"My Friend Became A Chad and Now I Cant Stand Him"

[@_Tax_Evader]

Wow he almost went a full minute without rapping about 9/11

[@unreactive]

nope, 0:26

[@-haclong2366]

Zoomers zooming out, I guess.

[@Alex-vm6ef]

Can't expect anyone to be perfect

[@BigOldBagel]

That one was a reach usually they fit right in

[@titanomachy2217]

Lol he has an Iron Guard flag. CATASTROPHICALLY BASED! The wokies won't like that...

[@Fro69]

"Everyone wants to see you doing good, just not better than them."

[@ArgonNoble]

Pain

[@verbadoo]

But everyone's doing better than me!

[@styxrakash4639]

"crabs in a bucket"

[@Cheezy27]

"Finding your angle" is probably the most important piece out of this entire video. You can't expect to gain confidence or feel fulfilled by following the same generic self-improvement protocol every social media goblin pushes on you. The perfect angles are the skills you'd work on and hobbies you'd be doing regardless of whether it got you bitches or not because you're doing it for yourself. You can't control who wants you so why not just focus on finding what you're good at and take satisfaction from that. You shouldn't ever have "nothing to lose" in this life, you're either building and moving forward or you're decaying.

[@J.D.558]

Well said.

[@TheZombiesInfected]

Thank you for being sane. I'm tired of people being nihilistic and pretending like our one way to happiness in this world is shooting your DNA into a person you don't really like. You evolved a big brain for a reason. If we were truly biological baby machines then monogamy wouldn't be a thing in the first place.

[@TheDionysianFields]

Some serious mic drop sh_t right there.

[@nopetrain3923]

Ya think this wouldn’t take a random youtube comment for people to get.

[@toheeb07]

​@TheZombiesInfected monogamy exists to grow societies, it's socially enforced through traditions, religions and shame. Polygamy is what humans naturally default to

[@whatwastaken]

"Some people are just ugly." The most bitter truth of our time that it seems impossible to accept. Because to be ugly, or at least to be non-beautiful, is average and normal. And being average is just not enough in today's world.

[@BasedHyperborean]

It absolutely is, though. Ugly/overweight dudes get married all the time. Instead of fiending over baddies, realize your position and find a woman in your lane. There are plenty of happy couples that are both below average in terms of looks. Not everyone deserves or will attain a beautiful partner, but a mid partner that treats you well and doesn’t make you feel insecure is still perfectly attainable.

[@whatwastaken]

@@BasedHyperborean My lane personally is probably eternal singlehood as I don't think mids would give me the time of day either, but I was just speaking from what feels like the collective frustration of our time. Perhaps it isn't as true as people say, but it feels that way for many people.

[@BasedHyperborean]

@@whatwastakenit feels that way because so many people are looking for something they simply can’t have. Women as well as men, but the amount of dudes that are objective losers that just think they deserve a 10 and no less is a little ridiculous at this point. Just find someone you get along with and create a life together. That’s literally the key to a happy relationship. The looks go out the window for everyone on a long enough timeline anyway. If you’re dooming yourself to a lifetime of being single, that’s on you. That’s your fault, bro. You don’t have to live like that. There IS a way out. I’m rooting for you, big dog. You deserve a happy life. I met the girl I plan on marrying about 8 months ago. Before that, I’d dated quite a few girls, but it never worked out long term and I was starting to get bitter about it too. Then she just kinda walked into my life and completely shifted my perspective. Go to church. Go to bookstores. Get involved in community activities. That’s where you’ll meet good women.

[@treehugger8858]

@@BasedHyperborean Your words give me hope friend :-)

[@whatwastaken]

@@BasedHyperborean I appreciate you saying so, but really, things aren't looking good for me. I'd have to make a lot of big changes in order to make something happen, even if I did meet someone who would theoretically get along with me. Like, I'm not in my 20s. I'm mid 30s, poor and very far behind in life. But thanks for the encouragement anyhow, it's what someone needs to hear I'm sure.

[@bogoboogerino2007]

You're my favourite POC creator

[@kaiserchan4683]

peaceful ontological carp

[@LifeEnjoyer463]

It's nice to see a young black man finding success and supporting the Iron Guard

[@tuber420]

Every day with this shit ...

[@TotalNigelFargothDeath]

@@tuber420 woah there buddy, cool it with the anti-semitic remarks

[@seguramlk]

*BIPOC

[@eliotcamel7799]

Have a friend who was "chad". I was happy for him. Then, things changed. He began to fail college classes, injured his spine preventing him from lifting. I'm worried he might take his life one of these days. Fate will trick you into believing you deserve what you have, just to hurt you all the more. The higher the climb, the longer the fall. We only have each other.

[@xerxes8275]

Damn. Best wishes to you and your friend. I'll pray for him

[@Jarl_egbert]

Samuel Hydenberg talks about this alot. Being jealous of others success is bug behavior, and alot of people would prefer to be around other under achievers, because it makes them feel better about themselves, and soon as someone tries to leave that hole, they activly try and pull that person back down.

