So proud of you Bisola. It takes a lot of strength and courage to come out like you have done. We need more Nigerians like you in every facet of our national life for our nation to change. May the Lord strengthen you.
@Prisonerofhope265 жыл бұрын
I had a very similar experience with a family member when I was 6 and everything she said about struggle and the shame i feel it and that is why I believe her. It took me almost 14years to tell anyone. You feel so broken to the extent I tried to take my life at 17years old. You will never understand until you have lived it. Stay strong Babe like you said. Keep your eyes on God. #youareavictor
@talk2minie5 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry you went through that and at such a young age🥺 You are indeed a victor and have nothing to be ashamed of because you did nothing wrong. Hold your head up high.
@Prisonerofhope265 жыл бұрын
@@talk2minie thank you so much for saying that. You are very kind.🤗🤗🤗I appreciate you.
@talk2minie5 жыл бұрын
@@Prisonerofhope26 🤗🤗🤗
@emelinefonyuy37294 жыл бұрын
Strong woman
@oluwatobiabigailgilgalson73825 жыл бұрын
Thanks for coming out Busola, Uncle Timi you a Man God bless you... I pray ladies whom are victims of such act will speak out.
@marcellinajoshfem92805 жыл бұрын
Busola,I love your courage.thank God for the support of your husband.This reminds me of my bitter experience with a pastor in a Ikoyi church far back in the late nineties. Till now I dont have the courage to say it out,I was a bit older than you(23)then.a virgin and a dedicated child of God.i dont think I can come out like you,kudos to you.
@Murmuringpsychic5 жыл бұрын
I'll be sincere here,am 19 years old and all my life I've never listened to someone narrate such a painful experience, watching this hurts me , thinking of things most women go through hurts me,to everyone special woman out there,I pray you never experience such a painful ordeal,she's really a strong woman to be able to narrate this all,I swear I wouldn't have been able to say this at all ,You're a great woman Busola dakolo. Justice always prevails. Every strong woman out there ,you have my respect
@taiwoal5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story Busola God will equip and bless you.
@kendalladaramola5 жыл бұрын
Chude, great interview here. You did a fantastic job. You are a great man. And to Busola, so so Sorry to hear your story. You have a powerful voice. Soft but powerful. God is with you and we the people are solidly behind you. Don't be afraid. Much love
@Nkiru2225 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the full interview. Busola I stand by you!!! Speak your truth!!! The devil is a liar and you shall be vindicated in Jesus name amen!!
@emelinefonyuy37294 жыл бұрын
Busola you are Timi's medicine now and he is your medicine too. Courage courage and courage again strong woman. You are soft spoken, loveable and courageous.
@coolcoloursbeautyngozioji87725 жыл бұрын
"The Mind is where the battle is".. GREAT WORD BUSOLA🤗
@maryannuebari79665 жыл бұрын
It has occurred to me that many people on Facebook ranting and supporting Biodun haven’t even seen this video. Their opinion is based purely on the opinions of others! I am glad that a woman has spoken up!
@nnamdiokolo50905 жыл бұрын
Some of her account dont tally
@nnamdiokolo50905 жыл бұрын
This Chude is a dumb fuck
@femilouis6225 жыл бұрын
Before I came here to see this video, I was sort of biased because I had listened to many debates and commentaries discrediting the truth of her story. I had thought the story would be marred with loopholes and irregularities. But hey, this woman spoke as one who lived every word she uttered. Her story is totally believable. And by the way, why is it so difficult for people to believe that "men of God" can be scum too?
@sampleikeja11675 жыл бұрын
They had sex but not rape
@ITISKONY5 жыл бұрын
@@sampleikeja1167 Cos you were there. And even if it's sex, is it proper for a Pastor that is married with a child to sleep with a 16 years old girl. And he still hasn't stopped doing it till now?
