ANTI HAUL | 10 Things I DON'T Buy Anymore (decluttering motivation)

[@fareesa5920]

Yes pleaaase do a video on color palettes! That would be informative and interesting :)

[@frmheadtotoe]

I’ll definitely add it to my list!

[@Marimo_-qj6kb]

I would love that too! I just discovered my seasonal type and I decided to only buy the colors that suit me most from now on. Had to throw out quite some stuff I liked, but now I know why I look so pale and tired on some days…-_- The color palettes are so interesting!!!!!!!

[@aflilly]

Hi Jen! You’ve hit ALL the reasons why I don’t buy what you’ve mentioned. As a mom of two young ones, I’ve learned that comfort is worth the money spent and not the conforming to societal images. Yes, to more “deep” discussions of being real. Social media has taken on a darker turn of unhealthy narcissism and conformist peer pressure. Lots of love from LA.

[@Born1986]

I’m with you on a lot of these points, especially using up the natural fibers, shampoo products, and no thongs stands. I became a mom in the past few years, and it also helped me to start my ethical fashion journey. I try to aim for buying higher quality pieces of clothing that also support people to earn a living wage. Becoming a mom also had me searching for comfortable clothing and underwear, much to my partner’s lament - they knew that I dress for me, first and foremost. And thongs don’t usually equate to comfort. Though if anyone knows of any good suggestions of ethical/sustainable thong underwear, I’m willing to consider it!

[@bethanyhicks2899]

I love that so many of these changes are also eco friendly, that's one of the biggest reasons I watch what I buy/buy natural materials. If more people were like this it would really make a dent in the negative impact of fast fashion and other trends. And yes, would LOVE to see a video of color palettes and other personalizations tips, I feel like so many things I fall in love with online or in store end up looking terrible once I out it on. I would love to know how to enhance my own personal style.

[@stylecauldron]

This video has so many gems I relate to. I used to stress when shopping and having a personal color palette makes it so much easier! Mine is dark autumn and you might be, too. There are so many colors in these palettes you’ll find online and it helps me wear color in the best way for my skin tone

[@martham7356]

I love how intentional your videos are. Thank you so much ♥️

[@Wewhosee-im3ii]

Totally relatable Jen! My purchase/spending habits definitely changed once i became a mom! 🥰

[@h.christinelee8448]

Totally with you on the no butt floss and no aerosol dry shampoo! Powder is the way to go!

[@slimtodress]

Viscose isn't synthetic per se, and is an amazing fabric, my favorite actually. I've been dealing with fabrics for five years and while natural fabrics have certain nice qualities, I personally would always choose mixed fabric (wool+acrilic as an example, pure wool would make me allergic, it's itchy; for warmer months, viscose+polyester (80/20) is one of the best mixes). 😊

[@blackeyedsusan727]

Mixed fabrics are most useful sartorially and then for the end consumer than they are given credit. Brava for your comment!

[@hansenquinn]

I’m not big on trying a lot of shampoos, but I do love hoarding scented products, like rollerball perfumes, candles, soaps and bodywashes…

[@misscutypie23]

No thong camp FOR LIFE over here 🙋🏻‍♀️🤣 I feel exactly like you , that I have a wedgy😂 seamless underwear for the win 🤪

[@IvaLe1998]

Yes I would love to have a video on color palettes!

[@stephanierobertson3118]

I am with you on a lot of this. One think we need to change is thinking giving clothing to goodwill is a solution. It’s really not as so much clothing gets given to shops like goodwill and they actually end up throwing away or sending off to other countries.

[@CL-yt8kc]

Can’t agree more with you on the furniture point. I regret buying cheap furnitures so much they really are hard to get rid of. But I personally think it’s ok to keep a few different shampoos in the shower, I need to be able to choose when my hair acts differently on different days, like more deep clean, more nourish or more colour enhance etc.

[@maia-roll]

Loved this video! Also yes I’ve been trying so hard to not buy skincare and hair care products until I’ve totally depleted my current sets. It’s so easy to end up with like 3 moisturizers or 3 shampoos when I don’t need that many!!!

[@joanwinner]

Omg yes! Please talk about the colour palette ✨✨✨✨✨✨

[@supagirl1212]

Amen. Finally you're giving some valuable advices for these viewers :)

[@chibibeachbum]

Team granny panties!!!! 😂 I can’t do the butt floss anymore

[@blackeyedsusan727]

Agreed. As a 2nd, boy shorts are the business!

