Fridays with Tab and Chance celebrating BHM & Black Authors that create beautiful conversations!

[@sherronfraser4823]

Chance crying when Tab read the letter...😢😢😢... I'm so happy they are here to share their journey.

[@driaannbull]

I started to tear up, too...Whoo!

[@Jesus.SaVeS77]

😢🥺Me Too. Awww Chance! I'm Glad 😊 Happy U/Chance stayed 2gether & stood the test of time. ❤️WiNs! & Yur Daddy is Still Happy Proud of U & he❤️Chance! Awww! A True ❤️ Story?!

[@sherronriles6930]

That was beautiful

[@akabjnocap1652]

Aww, I'm crying too. Very touching. I Love you guys. Great motivation

[@tboykin13tb]

DEEP RGT!!!! 💌😇

[@MzMel-2023]

Mrs. Tab, your Dad gave you that letter back... because you have done well by him and GOD!!! AMEN 🥰🙏👑❤️👑🙏🥰

[@bbgirl6741]

Yes Amen he’s a proud daddy fo sho So happy to hear it’s all good with ya now. N he loves Chance so much cause he makes his daughter happy n turned out to be a God fearing man great husband n father. Ahhhh ya blessed ❤

[@ajwriter5699]

How Tab read that letter without tears is beyond me. Talk about a full circle moment.

[@jessicawilliams7885]

She probably did when she read it last week when she got it back

[@chiqwmiller]

She held it back. Notice the change in her tone and clearing of her throat.

[@yveathuslove1828]

You can tell that she had her moment when she received it. She could barely hold it together at this moment. I could imagine her conversation with her dad.

[@nancyhairston2318]

For your dad to still have that letter OMG I love the love!!! May God bless you.

[@JShina70]

The level of wisdom in that letter that Tab wrote at 19 is astounding. Sis God put you on this earth to do exactly what you are doing. We needed you so bad. We needed your light. You are absolutely amazing!

[@Vanessa47912]

33:40 Tab was talkn directly to me. I was in tears listening. My daughter is planning to move in with her boyfriend this summer. I was having a hard time with it and was praying yesterday and asked God to help me deal with it. They're both good kids, trying to find their way. Like Tab/Chance said in the video, I can't force my upbringing on her and I have to let her experience life -the good and the bad- Thanks so much for sharing! ❤️❤️

[@pejp5890]

🙏🏾❤

[@CorettaJG]

🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@rickiericktv3320]

And look at them, they’ve been together a long time. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@chicenalee4459]

I was not ready to see Chance in tears. Oh how I know how we as children have disappointed our parents for things they have also done. Thanks be to GOD it all worked for their good.💝 GOD has blessed us with Tab and Chance

[@infiniteblessings74]

What's beautiful is, you prophetically spoke and manifest everything you wrote in that letter to your daddy... from your marriage, success...Tab- clearly your heart has always been pure and you're deserving of everything God releases over you and your family.

[@sherisarodgers8691]

Chance said Marriage ain’t hard for me, and he look like he don’t let nothing upset him😂😂 y’all Relationship is leading Love right way!!💕❤️💕❤️

[@bbgirl6741]

Ya now mature couple that have come a long way.

[@Passion84GodAlways]

Wow!!! Your discussion regarding how Choyce has seen the best and worse of y'all was eye-opening for me cuz I didn't realize how - even though I try not to - I had put y'all on a little bit of a pedestal. THANK Y'ALL for y'all's TRANSPARENCY! You're HELPING & BLESSING SO MANY of us (single, married, and in-between)! 🥰❤️🙏🏾

[@tracyb246]

Sis I see we follow and comment on the pages of some the same people 🙂.

[@Passion84GodAlways]

@@tracyb246 - Hello! 👋🏽 Great minds think alike! 😀

[@tracyb246]

@@Passion84GodAlways Indeed 👍🏾

[@sandyj2062]

The letter tore me up from the first two sentences! Then... when I saw me and Chance were both battling onions in our eyes?!? WHEW! 😭🤧😭

[@ringoyr]

PLEASE let this be the official tour announcement! I'm ready!

