Gambler in Recovery interview-Saul

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Soft White Underbelly

Soft White Underbelly

Күн бұрын

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@SaulMalekSpeaking
@SaulMalekSpeaking Жыл бұрын
Mark, thanks so much for hosting me. Enjoyed speaking with you. To everyone who took the time to watch my story and comment, it means a lot! With mental health resources becoming more mainstream and accepted, I absolutely believe that discussions surrounding gambling are a necessary part of the mental health conversation. All the best, Saul
@maureent8653
@maureent8653 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Saul for sharing your story with us. Best wishes on your future.
@Maxxxxxxxx1
@Maxxxxxxxx1 Жыл бұрын
Come to Sydney and I'll take you to the Star casino bud We'll do some meth and play slots at $10 a hit!
@skeletonshorror5184
@skeletonshorror5184 Жыл бұрын
Very heroic interview, Saul - God bless you and your recovery ✝️
@thematriarchy2075
@thematriarchy2075 Жыл бұрын
Hi Saul, thank you very much for sharing your story with us. ❤
@fillmanzz7561
@fillmanzz7561 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for being courageous enough to share this story.
@NuanceMeta
@NuanceMeta Жыл бұрын
“The stopping part is easier than *staying* stopped” fckin FACTS man
@davidroeder7299
@davidroeder7299 Жыл бұрын
More gambling addiction related content please! It's exploded in popularity and acceptance, so the collateral damage of that needs to be addressed.
@threeminuteshate
@threeminuteshate Жыл бұрын
It really has become insidious. There is now _always_ talk of over/unders, point spreads etc and ten years ago you almost never heard these topics on major sports shows. Now sportscasters are talking about the bets _they_ placed on betting apps during the broadcasts. And they may not actually be placing said bets but are just contractually obligated to say they are to drive people to the apps. I imagine the personal wreckage will increase at the same time. It’s kind of disheartening. I don’t listen to sports talk radio to hear the money line but now I gotta sit thru thinly veiled ads for sports books.
@anythinggoes5574
@anythinggoes5574 Жыл бұрын
As a consistently winning Sports bettor, gambling has ruined my life as well. I've made hundreds of thousands of dollars in profit, but I still can't enjoy anything. Despite winning, gambling has absolutely destroyed my dopamine receptors.
@Kellenlmt
@Kellenlmt Жыл бұрын
100% agree!!
@1250GSX
@1250GSX Жыл бұрын
@@anythinggoes5574 That's surprising. My father has been a pro-gambler for decades and he seems pretty normal. Loves a good show or a meal.
@travelntrading7919
@travelntrading7919 Жыл бұрын
@@1250GSX Pro gambler lol. A comment like that is so misleading and I don't believe it. Gambling addiction is the worst of worst, destroys you and everything around you, faster than any drug addiction. The Quran Surah 5: 90 also warns you about it. 1400 years ago :)
@iambloopy
@iambloopy Жыл бұрын
I’ve got so much respect for him. Instead of dying silently with his mistakes, he’s deciding to guide others away from them and doing something positive for the community. That’s what it’s all about.
@Mark-gn5rw
@Mark-gn5rw Жыл бұрын
This is spoiled punk that u respect?? Wow. Like to see who u have no respect for?? Jeez😮
@tashidelek9576
@tashidelek9576 Жыл бұрын
It is so beneficial for the guests on this channel to just talk out their lives
@VioletJoy
@VioletJoy Жыл бұрын
No doubt it can be cathartic.
@juliemiller6966
@juliemiller6966 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes you can figure a lot of stuff out by just talking it out and it might not have come to you if you didn’t say it out loud
@wikilee8928
@wikilee8928 Жыл бұрын
This intelligent young man has whole life ahead of him that I am so glad he realized his problem early, otherwise he may have ended up self-destroyed. Wish him the very best!
@e-bikeautonomy
@e-bikeautonomy Жыл бұрын
u spelt stupid wrong!
@karenfryberger4260
@karenfryberger4260 Жыл бұрын
@@baublesanddolls Not to mention it's "You." E-bike is a troll who might (only might) benefit from a dictionary.
@matthewkrotts5058
@matthewkrotts5058 Жыл бұрын
You can be aware and still have a problem I use to be a terrible addict now I’m not as bad but I still have a problem I save 20/30 thousand and I’ll blow it all in one night
@wikilee8928
@wikilee8928 Жыл бұрын
@@matthewkrotts5058 I agree, but please seek help. God bless.
@FlippinFruitFly
@FlippinFruitFly Жыл бұрын
You can just tell that this is a kind, kind person. Wishing him all the best in life!
@natashafung
@natashafung Жыл бұрын
Saul is the sweetest!!!