@akinlolulekan22235 жыл бұрын
@@sampleikeja1167 Your stupidity is matched only by your desire to just say whatever comes up in your empty skull
@femilouis6225 жыл бұрын
@sample Ikeja, like many other people, I think you have a streamlined idea of what rape is- a perpetrator wearing a mask, wielding a weapon and using excessive force to take advantage of the victim. But nah, it goes beyond that. In the simplest of terms, rape is having "sex" with another without their consent or agreement. With this is mind, it'd be interesting to know what you meant by "they had sex but not rape".
@uyiegharevba51605 жыл бұрын
@@ITISKONY he was only 22 years old then
@towakennuatere51155 жыл бұрын
Dis too detailed to be staged I just pray God judge the wicked
@ARSENFEM5 жыл бұрын
I have heard and witnessed three events like this.... so I can actually agreed with her to some point. Those statements coming out are just too factual....Men I can't help it but to agreed with her 98%
@ITISKONY5 жыл бұрын
@@ARSENFEM same here. I know a female friend that told me about her experience with this Pastor years back.
@serathur005 жыл бұрын
@@ITISKONY oh really? wow hm
@ITISKONY5 жыл бұрын
@@serathur00 YEP
@umarabdullahi85594 жыл бұрын
@@ARSENFEM &[****♤aa22qqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqq+++qqqaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaqqaaaaaa aaaaaaqqa says g
@michelleserrano81475 жыл бұрын
I watched this to the end and with a heavy heart ,I am just so so sorry for what she went through and continues to go through.I pray complete healing and restoration for her 🙏
@lindaatuakak41795 жыл бұрын
you are so courageous..and I can imagine n see the innocence in u as u were speaking..such a beautiful soul..May God heal u completely..thank u
@oluwatoyinoluwatusin67475 жыл бұрын
So sorry you had to go through this. I am short of words!
@mabintyconteh6495 жыл бұрын
I'm with you darling You are indeed a strong example
@funkeraji89695 жыл бұрын
She is telling the truth!
@obichereonyekachi87035 жыл бұрын
How do you know this. there is no case of rape without struggle!!!
@hannahonoguwe63665 жыл бұрын
@@phatsissy67 Please tell him. So sorry about your experience. Just imagining it, even... May you be healed, too.
@chiomahopejames41782 жыл бұрын
Which truth?? Do you have any proof if she is saying the truth?
@coolcoloursbeautyngozioji87725 жыл бұрын
Brave brave Busola. My heart goes to you. You have all my support. RESPECT 🤗
@adedolapo_sun5 жыл бұрын
He's diabolical! Lord Jesus send Your Fire and prove that you are God!!!!
@adaezeprincess76625 жыл бұрын
Dollypee Vlogs my mom said just the same. Rape is his way of renewal
@mkaranja293 жыл бұрын
The interview has a lot of empathy, well done for this. Busola, May God completely heal you.
@ARSENFEM5 жыл бұрын
She is just a beautiful soul
@agbonjoshuajesse66005 жыл бұрын
GOD got you#Busola I SALUTE YOUR COURAGE☑👍
@coolcoloursbeautyngozioji87725 жыл бұрын
"They come to your house and say it's the devil".. HOW ABSURD! Biodun and team must have been out of their freaking minds!!
@blessingiyare46965 жыл бұрын
So Brave! Thanks for coming out with your truth❤
@ADiva4life5 жыл бұрын
Alot of people have been calling this woman names on Facebook and am so sure the majority of them due to lack of data haven't seen this video. Some People talk based on other people's opinion. I really do believe her and I feel her pain. Justice will definitely prevail
@coolcoloursbeautyngozioji87725 жыл бұрын
This should go beyond an interview. It has to be reported and the IG of Police should order full investigation and this case should brought to court. This deserves the full arm of the law.
@yemidynamyte5 жыл бұрын
It's years past there won't be evidence.... status of limitations and prosecution is really not in the victims favour
@simeonerickotieno44705 жыл бұрын
Deeply saddened by your story and what you had to go through sis Busolo, God's grace is sufficient, and may God heal you wholesome. For that pastor may God deal with him according to his word.
