Friend’s Sister Lied That I Got Her Pregnant-My Parents Disowned Me, Now the Truth’s Out and They’re

[@pegacorn856]

Sue the woman that lied and defamed you. Restraining order against her and parents and anyone else that is still harassing you.

[@alexdale2387]

Sue all of them and post their selfishness online

[@S_047]

The false accuser is probably more than a little restarted . OP Did say she had mental problems

[@sinpourmoi2765]

@@alexdale2387I know, can’t wait to hear them begging Reddit for advice on how to gain his forgiveness

[@floggednflankednfl.3277]

He can't because this is a made-up story.

[@YangkuzaCreations]

yup, I would go sue everyone, ex friends, ex neighbors, ex townsfolks, and ex family for emotional distress.

[@naptime1900]

Tell her to go to court. Have the court do a paternity test. Sue her for defamation and harassment. Go for paternity fraud.

[@nickwhipert2725]

Only three states in our country hold women accountable for paternity fraud

[@Zzecoraa]

Have you listened to the story 😭?

[@Gregarious3]

I think early, right after birth, defamation would be the route.

[@Zurround]

@@nickwhipert2725 What happened in this story is so off the charts beyond the pail that I suspect most of the other 47 states have OTHER laws that could apply like libel or slander or blackmail or extortion or something even if its not technically "paternity fraud". There is no way that this can be legal. Oh and I am curious, what are the 3 states?

[@MrBeachDoctor]

she has no money, would you pay 10k for a lawyer to get a piece of paper that says she owes you 300k that she will never pay.

[@jimhsfbay]

Advice 1: Get a fucking lawyer Advice 2: Get a fucking lawyer Advice 3: Get a fucking lawyer This guy seems to like pain and misery.

[@SuperWolfkin]

Clearly you didn't actually listen to the story. Because he do get a lawyer

[@sheraz_games]

​@@SuperWolfkinI think he means for the woman who spread false rumours about him

[@major_kukri2430]

You do know lawyers are expensive, right? Like, really expensive.

[@sofarsogd7479]

Sue everyone, the chick with the child and your parents for be gullible & treating you like that.

[@vasishthdave3137]

I think he should get FUCKING LAWYER.

[@pushkalvasudev790]

It’s really hard for me to believe that a man who can slap an RO on his parents wouldn’t be able to sue a woman who literally almost uprooted his life 🤦‍♂️

[@sagathehardworker2190]

I think this depends if it's in usa.. Or litterly anywhere else in the world.. The rest of the world u can't just sue that easily for anything

[@noizeaous7267]

​@@sagathehardworker2190yeah, in the US, all the "Caution:..." disclaimers on stuff came from lawsuits or in prevention of them. McDonald's coffee "Caution: The content is hot." came from a guy who burnt himself with his coffee. And that's only one example out of the loads you could find.

[@sagathehardworker2190]

@@noizeaous7267 yeah lol I lived there for one year 😁 haha I remember I bought a kinder egg.. 😢 And the toys where not inside the chocolate

[@sagathehardworker2190]

@@noizeaous7267 så sad.. It's like the biggest joy as a kid was the kinder egg

[@DeadCat-42]

I just got attacked by the same pitbull that put me in the hospital two months ago It would have been the FOURTH time.. I didn't even bother to report it.. nothing will get done.

[@Burningflame97]

OP should sue the parents for the emotional distress and sue the women who tried to commit paternity fraud for defamation.

[@Wmuthoni]

It seems like his parents both suffer from borderline personality disorder or histrionic personality disorder coz their manipulative tendencies and dramatic behavior often is strongly linked to these 2 mental illnesses. They may be as well covert narcissists coz of their pretentious acts too.

[@TALLCAT6969]

You should go no contact with your parents and family members and most of your friends.

[@TALLCAT6969]

Maybe you should move across the country and change your identity.

[@KanishkaSarangi-nt7fx]

Since that woman who with chold was mentally unstable, OP wouldn't get anything from suing. It'd be a waste of money and time.