@SaulMalekSpeaking
@SaulMalekSpeaking Жыл бұрын
Thanks Fongus!! Good to see you here lol. Fruit Fly thank you for your awesome comment
@purethccheck
@purethccheck Жыл бұрын
Gambling addiction is the worst. It consumes you fully and no matter how much you win gamblers always give it back. We are truly addicted to the action and thrill. Stay strong gamblers if you are trying to stay away from this horrible addiction. One day at a time... much love
@tfptravel.food.peace.3788
@tfptravel.food.peace.3788 Жыл бұрын
It's the action and thrill! Yes! The "Bonuses" were always my favorite and that explains it all. One day at a time.
@1stCaptainFly
@1stCaptainFly Жыл бұрын
“I can’t escape my mind unless I just die” was the perfect explanation for what having a gambling addiction is like. It’s a constant warfare on your mind between wanting your life to be better and dealing with destruction.
@tfptravel.food.peace.3788
@tfptravel.food.peace.3788 Жыл бұрын
This!!! Man, it is constant warfare. You explained it perfectly.
@DTWAR
@DTWAR 10 ай бұрын
Man oh man. This is my life.
@michaelmunson917
@michaelmunson917 6 ай бұрын
This is absolutely correct 100%
@SimplyKatieWalks
@SimplyKatieWalks Жыл бұрын
Im in therapy for gambling addiction. Im glad he got sober so young. Im 55 and i have nothing. My credit is ruined, i have no retirement... but i am out of debt.
@joen3843
@joen3843 Жыл бұрын
nice katie you should find out about trading options and lose the rest of what u have in less than 5 minutes
@SimplyKatieWalks
@SimplyKatieWalks Жыл бұрын
@@joen3843 wtf?
@Moneyfromthecraft
@Moneyfromthecraft Жыл бұрын
@@joen3843😂😂😂😂😂😂
@No_more_iced_tea
@No_more_iced_tea Жыл бұрын
@@joen3843 sounds like you’ve been there.
@CmcDemon
@CmcDemon Жыл бұрын
Credit fixable
@werewolvesofsanger4649
@werewolvesofsanger4649 Жыл бұрын
I would be willing to bet that this young man will get his life together.
@bills321
@bills321 Жыл бұрын
I'll take that action
@sumtxflygrl1
@sumtxflygrl1 Жыл бұрын
Pun intended 😂
@werewolvesofsanger4649
@werewolvesofsanger4649 Жыл бұрын
@@sumtxflygrl1 🤣🤣 absolutely
@youtubesurfer1022
@youtubesurfer1022 Жыл бұрын
2 to 1 says he gambles again...
@sellyshootsandscores9300
@sellyshootsandscores9300 Жыл бұрын
Good one 😂
@davecaldwell445
@davecaldwell445 Жыл бұрын
Saul was OUTSTANDING in detailing how this works. Gambling has infected sports. Advertising for gambling sites is insidious. The addiction destroys lives, just like with any other kind of addiction, but because it does not involve substances, it is not taken quite as seriously. Best wishes, Saul. You've come a long way. Keep telling your story. You will help others.
@rapidreviews3580
@rapidreviews3580 Жыл бұрын
As someone who has had a gambling addiction (over 5 years clean now!) It's so important to speak out about the harms of gambling.
@ridwanismail5767
@ridwanismail5767 Жыл бұрын
How do you overcome it?
@99pcast
@99pcast Жыл бұрын
This was a solid interview; this guy is really self-aware, intelligent and well spoken.
@SaulMalekSpeaking
@SaulMalekSpeaking Жыл бұрын
Parker- thanks so much for the comment. Do I have your permission to attach it to my webpage as a testimonial? Have a great afternoon
@99pcast
@99pcast Жыл бұрын
@@SaulMalekSpeaking Not a problem, use it as you like.
@daneromancrane
@daneromancrane Жыл бұрын
Damn this guy is beyond likable and open. Happy he’s in active recovery. Great watch.
@ApesAreHomeG
@ApesAreHomeG Жыл бұрын
I have the honor of calling this guy a friend!
@SaulMalekSpeaking
@SaulMalekSpeaking Жыл бұрын
Yes sir!! Nice running into you in the comments
@clayevins6795
@clayevins6795 Жыл бұрын
Let me get a couple good picks. ( im also a degenerate).
@jairusbarringer7525
@jairusbarringer7525 Жыл бұрын
​@Clay Evins stop ✋️ bro. Degenerates always lose in the end, family or $$ will all go away if it gets bad enough
@NootoriusP
@NootoriusP Жыл бұрын
He sounds like a great guy.
@Torontojays
@Torontojays Жыл бұрын
Well spoken young man. He will surely help a lot of people in the future.
@sheepnomore8063
@sheepnomore8063 Жыл бұрын
Wow. Saul has so much self awareness, and I give him kudos for recognizing the mistakes he made because of his beliefs or how he was pulled in at the time. He is wise beyond his years, and I applaud him for not giving in to peer pressure. It's very difficult these days but admirable that he's been able to do it. I wish you the best, Saul. God bless.
