Generation Gaps, Victim Mentality, & Conscious Communities

[@toddwilson8059]

Appreciate the perspectives that these brothers bring to our people and to the world in general. Righteous voices are needed in these times especially coming from our black men so keep up the great work!

[@glo7183]

I would encourage you all to get more intersectional. Black folks cannot be compared to Mexicans or other clear ethnic groups. Blackness keeps being reduced to a monolith, and that is dangerous. When Europeans stole Black folks, they stole us from different tribes and countries! We were not 'one'. They likely stole warring tribes and forced them together. Similarly to how Dominicans and Mexicans and Cubans have their differences or Chinese and Vietnamese folks, and they do NOT consider themselves to be one community. The same goes for Black folks from different backgrounds! Please don't cheapen our experience with false equivalencies. Black folks speaking in this manner is so dangerous and you add to the echo chamber of false narratives around Blackness.

[@youareforgiven2634]

This was so very, very beautiful. To see two generations share and inspire African Americans . Awesome jobs brother and sisters. Thank you both for what you are doing. I'm in Oklahoma and I am also taking up my cross to follow Jesus, encouraging girls and women to forgive their absent or uninvolved father or mother..FORGIVING DAUGHTERS MINISTRY...it may be they were bound and blind. I'm very proud of you both

[@GottaBMePodcast]

Glad you enjoyed! Thanks for taking the time to leave an uplifting comment! We appreciate you being here. ✌🏽❤️🪮

[@aliettienne2907]

Abusers who labeled their victims of having a victim mentality are just using a deflecting technique to evade their accountability. If the victims shine light on abusers victimization then this is literally accountability, because the abuser deeds are being taken into account. Is it not silly to insinuate that the victim is not accountable when they are actually dealing with the real cause of their problem which has been inflicted by their abusers. If they leave out or ignore your abuse which is directed to them by you then that will be evading accountability. Well you girls are on an authentic advocacy journey and it is a breath of fresh air to witness this original journey. ❤️❤️❤️💯💪🏾👍🏾

[@GottaBMePodcast]

That was a very well balanced way to address victims, victim mentality and responsibility. Thanks for taking the time to leave an intellectually stimulating comment. And thanks for sticking around for the journey! We appreciate you being here! ✌🏽❤️🪮

[@RLM-p9w]

Love Bro Rob and Bro Devin! They speaking the truth! Thank you for bringing them on the podcast!❤ And I agree y’all are refreshing!

[@GottaBMePodcast]

✊🏽🔥

[@glo7183]

I would encourage you all to get more intersectional. Black folks cannot be compared to Mexicans or other clear ethnic groups. Blackness keeps being reduced to a monolith, and that is dangerous. When Europeans stole Black folks, they stole us from different tribes and countries! We were not 'one'. They likely stole warring tribes and forced them together. Similarly to how Dominicans and Mexicans and Cubans have their differences or Chinese and Vietnamese folks, and they do NOT consider themselves to be one community. The same goes for Black folks from different backgrounds! Please don't cheapen our experience with false equivalencies. Black folks speaking in this manner is so dangerous and you add to the echo chamber of false narratives around Blackness.

[@ImReallyON]

👋🏾 Hey Ladies. Keep you the good work!! 🔥😍🔥

[@GottaBMePodcast]

We appreciate the support!✊🏽

[@sharonrogers1190]

Hello ladies!!! Glad to see you and learn about something new! Woohoo!

[@GottaBMePodcast]

👋🏽 Thanks for being here! ✌🏽❤️🪮

[@regalrobertboxing]

Enjoyed watching. The black community in UK had the same divide in comparison to other ethnic minorities however things seem to be taking a positive turn. The abolishment of physical slavery wasn’t long ago so the effects still linger I guess but are fazing out. Especially with podcast like this shining light on such matters. Enjoyed listening to both guess, Rob had some interesting points I would have loved to hear him elaborate on. Great episode.

