Girl Chat: Is It a Deal-breaker If a Man Can’t Plan?

[@shaynanichelle8621]

Lol Jeannie just made me feel validated with my laziness, when she said ,”You’re not lazy, you’re just disconnected with what you’re not into at that moment” 😅

[@mrsg6778]

Shayna Dorsey me too 😆

[@maharawchaa]

Shayna Dorsey makes so much sense ! When u actually think abt it for a min ...

[@smokeofspades2974]

That's sugarcoated bs u do know that

[@Prosper927]

@@smokeofspades2974 It's actually a very positive and uplifting way of changing your mindset. Try it out with any insecurities you may have or flaws people have told you about. You can turn your negatives into positives and apply it to situations, ethics, business etc that perhaps in the past or present you viewed in a negative way. Of course if 10 people are telling you you have a tail, you better look behind lol you may need to work on some things but rather than sugarcoating, use it as a tool to help build one's self esteem and confidence. We all have things we need to work on (time keeping is number one for me) but if you are able to turn a weakness into a strength it's a great way to improve oneself.

[@Agishawashere.g]

You're not lazy,you're just disconnected with what you are not into at the moment.

[@mckenzie.8653]

To quote the great Naomi Campbell: "I'm not intimidating, you're INTIMIDATED."

[@thruthemotions]

Yooo😅💪🏽

[@jackofallvlogs7504]

This quote is giving 🤌🏻

[@PLazz257]

Can we take a moment to agree with how wise and intelligent Jeannie sounds? Every single piece of advice or argument she gave is really enlightening and screams classiness.

[@NellieKAdaba]

True

[@lastreetdupanoupanou8920]

Agree

[@Tan87ful]

Agreed

[@boowie9302]

javi ruiz people’s live events have nothing to do with their character. Freddy and her just no longer met eye to eye , so they divorced , it’s the simple . Quit trying to belittle people because of things that happened in life because the truth is if god said she was going to experience a tough divorce and that was part of her life line than she was going to experience it no matter what , so it has nothing to do with her character but everything to do with her strength because she went through that and cane out an even wiser person

[@karinaflores5201]

javi ruiz - stupid ass comment.. if she would’ve been anything other than smart, she would have had a kid by the man. He went and got it anyway which means his love wasn’t enough, so yes, u further proved the main commenters point Lmao

[@FriendshipIsMagic1998]

Start posting full girl chat every day! Now you've shown us that you're capable of more than 3 min clips!

[@eliexotic212]

YUP

[@bbyd0ll1]

Dr Scott Hall it’s because it’s old 😭

[@fae1932]

I'm dying 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@Iheartneonsparkles]

Dr Scott Hall they give us an inch and we ask for a mile 😂😂😂

[@blahblah8795]

Then get cable dummy

[@carrotsandpotatoes5019]

Sometimes a standoff type of person is actually just shy and don’t really have the needed people skills to mingle. The next time you are around someone who seems to be the type of person who “thinks they are better” just start a conversation with them. You never know...you’ll probably be surprised in a good way.

[@WifeandWifeTV]

O. A. L this! That’s so me! People are quick to prejudge.

[@carrotsandpotatoes5019]

WifeandWife yeah I know. It makes it harder when people don’t understand.

[@creolela]

Me ! I’m very awkward so I don’t talk

[@Sumi2379]

Or people who are closed off/ stand-off ish may have been through a lot and are understandably reserved ( have built walls up)

[@punkofmudd]

Thank you! If anything, they seem more arrogant for asuming someone else should be the one to talk to them first

[@sabrina.natalie]

*Ya’ll.... the Real Producers FINALLY heard our pleas for longer videos!* Like, omggggg. This has been long overdue. Anddddd they even were courteous enough not to split the video into 8 different parts.

[@AdelaideAnn]

Unfortunately they're all old clips :(((( they've just taken old clips and put them together into one

[@maharawchaa]

Sabrina Valenzuela 😆 8 parts . They better keep it up! Too

[@kittykatm9545]

ikr that was just stupid. what if wendy was to do that???lol will be like 15 parts... I even stopped watching at one point cause these 4 min videos be wasting my time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol

[@sophialane4434]

Why does the video say 14 minutes?? Since when does this ever happen?