@mameafuanyamekye7725 жыл бұрын
Everything shows she is telling the truth. God will be ur strength 😍
@adaolisaadimora12735 жыл бұрын
His wife is not even sensitive as the wife of a pastor should be. She should have noticed the way busola seemed to be avoiding her PASTOR! OR maybe she has even been avictim once or twice! As she left the church,biodun's wife didn't even look for her? How insensitive!
@TLT_tv5 жыл бұрын
A lot of women have actually gone through this at some point in their lives, but only the courageous ones are able to do what Busola did even after so many years...
@euphoriarose2014 жыл бұрын
jusu jaka Ok but the people doing that isn't in line with God's word. God doesn't tell people to rape or steal etc. That's the people. So don't get that mixed up. People are always using religion for financial gain.
@christophermonday11735 жыл бұрын
Hmmm,l want to commend Busola courage for coming out to clear air about this whole issue, it's an eye opener especially for those of us who have female children .we must be more concern about what is going on in there life and not to leave them in the hand of predators
@maryannuebari79665 жыл бұрын
Biodun’s wife is an accomplice. She knew exactly what her husband did and was trying to help him get some more!!!
@dellalafen56755 жыл бұрын
Pleaseee just stop saying "man of God"Thank you busola for speaking out,God bless strengthen and protect you.
@supergaltricia21435 жыл бұрын
Please where is Minister Wole and her second cousin Flow....to come out and call this so called pastor Out. Because they know too.
@nollys85235 жыл бұрын
Did you not hear they got "promoted"? If your boss promoted you, would you call your boss out?
@supergaltricia21435 жыл бұрын
Noll S so even her so called cousin too ??
@joannakolawole23785 жыл бұрын
tai Oyebamiji She said the pastor's cousin is late.
@PrinceE_OH5 жыл бұрын
The men in the church should go and carry out test on their children, if really they are the true father.
@chinenyeofoekwe22425 жыл бұрын
I’ve not been able to see this video but I did it today and it hurts so much....I couldn’t even hold my tears
@fagbamilayewande93725 жыл бұрын
This is relatable, I also almost fell victim of these so-called men of God. On three different occasions, I have also come across pastors like him who feel they can have their ways in molesting teenagers and other female members all in d name of spirituality.
@SimpleBelieverKJV5 жыл бұрын
God bless her.
@ReubenOyeyele5 жыл бұрын
I believe her totally. In a more organized society and country, he would have been in jail a looong time ago. Seduction of a minor is a criminal offense and so is rape. He should be jailed. Period. His victims should be given some counseling. Who knows how many young lives he has destroyed?
@shegzee20025 жыл бұрын
Na waooo for her to said all of this in church of God is very real story... God will judge.. but I will not lie I cried small
@blessingo39245 жыл бұрын
BRAVE!!! 👑👑👑
@somethinginteresting81513 жыл бұрын
I feel so sorry for her. The courage
@MK-kg8fq5 жыл бұрын
In response to the interviewer's question: Why in God's name did you go back "? Hm! Sir! believe me; one can't explain it. Even when you sometimes reflect and ask herself "why didn't I fight him, why didn't I tell someone, why did I stay quiet this long"? Guess what? No idea! And then years after, something triggers in you and you just wanna to be heard.
@i_SingMostParts5 жыл бұрын
You're blessed. You get it!
@serathur005 жыл бұрын
You really get it!
@Styled_by_taydee5 жыл бұрын
This man needs prayer because what he did to busola dakolo is outrageous. He needs to come down immediately
@adebayophillip10885 жыл бұрын
Talking of prayers, I think his congregation is in total darkness
@bhs28245 жыл бұрын
Having a hard time watching this to the end. Women Arise!
