A big part of what we do as humans is subconscious ~ I still believe aggressive people are drawn to people who have an overly kind look to there face. Their predators and can see a caring or sensitive person in a crowd.
@IzabelaWaniek-i1x10 сағат бұрын
True. We must run away from abusers. There is no excuse for abuse, no matter who the abuser is : your parent, sibling, family member or anybody else!
@Shadowman...Күн бұрын
In Africa the Gazelles don't apologies to the Lions for running away for fear they may appear rude. Stop being so nice and know your worth people
@hcmangs363414 сағат бұрын
Still have the mean & difficult people from childhood in my life… brother & parents. Working through how to manage, feel so much sadness
@funky_monk_979611 сағат бұрын
@@hcmangs3634 All power to you as you work through this very difficult situation 💪🏼
@Truthteller1sКүн бұрын
This is so good. Describes my condition perfectly. ❤
@funky_monk_9796Күн бұрын
This video should be prescribed viewing for everyone on Earth 🌍❤🌎❤🌏 imagine how many people would be healed if we all followed this advice...!! Thank you, Michele, you're one of the very best practitioners this field ✨️💯
@uniquelybeyouКүн бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this chat❤so helpful 🙏
@reneeoaniaytКүн бұрын
Good morning. A friend shared this video with me. Thank you Michele! God bless!
@hermajesty00Күн бұрын
Lack of boundaries
@jgannon163716 сағат бұрын
perfect zeitgeist. perfect beauty. Thanks. Love.
@n888-y4z22 сағат бұрын
Thank you so much for these insights. Anything that triggered her guilt or shame was dangerous...even a shift in my facial expressions or mood after I'd been verbally abused and berated would trigger worse abuse. My fear turned inward, fear of doing or saying the wrong thing. And especially fear of any act or expression of self-protection. I attract mean and selfish people because feeling hurt or angry in response to abuse had become unavailable to me. You had to stoically and even thankfully take it. It's just so confusing. I keep touching the flame, because there is no pain only shame and self blame. Crazy how we are molded to become complicant victims. 😢
@CraftyRecycler5 сағат бұрын
Thank you, Michelle. This makes so much sense.
@ChildofGod98765Күн бұрын
Please pray for me prayers are all we need! I’m trying to balance everything on my own, but Lord JESUS I need your help because I’m failing miserably providing for my sons as a single mother. Both my boys are special needs. I’m so overwhelmed trying to support them. I’m constantly struggling to make ends meet, to pay my bills, and to put food on the table. I’m ashamed and I’m mocked because of my situation. Jesus guide me and give me strength.💕❤️
@LOVEISTRUTH30015 сағат бұрын
I'm sorry you're going through that. Sending LOVE to you💖💖💖
@danitaoliver264Күн бұрын
❤ I Love You Michelle, we're a Good Fit, I've got to find a way to join your School!!!!❤
@Paul7237 сағат бұрын
Wonderful.
@wallymarcel112 сағат бұрын
Great video!
@annastone5624Күн бұрын
Trust that people are kind? ..but that's not the true-baseline of human beings - the most primary baseline is survival and competition. Most people prioritise their own self interest. Just like animals in the wild. That's not coming from a fear-perspective, it's simply realistic. Yes there are people who won't go out of their way to hurt us.. but the number of people that will actually 'support and protect' us, are very, very ,very, very small. Love your explanation with the Moth and Flame, totally resonates..
@flemutter7211Күн бұрын
Absolute spot on!
@-yi9mu10 сағат бұрын
I think for those who have been abused, abusers feel 'normal,' and familiar to them. So that is probably why 'alarm bells' don't ring.
@rocmiller319 сағат бұрын
Wayne Dyer once said we teach people how to treat us it's also a personality trait that we're very familiar with
@MartinVoois-b6i16 сағат бұрын
Thank you. 🤠👍👌🌞🍀❤🦋🙏
@ninafrederick60482 сағат бұрын
Jus in time
@tomorrowwestport2620Күн бұрын
Maybe because the clinical concept of narcissism is at odd with your personal opinion of what a narcissist is