Getting Along with Others at Home and at Work Part 1 - Cynthia Tobias

[@lesleyclaster6878]

I read and studied The Way They Learn when it was first published when I was homeschooling my kinesthetic daughter. I had so much fun, and so did she, just letting her go to move around while I was teaching. We used a literature based curriculum, and she had a huge box of dress-up clothes and fabrics. I could read comfortably in one room while she did costuming to match the historical period of the literature. Just to check, I’d ask her questions about the material, and her answers were spot on. She did best having oral exams standing up! She was never meant for college, per se. But all her life, she took courses to learn whatever she needed. No wonder she was a gymnast and is now a head coach with her own programs. Hands on, always! Cynthia’s book changed my family life, including marriage! We could all relax and appreciate our differences.

[@JaneWaweru]

See, I could listen to her a thousand times. Great speaker, clear, humorous and relational voice. The message is worth a re-listen. And I sure need to tag him along for the listen 😁

[@roxyperson8328]

Oh my word!! I now understand my second born stubborn architect thinker!! Thank you!! I am a audio learner and he is visual/kinesthetic!

[@marjorieegert4085]

I learned I have to see piles or folders on my desk. And I am not messy, merely organized in a different way. Thank you!

[@Third-Day-Fan]

Bahaaa😂🤣👍

[@lesleyclaster6878]

I learned from my husband’s innate sense of and need for order. I worked hard to make his home comings peaceful after my chaotic days as a very fulfilled and creative home maker. I had to WORK at it. I didn’t always succeed 😅, but he appreciated the effort.

[@Kininet]

She delievered great message with humor. Thank you.

[@sheelamartin455]

She's amazing

[@Clynn57]

Loved this message. Hmmm How many kinesthetic learners have been miss labeled ADD/ADHD?

[@raij465]

Statistically speaking, boys tend to be overdiagnosed, and girls tend to be under diagnosed.

[@PattyMoor]

I fall into a category! Woohoo! I always thought I was alone in my chaotic order…. She is Amazing and I will be looking her up for more great words!!

[@sheilagunter4374]

Great ti see things happen for a raisin...🎁🎁🎄🎗🧸^

[@bearwatcher]

ding ding just realized why I get nervous tallking to family, friends etc. I am on the move and don't want to stop!! Eureka!

[@robinjohnson5014]

This women is sm excellent speaker

[@stephaniegallant602]

Thank you! ✨️ you spend a lot of time on field trips! This is the dream for me and my family 👪 ❤️

[@robinjohnson5014]

Absolutely everyone's different People can jump around in their talking .

[@robinjohnson5014]

I appreciate her instruction and advise on how to get along .handle difficult situations

[@Silver-cl2bd]

Absolutely a great message!! I have 3 kids and a husband and we are very different with similarities ☺️

[@nanciklei3606]

What a great message . Looking forward to part 2

[@donnalazza8429]

Wow… interesting,thank you for this information

[@cesarswc13]

oh my god this is so good god bless

[@maryp4145]

She reminds me of Jean Houston, American author, involved in the human potential movement!❤️

[@conniedecarolis3173]

FABULOUS!! I get it. Wow

[@julietruesdell.371]

I'm definitely Jack on watching movies! hilarious..I wish my kids would give four pauses..lol

[@leewashaleski7719]

Me 2

[@julietruesdell.371]

@@leewashaleski7719 I think it's a great way for her to appreciate her husband's way if thinking..because we all see things differently

[@elayned6147]

Great lecture ❤ very thought provoking and helpful 👍

[@robinjohnson5014]

Sometimes because have not many people to relate shut down

[@issapolanco]

So helpful ‼️‼️‼️

[@jennylhenry78]

Awareness that the person is not irritating you on purpose.

[@stephaniegallant602]

Global brain 💗 overall picture 📸 great spurts of inspiration 👏

[@robertmajors6910]

Fascinating

[@Blessed77792]

Is it possible to identify so much with the message that you laugh at yourself 😂

[@JaneWaweru]

I keep laughing at myself whenever I listen to this. It's been several times now

[@judyg2341]

@@JaneWaweru 😅

[@barbararoper2114]

Absolutely. That's a sure sign that the speaker is not only educated, but what she is saying has great value. She not only speaks from experience, but she also can identify and explain all of the different categories, even if she doesn't have those qualities herself. She can describe both sides of the coin, so to speak, but only resides on one face of it. We should all strive to be empathetic, patient, fair, loving and kind, like she is, in our own judgment and behavior, especially towards others, but also to ourselves.

[@robinjohnson5014]

I appreciate this commentary on relationships ... might have to get the book but if Cynthia has anymore videos love see them

[@cherbears4446]

She’s amazing and so funny my I have both personality traits lol😂

[@katherinestobbe5556]

This was awesome to listen to! Totally interesting! Learned a lot!❤

[@user-fs6ou3fk9p]

Oh my goodness you and your husband sound like me and mine. It's so hard. I seem to be a bit of both. Global and analytical. Bless you. My husband plays golf and tennis and works well independently.

[@perlasmedley7652]

Love these :))

[@aftonabraham6503]

Great information.