@darrenodonnell6429
@darrenodonnell6429 Жыл бұрын
Great point I suffer from this exactly how you wrote it
@Thritingismysport
@Thritingismysport Жыл бұрын
He explains the mindset of a gambler very well
@ChefBurns1
@ChefBurns1 Жыл бұрын
I’ve lost about 70k in the last 2 years gambling. Trying to get a hold of my shit and realize I’m not winning anything back. It’s the worst addiction I’ve ever been through. Clean from booze for 3 years. Wish me luck!
@EveryoneDiesAnyway
@EveryoneDiesAnyway Жыл бұрын
I feel u man I think gamblings harder to quit then drugs alcohol or *orn . I’m down 45k in 2 years playing online poker n I only make around 30k a year from my job. I got beginners luck curse won first tournament ever played without knowing what a full house was and it’s been downhill ever since. Funny tho because I quit for 2 months longest ever.. I come back and turn 5.50 into 1300 in 6 hours.. and have lost like 18k more since 😂 I swear to the heavens it was easier to lose 115lbs then to quit gambling. We’ll make it tho buddy god bless ya
@jeffss04
@jeffss04 Жыл бұрын
I'm 2 years clean cold turkey. I was a huge gambler poker and sports betting for over 20 years. If I can overcome it so can anyone.
@Saeder
@Saeder Жыл бұрын
Good luck, brother
@mattysquizzato7094
@mattysquizzato7094 Жыл бұрын
Yep. I've been off booze and drugs for over 16 months, yet I've gambled away about $600 this year. I can see where this is going, so I'm going to stop.
@marycaswell6894
@marycaswell6894 8 ай бұрын
You sound like me. I wish you all the luck in staying on track. ☮️💜
@basilhardy
@basilhardy Жыл бұрын
Met Saul when we both attended SMU. Such a kind dude. Wishin him the best!
@SaulMalekSpeaking
@SaulMalekSpeaking Жыл бұрын
Basil… good to see you on here man!! Thank you so much for your kind message
@Akanimunti
@Akanimunti 10 ай бұрын
where is SMU
@donnabittner69
@donnabittner69 Жыл бұрын
A wonderful young man that every parent would want as a son. Thank you for this excellent interview.
@neverbrokeagain3435
@neverbrokeagain3435 Жыл бұрын
This guy is a hero. Even though the brother accomplished more academically this testimony alone has probably saved hundreds if not thousands of lives. And the way he tells it with such emotion and conviction is truly a gift from God
@catch_uslipin888
@catch_uslipin888 Жыл бұрын
Need more gambling stories. Great channel. Keep up the great work.
@kerryelbaum8179
@kerryelbaum8179 Жыл бұрын
So well said. I also struggle with mental addiction and what really helped me was getting a life coach who has shown me the light at the end of the tunnel and provided me with the positive reinforcement that I needed. All the best to you Saul, keep pushing forward, thank you for this talk, it helped me a lot. You got this.
@blugoldi
@blugoldi 6 ай бұрын
This is a great interview! Being unable to stop gambling is baffling to most people, including the gambler. Raising awareness of this addiction is extremely important.
@sherrellelawrence408
@sherrellelawrence408 Жыл бұрын
Saul, thanks for sharing your journey. I'm glad you're in recovery. I pray those struggling take something from this and use it. Keep the faith.
@nickwiener8729
@nickwiener8729 Жыл бұрын
Love how honest he is. You can tell he cares and he’s willing to be completely vulnerable to help.
@dr.anthonyfauci5280
@dr.anthonyfauci5280 Жыл бұрын
Paper or plastic, cause this game is in the bag. That’s actually super catchy
@thedroopywanderer7016
@thedroopywanderer7016 Жыл бұрын
no its not
@jordan2735
@jordan2735 Жыл бұрын
@@thedroopywanderer7016yes it is
@Kellenlmt
@Kellenlmt Жыл бұрын
Gambling has moved into mainstream society and is now available on your phone! You can sometimes win, or often lose hundreds even thousands in five minutes. Gambling becomes an addiction that leaves people homeless and suicidal.
@Bondgirl73
@Bondgirl73 Жыл бұрын
Another fab interview Mark! Saul has so much going for him and it’s wonderful he’s figured things out being his age. I know a few men in their 50’s who,sadly, will never figure things out. Wishing Saul all the best!😁💫🙌🏻🙏
@kunstkammer
@kunstkammer Жыл бұрын
Gambling is a devastating addiction and often invisible until it's too late. My friend was always very generous with money to her friends and always seemed to have cash. We knew she liked to spend time at the casino but it seemed like she always won. It was only after she died that we all discovered the double life she had led, the multiple mortgages on her home (that her partner who shared that home with her never knew about) she'd taken out, all the secret casino trips, and then being accused of embezzling money from her place of employment. I thank this man for telling his story. I hope that it can save someone before it's too late.
