Getting Friendzoned | Vlog

Taking the day off, eating dinner with hometown friends, Ji Hwan (aka Jicky) and Paul, and getting their take on growing up in NYC and why we friendzone.
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People are entitled to their opinions and someone who has been in a long-term relationship values commitment or working hard in comparison to others who are in short-term relationships. Everything in life is hard work and takes so much persistence or grind. This is how you can determine a person’s work ethic and you look at their presentation to determine other things too. The people who have achieved success work very, very hard and there are no shortcuts in life or any path.

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Your content is so refreshing and relatable!

[@shobitha551]

As a girl who has been friendzoned a lottt, this was very insightful xD

[@Michelliellio]

The queens talk was so interesting. I used to live there from grade 1 to 4 and always have wondered what I would have been like if my family stayed and I was molded by how it is there. I see some ppl I used to know from those areas and nyc in general and they have a different, ‘hard’ kind of vibe even. Whereas I’m very soft and sheltered vibes

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watching your vlogs is so soothing! You always have the wisest thing to say and it's like I'm having a convo with a friend. Btw born and raised in Queens also!

[@pennylovelee]

I was definitely friend zoned two weeks ago after the second date because we were so comfortable with each other.. why is dating like a hard game! 😩

[@TravelTourTaste]

Hey hun hope you are well. Can't beat a relaxed chilled out day. Thanks for sharing your day with us and taking us along with you on this routine. God bless you.

[@JenesStudio]

There are so good points talked about here. I’ve had the same conversations with friends and new people.

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[@ninasiobhan9660]

your vlogs are so calming to watch. this vlog tho was super helpful lmao now i know why i was friendzoned

[@antonetteuy86]

Omg yes guilty that makes so much sense to me in hindsight SMH. I did both I tried to be their shoulder to cry on and be their Bro and I didn't understand why I got friendzoned when I totally got close and understood them on another level. Ahh well live and learn. Thanks for sharing I will pass on to my single friends ✌

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[@ElmoTinker]

Idk if this necessarily applies to all men, but I have had guy friends that told me if they befriend a girl, there is somewhat of an attraction to them. Like, regardless if the guy is single or not (or if the girl is single/dating), they will make an effort to become close to the girl in some way shape or form. So if a guy who was in a relationship is single again, for whatever reason, they have their female friends to kind of fall back on.

[@kittyvu88]

Wow, this makes a lot of sense

[@sethdunn96]

I don't think that would apply to all men. I have plenty of female friends that I like just because of who they are....not because there is some attraction beyond platonic I have for them. Could also just be my age at this point.

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[@michellejy]

your chill talks are so fun to listen to! i love how you can just chill comfortably with 2 guys, i feel like i would be so uncomfy talking about deep stuff with guys LOL

[@MaeIng]

Ok. Freesia, we need a podcast on topics like these that will make me use my head and think... thanks for your insights :)

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Love these random chats you have with your friends! Always so insightful 🤗

[@nonstopsonya1253]

Since my English isn't that good, I learned new expression Friendzone, a shoulder to cry on lol thxx

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[@patrickwang5000]

If a girl shows she is not that into me as much as I'm into her, I treat her as a friend. But its weird because treating girls as a friend makes them more attracted to me which is a red flag :/ The other reasons are if I'm not physically attracted to her or if I feel she adds no value to my life

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love these talks freesia!!

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Girl, you are not alone. I haven't watched GOT either and I kind of lowkey feel like I never will. The only vikings/medieval times/fantasy show I ever liked was Xena: Warrior Princess and after seeing people upset about the season finale isn't really persuading 🤷🏾‍♀️

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I'm not sure! My mom brought them to me :(

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Would love to see a segment of how girlfriends of taken guys feel when they hang out with their single “girl”friends? 😜

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Loved these convos!!!

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How are you so WOKE gosh i feel like theres no knowledge of life’s secrets left to unlock now

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Always learning!

[@jox8996]

spittin fire about girls who get friendzoned by being too chummy with the guys. cause that be me

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I liked this video. It was such a vibe

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[@upthedown1]

No. You either have the chemistry or you don't. If there is no chemistry the only thing left is being a friend. No matter how comfortable you are with each other if you are physically attracted to a person or visa versa it will not interfere with that feeling.