@mimilawrence55685 жыл бұрын
This interviewer 8s asking some very stupid and idiotic questions. This woman is brave and courageous. Why would she be lying it's so detailed. It takes a lot to come out. Well done sis. May God bless you and continue to keep you. Your story will continue to encourage and uplift others.
@joyfabian2075 жыл бұрын
Busola, you're courageous. Thanks for sharing your story. I pray you get healed and the rapist brought to book. I know your story will encourage others to open up. I hope it will be like the #metoo 2017 in the US. This is 21st century, Nigerian women should speak out......there are lots of victims, not on record, and these vicious men, some pedophelias continue with this terrible act.....we must do what lies in our power to stop this. #NO TO RAPE
@kingamun96965 жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to you my strong sister! That SCUM of a pastor should be prosecuted and jailed for a very long time!
@wallywest79865 жыл бұрын
This is fantastic
@adebayophillip10885 жыл бұрын
It's unfortunate that we are always too quick to judge mostly here in Nigeria. Prior to this moment, I was contemplating within myself having heard the stories and comment of people regarding this issue ( how true it might be) but having watched the full video of the victim ( Busola Dakolo ) being interviewed, I sense truth and honestly in all. First of all, I'm so grateful to God who proves himself of not being a partial God. By reviewing Himself as God of season not God of time. Without doubt and much sayings, here are my own observations (1) it's so obvious and most definite that (Pastor- not applicable) Biodun Fatoyinbo is using charm to talk to the victims in the process ( 1, just do my own and you'll be fine, 2, nobody ignored or refuses my call, and then, 3, the victims will just discover they can't shout or refuse after those little words, 4, the wife supporting him will surely know of all his deeds too because that might be the source behind the sudden power, wealth and multiple increases of youth church members Secondly, Busola body language and explanation without stammering or repetition of words show she's saying just the truth that will definitely set her and others victims free someday from the devilish possessed agent of darkness parading themselves as ministers of God whereas they are for gods. May God help you to overcome the trauma finally in Jesus name Am happy for the loving and God fearing husband our HEAVENLY FATHER gives you, may He see you through, bless you and your family and help you to build a perfect godly home together. #notorape #BusolaDakolo #Apostle Tchenangni Adebayo Phillip
@eberechukwunwojo84215 жыл бұрын
GOD will certainly help you. I pray all the promises of the Bible to come to pass in your life. Sorry about what happened to you. I await Romans 8:28 to come to pass more & note in your life. May the peace of CHRIST that surpasses all understanding always be with you & your family. GOD bless.,
@davidderby59205 жыл бұрын
Inspector general of police where you dey oh! Time to find space for pastor Biodun for Kirikiri. Call pastor Wole and Flo as withness. Lawless Nigeria I bet you nothing will be done. Sad
@Xi-phar5 жыл бұрын
Nollywood needs to make a movie of this.
@sledgepromotions6615 жыл бұрын
When the bed rock of a story is based on falsehood, it hardly contains references to 3rd parties that can corroborate or debunk the story. This Lady's narration has at least 15 third party references ( other pastors, brothers & Sisters, wife of the suspect himself, other church members, etc) and events in time and space that can be referenced. It is difficult to tell a story of this magnitude that is not true. May God heal her.
@solomonternder3 жыл бұрын
You are right!
@ihuomasylvia84473 жыл бұрын
God bless you
@NatahLove5 жыл бұрын
You are so brave. Continue to be strong. It shall be well.
@GraceGodsRoyalDiadem2 жыл бұрын
I am just getting to watch this interview in full since data is no longer an issue for me. I can totally relate with this story as I was just able to speak about my own case of 'fondling ' about 14years later and instead of speaking up, I took my anger out on my family (sister and mother) so much so it caused a rift between us while the culprit was even judging my case. He did same to my cousin but as at today he still refuted my claims and hides under the 'caring brother-in-law'.