[@glo7183]

I would encourage you all to get more intersectional. Black folks cannot be compared to Mexicans or other clear ethnic groups. Blackness keeps being reduced to a monolith, and that is dangerous. When Europeans stole Black folks, they stole us from different tribes and countries! We were not 'one'. They likely stole warring tribes and forced them together. Similarly to how Dominicans and Mexicans and Cubans have their differences or Chinese and Vietnamese folks, and they do NOT consider themselves to be one community. The same goes for Black folks from different backgrounds! Please don't cheapen our experience with false equivalencies. Black folks speaking in this manner is so dangerous and you add to the echo chamber of false narratives around Blackness.

[@regalrobertboxing]

@@glo7183 Thank you for your perspective, but I think there may have been a misunderstanding of my comment. My focus wasn’t on comparing the historical experiences of Black people in different regions or reducing Blackness to a monolith. What I was addressing was the discussion in the podcast about the lack of unity within the Black community and the claim that we don’t support each other. In my comment, I was reflecting on how, in the UK, I’ve noticed a shift where the Black community is starting to work together more and become more unified, similar to how other communities in the UK-such as South Asians and other ethnic groups-have traditionally supported one another. This wasn’t about historical struggles but rather about present-day progress in fostering love and collaboration within the Black community in the UK. I hope this clears up my point

[@CandyCoated96]

Good discussion

[@GodFamilyUSA]

Stay smiling Stay honest

[@GottaBMePodcast]

💯🔥

[@ejo]

Salute!

[@GottaBMePodcast]

🫡 ✌🏽❤️🪮

[@LamarLanier-w4p]

This one touch basis “ ❤ were here we rise we are what’s true .

[@Kelli_Sheppard]

I enjoyed this conversation! I’m excited to see more God-fearing, Jesus-following men speaking up and taking action to improve our communities.

[@GottaBMePodcast]

Glad you enjoyed! ✌🏽❤️🪮

[@explorereginasask]

Yes, it’s refreshing, my husband and I watched and this is one podcast we introduced to our 16 yr old daughter cos most things online has no value for melaninated children.🎉🎉

[@DeborahHildebrandt-vk5jz]

Loved it!!🔥

[@GottaBMePodcast]

❤️❤️❤️

[@ArsenalMark7]

This is how they divide us we give them the game plan

[@glo7183]

I would encourage you all to get more intersectional. Black folks cannot be compared to Mexicans or other clear ethnic groups. Blackness keeps being reduced to a monolith, and that is dangerous. When Europeans stole Black folks, they stole us from different tribes and countries! We were not 'one'. They likely stole warring tribes and forced them together. Similarly to how Dominicans and Mexicans and Cubans have their differences or Chinese and Vietnamese folks, and they do NOT consider themselves to be one community. The same goes for Black folks from different backgrounds! Please don't cheapen our experience with false equivalencies. Black folks speaking in this manner is so dangerous and you add to the echo chamber of false narratives around Blackness.

[@columbuschokpa8791]

Hi Sophie and Peyton, am very much captivated by the subject of your discussion. However, my special focus is on what we are doing and can do as a remedy for the situation. Obviously, we may not be able to change the society or system. But we can change ourselves. I have the vision of a Generation of Black Youth with an understanding of the challenge and in years to come, the narrative could be different. Targeting young men and women is the way forward for me. My Request: Could you bring some young people of your age to your chat and have this talk with them?🤔Just thinking!

[@GottaBMePodcast]

Thank you so much for this thought-provoking suggestion! We love the idea of bringing in a few younger voices to have this conversation. 😊 We will work on that! ✌🏽❤️🪮

[@JustTeachMinistries]

Appreciate and admire everything these men are doing to stand in the gap of fatherlessness. I would encourage that the next frontier is help connect children with their fathers and not just attempt to be a surrogate. I’m not a therapist but I think the ideal would be for children to have some connection with their fathers and that may take a liaison like yourself.

[@DevinCarter-mc4bj]

I definitely agree… We are work I that lane as well, but appreciate the encouragement

[@aharanjunglizmyahawahandya7566]

Great video,and great conversation. Do these Brothers have a organization,FB,or YT channel?

[@GottaBMePodcast]

Glad you enjoyed! Unfortunately they do not have a personal page but they do have a local organization called Young Men’s Restoration Academy and you can find more information on that at rbe.community/. Thanks for being here! ✌🏽❤️🪮

[@michellerhnea4945]

How can I find out more about your community?

