can be friends if he needs anything.. There's other men that are more straight up that I could be seeing.
@titag.16074 жыл бұрын
Alex i got tired of the mixed signals so i blocked him on social media. Its been 2wks and no phone call Alex Ive had 2 dates lined up to get me distracted. Im feeling anxious that he has not called me. Im going to keep being distant, I'm hoping he shows me he wants me in his life. 3 wks later and i got a phone call Alex he apologized and asked why i have not calles him. He had a million excuses but i did what you said. I told him how i felt and that i dont like how he makes promises and breaks them. I am going to keep my distance Alex. I am crying i love him but i am not going to chase him. He will need to prove himself
@Mushroom321-5 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU!! has hit well to home.. been there, done that when it comes to dealing w/ that. 😲😞🤔😕😒 WE ARE the prize. 😼
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being here!
@promiseeke81245 жыл бұрын
Alex my husband does this . I mostly ignore him.
@christensanders3405 жыл бұрын
key word .. husband 😂
@amyfoo17825 жыл бұрын
Thank u Alex😊
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome. Thank you for your support!
@juliekeeney15385 жыл бұрын
I need to find a way to treat him the way I treat all the guys that always call that I really don't want to talk to. But I'm kinda mean to them and am always surprised at how much crap they take from me. I just don't see him doing anything but walking away if I treated him that inconsequentially.