[@ArgonNoble]

“Hey man what do you mean you don’t wanna get killed by the hero today”-Level 1 Slime

[@trilll6]

@@ArgonNoble😂😂😂

[@BULMASDESTRUCTIN]

"They give you... the evil eye"

[@Amaleksspin]

I have a friend like this in the same scenario, but I have nothing but admiration for him. He's one of the nicest guys I know and always offers to help me get to his level. God bless him

[@allsmilesguy]

Comparison is the thief of joy but we live in an age where most people compare themselves to fake standards

[@MrVocalist567]

Or their best friends and cause division in the process.

[@scottanno8861]

This man lost a friend due to envy. Don't let greed rob your heart.

[@Vormav777]

This is very relatable because I had a friend like that. Not a Chad, the other guy who saw me as a Chad (I'm not). He percived me as more attractive, smarter, more talented, funnier etc. He told me that once when we were drinking hard. He eventually left. The funny thing is his life is much better than mine, I'm a lonely loser with no money and he's in IT with a wife now.

[@Nathan_Higgens]

Part of that might be due to his job. I’m in IT (but just as general support, not anything specialized) and a lot of the time people get burned out and feel like they don’t have much purpose - I’m actually moving for this reason. IT from what I’ve seen and experienced is draining because you’re always fixing things and trying to squeeze in time to keep other things updated so you CAN fix them. It’s very tiring and feels like you’re just in a hole forever not actually building or improving. I’d honestly take a warehouse job over IT; been doing it for 6 years and man, I’m just tired. I imagine that dude is in a similar boat

[@Vormav777]

@@Nathan_Higgens he wasn't in IT then, we were in school

[@samesaiwan]

@@Vormav777what’s IT.

[@Vormav777]

@@samesaiwan Information technology (IT) is a set of related fields that encompass computer systems, software, programming languages and data and information processing

[@1chibanKasuga]

Evil eye

[@pedropierre9594]

Thats called jealousy brethren, embrace it but learn from it so that you beat it

[@forestgiliad3504]

We've got to beat it brothers🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🗣🗣🗣🗣

[@hanzoY248]

Black pill content attracts the absolute dregs of society so it's honestly not surprising they think this way. The only worrying thing is there's a bunch of these victim weaklings running around nowadays blaming everyone else for their problems

[@gwills9337]

Yeah that kid was pretty pathetic

[@jokerpilled2535]

There’s a reason why jealousy exists, it’s an evolutionary defense mechanism against unfairness.

[@Schopenhauer69]

​@@jokerpilled2535it's to enforce competition but competition is useless if the game is rigged

[@JordoScampoli]

No cap youre one of my favorite content creators solely based on authenticity. I can't say that for a lot of internet personalities, especially relative to my age; nor can i quite describe the magnitude of relief i get from your videos. In a world where I often feel pulled in so many different directions at once, whether it be reality, social media or the thoughts in my own head, the tension lessens here. Everything slows down and I'm, in an oh so relatable way, reminded that I'm not alone in the suffering that is life. I don't fucking know you and you probably won't even see this, but your content feels like conversations id have with my boys irl... Which is rarer and rarer to have these days as we get older and our responsibilities grow. Stoner rambling complete, peace and love.

[@GusGus-q5l]

Honestly you're so right though

[@susyoda7571]

My issue is that the confession has such a nihilistic crybaby undertone, this guy sounds like his looks aren't his biggest problem

[@verigumetin4291]

Yeah. His problem is his attachment to not being on top. He sound like a downer too, kind of like me from ten years ago. Sheesh, I wouldn't want to be friends with that guy either.

[@gwills9337]

Hearing his tone and about his life makes me unsurprised he wasn’t successful at the gym or other eays

[@trippindaze]

Bros comparing him self to his homie, I feel like that’s one of his big mistakes, because we all have our own different ways of progression, he should keep going with the workouts n rlly focus on himself, instead of wallowing in pity, it’s easier said than done but none of that shit is easy to do, whatever physique he is aiming for, I bet that shit doesn’t come in 1 2 3, that wallowing shit ain’t gonna get him anywhere, maybe thats why he feels stuck in that path, because he’s letting him self be stuck in that wallow

[@Itransheartgoyslop]

lmao

[@ruzzianbot]

damn give the dude a break. i dont blame him, i am in a very similar situation. i was always a happy, very optimistic, hard working guy but life just put me down every damn time and gave others everything without trying. you guys dont know anything about him other than 1 emotional confession which has probably been built up after years of coping with improooooving, working hard and grinding bro!

[@hap1678]

Ngl best thing for a guy is to find a thing he loves and get good at it. Men work best when they have a passion they lose track of time when doing, then I promise someone will come into your life.

