Get Ready With Me! DATING Q&A: How to be Classy and Elegant when dating! | HairVivi Wig Review

Ladies, you're invited to get ready with me! In this video, I answer some of your questions pertaining to dating and relationships and how you can always stay elegant and classy when in a relationship.
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[@user-ko2tu3ss3o]

At last, a Lady of Elegance, sophistication and class. No foul mouth, no lashings of makeup plastered on, this is a lady of dignity and class. THIS is what a gentleman of quality wants.

[@aprilgrant1957]

I will NEVER understand how one thinks eyelashes that can also function as garage doors, looks appealing.

[@lastella1994]

Well said unfortunately in today's generation it's difficult to find young women like her she's respectful and elegant.

[@pinky-ud1rt]

Shes amazing

[@angellajarrett-clarke2566]

You better believe this one.

[@tammywhite7819]

​@@lastella1994l

[@aprilgrant1957]

I LOVE museums, the symphony, jazz clubs, dance, lectures and go by myself if there is something I want to do. Why should I miss out? A couple of my girlfriends used to be shocked that I went to events by myself. I would laugh and say, "Don't you enjoy your own company?"

[@malagee9899]

You should enjoy your own company!

[@janiceburgess4679]

Me too! People are always shocked.

[@isay207]

I do too dining plays cultural events often meet other interesting people

[@Rozallthingsfeminine]

Your skin is absolutely beautiful. I don't think that a woman should make the first move. I truly believe that men pursue what they want; however, I do know how to drop the handkerchief ☺️ Enjoy your date my queen smooches💋

[@investirenafriquedepuisloccide]

Well said

[@richauntie316]

Agreed 👍🏾

[@researchchat3840]

💯💯💯

[@aprilgrant1957]

Love that! To quote the poet Ludacris, 'we want a lady in the streets....' 😁

[@nw3556JA]

What does dropping the kerchief look like in 2022? I feel like in yesteryear all women had to was the hankie technique or work their handheld fans coquettishly.

[@garlicpaperstationery6224]

I am from Scandinavia and I can confirm that 50/50 culture is king here. But frankly, I think this is a raw deal for women. This benefits men first of all. And hookup culture is prevalent here as well, and I just wonder if the two are connected. I think a lot of women here believe that you lose your power as soon as you let the man pay. I think this is false. If a man invites you to dinner, he should pay, since he asked for your company and he is extremely lucky if you accept. I hope we can end the 50/50 culture everywhere. I don't think it makes for good, honorable men nor happy, empowered women. Thank you for your videos, they're always insightful and lovely!

[@Ingrid0410]

I’ve noticed That about Scandinavia too, it’s not always a good thing. What’s the divorce rate there?

[@garlicpaperstationery6224]

@@Ingrid0410 I quickly looked up an article that cites stats from 2017 (Statistics Norway) where it says that right under 40% of all marriages end in divorce. I assume these numbers are similar to the other Scandi countries. The article also noted that this was the lowest number since 1989. It didn't say *how* much lower it was compared to 89 numbers, so it reads a bit like "don't be alarmed". I still think 40% is too high a percentage and I'm willing to bet it would be lower with women collectively raising our standards. By saying "too high" I mean, I feel sad for all the women who weren't happy in their marriages because my god can a divorce leave a woman much, much poorer. Still, it's a relief that divorce is an option, obviously. Do you know the stats for your country?

[@AkireMaru]

@@garlicpaperstationery6224 There seems to be a positive correlation between divorce rates and gender equity...in countries where men and women are not on equal footing, divorce is really low. Either that or divorce may be more prevalent in cultures where happiness of the individual is stressed over happiness of the family unit. If you must be married to the one you "love" and men and women are constantly mixing in society with each other, it would probably lead to illicit affairs and people jockeying for new mates. It effects the longevity of marriages. With all these horrible divorce rate statistics in Western countries, now it makes sense to me why men and women are kept separate in places like Saudi Arabia.

[@wiseonwords]

@Garlic Paper Stationery - Well, 50/50 is what the feminists demanded! It's a clear case of women be careful what you wish for!

[@SubRosa33]

Where did Scandinavian people get this 50/50 idea from? Pls back to purity culture!

[@halcyondays8945]

Your makeup is perfect but it’s your teeth I can’t stop staring at! You are the picture of feminine elegance. I bet your mom is so so proud of you. ❤️

[@tennilledebysingh5819]

I say keep it light on the first date. Don't expect a ring, don't divulge too much of yourself, be honest, honor your principles, values, and standards and remember your worth. YOU are the prize & if it doesn't pan out with him,it's ok, the right one will show up.