[@ayleeeee]

yes please do a video on personal colors for clothing and makeup! the whole spring~winter thing has been confusing to figure out

[@analey23]

This was great and as a dry shampoo lover I’m very intrigued by the powder options

[@mshlim]

I stop buying new dresses for weddings. I have so many dresses for weddings that I’ve attended and wore them only once. Being frugal I guess and saving money. So now I just rewear them because no one remembers what you wore to the wedding and most of the time it’s not the same group of people. Plus the dresses I have looks nice on my body. 😁

[@violetviolet888]

Completely agree. Do your own gel polish, cheaper than getting them done. For your shampoo hoarding, consider samples. Re-home used skincare and cosmetics to those who will appreciate them. Multiple organizations both local and national accept gently-used beauty products. They give them to victims of domestic violence who are always grateful. Please don't immediately landfill them.

[@frmheadtotoe]

Totally agree to this! At the beginning of quarantining I bought my own gel nail set which I love to bust out especially when my mom visits and I can do her nails. :) and I regularly donate beauty products to womens shelters although the ones in my area only receive unopened products due to health reasons!

[@violetviolet888]

@@frmheadtotoe Updated follow-up: I donate new and gently used skincare and cosmetic items to a women's victim's shelter and LGBTQ organizations who are thrilled to receive such things as you are decluttering many can be sanitized. Every shelter has different policies, just call to inquire. I feel there are not enough beauty influencers passing products along to those in need or talking about this concept of helping those in your community or donating them to organizations that will. Thousands of people subscribe to Ipsy, BoxyCharm, FabFitFun and end up with unwanted/unused, swatched once products. Organizations like *Project Beauty Share* will gladly sterilize and donate used cosmetics and skin care to women and families who need help to have been displaced, have escaped violent situations, are experiencing poverty, or other barriers in life that have a direct impact on their well-being, hope, and dignity. Give them away to friends, family, in order to re-home them to give perfectly usable product a fighting chance before ending up in a landfill. You can give them away via Nextdoor, Craigslist, Facebook Marketplace, Depop, Glou Beauty, OfferUp, etc, all are perfectly acceptable. People like me would happily come pick them up! Mascara Wands: *Wands for Wildlife* is in need of used mascara wands help save wild animals. The organization collects, cleans, and distributes the wands to wildlife services in need. The wands are then used for animal care. They remove debris, bugs, and eggs from fur. Please consider inquiring with your local women's shelters and look up the above, use your voice to spread awareness. At the very least, they can be used as pigments because that's what makeup is: for artists, kids, etc. It's a medium of color to be used, not to end up in a landfill. You could even compost it when removed from the packaging. Example: Powdered formulas last indefinitely. So long as it doesn't smell and the product is performing, it's good to use. Those dates sometimes relate to break down but more often they relate to getting rid of perfectly usable product so you feel like you need to purchase again. It's how the industry ensures profit. It depends on the product. Use common sense. There is also a container icon with an M and a number, which means once you open it, the guide is to use the product within for example 12M (12 months). Add a sticker to when you open it. Pencils can be sharpened to unused, clean product, etc. Pump bottles can be re-used for other things. Stickers can be removed from glass bottles and these containers can be re-used. If the product is new enough or untouched enough, you can even make money on selling it via Poshmark, Glambot, Ebay, Mercari, Reddit MakeupExchange, YouFromMe, etc. (Content creators are often obligated to not resell however.) Plenty of people are always looking for discontinued and current products. Lastly: Nordstrom's project "BEAUTYCYCLE" accepts the following: HAIR CARE: Empty bottles, tubes and caps from shampoo, conditioner and styling products SKIN CARE: Empty bottles, tubes and dispensers from cleansers, toners and moisturizers MAKEUP: Empty tubes, tubs, pans, palettes and twist-up containers from all cosmetics SAMPLES: Trial-size tubes and vials, excluding perfume It would be wonderful to see a trend of every content creator each making a dedicated video and short to educate the public on these options. Please spread the word!

[@baybutterfly76]

Love these anti-haul videos! Thank you 😘

[@amytang11]

This was such an enlightening and insightful video! I think it's easy to get caught up on spending money on the new fab products but really, they don't always work for you. I would love to see more of these in the future.

