Man I hope this story helps others leave their toxic relationships it’s sad
@taylorfrink11823 жыл бұрын
oh it will. even in my case, i had already left but still struggled with wanting to go back. Gabby's case really struck me, bc watching the bodycam footage is like watching myself- i was just blessed and fortunate enough that my local PD is very educated in and devoted to stopping domestic violence. that was the only real difference between Gabby and me- the police actually saved my life. he even had strangled me (that's what he originally was arrested for), textbook narcissistic abuser. and seeing that now, i'm done ever thinking that abusive man could change because he won't. & at the very least..Gabby won't die in vain, she opened up the conversation around domestic violence and police response to abusive relationships that we've been needing to have for so long now.
@gregoryvierra61143 жыл бұрын
their?
@turdferguson15483 жыл бұрын
@@taylorfrink1182 glad you made it out!!
@notofthisworld52673 жыл бұрын
It won’t These cases have been going on for centuries.
@lukecallahan3103 жыл бұрын
@KY5 [10th Main Account] hahahahahaha
@joysimpson75033 жыл бұрын
As a woman who has experienced severe domestic violence. If your partner hits you once be rest assured it will happen again and again . So 🏃♀️ and don’t look back .
@krak94033 жыл бұрын
i hope ur in a better place now :(
@donnah53783 жыл бұрын
Yep, mine held a pillow over my face when he was upset with me and although it was a brief encounter, I never trusted him after that and left.
@joysimpson75033 жыл бұрын
@@krak9403 Yes I am ! And thank you kindly for your empathy . Unfortunately, I have flashbacks every time I hear of men/women who die as a result of domestic violence...
@joysimpson75033 жыл бұрын
@@donnah5378 I’m so sorry to know that you experienced that and glad you were wise enough to leave . All the best
@cynthiacreamer71773 жыл бұрын
Joy very true statement, it will happen again, the victim wants to believe the abuse won't happen a second time. Please if it happened the first time, it will happen again. Leave !
@maltlicky41493 жыл бұрын
The fact he stared at her as the life left her and continued even after she died is another level of evil !
@gonegirl35773 жыл бұрын
Not after she died but after she lost consciousness. Big difference
@KH-ou6ex3 жыл бұрын
@@gonegirl3577 not big enough to make him not evil
@joemaddenn92593 жыл бұрын
Hell yeah evil like lord of the rings!
@SpaceRanger1873 жыл бұрын
What do u think goes on when someone kills someone
@stephaniewood15473 жыл бұрын
That’s for sure!
@bakerd993 жыл бұрын
John Walsh is right. That monster was an angry 'coward'. After he kills her, he steals her credit card and uses it. Then he runs off with his tail between his legs. The coward wouldn't man up for what he did.
@brendajones15273 жыл бұрын
Steals from his fiancé who he allegedly murdered that’s low😢🇬🇧
@joannbrisson44853 жыл бұрын
He also locked her out of her van in Moab. He then stole her van and headed home to Florida. A huge sense of self-entitlement.
@lindacox65513 жыл бұрын
@@joannbrisson4485 not only that he took her phone away on a regular basis apparently!
@joannbrisson44853 жыл бұрын
Sense of self entitlement...control freak!@@lindacox6551
@bricknmotor3 жыл бұрын
@@peterfrankenstein3244 this isnt south america
@kimberlyking95233 жыл бұрын
Ladies and Gentlemen, it’s not easy to leave a toxic relationship, but when you do, it’s not enough to get out, you get out and stay out. Then you get the help you need to cope and move forward.
@ashlieghdeeble91123 жыл бұрын
If u don't have an escape plan u won't get out..... Leaving is the most dangerous time and when people get killed. Most don't think their partner would actually murder them cuz normal people don't think like that. But it is what happens..
@danschwartz19503 жыл бұрын
You need support. Too difficult to do it alone.
@SpaceRanger1873 жыл бұрын
Why you buy a gun and find some where safe to stay
@Camibug3 жыл бұрын
You can’t just get out, you have to have a plan. She could be dead because she tried to leave. I almost was.
@ginakelley7493 жыл бұрын
@@ashlieghdeeble9112 you got to pull a Houdini, guys
@toosassy3 жыл бұрын
Since the cops were saying she was the aggressor, if they'd arrested her, this would have caused her to call her Parents. And she likely still be alive.
@KatieBellino3 жыл бұрын
I actually think she just would have had Brian pick her up the next day. That was the talk on the bodycam. Brian was going to not press charges and fill out a paper the next morning.
@leehawes80733 жыл бұрын
@@KatieBellino So strange, the 911 call told of the guy slapping the girl sooo they would arrest the girl? The police dropped the ball.
@kaleycooper91113 жыл бұрын
It doesn’t matter anymore.
@pCriistopher3 жыл бұрын
She would have probably returned. I feel she had the compulsion to control him.
@sinahaase99233 жыл бұрын
@@Princess_Zelda_23 they mean she “thought he loved her..” it’s the case of abusive relationships. We know, even he knows, that he really didn’t…but she thought he did. Believed he did.
@nachobusiness89853 жыл бұрын
Her case should be a wake up call to anyone second guessing leaving their abuse partners there won’t come any “better time” than right now please don’t wait 💔
@tvm-manducktv83753 жыл бұрын
Look, look, look 💕👍 The duck is cute 🦆 May you be healed 🦆🦆💕
@LaurenWoz4213 жыл бұрын
And please don’t think “it won’t happen to me.” Gabby surely thought the same. And PLEASE leave when your abuser isn’t home OR call someone like the police who can escort you out. Leaving is the most dangerous time in an abusive relationship. Seek help to heal and stay away from your abuser. I’ve been there and you can have a normal amazing life afterwards. Even if you only leave with the clothes on your back and have kids with the abuser. Your kids don’t deserve to see you unhappy let alone abused. ❤️
@sammatsusaka8233 жыл бұрын
what?
@spriggy43823 жыл бұрын
If he puts his hands around your neck, he is 10x more likely to kill you!
@xysh42773 жыл бұрын
Did yall not see the footage she literally admitted to hitting him first :/
@mariagorretty30183 жыл бұрын
Most people in abusive relationships don't even know that they're victims.
@JohnDoe-oc2sz3 жыл бұрын
I find that very hard to believe, I knew
@asdanute3 жыл бұрын
Very true. Been in such a relationship before and the whole time I've had no idea that what was happening to me was an abuse just because there was no beating involved. Only accidentally, while looking for ways how to secretly escape, found out that it was actually an abuse (until then just used to feel bad for him during his rages, put downs, verbal abuse, sexual force, taking of my money, etc.).
@lisadavie58193 жыл бұрын
True it just becomes their normal which is just heartbreaking. People don't leave because the victim always thinks the loving partner they met in the beginning is still in there somewhere not realising the fact that nice version wasn't really them that it was an act. No one has the right to lift their hands to anyone. x
@mariagorretty30183 жыл бұрын
@@asdanute me too, I was in a very abusive relationship for 4yrs and I didn't know I was a victim, only after I left, I realised that, and now 1 Yr later, I'm still recovering from the misery
@mariagorretty30183 жыл бұрын
@@lisadavie5819 it's true, mostly it's first mental before moving on to the physical
@RainbowMama1433 жыл бұрын
Anyone who says Brian killed here in self defense is an idiot. He continued to strangle her after she was unconscious. If it had been self defense, he would’ve stopped after that.
@bingfruitful34683 жыл бұрын
He's a spineless POS ! Run boy.....
@Las6453 жыл бұрын
Right and do people not see her? It wouldn’t have been hard for him to push her and run…like some people have no common sense.
@babyshadow4443 жыл бұрын
@@Las645 Exactly! Even if it was self defense he could have easily just ran off
@heyshay5523 жыл бұрын
Maybe he freaked out because she was freaking out?
@catcowboy63763 жыл бұрын
I think self defense is unlikely but manslaughter very well may be the case or murder 2. The fact he strangled her to death with his bare hands makes it very likely this was a crime of passion. This does not seem well planned out and more spur at the moment.
@khatzeye3 жыл бұрын
Well this definitely makes the 911 call and the restaurant workers story extremely credible that’s for sure!
@tvm-manducktv83753 жыл бұрын
Look, look, look 💕👍 The duck is cute 🦆 May you be healed 🦆🦆💕
@RexerYTRexer3 жыл бұрын
Random killers usually don't strangle strangers, however domestic abusers choke and strangle their significant others. Brian had a choking fetish he killed her during lovemaking and didnt mean to, his plan wasnt to go on a couple month vacation with her to kill her and come back home with her van.They were obliviously in love and his fetish got out of hand and he didnt expect her to stop breathing forever. He probably regreted it right away and thats why he took her body less then a mile away from the van. It was never his intent to kill her. She scratched his arms in the bodycam videos because she wanted him to stop choking. Thats why he has fingernail scrathes all over his face lol this is so funny man... Police is dumb af for searching those woods too
@itsnotthatdeep93303 жыл бұрын
@KY5 [10th Main Account] ur not funny or eDgY so just stop. Its cringe.
