FTM Transition: 10 Years on Testosterone

[@taylamenard1278]

Been following for years. I’m 24 now and started my journey 6 months ago. Thankful & grateful for your story.

[@ElectricDade]

Congratulations on getting started, that is the hardest part. It all get better from there. Enjoy the ride, my friend!

[@Tyxander]

Congrats! Also 24 and 9 months

[@christopherforder8966]

Wow I can’t believe it’s been 10yrs. Your one of the very first people I started watching 10yrs ago when it really hit home I had to transition. You were one of a few who really gave me the belief that it could be done and gave me the courage to become the real me! I still have a long way to go but you’ve been a massive reason why I’m here, so thank you. Seeing you & Tiff go through your struggles but come out the other side even stronger gave me and gives me hope for the future. You have grown so much and it has been wonderful to see and learn from you. Thank you for sharing your journey

[@ElectricDade]

Hey! Always good to hear from you. I feel like so many people have come in and out of my life on here since it started. It makes me happy to have some history with people. Be well!

[@ThoseCrazyYesters]

How timely. I was just watching some of your old videos as I was cooking dinner tonight. You have helped me greatly over the years. Thank you.

[@lisaadams-cooke5770]

I’ve been following you for several years and appreciate your honest and open videos about transition. I started educating myself when I found out we have two trans boys in my extended family who started medical transition at around 14. I must admit I still have doubts about the longterm feasibility of T for them, essentially going through menopause right after puberty. I was watching your updates for reassurance but see you have now stopped posting at the 10 year mark. I read that the difficulties often start at the 10 year mark, so it would be SO valuable for you to continue posting. There is hardly anyone doing this and it is needed. Thanks for all your work and the much-needed educational resource you’ve created.

[@ElectricDade]

That is interesting. I have never heard of difficulties at the ten year mark. Would you be willing to share with me the articles you have read? All is well with me. I have not officially stopped posting. Life is just very busy! I post regularly on Instagram. You are welcomed to follow me there. Same handle as KZbin. 🙂

[@didacftm]

Thanks a lot for your so nice, gentle and clear presence despite probably a lot of unwilling comentaries. You deserve the best. Regards from Barcelona

[@MrJimmyBeat]

We are still around! Both 10 years now, congrats!!

[@ElectricDade]

Haha! Kind of around. Just post now and then. Good to hear from you!

[@orlando1a1]

Watching you go from strength to strength has been inspirational, Dade. You have grown to become what you always were - a handsome man, liberated and free. All the very best for your future, handsome man.

[@mimique1111]

Wow, Dade! I remember the early days of your journey when you used to post a lot. I’m so glad for you.

[@timabrams761]

Looking good buddy!!!

[@biancrbs]

It's good to hear from you Dade

[@danni1993]

Well, Dade, you've accomplished your goal. You ARE a handsome, strong, compassionate, intelligent, young man, and you have a lovely family. Is it what you expected? Nothing is ever perfect, so I know you have the same struggles we all do. Just remember, struggles are not failures, and, failures are just an education. I've been with you since the beginning...I feel like a mother to you. I've been sad with you, angry when you've been disappointed so many times, thrilled for you, cried for you, and proud of you. A couple of years ago, I asked you a question. 'Why don't you just move away, where nobody knows you, and start fresh?' You told me, you needed to educate the people that didn't understand about being transgender, and basically encourage and give hope to those that need it. I'm glad you're where you are. Please give us an update on the family! OH...I loved the artwork, did you do it?

[@ElectricDade]

It is always good to hear from you! This has been quite a documentation, and as you said, so many facets of life have come through these videos. My family is doing really well; growing strong. I post more often on Instagram if you want more updates. I am @ElectricDade. The artwork in the video were really just photos I manipulated. I wanted it to seem less like I was just standing in my underwear, haha!

[@danni1993]

@@ElectricDade LOL...c'mon. Admit it, you want to show off that hot bod of yours! I'm glad everything is well with your family. How'd the changing careers go?

[@ElectricDade]

@@danni1993 Honestly, this is kinda vain, lol, but I haven't worked out since the pandemic started. I don't want to go back to the gym until the kids can be vaccinated. I am in the worst shape of my life. The sole reason for any photo filter was to hide some of my man chub. I think the kids will be vaccinated within a month, can't wait. The new career is great. It is the least stressful job I have ever had, which is exactly what I need right now.

[@danni1993]

@@ElectricDade I believe it's called a 'dad bod' these days. LOL

[@ElectricDade]

@@danni1993 Yep. That would be it.

[@damnronin]

Thank you!

[@thekengray]

So glad to see your updates. I have come to admire, adore, and, yes, to love me some Electric Dade. I am glad you are happy.

[@transmaninavan2920]

Been watching you for years. I credit your videos for giving me the courage to come out and start my transition at 51.

[@chefjen68]

You don't have a soul. You are a soul. You have a body..time to focus on your soul friend, body is just a shell Peace and Love

[@kousetsuhana]

gosh how time flies

[@aroyval]

Dade, as for your previous video, who says you don't smile..I saw a happy family with a happy father at the helm.. No hate from this guy, only lots of Love !!!