[@vanessap8354]

Thank you

[@jennylhenry78]

Kinesthetic. Learning by moving. Works in short spurts to keep things moving. If they are required to sit still all they can think about is moving and they're not hearing what you're saying. They need to try it to believe it.

[@enacollings-uh5xt]

Thank you, I'm that visual analytic person .

[@katherineyarnell7360]

This is great

[@cathyphillips9120]

This concept of processing information should be taught to every person, maybe there would be more understanding and less division.

[@christyhowe-ql1bv]

Hollywood prayer network has newsletters too

[@jennylhenry78]

Visual. You start talking and they begin to make a picture in their mind and it may not be anything like what you've described.

[@onThisJourney]

Did she cover the one's at work that "need" to boss you but are not your boss?

[@JacquieDestrampe]

Beth Burns amen

[@robinjohnson5014]

Sounds familiar littl

[@jennylhenry78]

Auditory. Learning best by hearing, but not hearing other people talk, but hearing yourself talk about it. If they can't talk, it will hinder their ability to remember.

[@yvonnemariehorvatr.h.n.nut3315]

awesome

[@robinjohnson5014]

Need patience with ppl that are different then myself

[@mariannaoosthuizen9639]

I understand you perfectly and find you very informative funny and amusing. But I must tell you I know a LOT of people who won't understand you at all. I call them slow people. Slow to respond slow to make decisions. Lol and they don't always appreciate my little jokes.

[@alyssamurphy2002]

Every 2 hour movie 4 pauses given.

[@robinjohnson5014]

What if you never see the person and you.watching tv

[@jennylhenry78]

50% of the population are ANALYTIC thinkers; more detailed thinker; step by step. Files away things. Doesn't prefer working with others; plays independent sports (like golf). The other 50% is a GLOBAL thinker; sees the overall picture; likes to have everything spread out; great spurts of inspiration followed by long plateaus of nothing. This is why there are more than one projects going at once bc when they're uninspired they can move to another project. Doesn't file anything, works better with piles. Out of sight, out of mind. Would rather work on a team.

[@santiagobahena3578]

Can you be in between?

[@robinjohnson5014]

Sounds a little like me. Got to say it now

[@alyssamurphy2002]

Just needs to talk. That might be me...yikes. I do get annoyed when others do it. Whoops.

[@rayg3408]

So I heard her on the radio and everybody was laughing and laughing and laughing and I was trying to figure out is there something wrong with me because I don't hear anything that's funny so I decided to watch the video I guess there's something wrong with me

[@Grace-nt9cc]

I don't think it's funny either. She also doesn't know my family. A sibling irritates me on purpose he calls it love! 😩

[@rayg3408]

@@Grace-nt9cc ahh. Try to ignore him if you can or you might have to not talk to him for a little bit to make a point

[@jennyruizdiaz9553]

It just proves the point that we all have different learning styles. Hope it helps you see the world from different perspectives for God’s glory.

[@christyhowe-ql1bv]

I forget too a lot

[@Grace-nt9cc]

I know that they don't think like me, but condemn me for even thinking at all!💔😖 I want only to die! 💔

[@focusonthefamily]

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[@Grace-nt9cc]

I don't want to talk about it! The only thing that ever happens is bad! 😔

[@reflection6104]

Interesting. But too many generalities about human nature to make an accurate assessment of one's personality in problem solving or learning. We are much more complex as human than a few categories.

[@karendueck2895]

Reflection Really? I learned a lot about myself and my husband. She is bang on.

[@lindamiller3438]

I think I am married to man like jack

[@Grace-nt9cc]

The only one thing I need an want is to cease to live! 💔

[@JessiPerez1234]

I’m sorry you feel that way Grace! May the Lord give you revelation regarding your situation! I pray for you, you have a God given purpose, God bless you!

[@ERISONDANCE]

My hope is that you are doing much better now by way of God love and kindness. His healing of your heart n mind.

[@jennyruizdiaz9553]

Jesus paid it ALL. ALL MEANS ALL. May you allow Him to rescue you and give you a new life in Him.

[@robinjohnson5014]

I think annoy me on purpose

[@davidvanderveer5882]

Can you pass this on to Cynthia? Her site only let's you write 2sentences before throwing you out of it! Anyway, her post on having a strong willed wife... You think you are strong willed? Cynthia, has you husband ever looked at you admiringly w/a big smile? Then got a responds from you, Why are you always laughing at me? Then "blabbed" that to everyone at your family gatherings? The experts would say, Go back to what you were doing early on in your marriage ie. Sitting down to dinner, praying together, holding hands, making goo goo eyes at each other! Sorry, we never did that! When are you going say, If it works for you great! Well, I am not a complainer, so if SHE does not "flip" out on me ( or just twice a year) I can live w/it! It has been 41 years so to quote you...Just saying! But he bad thing is that I am a good talker and can hold my own w/her or that could be a bad thing! My memory can get me in trouble too! Anyway, going to your marriage group in Brandon might help...but we need that more intensive session - - I think it it called, Ultra Vi for some reason! Or just stay the course...at least she has never accused me of having affairs! But what you think is important to me. I could easily see what I have just written in your next book (that would be Dave & Lois) but I am sure you would change our names anyway. All the same, you are good at what you do! I'm sleeping in the garage!

[@focusonthefamily]

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