@Cash4Fruit3 жыл бұрын
Restaurant workers story? I only heard the restaurant patron’s story. Where can I find the workers story?
@justsomeoneonline4373 жыл бұрын
@KY5 [10th Main Account] ur bad
@thatwitchychick27173 жыл бұрын
The fact that it happened long after she died is so disgusting and horrifying. He must had absolutely hated her in that moment and I can't imagine what he perceived that she did that would make him think that she was deserving of this. I feel for her and everyone who's ever suffered from domestic violence. I'm a survivor myself and seeing stories like this always make me realize how lucky I was to escape alive.
@StephaniePereaGarcia3 жыл бұрын
Me too... it physically upsets my stomach knowing that I almost died when my ex strangled me. I am forever grateful that he let me go.
@catquack3 жыл бұрын
@@StephaniePereaGarcia You understand more than most others what Gabby went through in those final minutes of her life. I'm so glad you made it out of your toxic relationship alive. I also managed to leave a toxic relationship before it reached the level you experienced. I'm forever grateful for that.
@catquack3 жыл бұрын
@Syrexis It's so much more complicated than that. He may not have hated her at all, but rather hated himself for his own inadequacies.
@bethgilliam74143 жыл бұрын
@Syrexis.....what r u referring to that "it happened long after she died"?
@margaretcurrie40933 жыл бұрын
Me too so evil to even carry on doing this to poor sweet Gabby.. 😩😓I've followed this story, frm the beginning, and sick to my stomach.. Gabby isn't the only girl or man suffering this kind of narcissistic abuse.. Hope that these people seen what happen to Gabby xx and get out of their nightmare 🙏🙏😢
@roseywinter3 жыл бұрын
It's appalling that Brian is still only considered a "person of interest" and not a suspect. He's a suspect. The number 1 suspect.
@LillianArch3 жыл бұрын
I agree. I wonder what they'd be saying if he were Black or Hispanic. The local police act at times as if they've been told to go easy on the parents. And how the police in Arizona thought Brian was the victim is beyond me.
@mb87873 жыл бұрын
I think they don't want to jeopardize the case by activating time constraints on when they have to convict, while Brian Laundrie is still on the run, and may not be apprehended... (listen to Emily D. Baker here on yt, she's a former prosecutor...) Anyway, they already have a federal arrest warrant out for him, so if he can be found, he will be brought in this time around...
@Wyonative083 жыл бұрын
Esther, The moment he's arrested that status will change to wanted for murder!!
@cassieevans81143 жыл бұрын
Thats only a legal formality... they have to word it that way, but like someone else says, it will be quickly changed when he's caught.
@leequinn27333 жыл бұрын
@@LillianArch Don't bring race into this! It's a legal speak. Google it. If you murdered your husband or child or anyone and went on the lam, they would use the same word " a person of interest." I worked in the legal community and I know.
@pinkyjay18813 жыл бұрын
I remember being in hospital and my doctor telling me to end it, he’s in jail for 24 hours, go stay at a safe house and end it cause if you don’t, he’ll never stop until your dead. I’m so glad I took his advise!
@allison55303 жыл бұрын
Good for you❤
@angelsbae3333 жыл бұрын
what a great doctor
@violetmoon62333 жыл бұрын
I'm so proud of you that took courage 🙏💚🌻glad your safe 🙏
@georgieargie82173 жыл бұрын
🙏❤️
@judithscobee81023 жыл бұрын
Look what happened to Nicole Brown Simpson, he hit her, cops were called, then later he killed her!
@tationotaliaferro84183 жыл бұрын
At this point, the only news I wanna hear regarding this case is: “Brian Laundry found.”
@winecrimesfoodandtime71193 жыл бұрын
Amen
@johnhuber3543 жыл бұрын
Me Too. This Case is Getting ay Out if Hand.
@rvingkeepitrolling87973 жыл бұрын
Yeah & he's locked up with Big bubba calling him baby & sweetie torturing him.
@he59753 жыл бұрын
With a mouthful of tide pods.
@221613 жыл бұрын
I wanna hear how he was found and sentenced to life and then in the news one week he was beat up the next week he was raped the next week he was...... Well you get the picture.
@susanwilliams49533 жыл бұрын
Brian abused Gabby & killed her, he should have dealt with his OWN ISSUES in life.... He's selfish & heartless......
@SandraAnnEvans3 жыл бұрын
And a REAL LOSER!
@Eternalove883 жыл бұрын
Pure psychopathic
@lisacranmer80053 жыл бұрын
@@Eternalove88 Yep...he will reap what he sowed...no one can mock Jeh God...
@kathleenjohnston35823 жыл бұрын
This is why I don't date men with mental issues.. I RUN
@Eternalove883 жыл бұрын
@Jeffery Filler LOL!really!!!no proof ..he just killed her and ran away :D
@angieangie11753 жыл бұрын
This story hits home for me because I was in a relationship with severe domestic violence and could've ended up like Gabby, thank god I left.
@joannbrisson44853 жыл бұрын
Ditto! This brings back horrible memories for me. So glad I got out with my life.
@joannbrisson44853 жыл бұрын
...and so glad you got out with your life. Stay strong girl!
@amberb.51603 жыл бұрын
Same girl. Brings back a lot of memories. RIP Gabby 🙏. She is an angel in heaven now, no longer in any pain, with the lord. I'm so glad you survived ❤
@LookingGlass243 жыл бұрын
@@amberb.5160 let’s hope she had made a confession of faith to Jesus Christ. I pray that was the case.
@lindacox65513 жыл бұрын
Me too! We had a van and he would always drive crazy in the opposite lane on twisty curvy roads back from the coast! I'm so glad my Kids and I got out! The coward never saw his kids after the Judge believed me! His choice and I'm so glad he made that choice! I'm their Mom and Their Dad! He almost killed me the same way!
@FullFrontalExposure3 жыл бұрын
“Murder suspect on the run” is how the headlines need to read.
@tvm-manducktv83753 жыл бұрын
Look, look, look 💕👍 The duck is cute 🦆 May you be healed 🦆🦆💕
@RexerYTRexer3 жыл бұрын
Random killers usually don't strangle strangers, however domestic abusers choke and strangle their significant others. Brian had a choking fetish he killed her during lovemaking and didnt mean to, his plan wasnt to go on a couple month vacation with her to kill her and come back home with her van.They were obliviously in love and his fetish got out of hand and he didnt expect her to stop breathing forever. He probably regreted it right away and thats why he took her body less then a mile away from the van. It was never his intent to kill her. She scratched his arms in the bodycam videos because she wanted him to stop choking. Thats why he has fingernail scrathes all over his face lol this is so funny man... Police is dumb af for searching those woods too
@Marta_20253 жыл бұрын
@KY5 [10th Main Account] uhh what--
@sammatsusaka8233 жыл бұрын
In court, they would laugh at you. How can BRIAN be a murder suspect, if they don't have an arrest warrant? For credit card, yeah. But not for murder.
@FullFrontalExposure3 жыл бұрын
@@sammatsusaka823 lets be real here. we all know Brian killed her.
@AfricancoolChic3 жыл бұрын
The fact he killed her, drove back home in her car and refused to talk. Shows he was so confident in his privilege. The police dropped the ball big time! Gabby should have been protected from the get go.
@FelonDog3 жыл бұрын
You can't protect every person, especially when you don't know them and their situation. It's easy to say that the police or her parents should have done this or that after the fact. But the truth is that she was an adult and the only one that could have let people help her before her death and reach out to others. You can't help someone that wasn't willing to help themselves by getting out of a dangerous situation. If anyone had tried to force her to leave Brian then she would have just alienated herself from them.
@margaretcurrie40933 жыл бұрын
Yes a true Narc. No empathy..
@Mel-Kaboom3 жыл бұрын
Yes and took 1000 from her account after he killed her
@maciano3713 жыл бұрын
sometimes most women dont leave their abuser there is nothing any one can do trust me its so sad and awful but no matter what with an abused women she will go back until she decides enough is enough . Tragic
@AfricancoolChic3 жыл бұрын
@@FelonDog The police allowed him to stay at home with his parents and make a run for it. The minute he came back home with her car, without her and refused to talk, they should have been on him.
@annleedee97303 жыл бұрын
Their was something off about him. It's so obvious he was putting up a front. Imagine what poor Gabbie had to deal with behind closed doors. RIP Gabby.