[@felixchampagne]

You helped me so much !!! I love you so much!!! I thank you from my soul

[@gregh9512]

Good to see you Dade. Hope all is well with you and your family and your job. You are such an inspiration, and a good, honest beautiful man. You've worked so hard over these years and faced so many struggles, but it seems as though it has finally paid off and you can live your life on your terms.

[@castronapaula]

Ha dez anos atras eu vi seu video e me emocionei, feliz em te rever pelo youtube.

[@korbenchesnut-petry1371]

I have been following you for over 8 years. You were the very first Tran man video I watched when I was looking for answers. You had the words I was look for and I need so deeply. I am so thankful you made a video I hope you do just disappear. Thank you for being you.

[@ElectricDade]

I do not know what my YT plans are at this point. I do post more on IG. @ElectricDade.

[@ichlesemit]

happy anniversary! cheers 🥂

[@lennard9691]

Hee thank you for you're video's i am now 4 years on T and i am waiting for my last operation but you teach my a lot with all you're video's Greetings from The Netherlands👌🏻

[@Cattspiracy._]

Wow! Dade,I’ve followed your journey since your very first video. You have provided the most educational & honest information that I’ve still- ever come across. it’s been so important documenting & sharing all that you have. You have saved lives & changed many cis ppl’s view of how they see/treat our trans sisters & brothers. I hope you start making content again soon, I feel as though the world needs your voice rn w all the bigotry,hate & anti trans laws that have recently been passed across the country. I miss seeing you & your family on social media 😢 Do you have Tik Tok?

[@ElectricDade]

Thank you for this kind comment. I know I have been MiA for a while, but getting back on here has been on my mind. I don’t have a TikToc, but I am on IG. Your can find me @electricdade.

[@nolanmaze9304]

Loved this! Great content.

[@summerdowlig]

Much love Dade.

[@charliesays7686]

You thank others in this video but I’m here to thank YOU, for being here, being present and being honest with the rest of the community. Personally speaking, you have been SUCH a source of strength and inspiration to me in my own transition and search of truth. I will be forever thankful. I’m so grateful for the vulnerable act of sharing your life with us, speaking as one transman in London (UK) your story has helped me no end in my endeavour to live as my authentic self. Peace x

[@ElectricDade]

Thank you for this kind comment. I am so happy you are on the way to living your authentic life.

[@Coy29chih]

We missed you!

[@TheNVS1]

Cheers to 10yrs. I’ve been following your videos for so many years. It’s funny, through KZbinrs, you kinda feel like you know them. I know we only know the parts you show us, but nonetheless. Well wishes to you man

[@ThatPunkBrent]

awesome video! happy 10 years!

[@callmelazy2836]

Wow, can't believe it's been 10 years! I remember watching you before Zane was even born and I loved seeing you transform from video to video. I am cis (although I have a complicated relationship with gender standards), but watching you has helped me so much when it comes to understanding what it's like to be trans and go through the process of transitioning. Thank you so much for that! I love seeing the man you have evolved to be over the years. Hope you are all ok and that life is treating you well. Stay safe and I wish you all the happiness!

[@s.ribeiro1836]

So happy for you! I've been following you since I realized I'm trans, many years ago. Hopefully I'll be on T soon.

[@jeremy1350]

Hey Stranger, You've been on my mind as of late. How are you doing, I hope you and the family are well.

[@ElectricDade]

Everything is going well on our end. I think we are in the same boat as everyone - trying to get thorough the tail end of the pandemic and return to some sort of normalcy. Thanks for checking in.

[@SoTypicallyMeh]

happy 10th manniversary!

[@hinotefanatic]

Dade, I’m really struggling with something. I don’t expect you to answer, but maybe one of your followers can help. I’ve been following your story for years and have always been impressed with you. I absolutely DON’T question whether being trans is a real thing, please don’t get me wrong, but the number of people coming out as trans seems to have increased so much in recent years, especially in the US. I’m grappling with whether it’s truly that common and people feel now they’re able to express it or if they, especially younger kids, are seeing it as the “cool” thing. My concern is with my 14 year old nibling. They came out as non-binary (from female) a few months ago, and now have decided they are trans, so it’s really he and not they. I love him so much and all I want is for him to be happy and healthy and have always felt that as long as what someone is doing doesn’t hurt them or anyone else they should live their life as they see fit. That said, as much as I don’t want to question how he’s feeling because I DON’T doubt some people are born in the wrong body, he’s wanting to start hormones and is talking about surgery. I’m just scared that he’ll do something he’ll come to regret. His moms and I are supportive, but can you offer any advice? To your followers, please don’t bash me. I will accept and love him no matter what he decides. I will never be able to truly understand the difficulties that trans people face but am trying so hard to educate myself.