[@biancaselles10]

The description says its old , this is from 2017 but still appreciated lol

[@peachlife5118]

OMFG RIGHT!! I thought my eyes were playing tricks on me

[@kbubbles63]

Idk sus but I'm here for it

[@SwimForUrLove]

This is old maybe that's why

[@SwimForUrLove]

It was called "intimidating... why thank you"

[@lizzieann866]

I was so confused when Jeannie starting talking about Freddie!!

[@nothandombatha5264]

It's an old video

[@javiruiz4405]

Nichol Lewis what are you talking about!!! She has had tattoos forever!!! What!!! I'm confused

[@MichelMawon4982]

me too because she used present tense towards the end of what she was saying. The video was uploaded on Oct 8 of this year so it doesn't appear old.

[@TheChemjenius89]

It's old because they are talking about the movie Get Out

[@TheBrownIsland]

@@lilalila9463 An intimidating and bossy attitude is Not cute at all. I don't care where you work. If you work at a prison with men be intimidating there but don't bring that attitude to everyday life situations. Be approachable.

[@sabah6353]

Wow!! 14 minute girl chats??? SIS AM I TRIPPING ?? THANK GOD

[@sabah6353]

hold up......this from april of 2017.....................SMH

[@TheStylinstar]

I had to do a double take😭

[@SallayMusic]

Right :D I thought i was trippin too haha

[@dolahdoles4481]

Ummmm a 14 MINUTE VIDEO?!! come throouuughhhh 👐👐

[@nnenna2469]

From 1879 -___-

[@HalloweenHappy]

That’s what I thought!!!!!

[@intrinsicallyme8404]

Dolah Doles old vid u must be a newbie

[@dolahdoles4481]

@@intrinsicallyme8404 lol nope been watching the show since season one. Just posted the comment as soon as I saw the video without realizing when the segment was from

[@intrinsicallyme8404]

Dolah Doles lols ok I take it back

[@sweetladanbrb]

Your not lazy you are disconnected to what you are doing - deep

[@TiffanyGoulbourne]

Ladan Ahmed Lool imma start using that line

[@joannasaad298]

Nah I’m legit lazy and then super efficient when stuff needs to be done lol

[@Lili12333]

Same. I really felt that lol because some people call me lazy but I’m not lazy I’m just not that interested in that specific thing

[@speligurl09]

They don’t know what intimidation means for one. Also intimidation has nothing to do with the persons personality. It’s about how you perceive them. You can be warm and people can still be intimidated by you. I had warm professors but I was still intimidated but them

[@NellieKAdaba]

Alright

[@Poopie22]

That's what they said haha

[@crazypurpleglow]

Thank you! It baffles me how people cannot understand this.

[@Oholoco]

They are saying it is not a compliment of someone says your personality is intimidating . (But it doesn't mean you actually are)

[@Oholoco]

Intimidation has alot to do with your personality. Someone may find you intimidating when you are not but it doesn't mean it is not about personality. People can find you intimidating but you can also have an intimidating personality in general. Just because i dont find something theatening doesn't mean it's not

[@lakarox6777]

Being intimidating should not be confused with being arrogant...there's a big difference Being intimating means that your NATURAL skill, behavior or personality challenges other people to respect you but only if comes it comes from a true place, whereas arrogance comes from a FAKE place of pride and insecurity, therefore you feel the need to overcompensate for what you lack, which is confidence.

[@abbieruth8373]

I was called so intimidating at college that no guys ever came up to me and asked me out except for one. It wasnt because I was mean. Im just super tall and what I was told, very pretty. So that one guy who had the guts to come up and talk to me ended up being my husband haha

[@latriselove8363]

Same I am 6ft and carry myself well .. men and women are intimidated by me.. they think I'm bougie too.. I guess the way I carry myself and how I dress.. idk..