@fatimatuellenoforililfeo525 жыл бұрын
I believe you and understand Busola
@ewatofunmi5 жыл бұрын
The heart of man is full of evil and desperately wicked.... who can know it😡 #istandwithbusoladakolo
@cerahiyah15 жыл бұрын
He's bold because what if her family had walked in... Woooooooow He is a sickening man if this is true and his wife can't be innocent she must know something...
@cerahiyah15 жыл бұрын
So sad
@AFORockaway5 жыл бұрын
You are still referring to him as Pastor Biodun. Na wa o
@AnimationTIME-ON5 жыл бұрын
Quick name: beast biodun
@redeemablesoul5 жыл бұрын
For him to de virgin her like that...the Lord will punish him.it reminds me of the time Tamar was raped and David did nothing
@marthepassoli15 жыл бұрын
Oh my God!
@aburuprisy51548 күн бұрын
WAIT OH.. how did he know dat the mum travelled and how com he knew he can do dat without no one seeing him, in her fathers house.
@mg99625 жыл бұрын
After all, what's the Nigeria government going to do about this issue? What's Nigeria Government officials going to do about pastors who are clearly killing nigeria women and innocent underage girls in Nigeria? If such things should happen to President Buhari daughters, would he still behave so ignorant? God! What a country.. Nigeria's wake up .. stand up for the dignity of women in Nigeria..
@theSami_A5 жыл бұрын
A lot happening in this nation mehn
@reelspilltv5 жыл бұрын
'Divine Delight Club' - only in Christianity will you find someone trying to mix Christ with bumping and grinding on a dance floor possibly in a *dark* room. You will never find such in Judaism or in Islam. John 3:20-21: "For everyone practicing evil hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his deeds should be exposed. But he who does the truth comes to the light, that his deeds may be clearly seen, that they have been done in God.” Any gathering, any club where you find the lights are off it is because they are doing something unGodly there. Why not turn on the lights so we can all see what is going on? 'Former' cultists and 'former' prostitutes meeting in one place is like bringing dogs and bones together. Who are these 'new age' deceivers trying to deceive? Many are called but few are chosen. Fake pastors full ground. Few were sent (by God), most just went (on their own accord). 95% of so-called 'men of God' are actually 'gods of men' and their Gods are their own stomachs. Imagine how many young girls, how many daughters, how many grown women who have experienced the same trauma with well-known pastors, with father's or mother's friends, father's or mother's brothers and cousins, oga's gateman, oga's houseboy or oga's driver - and these women still remain silent? But, wait a minute. A fake pastor raped you, then you went to midweek service *in his church* the following week then, you went to *his house* to look after *his child overnight,* he rapes you again the morning after and then you would still step foot into *his church* after two weeks and then you attended his fake deliverance service and go to his fake altar for fake deliverance, then you went out with *his cousin* another ex-cult member? Okay, O. This is what happens to daughters when a father is never at home. Chude Jideonwo, you are the most annoying interviewer. You spoke more than the interviewee. You interjected so many times and after a while, it seemed like the interview was about you. Plus your voice is annoying. African girls, African women, your wall of silence only empowers sexual predators to continue in their dastardly acts. *Speak out and expose them.* Expose that uncle. Expose that pastor. Expose that lecturer. Expose that boss. Expose that cousin. Mothers, fathers, please question that your brother, or that your male cousin or friend who always wants to spend time alone with your daughter in the house. That your relative or friend who always wants to spend the night in your house, check them. That man who always wants to carry your underage daughter in his car. Mothers, fathers, question your daughters and have a relationship with your daughters that will allow them to confide in you. Any 'pastor' who stands up for a sexual predatory 'pastor' rather than stand up for the victim is himself implicit or complicit in molesting underage girls. People lose their commonsense when they hear the word 'pastor'. 'Pastor' for some people is realer to them than Jesus Christ. No church, no pastor, no general overseer, died for your sins and saved your soul. Jesus Christ did that. Please look to the Father of all creation and have a relationship with *Him and only Him.* Biodun's wife is an enabler. She enables her husband to sleep with young girls. This is African pentecostalism!!!! Flee from it!!!!