@fidelcatsro69483 жыл бұрын
some loose nuts and bolts in his brain
@lisacranmer80053 жыл бұрын
@@fidelcatsro6948 A couple... yep...What happens in the dark will come out to the light... Jeh God will not be mocked...💪
@fidelcatsro69483 жыл бұрын
@@lisacranmer8005 senseless killing, they should have just broke up and called a cab home
@bricknmotor3 жыл бұрын
She had a choice to leave. Unfortunately she didnt in time. Everybody thinks it wont happen to them. I turned 50 this summer and havnt been in a relationship since last july. To many women scared me solo!!!
@fidelcatsro69483 жыл бұрын
@@bricknmotor im 47 this year and i wouldnt trust my Siamese pet cat to Brian Laundrie
@amberfoster80893 жыл бұрын
So I was 5ft 2 and 7.5 stone, my partner was 6ft 2 and almost 14 stone, we were in a shop and he was about to buy a wrong bulb for our living room lamp, I politely said I didn't think it was the right one and showed him a photo, still holding his hand. He was absolutely fine, said good job you took a photo, his dad was with us and we dropped him home. We walked in the front door and as I turned to ask what he wanted for lunch he punched me straight into my face sending me crashing into the door. He told me to never embarrass him in front of his father or anyone else. Called me awful names. When he fell asleep I rang my brother and left with the clothes on my back and my dog. He broke 3 of my teeth, my nose and i'm left with a back injury that won't heal. He showed no warning signs. I ask men, was that a fair "fight" R.I.P. Gabby 🙏♥️♥️
@pasta31663 жыл бұрын
Get him locked up in jail, he should not be free
@deanwinchestersgirl99023 жыл бұрын
I hope you pressed charges against him.
@pamarabenton90393 жыл бұрын
Glad you got away.
@ENDERTON20003 жыл бұрын
He wasn't a man
@rashell66733 жыл бұрын
Bless you, I’m so glad you got away! ❤️
@JackFrost-bl6sv3 жыл бұрын
If she scratched him during the attack, she would have his skin under her nails right? Wouldn't that be enough to call him a fugitive and a killer at this point? Edit: I am sorry to say this...but Brian Laundrie has died and we will see Gabby, this beautiful angel, some day and justice will be served one way or another. Its tragic. I'm sorry we let him go gabby, im sorry we let him go when he came without you Love and support to Gabbys family
@californianking56623 жыл бұрын
3-4 weeks in the wild means nothing will be around sadly
@trevor19qhshe3 жыл бұрын
They said her body was found 3 to 4 weeks after she died. Due to the environment she was in, most DNA would've likely been destroyed after 7-21 days in the full open elements unless otherwise preserved by other means. But i think theyre just trying to entise him in alive with just the fraud charge then theyll slap murder ontop of that once they arrest him for fraud.
@Shimezu3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, as morbid as this may sound. DNA, after being exposed to the elements for so long, tends to degrade along with the body.
@Lisabobisa3 жыл бұрын
I thought the same thing!
@HR-wd6cw3 жыл бұрын
@@californianking5662 I think though some parts of the body, like human nails and possibly small bits of DNA, can withstand harsh (hot/damp) environments. I know soft tissues like the skin, not so much, but finger nails from what I have read, can last for several months.
@PhoenixPrime3 жыл бұрын
To anyone who's seeing this comment: If you're in a toxic, abusive relationship, then please - for the love of God - GET OUT OF THERE and GET HELP. It's not worth your health and safety, and you deserve better! Please protect yourselves, and do what's good for YOU, not for the person who's hurting you. Stay safe, everyone. We all have to watch out for each other in these changing times....
@triggahappyjoe3 жыл бұрын
He wasnt a coward to be able to take someone life
@mochabearry3 жыл бұрын
@@triggahappyjoe It doesn’t take bravery or courage to kill someone. It makes him a coward for going through with it.
@ducksquaddubs3 жыл бұрын
Didn't expect to see you here
@PhoenixPrime3 жыл бұрын
@@mochabearry Exactly
@michealknight52683 жыл бұрын
Absolutely@!! Run@!! Who cares about what you'll lose ..It's not worth your life@!!
@xoxotimaa3 жыл бұрын
“Indications this was a domestic violence case” and yet no one caught this when she was crying in the back of the police car and he was seemingly calm? However, charges can be dropped if the person wanting to charge them says so and that’s how the law works in some states not all , rip gabby
@XxTR1D3 жыл бұрын
Police literally cannot do anything. If she says he wasn’t abusing her they cannot do anything.
@Op25No23 жыл бұрын
honestly just sleazy cops, i hope they're happy now
@Op25No23 жыл бұрын
@@XxTR1D They took her away tho as the primary aggressor. if they took him away instead it couldve gone different but probs woulda had the same outcome
@concentratecorner17443 жыл бұрын
@@Op25No2 hmmm i wonder why they would of had her as primary aggressor.. its almost like in that instance she was admitting to it and had 0 marks/ signs of being hit while he had multiple on his face and body. You cant ignore the facts of that instance because we know what happened after it. The cops did everything they could of and should of. The only thing left would of been to charge gabby, and to them she is out of town and very young, a charge like that could ruin her life.
@amya.95093 жыл бұрын
He looked like such an innocent nervous nelly in the police cam footage. He's a weak little boy who used poor gabby to make himself feel big. He's on the run bc he knows he can't take on people his own size.
@GeoFishing3 жыл бұрын
You should never be hit!! By anyone. There’s so many out there that will value and love you. Do not get stuck with an abusive partner. Rip such a beautiful soul who just wanted to travel the world ✊ ❤️
@JohnDoe-oc2sz3 жыл бұрын
Many would appreciate such a beautiful girl, and never get such an opportunity.
@daniellebowman49943 жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful, heartfelt comment ❤️RIP Sweet Gabby❤️
@We_Are_All_Vultures3 жыл бұрын
❤
@laurac98573 жыл бұрын
She didnt go out searching for an abusive relationship .
@adagamba72033 жыл бұрын
Couldn’t have said it better!!!
@LovePatchSour3 жыл бұрын
This case is absolutely horrific. May Gabby rest in peace and be free of all the pain and terror she felt in her last moments. Brian will get what he deserves.
@christian30503 жыл бұрын
So he's guilty untill proven innocent?
@SonyEnthusiast3 жыл бұрын
@@christian3050 has he helped the situation?
@flyingjew29943 жыл бұрын
I'm still curious on the evidence you guys have that proves he did it.
@sammatsusaka8233 жыл бұрын
@@SonyEnthusiast Brian is innocent.........
@michaelmyndrov36543 жыл бұрын
@@SonyEnthusiast Brian is innocent……..
@Madrok73 жыл бұрын
Jealousy. She probably wanted to leave him and he being insecure, balding very early and unattractive compared to how beautiful Gabby was, he killed her in a blind jealous rage.
@agotapongor20693 жыл бұрын
Domestic violence is not just jealousy! As you see, Brian intrigated all fights! Just because! For his enjoyment! Did you see, how satisfied and happy he was with the policemen, that he won, he could blame Gabby for his idiotism and the ignorant, uneducated police bought it!
@agotapongor20693 жыл бұрын
He found out things what were not true! Gabby was nervous about. She fought back. For example: Gabby said that Brian told him to calm down! But she desperately said, that she is calm. And Brian repeatedly told her calm down! That was his purpose to make Gabby nervous about he told her calm down when she was calm. And as you see, Brian enjoyed this situation. For everybody! It is exactly, how abusing starts! And you can see the end! My ex called me every evening a whore, repeatedly! Until I was angry at him! Thanks God, I could escape and never looked back! Fortunately the police, doctors, social workers and judge helped me. Thanks for them forever!
@felsicmirage61833 жыл бұрын
"Balding very early", thanks for the chuckle 😂
@missyaero3 жыл бұрын
First thing I thought when this kicked off and I saw her videos was wondering why she was with him. He also seemed to be hanging on to her.
@winecrimesfoodandtime71193 жыл бұрын
Exactly hard facts we all know
@ourcorrectopinions68243 жыл бұрын
It’s almost as if Gabby telling officers that Brian grabbed her face was important and a violent act that should get him arrested before he strangles her. There were two corroborating 911 calls that she’d been battered, so it didn’t matter if Gabby didn’t want to press charges; the bearded misogynist cop had a duty to enforce the law and blamed her instead. Her horrific death is on his head (along with Brian and his family).
@Schira013 жыл бұрын
If you watched the body cam footage you can hear the officer asking her specifically about this 911 calls about she being hit. Find out what she said.
@ourcorrectopinions68243 жыл бұрын
@@Schira01 They never mentioned the 911 calls in the body cam. Stop lying.
@Schira013 жыл бұрын
@@ourcorrectopinions6824 watch the second body cam footage where the officer talks with her in the police vehicle. It is before she describes how Brian was holding her chin.