[@sphinx2077]

That's not true and I know this bc I've been playing guitar for ~6 years and music is my biggest passion yet things have only been getting worse for me. Finding your passion isn't a magic bullet and I'm tired of people acting like it is

[@sphinx2077]

I should also clarify that it does kinda take the edge off of pain and hardships but again it's not a solution and shouldn't be treated like it is

[@hap1678]

@@sphinx2077 of course your still going to have pain. I was more so talking about work, since that’s what your going to do majority of the time

[@scottkrafft6830]

Don't make a promise when you know it's not true. But if you find a good enough passion you'll forget about your problems.

[@joshuaamado559]

Literally Vegeta’s story arc lol.

[@torrancemoore6152]

And even he never reached an equal footing with his homie lol

[@porkerpete7722]

Without the cool character

[@GavinRobles-mw2ww]

Height mogged

[@Jarl_egbert]

Except that Vegetas wife is objectively hotter than Gokus.

[@samesaiwan]

@@Jarl_egbertcope

[@user-iz7kc4ql7g]

The one about the dude who went to foreign country just to breed other women,get em pregnant, then dip, is still to this today. One of the most vile and most shocking thing I've heard in a minute. That confession not only lives rent free in my head but also deserves an entire video to its own.

[@mianzahid8744]

Lol I've heard worse

[@titanomachy2217]

Lol based and Genghis Khan-pilled.

[@ivanthaboi]

That one was fucking evil i swear

[@mariagalleriaxi8632]

Anyone who calls this based is a degenerate

[@benyerd6247]

It’s probably larp, you think gerbert viewers get laid? Plus I saw the exact same story with little differences on reddit like 3 years ago.

[@pointless7]

Gerby’s raps actually go really hard

[@BasedChadman]

The first half is always fire until he loses the flow, but he has some bangers

[@pointless7]

@@BasedChadman true

[@putent9623]

On mute

[@pointless7]

@@putent9623 how bro felt after that: 🐺🐺🐺🐺🐺🐺👺👺👺👺👺👹👹👹👹👹👿👿👿👿👿

[@cu11en76]

I know I won’t have this problem mostly, but I do have one friend who is annoying because he thinks he’s good with girls because of his personality but he’s just 6’5

[@FellTreeZ]

I get that being jealous is bad but it's insufferable when someone won't be honest that yeah maybe it's not solely your personality but genetic qualities that are outisde of anyone's control that contribute heavily (more than personality) to your success. But people want to believe their efforts are solely responsible for their success because it makes you feel good.

[@cu11en76]

@@FellTreeZExactly, he’ll never admit that, but I’m chill with that, I’m 6’1 and don’t get attention next to him, and I’ve made peace with that

[@water4112]

@@cu11en76don’t worry man you are 6’1, your still tall ❤

[@-haclong2366]

​@@water4112Nope, tall starts at 6'4.

[@water4112]

@@-haclong2366 it doesn’t, it’s like 5’11 and above

[@dylanjames8439]

Gerby in the big 3

[@ModernWanderer]

"FUCK THE BIG 3, NIGGA ITS JUST BIG ME" -Gerby

[@BigOldBagel]

No big 3 it’s just him

[@dylanjames8439]

@@BigOldBagel You know what. You're right.

[@hamzataj2784]

Who are the other two?

[@leo-xt8cv]

@@BigOldBagelhorsemeet in there 💯💯

[@oldtimebear1944]

I feel like the bigger truth is that you have to focus on what you can control, mainly your attitude. That's actually going either make or break your life.

[@ArgonNoble]

Your thoughts and what you pray for too

[@MrFresh-tn3lt]

Best Black creator in the game

[@nothingtoospecial777]

A lot of the commenters here just aren't BP'd enough. Sometimes, you simply can't win. Sometimes, no matter how hard you try, no matter how many times you try, you still end up losing. I sympathise with the guy in the post. Now, I'm not saying he should dwell in his envy and resentment, but become a good friend again. People just forget that men are competitive against one another, and you'll notice this pretty much everywhere. However, when you're constantly on the winning side, you won't be explicit about being better, and it'll be more subconscious instead.

[@critterdude311]

That’s not an excuse for being a bitter jealous bitch though, especially being unhappy for your ‘friend’. Some friend he is.

[@AUDREY-bs3rz]

In what way can't the guy in the video win? He can still continue to work out and become a great person in other areas as well, maybe not the greatest but to believe that you can't win is absurd. The only people I've ever seen lose is the people who believe they can't win. A pathetic mindset that only exist to spare you from the pain of continuous effort

[@nothingtoospecial777]

@@AUDREY-bs3rz "and become a great person in other areas as well" You're not sneaky with your cope. Just accept that sometimes you lose in life. Stop trying to compensate for or dismiss your Ls.

[@moongoalie2410]

Lol no need to shame another person for trying to fight some light in the darkness. Any average person can find other avenues that doesn’t keep them a jaded nihilist, especially if they hone great skills to better those around him. Most times women can actually find value in a man’s intelligence and utility, rather than just looks alone. Some people are just late bloomers.