[@frmheadtotoe]

Yeah it’s so true. Sometimes we chase trends without even realizing we are, but being intentional to stop and look at what we have helps so much

[@annamarkley4758]

Love all of these suggestions. The Briogeo dry shampoo powder is great too

[@janetchang25]

Resonated with so many of these!,, and yes please please do a color palette video!

[@ariunaal]

Natural fibers are soo good! I also only buy cotton, silk and cashmere

[@hpat.]

I would love a color palette video!!!

[@blackeyedsusan727]

Not too many shampoos, but too many styling products. That and nail polish are my own anti-haul projects! 👍🏼

[@darlalala]

girl need that color palette video bad

[@Gamyeon]

- I can relate to the furniture part SO MUCH! I’m moving out in a short while and getting rid of furniture responsibly is so difficult, especially when you’re like me and don’t have a car to bring it to a charity or something. And that furniture is some I got from my parents, not even some I chose for myself. - I do try to not do any impulse buy online and tend to put stuff in a cart and leave it there. If I forget it, then that’s it. I might come back to it. I might not. But if something has been on my mind for months or longer, sometimes I do take the plunge since I feel like that is one sign that I’ve considered my need for that item. - On nail polishes… I love the colours so much… but I put nail polish on so rarely. So I have a few pretty bottles, but I don’t use them so much and then they get really thick TT_TT. - I’d definitely be interested to know more about color palettes! It’s a fascinating topic ^^. - I think it’s always tempting to try something new, whether it’s a hair product or not. I tend to want to try more than one thing when trying a new company, so I often purchase more than one products… which isn’t always wise price-wise or in terms of my needs ^^;. Or I want to try everything and I have to contain myself and either report back to the “don’t impulse buy” rule above or I have to remind myself that I already have similsr stuff at home that I should use up BEFORE purchasing this thing. But it’s hard sometimes. The “I want that new thing” feel with the associated “goody-good chemicals” is real. - I never understood thongs… it just… seems so very uncomfortable. So yeah, pantyline is fine by me! I also find flip-flops so very uncomfortable. Why do these things exist?????? Thanks for this video! As someone who has way too many hobbies but still tries to reduce the amount of things she buys and what she buys, it’s nice to see people take a step back on their consumption and think about what they really need and what actually brings them joy.

[@SimpleCasualChic]

I feel like I relate a lot to this video! My preferences and decisions with purchases has definitely changed over time. Also yeah thongs aren't comfortable 😆 I don't understand!

[@heeyoo9852]

Whether you like it or not, I find that color pallett of light summer cool-tone is always flattering on you much better than warm fall tone...

[@blackeyedsusan727]

Thank you for subtly pointing people towards sustainability and stopping this fast fashion nonsense! We as women are being milked by all these businesses of the money that we should be investing instead, and we are helping to destroy our planet in the process. All these seemingly little things add up and change our mindset to be more conscientious people!

[@ayeyoNai]

Color palette video? Yesssssssssss!!!!! ❤️

[@aidasa3791]

Viscose or other types of rayon such as bamboo rayon are good as well. Soft as well.

[@helenatube]

lol at floss! I totally relate - worst feeling ever. Cannot imagine why people put themselves through that torture but I probably hate the floss feeling more than most.

[@CL-yt8kc]

For my entire life so far I thought it’s just me that can’t wear flip flops and everyone else looks so comfortable in them, I must have weird feet, I am so happy that someone actually feels the same way and it’s ok to not like flip flops.

[@bluepeachwhispers6845]

the thong explanation 😂 I love these types of videos so much. Hope you & your family are well 💛

[@michellethao7764]

Love this! Thanks for sharing, I really needed this type of content

[@AThousandWords]

With colour palettes, have you ever checked out Dressing Your Truth? It's energy profiling. The colours, fabrication, pattern, design lines, texture, and metals support your energy. It's made the biggest difference to how I look and feel, and is actually in contrast to what I was told in the Colour Me Beautiful system, and I've never had more compliments. It makes shopping so much easier too.

[@aadubable]

Love this! Yes to the color palette please 😊

[@kgstudioproductions]

Definitely have been working on the hair products!!

