Girl Chat | Boundaries, 33 & Not Married?! 2025 Goals, Dating a Coworker & Breakups, YouTube Advice

[@allofdestiny]

I’m so excited to be back! 🙌🏾This year is all about growth, self-care, and big life decisions. Let’s continue to chat and support each other in the comments! 💕✨

[@VerleanHurd]

Happy New Year girlie!!!! 🎊🎉🍾♥️

[@keishasiggers252]

Destiny your confidence is so real. What do I mean… you know what you want and do not deviate from it. Kudos!!! So many just cannot stand on business on what they want and will not tolerate unapologetically. That is admirable to live in your self assurance at all times.

[@Dauphne]

Destiny is a woman with much wisdom.

[@Carmen-uy6km]

Happy 2025 ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@guinabells]

🎉🎉🙋🏽‍♀️Destiny I'm here to keep supporting you and the family...and to reach my goals also...just be you , keep good morals...take care....fam...ky

[@AbsoluteMdot]

Nothing wrong with being 33 and not married. My Husband and I got Married in our 30s and took our time with everything. Enjoy your life!!

[@allofdestiny]

Definitely enjoying my life.. Love that for you and your husband.

[@KatieJonesJones]

@@allofdestiny I’m the same age as you girl

[@dacoldest2008]

Destiny!! So December 28th, 2023 I went into contract on my house. I went to KZbin to find other stories/experiences on being a First Time Homebuyer and I came across your videos. I binged watched up until the day I closed on my house in February 7th 2024. Just wanted to say thank you for that, it has been awesome to watch you this past year.

[@allofdestiny]

Wow! I am so happy I could help.its such a good feeling to know my content resonates with real people Congratulations on your new home!

[@AngelaBrookins]

I don't believe she knows just how much she help others and Thur what she does omg and we all know she believes in God that is why I get stuck on her content if she is not the best she is my favorite person ❤❤❤ you so much

[@ladeidrascruggs1486]

I got married in April and I'm 49. God will send your husband on His time. Just prepare yourself and believe God for it. (Just note: I was ok being single too) 🙂

[@bonitaapplebum5450]

I enjoy the fact that you’ve set boundaries and don’t share certain aspects of your life. You have to have certain things that are only for you! However, I appreciate all the things that you do choose to share ❤

[@allofdestiny]

Thank you, Boundaries are everything! 💖 I’m happy I’ve gotten to a space where my no is an easy NO. In a space full of sharing, i love having things to myself

[@FireSign0731]

I had my two kids when I was almost 30. They are now both headed towards 30, no kids and not married. When it’s time it will fall into place. I taught them to make sure that the timing and person is RIGHT - so glad they aren’t rushing and are listening. You got this, Destiny. ❤️

[@nicobeing]

I'm nearing my 40th birthday and I've never been married. Honestly, I don't think I'm missing out on much. If the right person comes along (God willing) then I would change my tune but for now, being true to myself and my faith in God is way more important. You keep being your awesome self and don't worry about people's artificial timing for our lives; only God's timing matters. Love you Destiny! I hope you and your family stay happy and healthy.

[@Dezhia23]

You look so refreshed! I’m glad you enjoyed your break! Thanks for the girl chat! ❤

[@allofdestiny]

Thank you! It was much needed, and I’m so glad you enjoyed the chat! 💖

[@c.harrison755]

Yess marriage is a very serious commitment and too many people take it lightly. I've been happily married for 18 years together for almost 25. Marriage is all about trust, communication and enjoying each other. Be your spouse best friend!❤

[@allofdestiny]

Beautifully said. And congratulations on your marriage longevity

[@c.harrison755]

Thank u! I love your content!

[@Doc_McStuffins]

Clicked just to say that you look so beautiful in the thumbnail. The hair, the makeup, and you serving face sis. Feel like I've seen you grow up on yt!