@DuyPham-nz7oe
@DuyPham-nz7oe Жыл бұрын
I agree with you , I am gambling addiction,, I didn’t stop until too late now , become older and nothing ,just want to die sometimes 🥲
@kunstkammer
@kunstkammer Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry. There must be some Gamblers Anonymous groups near you. Maybe try to find one. You need someone to talk to. And good luck! @@DuyPham-nz7oe
@nancy7634
@nancy7634 Жыл бұрын
Very impressed with this interview. He is in my neck of the woods, so very relatable. Thank you Mark
@tedohenderson
@tedohenderson Жыл бұрын
This guy’s awesome. Love his message of recovery and acknowledgment of the powerlessness component. You rock dude, keep going
@englishiguana4304
@englishiguana4304 Жыл бұрын
Great interview, thanks saul, youve had a tough journey and your honesty and integrity shines through
@michellerjackson5776
@michellerjackson5776 Жыл бұрын
Saul, I enjoyed your interview. God bless you, all the best. You are such an inspiring and well spoken young man.
@jim53627
@jim53627 10 ай бұрын
I was a casual gambler all my life, but in 2022 I went down a deep hole for about 12mths gambling online. It's a terrible addiction, the sleepless nights constant lying. Waking up the day after getting paid with 50 bucks in your account for the week. The biggest down for me was winning big, 5 - 6k sometimes more and within a few hours gambling it all away the same night, then sitting up all night in disbelief and facing the reality of all the excuses you have to give of why you can't pay rent that week or knowing you have bills due you can't pay. Thank God I stopped when I did or don't know where I would be now.
@babyphia44
@babyphia44 Жыл бұрын
What a likable human. So much self awareness
@zampai
@zampai Жыл бұрын
This guy sounds like he’s made peace with his addiction and is actively making progress.
@juliemackenzie1978
@juliemackenzie1978 Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad that I don't have addictive issues. I just came back from Las Vegas with a group of friends...but, I'm more into the shows, restaurants & shopping. I work too hard for my money to lose it like that. I'm too cheap...thank goodness. Thank you for sharing this video with us. 👍🇨🇦😊 A cab driver in Vegas told me why alot of hotels in Vegas don't have balconies...because alot of people jumped to their death before. 😳 That makes alot of sense. People losing the shirts off their backs. Yikes! 😮😕
@student22044
@student22044 Жыл бұрын
Saul, thanks for sharing! I did a bit of research regarding this addiction, and it’s true, more needs to be done to support people. There are a few programs in the UK, but we still don’t understand the symptoms enough to treat people successfully. There’s never anyone better to support others than those who have been through it themselves. Good luck with your studies, you’ll be awesome! Thanks for a really interesting interview 👍🏻
@kevinng1702
@kevinng1702 Жыл бұрын
Do mindful…always be grateful for what you have…help others if you can…I’ve been alcoholic for 30 years, short-time drug user, gambler for 30 years…I was going to be homeless…but I start practicing mindfulness…and take good care of myself…I quit drinking, gambling and using drug for over 15 months…I now live in $2800/apartment…I am going back to college to pursue in Mechanical Engineering/Math Degrees….Life is beautiful without alcohol and drugs, gambling…God bless you and others…
@dorissonbass
@dorissonbass Жыл бұрын
Gambling addiction is a strange thing. Even now watching this video I feel this pull in my stomach... very creepy. Quiting smoking was easier...
@joshgarbemusic
@joshgarbemusic 8 ай бұрын
WAY easier!
@BecomeConsciousNow
@BecomeConsciousNow Жыл бұрын
Self esteem plays a big part in addiction because people with low self esteem want to feel better about themselves and gambling, alcohol, drugs etc. can give them that instant fix. I wish everyone peace, love and joy.
@TheBerninatorHawk84
@TheBerninatorHawk84 Жыл бұрын
Raw. Thanks for being raw Saul. It's not easy to open up. An open heart has the power to break through the prisons we build in our chest. Our society has an epidemic of feeling, expressing, and connecting with our fellow man. That genuine human connection creates an energy and magic that lets you know its real. Keep pushing brother. se-lä-vē.
@SmallGirlBigWorld_
@SmallGirlBigWorld_ Жыл бұрын
He has so much potential! Keep your goals Saul! You got this! 🙏
@SmallGirlBigWorld_
@SmallGirlBigWorld_ Жыл бұрын
Also just want to add take that exact hunger for winning and turn it into hunger for achievement! You’re going to SOAR if you can harness this! ❤️❤️❤️
@jvl3097
@jvl3097 Жыл бұрын
love gambling stories and hearing what people go thru. it doesn't get covered enough. been gambling since 16. i bet table tennis during covid just to have action. i was betting small but it was just having the bet down that made me happy. it is good to hear myself in others.
@robbolandian1152
@robbolandian1152 Жыл бұрын
Saul- keep up the great work on yourself, and you are definitely going to have an exceptionally bright future. No doubt. You have wisdom way, way, way beyond your years.