@normacolon96183 жыл бұрын
@@ourcorrectopinions6824 there r several.videos in different angles..different questions..different answers.
@HandbagDiva3 жыл бұрын
He called one of the witnesses & he never said that she was hit by him. They did nothing wrong, & they were very thorough, making sure they did everything right. I’m sure they all feel horrible & they don’t need people like you blaming them! The dispatcher is the one who failed to relay the information correctly. He had marks on him, she didn’t. She told them she hit him, grabbed the steering wheel, etc. What if this murder never happened? Should we just charge men when there’s a domestic regardless of evidence?
@megangallagher54043 жыл бұрын
She didn’t deserve this may her soul Rest In Peace
@schwartzybuisness3 жыл бұрын
The more that comes out of this case, the more crazy it is that her boyfriend is still on the run... this will send the wrong message to copycat killers and abusers that they can get away
@Defender783 жыл бұрын
If he in fact did it, I hope that right now he's down to his last scrap of food in whatever forest he's hiding in
@LindaBarham3 жыл бұрын
And crazy he hasn't been named as a suspect instead a person of interest!
@margaretcurrie40933 жыл бұрын
He's most probably in limbo now.. In a dark place, he made for himself.. Hope they catch him quick.. Because he might be more dangerous.. 😱
@christinawadsworth5013 жыл бұрын
Men have been getting away with this kind of behavior for centuries. I think the wrong message was sent a helluva long time ago, but i do not blame you for not noticing. hardly anybody notices until a pretty blond ends up dead.
@Airamimosa3 жыл бұрын
"That her boyfriend" her murderer.
@queenoffairiestarot3 жыл бұрын
This breaks my heart that she was still being abused after losing consciousness. I think that she fought for her life whatever she could do. Sadly she lost her life..Rest in peace sweet Gabby.
@bashasline3 жыл бұрын
I had an intervention at 17 years old. I didn't know I was being abused. My son's father was a monster. I could of died in his hands several times. I never allowed myself to be in a relationship like that again. I learned so much from my domestic violence advocates. Every achievement I've had, I owe to them and give back in any possibly way I can. When I do, it's always with a silent prayer of gratitude for being able to give back.
@oAgL2143 жыл бұрын
I find hard to believe a 17yi doesn't know what abuse is. Clearly it must not feel good to be hit/treated poorly so it's obvious that wasn't the right treatment if it makes anyone feel bad in any way but ok.
@bashasline3 жыл бұрын
@@oAgL214 looks like you have a lot of examples under your comment. I'm glad you can't comprehend because it's not your reality. My ex abused me in so many ways before he started with an open ✋. Those blows came after the baby. Previous to that there was a lot of arguing, he would drive me around on dirt roads with no street lights and snap out of nowhere. He's even but me in the trunk of his car and drove around, grill me on other men, setting traps, tickling for long periods of time. I can go on and on. I thought they were normal arguments between couples. I had an intervention by my school with the domestic abuse response team. The education I received was like turning on a light and I could see better. I started making some exit plans
@malovina3 жыл бұрын
💜
@JennifuhhGilardi3 жыл бұрын
@@oAgL214 and I find it hard to believe that women like you exist who victim blame. Be happy that you can’t comprehend the horrors that others have been through.
@Mandy09433 жыл бұрын
@@bashasline Good for you! You should become counselor for others, so they can get out to before it gets worse.
@tenwaystowearit3 жыл бұрын
I can’t imagine how her family must feel hearing what she went through. Prayers for them. If a person pushes you to anger so deeply and strongly please leave the situation. I don’t know how people get to this level of anger.
@josianelessard3 жыл бұрын
Please leave the situation AND GET SOME HELP.
@samanthamcbay78592 жыл бұрын
No one pushes someone to this level of anger. It was there already. If it wasn’t happening to Gabby, it would have been someone else. Gabby didn’t do this. He did. He needed to first recognise his behaviour, and want to change it before he would ever seek help. If he cared for Gabby he would have left her and got help but he didn’t. Even when she was dead he didn’t have the decency to help her family find Gabby. He show zero consideration for others around him, including his own family. His sister and her kids will forever have to deal with the backlash of his actions. Her family will forever suffer the loss of losing her in such an awful way. Grief is a life time.
@Fat12219 Жыл бұрын
No words 💔 n Ms Petito was going to marry him 😢 no , no ,no 😢
@shirleyallen73743 жыл бұрын
So she was unconscious and he decided to finish his dirty deed. He had time to let her live. This is the type of person who don't have compassion for life but his own.
@DMor-qj1ie3 жыл бұрын
yes he was absolutely making sure probably that she would not live. He was angry with her that she apologized to the merry piglets staff on his behalf and then she must have threatened to tell something to the cops. that must have made him very very angry. hope he rots in jail.
@margaretcurrie40933 жыл бұрын
She most probably said she had enough, and wanted to go home.. Etc. And the argument got worse.. And he decided then.. Nobody leaves me? Not even u..
@tristinrebel7183 жыл бұрын
So tragically sad & horrible. RIP Gabby... It's so heavy to imagine how scared she must've been. John Walsh has it 100% right; he's a total coward. Brian knows he's a bottom B as well as the world. I can't wait till they catch bottom B Brian; there's guys in prison that really don't put up with coward women murderers. Karma's a building for the bottom B...
@novembersky37493 жыл бұрын
he is a sick soul !!!
@krstlblu223 жыл бұрын
@Tristin Rebel YES !! 🤬 He'll be someone's ragdoll in the Big House... let's see how "Tuff" he is THEN...🤔
@mrs.dontmindme65423 жыл бұрын
I can't tell which I like more: Bottom B Brian or Dirty Laundrie. They both work.
@liagamer42653 жыл бұрын
@@mrs.dontmindme6542 Dirty Laundrie is such a good nickname
@Lizzietalksalot3 жыл бұрын
Remember when the police labeled her as the aggressor? Pathetic. Brian’s injuries? Scratches from defending herself. Gabby’s injuries? Strangled to death with someone’s hands. GABBY WAS NOT THE AGGRESSOR!!
@angelaburroughs45843 жыл бұрын
I’m curious to what these police officers think now? I mean if there’s violence isn’t it the law that someone was arrested? Even IF the police thought she was the aggressor.. at least if they arrested her she’d be alive right now… these officers were a bit weak when it came to dealing with this situation.. no I don’t believe they thought he would have killed her but they should have taken one of them into custody. Though I don’t believe this girl was the aggressor whatsoever
@Carmen-us1ew3 жыл бұрын
@@angelaburroughs4584 I thought they said if they were to arrest her, it'd only be on paper? Or maybe that was just one option.
@whyumadtho3553 жыл бұрын
Gabby admitted to the police that she hit him first tho. Yes the cops did fail her obviously but this was a case of two individuals who both crossed the lines and put hands on each other. Women shouldn't think it's okay to hit a man and not expect to be hit back. Men shouldn't hit women either.
@someidiot4203 жыл бұрын
@@whyumadtho355 except abuse victims often take blame for their partner's abuse and there's witness statements that he was hitting her. i know you desperately want this to be a case of the woman being the abuser bc idk it helps your worldview, but that isnt what happened here.
@amandathacker26873 жыл бұрын
@@whyumadtho355 exactlyyyy!
@devinmacrae41833 жыл бұрын
Victims of abuse also tend to blame themselves. Brian was sick and filled with anger. He was a classic abuser. It's actually too bad he's dead. He should be in jail waiting to be sentenced while the world watches because being caught is what this type of coward hates most.
@littlebabymeowmeowboo65933 жыл бұрын
Speaking as a survivor, leave him sis. Don’t end up like this beautiful soul.
@littlebabymeowmeowboo65933 жыл бұрын
@@ArubaAysha abuse comes in more forms than physical. If he left you, then did he really love you in the first place? Know what I mean?
@allenfig183 жыл бұрын
To all my women out there ...if a man hits you he is done !!! Don't go back!! I'm a man myself giving you this advice !!
@brat-b8h3 жыл бұрын
ever heard of stockholm syndrome
@Dontatmebr03 жыл бұрын
same goes for men
@novembersky37493 жыл бұрын
heed women!!!
@SuicideboysGrey593 жыл бұрын
It goes both ways. Never let your partner strike you. It’ll become a repeated pattern and eventually turn fatal.
@mrabc50923 жыл бұрын
Have u heard of Amber heard Johnny depp case. Will you say that to men as well or just women.