[@ladyowl6743]

When you take a chance on someone you love without expectations with all of your heart and decide to put family on the back burner as to not have them to tell you "shoulda woulda coulda" and over stepping their boundaries as the old folks would say, You learn together and depend on each other more than Ever than running home to the safety Net. Life Lessons Teach us to be more Humble as we get older. I remember someone telling me when I was very young "sometimes a taught lesson is just as bad as a bought lesson."

[@TheJlyn528]

I would love a marriage tour with All 3 couples. I claim that for you all. It would be amazing to see.

[@nickiC1011]

I'm here for that tour! When Chance cried...I felt his appreciation for Tab making that sacrifice 🙌🏽

[@bemazizi4863]

Omg the Ellises on Fridays!!! Yes please do that, much love guys and God bless!

[@kg7032]

Kids ain't first!! I FELT THAT!! Married or single, parents can lose themselves once they become parents. I lost myself after having my 1ST son, I learned that being who/what he needed me to be DID NOT require me to sacrifice who I was!! I learned, being a mom is only a part of who I am, it is not the sum or total of who I am. I have my own interests, goals, wants & desires, needs, dreams, & etc... All parents must remember the essence of who they are and find things/ways to nurture it. Sometimes, you have to remind yourself of who you are; bc there will be moments/times that you will forgot or neglect who you are as an individual/person.

[@2buscuits]

What I love about these two is that they make each other shine. Its so lovely to watch.

[@adriane1031]

That letter was ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL.

[@scrickmore]

I love how the two of you explained you paved your own path and “leaned” into each other as needed at different times. This is a true partnership, no egos and no stereotypes a blessed team… What great examples you are for your kids. ❤

[@PedraC.]

I definitely think a tour with all 3 couples will be amazing!

[@b4real2me]

Dang Tab that letter... I wrote that same letter to my Dad and like you I married my Hubby and thank God we're still together. More importantly my Dad and I mended our relationship and my Hubby was the son to my Dad that my Dad never had because there's me and my sister Ronnie (Veronica). My Dad transcended 12 years ago and I'm honored that when he took that last breathe, I was there holding his hand and I had made him proud. 📝

[@shondafinley5502]

Yessssssssss, bring on the TOUR in the summer of 2023! WE are waiting and that's our business, BECAUSE life BE hard and WE/ME all need to experience YOUR journeys LIVE on stage!

[@sevaughn4]

I love what chance said about the letter and Tab’s Dad and just being understanding now and encouraging the young brothers out there. Beautiful!

[@naci315]

Omg y’all got me in tearssss girl that note paper took me back just looking at it … from one church girl to another I’m happy we’re free from religion but in great relationship with the father 🙌🏾 ❤

[@dveeful]

I sure did cry with Chance! That was my husband's mother (shacking!!) and my Grandfather called my then boyfriend now husband of 16 years the "SITUATION I WAS LIVING IN"😂😂😂 But what God means for good is gonna be what it be!!! Love y'all and appreciate your sharing with us and the encouragement! And was thinking "when is their book coming????" And you said TOUR! And to end this incredibly long comment, tell TARGET I said ain't no limited edition! Everything I had I loved! We need all that forever!❤

[@racheltookes7428]

You're husband Chance almost made me cry concerning the letter you read 😢

[@InDes10]

Great idea Tab! That tour would be amazing! Please add Angel and Marcus Tanksley as well. A great balance of different perspectives!;)

[@bbgirl6741]

Would love to see that couple or both at ur table some time For inspiration encouragement and just to have a fun couples video make it happen girl ! Ya doing a good job you n chance ❤

[@diamondperion2803]

I would love to see both couples come on the show ❤

[@karena.9429]

To see black love in this capacity… romance and truth expressed and hearts shared with the public is needed and rewarding… thank God and you, Tab and Chance❤

[@regina7494]

I haven’t watched you guys for awhile. But watching feels like catching up with old friends. I love your honesty it’s so refreshing.