@uchok30513 жыл бұрын
lol...@Chude Jideonwo, you are the most annoying interviewer. You spoke more than the interviewee. You interjected so many times and after a while, it seemed like the interview was about you. Plus your voice is annoying
@tobistrap96895 жыл бұрын
The man is a monster, they usually lack empathy for their victims.
@ARSENFEM5 жыл бұрын
@1:44:20.... that made me to believe the whole thing
@sholaafolabi71775 жыл бұрын
the government should look to this case
@somethinginteresting81513 жыл бұрын
This is so sad
@ices26915 жыл бұрын
Unfortutnatly the enemy of the church are some of this so call men of God.
@redeemablesoul5 жыл бұрын
He needs to go to jail
@ehijatornoelillenre.53285 жыл бұрын
The biggest lie of the Devil is the misrepresentation of Grace as being preached in churches today. We all must repent and be baptized, the return of our Messiah is at hand.
@Teemade20103 жыл бұрын
This is too detailing to be lie but is there any action been taken since this story came out?
@cecille73495 жыл бұрын
Who is here after the court's ruling?
@singingforshalom838510 ай бұрын
Unfortunate. Lots of women have this story. Women,mothers look out for your young ones. Wickedness! God help us. I’m so sorry.
@sibymathew78593 жыл бұрын
Ihate how Nigeria will support a man of God but say all kinds of things like the girl threw herself on him blah blah I know girls blah blah. Not all girls are like the ones. Saying such shit. I totally believe her.. It doesn't take much to see biodun is no man of God. He can justify all he wants about his approach in church.
@emdinibeh58655 жыл бұрын
Biodun fatoyinbo is a beast.
@franklingsseden98835 жыл бұрын
U are the monster!! stop sacasm pls don't judge only God knows the truth. Ur pointing one finger on someone, remember the whole four are pointing back to u!! U should rather pray instead of blackmail ND of course, I stand with my pastor all the way....
@emdinibeh58655 жыл бұрын
@@franklingsseden9883 thunder will fire you and ur rapist pastor. U Bastard!!
@doxaspecialchildrenscare51995 жыл бұрын
Don't judge based on one party story... remember what the Bible says touch not my prophet and do them no harm
@franklingsseden98835 жыл бұрын
@@emdinibeh5865 he that is without sin, cast the first stone
@emdinibeh58655 жыл бұрын
@@franklingsseden9883 I said wat I said, ur pastor is a rapist. Now fuck off my comment section
@JosephOnoshakpokae5 жыл бұрын
With story I think this said Pastor should be taken to the law.
@taiwoal5 жыл бұрын
Mic issues at 58:30
@olamidetitilope935 жыл бұрын
This is sound pathetic But, this woman was so quiet. Why did you kept quiet about this since all those years. Ooh my God, may God help you and reward that pastor badly
@precioussunday19755 жыл бұрын
He was fighting temptation
@sammyboi56858 ай бұрын
Thank God we have sone thoughtful people here.
@jumokeogunya30245 жыл бұрын
I remember that particular comment the person wrote under her husband's post it was so mean ,inhuman and insensitive
@Lerian_V5 жыл бұрын
Wrong studio! Which parish priest allowed this to take place in front of the altar?
@hotarobin15 жыл бұрын
Is that honestly all of what you got from this whole thing?? Seriously??
@emecca1235 жыл бұрын
@@hotarobin1 oh but that observation is extremely material, in that it brings psychologically, credibility to the story.
@gemini44145 жыл бұрын
what a lie... even a blind man would notice... like he didn't concentrate on the fact that ur family could be around...
@Iambasseyemmanuel5 жыл бұрын
This story to me is not clear! Seriously I am not gullible!!