[@AUDREY-bs3rz]

@@nothingtoospecial777 how is trying cope? It is incredibly difficult. Your mindset is literally coping with failure by thinking there was no chance to begin with. Out of your control so you can't blame yourself, how is that not cope? Yes sometimes you lose, but you said that you can't win, you have to lose a lot in order to win, people like you lose a bit too much and decide you can't win.

[@Solar_Legionary]

Iron Guard flag? Very esoteric

[@YMeDoyElLujazo]

Get a gf will ya

[@majorborngusfluunduch8694]

@YMeDoyEILujazo I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy bro.

[@YMeDoyElLujazo]

@@majorborngusfluunduch8694 you spittin them facts rn

[@DennisE-f1u]

A romanian iron guard flag? the extremist group flags are starting to get more and more niche

[@Leukick]

The thing about people at the bottom, is that their own mindset drags them down WAY LOWER.... which is quite the extreme opposite of what they need. Harsh.

[@kelechi_77]

It's a self fulfilling prophecy, they will get lower, which worsens their mindset and makes them stay there. Most will never even break out of the negative feedback loop, it's almost deterministic.

[@Leukick]

​@@kelechi_77 Yeah true. I guess the first step is recognizing that problem and then avoiding its downward spiral. I hope the best for them.

[@Havetosucceed]

​@Leukick I think this was my problem all along, hopefully I can change this.

[@OklamaJr]

They get their mindset from their Bad expericence with others mixed with the good experience others have Wich make them feel inferior they need to cultivate a inner and other value I.E(Skillz & Good Looks)

[@willpoweramv]

Nah but that "White girls like its snowing" was fucking BARS and Gerby knew it.

[@gregsocial44566]

This video is complete truth. Just because you're accepting of certain things and that you're just predisposed to never live the same life as other people, doesn't mean you're depressed or a negative person. If anything, it's the acceptance that allows you to continue living life with healthy mindset, unlike when everyone is doing the exact same things and you're unable to accept that some people will just naturally be ahead of you, which if anything is only going to make your life worse because you'll be constantly comparing yourself to the guys who you'll never be like, but that is OK. Find your own path in life, keep improving with the cards that you have been dealt, and shit will work out for you. It's exactly why 'self-improvement' has become such a shallow and meaningless term because it's less about finding your own path and instead it's all "if you don't do these exact things then you'll never be anything in life and I'll fuck your girlfriend because you didn't go to the gym one day". Find your own path and don't drown in sorrow

[@evengraintech1397]

This was beautiful

[@at1the1beginning]

Let's be real here. The people who have never experienced the problem always dismiss it as being one. That's why I don't mingle with people who I see as 'better' or 'more succesful' than me, because it's all just a facade. They know I'm not on their level and are perefectly happy to keep it that way; not rarely do they maintain the 'friendship' because it makes thém feel better about themselves. They'd take any chance to screw you over if it's to their benefit.

[@DavidBarton2]

From one black man to another, we're gonna make out of the hood one day

[@failuretolaunchdrums]

We need a gerby album

[@wowjack8944]

My advice is this: Someone who is far above you in the social hierachy (this from an interaction between your physical appearance and personality) should never be the friend you are closest to, because it can't be. After a certain age the social pressures of the world will just make this impossible. It can't work, because your failure (when the friend interacts with people on his level) will create resentment in both you and the friend. It can't work. You should have a friend(group) in which you feel valueable and are at least in the middle of the hiearchy. Loyalty is a virtue, but if you don't take this advice, then you will hold onto the friend(group), resenment will form in all parties, and you will grow so far apart that the entire friendship will collapse. That way there will be nothing left. Your choise will have created a new history (the current present) which will doom that relationship. Hold onto what you have by creating more distance.

[@iiCounted-op5jx]

@@Nebulous1225 "better friends" are as easy to find like trying to find an 18+ year old virgin girl

[@wowjack8944]

@@Nebulous1225 I don't know your situation, but if you both feel happy, than this advice is not for you. If the relationship works, than by definition you have some other quality that compensates. It is ment for people who do feel alienated from their friends. However, you do frame yourself below your friend and that is a bit cucked imo.

[@gwills9337]

@@Nebulous1225that’s still low. The gap isn’t wide enough. He’s completely right.

[@AnasKhan-ni9xx]

​@Nebulous1225 he'd he doing himself and his friend a favor if that's how he views him.

[@Nebulous1225]

@@wowjack8944 Ive found your problem, literally you'd never know and i don't think about it. Im not ashamed to live within a modest income at my age it's not "cucked" because i don't live in the SMV matrix.

[@carlo8076]

Oh, that's my confession. That was back in November I think, really one of my lowest lows. To give an update: nowadays I keep in touch with my friend, and we're back on good terms. I no longer feel that envy and despair. I'm happy with my physique now that I don't compare myself to him and i'm genuinely happy with myself. I never cared about the fact that he was the one getting the girls and all the attention, it was more about that i felt left behind and that nothing i achieved mattered. I felt ignored by him, so i ignored him in return. We talked that out, and now we rarely chat since we both stay pretty busy. I think that my key to finding the happiness, was just living day to day and really taking in every moment, and appreciating the small things that make me happy. Remember, when you hit the true rock bottom, there's no other way to go than up - we're all gonna make it.