@drbeavis4211
@drbeavis4211 Жыл бұрын
One of the better interviews I've seen, though I admit I haven't been watching most of the recent ones. Good stuff, Thank you Saul and Mark!
@rachelrae860
@rachelrae860 Жыл бұрын
So I've never watched anyone that had a gambling video because I started watching Mark every day for the past few weeks. I made a comment early on so I dk what happened to it but anyway this is interesting. Saul impressed me so much. So well spoken and very smart. I wish him nothing but the best. Another great interview Mark. Honestly one of my favorites so far.
@SaulMalekSpeaking
@SaulMalekSpeaking Жыл бұрын
Rachel, I really appreciate your heartfelt and kind message. Would I be able to use it on my webpage as a testimonial? Thanks and have a great day!
@rachelrae860
@rachelrae860 Жыл бұрын
@@SaulMalekSpeaking 💯% yes!!!🤗
@austincorbett2
@austincorbett2 Жыл бұрын
Sports gambling addict here. I bet 40k last year profit $40 no lie that’s with the intro promos. This year down 2k and facing addiction. I haven’t gambled in 3 weeks and hope to continue, this is a real problem. Thank you Mark
@faizanhaque2070
@faizanhaque2070 Жыл бұрын
I promise it’s not worth it. Best way to stop is forget about the money you lost that can be earned back
@chattsignal
@chattsignal Жыл бұрын
It seems like Saul has a good grip on his addiction. What a nice guy he seems to be! I think he’ll have great success over his lifetime having learned how to fight this battle early. I really appreciated his compassion for older addicts w few to no resources. Loved his line ‘there’s a tennis match on, no one’s home’. It sounds so innocent but paints the picture very well into his mindset. He’s very inspiring and I believe will make a great counselor. The addictive gene…. its a mind f. ☮️
@jonasnight
@jonasnight Жыл бұрын
In my 50's and gamble a lot, enough to make an outside observer sick. For me, been doing it since around 10 years old. Started with creating games using baseball cards and throwing pennies from across the room into a small helmet winner taking all the pennies that missed. I feel there is something some people are born with, and I just go with. I also have found work that is high risk and I immerse myself in it and at times it satiates my gambling instincts. It is just who I am, and I accept it. Through decades of experience, I have figured out ways to mitigate myself, so I'm never broke, nevertheless like most/all gamblers it is a net loss.
@markn8535
@markn8535 Жыл бұрын
What's been your biggest win?
@jonasnight
@jonasnight Жыл бұрын
@@markn8535 Not too big...I hit 24k on a craps game a few years back.
@Maria_Cap
@Maria_Cap Жыл бұрын
Like you said- enough to make an outsider sick and destroy a family
@jonasnight
@jonasnight Жыл бұрын
@@Maria_Cap Nothing said about destroying a family, that was your addition. At least in my case, nuclear family intact, and doing well. One kid left to launch, older ones launched and moving up in their fields.
@cryptonate9789
@cryptonate9789 Жыл бұрын
Man this sounds like my life, age 10 putting on carnival type games in my house for the neighbor kids similar to yours throwing dimes to win Glasses if you made it, to throwing dice at the bus stop to win lunch money, this evolved to playing keno and pickle cards at age 18 which evolved into hitting the casinos at 21 and then into the big kahuna of sports gambling which today at my age of 45 i still do, my only savior in my life is that i'm able to keep a great job at a high level which has supported this crazy habit all these years. I've cut back alot but I can tell you back in the day I was wagering 110 on EVERY single college football game on the board on any given Saturday betting on the outcome of the spread and the over/under of EVERY single game. If anyone wishes to do the math, that is ALOT of cash to be wagering on a weekend.
@VioletJoy
@VioletJoy Жыл бұрын
Great interview, Mark. It's really cool how you've branched out with your guests.
@kellycurley1744
@kellycurley1744 Жыл бұрын
What a smart young young man... I hope he succeeds!
@e-bikeautonomy
@e-bikeautonomy Жыл бұрын
u spelt stupid wrong!
@sunshine3914
@sunshine3914 Жыл бұрын
@@e-bikeautonomy you’re showing an immense amount of stupidity by commenting before listening to the entire interview.
@ddz1375
@ddz1375 Жыл бұрын
​@@e-bikeautonomy go get a real bicycle. Actually pedaling a bike is good exercise for the mind.
@karenfryberger4260
@karenfryberger4260 Жыл бұрын
@@ddz1375 Looks like he could use a dictionary as well...
@Mark-gn5rw
@Mark-gn5rw Жыл бұрын
If u think this punk is smart? Ur i.q.? Ouch
@brandonmckinney2340
@brandonmckinney2340 Жыл бұрын
He reminds me of the kids I went to high school with, very smart but with a very addictive personality
@pripri3404
@pripri3404 Жыл бұрын
Comes across as a really, really nice guy.
@Zeuskazoo
@Zeuskazoo Жыл бұрын
“Stopping is easier than staying stopped”. God, does that ring true
@AMunoz-rh9cz
@AMunoz-rh9cz 3 ай бұрын
Relapse Prevention - major issue in/type of treatment.
