Can You Save Your Marriage After Separation? | Brandon’s Story

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

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[@datyellaman447]

This story is very inspiring I've been separated for almost 3 months my wife hasn't brought up divorce but I'm not sure what she's thinking she really only talks about the kids and she does weird things like if I walk in the room she leaves immediately we didn't have an abusive relationship but we had a terrible lack of communication I used to be very defensive and emotional but through therapy and Geoffrey's videos I am enjoying the process of learning how to be emotionally bulletproof

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Great to hear dude! Have you considered joining the program yet?

[@Unxpekted]

@@GeoffreySetiawan what is the cost of the program? Online? How many days?

[@Unxpekted]

Sorry about this brotha, stay strong and be your best not for her but yourself and whom ever decides to love you long term

[@jamesrickenbaugh50]

My story was similar ! Thanks to Geoffrey’s program my wife is moving back home! But the greatest part is the personal growth, confidence and the right processes to handle life’s ups and downs.

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Hell yeah dude! Keep rocking it champ!

[@user-ho7mh1wb3z]

Hi can u help me please

[@jamesrickenbaugh50]

@@user-ho7mh1wb3z no program can do it for you. But you can definitely succeed

[@matthewbarrett176]

This mans story is 1000% my story, word for word 😢

[@victoriaoshea4865]

This program helps couples and ripples down to the kids, beautiful

[@aaronwilliamsiscool]

Geoffrey!!! 🎉 I applied everything & got her back!!! Only 2 days of learning/self reflection studying, letting go of controlling perspectives, she loves me again! I was blind sided, trying to be a man I wasn’t, it only pushed her away, but I took accountability to see how I was, in FACT, wrong* on LITERALLY 100 levels & I was HUMBLED by what I found. GUYS!!! 🙆‍♂️ LISTEN TO THE SMALL SIGNS SHE THROWS OUT 🪧 She’s trying to help! VALUE* HER WORDS & suggestions!!! Or she’s out of there! 💃

[@lukeleonardrasmussen3550]

Another great video. I love learning the stuff, the mindsets and the relationship mountain, but the stories behind it all are great.

[@victoriaoshea4865]

OMG How he lights up.when he mentions his son😅❤

[@takeoprovinc]

I am in same situation like Brandon. I am now in the process of selling my house and move on with my life. I want to save the marriage but I don’t know how. She has been sleeping with someone for a year during we together.

[@seanethanjuneley]

Geoffrey 16 years together with 6 kids, she moved in together with her new man she knew for 3 week, and left all the kids and everything we build together. Its been almost 3 months now. Is there any possibility that she will come back? What should I do or say at this point?

[@theorangeofallahpbuh1840]

First and foremost, you should realise that it’s not about how you feel about her. It’s about how she feels about you. You can’t just magically make her feel better about you by saying how you feel about her, or what you would do for her. You have to change yourself to be better for yourself, and accept the fact that she could choose to never be with you again even if you do change.

[@BearBuilder89]

Thier is no grater pain then the loss of someone u love and the loss of loved ones and family 😢

[@victoriaoshea4865]

Amazing story

[@brandendetwiler2580]

This is eye opening and so helpful

[@savvyguy1353]

Not that it warrants arrogance but compared to the rest of the world, 200k/year is great. 3M is much better but compared to rest of the world fantastic…I definitely agree that safety is the purpose of money in a relationship

[@Tech2feed]

Hey . I am in a long distance relationship i unconsciously took her for granted but now I am awake and I have learnt a lot from your videos thanks for these helpful videos. She barely has time to talk due to my unavailability in the past she also has made herself busy with other stuff. But now I want to talk . So whenever I try to talk to her about something about the past messup which happened between us. Most of the time she prefers to divert the chats , though I have started planting seeds as you said for emotional safety.but still she prefers to divert the topic by saying please don't talk on this . I have messed up very badly in the past when she brings some tough topics I am aware of my wrong doings. And now I have changed after watching my changes she told me" don't talk to me like this it's very irritating, it feels like talking to a different person" but I am still being persistent to my changes despite. So what is your suggestion to bring the topic of the past which I can listen to and make herself relieved because she is not the type of girl who is going to share her inner self with anyone.. there is a trust issue as well between us because of lies .i am Changing my identity and personality very drastically i am becoming a completely new self but still she does stone Wall , as I said I am dropping seeds and preferring farming rather than hunting. So I am also following your video to build trust again . So what is your suggestion to bring those topics to talk on when she barely prefers to talk and have lost and diverted her interest from me?

[@stevelamhang9547]

Same boat here, stay strong work on PIES

[@Tech2feed]

@@stevelamhang9547 PIES?