[@-______________________]

🧢

[@kartikayysola]

Assuming this is real (don't take it personally, I'm like that with anything on the internet), I'm glad to hear you're doing better bro.

[@pagle958]

same, glad to hear you are doing better

[@TeeDhirav32]

Glad you're doing better bro, hitting rock bottom fucking sucks. But it leaves you to becoming more stronger. Lets all get it brahs 🔱💪

[@maalikserebryakov]

@@kartikayysolathat fraud is lying I wrote that confession. I cant believe people have such sad lives they take credit for one of my loser confessions lmao wtf

[@hyperTorless]

15:00 Excellent point on how ancient social dynamics encouraged men to settle down early and kept them from parasitizing the "mating market".

[@stevenobrien7686]

The G.O.A.T. is back! (Gerbert of all time)

[@zivamayne]

Self improvement is so necessary but can be handled so wrong. You have been improving at things since you were a baby, now that same concept is a big internet hype

[@DayrusBPB]

Should celebrate your homie's success instead of hating. He earned it.

[@scottanno8861]

Envy is the thief of happiness and friendship

[@DayrusBPB]

@@scottanno8861 Indeed. Only compare my current self to my previous selves and see how to better myself and to help others so we can level up together.

[@Sabossa]

​@@scottanno8861 literally how my last friend group dissolved

[@_strife]

Not everything gained is earned

[@TheInternationalJew]

Something about genetics which is what mainly pissed him off

[@h1st0ryy87]

My favorite African American creator has uploaded once again!

[@STMORRISPL]

Gerbie - sending you love from ADELAIDE AUSTRALIA 🇦🇺

[@zickster]

How is the bogan poon out there?

[@nathanyoung8284]

Fucking loved Adelaide when I visited Aussieland. Stay strong, blue brother

[@n10tkey1]

Finally we askin the real questions bout Tower 7

[@ien2023]

Gerby is the work in progress Chad.

[@BabyJesusss]

Sign this man

[@meganaxelia]

that village anecdote really does sum up the current societal issue. i truly do believe at the end of hookup culture basically of these issues would disappear

[@Itransheartgoyslop]

All my friends became normies and abandoned me after they realized I had nothing they needed like popularity and such. This was a few years back, but it’s funny to see that once you are not of use to the people around you, they leave and search for more “sufficient” people.

[@danielwatson5595]

You just sound like someone who does nothing but bring down everyone around them. Life is tough for everyone. No one wants nor needs a person who is just doom and gloom when life already is mostly doom and gloom. Look at your pfp. Point proven. Your friends aren’t the problem, you are.

[@Itransheartgoyslop]

@@danielwatson5595 you know nothing about me lmao.

[@danielwatson5595]

@@Itransheartgoyslop if I genuinely knew nothing about you; you would have been able to easily respond to what I send with something actually insightful. But instead you just say some bs like that because you know I speak the truth. Sucks to suck.

[@Itransheartgoyslop]

@@danielwatson5595 nah, it’s just an easy response. You can act different online than you act irl. Stop trying to psycho analyze me as if I’m some sort of caricature.

[@puk1667]

@@danielwatson5595 nah, you are wrong

[@andydataguy]

Lil bros rap game has come up. The practice is payin off 🙌🏾

[@mrtheluckybucket]

2:07 the noise I make when Gerby Gerb's all over the fucking place

[@catreenel]

i really like this video, realistic advice but still hopeful and encouraging. nice one gerby!

[@tuber420]

Just when I thought he wasn't going to mention the towers, he does it again.

[@nandosthesauce]

w intro, my bruh went crazy

[@JayT20241]

Legionnaire movement flag goes hard

[@Daniel_Abraham1099]

Bro got the Iron gaurd 😭 RIP Codreanu

[@titanomachy2217]

He was a great man.

[@paegr]

"I'm an oldhead. I was flippin shitposts for Codreanu with an enigma machine" -unreleased Dracula Flow bar

[@Death_4444]

Riveria was better.

[@brennan_exe]

Unity of Iron...

[@epicgangnamstyle8783]

Prison Notes was heavy as fuck

[@ChirripoCory]

Such a fan of the way your mind works young bro. Keep it up!

[@oldmanontheroad1829]

doing my math homework rn

[@oldmanontheroad1829]

@@jundiy913 calculus and vectors are crazy but Gerbie knows best

[@dusanstojsin4938]

It's over for mathhomeworkcels

[@hombre-lobo5673]

The thing with guys like this is that they're lying, i bet he was going to a gym for like a few months, he couldn't get a prime Arnold physique and quit. Guys who claim that they're doing "200% max effort" are lazy douches irl, because people who really do work hard to reach their goals are keeping their mouths shut.