@Caitecakess3 жыл бұрын
This is absolutely horrifying that she went out this way. The person she loved the most taking her life in his own hands. So disturbing. I’m soo sorry Gabby 💔💔😭
@b.allison87613 жыл бұрын
😭😢😢
@neveragain24213 жыл бұрын
I wonder what she did to make him mad
@CarmenRodriguez-cu8jp3 жыл бұрын
@@neveragain2421 it really doesn’t matter what she did , she didn’t deserve to die 🤦🏽♀️ that way. He could’ve went about it so many other different ways not take her life. Maybe she was going to leave him no one one knows but them 2 and God
@clairebeane34553 жыл бұрын
@@neveragain2421 People in these situations don’t have to “do” anything to “make” the other person mad. Often just their existence is enough to throw the other person into a rage. I speak from experience. The fact that she was always trying to placate him and appease him speaks volumes. Nothing she could have said or done differently outside of running as far away from him as possible could have stopped him from committing this heinous act of violence against her. 💔💔💔
@joemaddenn92593 жыл бұрын
Your sorry? She could care less about you
@kimmerkt67103 жыл бұрын
It's seems there is no peace on Earth. She was such a pretty girl and deserved so much better. Rip Gabby!
@Blatstein3 жыл бұрын
Ugly people don’t deserve better 😂
@RuchiinChina3 жыл бұрын
@@Blatstein they do but that’s not what natural selection wants.
@Channel-ld9ip3 жыл бұрын
She deserved better not because of her physicality, but because, She. Was.
@daniellebowman49943 жыл бұрын
Nobody deserves what he did to her, and everyone deserves to be treated better than that, but she was beautiful not just because she was pretty, she had a beautiful soul, her face lit up with joy and excitement in her videos and everyone who knew her said she was a genuine, sweet person. RIP Gabby❤️
@jessielovesdogs32723 жыл бұрын
I hate when people say “she didn’t deserve this. She was so pretty.” I know that these people who say that aren’t meaning to be rude and do not understand how their choice of words make them sound ridiculous…she didn’t deserve to die no matter how beautiful she was. No one deserves to die that way
@bobbiejean33463 жыл бұрын
It's really hard to leave an abuser. It's not that easy. This just has me baffled the police I can't even watch that video of her with the police at all.That is simply heartbreaking. How they protected him put him in a hotel and left her out in the Van.
@ayamasakya41963 жыл бұрын
She covered for him. She should have press charges against him. She was too blinded by love to end their relationship. She didn’t see the red flags in her own relationship. She retracted her statement to prevent him from getting arrested.
@theultimate65423 жыл бұрын
It’s quite simple actually. Just put yo shoes on, and leave. Quit thinking it’ll get better, it won’t. If u keep up that mindset, you’ll end up just like Gabby
@clairebeane34553 жыл бұрын
@@theultimate6542 it is never just that simple.
@theultimate65423 жыл бұрын
@@clairebeane3455 not with that mindset
@NorthwestAdventurerNWA3 жыл бұрын
@@ayamasakya4196 I highly doubt she was blinded by Love… I’d guess she was Blinded by Fear from that Monstrosity.
@yeaabuddy48393 жыл бұрын
I cant imagine the fear she felt as he was strangling her poor gabby you wont hurt or suffer no more baby may you rest in peace sweet angel 🙏🙏💖
@novembersky37493 жыл бұрын
RIP beautiful Gabby : )
@ShadyShadow983 жыл бұрын
I believe God made her one of his sweet helping Angels.
@ryanfraser1673 жыл бұрын
RIP gabby, hopefully she gets justice 🙏
@kathysharpe73393 жыл бұрын
It happens everyday
@joemaddenn92593 жыл бұрын
You gotta lay off the drugs
@wildchild28663 жыл бұрын
Brian is obviously evil but who raised him to be this way? Oh yeah the parents who were complicit. I hope they find a way to arrest them too.
@ritam49263 жыл бұрын
Not necessarily, just cause they were complicated with law enforcement ( which is understandable for parents go against their son no matter what he did), that doesn't mean they were bad parent or raised him wrong way. Whatever that young man did it's all on him and no one else but him.
@susancostea95783 жыл бұрын
@@ritam4926 aiding and abetting to start with.
@heimway14 күн бұрын
Often enough a trauma happened to ancestors in the past and it is still affecting future generations .....it might be a war or poverty, abuse, violence. Whatever. Its affecting how they raise their children and how these children raise their own...and so on. The vicious circle can only be broken if someone in that family makes a therapy and makes a change.
@ronaldr.2363 жыл бұрын
The way they're describing how this all took place, it's appearing more than just personal. Psychological and psychotic, I would think.
@badbunny65723 жыл бұрын
They fought at the Merry Piglet, he killed her shortly after that. He's a loose cannon with infuruioty issues.
@wb76063 жыл бұрын
Agreed some underlying issues for sure. No excuse for killing her though. Just really sad and unfortunate.
@aerynstormcrow3 жыл бұрын
No, this is very personal and VERY rage driven. Brian wasn’t psychotic. Just a narcissistic abuser with severe anger issues.
@scabitabi27823 жыл бұрын
Yeah he's got some real issues..especially to do this to his supposed loved one..he needs to be put away...
@gknight13 жыл бұрын
He had been prescribed Benzos, but told the police officer that he hadn't been taking the med.
@rabblelevin69233 жыл бұрын
It is very possible that she was going to leave him and he found out. That is the most dangerous time for the victim in an abusive relationship.
@Justanothercog243 жыл бұрын
I have a hunch that she told him she was going to leave him when they got back & he flipped out. Don't ever let them know in advance. Get out quickly & quietly.
@joemaddenn92593 жыл бұрын
You have a Buffalo hump??
@Justanothercog243 жыл бұрын
@@joemaddenn9259 I have several in fact!
@pitbull10263 жыл бұрын
When she was in the back of the police car, I get why she shifted the blame on herself. Been there, done that... You just think things will get better, its your fault, embarrassed to let anyone know. You don't want people worrying abot you. You close your eyes and wish it would go away. Pretend nothing is wrong. Hide the truth.
@dmcfarlane49763 жыл бұрын
It’s also easier to think you will be in more trouble with him if you tell the police the truth and he gets locked up. You think you can bring him down easier alone without others getting involved. I know people don’t understand the police video but it’s pretty plain to see.
@craiglimon66463 жыл бұрын
Well she figured she might be going home. She sees the same dad everyday with Brian. Joe got a taste of his behavior. She lived that long amazed me.
@sej67323 жыл бұрын
Did anyone notice how he was fumbling with words when the police told him about the phonecall that told he was seen slapping Gabby? I think each and every individual should take up the responsibility of finding this monsters. Let his pictures be all over Mexico too, offering huge rewards for his finder. From where I am, I definitely will, though not for a reward.He should be caught BY ALL MEANS!!
@danielwampler54673 жыл бұрын
How's your search party goin?
@danielwampler54673 жыл бұрын
Any new leads yet it's been 3 days since u vowed to get involved?
@sej67323 жыл бұрын
@@danielwampler5467 Pity your poor understanding!
@bricknmotor3 жыл бұрын
@@danielwampler5467 sej looked out his front door and said "nope hes not out there"
@belindafischer29203 жыл бұрын
Yeah he was caught, a dead skeleton.
@Lucas_Terry3 жыл бұрын
I just can’t understand why someone would even do such a thing out of anger beyond sickening
@catcowboy63763 жыл бұрын
If you ever walk into a room and witness your girlfriend or wife cheating on you in the act you might be surprised by some of the thoughts that you had. Sadly people and fit some passion do not think clearly. This is why strangulation is one of the most common ways for someone to murder their spouse during a domestic violence incident
@kristinbagani28113 жыл бұрын
You’d be surprised what people would do when things like narcissism and anger issues play a role in the picture.
@zippyt6323 жыл бұрын
Launder is a soulless sadistic sociopath.
@edyrose84583 жыл бұрын
domestic violence hot line
@Camera1production3 жыл бұрын
This is reflecting so badly on the Florida police that left free of surveillance the only man that could answer what happened to her, who immediately took the 5th and got a lawyer, who refused to speak to anyone etc etc. It's not a crime to keep an eye on people of interest, yet they let him go and went home and now they're running like crazy ants looking for him. They didn't just pull punches, they outright turned around, covered their eyes and counted to ten.
@madialba3 жыл бұрын
Yes it was a mistake, but hindsight is always 20/20
@californianking56623 жыл бұрын
It would have tanked the case against him if they surveilled him anymore. Police cannot follow someone around, and even if they did, it's quite easy to shake a single tail.
@Camera1production3 жыл бұрын
@@californianking5662 actually they can follow, it's not a crime. They can argue protection in case the "real" killer sees him in the news and goes looking for him, they do it all of the time to keep an eye on people of interest, plus the paparazzi does it and they never get as much as a lawsuit anymore. So no, it wouldn't have tanked anything. It was them over correcting the whole "let's give him the benefit of doubt." What does it matter if it would have hurt the case or not if he literally murdered his 20 year old fiance, got no punishment and escaped to Mexico? No, they screwed up and now they look like fools trying to find him.