[@misseriksson8523]

I would love a video on how to figure out ones one color palette! Ive been interested in that subject for the last two years but still to this day cannot figure out What ”season” or color palette I belong to. In the mirror the only thing I see is that I look like a regular person in the place I live (Classic swedish nordic colors I guess?). Its just so hard to understand!

[@juliel8124]

Would absolutely LOVE a video on colour palettes!!!

[@heeyitskat]

I was just thinking about the same things! After becoming a mom, I really hate the feeling of using thongs. Regular cotton underwear is much more comfortable! I also stopped caring about VPL! But I stopped caring about a lot of things I would be insecure about after becoming a mom too. Lots of love!

[@watermelonqueen1755]

What’s VPL?

[@marshgineli]

a video on color palettes would be really cool! i’m still not sure what colors match with me tbh 😂

[@thenancyeffect]

I was away from YT for 5 years and girl! you haven't changed a bit. You must have good genes.

[@iamfarrah]

you know what’s crazy, i’ve been in your youtube journey for so long. i think it was your Yuna Kim makeup video? i think that’s the first video i watched. then you did the pink glitter eye look that i recreated for new year that same year and everyone complimented me about it. and look at you now. idk, i feel like your kids are my internet nieces lol edit: i just looked it up in your channel and that was 12 yrs ago. like wow

[@goOPPA]

Agree with so many of these things as I’m getting older!

[@Kelsiesan]

Same on the thong 🙈 never understood how people could wear those all day lol Altho, growing up in Hawaii, flip flops (or as we call them slippers/slippahs) are a staple for everyday life 😂 there’s a pair at every entrance/exit to a house lol

[@nubarvdw1403]

No Thong underwear!!! I can soooo relate, super uncomfortable! 😄

[@julia_newsome.t]

Would love a video on finding what colours suit!

[@lexsampson8435]

I think you just solved my dry shampoo ick problem!!! Thanks Jen!

[@maggie820717]

I can relate to this so much! - I've started buying clothes esp sweaters that are comfortable and long lasting. Quality over quantity! - I've stopped buying crappy furnitures that just don't last. And also to buy used if possible! - Was never a thong and flip flops girl and I'm so glad I'm not the only one that feels this way. I never understood how people tolerated flip flops... they hurt! I am having trouble letting go of my aerosol dry shampoo however.... Do you have more affordable non-aerosol dry shampoo recommendations?

[@kaseyhowell1973]

R+Co has a one so does bumble and bumble also that love plant brand from the drug store but not sure how good they are

[@frmheadtotoe]

I linked some of my favorites in the info box liketoknowit link, however if you want a super affordable alternative just use some straight up corn starch from the grocery store! It will absorb hair oils in a pinch. Or setting powder for your face! I’ve used that with a powder brush and it gets the job done!

[@janeosun]

klorane makes an incredible non aerosol dry shampoo, super absorbent and good for sensitive/itchy scalps!!

[@blackeyedsusan727]

@@janeosun Klorane makes the best dry shampoo, ever. Hands down.

[@Lafalot54]

I love these videos! I agree with you so much!

[@josijsun]

I totally do that with hair products too and have made the same intentional decision recently to use up products I have now.

[@CN-pr8le]

I resonate so much, I'm still trying to finish my bag fienzy, but the rest i am minimalist 😭

[@OnVacayShan]

I thought I was the only one who felt that way with dry shampoo!! Whenever I wash it I dread it cause I know I have to shampoo and rinse it at least two or three times before feeling like it’s all out.

[@Hannahrose26853]

I have 2 nail polish colors and go out for a pedi if it’s a special occasion. Honestly it’s way better for me too

[@shirleyheng1]

Thank you so much for this video. I can so relate! ❤️🪷

[@emilyl1374]

Also cheap/plated jewellery that you have to throw away after 2 weeks because the coating has worn off

[@petitellala]

Flip flop haters clearly never used Havaianas lol just kidding... Idk if it's because I'm brazilian and we use flip flops all the time, but Havaianas are super comfy and cute...

[@CM-mu9hi]

Shower life has been simpler since I’ve starting buying shampoo and conditioner and bulk from Carina organics. Now I’m no longer tempted to try different hair products knowing I have year + supply already lol 😅

[@jordypordypuddinpie]

I also have one million shampoos, its not just you! I'll definitely be using that tip hahaha

[@kayouaher7690]

Can you share with me what lip stick in orange that you love? I love orange. And also want it to be last long for the day.