[@gwills9337]

Yes. Boys crying genetics is like fat people blaming thyroid issues. You body is a physical machine, it can’t help but get strong. Kiddo was weak emotionally too

[@nothingtoospecial777]

That's just cope, and a really fallacious one. Whenever a guy doesn't go to the gym, people like you will pressure him to go to the gym. And when he does go to the gym but still doesn't have a good body, you will say that he hasn't tried hard enough. When will you admit that some people simply can't win?

[@brianbuckman6908]

that’s not true

[@yvesalya3914]

Exactly, many of the people I know are like this, they have a hidden hatred hidden behind a lazy laugh, they cannot give up bread, they cannot blah blah blah, they do not even try to see their fullest potential, they have no imagination or patience to work on their body. ... One of them no longer spoke to me, just because I told him that building takes time, and what is most important is to create an identity and not instantaneous results.

[@hombre-lobo5673]

@@nothingtoospecial777 This comes from my own experience, many guys have asked me for an advice on how to learn pull-ups, i helped them with everything I know, however they quit after a short period of time and when i wondered why they've decided to stop their fitness journey so fast they became very hostile towards me for no reason. I couldn't care less if a random guy wants to make some gains or not, they approached me for advice, I didn't approach them saying "Hey! You should workout bro!"

[@hendrx]

Gerbert is definitely a chad too but he doesn't even know or a chad lite at least

[@Spengler14]

That’s part of the blackpill though. I’m even taller than him and I’m a virgin, that’s how bad things are. I just want to start a family but you look out in the world not even a tall billionaire can find a nice girl to settle down with

[@President488]

​@@Spengler14of course a billionaire can find a nice girl

[@water4112]

@@Spengler14so who are the women with then?

[@robaatonoriaki]

@@water4112 me

[@cu11en76]

@@Spengler14Your username should tell a different story, there’s no way all the nice Christian gyals in your area are all gone already

[@stanleyf9923]

I'm a psychology student. What I ve learned recently that we are more likely to help our friend in a fields we don't care about. We compare ourselves to them and it is more likely for people to compare us with them, so we want to look better in the fields we care about then our friend. We are more likely to help a stranger in that field, and more likely to help a friend in a field we don't care about.

[@maalikserebryakov]

Actually, i’ve found lots of dopamine from the simple fantasy of coaching my low IQ friend into a mathematical genius like me. It never happened. He was too dull and uninterested. But j think the real happiness I got from it Was the feeling of Power. The feeling of him knowing I can transform somebody’s academjc life. and the knowledge word will spread about what a genius I am.

[@beanmotif1640]

I cited u in my sociology final btw

[@spider-jonah-man7148]

What you cite him for I’m curious?

[@Visstnok]

@@spider-jonah-man7148 Building 7.

[@phantomghoul2846]

lmfao I also cited him too, on his video about male loneliness. it was really helpful

[@EdmundoAyarzagoitia]

Made a speech for a college class based on his “chronically online” video.

[@Aurora-bv1ys]

WE FAILING OUR EXAMS WITH THIS ONE

[@des-Troy-ed]

For a second there I was worried 911 wasn't going to feature in the opening...

[@HonorViego]

I used to workout with my “ friend “ but he started becoming inconsistent and eventually stopped going entirely. I continued the grind and I got bigger and stronger than him, and substantially. One day I came into work and he said “ wow wearing X shirt to look at big as possible. “ I could SENSE the envy coming off of him… delicious 😋

[@xanderabbey8529]

Fucking delicious lol. Revel in their jealousy.

[@Visstnok]

It's nice in one way, yeah. But it sucks to have an adversary like that, it really does.

[@catalin5218]

2 bangers from this video: ´´everyone trying to ascend thru the same avenues´´ ´´take a step back and find ur angle´´ mf did summarize it all in a couple it words

[@christosssss]

soulful bars today gerby

[@DecayingEkzykesFan]

Every friend group need the cobbler, seamster, and or tailor

[@Jon-p6y]

Why did building 7 fall really hit

[@spinxtercell]

Please do the live streams or podcasts, I miss those were you had the soundboard. I would listen to those while driving and it made me laugh my ass off, or re-upload the old ones 🙏

[@CombatBanana]

Don't revolve your entire life around getting poon. It's not the purpose of life unless you decide it is.

[@M_CFV]

Then you dont understand what it's like to be alone for years upon years on end.

[@CombatBanana]

@@M_CFV Idk man I'm 22 so pretty young but I've never even had a real girlfriend and I'm pretty happy. Maybe if I knew what it was like I would miss it but idk. Obv the rest of your life needs to be decent either way if you want to be happy. I think a single guy with good mental health will be happier than a mentally unhealthy guy with a gf.