@comitatus
@comitatus Жыл бұрын
He seems like a genuinely good guy
@sherlockgnomes8971
@sherlockgnomes8971 Жыл бұрын
Here in the UK, gambling is a serious problem for young men. The companies will ban or stop gamblers that win big ( as usual). I know so many guys who lose a large percentage of their wages to gambling. They end up betting on random clubs from the Peruvian premiership etc and completely unknown horses. However much the government is pretending that they’re acting on gambling issues, it’s absolutely not making a difference..
@liquidpebbles7475
@liquidpebbles7475 Жыл бұрын
Damn that's crazy bro, here in Perú it's becoming a real problem, it's a corrupt mess the gambling houses are getting deals with the government so they pay less taxes etc, and here we bet on the English premiership, small world
@AMunoz-rh9cz
@AMunoz-rh9cz 3 ай бұрын
Informative, thank you!
@anndrake492
@anndrake492 Жыл бұрын
you know, you have a great voice, great delivery, good looks. Dont give up on being an announcer!
@artcamp7
@artcamp7 Жыл бұрын
Can hear him jonesing as soon as he starts talking about gambling. probably the most destructive addiction. I feel for him
@joseph2707
@joseph2707 Жыл бұрын
This was a GREAT interview. So articulate.
@user-cu7dg2sv3n
@user-cu7dg2sv3n Жыл бұрын
Being an addict does not make you an idiot. It is truly a disease and its important to recognize and understand that. It's a disease of the brain.
@josephcleary9274
@josephcleary9274 Жыл бұрын
Articulate and good hearted guy,I would certainly say there is an aspect of ADHD/ADD which it itself can fuel anxiety and pressures in life ,as a recently diagnosed ADHD adult and a problem gambler,the instant gratification and the dopamine hit you get from the journey and the procrastinating in my head complete validates the end result ,just they feeling while you are gambling is better then the win itself in my eyes,don't get me wrong it hurts to lose ,but it doesn't actually feel all that great to win with me ,it just reassures me that I have enough money to continue the process .it's dangerous and difficult to explain to people but I can see a massive correlation in ADHD and gambling .I'm early days in to talks to start my medication so I hope I can reflect back and be like this gentleman .
@Allister-w3o
@Allister-w3o Жыл бұрын
This. And when I was taking my ADHD meds it was worse
@Laze-Mz
@Laze-Mz Жыл бұрын
he is great at describing his feeling at those moments
@jessebeahm348
@jessebeahm348 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your story man! You are so young and smart the sky is the limit
@SaulMalekSpeaking
@SaulMalekSpeaking Жыл бұрын
Thanks, Jesse. Very kind of you to say
@cathalbuckley3606
@cathalbuckley3606 Жыл бұрын
Super likable guy wish him all the success going forward, Truly brave to lay it all out there but that is most definitely a step in the right recovery direction
@johnf120
@johnf120 Жыл бұрын
This guy is likable, a good speaker and storyteller, very intelligent at 25, and kinda funny off the cuff. He might do well as a comedian or entertainer.
@patmassey89
@patmassey89 Жыл бұрын
Seems like a really nice genuine guy. Good luck buddy.🙏🤞👊
@Beastmode42
@Beastmode42 Жыл бұрын
I could've listened to him for twice as long, great interview and great guest
@Brian-vk1hm
@Brian-vk1hm 4 ай бұрын
The thing that’s so sinister about gambling addiction is you’re literally betting against math. And math won’t lose in the long run.
@kingping9887
@kingping9887 Жыл бұрын
I am this guy. Thanks for the vulnerability Saul, means a lot.
@Patriots2004
@Patriots2004 Ай бұрын
Thank you your story gave me a lot of perspective that I did not have on this situation and people going through it. It would be nice to also see family members of addicted gamblers share their experience and how they coped and dealt with dealing with a close family member with this illness.
@Colton80
@Colton80 Жыл бұрын
I e been searching for someone to relate to. And this guy has opened my heart and eyes. Definitely a problem that doesn’t get talked about as much as others Andy one reading this stay strong. GODS kingdom is waiting for all of us.
@FromTheBrokenHeart
@FromTheBrokenHeart Жыл бұрын
Amazing interview. Very well said, enjoy this young man.
@andrewpayette621
@andrewpayette621 Жыл бұрын
"Paper or plastic? Because this ball game is in the bag!" Is a great line
@cynthiamarbury2509
@cynthiamarbury2509 Жыл бұрын
Saul.....Kudos to you for your transparency and your diligence to do better! I see a book OR motivational speaking engagements ahead for you.
@SaulMalekSpeaking
@SaulMalekSpeaking Жыл бұрын
Thank you, I really hope so!! Trying to get myself into the speaking circuit… I will keep at it 🙏🏻
@davidhavard1908
@davidhavard1908 Жыл бұрын
I feel your pain I play scratch offs and I’ve crippled myself this week . It’s sick what the brain will make u do .