@mujidatsolomon65915 жыл бұрын
She said he was a cultist when he was in school,the reason she couldn't scream was because she was afraid,u know she was only 16 then,I just pray God does not let any of us find ourselves in a situation that we will be ask why didn't u,when did it, how is it possible or even look like a liar,I didn't believe a word a few days ago, until I came to this interview n listen,I didn't just listen, I listen to a very word along side the emotions she showed, l hope u also watch it again, thanks
@ITISKONY5 жыл бұрын
Until it happens to you or someone you know, you won't know how had it is to come out and talk. I have a female friend that told me about her experience with this Pastor years back when she was in ilorin, that's why she stopped going to any church. Now I feel bad, because when she told me then I just told her it's ok, and it's not enough reason to stop going to Church. Now I realise it wasn't as easy as I thought. Not everybody's got the boldness to come and talk when things like this happens to them. And remember she was only 16.
@Iambasseyemmanuel5 жыл бұрын
See I am not supporting anyone o... Mine is the story is not clear to me... Please don't misquote me, besides its just an accusation there are no proven fact yet... Just know that if it's not clear the man can sue for defamation of character... Just be careful!
@Iambasseyemmanuel5 жыл бұрын
@@mujidatsolomon6591 and please note, in the court of law, ordinary words are not facts...
@ITISKONY5 жыл бұрын
@@Iambasseyemmanuel Well, when more than one person has come out to say the same thing about the same Pastor - there are reasons to believe. And if you noticed, the Pastor has not publicly denied the allegations.
@enejihillary40075 жыл бұрын
"you should be happy that the man of God did this to you" whaoooo !!! crazy crazy crazy
@ebenezerbernardayisi74534 жыл бұрын
In Nigeria, an eighteen year old is a minor ?
@Kareem-Baba2 жыл бұрын
Teenager!
@emmanueladesina40065 жыл бұрын
I really wish this man of God did not do this, but i have to be honest her story is beliec Vable
@akinlolulekan22235 жыл бұрын
You still call him man of God? At what point does a person stop being a man of God?
@danielhenshaw40735 жыл бұрын
Good day everyone, please no one should attack me on this. When Busola Dakolo narrated her story, it's sounded Vague. No pain, no emotions, no anger etc. To me Stella shows more emotions narrating this story than the Victim. Now why her story doesn't add up is that, if u are talking of trauma, I don't think Busola sounded traumatized. Back to her story, 1. She said her sister was in the house and a Man (Pastor) just came to the house around 7am to rape without having the fear of being caught by her family or neighbours. 2. She sat down there, waited patiently for him to go out to buy krest and he poured it in her mouth. Shock and Trauma should have given her room to run away from him or scream. 3. She did not have time to Cry, so she took away the Only Evidence which was the blood on the floor. Someone who is traumatized wouldn't think of that in the first place. The person will be sober. 4. What kind of sleep was her sister sleeping that she did not hear her sister scream, oh sorry I remember she said vividly that she did not scream, she just kept quit and allowed him. 5. After everything, you still ended up attending his church. That same week he raped you, Went and slept in his house, all in the name of taking care of his baby and he ended up raping you for the second time on the street. You still did not scream, u just allowed him do what he did freely and you still attended his Church. Then after 20years, you came out to talk of Trauma. To me, I don't think she was traumatized, there is something behind her story that she did not say. I am not saying the pastor did not rape her, there is every possibility he may have raped her, but she cleaned her only evidence which was the blood on the floor. That's just the Sad thing. I am not saying this to hurt anyone's feelings, I am only judging the story she gave. It's just my own opinion. Anyway, God knows the entire truth behind all this story....