[@mpmansell]

​@@KanishkaSarangi-nt7fxthe publicity validating him would not be worthless.

[@kabirsardana1282]

umm. she tries to ruin your name and reputation and the only thing you can think of is blocking her. whoever is writing these stories needs a fucking spine.

[@icekingforyou]

Easy to say .

[@FNaF-Fan-8893]

It is easy to say from the sidelines. Though I know I could do whatever is necessary, but I know others who can't.

[@Blackrosecreater]

Easy for you to say 😒😒

[@Void-a7k]

@@BlackrosecreaterTf you mean? If the only thing you can do is block them when they are dragging your friends into this mess, you need help

[@Void-a7k]

@@icekingforyouand easy to do

[@johnwest4492]

Nope , get a new therapist immediately

[@MarkSmith-oz9md]

A therapist would never TELL you what you should do.

[@Luis-gz3oo]

They absolutely will, not all of them but yes​@@MarkSmith-oz9md

[@108chapin]

Don't get a therapist.

[@AndyCash-lq2jy]

I'm a therapist that has worked with many types of families. I would never have suggested that you capitulate and return to your toxic parents. I'm surprised that any therapist that had made that type of suggestion. Good luck in your future life.

[@108chapin]

@@AndyCash-lq2jy Here's one just for you 🥰

[@wncshovelbum]

I’ll take “AI generated nonsense stories” for $1000, Ken.

[@eldrago19]

Hahaha. I am never entirely sure how much to believe these, they are strange enough that they could just be true. But either way, I treat them all as fiction.

[@Nysvarth]

100%

[@PvtJoker308]

It does sound made up

[@vinnyganzano1930]

Unfortunately when you look at how many men get chased for child support you start to realise how often this happens.

[@vinnyganzano1930]

Unfortunately when you look at how many men get chased for child support you start to realise how often this happens.

[@ItzPubby]

Fun fact, sending letters to people that have a RO on you, is actually a violation of the RO.

[@echo5892]

I was thinking the same

[@jameschristopher2540]

Oh no wonder something didn’t feel right. And plus they were still sending him letters, voicemails etc. None of this story makes sense

[@CarlosSantos-kv9ip]

What happened to the girl who started all of this madness? Was she able to get away with destroying the family with no punishment?

[@a_noelle8595]

Probably

[@VeranaXS]

The AI forgot about it

[@Fete_Fatale]

@@VeranaXS yea, it's that obvious. AI is only as good as the info it's given, so in this case it's useless.

[@rasharddauvergne342]

​@Fete_Fatale to be fair I have hear this story a while back

[@Fete_Fatale]

@@rasharddauvergne342 Given that all AI is based on plagiarism it's not a surprise that it is recycled as further plagiarism.

[@koketso_dithipe]

Of all the stories that never happened, this one is the one that never happened the most. 💀

[@SuperWolfkin]

I don't know whether I believe this story actually happened. But within this narrative, there's so many stupid things that the Op has done. For me it's the point where he says he got the paternity test and he's so relieved because he's finally happy things can go back to normal. Then when his parents try to make things go back to normal, he refuses and is upset because they haven't shown enough contrition. It keeps going on and on and on about how his parents refuse to apologize and acknowledge they were wrong and every time they send a rambling email or voicemail apologizing he calls it emotional manipulation. Which says either op Is weirdly lying about this or there's more things going on that they're not talking about. But this is a rather long story in which I don't know why he has refused to reconcile with the family. That's clearly trying to apologize to him at least in some points. When he refuses their apologies they overreact and get stupid. Yes, but before the family reunion they did apologize. For the key the car they did apologize. Even if I assumed this story actually happened I'm not sure the original poster is as sympathetic as he thinks he is.

[@karonon]

@@SuperWolfkinit is manipulation the story doesn’t have to be real but what the parents are doing if it’s done to me they would never hear or see me forever I would treat them as if they were dead.