[@RissaNaChelle]

I don't have an answer for you, but I do want to say that you calling him "him" proves that you are willing to accept him and educate yourself. I went through it and took hormones for myself for over a year. Turned out to be something I didn't feel like I needed in the end. The things that change when you are on hormones don't go back to the way they were. My voice isn't as deep as it was but is definitely way deeper than it was originally, I still can't hit high notes even 6 years later. Facial hair is there, the spots where my hair thinned are still thin. The downstairs region even changes and that will never go back to the way it was. Do I regret taking hormones? Only when I want to sing old songs I used to love singing. But it was an experience I **needed** to go through. If I could go back in time, I wouldn't change my decisions. My body may be different now, but it is still my body and I love where I am in life. If he decides on hormones now and then changes his mind later in life, that's okay. As long as he has a good support group, this won't take his life.

[@hinotefanatic]

@@RissaNaChelle thank you so much for sharing. I’m glad that you are happy and only want that for him, no matter where his decisions take him. It hurts my heart to see him struggling and I feel helpless other than to let him know I love him and think he’s an awesome human being.

[@RissaNaChelle]

@@hinotefanatic hey, that's all you need to do so you're doing it right. :) just keep on being there the way that you are.

[@ElectricDade]

This is a hard question to answer, and you are in a hard spot. I think the steep increase in people coming out as trans or non-binary is a direct result of society becoming more accepting. That is not to say that all people who believe they are trans or non-binary end up actually sticking with it. It is really hard to figure out who you are when you are a young person, and for young people who are questioning their gender and/or sexuality - it is even more complicated. All we can do is pretty much my advice for all parenting and mentoring.... just do your best to love and support them. Sometimes being "trans" ends up as a phase, sometimes it is not. The only real damage that happens is when you do not support the people you love while they figure themselves out. I really empathize with your spot. Sometimes there are no right answers and all you can do is patiently hope you did the right thing. From how you spoke in you message, I'd say you are on the right track. Sending you and your brother my best.

[@didacftm]

If it’s the case he will confirmed it. Don’t worry. I truely think he’s already fortunate to have so nice parents. He just needs time and explorating. It’s must be a very difficult situation for you both.

[@shai17altamiranoanco77]

I love you, im happy for you

[@jackiekingston8607]

FATHER ...husband .....Fab human being ...The Whole Ball of Wax ..That's you Dade ........this is coming from an older woman en sol with the trans community for many years ...here in Montreal Canada ......

[@LynnNeumann]

I am a 28-year-old trans man. I’ve been wanting to get on testosterone for a while but haven’t been able to yet due to financial reasons. I’m wondering how old you were when you began testosterone.

[@ElectricDade]

I was 29 when I started T.

[@Jasper-or7ui]

Just seeing this now. I hope someday I'll be at this point in my journey. I'm a little over a year on testosterone right now and have had zero surgery. It's going to be a long road ahead.

[@ElectricDade]

I hear you. It is a long road - I won’t say it’s not. You will get to where you need to be though. You’ve got this.

[@soupnfresh]

Why can't you just be a lesbian? Serious question.

[@01-s]

That is so cool dude congrats but the music at the end scared me a bit

[@keloreilly7017]

Thank you, Dade. I am thankful that your journey to yourself has been successful. Bless you and your beautiful family. Our World is lucky to have a guy like you in it.

[@elsands9774]

💙

[@felixchampagne]

🥰

[@andymackey]

YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION TO ME!!! THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR STORY SO THAT OTHERS CAN FIND THE COURAGE TO LIVE THEIR TRUTH!!! MUCH LOVE MY BROTHER!!! ALOHA!!!

[@dachedetre]

Great video. Keep following your bliss. Been here for along time with you. Much love xx

[@cyndykated358]

You said all you needed to! Been following for about 5 years. Always admired your honesty and sincerity. Loved the way you told this.❤️❤️

[@immortal98638]

Does T change your forehead shape and facial bone structure?

[@ElectricDade]

T cannot add bone, but it does add softer tissue such as muscle and cartilage. The size of my head and face changed quite a bit.

[@0909a-t1d]

Thank you for sharing so much over the years. I have followed you from the beginning, I'm now 27 and 8 years on testosterone, and it has been so inspiring and reassuring to see your journey. Not just as a trans man in transition, but as a man going through life in general.

[@ninik1224]

you're one of the few inspirations! just started my gender-affirming hormone therapy 2 months ago. thank you for sharing your journey!

[@LiamMagan]

I remember coming across your page when I was younger, a few years before I realized I too was trans, and I’ve been following you since. You were an early example of what my life could be. Thank you, Dade.

[@tyler9424]

I found you many years ago right at the beginning of my transition (pre eeeeverything) regarding your videos about bottom surgery and it's incredible to see you live your authentic life, you've inspired me to see that I can still have a family and live the life I want to achieve and I'm finally making it, now I've reached my 6th year on T and 1 year post top surgery, thanks Dade :D

[@morganjoel6229]

I've been here since the beginning as well. I started T at age 25 in 2018. By that point I had been watching your transition for a few years already and I gotta say, your videos did help me alot through the early years. I'm now almost 4 years into my transition and feel more myself every day!