[@casandrapowell79]

Tab you set your success in motion in that letter. You wrote it that you would make him proud AND be famous!

[@catherinefrye7269]

Tabitha what I love about you and Chance is supporting one another in your ups and downs. The letter that you wrote your Dad was beautiful and very sincere expressing your love for him, but also your love for Chance which brought tears to my eyes. You and Chance are a Beautiful Married Couple and I can see you and him growing old together because God is truly in each of you. What God have joined together will last forever. 🙏❤❤

[@onthetrace63]

Excellent conversation! I love your transparency.

[@Mithrandir136]

that letter brought tears to my eyes, God we thank you

[@patriciamorgan3171]

Tab, your letter to your dad and your husband tearing had me tearing. Such a blessed beautiful couple. 💕💕

[@sweetcrimson]

Chance reflecting now as a parent of two girls was awesome.

[@TR-hn6qj]

Come on Tab!!! Couples Tour that's good!!! Yes both couples need to come on Fridays with Tab and Chance

[@MzMel-2023]

Yes Mr. Chance, Your Father-in-Law was speaking from his parenting heart & as a Father now you have a better understanding that it was not strictly personal, but out of concern. Our children have their own journeys to figure out. ❤️🌎🙏👑🙏🌎❤️

[@sweet21blessings]

I love the entire series of Tab & Chance!!!

[@stephaniemorrison2993]

Yes! A paneled tour for marriage and family... Make sure to visit HOUSTON, TX! 🤗🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@fuulishniss6489]

Ohhhhh mmmmmy my! These two...I laughed from beginning to end. Y'all two are a mess (in a good way) 🤣. Thank you for your natural humor. Love it...🙏🏽❤️

[@davneatracampbell1857]

Yes, we have great examples now with all 3 couples!!! THANK YOU!!!

[@shonnyd4071]

The Afro pick earrings are EVERYTHING!!!❤️

[@lorijack8128]

Have Loved the Tab and Chance over the years sharing their journey. The uplifting of others - Bravo!!!

[@alethiajacobs8066]

I listened to the episode on my car ride and first, Chance has a great speaking voice, second Tab been wise! That letter was beautiful which brings me to my third, I needed a trigger warning cause I was crying when you read your letter. It was so heartfelt❤ I felt the love you have for your Dad and Chance❤

[@Shaquanda]

I just seen your comment on IG that’s what made me come and watch

[@alethiajacobs8066]

@@Shaquanda Awww I really enjoyed this episode. That was my first time listening first before watching ❤️ I warned y’all to get the tissues😍

[@wegotthis247]

How many of y’all BRING THE BEAT IN singing and doing the robot with Tab 😂🤖😂

[@nicoleowuor8504]

The robot is a MUST 😂😂

[@jenniferbrown2516]

In tears watching Tab reading this letter 😢❤. Love never fails

[@terrinicole9779]

I thoroughly enjoy these segments. It’s so refreshing to see healthy couples having needed conversations together. Tab has always been so inspiring and encouraging but seeing and hearing Chance (A black man), express and communicate so freely and clearly is a blessing! Thank you both so much for sharing with us. It’s needed! God Bless!

[@windycitygirl75]

This was such an amazing show! Thank u both for the transparency.🥰

[@keishrich]

I'm here for the tour and the features on Tab and Chance.

[@tasheenayoung-shelby366]

I would be so down for that tour. Honestly 3 of my favorite couples

[@user-lenise876]

Awwwweee....Chance crying 😢 got me crying. Sigh. This episode...I'm so happy you and Chance made in so many ways.

[@katrinathomas5531]

I love what y’all are doing. Black People Magic!

[@DrSonya_]

God bless Tabitha and Chance for blessing others with real talk. This conversation was good, and heart felt. Much love.

[@Vee5213]

Omgoodness Daddy kept the letter!! You’ve come full circle!! What a blessing.