[@SpectreBGM]

Yup , creative writing and it isn't even good writing

[@Burncsb]

@@SuperWolfkin You don't think bribery is manipulation?

[@Themissinformer]

⁠@@Burncsb So if you win a lawsuit, and the person pays you damages, that's manipulation on their part? It's an attempt at reconciliation.

[@shubhayeri5352]

So the woman who started this whole thing got away without even a slap on the wrist?

[@zarakikon6352]

Yeah, It sounds a bit odd. I know I'd sue her.

[@dbrown5784]

She's like another Amber Herd. Nothing will happen. It'll just blow over. Typical.

[@PLCTheCd]

Fake story

[@remowilliams6152]

​@@PLCTheCdAll of them r fiction, but fun to listen to.

[@PLCTheCd]

@remowilliams6152 At lease make it real

[@Kinsfire]

OP should write one last email - "Remember that since I'm disowned, you need to make sure I'm not in the will anymore."

[@treehouse2902]

Very slow acting OP here. The parents are psycho. You are supposed to go scorch earth with stuff like this. She is ruining your reputation, and you are still hemming and hawing on what to do? Dude, move out of state. Change your name.

[@waltershoults8803]

I have to agree with you, it’s really hard but it’s the only way , most in comments saying sue and blah blah but when you look at it they were never really family and I’m sure that’s crossed his mind a time or two since . Agreed 👍 🙏🌎👀

[@something4179]

1. Fake story. 2. Paternity Results at hand...end of story. Shouldn't falter for random rumours. Unless guilty.

[@jameschristopher2540]

@@waltershoults8803 umm the parents aren’t the issue. Jenny, law suit, paternity test all these should work. If not a combination of all plus moving elsewhere

[@jeanthree]

1st OP it's time to take Jenny & her family to court for seriously slander it's malice Jenny needs prison time

[@djames9695]

This went from a defamation story to a narcissistic parent story.

[@aaaqqwwqqddsw5509]

This story is just as true as watching a hallmark movies.

[@TLJ88]

Are we not watching these videos for entertainment?

[@jeanthree]

Life Time Network

[@blender4464]

​@@TLJ88true I guess, but it's the suspension of disbelief thing. Nothing here makes sense.

[@TLJ88]

@@blender4464 😂😂

[@theonismithcreations8554]

Even if it is, I've seen situations in rl more bizarre.

[@Waluigi7891]

AI is really bad at character writing. The villains are always so ridiculous and irrational, and the protagonists all have the same weird speech patterns.

[@daitran9068]

Cut and paste from a reddit or whatever which may or not be true.

[@sorrystilltrying5062]

correct

[@rurirotaru516]

​​@@daitran9068 and how does that make @Waluigi7891 wrong? May have come from reddit but still comes off as AI written. Are you trying to say cause it came from reddit there is no way it could be AI written? That seams rather illogical to me.

[@elementalcobalt1]

It the repetition that you catch. The conflict being continuously restated along with random questions that get the word count up but add nothing of substance. That's really how you know it's AI.

[@OneOkRockSamurai]

@@elementalcobalt1 Nah. some people are just good at saying a lot without actually saying anything. So what all politicians are A.I now?

[@PreeSpunky]

Get a new AI generator or get better at generating AI stories. These stories where the OP is the inoffensive, naive nice guy who starts every paragraph with "Here's where things get even more insane" or "You'd think that'd be the end of it, right? But nope!" are ear-grating.

[@meeshahoffman1571]

as a person who's been no contact with a good majority of my family for over a year now, when you cut out the toxic people it's like stepping into a new world, its so refreshing.

[@Y0ur_ev1l_tw1n]

Dude has never heard of a defamation lawsuit

[@baneblackguard584]

no one needs family like that. move on. people forgive way too much, way too easily. In general, people are afraid to move on in life, my advice is "keep moving forward, sometimes it's not easy, sometimes it doesn't turn out how you want, but if you keep moving forward there will at least always be hope."

