Girl Chat Vault: Are Women Not as Assertive as Men When it Comes to Money?

[@Thoughtswithtee]

I’m so with Tam. Have a backup plan because many of these bosses be knowing your worth but are not comfortable paying for it

[@ElizabethPerez-vv1jd]

When I got promoted I laughed at the pay they offered me, i apologized then simply said, “call me when you are ready with a $$$ worth my time.” I hadn’t even walked out of the building and I had the salary I wanted and more. My boss however did make a comment, he called me “aggressive” but I’ll be aggressive any day of the week with a nice salary. I’m assertive not aggressive.

[@ibnz3888]

It is not only limited to ladies also us young men who enter or are new to the workforce are scared to negotiate. So I am very proud and happy for you as a young men and will also feel inspired by you so thank you for your story. And men and women should work together rather than always blame men, because we have no say and control either. Take care

[@ElizabethPerez-vv1jd]

ibn z I agree, I think there’s a lack in confidence with both genders when it comes to inexperience on how to measure your value in dollar amount.

[@gaila.9852]

How is your relationship with your boss now?

[@gaila.9852]

@@ibnz3888 Men have no say or control? You need to do some research.

[@ElizabethPerez-vv1jd]

Gail A. Our relationship is great now, I definitely have gain his respect and I have earned 5 promotions in a 4 year time frame.

[@DJ71867]

A woman lost her job just for asking about hazard pay. Is that even legal to get fired for asking a question?

[@clarissambera1899]

in this society injustice is bigger than laws, disgusting but true.

[@sullysaints2337]

im a nurse and im not getting hazard pay 😔

[@elizabethpizano1216]

@@sullysaints2337 I work housekeeping in a hospital we are not getting hazard pay either

[@midnightmave]

Depends on the place. Some states are "at will" meaning that they can fire anyone for anything and not have to provide a reason. I heard a story about a dental assistant that once got fired for being too pretty.

[@shaerebholz5793]

Depends on the state

[@millenniumphetedi9454]

Adrienne and Tamera be Looking simple... Yet bomb AF!!! 😩😩😩♥️🔥😩♥️🔥🔥🔥

[@twentysvn]

Tamera sitting across the table from her co-host while making 10X their pay …. And then walked when they tried to cut her pay. So, she does NOT lie 😂

[@asmabegum8824]

Loni is so funny. Know your worth ladies. Always have a union on your side too and good friends to talk to about money and future x

[@RealTakerslady]

Tamara was one of the highest paid on the show allegedly, so she can negotiate

[@007Fusiion]

It was easy though, she was the only recognizable face

[@RealTakerslady]

John Kimmel Adrienne and Tamar were well known too

[@MajesticMyronn]

John Kimmel all of them had their own success stories prior to this... Adrienne has been recognizable considering she was in two girl groups , Jeannie is a natural host cuz that’s what she is known for, Loni is known for her comedy... all of them may not be at the same level but they all were well known in their own right

[@MajesticMyronn]

RealTakerslady but also there’s many factors that play into their salaries especially based on other things they’re doing outside of this job that can affect how high or low the salary can be for their personal contracts... Jeannie & Adrienne both have many different sidegigs so I can understand why they’re negotiations despite possibly not being as much as he other ladies... they negotiated and AGREED on terms they were OKAY WITH ! Hence why they’re still here

[@007Fusiion]

Myronn Coleman Okay, fair enough. I’d say she is still the biggest draw (or was at the beginning)

[@MajesticMyronn]

I think there’s this stigma that women have to work TWICE AS HARD to prove they are deserving to work in the same spaces as men without feeling intimidated... but also sometimes have to be very careful of what they say or how they say it cuz certain names will be said to diminish the value of what a woman ( especially a woman of color ) is saying and take away from the actual issue at hand...

[@phindilemathebula2435]

I wonder what it will be like without tamara🥺😭

[@gaila.9852]

@john smith No, she is not. You just made that up.

[@gaila.9852]

@john smith I don't see that anywhere.

[@susanamosquera3399]

Honestly ppl just making excuses for sexism, it's not cause women aren't assertive enough, the system is just sexist.

[@007Fusiion]

Made so by both men and women

[@toluadeyemi9049]

Its both.

[@MajesticMyronn]

Susana Mosquera boom!!!