[@iiCounted-op5jx]

cope

[@verigumetin4291]

@@CombatBanana most of the people complaining they can't get pussy, don't have a reason to live for. And they think getting pussy will fix that. It won't. If you watch closely, most of the guys are bitchy cuz the shallow girls would never pay attention to them, but that's so stupid. Why would you want to be in the company of a woman that doesn't cherish your presence and is with you for superficial reasons like money or looks. Money and looks are fine, but if that's your goal in life, your in for a rude awakening once you get them. They don't fix your lack of meaning. And that's what most of the young guys watching videos such as this one don't know. As soon as I began to relax and started smiling, women started smiling back. But it has to be a genuine smile, otherwise it's meaningless as humans can sniff that out really fast. And you can only get a genuine smile, if your at peace with life itself. Something that a human who fixates on money and looks could never achieve. Peace.

[@CombatBanana]

@@iiCounted-op5jx ah yes, you got me, the famous comeback that destroys all arguments and is infallible. You have enlightened me and I will now commit sudoku.

[@Jeff-nf5uc]

the thing is a lot of people need to get hit with a reality check and accept that you cannot and will never be able to achieve some things but its really sad when you have swallow that pill because you dont see a meaning in life after being told the only thing you wanted to be is unreachable for you just because of things you cannot control really robs you of purpose

[@dopamineoverdose1806]

guys I don't think we can call him a twink anymore he's huge

[@Powerlifting45619]

One thing that the writer isn't understanding is that hanging out with a Chad still increases your perceived social value. Not to mention, he can teach you things. He can give you training advice, or introduce you to girls, or you can copy his style and learn to dress better. It's not winner take all, it's WINNERS take all. You can still be a winner, even if you're not the supremely blessed Chad of Chads. This guy is bitter, and his mentality is why he's in the situation he's in.

[@intimpulliber7376]

Didnt even see the video but Ive seen this kind of confession time and time again and everybody just goes off on the jealous guy. Thats bullshit. This kind of situation hurts a lot more than being mogged by a random. This was your friend, which you thought was in the same boat as you. You were a team, trying to deal with pain together. But now life has revealed him as your superior. He's now riding a cruise, unmoved by the powerful waves that smash against your boat relentlessly, not knowing how long you can hold on before you flip over and sink. At that point, a friendship can be no more. Of course he would become bitter. And in most stories Ive heard and read, the chad starts a fight with his friend if that friend even mutters about the cruel injustice. Start calling him jelous and not a real friend, not long before he insults him in degradefull ways, simply confirming the jealous friend's feelings. If you do not feel an ounce of empathy for your friend after he remained in the dust before you, coughing and struggling to breathe, even if he was unfair towards you, as you did not want him to be as he is, then YOU werent a real friend. Period.

[@lelele1408]

only 16 likes but the best and most important comment under this video

[@waldosoma7512]

Nah buddy wdym of course he would become bitter, people should stop their own loser ass behavior

[@intimpulliber7376]

@@waldosoma7512 as always, ask everything from the loser, but not one ounce of sympathy from the winner. Fuck off.

[@putent9623]

Nah its valid to hate on him. I didn't even realize but I was in and still am in the same position. New kid joined my class, we were like 11-12. We were both losers. He quickly rose up the social ladder that year tho. I wasn't jealous. Okay then years later he rose up so much he was friends with everyone, even seniors were messing with him. Was I jealous? Nah. Now this is where bro became a Chad. He went into the more "bad boy" archetype that basically pulls women university. Starred hanging out with the more morally ambiguous guys and what not. They weren't bad people tho. They were chill and charismatic and didn't do any necessarily wrong thing. But then we started to have more falling outs and we just didn't talk anymore. Then he went on a training arc. Bro lost all his weight, then built muscle through calisthenics, that on top of his charisma made him the most wanted guy in our school. Again take note at one point I was his closest friend. We hanged out and talked everyday like crazy. Did I feel jealous? Nah, obviously I wanted to be more like him, more successful but I was jealous like this guy. I was upset we no longer talked but I was still happy that he was doing well. I knew I could achieve the same thing if I tried. Went on my own weight loss journey etc. Didn't do as well as him, I wasn't as consistent so if I got to around 17% body fat I gained weight again even though it was mostly muscle. Also was still antisocial but I did do better and I was content and happy with that. Made more friends etc. So I'm good, there is no point in being jealous of him. Its not like him being successful made me unsuccessful. So yeah bro deserves the hate.

[@putent9623]

​@waldosoma7512 ong. I was in the same situation but for much longer and worse. Like I was bottom of the food chain whilst my friend literally became the top in my whole school uncontested. It's crazy. I had to go on my training arc although I didn't go to the same extent so I wasn't as successful but I introspected a lot and got better. Talk to girls and make new friends easy. Like it all just came easy after I introspected post graduation (17 rn).

[@breddf347]

The genetic differences in weight training only showcases slight differences in genotype, meaning that no one is particularly excluded from developing an athletic frame, rather that some training favors some genotypes more than others. If you showed a picture of Israel Adesanya’s brother or Georges St-Pierre’s brother to a typical blackpiller, they would say, “It’s so over ☝️🤓” without knowing their siblings’ background. Perhaps that success is a combination of both but I’ve yet to seen a rebuttal to why two people with similar genetic material don’t achieve nearly the same success.