[@oneuup2490]

There should not have even been a update on this story because Opie should have been took this to court for harassment. You can take a restraining order out on your parents but you couldn't sue mental case Mandy for lying about you being the father of her baby.

[@Radar-db1bc]

This guy was next level weak…. How do you wait that long to take any action? The lawsuit part was also clearly bogus…. No court in its right mind would entertain such frivolous lawsuit even if the OP was in the wrong. There’s no obligation to stay in anyone’s life if you choose not too unless it’s child support payments.

[@farmerupbeat]

Also no court takes the short amount of time it did.

[@Person-ip7iy]

I think the story was fake

[@jakeforgey5378]

japanese courts, one time a kid (12 years old) was sued by a drunken politician for asking the man why the pretty lady was saying no... drunk man bangs his head on a nearby sign screaming he'll sue... kid ended up becoming a yakuza from what i heard since the family he joined at least was willing to hear the kids side

[@jakeforgey5378]

japanese courts, one time a kid (12 years old) was sued by a drunken politician for asking the man why the pretty lady was saying no... drunk man bangs his head on a nearby sign screaming he'll sue... kid ended up becoming a yakuza from what i heard since the family he joined at least was willing to hear the kids side

[@OneOkRockSamurai]

@@jakeforgey5378 This story is also fake, and is a old copypasta.

[@-zerxvil-5208]

Authors take note. This could be your next successful web novel. Just like those Chinese novels.

[@jameschristopher2540]

Yep like those Chinese wuxia novels

[@rubygaming3594]

Sue Jenny and put a restraining order and a cease and desist order on her. Sue your parents for compensation for the exact same thing they sued you for "emotional distress" easy and done

[@Bidenmytime]

I love how the focus becomes on the parents and not the lying garden tool that started ot all

[@cpob2013]

A lawsuit will clear your name but youll never get a cent from them

[@TheJokeHero]

The way the parents sided with this woman is crazy. I wouldn't be surprised if this dude's father is not actually his biological father. The way the mother was projecting... She's got secrets.

[@SandraNelson063]

The parents DISOWNED him! And then SUED him for distancing himself from THEM! And wouldn't apologize for what they did!

[@bryansammis998]

Though I try to believe in Christian forgiveness, this situation is a hard sell even for me.🤔

[@steve1279]

Story doesn't sound real though....

[@k2k4]

Tbh he was disowned he isn't their son anymore.

[@jameschristopher2540]

Honestly I’d forgive b4 the situation gets worse. And he didn’t even sue Jenny. Or move like what?

[@carseann]

Yeah, he needs a new therapist. No good Doctor would tell a person in his position to forgive his parents. This wasn’t a simple misunderstanding, it was blatant refusal to even give him the benefit of the doubt and it’s mentally damaging.

[@4211mk]

What a terrible fake story.

[@peoplenewstoday]

It happens. Sadly a guy spent 5 years in prison for a kid that’s not his.

[@ltsam5815]

Oh so you have never enjoyed a fiction story eh?

[@something4179]

​@@ltsam5815So you just want to read drama novels. Kinda strange. Authenticity and realism are supposed to be keys here. You know...based on real story/experience, rather than an AI or a person creating a fiction just for upvotes or whatever.

[@Itachi313.]

If this is true this man is pathetic. Blood means nothing. Good people will be good and bad people will be bad regardless of family ties. People as a whole need to stop caring about family so much and just accept that not everyone has your best interest at heart.