[@msamackruth]

❤😘✌🏾

[@GottaBMePodcast]

✌🏽❤️🪮

[@rachel3343]

Good one girls

[@GottaBMePodcast]

Glad you enjoyed! ✌🏽❤️🪮

[@MJCaribbeangirl-oq1lb]

I agree with everything you all are saying. But, I don’t want to blame the victim. We were never meant to live survive and thrive here. We are still seen as a threat. The war on blackness never ended. There were over 60 black towns that came up shortly after emancipation that were systematically destroyed by the local government in our United States. The 2020 census 12.4 % of the population of USA is black. That is with a 10 increase of African Caribbean and other blacks. The 2010 census we represent 12.6%. So that means a drop in the percentage of foundational blacks. Or maybe a massive increase in the population of the USA. Then why no increase in our population? As mentioned mass incarceration not only reinstates slavery but, reduces population growth. Systemic and individual racism is still crushing so many of our communities and individual people. As your saying the answer is more supportive black communities. One person at a time. I’m not sure how much the new immigrants are getting $$ but they are definitely not the problem.

[@Judahscorner]

I agree, but, immigrants aren't a problem yet. But a couple of years from now they will be the majority, swaying political and corporate favor. Hopefully we would have. Oh, got on code by then and come together. Creating an economical foundation for all of us, 2 partake in.

[@JaneDoane]

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[@glo7183]

I agree with you. Folks really need to get more intersectional. Watching other Black folks speak about Black struggle in this way is so so disheartening. Black folks cannot be compared to Mexicans or other clear ethnic groups. Blackness keeps being reduced to a monolith, and that is dangerous. When Europeans stole Black folks, they stole us from different tribes and countries! We were not 'one'. They likely stole warring tribes and forced them together. Similarly to how Dominicans and Mexicans and Cubans have their differences or Chinese and Vietnamese folks, and they do NOT consider themselves to be one community. The same goes for Black folks from different backgrounds! Please don't cheapen our experience with false equivalencies. Black folks speaking in this manner is so dangerous and you add to the echo chamber of false narratives around Blackness.

[@deborahgerosa3649]

I’m loving this conversation. My only concern is, when talking about Kamala Harris being black or not. I do still have a problem with that questioning. I agree with the statement that there things we need to do for ourselves and our community as black peoples. However, there are a whole host of black people who do harm to our communities. Those who are in position to make things better for us. Those folks were never asked to prove their blackness. Whether their blackness was obvious in appearance or not. Kamala Harris is a black woman and always has been when it comes to being considered black in this country. I’m surprised that Black people who don’t realize that. And fall for all that Internet okey-doke about their own people. This is another area where we need to work on ourselves. This whole, are you black enough thing. It’s just one more tactic they’ve used since slavery to separate us, pit us against one another. While still trying to pull us all down by our ankles. By the way, on the campaign Trail. Kamala Harris did promise to do something specific for black men to further their entrepreneurship in our country. As well as promising tax cuts for small businesses. Also tax cut for first time homebuyers. Don’t know if she would’ve got all of this past Congress. But she did promise to propose these things to Congress. These are the things that the Internet. Definitely kept from Black people. I happen to be listening to her say it from her very mouth. We as Black people, have to realize and be fully aware, when we’re being put in a trick bag of self hatred by those who hate us. We have to stop falling it. I definitely agree that we as a people need to get back to community and need to truly focus on what real community means in our community. Love you ladies you’re beautiful. Keep doing what you’re doing and having these wonderful conversations and I love the brothers that you had on there today.❤

[@ReshonBryant]

Psalm 59:5((C.E.V.))🧔🏽‍♀️

[@columbuschokpa8791]

I actually believe that the Black Community is a community but has lapses here and there. So the focus should be on identifying the lapses and fixing them. And black folk must understand that there are individuals who benefit from keeping the black community in shambles. We must be conscious of all these issues. Black folk need to realistically uplift themselves. No reparations will do it because the issues go beyond reparations. The mentality of deprivation and subjugation needs a personal desire and determination to break away from.