[@qc9329]

"Bring the beat in!"gets me EVERY TIME??🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@latraiviacowart7266]

Thank you both and a special thanks to Uncle Chance for displaying that there is No shame in a MAN expressing his emotions. I love it and this will free some folks. Amen

[@reseanbowman9707]

I love the parenting part! Let them kids be kids and trust we’ve done our part ❤

[@rasheawhite3644]

Hello there, family!🥰

[@naturalmezzo2275]

This was one of if not my fave episodes, your transparency is so very appreciated!!!! Your genuine friendship & connection speak so boldly to the beautiful love that we can both feel and see you share! Thank you for allowing us to witness your journey, and listen…Chance had me cryin w/him🥹. Love y’all so and the other 2 couples as well!❤ #keepbeingalight✨

[@ronadabess487]

That Chance really can sing ❤❤

[@sheritasmith9711]

We need a book from Tab and Chance!!!

[@nikkiwilson6523]

The fact Chance was hurt because Tab was hurt about her relationship with her dad speaks to how much he cared. Most guys could care less if you fall out with your family due to them.

[@angelmyers869]

That was real of Chance to follow up that letter with his now understanding of what Tab's dad's concerns were. That's grown up transparency.

[@desireeshaw-stephens2596]

Dag , that letter had me crying and then when Chance started 😩😩🥹😩 But God is FAITHFUL and JUST !!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️

[@altheaford3647]

Tab,You made me cry, cause we, loved our daddy...i NEVER wanted to disappoint my mother either...but love will make you do things you never thought you would...Tab this is so REAL...........Thank you

[@2buscuits]

You guys are so silly. I adore you guys. Thank you Tab and Chance.

[@rachelw9212]

I've never actually watched a full episode. I've grabbed a cup of tea and am settled in, let's get it!

[@bossdivabarron1973]

WE NEED A BOOK

[@natashamilanward9074]

Powerful testimony Tab and Chance. Just beautiful.

[@Darezishistory]

We’d love to come on Fridays with Tab & Chance. We’d be the new skool long term couples of the group. 🖤

[@tinakatrell117]

My manz....come through sir! u Savin lives right now. Y'all hit some hearts with this one. LOVE Y'ALL TO THE MOON AND BACK.❤❤❤

[@ladya7455]

A marriage tour!!!! YES! YES! YES! That's 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@rhondagoodwin5711]

The Browns!!!! Bring the beat in and keep the realness going. Love the balance of how y'all took turns sharing from those books. Love between a rock and a hard place🤜🤛💝

[@sassyx2048]

I have to say you are the most authentic couple Around to date. You are so transparent , relatable Humorous and just give real talk. I really love this episode Y,all got me all chocked up when Chamce was crying what Fine Brother you are Chance your setting the example that it's OK to be vulnerable it shows you are human and does not make you less of a Man if anything it shows how to be a Man. That letter Ms Tab wow was powerful really powerful, I love this story I wish you both continous Strength and Healtj to give chronic out these episodes. As you migrate over to your Podcast I do hope we still get tp see your face as iFeel your visual energy really works and makes these episodes all the more powerful. It's all in God's hands. Have a blessed weekend both and look forward to Next Friday.

[@lisamb1855]

Yes, Tab and Chance I think you should do a couples tour or invite the couples on your Friday show.

[@jkstubbington]

THANK YOU FOR SO MUCH BOTH OF YOU FOR YOUR HONESTY AND TRANSPARENCY ALL THROUGHOUT THIS.

[@YolandaK]

Tab, you said something about that growing up religious🙏🏾. When I met my husband he opened my eyes to a lot of things I just went with b/c that’s how I was raised🤦🏾‍♀️. I had no idea of the true meaning to most these holidays & what goes on in the church etc. I’m much more edu now. He’s not religious, it’s a way of life❤.

[@nedrawilliams6657]

Chance is such a amazing man I adore him!!❤

[@TheGP142]

I’ve meant to say for a few videos now that Chance’s hair is tight 🔥!! The twa with the temp fade and Tab’s gorgeous fro is a match made in heaven!!! ❤❤❤ Black is Beautiful 🖤 thank you for the melanin imagery!!! 👑 🪄 🙏🏾 ⭐️ 🌟

[@lanadoakes2488]

Wow Chance crying, I am crying, so beautiful , nobody knows another person's story.