[@godizself1]

I would add that some women are not the prize and makes it difficult for those of us who are. But if she's listening to this content, she's likely a prize :)

[@tennilledebysingh5819]

@@godizself1 I could agree on some level, there are some women who are not ready for a high level man, because they're not high level themselves. I'm mainly talking about self-worth as a woman and the masculine-feminine dynamic of the male chasing the female. It is instinctual for a man to chase after us, not the other way around, nor for us to be desperate for the man. I personally believe this is what has caused imbalance in the masculine feminine dynamic, that women have somehow lost their sense of self-worth, become desperate, and don't see themselves as the prize so we've lowered the bar for the men.

[@drk7919]

I really love this woman. I could be browsing through YT videos and happen to see her video on passing, she always stops me in my tracks and have to finish her videos. You are the classiest and most elegant KZbinr of our century. We appreciate you.

[@WomanOfElegance]

You are so kind. Thank you so much 💜💗☺

[@catherine3340]

Never ever ever chase a man! I hope wish and pray that everyone listening can finally get it for good! Thank you soo much for your beautiful video today! You look absolutely gorgeous❤️

[@maggie3315]

I am 60 years old and am enjoying your channel please keep the videos coming. You are helping me tremendously sometimes we forget how to behave. Thank you.💞💓💗

[@OLDSCHOOLnola]

Agreed. This channel gives us much hope for the upcoming generation. We all should form a group of youngster online and elsewhere in which to share this information. Most women, especially young women should subscribe.

[@talkwithbliss8637]

Wow this is very educative ,thank you for being my big sister 😉🥰❤️. I’ve been single for almost 3 years now ,your videos have helped me build my standard as a lady and I’m determined not to settle for less ❤️

[@OLDSCHOOLnola]

Speak young lady. Hold on and continue to follow this young lady and you will have success.

[@jillgreene9225]

I Elegantly refrain from saying "HATE" ...more fitting are the words- dislike, strongly dislike, Uncomfortable with, Refrain from or just don't care for....this that or the other😉 Love you Vivenne❣

[@jacquelinesmith-gaston2071]

Love your videos. They've been quite helpful...even for me, one that's been married for almost 22 years this June. Thank you!

[@misswogdaily2344]

congratulations 🎉

[@Ingrid0410]

Indeed! Better late than never learning new things!!

[@gracecharise4488]

You look beautiful with and without makeup Viviene. From experience and what has happened to many women, I think it's important for a woman of elegance to have her own money and not totally depend on a man as the sole provider. If God forbid he passes on or the marriage ends, women and children suffer the most.

[@lizzyo9029]

Love love love you Vivienne. I watch all your videos on repeat all the time. It’s like having a sister that gives us so many great so personal and social pointers in order for us to be the best women that we can be. Thank you for being you and sharing with us in such a real and classy manner.

[@18QueenHearts]

I love how much you lit up when you mentioned that your mother was a homemaker. Perhaps you can do a video that reassures women that being a homemaker is also a job and a very rewarding one at that; in fact it never really ends. I've not been able to find a job and despite how the world behaves, there are many people who are jobless although they have their Bachelors, Masters and in some cases Doctorate. I don't think it should make a woman less viable or desirable if she does not have a solid job but continues to build on different skills yet the world really makes it seem that way which affects our psychology. It's not always easy to get jobs especially depending on the areas/countries you live in. I have been developing myself more and more as a homemaker which I really do enjoy and I do value family life. I also know many many women who are now choosing to be stay-at-home wives and mothers, not for glamour but simply because it is what they feel more drawn to. I'd really love to see more videos on YT that helps to remove the stigma and sometimes shame of being a homemaker.

[@alexisfuller731]

Women know being a homemaker is a job, but it’s not a job every woman wants and that’s ok. Do what works for you.

[@Vv-fl2rm]

There’s no stigma or shame on being a homemaker. It’s a personal choice between you and your spouse and if it works for you, do it. Also the vilification of career women ( who choose and prefer it) is also just as exhausting.