[@shevenjohnson]

As a mom of 4, hear me! Enjoy your singleness! That is a gift that you can get to know yourself and what you want without having to consider the needs of others at the moment. That’s beautiful and a blessing. I admire that about you! I show my girls your videos all the time. Be “selfish” all you want to my girl! OAN: please don’t name our lil niece or nephew juju whenever it is time 😂😂❤❤

[@Carla-ic5xf]

So pretty. I love the fact you have never changed. Since 2011😊

[@BerryFae]

Absolutely love this. It was definitely like a girl talk and you are absolutely right. Marriage is very serious. I wanted to get married so bad and now that I’m married I’m actually realizing the seriousness and the covenant behind it. Definitely keep praying and asking God to reveal to you what is that he wants for you in your waiting .

[@allofdestiny]

Thank you girl. Marriage is not to be taken lightly. continue learning and embracing all that comes with it girl. 💕Hearing you say this makes me reflect on my fav scripture, Hab 2:3 . Though it linger, wait for it, it will surely come. . I definitely try to find the why in my waiting to make sure I’m doing my part. And will definitely do more of that this year.

[@Denise-ob8dk]

Yes ma'am. Take your time. I've been married four years now and we are still not in a hurry for any kids. Certain things have to be straight first.

[@allofdestiny]

I’d def be that wife taking my time not having kids yet. I gotta have my husband to myself for a while first.

[@AshanteReado]

Loving the hair sis 💕

[@allofdestiny]

Thank you.

[@ariannadoliveira7998]

Everyone's timing are different 🎉🎉 better late than never 😊

[@rhondawilliams451]

I can definitely relate to the idea of being responsible for only me. At almost 59 and my kids being 35 and 31, I still can't say that. Living with my daughter and her ger two children feels like I'm still raising kids 😞

[@Meeka_LaChelle]

You’re starting 2025 off glowing!!🩷

[@allofdestiny]

Thank you.

[@brianaunderwood8971]

As someone who is about to be 28 years old, I agree with you on not rushing things and living according to YOUR timeline! If I'm meant to be a mom and a wife, it will happen. Right now, I like my freedom. 😂

[@allofdestiny]

I know that’s right. Thoroughly enjoying freedom and less responsibility 🙌🏾

[@turnerlkhs]

same 😅

[@ReginaNatural1]

Looking forward to this year accomplishments. Whether big or small. Yes somethings are better left private ❤. After my first public relationship I keep that part of my life off the internet. So I understand where you are coming from.

[@KettasCoils_After50]

2025 is treating me very well…. Approved application for Tennessee notary public, wedding ceremony in August (married 2024), and back in the gym now that I’m able physically 😊

[@allofdestiny]

Love to hear it! I’m happy for you! Congratulations on all the blessings.

[@KettasCoils_After50]

Thank you! ☺️

[@deegee6868]

Welcome back Destiny!!! U look beautiful and I love ur hair!! I love ur outlook on life!! I’m older than u, married with children! It is not easy, take ur time and enjoy the stage ur in!

[@np5853]

When you speak, I promise you speak life into people. You speak to us like we are friends/family. Thank you for always being encouraging. Thank you for being real...not a representative of who the internet wants you to be. Im glad I found your channel. Welcome Back!!!

[@allofdestiny]

Aw, thank you so much! I appreciate you taking the time to leave such a kind comment! 🥰

[@VonJon886]

I'm in my 40s and love to hear a younger woman speak on not rushing life timeliness!! No one is talking enough about enjoying each phase of life you're in, cause once babies, marriage, pets, home ownership comes, you can't go back to being young and carefree!! Stop asking women when they're gonna get/have/do cause no one is asking men these questions, and it's rude af! Respectfully 😊.

[@allofdestiny]

Very well said. I’ve heard a couple of my male friends say they also get asked those questions, but I guess mine is just public for the world to see. And yes single, selfish, living our best lives should be talked about wayyyy more. We are not lacking and we are not sad. .

[@ytl7750]

Preach 👏🏽

[@xoxoneshia9111]

Welcome back!❤️❤️❤️ Camera quality is amazingggggg!