[@mizathlete]

This hit home 🥹! My husband and I eloped. It was a struggle for a while. Thank y’all for doing this! And the tour would be SO GOOD! Just makes sure y’all come home to NC please! 😊💚😊

[@brendaadams9315]

This is the sweetest story I’ve ever heard.

[@PRISCILLAGIDDENS]

I really love you two. God definitely joined y’all together. Tab’s letter was a tear jerker, but sounds like a letter from so many young ladies in love, that was/is stuck between love and a hard place. Very good!

[@hazelboyce7230]

Yall out here making grown folks cry. The world would be such a beautiful place, if most persons experienced this kind of love ❤️ ❤❤

[@sharonlewis8631]

Thank you so much for sharing your stories. You have to FIGHT for love.😍

[@turnermitchellgroupllc7839]

Yes my husband is that man, he goes to the doctor but don't tell everything 🙏🏾 bless him ❤️🙏🏾❤️

[@aprayerawaywpastorshon9429]

Omgoodness the tears 😢 😭. My late Daddy has always had my ❤️. I love, love my Husbae but I'm with Tab! If he didn't approve that was it! I'm almost 60. Been married 30 years. At 19 I wouldn't of been able to disappoint my Daddy. You're stronger. I can only imagine how that must have felt💔 being a Daddy's Girl. I'm sooooooo glad Chance was "the One" for you!! You two are an Amazing couple!!

[@trulyty1006]

I just love the transparency in your relationship. Yes, to manifesting a tour because I watch all of the couples mentioned here, and I know it will be epic!

[@ninonrhome5043]

I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation. I really pray that y’all will do a tour. I have watched all three couples at different times and have gleaned various nuggets of practical truth. However, I feel that we (my husband & I) share a kindred love story to you and Chance. Please make it happen, and the Rhome’s will be there.❤ Very Good!

[@amoybrandenburg9631]

I just love you both!! Thanks for sharing your dads letter. These conversations are very therapeutic for most of us. Thank you for being real. ❤

[@gracefelix3414]

Great episode! I love the topic and the emotion...CHANCE. God continue to bless you BOTH!

[@vernettarudd5895]

💯💯💯💯💯💯Tab and Chance I love y'all because of always being 💯thank you so much .🥰💕💕💕🙋‍♀️

[@lornak8398]

I just love y’all. It’s so good to see real love. I wish that all women and men can experience this kind of love. It’s not always easy but it’s always worth it. God bless the both of you! ♥️❤️

[@faithnewborn-pearson9730]

This is good guys. Tab and Chance your openness and transparency is so needed now. May God continue to bless you both

[@YolandaK]

Why did I start crying after that letter. Wow🙏🏾

[@Bradleyfam4]

I was smiling the whole time except for when Chance made me cry. Thank you BEAUTIFUL people. Love the love you both so generously share❤️

[@KathyYvette]

Greetings beautiful black people!! Love my Tab and Chance! They need to give ya'll a reality show. It would be hilarious and a great inspirational learning experience ❤️😍🎶🎼🎵🎥📽🎬

[@maejortv2023]

If I’m not mistaking, they had an opportunity to have a reality show. In their words, I think they said “It wasn’t for them”. If they ever a get show, I’m going to tuned to every episode!

[@KathyYvette]

@@maejortv2023 come to think of it I remember awhile back Tab saying that. I think the children were younger and Choyce was home. Maybe another time. But they may not want folks that much in their business *in my Tab voice*😁

[@wubbsie1]

Wow!!! This was such a great episode. I am loving this black Renaissance, with healthy, happy examples of black love and success with you and Chance, Kevin and Melissa and Devale and Khadeen. Great show! There is no blueprint for each person's life and love, but that personal experience with God is important so that we can take the path for our purpose Loved this one!!👍🏽❤️❤️