[@user-ro8et5sy9x]

John Kimmel the system was made by men . But typical men blaming their systemic sexism on women

[@Thomas-ch3jr]

John Kimmel How? It’s men who created the system and are at the top. Women didn’t create a system that is sexist to their own sex LOL doesn’t even make any sense

[@alyssashauntay5269]

I’m not sure why people are mean on here, litterally these ladies preach about fairness between everyone regardless of whatever you look like, gender,nationality, religion. I’m dumbfounded , like they have these conversations to get everyone’s opinion on the panel not everything has a right or wrong answer. let’s try to love each other #beagoodperson ❤️❤️

[@hexmaniacgabby5160]

Some people think being real is being rude unfortunately

[@KarmaCame]

Yes ladies and when you first get hired or when pay is brought up ask is it negotiable and when you can renegotiate and when that time comes create a document of your work related accomplishments, all the work you put in including extra work that helps,if you do anything outside of work for the job everything counts and ask for what you want..oh and also before that it's good to know what the top pay is for the position so you have a good idea of how much is is beneficial.Also if you help with client retention,sales,saving on losses...all that.Be brave and ask.Doing this gave me double pay.

[@JesusmyRedeemer1]

One thing about Jeannie is, she can TALK

[@mariyaa111]

She’s a Capricorn!

[@gaila.9852]

Is this good or bad?

[@shivairas6717]

Gail A. Depends

[@gaila.9852]

@@shivairas6717 What a vague response.

[@aurora6763]

She is eloquent, articulate and always brings wisdom to the table. I love it.

[@MajesticMyronn]

This is one of those Girl Chats where I feel like blogs turn conversations they’ve had and use it as a way to turn into drama between the girls when it’s not the case... as soon as that blog about financial differences between the girls come out... this conversation and another one about what not to say at Work Christmas Parties came to mind... it just seemed too ironic... which is why I still don’t believe it to this day

[@thruthemotions]

Kind of convenient how The Real uploaded this after Tamera announced her departure. Her answer to standing up for a raise was perfect too

[@cakesart4168]

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[@loicabeaussejour8600]

Amen its really important

[@francescalucchese9873]

Amen!!!

[@KennM12]

i don’t think the restaurant kicking them out is about them dating. even if they were just friends, 10 is still too young to dine without a parent

[@sydneyhopes]

Me rewatching these episodes are opening my eyes to so much… I’mI read that Tamera left the show because they were trying to cut her pay. Her momma taught her well, she knows that “sister sister” face/ fans brought a lot of viewers. She knew her worth & bounced 😭

[@whenniceguysretaliate5619]

Better question: Who's better at recognizing when someone deserves a raise? (Male or Female Bosses)

[@iacobus4227]

It’s not a better question. It doesn’t matter the gender, it’s about the individual and the company you work for.

[@laurzkw3674]

Reality is, in this world not all woman are treated fairly in a workplace or are not able to work based on culture in different countries. Always know what your getting into before signing the contract.

[@Iloveturtles13]

All the ladies look beautiful! 💗 love the fantastic 4!

[@dikshasharma5639]

This was just such a good topic because I struggle with asking for a raise lol

[@Iloveturtles13]

Werk the lipstick Jeannie! 😀👏🏼💖

[@mariad4183]

I knew these girls would have good info from experience! It's all in the delivery people

[@katherinecabrera9721]

When I have a kid I would NOT! Let him/her date at 10 YEARS OLD! Thats too young! Kids hormones nowadays are crazy! I gotta neighbor, she was 13 already having sex and now she just turned 15 and pregnant.....

[@kristycase2401]

Anything you "won't" let them do in your face, they will do behind your back. Lol.

[@katherinecabrera9721]

And thats the sad truth

[@hiitts.judy_huete-3763]

Great video!! I learned a lot thanks ladies

[@animeghost888]

Inflation is at approx. 2% before the pandemic, and i can't imagine what it will be after this is over. Ask for a raise each year, and know your rights. Also, i would highly recommend creating multiple sources of income to help with everything!

[@iheartkass_]

Honestly negotiating pay and the interview is always so awkward and it wasn’t until recently where I realize that in any company that I am in I am one of the best workers and it’s not being cocky it’s just been reality I’ve noticed that I would get the same compliments and people will notice different things about me that to be honest I didn’t know how important and worthy I was Before I began looking for work I honestly was never satisfied with how much I was getting paid because subconsciously I knew that could I could always do better and so thank God that I was blessed with a job that now is in a healthcare facility that I would love to grow and in such a fun environment but I am not complaining at about the pay anymore and that is definitely going to help me stay there longer and so if your boss can also see that then they are definitely worth worth working for

[@krissysmiley4]

They’re so messy for posting this video😭

[@gaila.9852]

How?