[@18QueenHearts]

@@Vv-fl2rm Hi, thanks for your response. I think we can agree to disagree. There are many nuances to this topic evidently. Where I am from, there is a very negative association with being a homemaker and or simply not being able to find a job. Where I am from, it is largely much more respected to be career-oriented which is quite fine. I too have been very career-driven in my twenties and early 30's and now at 34, the hassle of it is a bit much (extremely negative and toxic work environments, maintaining a home etc). I love both ends of the spectrum; I admire women who are extremely career-oriented with passion and purpose and not just doing it to prove a point. I also really do appreciate and admire women who are homemakers etc as I have observed many close to me and how truly exhausting it is for women. I admit that where I am from, I have not observed many women being vilified for having a career, truly, at least not initially. Our girls are groomed from very young to take on the roles of the provider without even realizing it so we must have a great education, and an even better job making loads of money which is quite fine hahahaha. If anything, what I have witnessed are men who have abandoned their posts as providers and actively seek out women who are career-oriented, making loads of money to be equal or provide for them YET she still has to perform ALL duties which are typically ascribed to women. So essentially she's doing two jobs with no help from him then he has the gumption to complain that she's "always working" lol. It's never equal. As I said earlier, it is truly nuanced but I will also say, if it is your passion and aligned to your purpose then let that continue to be the driving force. Cheers

[@jacquilawrie1598]

@18QueenHearts I agree. Most of my friends are homemakers but I find others think I must be lazy because my husband is the main breadwinner. But I juggle a lot and am very busy - we have two young children, I homeschool my daughter, I have a private music studio, run a blog and am a homemaker. I find it quite offensive when people think I can relax all day just because my husband has a good enough job for me not to work full time.

[@18QueenHearts]

@@jacquilawrie1598 Exactly!!! This is exactly what I meant!! We've been so conditioned to think and believe that it's not what it is and that we ought to be stressed out working in toxic environments to prove some point of worth. I'm sure there are days it gets really stressful for you but at the end of it, it definitely feels worth it because you are pouring back into your own family which I absolutely love and admire. To hear others make statements like there is no stigma towards it is just really careless. I've seen it. I've heard other women demean women who, just like you, husbands earn a pretty good salary for her to be at home and take care of the nurturing side of things. Cheers to you my darling!! I salute you in many many ways from the bottom of my heart.

[@adaobi_elegantfashion]

Hey vivienne, I love how that you are glowing, and the lessons are driven home 🌹

[@LaVictoria_]

I love your videos! I was always looking for elegance videos but made by a black woman, and I’m glad I found you. 💗

[@mavoolumma]

You look just fabulous Viv, love when you said "I'm beautiful " 🥰

[@jessicaboisabi7905]

Caterpillar lashes 😂😂my Goodness!😂perfect description 😂😂

[@irene4770]

😁🤣🤣🤣

[@Lz-hb2ci]

You have such beautiful skin

[@user-hn5yl7yl8m]

Hairvivi is everything😍 I have bought their wig since last year and the quality is the best! 😘ALL OF THE ELEGANT WOMEN MUST NEED THIS!

[@MariahLovemore]

Do you like Wow African wigs too (new hairline lace front)

[@Ann-ub4mf]

Hello, would you consider doing a video on wearing perfume and lipstick please. 🙂

[@zona_davani]

You have such a gorgeous smile. The thumbnail made me open this even though I’m not looking for dating advice lol ❤️

[@Ingrid0410]

Thank you for your wonderful channel👍yr truly an elegant woman, I wish I knew all yr teaching 40 years ago prior to marriage 😅you young gals need to truly listen to this great advice. No it’s not different today where it takes two incomes, just marry a high caliber man or stay single ladies

[@Doudadoue]

You look lovely. You should do more of this. 😊

[@nickaird5216]

vivienne, you dont need make up. you are one natural stunning queen xx

[@MrsAmy24.7]

You look so young and your skin is beautiful.

[@juvialockser7390]

You look gorgeous! The hair is so natural looking! Of course, well I don't use wigs but I also always take care of my hair which is thick enough and wavy, and I 've alway had it long, layered haircuts, chocolate brown with some discreet highlight honey or' latte.

[@AdaUnleashed]

Always keep it natural!!! Excellent tip!💡

[@jessicaboisabi7905]

Absolutely love that beautiful wig on you! Nice pick.

[@TheLovliestTear]

I must say you have BEAUTIFUL TEETH & SKIN! So clean, clear and pristine. ✨

[@Nectarine333]

You look so lovely with and without makeup

[@jessicaboisabi7905]

Yay! The most awaited video 🥰

[@msniki7103]

You're so amazing!! I enjoy learning more from your videos have began sharing then worth my young adult daughters and my niece. 🙏🏽♥️

[@valeriap2905]

You look gorgeous and elegant as usual! Well done! I’m always learning something new with you every day. Hope your date was elegantly successful! Keep it simple and classy. I loved 🥰 it.

[@Fan-qu8qy]

Wonderful video Miss Vivian. Love your tutorials.

[@OlajumokeOlaiya]

Oh my goodness I love the final look you achieved, the video is quite helpful

[@swizzledizzler9417]

I'm so excited for you! You deserve to be treated like an absolute princess!