@doxaspecialchildrenscare51995 жыл бұрын
Daniel Henshaw it's pathetic I don't know who's story I'll believe
@akinlolulekan22235 жыл бұрын
I know you were trying to sound logical. You sounded very foolish. You talk like you know everything about trauma. THERE'S NO OUTLINE ON HOW EVERY TRAUMA VICTIM BEHAVES. Get that into your empty skull. Some even commit suicide. You're just an insensitive bag of dung
@sharonm-a75805 жыл бұрын
Daniel would your sister, or your daughter need to show "evidence" of her blood on the floor for you to believe her if she cries she was raped even if it was days, months or years or decades later? Many n most rapists have been held accountable only because they were caught in the act, that is to say that logic/ intelligence rarely comes in place when they are consumed with such ugly urges. Except of course the attack is premeditated.
@danielhenshaw40735 жыл бұрын
@Priscilla nxumalo, I understand you clearly but trust me, Busola did not show a sign of Trauma when narrating her story. The story was so plain. My issue was with the story not the act. I know the act is evil but the narration is what got to me, raped twice in one which... who goes to sleep over at a rapist house freely. I was only trying to be logical and follow the narration of the story clearly... that's why I listed out those points. Tho there are other points.
@danielhenshaw40735 жыл бұрын
@akinlolu lekan, Number 1. I said no insult, but it shows how immature you are that u cannot have a simple conversation without insults. Please try and grow up. Everyone has their opinion... by the way, what do u know about trauma... if u think u know alot about trauma visit psychiatric hospital then u will expand your horizon about trauma. Someone like you cannot even be a judge cos u will be biased. You heard from 1 person and u r jumping into conclusions. Mind u Trauma can be outlined. Incase you dont know Symptoms of psychological trauma 1. Shock, denial, or disbelief.Confusion, difficulty concentrating.Anger, irritability, mood swings.Anxiety and fear.Guilt, shame, self-blame.Withdrawing from others.Feeling sad or hopeless.Feeling disconnected or numb. It's not everyone that gets Traumatized after being raped... Some come out of Trauma early while some take longer time to come out of it. Hearing her story doesn't show anything close to trauma... Please in case of next time, when discussing with people you don't know, try to be polite. Insults don't bring about solution.
@kofoworolafalilah5 жыл бұрын
This Pastor is a monster. He raped her event by the roadside, in the car! He is crazy. He should go to jail! He should be punished under the law of the Federal Republic of Nigeria.
@pilotstory1615 жыл бұрын
The interviewer is very poor. Allow her complete her statement.
@olalekandagunduro76535 жыл бұрын
This Interviewer needs more training on how to conduct an interview. He keeps interrupting. A woman is the ideal choice to conduct such sensitive interviews, not a man, certainly not an inexperienced, insensitive man. We need to hear the ladies' side of the story. That Pastor should be castrated and hung upside down to bleed to death!
@akinyemidare11915 жыл бұрын
This terrible story in fat let the man come out and ask for forgiveness from God and the lady
@queenvivian305 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭
@TmDad-g2n2 ай бұрын
Be close to your daughters men and teach them to have confidence. Don't worship men even your own pastors. And some of you are still in Biodun's church 😂
@smustapha5 жыл бұрын
This whole situation to me looks like the pastor use this woman to elevate his spiritual power ....if una understand me (juju).
@Kareem-Baba2 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@VV-uk6hg2 жыл бұрын
Very possible bcs the blood of a virgin might definitely mean something to a "former' cultist
@sledgepromotions6615 жыл бұрын
The interviewer is very poor at conducting interviews. Continious interjecting with silly and stupid questions. U have a One in a lifetime opportunity to conduct a high profile interview and get overwhelmed by anxiety !!!
@osinakachiibeji58975 жыл бұрын
Somewhere you said you were outspoken and then you’re not able to speak up after being raped twice.. and you continued to worship in the church...I cannot conclude whether you were outspoken and this doesn’t mean I doubt you or believe you wholly...
@inspiringgirl18215 жыл бұрын
Outspoken about the things of the Lord, about her passion for church and for God !!!!! Once you get defiled it BREAKS THE ABILITY TO BE BOLD. Don't try to understand please coz you won't be able to unless you have lived it.