[@valeriejaramillo1189]

The customers would call first to see if I was there before they went to the store

[@valeriejaramillo1189]

I worked at sears. .all I did was stock. .but all departments. Lawn and garden. To tools to home fashions to shipping and receiving

[@novemberr_]

Adrienne looks soo gorgeous😍

[@Iloveallpenguins]

Not true. I asked and they let me go. Both jobs! Told me I was ungrateful because they didn’t need to pay me well since I was married.

[@themuttandthemal6920]

Honestly I think it’s a great way to distract the people they are asking to represent them into signing maybe not the best contracts

[@Hannahmontanna]

What the hell is Under Armour doing with their HR department? Lmao like STRIP CLUBS

[@SSBMA1994]

Never before seen footage!! 🥰❤🥳

[@gaila.9852]

Tam and Adam made some beautiful children.

[@washurhands5079]

And that’s why Tam is leaving 😭

[@lifeisrosyyy]

8:00 5th graders going after a kindergartener? That's weird.

[@pinkdlipstick]

Right?! Maybe they just find him cute like a little brother or something, because anything else would be weird

[@gaila.9852]

The problem is not that the ten-year-olds were dating. The problem is that they were in public by themselves.

[@kellycraddock269]

Hey I'm a big fan

[@californialanta5908]

Love the real

[@hildaamethyst528]

So why can’t I ask for a raise just because comparing my coworker’s pay, I know my coworker gets the same as me, but I do far far more work? Why do we have to put in extra work to prove our worth but MEN don’t have to do this???

[@thulinkabane5765]

Adriane really does not know her worth. Scared to talk about money? Girl bye!

[@melanielien5625]

Loni working in corporate America shows. Strip club for business meetings is 100% a thing.

[@melilara4194]

I think 16 and up is ok to date but kids need to be kids as long as they can be! They will have the rest of their lives to date and find a mate but being a kid you can never get it back.

[@LIZZyNIqUZZ10]

I'm the same way , I bug and bug and bug for my raise cuz I do alot idc either you pay me what I deserve or I quit

[@moneytalk1987]

Jennie looks better than when she was married 😅

[@paularubidoux7798]

It's called talk to the hand .and hold your hand out

[@valeriejaramillo1189]

Our boss has a boss who has a boss

[@gaila.9852]

The kids' parents saw no problem with dropping them off by themselves?

[@angelsmith2760]

I would have been blessed to juts receive 1 mill especially if I knew my counter parts were making way less than me. Like even making $500,000 a season is a lot of money just to talk and give opinions like the film industry doesn’t seem to be mad I know I don’t know all the facts etc.

[@kennyray4458]

I don’t agree with that....some studies show that women are more aggressive in their career achievements

[@valeriejaramillo1189]

That manages the money. And see a diffrence

[@angelsmith2760]

How much did you need to live successfully, like making 3 mil off of a tv show like that’s a lot of money, to talk in certain issue etc.

[@PHE-nomenon]

Ugh Loni reaching 😒😑 it has absolutely nothing to do with rappers. 😑😒

[@Iloveturtles13]

This was a sticky convo for sure. Needs to be discussed though

[@valeriejaramillo1189]

If you let them go on dates your letting them grow up.

[@valeriejaramillo1189]

Talk to the hand. Put out your hand.

[@valeriejaramillo1189]

It's too bad we have to bring it up. .

[@tyquanfleming8554]

Loni do you have a KZbin channel

[@tia-kaycommay3265]

I miss Tamara 😪😪😔

[@loveliistv288]

Never been so EARLY😭

[@marcellacollins4697]

Dont hate A

[@GamzeninDunyas-th7hh]

hemen abone oluyorum

[@valeriejaramillo1189]

I think count those dollars. Write it down

[@lumenar8459]

It was great were Adeles ex got half her fourtune

[@BATOOLESK]

well..we know who came up with this topic :D

[@valeriejaramillo1189]

Hell na. No mc Donald's. Date

[@lydiamesfin2139]

what? 10 years old? No no no you have to be crazy to think about let your 10 years old son out on a date

[@lawandinformative]

Hey.....

[@jeromebaxter2987]

12:41

[@afrocarribbean]

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[@kristinaerickson2353]

Can we stop calling opposite sex friends of children their "girlfriend" or "boyfriend" and stop calling them wanting to hangout as "dating". Let kids have friends and play. Let them be kids. Educate them and stay on top of it. But let those little ones play with boys and girls and let it be innocent because it is.