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loveee the chitchat sesh

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Omg love these types of sit down and talk videos! New Subbie

[@annn6433]

Gurl you not the only one that hasn't watched GOT. In school, one of my professors cancelled class & extended hwk so everyone could watch the finale of GOT & I'm like "I don't watch it but thanks for the free day" 😅

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ASIAN GLOW

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They glowing!!! Hahaha loved the video

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[@october_lnn]

So happy to see you!

[@janethompson827]

If a guy treated me like that, he's closer to getting out of the friendzone, but that's just me

[@craigman7262]

She right though. As a male I don't show comfort to a lady unless she been a long time friend. I always keep good distance.has yet to fail

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Fun fact one of the founders of omsom (or however you spell it) went to the same study abroad program as me!

[@1600Awesome]

This made me more curious about being raised in NY lol

[@ElizabethTran]

OMG Freesia I haven't watched Game of Thrones too LOL! I'm thinking about starting it this winter break. What did you think of the first season? I was only able to get through the first 3 - 4 episodes in the past too haha

[@PandaPower511]

I feel like the friend zone def has to do a lot with our original physical attraction to the other person...if its like borderline situation then its important to build those flirty vibes fast...and I couldn't get into GOT either.. you need to watch to like end of season 2 for it to start getting good... then it will feel like one of the best shows ever only to be very disappointing the last season..

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[@hammie55]

I'm curious how the JBros would answer this tho from their perspective!! For the guy on the far left, is his answer more relevant to younger men? I feel like men in a long-term relationship should actually want a woman who is funny and compatible. It's never a negative thing to do nice things for someone. Or, perhaps his answer is relevant at the stage of a first impression (before you get to know someone very well), where the guy wants a girl who seems very sexy and out of his league :P

[@paulhong6419]

FZ? That just means he or she was the wrong one. “When Harry Met Sally. “

[@theti5]

Freesia! Love your video

[@iiNspirex]

@7:50 HJP would like to know more about this 😂😂

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Can you link what sous vide you have? Would you recommend it as one of your top cooking gadgets?

[@sweethi2t]

Queens, NYC native 🙋🏻‍♀️

[@goyareza50]

Wow! Like your video! 👍🏼

[@kristilovestarot6873]

Love game of thrones. What did you think about season 1?

[@RedisNotaFlavor]

Last season of game of thrones hits different 😟

[@freesiapark]

I'm only on season 2 but excited for the journey 😌

[@afloatingmoose]

yes gurl GOT will be a real interesting journey lemme just tell you XD

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queenz get the money. 😂

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I have two KZbin accounts, one for valuable content and another for entertainment. I'm not sure which one I should use to subscribe to your channel...

[@victorlui5955]

Hi Freesia. I'm in the friend zone. Hehe.

[@SherwinLoveB]

I feel like I'm being @'ed as the dude digging himself in the friendship hole. I ain't mad tho.

[@Stubby1031]

Nah, if they think ur hot, u won’t get friendzoned. They might not immediately act upon it, but you’re in their mind, tucked away. Guys think with their u know what. It’s as simple as ur not attractive to them - But u could be after a few drinks. Their definition of “Hot” can be whatever so women shouldn’t get offended if they get friendzoned. A mans downfall is thinking with the wrong head.

[@sethdunn96]

GoT is good for s1-6, 7 and 8 was crap. But watching them all now, back to back will make it easier. But it was a sad and quick decline for the show. :( Enjoy

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Make dr john yoo ur bf🤩

[@amieamie7136]

hard to hear you cause your background music is too loud....

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not y’all exposing me 😔😔😔

[@komengav]

7:57 *Damn* Freesia, why the fuck you so loud for? 🙄 lmao

[@youngman6355]

I don't think anyone should try to leave the friend zone... Just move the fuck on...

[@dansteryoo]

LMAO how do you know paul? haha.

[@Hyesookim0302]

There may be a reason you get friendzoned alot you seem tooo comfortable around guys as if you’re their homie lol

[@primitiveafrican3356]

I did it. First view, like and comment. I deserve a comment and like on my comment from Freesia. Seriously.

[@freesiapark]

LFG 🥳

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go get jbros they are really bad