[@vic6730]

Israel Adesanya is just black tall and a good fighter from an aesthetic perspective he is not all that

[@Vox_Popul1]

Yeah I was thinking the same. To me it just sounded like the particular workout plan or philosophy they were following worked better for his friend than him.

[@jeramydavin4061]

so glad the BIPOC community has a talking head so profound in his wisdom

[@Kagawwy]

*her

[@KicksPregnantWomen]

xer

[@Urbanizegaming]

brainrot

[@RedLygr]

Gerbo spittin flames on this one! bars

[@kingthoug]

You look so much better than you did a year ago bro you’re genuinely like the new zyzz you’re making me wanting to fight to be conscious again hell yea bro

[@jabread8907]

i love watching these in between lifting weights, keep 'em coming Man

[@Shahzad-Khan]

Comparison is the thief of joy. Hating your friend on the inside for their looks and accomplishments is something women do. Be masculine and understand the source of where that hatred originated from and dispel that illusion. We will all make it brothers 💪

[@Santiago-ke7yj]

I live for gerby’s freestyles

[@SekiroSlayer]

Words of wisdom from gerbie

[@nfnnss]

one of the best ways to improve is to be surrounded by people who are better than you at what you want yo be good at. this guys in a position people purposefully put themselves in. use it.

[@maalikserebryakov]

That’s not true. You will always be inadequate and get mogged. That’s not a good thing for your brain. You might think you’re some pragmatist hero but you’re a fool. Also in the case of being chad, you can’t learn that. Its all about ur face. Afe u gonna “learn” how to grow a better skull? Lo

[@sawsaw7]

This story is nearly achetypical. All it's missing is if his childhood love hooked up with his chad friend. Brutal.

[@YMeDoyElLujazo]

The "brutal" is getting old

[@sawsaw7]

@@YMeDoyElLujazo Its been old for ages lol. Still true though.

[@DavidOshinubi]

Man I love your videos! I think we all need to understand when we actually improve ourselves - we won’t really remember this feeling anymore

[@darthar7306]

Hey Gerb, i dont agree with the idea that a married guy or a generally very successful one doesn't have any influence on other's opportunities. The thing is, people (including single females) see him and therefore have a higher expectations for everything - status, looks, charisma etc. So yeah, one successful dude makes all the paths harder for everyone else.

[@Lootron]

I can't believe I got a tinder ad after this.

[@acenine8149]

I’m kinda in the same boat. I do well for myself and am pretty jacked from 10 years in the gym. But I’m short, and my good buddies are all tall and objectively better looking than I am. Therefore they’ve had much better luck with the ladies than I have and every now and then I notice thoughts of envy popping up. However, whenever that does happen I remind myself that they are good guys, and have my best interest at heart, so being their wingman isn’t all that bad. Plus there are things that I am better than them at, so it helps maintain a sort of balance.

[@nothingtoospecial777]

"Plus there are things that I am better than them at, so it helps maintain a sort of balance." Feeling envious of their success and your sentence I quote come from the same thing: comparison. The moment you stop comparing yourself with them, you won't feel envy nor feel pride.

[@FootballClips101]

Why does bro have a window if he is in a basement?

[@sroth2021]

'Isn't acting like himself' 'playboy personality'. Gerbie why did you overlook these parts?

[@smallestgoober9399]

Jealousy is a uncrontrollable beast. I lived my whole childhood under my more sucessful sibling's shadow and suffered the consequences all the way. There's few worse feelings like being talentless and it being all your fault because of it.

[@lonewander4430]

I love when papa goob uploads

[@ericxb]

Great video gerb, really well communicated. the narrowing of what is valuable/beautiful through media is regressive for sure. gotta be able to step outside of it.

[@Bitcoinmaxxi]

Basement freestyle !

[@oporrecordings4816]

A solid silver lining with the bitter truth. Great vid gerb

[@desu1337k]

basedment chads rise up

[@onlyforpdfs]

Love these freestyles

[@thedude8526]

I dont know about you, but my more successful friends encourage me to take more risks and become better myself. I've never felt resentment for it. Ive only benefitted from it. I can understand why some people feel that way, though.

[@Captaine_Crunche]

that kid is trying to convince himself the easy way out is the only way.

[@nonamebeer-d7e]

I died when he said “I rent a basement…in the hood”

[@turnerEturnal]

is this a re-upload? that confession is eerily similar to something ive heard before

[@nicolasbolas2247]

Gerbula Flow

[@Dragonsmth]

At 13:00 made me realize how many stoic principles gerby actually does bro that's crazy

[@Halo-uo9qh]

Over for cantstandthefriendbecomechadcels

[@MrKipling420]

I would unironically buy an album of this man freestyling