@melisagwinn64503 жыл бұрын
Some cops dont think of domestic violence as a crime. The victim is usually just a woman, after all. I had to call 911 about a year ago. The cops that came not only refused to arrest him, even though he had thrown & hit me with a heavy metal shelf, the next morning they called my landlord & got me evicted. Because, after all, I am only a women. I dont think this mindset is going to change within my lifetime
@herzfeldji3 жыл бұрын
@@melisagwinn6450 i saw that happen as well. My neighbor was beating her husband and all the cops did was recommend he find some place else to sleep that night.
@ocucumber94613 жыл бұрын
Nothing more selfish than putting someone's life into your hands, to do what you wish with it. May you rest in peace, girlie🕊
@sinahaase99233 жыл бұрын
Yeah but way more than just selfish. Pure evil is more like it!
@ourcorrectopinions68243 жыл бұрын
Narcissists strangle more than any other method when they resort to killing; because when someone threatens their ego, they literally want to end the source of their image failure. He planned to kill her when he took her over that creek, probably for apologising to the staff at the cafe for him being rude. That’s all it takes for a malignant narcissist murderer.
@SaraGreer3 жыл бұрын
The more that comes out about this story, the more I am reminded of poorly raised guys (will not say men because a real man has integrity) that I've known in my own lifetime... and the more I think "could this have been me?"
@october50baby3 жыл бұрын
Or ME!
@anthonyxavier63003 жыл бұрын
Okay that makes sense actually. If Gabby left scars on Brian's arm, that means the main reason he is still hiding and avoiding the police and the fbi is that he's waiting for the scar to heal.
@JL-zn7me3 жыл бұрын
We all know she fought. There has to be DNA under her nails. I do think he hid to have any cuts or scratches heal…. And to escape prison for murdering her. I also think the parents knew everything. They got him a lawyer awfully quick.
@winecrimesfoodandtime71193 жыл бұрын
@@JL-zn7me exactly and they would have had to seen the marks
@ccrbonline17523 жыл бұрын
I think he's hiding because he killed her.
@lb5703 жыл бұрын
Somebody needs to ask Cassie if she saw any signs of wounds while.they were at the campsite.
@rosierosebud73613 жыл бұрын
@@lb570 his sister is not going to give any info that would help the police
@youaremylight21723 жыл бұрын
If a guy shows jealousy, its not love. If he says, I am only jealous because I love you. Nope, it's not love. If a guy calls you names and hits you, its not love. If he later says, I do it because I love you, don't believe it. It's not love. Leave.
@edyrose84583 жыл бұрын
amen
@JL-zn7me3 жыл бұрын
Gabby definitely suffered.😰 I don’t think he strangled her and left. I think more will eventually come out . We’re talking about a very evil being, who abused, controlled and manipulated Gabby. How I wish she would have left… she may have tried. If anything comes from this, I pray others realize their situation and even the smallest of signs and LEAVE abusive relationships NOW! Fly high beautiful angel… we’ll get you justice!!! 🌈🦋🦋🦋
@lozzab1023 жыл бұрын
I thought she was the toxic one, shown in that one vid with the cop?
@LookingGlass243 жыл бұрын
Yes, she suffered. Strangulation & manual throttling is a very painful way to die, not to mention the fear and shock she must have felt to realize the man she loved hated her at that moment intensely enough to strangle and asfíxiate her. I believe the trachea breaks during strangling of this nature. Bless her heart. What he did was heinous. Downright wicked and evil. Straight from te pit of hell. It’s like rage possessed him, 😤 👿 and he could well have been dissociating into a different personality also. Brian wasn’t altogether sane, IMO. The guy was sick. A controlling sicko is who he really is.
@someidiot4203 жыл бұрын
@@lozzab102 abuse victims often take the blame for their partner beating them. besides, there's more evidence of him being the toxic one. either way, she didnt deserve to die and you trying to deflect from that isnt gonna change it.
@KatIndiana30873 жыл бұрын
He had groomed her since high school, you can tell by the way she's crying and taking all the blame on herself and he's laughing it up with the cops
@TheDriftwoodlover3 жыл бұрын
I had the feeling she told him she wanted to end the relationship and he got enraged- if he couldn’t have her no one could and she wasn’t going to leave him.
@kimbaker43523 жыл бұрын
I hope those cops look back to that footage on the day they pulled over Gabby’s van and really look and listen to what a lying, manipulative pos really sounds like, because if I remember correctly the cop sounded real busy talking to Brian about what a similar relationship he had at home, unbelievable.
@ruthaakamonica56023 жыл бұрын
I hope you look back over that dashcam footage and see how many officers were exposing full image photos of her body and legs , sending these images to ( somebody )
@ruthaakamonica56023 жыл бұрын
Read between the LIES
@AbbyNormal7773 жыл бұрын
Why don't they use this video as a teaching point about "How not to be fooled by a narcissistic sociopath"?
@lainnycurin97633 жыл бұрын
If it's possible Gabby fought back...then maybe she was able to scratch him and have his DNA under her nails. There really wouldn't be a reason for her to have his DNA under her nails other than fighting him off in my opinion. Having Brian's DNA on other parts of her body would make sense because they were a couple....but under her nails would be a sure sign that there was foul play no doubt.
@steveyj30023 жыл бұрын
People need to learn the difference between love and a trauma bond because it could save someone's life 🙏
@Abby-ht7xb3 жыл бұрын
I agree. But what was their trauma bond?
@mariam18953 жыл бұрын
@@Abby-ht7xb good question I’d like to know what their trauma bond was? Usually an abuser and the abused have childhood traumas that they both share like both parents being divorced which is not their case or gabby and Brian being abused as kids
@Abby-ht7xb3 жыл бұрын
@@mariam1895 Those examples make sense. I guess we'll never know what theirs was. Quite the case.
@laurel75703 жыл бұрын
‘ They’ were the bond. Their experience together was the trauma bond. Sticking with a bad relationship after multiple traumas becomes the trauma bond. Like trying to fix a broken record over and over. Trying to make a mismatch right over and over is the bond. His psycho problems were not her problems. But the doing it over and over became the trauma bond. Trying to fix something which would never work. That guy is an empty shell. Nothing in there.
@Abby-ht7xb3 жыл бұрын
@@laurel7570 Thank you for answering. It helped me more than you'll know.
@ijlala37993 жыл бұрын
Brian is such a horrible person. Im so angry at him. He deserve to be punished by the law RIGHT 👏 AWAY 👏
@novembersky37493 жыл бұрын
he will kill again! he must be caught !!!
@seanperticone75283 жыл бұрын
He's either dead somewhere or he fled the Country
@novembersky37493 жыл бұрын
@@seanperticone7528 i think same.
@seanperticone75283 жыл бұрын
@@LilGarfield. How do you know? They who could've done it? If he didn't do why is he on the run?
@Shelora3 жыл бұрын
@@seanperticone7528 He is dead.
@aiyulee63663 жыл бұрын
How to get people educate themselves of signs being in toxic relationship while blinded by love?
@Isabel-hf5du3 жыл бұрын
Spreading awareness and resources in schools, universities and workplaces.
@edyrose84583 жыл бұрын
some times its not evan love that keeps you there.I person can be dragged down and defeated
@gettenash38513 жыл бұрын
This was how I lost my child, my daughter... If I could trade places with her 😢 I would in a heartbeat ❤️. Rest in Peace Gabby Petito 🙏 Rest in Paradise beautiful ❤️
@sparklingrivers20853 жыл бұрын
Sorry for the loss of your daughter. Prayers, hugs💓💗 RIP Gabby💔
@spriggy43823 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss
@yummycookie34293 жыл бұрын
❤️
@QueenBee-gx4rp3 жыл бұрын
So very sorry, Gette. I hope that you will find peace as well. Much love from Connecticut. 💞
@cocokai96613 жыл бұрын
I can't imagine having to endure that. Sending prayers you find peace.
@lanathomas16923 жыл бұрын
And most people wouldn't have called 911 about a domestic incident but it must have been pretty bad of him hitting her and slapping her on a public sidewalk, thankfully he called 911
@lanathomas16923 жыл бұрын
@strayarticle there was another incident where he was seen slapping her and she was running down a public sidewalk and a man called it in to 911 he saw Brian slapping her and it must have been pretty bad for somebody to call 911 about it
@Oceanrocks1213 жыл бұрын
@strayarticle She had marks and bruises on her face and arm
@YooB13 жыл бұрын
If anyone in a toxic relationship. GET OUT before it’s to late. Mentally or physically
@sammorton20233 жыл бұрын
Thanks for saying that fr
@jonsimon57793 жыл бұрын
This is what happens when you have a very high-toned person constantly annoying a very low-toned person. In other words, Gabby was carefree and full of zest and this Brian character was very likely a somber and angry individual putting on a social veneer to appear carefree and full of zest. At some point, this will always be an explosive combination as the Gabby-type is always trying to pull up the Brian-type and the Brian-type is always trying to pull down the Gabby-type. I'd be willing to bet this became magnified by a close quarters trip across the country. The real personality characteristics came out. Particularly Brian's.