[@allofdestiny]

Thank you 😊

[@khadijahdennis308]

Babyyyyyyy! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 My girl is BYKE & REFRESHED! Love to see it! I really enjoyed this video! The realness of everything that you're saying is exactly what I needed to hear. When I say 2025 is literally feeling like me learning how to WALK again, whew! Nothing is the same, but I absolutely love it. Starting fresh on a number of different things: single after a 9 year relationship, coping with a move I didn't expect, going to NYFW to WORK for the first time ever. There's just so much to unpack. I resonated with so much. Thank you for your vulnerability as always 💕

[@mirandam5401]

We need a tutorial of your hairstyle!! I love it!!😊

[@fabkia1830]

Love ❤️ your hair like this!!

[@allofdestiny]

Thank you, Love the twists too! My sister did it 💕

[@roseoliver7179]

Destiny have a wonderful day today thank you so much I really appreciate your VIDEO keep them coming looking forward to seeing you and learning something new about hair care for natural

[@latisharenee6964]

I feel u , I tell my lil sister all the time take your time with getting kids do it when u ready..This world we live is crazy because when u get kids it not all about u no more u have another person to be responsible for.That why I stop at one and he about to be 20th year old on Jan 23 and he need me the most because he have cel palsy and he my whole world. Yess take your time when it come to kids .

[@ericasmith185]

First 🎉 fav back with the heat 🔥❤️

[@lakeishajackson1940]

Destiny this the video forreal👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@jasontoddred5794]

Awesome you’re video @allofdestiny you did great job I do enjoy girls fun watching your videos I do love it 😊❤

[@heathermann8688]

Girl you killed it. Thank you for tuning back after 2 weeks. You dedicated. Will never stop believing in you and everything you believe in ❤ Thank You😊

[@allofdestiny]

Thank you so much! It felt good to be back .if yal had the behind the scenes of my first sitting down to record and testing the setup and lighting, I was so giddy 💖

[@wnflds]

It’s so good to see you!! The kiddos have been asking about you! 🥰🥰🥰

[@allofdestiny]

🤗

[@minicoopkia]

Honestly, Destiny is so relatable for me because our values align, similar age, and also child free. I been a long-time subscriber and I’ve always enjoyed how I felt like I was watching my homegirl regularly lol

[@bemeadventures]

I felt you on everything you were talking about. 😊 You preaching!! Have a happy new year and prosperous 2025 🎉

[@AllanaDavisStudio]

Me tooo

[@allofdestiny]

Happy New Year!! 🥂 Hope it’s a good one for you.thanks I’m glad you enjoyed it

[@Elexis715]

Loved this vlog ❤️ also you looked so pretty (as usual) in this vlog Destiny. I loved the sweater and the mini twists 😍 I was like “yessss fav” 😂💗🫶🏽

[@allofdestiny]

Aw thank you! I’m glad you liked the video! 💗

[@TMKJG24]

I'm 46.Never been married.Never been pregnant nor want to have children I have raised. Many children have nieces and nephews. That's fine for me. I'm out here to live my life and be responsible for me.

[@feliciachristian17]

Destiny you are so beautiful and glowing. I’ve been a subscriber since the beginning, and I have always loved your videos.

[@Esha-Simone]

Hey girlllll!!! Marriage is a serious thing been together with my husband for 18 years married for 8 and I would tell anybody to take your time and don’t rush nothing lol lol love your videos by the way❤❤❤❤

[@lovinglifeasgabriella3972]

Loved your Q & A❤. Listening while cloding the store.

[@allofdestiny]

Thank you so much! Happy you enjoyed it. And have a great rest of your night

[@lovinglifeasgabriella3972]

​I meant to say listening while closing the store......lol ❤ ​@@allofdestiny

[@marydawkins2673]

Welcome back Destiny 🎉🎉 2025 is treating me well!!❤

[@shaffiniesweney6177]

Happy New Year so excited about all the things God has in store for us this year, love the conversations talk let's get let's go.