[@Superman679]

Not always, especially when there's money involved. You will see friends and family that had until then always treated you nice and always had your back, say and do whatever it takes to make sure that you don't get a dime or as little as possible so they can get more ! That is the most misquoted quote in history ! Money is not the root of all evil. The actual quote is "The pursuit of money is the root of all evil." In other words if that is all you care about, money, then you will say and do whatever it takes to get more money. Money is not evil because everyone needs money, even if you buy land hundreds or thousands of miles from everyone and grow and raise your own food, you still need money to pay the taxes on that land and even if you bought an island in international waters you will need money, again for taxes and you are subject to international laws if your intention was to not be accountable to one countries government or laws or laws of any kind ! Long gone are the days where a man could buy land or homestead a piece of land or an island and not be accountable to one country's laws. You could if you are lucky, just go deep into the forest and build a home and never have anything to do with anyone ever again but you better hope that there isn't some government plane or helicopter, who spots your property and house or some random hikers that come across your house and report what they saw and with GPS they could pinpoint exactly where you are and a few days or weeks later, you will have some government POS on your doorstep, demanding back taxes or demanding that your place be torn down and you be removed from there

[@DarkMage1100]

Family members who believe a stranger over their child without proof is a new level lol

[@patpaiz5693]

OP, you really do need to get a lawyer. You need to sue Jenny and your parents because the lies they are telling are causing you trauma, and they have damaged your reputation. . I think very legal, and very public action is all you can do now because these people seem determined to ruin your life. I know from what you wrote that you wanted to get this settled and over without causing yourself or a woman you felt might have mental issues any more trouble than necessary. But it isn't working out for you to walk away, and sometimes that means you have to fight. You already had to go to court just to get the paternity test to prove you weren't the father, it is time now to go scorched earth on these people and not worry about the damage you cause them.

[@ray076NL]

You know these are stories from reddit, right? Nobody is reading your reply.

[@patpaiz5693]

@@ray076NL Ha, Ha Ha. You did. I'm old and I really don't care. It kills time and I get to be an opiniated old biddy without pissing off the people around me I actually care about.

[@vincentlucario5450]

@@ray076NLdude, this is a fake story, if anything, comments pointing out illogic or inconsistencies is better for better future stories.

[@chiefexxor5069]

Wild shit... i had something like that in like 1% intensity and i went full on berserk and tore down the image of my dad in ppl that the wanted to be respected by. You handled it very well and restrained

[@thisisachannel4575]

I want to believe this but the entire story is "and guess what happened next?"

[@elementalcobalt1]

Yeah, at least I know restraining orders don't work that way. He never would have been able to get one on his parents without proof they were threatening his life. Asking if he's okay, and contacting his work... are not offenses. As someone who tried to get a restraining order once on a woman who was stalking me and ruining my reputation at work... it was all hearsay and tossed out instantly. This story seems be written from the view of a teenagers understanding of how the world works.

[@christianmarshal6117]

After getting the lawsuit notification, I’d file a countersuit for emotional distress. The slander, manipulation harassment to take responsibility for a baby that wasn’t mine and disowning me when I didn’t. The harassment, manipulation, slander, gaslighting and attempted bribery that happened when they discovered I was telling the truth. And now this frivolous lawsuit when I tried to escape their slander and harassment with a restraining order. I had a lot more ammunition for an emotional trauma lawsuit especially since they were the ones who disowned me in the first place! I’d also tell my lawyer to remind them I have messages, witnesses and paperwork to prove my claims are true.

[@Tellnor]

Sue for slander, defamation, mental cruelty.

[@avexattacks]

First thing would have been sueing her and getting a lawyer... Dude waited so long and liked the pain.

[@ZenoDovahkiin]

Take a shot every time not-AI OP reuses some variation of "I/you would think X, but actually no."

[@willambonney]

Rigged a lab??? Holy shit i know labs would tear her ass apart for suggesting something stupid as that..

[@christerjakobsen8107]

Normalize never ending hatred in your soul. It's okay to not forgive and to never forget. Remember how they did you wrong forever.

[@river7874]

"Maybe one day they'll realize what they did and apologize for real?" HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHA.

[@glenmassey3746]

If you had to get a paternity test that proves your not the parent of the child, possibly call cps or whatever it is in your location.

[@amosrobinson6007]

I understand completely. My own life was utterly and permanently DESTROYED by a lie. It's been nearly twenty years, but my life remains in shambles.