@alroumaya77833 жыл бұрын
you discribed it perfectly.
@noemie17683 жыл бұрын
So true
@banker13133 жыл бұрын
you hit the nail on the head.
@harpinpoem3 жыл бұрын
Wow you said it!! The vampires that feed off of the lifeblood, not literally, but try to drain them of their joy and goodness. RIP Gabby.
@AbbyNormal7773 жыл бұрын
I think that he's miserable and he was jealous of her natural charisma and charm. He probably was anticipating that her social media career was going to be taking her to higher places in the world. I read that he was constantly downgrading her about the way she was presenting herself to the camera, but deep down, he knew that her star was beginning to shine. And, he realized that she was going to get everything that she wanted, but all that he wanted was to control her.
@cipherP93 жыл бұрын
She had a chance to save herself but decided to defend that clown by taking blame for their fight. Her story is the perfect example for women to not stay in abusive relationships. He put down her dreams of starting a blog and in the end took her life.
@KatieBellino3 жыл бұрын
The problem is that victims don't think clearly in these situations. They rationalize that it's just a bad temper, but not a big deal.
@jtreadw58443 жыл бұрын
Easier said than done when you caught in a narcissistic web 🙁
@erinmccarthy12753 жыл бұрын
Ppl r controlling, she could've been afraid to actually leave but no one will ever know that.
@scottt70093 жыл бұрын
Your comment is incredibly naive but unfortunately it highlights a view that’s more common than it should be
@c.l.j.jardell58113 жыл бұрын
Most abused women. Really don't know. How or. Where to escape. !!
@7415_Gamer3 жыл бұрын
From this autopsy, all fingers point to Brian. Let's hope he's not dead and holing up somewhere.
@lous.63723 жыл бұрын
What about Rose Davis, who was supposed to meet Gabby at Yellowstone Park around the same time Gabby's van was seen nine minutes away in the Grand Teton National Park.
@ursulamullikin47233 жыл бұрын
He were dead his parents wouldn't be so calm walking around
@cindybott50373 жыл бұрын
@@lous.6372 explain this to me. Please I've heard nothing about what you're talkin about
@lous.63723 жыл бұрын
@@cindybott5037 The tik tok person referenced does NOT debunk any claims. First of all, the van was seen in the Grand Teton park Aug 27, which was during the time that Rose Davis was supposed to meet Gabby in the Yellowstone Park, which is only nine minutes away. Second, the article states they were long distance friends-yet Rose Davis lived near the Laundrie house.
@lous.63723 жыл бұрын
Also check out the Reddit comments for more info on Rose Davis.
@JonesFamUnlimited3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a personal attack Brian, you’re guilty
@patriciaselby6363 жыл бұрын
The only good thing about this tragic case is that other young women can see what may happen to them too if they don't escape the abuse in time. The worst thing can happen to anyone. So sad.
@kathylovingshimer67083 жыл бұрын
Agree
@AzureTechGD3 жыл бұрын
Poor Gabby 😭 She didn’t deserve what she went through, May her soul be with us 💖💖💖
@Fat12219 Жыл бұрын
Evil , what else can you say ❤
@leanndavis14073 жыл бұрын
May he see her face and her eyes , for the rest of his life every time he goes to sleep. That sweet child didn't deserve what was given to her. No one deserves to be victimized. RIP Sweet Gabby
@krstlblu223 жыл бұрын
@Leann Davis He has no "conscience" so that won't disturb him one bit.🤬.. but it will when someone is "looming over him" like he did her .... and as "wimpy" built as he is.... they'll put it to him...
@leanndavis14073 жыл бұрын
@@krstlblu22 notice I said May he see... I'm hoping it haunts him
@sandrasharp29342 жыл бұрын
@@krstlblu22 Can you picture him in prison??
@mrstravel93813 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe that the person who she thought was her lover, killed her by literally taking her breath away. This is so tragic
@charlottemuller22333 жыл бұрын
Happens all the time!!
@miriamsamaniego33353 жыл бұрын
Read St. Paul’s letter to the Corinthians about love. If anyone is in a relationship outside of what is said in there, don’t walk…RUN!! Love is patient, love is kind. It is not jealous, is not pompous, it is not inflated, it is not rude, it does not seek its own interests, it is not quick-tempered, it does not brood over injury, it does not rejoice over wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.
@sunshineb-d50063 жыл бұрын
Amen.
@pretzeltime39003 жыл бұрын
In my opinion, Brian was angry because they were stopped by the police in MOAB and he was enraged at her for bringing so much attention to him.
@lillianna114873 жыл бұрын
Merry piglets?
@pretzeltime39003 жыл бұрын
OK, I guess I gotta break it down…so maybe Brian was sooooooo angry about the entire MOAB police issue and having to be put up in a hotel room for the night so that he and Gabby were separated that their future arguments escalated and he killed her. Yes, the Merry Piglets incident was after the MOAB police intervention, but it’s MY opinion. Brian may have had others reasons to be that angry, or maybe something else no of us know about happened. Just a thought. May Gabby RIP and her family find peace one day.
@onelove75513 жыл бұрын
That lady is totally wrong! When my husband choked me, I was so shocked and stunned, that I just stood there until he stopped. You do not know how you will react until you have been through it.
@edyrose84583 жыл бұрын
Yes but if you go through training hopefull you react with what you have learned
@saraj24993 жыл бұрын
But your husband stopped. Brian didn’t stop, so Gabby likely realized after a while that he’s not stopping like he usually does - that she was going to die if she didn’t stop him. That’s why she fought back. She was fighting for her life.
@raincheck012 жыл бұрын
@@saraj2499 my boyfriend didn’t stop and I was strangled unconscious. I didn’t fight back because I knew he would punch me if I did and that might kill me as well and break my facial bones. The only reason I’m alive is because he roommate came home and stopped him from actually killing me. I woke up to my boyfriend dragging me by my hair through the house holding a hammer saying he was going to beat my face in. His room mate was right there trying to get him to calm down and eventually the roommate called 911. I was trying to leave him and had walked outside headed to my car when he dragged me back inside to kill me for trying to leave.
@raincheck012 жыл бұрын
@@saraj2499 they aren’t saying Gabby fought back there’s no evidence of that. He may have punched her out before he strangled her. She suffered blunt force trauma to her head in addition to being strangled.
@tsmastermind2 жыл бұрын
@@raincheck01 there’s no evidence of her trying to defend herself and with what we know now she probably didn’t because he beat her up before strangling her most likely with a rock but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen some people will be in shock sure others though will struggle and try and get their abusers hands from around their neck not everyone is the same
@mommabear92693 жыл бұрын
Gabby you forever changed policing, DV charges, seriousness and the love worldwide for you and your family and friends is such a blessing. I know Mrs. And Mr. P it doesn’t take away the pain but I hope that you feel the love. In my thoughts and my prayers
@Monoclaire3 жыл бұрын
My ex boyfriend choked me after coming home drunk. Little did he know My mom was on the phone call while he did it and my phone was on the floor. She called the cops. Yes it was difficult to get out that relationship but I’m glad I did finally
@samanthaalise58043 жыл бұрын
I wish she left him when they were separated for an day. I wish she had someone who knew about her pain to help her walk or run away. If she knew she could leave someone who supposed to love her but didn't. RIP Gabby
@leanndavis14073 жыл бұрын
If those police officers had been trained correctly and arrested him or her she would be alive today! Maybe all should be trained in law enforcement, Judges and Lawyers
@SSRIs3 жыл бұрын
Police don’t care because they’re dv abusers too!
@augustbarnes41943 жыл бұрын
I thought that to for a while...But what if the cops knew he was the aggresser but she protected him by taking the blame so they couldnt arrest him. They knew that why they kept het with the van so if she wants she can leave they put him in a motel so they gave her ample opportunity to leave if their instincts were right...
@leanndavis14073 жыл бұрын
@@augustbarnes4194 Public disturbance , witnesses seeing physical blows , from him onto her .They were fooled very easily
@augustbarnes41943 жыл бұрын
@@leanndavis1407 I believe the cops KNEW the marks on his face were defensive marks and not attack marks. But she want to take blame.