[@Doctor.Dentista]

When you say no unique circumstances, this is the one☝️ just like mine

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Right on!

[@flashboy826]

I've cheated in my ldr girlfriend by texting multiple women, she found out about it, we broke up, and then eventually got back together. All of a sudden she has these doubts again and tells me that she loves me but she likes another guy and she needs time to think about my relationship with her. How do I reassure her trust and to win her back?

[@piotrekmajkowski5422]

What was she doing during separation? Riding cc and trying to attach to sb? She failed and ... You are now together. Very impressive

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

We just recorded a follow-up interview with Brandon & his wife 1 year later as a 1-year update. We'll be posting it soon and we talk extensively about this!

[@mojitsu71]

I’m going through a amicable divorce at the moment. I watched these videos for hope but I don’t think I’ll be able to do this. I feel like I’m settling, insecure, can be manipulated and is creating a beta mindset. What’s to prevent this from happening again or having constant anxiety. I think it’s time to grind and take of yourself. Lose the limiting beliefs. Idk maybe I’m wrong.

[@kraveinygo1607]

Brandon. I appreciate your story, your learning and change. Just listening to your story and the almost perfect symmetry between your story and mine is almost a mirror story. It's given me alot of hope to make the changes internally within myself to change my mindset. I will definitely be trying to get into the program. I need to help and heal myself to help heal my family.

[@joshsaundh4851]

Hi Geoffrey can you please help me because my girlfriend is not texting me in too weeks and I really do not know what to do so should I just give my girlfriend space and I am really scared 😳 that I might lose my girlfriend and I am scared that my girlfriend has another boyfriend and I am afraid that my girlfriend might be doing something behind my back can you please help me 😢 I feel like crying and I feel like my girlfriend and her parents hate me

[@hdshjs]

This sounds wild. What happened? You gave no details. How long were you together? What was your pattern of communication before this silent treatment? Have you had a fight that led to this silence? What was your last few messages to her? What was her last one? You can't help if she has someone new, this one you should ignore, because you can't control her relations with other people.

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Any lessons you can take from watching Brandon's story above? His wife was already confirmed to be moved on.

[@joshsaundh4851]

@@hdshjs no I have not seen my girlfriend in 10 months like should I take my girlfriend on a date

[@joshsaundh4851]

@@GeoffreySetiawan yech why did his wife move on

[@chrispalazzolo431]

Red pill Destroys trust building!

[@Hel507]

Does this program work even if he absolutely refuses to talk to me atm and we're long distance? We have no mutual friends or connections either so while I don't doubt the program can help me change, I'm at a loss for how he would even have the chance to notice my changes?

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Watch my interviews with Michael, Fredrik, Stephen, Eve or Scott, and answer this question for yourself!

[@frankjdm4636]

I have a Big Question and been having doubts with this one. Should I Express my feelings in a relative manner to her? Like for example I feel very down anxiety and depressed on my chest when she does not come Home for a day or 2 while she's out with her sister partying. I used to go out and pick up on girls and ignore her while she was stuck at home with the kids and she used to cry and be insecure I was seeing someone and cheating I did this for years now that I've seen her worth and noticed her become very distant last few months I feel like our roles have reversed. So can I ask her If she used to feel so and so when I did certain things while she was stuck at home or will it make me look weak and insecure to confess all the feelings that I feel now? Please help me out with this one as I feel it can progress us alot more or backfire on me as maybe she will keep doing it more on purpose

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

This is the issue with people trying to learn tactics without backing it up with deep internal shifts first. Remember this -- If you have the right process, you will thrive under any what. If you have the wrong process, you will fail under any what... Without the right internal shifts, it does not matter if you are saying the perfect set of words, etc... It would still backfire because your subtle microtones and microexpressions will give it all away.

[@frankjdm4636]

@@GeoffreySetiawan I have been changing I have not insulted her, blown up, put her down, ignored her feelings anymore and I truly do care more about her feelings and how she has felt and what I've put her through she is now at the point where she opens up to me alot more and I listen she has said she sometimes doesn't know if to believe me or not that its all happening too fast but I guess I've came across as forcing things quite a bit, but now I'm starting to back off more and more no matter how much it hurts while still showing her a level of interest

[@traps361]

@@GeoffreySetiawanhas anyone ever given her the divorce after getting served even having one court date under the belt only to get it transferred to make her happy while working on yourself? 🧐

[@rebuildingdad3010]

What happens when your wife cheats with someone else only 3 months into separation? And she tells you she hasn't? Is this person still worth fighting for?