[@SpankDMunky]

Why are the parents fighting so hard to bring him back? Was he rich?

[@نيشا-د2م]

In my personal opinion it’s b/c they realized they f*cked up. Imagine supporting someone like Jenny, being there throughout her pregnancy, disowning your son, was there while she was giving birth & come to find out all of that was for nothing. I honestly think they just feel stupid af & having their son come back to them will make them feel better about themselves & dissolve them from all their guilt. OR they just don’t want to never not see their child again. It really could be many factors.

[@SaelGriadon]

Toxic behavior is not justified just because they are family. No one is responsable or obligated to be with their family as an adult, family is just another group of people and nothing else. You decide what kind of people you need in your life

[@mrsw2923]

She should have gone to jail for breaking the RO.

[@serpentinious7745]

"Who else but my parents would key my car?" It's like he suddenly forgot about the girl who started the whole thing and was still going around calling him a liar.

[@seraglioborneo2803]

At the end: OP kept his name and phone number. Easy to trace and manipulate him. Good grief!

[@SylentTiger]

If there is a restraining order, parents contacting via letter or email is usually a violation of the restraining order.

[@sodium7127]

the ai forgot haha

[@robertfergusson5367]

Crap like this happens do not wait or delay. you get a restraining order, a case and desist order, and a lawyer. File lawsuits, defamation and harassment, and don’t look back.

[@olafvanCronenburg-r5z]

Never ever , let anyone back into your life that throws you away.

[@sambalokiizarame9439]

Toxic family. Sue the girl. She not ill.

[@SS369]

Should've gotten a lawyer and sued for defamation the b... into oblivion

[@NightCourt1984]

OP really didn't think the girl who kept saying it's his baby when it isn't could have done that to his car. To the relatives saying family is everything. If that were true the parents would have believed OP instead of the girl.

[@donkeyhigh8420]

should have went to the reunion with a Powerpoint presentation of everything they've been doing the past year..

[@Archuhi3]

Also can sue for loss of interest of life, personal harrassment and stalking.

[@rendratvandonkereschrijver2912]

It always their parties who weren't betrayed that push you to forgive, disregarding the persons feelings which just makes things worse. I'm also certain had the been the victims of betrayal they wouldn't just forgive and forget. People don't reopen their arms to someone who has stabbed them in the back.

[@gregjross852]

It’s wild how often stuff like this happens. In highschool I had this girl accuse 7 dudes of sexually assaulting her in one night. After these guys lives got practically ruined socially and mentally(this was my senior year in Highschool) turns out she was extremely drunk and went to all these guys to sleep with them separately all at one party in ONE NIGHT. Her own self shame led to her making these extremely hurtful accusations. She ended up moving out of the STATE with her parents shortly after everything came to light. Stay vigilant friends.

[@RogerKaptunik]

I dont believe for a second this story is true.

[@billwilson7841]

Easy fix: >Move away >change all emails and phone numbers >change legal name

[@ultrasuperbro]

100% the therapist is female. Dude was betrayed.

[@iTales-y7o]

Hard to believe a man who can slap a restraining order on his parents can't sue a woman who nearly ruined his life 🤦‍♂.

[@Levithos]

I get the feeling that this OP is one of those stupid people who don't think that telling the truth is needed to "keep the peace." /smdh People need to stop doing that. Let the truth out and let things fall where they will.

[@nitemare1004]

ah the classic "we're never wrong, now shut up and do what we want!"

[@BambooSwitches]

Sue Jenny for slander, defamation, & harassment. Take your parents to court/call the cops for them breaking the restraining order, over & over. That includes sending family to you.

[@darkgatheringwfb5759]

The only way for you to completely cut ties is to change your name and move to another country.... basically changing your whole identity. That way your parents have to goto extreme measures to try to reach out.

[@levirodgers4087]

Lawyer from the very beginning before it got to that level. I would have reached to lawyer for defamation and harassment and a lawsuit for false accusations.