[@richauntie316]

*queen

[@pamelamunyama7884]

True

[@swizzledizzler9417]

@@richauntie316 I say princess because I dislike implying strong queen tropes ❤ she is soft, feminine, and deserves protection and provision and to get spoiled like there's no tomorrow!

[@michellesinnette3762]

Thanks for the make-up tips, I wanted to see someone take a softer approach to this art. Dropping hints that you are attracted is ok as you said because others may be eyeing him too and once done tastefully it won't lead to embarrassment. Once done in a subtle manner.

[@tsitsiruthsedze5424]

I enjoy watching your videos Vivian keeping them coming and l love you!

[@bethzaidasanabria8280]

I like that you are very comfortable on your own skin. You are a great role model to us.

[@angellajarrett-clarke2566]

She sure does.

[@juliannaokike3359]

If you can't grow your own hair long you can buy it long. Either way it's still your hair that is what my friend mom told us to say.

[@chany9313]

Thank you for educating women💝 I do think most men would appreciate the natural hair, which is more real and beautiful, like you said, men like it when its natural. Natural will build trust and prove your confidence 💖💖💖

[@isay207]

Exactly why do we need fake hair nails eyelashes

[@ginab3452]

I just found your channel and loving every minute. And learning so much. Stay Blessed

[@nataliewalters2759]

I’d definitely use a safe glue because we can see the wigs edges on the inside .

[@ohsostylish60]

Excellent advice as always, Vivienne

[@juvialockser7390]

I very much like your makeup style. I also prefer a rather natural, almost nude looking makeup, unless it is for very special occasions, but still I keep it quite natural, maybe a bit more sophisticated. I 'm lucky to have fair, even skin, and no wrinkles yet, also because I take care of my skin, with layering japanese routine. For make up, now I' m 40,i actually wear even less than what I used to put in my 20s. Over my daily serum, I put just a light bb cream, and concealer under my eyes and over the eyelids, because of darker pigmentation, i seem to have dark circles even if I havee my fair share of 8h if sleep! I then add like you natural eyeshadow and a brown pencil on my lower lid, framing my rather big eyes, so no need to over emphasise them. I add a good layer of mascara and brush it for any overload off. I fix my eyebrows with a specific brow mascara. Over my face, I do no contouring but I like a bit of peechy or rosy blush in stick, sometime use one of my lipsticks to achieve this, very lightly. And I fix it all over with a light touch of pressed powder. In Summer, I use a light touch of matte brozer, not too dark, instead. On my lips, just a touch of sheer nude lipstick, or gloss, on the nude palette, exceptionally it might be an old pink or darker berry red, only in Winter. On a date, my makeup might be a little more sophisticated than my usual routine but nothing too gaudy, always as natual as possible and also depending of the occasion, time, location of the date, etc. I keep my outfit feminine and classy, with a nice dress, never too revealing nor short, I prefer to suggest and leave to the imagination , given that I 'm curvy, italian type of woman. I wanted to thank you Vivian for the good, sensible advices you give us. It' s always good to make those questions clear, even if we all have specific situations, we often face the same questions. Brilliant as always, please do go on with your fantastic work! Kindly, Diane

[@emerald2046]

That wig is absolutely gorgeous! 🥰

[@kliving1210]

I loved this video. The advice was spot on and the makeup tutorial was awesome!

[@AdaUnleashed]

Hairvivi, I would think it’s your hair brand given your name’s Vivienne. I love it when hairs come in a silk pouch, it screams LUXURY. The hair suits you so well. It’s sooo beautiful!!! Love it. You look absolutely elegant!🤗❤️

[@lorrainearthur6585]

Beautiful wig. Thank you for your expertise!!!

[@thobekamantshongo4458]

So pretty the wig thanks for that foundation plug

[@ashirwadbayne2356]

You're so beautiful and your advises are sound; I appreciate.

[@elohoroghorodi196]

Thanks for the insight from this video and your hair is so lovely..I just love love it 😍

[@ishabrown]

Your hair and make up looks amazing

[@lee-anneholmes4655]

Thank you for your valuable insights.

[@elizabethdalgliesh6085]

Simple and subtle ✨🌹

[@anne-vasthilouissaint1727]

Hello Miss Vivienne! Thanks a lot for your tips of elegance! You are really a classy woman! Keep it up!

[@IcyLike]

One of your videos should be about perfumes!

[@Lolymais]

love these videos!

[@jassmin1233]

You are totally gorgeous and the hair is just beautiful! You are definitely a woman of elegance and more! 🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@lamandadavis9135]

Congratulations!! Have a good time, much success for you!!