@augustbarnes41943 жыл бұрын
They then do the next best thing they could for her separate them and give her the van and opportunity to flee if she is in danger
@francesrobertson29053 жыл бұрын
During the traffic stop in Utah when Brian first got out and walked up to cops he looked guilty as f#%k. His hands always creeped me out in this video too, now I know why
@kristinerwalsh3 жыл бұрын
Yes me too. When he got out of that van and walked over to the police his whole posture was saying , I am a baby I didn’t do anything. Before the police started talking to him. But that idiot with red beard says you have scratches oh get a picture of that . Then Brian starts showing all these itty bitty marks . But the whole time his hands we’re moving. A creep and a coward .
@thegrumpygecko23903 жыл бұрын
It took me so many times of leaving my abusive ex before I finally got away for good. He sat on top of me choking me one time and i could see in his eyes that he could kill me. I hope anyone out there in a abusive relationship can find the courage to leave. Rest In Peace Gabby.
@georgiar78343 жыл бұрын
Brian is a monster. Poor Gabby, I swear the worst things always happen to the best people. Rest In Peace Gabby💖
@SpaceRanger1873 жыл бұрын
We don't know what she has all done..She could have been killing babies for all we know
@americansnufffilms28703 жыл бұрын
How do you know if she was a best person 🤔 She could have been a demon behind closed doors.
@flacojody17633 жыл бұрын
Poor gabby ?? *“DUMB GABBY”. Lol
@georgiar78343 жыл бұрын
@@americansnufffilms2870 you don’t know anything. And even if she was an Instigator behind closed doors. She didn’t deserve to die.
@americansnufffilms28703 жыл бұрын
@@georgiar7834 That's why she's dead🤪🤪
@maureen143 жыл бұрын
I hope that schools teach older children/teens not to stay relationships like this. That it's not normal.
@madzzworld5973 жыл бұрын
mine does! but it still isn’t covered in many schools. i think my school is lucky to have teachers who care about our well-being
@Victoria-qb6cc3 жыл бұрын
She was so young and beautiful. May she RIP. I hope he is caught so her family can have justice and some type of closure. I hope this serves as a lesson to everyone in a toxic relationship.
@joemaddenn92593 жыл бұрын
Perv
@lisadavie58193 жыл бұрын
The thing that makes me think Gabby was in a violent relationship is because it spilled out in public. If he's acting like that in front of strangers outside I can only imagine how he was treating her in secret behind closed doors. R.i.P beautiful young lady. x
@lisadavie58193 жыл бұрын
@Philly Unrau oh go away and watch your conspiracy theory documentaries
@HECKSTER693 жыл бұрын
I couldn't even listen to it anymore when she started explaining how she was fighting for her life kicking and scratching. I woukd love to find him before the law
@froopty18543 жыл бұрын
Getting to him and killing him yourself before the law would not be the right thing to do, for one you would have to be absolutely sure it was him and since Brian has such a generic look you might kill a completely innocent man. 2. If he is going to be put to death he should have a trail first, innocent until proven guilty is the way we do things. if found guilty then he would most likely be made an example of on national tv. 3. you would have to live with being that one person who killed someone before justice was properly served and alot of people would be mad at you.
@sherri10273 жыл бұрын
When I was in my 20's I had an abusive Boyfriend and once he got so mad at me for the dumbest reason. He was an alcoholic, I didn't know what that was back then but he choked me on the bed and I just thought this is it, I'm a goner and everything went black and a few minutes later I came to and got away from him for good!! I was so scared! All.I could think about was my family.
@kennythao95583 жыл бұрын
Leave your toxic relationship! I don’t care if you’re married, engaged, dating, been together for years, etc… Leave for the better!
@yeseniayanez56113 жыл бұрын
As a narcisistic survivor. I am glad I was discarded before his anger got the best of him.
@TheRealCheeser3 жыл бұрын
I think that two people going on a 1-2 month trip in the smallest van possible at the age of 21 is the worst possible idea, especially since they both had problems.
@shelleycharlesworth51773 жыл бұрын
Me too - they both QUIT their jobs to do this 'dream' ! Turned out to be a nightmare.
@TheRealCheeser3 жыл бұрын
@@shelleycharlesworth5177 Damn. I didn't know they quit there jobs! Do you know what there jobs were?
@shelleycharlesworth51773 жыл бұрын
@@TheRealCheeser - Don't know what his job was but I heard that she was a nutritionist.
@TheRealCheeser3 жыл бұрын
@@shelleycharlesworth5177 Oh. Well thanks for the info!
@TheRealCheeser3 жыл бұрын
@@deborahhhh1063 Oh. Well thanks for that too.
@Scratchingforcash3 жыл бұрын
The whole story is gut wrenching. RIP Gabby
@vickielewallen37993 жыл бұрын
If you see clues of a controlling nature in a relationship, free yourself early on, it only escalates.
@amberschannel47093 жыл бұрын
And FYI the only people that didn't fail that young woman with a bystanders that called the police and told the police know I sought him assault her and they let him go about his business and now look what happened!
@nosceteipsum67423 жыл бұрын
The fact that the attack on her body continued after the several minutes it already took to actually kill her and not just render her unconscious with just hands, definitely points to a crime of passion.
@lisacundiff80293 жыл бұрын
Or someone with huge anger issues and poor impulse control.
@lauren62333 жыл бұрын
@@lisacundiff8029 yeah, crime of passion.
@DMor-qj1ie3 жыл бұрын
that guy is pure evil. his instagram posts, the books he read, his pinterest posts. etc pure evil. he should be behind bars soon before he attacks again.
@chiefinspector72803 жыл бұрын
I don't think they could know this as the body was severely decomposed.
@californianking56623 жыл бұрын
@@chiefinspector7280 That's what I'm saying. This is speculation.
@hoyboys10003 жыл бұрын
You can't "fix" a creepy partner.
@joemaddenn92593 жыл бұрын
Yeah you can. I changed my wife.. she does what I say for 8 yrs now
@winecrimesfoodandtime71193 жыл бұрын
@@joemaddenn9259 you're not cool cringy or edgy or exciting
@angelaburroughs45843 жыл бұрын
@@joemaddenn9259 😑wow you’re amazing
@spikebat3 жыл бұрын
@@joemaddenn9259 I don't think she is the creepy partner in the relationship just sayin......
@LotsofLisa3 жыл бұрын
Strangulation is so up close and personal. You’re looking into the person’s eyes as you’re draining their life away. It’s the final “shutup” from the abuser. Final and permanent. Laundrie and all abusers deserve to die screaming.
@LotsofLisa3 жыл бұрын
@Syn Cloud No. I’ve been there. I forgave my ex-husband right up until his second wife called me asking for help to get away from him like I did. He had beaten and strangled her into unconsciousness in front of their baby… I helped her.
@sammatsusaka8233 жыл бұрын
What proof is there? There isn't an arrest warrant for murder. So you must quit.
@margaretcurrie40933 жыл бұрын
I knw sick that this was the final end for this poor girl xxx and many more like her 🙏😢😢🌹
@marlasturgill83063 жыл бұрын
So sad to think she was going to marry this guy... My heart and prayers go out to Gabbys family and friends...
@tommemac3 жыл бұрын
Definitely in a rage. I feel so bad. Mm y guess, the more she fought the more rage he had. He's a murderer and in need of major help if guilty. And it definitely looks like he is. And he's proving that himself by his actions then and since. My heart aches for this young lady. A sweet girl with her whole life ahead of her. And all she wanted to do was make the most of life's journey. It's hard, it hits you by in n the gut and stays there. Why, why why??? So senseless.
@247KW3 жыл бұрын
Well said. I feel the same way....why why why
@LegoPostPresidency3 жыл бұрын
Gabby's Killer had Violent Rage they said Definitely Brian Laundrie
@tvm-manducktv83753 жыл бұрын
Look, look, look 💕👍 The duck is cute 🦆 May you be healed 🦆🦆💕
@danprat67483 жыл бұрын
@KY5 [10th Main Account] another 4 year old.
@LegoPostPresidency3 жыл бұрын
@KY5 Your A Darn Lier!
@kathrynshields82213 жыл бұрын
@@tvm-manducktv8375 strange don't understand your comment!!
@sistakia333 жыл бұрын
LEAVE at the FIRST sign that you're in a toxic relationship! Don't make excuses and don't lie to yourself about the person being sorry and willing to change. If you don't leave after the first sign you might not get a second chance.
@lisasmodics32443 жыл бұрын
She told the cops that he grabbed her face. Then he eventually went down and grabbed her by the neck and strangled her. So sad I wish this would have ended differently
@lorettawiggins23983 жыл бұрын
I wish the police officer who told Gabby he had a daughter her age would have had an inner voice to let him know she needed him to help her....he could of arrested her for hitting her abuser so she could make that 1 phone call to her Dad or Mom. They would have helped her. And l wonder how the two police feel now ...esp the one who was laughing with Brian...(l am not blaming them) but l wish they could make a statement. Rest in Peace Gabby.❤❤❤