[@maigrande-wang696]

Don't think the story is real considering how fast the jenny plotline was forgotten.

[@misuterinaso]

Plus how his best friend is Jenny's sister but wasn't even mentioned until one third of the video passed, you would think that he should've appeared sooner

[@daitran9068]

Lol. Wailing for the singing bears and dancing elves.

[@jakeforgey5378]

It's AI generated, prompt "Crazy Baby-trap Jenny, family in ruins for betrayal"

[@PChazman1]

Gets a lawyer against his parents but not against the pyscho girl who started this? Yeah, I think this is bullsh!t.

[@furyberserk]

Stop "acting" smart. People don't just have huge money. I was involved with something similar, but it was a few hundred or my fucking career. Sometimes things aren't worth it.

[@mrgas8499]

maybe bullshit,but your logic is as flawed as the parents.

[@OneOkRockSamurai]

@@furyberserk He had the money to sue his parents? The cost would have been less to sue one person. so your argument makes no sense. "Sometimes things aren't worth it" Yeah but they clearly fucking were OR HE WOULD NOT HAVE GOT A LAWYER!!

[@ChallengerBanX]

If you get a restraining order on someone, they cannot try to contact you, even via someone else. It also becomes effectively void the moment you contact the person you have a restraining order against.

[@cassandrapettiford6030]

This can't b real...rage bait, but I ain't biting 😂😂

[@udntknw001]

What bothers me while listening to this is that Jenny is so persistent and the parents trying to bribe him to get him back into their lives that I start thinking that the plottwist is that he really is the father and made all of it up + forged a paternity test (image search one then modify it a little).

[@joekennedy498]

Aw hell nah like not only did they believe a lie over their own child but they believed a half baked lie

[@Redking1987]

You have a restraining order. Everytine they call or email send them to jail.

[@foofoo3344]

You can sue that "female dog" for defamation. Also sue the family.

[@dabolisa4049]

They never believed you, they showed that they're capable of doing this again. And will.

[@soju69jinro]

using indirect means of harassment is still violating restraining order. means of proxy is illegal as well.

[@kimsmith1746]

Why do the guys in these stories keep saying, "It's not my kid (or baby)"? Lead with, "I've never had sex with this girl!" You see, the former sounds like you are admitting to the latter, but not accepting that conception may have occurred.

[@rogueshark23]

I did not have sexual relationships with that woman

[@Superman679]

WHY !? When women are legally allowed to Kill their unborn child !!!!! Dave Chapelle said it best ! "If women are allowed to kill it, men should at least be allowed to abandon it !!!!!"

[@ysfsim]

because they are natural push overs unless the story is fake

[@AsmodeusDHare]

That'swhat I did when a girl I never knew said I was the father. I said "I have no idea how since one I don't know you, and two, I'm a virgin" The father of the girl said "That's enough for me... either he's telling the truth and he can't be the daddy or he's insane and I'm not letting crazy get in the family." The father suddenly took notice that he and her had straight hair, I had straight hair, my family they saw had straight hair. The child had a mini afro going by now. Me and the guy both said "Black?" and she turned whiter than bleached linens.

[@kimsmith1746]

@AsmodeusDHare I'm sorry that happened to you. As a woman, I get so disgusted at the machinations of other women. Girls, like the one who blamed you, are the reason we struggle for equality. Yes, there are crappy men out there. But they use the adage "What's good for the goose is good for the gander," to justify what they do.

[@anshuanshu100]

Op's parents remind me of my father, yeah ( court, lawsuit, defamation ) was involved. Now fiancee n in laws are now my family.

[@matthewschaaf8785]

It’s 100% his parents fault what kind of parent doesn’t listen and believe their own child.

[@roydavis2242]

Should have filed a defamation suit against the sister, and parents. That is exactly what they did.