@terrytownsend5583
@terrytownsend5583 Жыл бұрын
Take some responsibility maybe
@NAT-turners-Revenge
@NAT-turners-Revenge Жыл бұрын
I play scratchers to... it's a cheaper alternative to my casino trips
@jamesmcdougal2
@jamesmcdougal2 Жыл бұрын
At least you have to go to a store and buy them. With modern gambling addiction you have your supplier with you at all times (your phone) Stuff should be illegal. Destructive for society
@Kelly-ml5tl
@Kelly-ml5tl Жыл бұрын
My mom hit rock bottom losing her apartment after gambling away the rent. She has her own place now and still gambles regularly but always makes sure her bills are paid first. She's a changed woman I think 😂.
@Juscantgetright
@Juscantgetright Жыл бұрын
I’m a 22 year old who can relate to this same exact thing I’ve been gambling since the day I turned 18 I want to know the first time I went and only had $10 in my pocket and put it on number 27 roulette hit 27. From there I continue to go to the casino almost every weekend gambling my whole paycheck. It all started as kid with being competitive and wanting to win I would bet on anything or play any game that was like legal gambling, like that stacker game I always made it to the grand prize and lost I never took the small prize. I do the same thing at the casino win 1500 and gamble it all on one spin. I have lost over 40 grand in the last 3 years (Covid had the casino shut down for a year and sports betting is not legal in my state) between championship games prize fights and the roulette table
@Juscantgetright
@Juscantgetright Жыл бұрын
I always coped with it by saying I’m not in college and most kids my age are so it was okay to blow the money I’m making cause everyone else was racking up debt or just broke college kids and I don’t drink or go out so it was my way of having some sort of fun I was missing out on by being a college kid
@Juscantgetright
@Juscantgetright Жыл бұрын
The rush is what always has got me I’ve never ever left a casino even, sex doesn’t even compare to the rush a good run at the casino gives you
@RealAmericanStar
@RealAmericanStar Жыл бұрын
You gotta quit bro. You can do it.
@BluesBoy-ij2rb
@BluesBoy-ij2rb Жыл бұрын
Check out a gamblers anonymous meeting, you'll more than likely find some guys in the boat your in , same age ,etc. ...... .......................aware of what the problem is , and doing something about it ...!!!!....... , give it a try , if its not for you , no problem ..,JUST TRY IT !!!!........................................ Erik
@azman210
@azman210 2 ай бұрын
All winnings are future losses
@derrick8224
@derrick8224 Жыл бұрын
Love the gambling interviews. This is an intense lifestyle.
@mcarrusa
@mcarrusa Жыл бұрын
Great interview! I hope he pursues his love for sports commentary. He definitely has the "camera presence," and an easy conversational style, that viewers will love. It’s a way for him to apply his deep knowledge of the inner-workings of those games, and enhance the fan experience--something that a lot of existing talent does not always have. And he has a great head of hair. Go get it, Saul!
@SaulMalekSpeaking
@SaulMalekSpeaking Жыл бұрын
Thank you sir! I don’t know how I omitted this from the interview (think I wanted to be mindful of time) but I did broadcast at Trinity and really enjoyed it. Never too late to get back into it! Also, glad the hair looked alright… I was debating getting a haircut before this was filmed. Lol
@cyclocrossthesea-lionman1824
@cyclocrossthesea-lionman1824 Жыл бұрын
The thing he says about winning being the gateway is so true; when i was around 18 i was working a shitty job and was basically broke one Saturday morning so i went to the bookies and did an accumulator bet with my last €1.40. somehow predicted that man utd would draw 2-2 with sunderland 33-1 with another draw and a win for my own team Nottingham forest i ended up winning 440 euros from a euro basically. Safe to say i never repeated such an improbable bet. Never had major problems but definitely through way a few thousand over the next decade or so. In ireland gambling is a major problem. Even quite small towns will often have 2 or 3 bookies and of course horse racing is huge. Glad i dont have any interest anymore, in the end , easy money is bad money and leads to other terrible life choices. Then when you realise so much racing is fixed you see that you were a fool for thinking you could "beat the bookies". Very, very few do.
@michaelbubly
@michaelbubly Жыл бұрын
Very well spoken. Wish him the best!
@robertbell387
@robertbell387 Жыл бұрын
This story hit home with me. I remember being a kid always wanting to have my parents buy me scratch offs. I never have been crazy when betting in casinos because you actually feel the money leave your hand but betting online or on apps is so different. Losing a few hundred dollars in Vegas totally turned me off for years, but sports betting and fantasy football betting is addictive. I won $100k on a $7 fantasy football bet this year on Fanduel and I am so glad i didnt blow it away by tripling down and gambling it all away. The high i got from that win was insane and i can absolutely see how someone can completely go off the deep-end when getting a win like that and how it can totally make someone spiral into a full blown gambling addict.