[@colleeny6267]

These are great anti-haul items.. I need to try a little harder for the couple items I find hard to curb my impulses just because I want it and it's new and exciting. I agree with you on the dry shampoo, I only use powder ones because I don't like the aerosol's either. You should try the Briogeo dry shampoo, it was an upgrade from a drug store powder one I used to use all the time but I don't remember what it's called anymore.

[@sna7142]

Love the blazer you're wearing in this video! Anyone know the brand???

[@sandyma155]

Your jacket looks awesome on you. Please link

[@darlene4745]

Lovvvveeee this!

[@BreakofDawn]

I also can’t do butt flosses lol. I know a lot of women find them comfortable, but for me for whatever reason they always feel like permanent wedgies. I only have a couple for clothing that I really don’t want showing any panty lines. I’m not sure about non-aerosol dry shampoos, but it’s good you at least stopped using the aerosol ones. I heard there’s a class action lawsuit for them, since they turned out to be toxic

[@SueLynCheang]

I usually have 2 shampoos at the same time, 1 for normal days, 1 for dandruff days 😂

[@sarammm.99]

Jen do you have a favourite powdered dry shampoo for Asian hair!!

[@justsittingthere]

Yes pls do color video

[@chopsticksgirl]

OMG Haircare Banchan XD New frmheadtotoe shampoo line idea?!

[@hayleyprosser5273]

You need to try the bumble and bumble pret a powder dry shampoo powder, it’s amazing!

[@Sarakimika]

Please make the video on color palletes.

[@annaaliuk]

Agree with eveything 100%

[@zlightful]

NO THONG CAMP!!!

[@conniemak1455]

How do you keep your stuff white with kids. I have 2 boys same age and whites do not do well for my confidence when theyre around!

[@mimi-qz2ms]

If you have the money why not… some buy handbags because it’s what they enjoy!

[@jeeezy4307]

Funny how you say you’re not “that mom” coz you ARE that mom to some of us, fans, here like myself ☺️☺️

[@SeungChang]

You’re not the only one with thongs😭😂

[@Iquey]

I'm in the no thong camp. Got that out of my system in highschool. 🤣

[@est-fm9ui]

Can you please explain/filma videobof your make up look? 😢 It's so beautiful! ❤ You look stunning

[@MsLyn1010]

Jen love your necklaces. Where is it from? 😀

[@amandas7656]

I have a question about gel nails.. there are all different types which kinds do you get? I thought most types of fake nails it could damage your nails when you take them off? o:

[@guhreenskittles]

I heard thongs help with hiding farts lol

[@PH-tv2sw]

Can you do a video of your closet. Trying to redo my closet and looking for some inspiration.

[@ilisle3653]

I also do not wear thongs. I always go seamless and have been wearing a particular style that is truly invisible in regards to panty lines. I do a lot of yoga and no panty line with the tightest, smoothest pants possible. However, the style I currently have is no longer made and I need some new ones. As a like minded seamless rather than thing girl do you have some favorites ?

[@mmoonchy7555]

I have been into color palette recently. Still trying to figure out, maybe there are some colors I never tried but actually look good on me.

[@elysekatagihara7122]

HAHAHA butt floss 😂 same though! Can't do thongs I feel like they give me camel toes

[@kmitte03]

Lol- No flip flops thongs… clearly not Australian! 😅 It’s staple shoe wear here

[@ThrivingAnywayTV]

I have sooo many hair products 😩😩😩 I understand!!! Lol!

[@Christified85]

I also don't like thongs because it's so uncomfortable to me. Also I hate this style for bikinis. On my whole 37years weat thongs under 10 times.

[@ikichang]

I love your jacket! It looks so flattering on you. Where did you find it? :)

[@frmheadtotoe]

This was a consignment store find from over 10 years ago! It’s a Theory leather blazer :)

[@l_7376]

Oh gosh, I hate thongs too!!!!! I don't get them.

[@dentalblisswithdrharpreet305]

Nice

[@jenniferlai653]

I hate thongs too!!

[@pocoitaliano]

Girl YES. I. HATE. THONGS. Please share bodysuit finds that aren't thong back! Wearing them makes me angry 🤣