[@hillaryr6396]

😄😄 missed ya! I so loved the acknowledging your feelings part

[@allofdestiny]

Girl! I’m glad you felt that. And I’m happy to be back. I’m learning to be better at it. And it feels so good. If I can’t be me around you, I just won’t be around you.✨

[@jaymiecurry1881]

Not gonna lie Destiny. It's super duper ok to have boundaries. Leave your relationships out of it for sure for sure. Quit frankly I've been following you for yeaaarrrrrssss way back in 2013. If you do start posting dating content I'd watch it to support you but it wouldn't be my main interest, solely because I'm in my focusing on myself more and more more and in realizing how liberating it is and your videos really have helped me for years with that. To no put a relationship or anything else over my own self and my own interest. regardless of if im in a realtionship or not not centering a relationship over me

[@Kewanna.C]

Welcome back 🎉🥰

[@allofdestiny]

Thank you💕

[@nikeishaalexis1801]

I sure have missed you 🫢❤️❤️❤️👏👏

[@deb8911]

It’s always good when couch destiny pop out!

[@allofdestiny]

Couch destiny is my favvv. It gives me talk show vibes 🤗

[@Patty-LoveMe]

DESTINYYYYYYYYY GIRL LISTEN I AM IN NO RUSH. WHEN HE COMES HE COMESS 😊😂

[@allofdestiny]

same!!!👏🏽

[@1AngeLkind]

It’s always good to see you♥️… I Love your girl chat videos ❗️

[@deedeesaidso]

Happy New Year, being 33, I get asked a lot of the same questions. Nice to hear your take on certain topics ❤

[@IamCalebEchols]

I’m here destiny!!🎉🎉

[@allofdestiny]

Hello hi 👋🏽

[@lakeshiabell2222]

You did great!!! As always. My number 1 favorite KZbinr since your college days. Wishing you well in the new year. Keep up the good work and continue to being the best version of yourself. Appreciate you!!!😊

[@allofdestiny]

Wow you’ve been here a while. Some of these topics were definitely tough to discuss but it felt so good. Thank you so much! It means a lot to hear that!

[@lakeishiontaylor]

Hey Destiny!!!! Welcome back. Happy New Year.

[@francesjeanlouis9285]

Hello Destiny, my hubby just handed me snacks and I'm so happy one my fav creator just uploaded!❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@Daphneamy360]

Love this chit chatting with us getting your authentic you. Loving the look 💯😊😅

[@missv7689]

I hear what u r saying about not wanting kids n being able to not have anyone depend on u. I thought n felt the same way. Problem is when u get older n old that becomes very lonely. When ur parents have passed, siblings are old, that’s when those kinds of things hits you

[@CCsWorldTv]

This girl talk was everything I needed it to be

[@allofdestiny]

Happy you got what you needed

[@JazminLonae]

Welcome Back Destiny!!!❤❤❤❤❤

[@mariepaul6488]

Happy New year girl. Keep that relationship private but show that man. If anything, saves yourself a lot of headaches.

[@tamathayoung7975]

We've missed you. I just got so excited!!

[@allofdestiny]

I've missed you all too! 😊

[@darkflowerchild8620]

Destiny…you are GLOWING!❤ Can’t wait to see 2025 on you! GOD GOT YOU AND YOU GOT THIS!!!❤

[@jSheree]

Thank you so much for taking the time to respond to my question! ❤️

[@elainecoro902]

I have been following you for many many years and I looove this destiny I love how you handled the are u in a relationship truthfully I don’t care that’s not why I follow you but blessings always to you! And can’t wait to see what 2025 as a follower

[@glambyportia3100]

Bound people don’t like BOUNDARIES ‼️

[@fashionindulgence3632]

Happy 2025!!!

[@talishawesley6633]

Love this!! Tfs...did you become a sorority sister in college?