[@modupeomonhinmin4404]

@vivienne you are fantastic. Am a new follower of women of elegance. This is another hit 👏🏽👏🏽

[@florencemuya2803]

I'm glad I came across this platform.

[@sakuraesther6309]

Yes hunny , I am trynna be like youuuh

[@carlynnerau]

So so gorgeous! 👌💕 Flawless skin and looking amazing in this beautiful wig. Hope you had an elegantly fun date! 💖

[@emerald2046]

I totally enjoyed this video. And yes! You are beautiful 🥰💞

[@fran-asmr]

Absolutely loved the video! Next time , can you show us the out fit too? You are such an inspiration for me! Sorry for my English, it's not my first language.

[@jillandredove6808]

You did pretty well

[@fran-asmr]

​@@jillandredove6808 Thank you for your comment, it is very encouraging!

[@jillandredove6808]

@@fran-asmr no problem at all- I love when people strive to be the better version of themselves and you’re already better.

[@megjeanoforiwaa3408]

Thanks for the video sis.classy and very educative😍😍

[@aprilgrant1957]

Oooo, I love 😃 that question: if money were no object? Can really give insight into character and code.

[@beautifulheart7]

You are refreshing ✨️

[@reelmermaid8844]

Thank you so much for this, excellent tips and food for thought. BTW, you look particularly lovely Vivian. I hope you had a lovely time on your date. Cheers from Canada!

[@jessicaaye3738]

I soooooooo needed this 🌹

[@ameryek.9607]

You know there's a mascara base or prep? It is in a mascara applicator, goes on white, & really extends the coverage of any mascara. Lancome makes a great one - Cilsbooster XL Enhancing Lash & Mascara Primer.

[@lucianewell6084]

Your hair looks amazing

[@favourokechukwu5680]

I love youuuuuu! 🥰

[@Wiiniihvlog]

I enjoyed watching this video !

[@AllThingsSoul]

Women can make eye contact with a man and smile at him when she catches him staring, but a woman should NEVER make the first move on a man. Women need to learn how to flirt with a man when he does approach, giving him a clear signal that you want him to ask you out on a date. Also, I learned that a Woman of Elegance does not say, "I hate this, or I hate that." Instead say, "It's not my favorite." Saying you hate something just sounds aggressive instead of using a phrase that portrays more feminine energy. And by the way, how did the date go?

[@mariannebaldetti2276]

Wow, you look amazing. Great tips. You are an amazing woman.

[@ceciliahallie9315]

Thank You!

[@lifeofenergy1282]

Wonderful video!

[@dawnlewis6044]

Thank you for sharing. I have started to watch your videos and 26:02 get some good tips. I consider myself classy but there is still a little room for improvement.

[@nyashadziwa3227]

Thanks for the video

[@user-pb6fy5ls9h]

Love your videos thank you!

[@claudettezimmerman5900]

I like all the videos , It help me a lot inspired me for something new. I have not so much time to watch always .I fill good when I see the video ' s, I remember when I was young thank you and God bless you Lady❤

[@Necky.N]

I also dislike using Glue on my wigs.Vivi, the wig looks nice on you.

[@tormapea1987]

I love your channel and how your presentation You are very classy and elegant

[@RoseRose-ol4zl]

You are gorgeous try the small cream concealer from Dior in color 6w or 7W it will melt perfectly into your skin tone naturally while still brightening.

[@pinky-ud1rt]

Omg i love the natrual look vivian im gonna do that ❤ you look stunning your parents must be soo proud of you what is the make of the wig please?

[@sherbert1973]

Can you make a video about etiquette at the beauty salon? Thanks

[@esthermutua1287]

Woow nice tips 💕💕💕💓❤️❤️❤️💥💥💥

[@adelinafarias1468]

its so true what you say .

[@crackerjacks6789]

I’m curious which makeup pallet are you using?😊

[@pacquinappiah8736]

Very nice all around !

[@marywilliams3520]

I hope you have a great date!

[@joujoubelle3009]

Hey, beautiful. What’s websites so you use to buy your feminine jewelry? Could you please share and thank you In advance.

[@ajokulucy5706]

Good day Vivian I really enjoy all your videos and tips to being elegant as woman. Now my question has deal with a long distance relationship ,how do I mean composure especially when we are just getting into the relationship ,I mean how much emotion and time should I put in

[@marianmagdy123]

Can you please make a video about how an elegant lady can use her time wisely?

[@RoseRose-ol4zl]

Also use your fingers for under eye concealer for a more flawless effect

[@toplobster1040]

I didn't know you were doing a Q&A! :( How can I be notified for the next one?