@aokijannick7616
@aokijannick7616 Жыл бұрын
Wtffff what kind of bet was that?
@M0rganFReelance
@M0rganFReelance Жыл бұрын
@@aokijannick7616 prolly a free roll 10 leg parlay or something.
@anteem3055
@anteem3055 Жыл бұрын
That was triggering- lol- im not that lucky !!
@shameronstar7220
@shameronstar7220 Жыл бұрын
Mark definitely seemed more engaging than he normally is in these. I think talking with someone who’s from his social bracket helped him feel more comfortable.
@addyfilm
@addyfilm 5 ай бұрын
The dude who runs this channel is not 25. He is at least in his 40s by his voice id guess and no younger than 35.
@chrisburruel3019
@chrisburruel3019 9 ай бұрын
Same as this guy man i was at the dog tracks and horse races every weekend from like 6 years old - 12 years old started off young as well
@KillinCages
@KillinCages Жыл бұрын
I remember you from the meetings in SA. Good to see you made a change. I'm still working on myself.
@juliemiller6966
@juliemiller6966 Жыл бұрын
This is intriguing to me because I’ve been sports betting for years and I just keep myself accountable. Every kind of addiction runs in my family including gambling but I set my limit every week and I don’t go over it. I do a little extra on the super bowl but even then it’s $20 max. When me and my partner go to a casino we have a set amount before we walk in (usually $20) and we hold ourselves to it - he has a family history of gambling as well so it’s a with caution thing. I’ve dealt with enough addiction (and am open with friends and family for accountability) to know when things are going sideways. I’m definitely one of those moderation people - cold turkey puts me in like desperation mode
@astridlabodhisattva1098
@astridlabodhisattva1098 Жыл бұрын
Same
@akeiser12
@akeiser12 Жыл бұрын
Cool story bro 👍
@cakeboss1721
@cakeboss1721 Жыл бұрын
You need at least like 200$ to have fun at the casino
@juliemiller6966
@juliemiller6966 Жыл бұрын
@@cakeboss1721 different perceptions of fun I guess
@abigailevans8266
@abigailevans8266 Жыл бұрын
I wish he saw more of a correlation with drug addiction and gambling addiction. With drugs, there are rituals and planning that a person gets used to as well. Also I would say gambling isn’t all mental- the physical for the drug addict is the drug, the physical for the gambler is the money and the machine, the bright lights, social aspect. Addiction is addiction, rich, poor, educated, old, young. It’s all the same, just different stuff for different people. Really great interview ❤️ congratulations on 3 years & 10 months free from gambling 😊
@N0LAB3L
@N0LAB3L Жыл бұрын
Thank you for being honest good luck
@laurenwhitfield4361
@laurenwhitfield4361 Жыл бұрын
Loved this interview.
@starringshannon8163
@starringshannon8163 Жыл бұрын
What a joy to watch! This guy may just win The Nobel Peace Prize!
@adrianamastromatteo2675
@adrianamastromatteo2675 Жыл бұрын
Very insightful and self-aware
@GS-sm3jo
@GS-sm3jo Жыл бұрын
Great video! Thanks Saul and God bless.
@lucyzaw8968
@lucyzaw8968 Жыл бұрын
Wery well spoken dude wish him the best been struggeling with gambeling too been sober for 2 days rn
@danielmeuler2877
@danielmeuler2877 Жыл бұрын
I am a recovering opiate addict. (2years 7 mnths) and recently starting playing poker again. My Therapist and sub Dr. Hate it.. I recognize their issue with it. But I also worked incredibly hard to get to the point where I could responsibly play. But ANYTHING can become an addiction if you let it..
@ow3wells
@ow3wells Жыл бұрын
I don’t know what it’s like to gamble and lose thousands of dollars, but an addiction is an addiction and I wish him the best🌸
@e-bikeautonomy
@e-bikeautonomy Жыл бұрын
go smoke crack you will find out!
@karole7345
@karole7345 Жыл бұрын
U broke girl
@ow3wells
@ow3wells Жыл бұрын
@@karole7345 No, U broke boy?
@enveeproductionz
@enveeproductionz 3 ай бұрын
This addiction is one of the most baffling. I've lost close to 2 million dollars and I'm only 32 years old. I've lost around $27,000 just in the last 3 days alone. It is sickening. It's brought me to the brink of death. I hope anyone dealing with this addiction find the strength to beat it.
@azman210
@azman210 2 ай бұрын
Gamblers anonymous has worked for me
@01sapphireGTS
@01sapphireGTS Жыл бұрын
"Addicts" are often looked down on for many, many reasons. Most people are addicted to food - and overeat. Saul, your addiction is just a little bit further down the line and requires a different discipline to not over-indulge in.
@andrewwilliams1788
@andrewwilliams1788 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for your story dude. You're young, good looking (not that that's much to do with anything) and very likeable. Most importantly though is that you've realised your problem and dealing with it, good luck dude 👍
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