[@Lucigrieves28]

I just realized he should’ve just sued the pregnant girl right off the bat in the first place

[@iram7555]

So he says he thought once he got the paternity results things would go back to normal then goes to complain his parents wanted to get things right with him and even offering him money and even knowing the girl who claimed he was the father of her child and who he claims she had started to badmouth him he still thinks it was his parents who vandalized his car when all they seemed to want to apologize and be ok again? Like he straight up made his parents the villains lol

[@HoangNguyen-rd6qy]

He didn't make his parents the villains, they were already villains. The money they offered him turned out to be negative amount since they later sued him for money. All the lies they told people also made them villains. Since OP didn't have any evidence as to who vandalized his car, based on the information he got, parents would be equally suspect as the girl

[@tonychan8558]

If I had gone through what OP went through, I definitely wouldn't go to the reunion. But me, who hasn't gone through it, would DEFINITELY go! I would write this long speech, telling the whole truth., and NOTHING would stop me telling everyone the whole story. I would even take my own microphone and battery powered speaker, so I wouldn't be interrupted by anyone mid speech.

[@robertleonard4995]

You can choose your friends, you just can't choose your family.....

[@themarine1100]

Strange after all that time he never thought about changing phone numbers, so they couldn’t so easily call and text him. Things I would’ve done: 1) change my phone number 2) changed my last name just to spite them 3) sued all involved for harassment, defamation, paternity fraud, character assassination and everything else possible 4) counter sue the parents 5) press charges on father for violating the the restraining order for calling and leaving a voicemail 6) move to the furthest point in the country away from them.

[@repstyle8518]

"Cutting off your family isnt easy, no matter how bad it gets" Yea no It really Is, how much you tolerate of Bs That you Can Walk away from is your own fault. People who Choose to stay In Bad situations That They CAN Without relative consequence walk away from Is their own choice. I made that choice A long time ago dont regret Anything im free and so can most people

[@lodunost]

Ok so you have a restraining order in place. They message you, email you, in any way contact you. Turn that over to the authorities. Force their compliance and go after that chick too. Don't let her sit there. You put them on blast until they look like the worst of the worst. You make sure you serve every family member and friend a copy or the restraining order so they understand. You ensure when they contact you through someone else you get the police involved and document it. You put them in a place they can't come out of and you wash your hands of it. You never contact them to set anything strait because then you're violating the order yourself.

[@boejiden7093]

Bro, parents will never take responsibility for their actions. It’s like kryptonite.

[@wickedbird1538]

😢😢Women need to know that they can no longer lie about the name of the father.

[@djdomain]

"...Now I hope to put all this drama behind me and start working towards my future." 1 second later... * *UPDATE* * OP needs to stop jinxing himself

[@shilohlee4332]

update 1; reply back to all emails with a cc or forward of the email you sent your parents. If they want to play stupid games, they can win stupid prizes. What was the original source?

[@JokeShinet]

Why didnt parents go after Jenny, at least that shows they are trying to fix things

[@rurirotaru516]

If thos was true. I think it was AI generated. But if it was i'd say due to cutting people off blocking everyone. And how the parents acted. They most likely did go after her. He just wasn't aware of it himself.

[@williamfincher2260]

"A man of knowledge restrains his words and a man of understanding is even tempered." Proverbs 17:27 It's a Bible verse about not getting angry without knowledge or understanding. There are some things you should get angry about, but if you don't control your temper, you can get angry at the wrong things.

[@DJBurns-jq8mn]

Should of sued them back, huge missed opportunity

[@PairOfSocksGaming]

i genuinely cannot comprehend how someone can say "just prove the baby is mine and ill be in its life" and theres people who will sit there and be like "ur a deadbeat"

[@hunterknight5261]

I don’t want to write this story off as fake off hand, since if it is real that would be very cruel, but I can’t be the only one who thinks this doesn’t add up. The guy doesn’t want to sue the woman who tried to perform paternity fraud and actively tried to defame him, but he’ll sue his parents. He’s in therapy but his therapist says his abusers are in the right. The parents who refuse to take responsibility never blame the lady who lied to them about the kid. It all just feels… inconsistent.