[@verniciasmith6372]

Love these videos & love u D! ❤

[@MarquesaBailey-dh2yo]

Hey happy new year!! It's a celebration

[@allofdestiny]

Happy New Year! It is definitely a celebration. 🎉

[@megmeg1686]

Happy New Year! 🎆 Glad you had a nice and restful break! I’m a parent of one and it was so nice not having to set my alarm over winter break when school was out!!! 😅 🫠🥴 Be selfish, take your time, and keep being a great auntie in the meantime!!! 😊 SN: you had me cracking up hollering at your hubby asking him where he was at all these years!!! 😅😂🤣 Oh the edits and inserts were great 😅 love Paid in Full! ❤ 🫶🏾♋️

[@Dauphne]

Yes Marriage is Very Serious.

[@tamekawalker4928]

Hey Destiny welcome back. I love your content. You're a beautiful and smart young lady. I can't wait until to see what 2025 has in store.

[@myrnaj4502]

Welcome back!!!!🎉🎉🎉❤❤

[@Nyeroblox11491]

So glad to see you❤

[@Chevy2Tyme]

Yes for a couch tour video! 14:28

[@allofdestiny]

Okay, will do💕

[@Luh_Tryce4069]

Go to the gym big back lil girl sent me! I needed that laugh lol 😂

[@allofdestiny]

😅frfr

[@Nicolekimmie]

Ok beauty welcome back ❤

[@WIFEYLADIE]

Happy new year Destiny 🥰

[@allofdestiny]

Happy New Year to you too! 🥰

[@Clynyque]

Heyyyy Destiny!!! Great video. Happy 2025🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@MsGeorgia630]

Happy New Year and welcome back sis. Your hair is eating!

[@allofdestiny]

Happy New Year!! Thank you. I love it too

[@latisharenee6964]

Hello boo Happy New Years boo

[@cicilewis2043]

Hi Destiny, you looksohappy and pretty. Lobe your energy and wishing you a great successful 2025 in every aspect of your life.

[@garryidlebird510]

My 2025 goal is to focus more on you

[@sherylduncan2122]

Girl you are glowing ❤❤❤. Thank for the girl chat

[@Kingcess0503]

Welcome back, Destiny!!!! I missed you, girl. Happy NEW YEAR! 🎉🎉🎉

[@MonikaLancaster]

I love your hair like that!!❤❤❤ Great protective ❤❤

[@allofdestiny]

Thank you, love the twists too! My sister did it 💕

[@chas3432]

I been waiting for you destiny

[@taylorbowman2270]

This was such an amazing video for so many reasons🥹 I been watching you since I was like 14 or 15 and I’m 23 now!! You always been like a big sister and I felt like I was getting to know where you are now in life plus the growth and advice just hit different😮‍💨🤍 So God bless you and I can’t wait for what God has in store for you this year!!

[@cinna-mon-f2q]

Welcome back Destiny. I missed your videos.

[@allofdestiny]

Happy to be back 💕

[@ForeverScher-fl6eo]

Hi Des! So glad you are back! Love ur hair! U look so pretty!

[@ForeverShar]

Girl I missed your content! Happy you got to rest and be still ❤️..Happy New Year!

[@allofdestiny]

I'm so happy to be back, I needed a little break to recharge. ☺️

[@ForeverShar]

I totally understand boo! Enjoy this good hump day 🥰

[@LaurenNavie]

Needed this ❤

[@allofdestiny]

Happy you received what you needed

[@carebear9150]

Don’t sensor just stay responsible respectful like u always r❤

[@PURFUM-CUT]

You should do a perfume must haves!

[@karenruffin2278]

Happy New Year's !! You're glowing sis thanks for sharing ❤❤😊

[@ebonyjackson7960]

Love this video

[@taliahmonae7337]

Love this hairstyle on you! Welcome back 🤗

[@allofdestiny]

Thank you! 🥰 it’s so easy to manage . Happy to be back

[@QUEENIISH]

Camera quality on a 1000

[@allofdestiny]

Thanks so much. The 15 mins I spent getting everything setup was so worth this comment

[@Brownskinlove-qh4io]

Beautiful chat!!! 👑