[@glo7183]

I would encourage you all to get more intersectional. Black folks cannot be compared to Mexicans or other clear ethnic groups. Blackness keeps being reduced to a monolith, and that is dangerous. When Europeans stole Black folks, they stole us from different tribes and countries! We were not 'one'. They likely stole warring tribes and forced them together. Similarly to how Dominicans and Mexicans and Cubans have their differences or Chinese and Vietnamese folks, and they do NOT consider themselves to be one community. The same goes for Black folks from different backgrounds! Please don't cheapen our experience with false equivalencies. Black folks speaking in this manner is so dangerous and you add to the echo chamber of false narratives around Blackness.

[@TKO67]

If we could just understand Deuteronomy 28

[@Boxxxxxxxxx]

Right.

[@MalQomX24]

What happened to Peyton’s eye???

[@SarahBenion]

Pickleball mishap

[@MalQomX24]

@ is there footage? 🤣

[@madebysinatra]

​@@SarahBenion Oh no 😢

[@explorereginasask]

Hey, my mom watches these podcasts, and she’s 40+ but you got 16 year olds like ma self who watch you girls.

[@GottaBMePodcast]

That’s just awesome! So glad you’ve enjoyed! Thanks so much for watching! ✌🏽❤️🪮

[@AbrahamIsaacMucius-d7z]

When is Umar Johnson going to open up his school?

[@bookworm5191]

We are living in the last days. God will put in appearance soon. So, most of what we see is the result of sin. We walked away from the way, which is Christ. Jesus said I am the way. On Christ the solid rock I stand. We don't follow Bible principles anymore and that's our core problem. Children aren't thought about God Drake has taken the place of God. Our only hope is in Christ not in man. Teach these young children about Jesus so they can tell others about the love of God. If we want to change these young men start with the gospel 🙏

[@ArsenalMark7]

We have to stop talking about our family business to this public. No other group is doing this. You don’t hear their agenda.

[@glo7183]

I would encourage you all to get more intersectional. Black folks cannot be compared to Mexicans or other clear ethnic groups. Blackness keeps being reduced to a monolith, and that is dangerous. When Europeans stole Black folks, they stole us from different tribes and countries! We were not 'one'. They likely stole warring tribes and forced them together. Similarly to how Dominicans and Mexicans and Cubans have their differences or Chinese and Vietnamese folks, and they do NOT consider themselves to be one community. The same goes for Black folks from different backgrounds! Please don't cheapen our experience with false equivalencies. Black folks speaking in this manner is so dangerous and you add to the echo chamber of false narratives around Blackness.

[@MakedaMoona33]

Help the biracial community

[@AbrahamIsaacMucius-d7z]

Kamala Harris is not a Black woman. Ms. Harris was raised by her Indian immigrant mother in Indian culture. Kamala's father was born in Jamaica but has no African ancestry. His ethnicity is Irish and Hindu. Mr. Harris admitted that his Irish ancestors did own African slaves in Jamaica.

[@homecomingharvest9987]

You do realize that more Africans were brought to and enslaved in the carribean islands than the Americas, right? I just want to to be clear that Jamaicans can and do have African ancestry

[@aquarius-woman5364]

The women in the video have white mothers

[@deborahgerosa3649]

I’d like to say one more thing, you name me one black politician who looks mixed, who’s viewed as black and, they go around saying they’re black. No one does that. Stop expecting more than normal from her. I’m not a huge Kamala supporter. However, right is right, and wrong is wrong.

[@glo7183]

I would encourage you all to get more intersectional. Black folks cannot be compared to Mexicans or other clear ethnic groups. Blackness keeps being reduced to a monolith, and that is dangerous. When Europeans stole Black folks, they stole us from different tribes and countries! We were not 'one'. They likely stole warring tribes and forced them together. Similarly to how Dominicans and Mexicans and Cubans have their differences or Chinese and Vietnamese folks, and they do NOT consider themselves to be one community. The same goes for Black folks from different backgrounds! Please don't cheapen our experience with false equivalencies. Black folks speaking in this manner is so dangerous and you add to the echo chamber of false narratives around Blackness.

[@glo7183]

Not to mention 'Hispanics' (which just means people who speak Spanish) didn't come here through chattel slavery. There wasn't a concerted effort from the AmeriKKKan government to turn Spaniards, Mexicans, Hondurans etc into one group. They didn't cut all their tongues out and ban them from speaking their languages. C'monnn😭🤧