[@bsunshine9915]

Awwwww I felt bad for Tamera. That’s lonely, she just wanted a friend 😢

[@piyushwagh8363]

I know right🥺

[@Lbenning]

Am I Tripping Or Does This Video Say 14:15😂🤸🏾‍♀️ Wait A Minute, Are These Clips Old ??? IKYFL, I Was Rootin For Y’all 🤦🏾‍♀️ I Read The Description Box So Ima Let That Slide 😂❤️

[@Victoria-kw4ht]

lmao idk what's happening

[@Caleb_Marlena]

These are old episodes lol

[@kingG314]

Shhhhh it's still progress girl

[@tronfrazier1213]

Leticia Benning yessss....I was like wait they posting a full girl chat then I was like wait this is from last season 😄😄

[@fuego5532]

why the hell are you typing like that

[@trish8321]

"If you into me, you're gonna plan. Even if you not good at it, you gonna at least try. And if you at least try, then I can try and like you" 🤣😂😂😂 Yesss! 🤣🤣👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💯💯💯🙌🏼

[@Claire-yt6xx]

Man sometimes Adrienne sounds so daft....a person does not have to be mean spirited or unkind to be PERCEIVED as intimidating.It's sometimes simply intimidating for one woman to be sitting to a gorgeous woman who she might not know....and the gorgeous woman might be the nicest girl in the world....but she is intimidating to the other woman.It all has to do with perception

[@chelseyfaye8778]

Yeah but if the beautiful women is the nicest person on the planet then the beautiful women doesnt have an intimidating ATTITUDE or personality! I completely agree with her!

[@rae4828]

Exactly

[@crazypurpleglow]

@@chelseyfaye8778 The thing is you can be the nicest person and still be perceived as intimidating if you're not very talkative due to shyness, if you're a serious person, etc.

[@cessaolokos5896]

she sounds daft? I'm sure you quite dumb in real life gtfoh

[@user-nq6um4bs5y]

Cessa Olokos learn English

[@Yeahthisisme7]

Thanks for Jeannie input about the word intimidating because I’m seen like that. Honestly it’s true , I am. It’s a cover up to just shape how people are going to approach me the first time. But those who are close to me , are way more comfortable around me. Plus the field in which I am doesn’t necessarily give me enough room to be otherwise.

[@kparm23]

Jeannie said "Jordan Pill keels it" lmaoo 😂😭

[@izzyflowers]

The description says they're looking into the vault and pulling out old girl chats. Chill out, people.

[@chrissypacheco9635]

Izamar Flores ikr, lml. Obviously it's old, A doesn't have on a wedding ring.

[@missgoaloriented7443]

Stand offish and intimidating are two different things

[@Sar1386]

I was a bit confused when Loni said she was intimidated by Tamera when they first met because she ‘grew up’ watching ‘sister sister’. Loni is 7 years older than Tamera, as Tamera started filming ‘sister sister’ when she was 14yrs old Loni would have been 21 when it started and 28yrs old when it finished so that really didn’t make sense to me. Anyone else confused?

[@a.sydney5036]

Sar1386 I WAS JUST SAYING THIS TO MYSELF 😩😂

[@Watchvideossss]

Yeah but she has been famous and successful for a much longer time than Loni. I bet that's what she meant.

[@mckenzie.8653]

It's not about age. Loni was most likely intimidated by Tamera's success at such a young age, especially since she'd probably watched her on television.

[@nayshaortiz1687]

FINALLYYYYY!!!Finally posting the entire girl chat 😭 WE APPRECIATE YOU FOR DOING THIS, NEVER STOP PLEASE

[@avannagirltv9898]

Jeannie always put the words together so well

[@kingG314]

14 MINUTES ?? I MUST BE DREAMING

[@sungjemishsungjemish8212]

True! If personality is intimidating it's cheap

[@shamimkagere]

"If you try then i can try and like you", Loni kills me🤣

[@rachelauker4034]

Wow Jeanie such rich words of wisdom. Turn the negative labels into positive!💫

[@valerieeey]

I just woke up and I had to blink several times to realise that it actually says 14 mins... our prayers have been heard ☺️🙌🏾

[@shanyoung5265]

Wow some long old video's why not long new one's.....lol Love it anyways i take what i can get

[@phinees1885]

Shan Young because they have to keep the viewers interested somehow. Y’all have to think about the business side of this lmao. If they start posting all the new girl chats no one will want to tune in on TV anymore and the views and ratings might go down. It’s that simple 😩😂 but i kind of understand your frustration

[@jenn4593]

Phinèes Wow. I never thought of it that way. Smart.

[@MissTrinidadandTobago]

Jesus works miracles. I am not sure the Real social media managers knows what they have done but let us not be assholes. Rather, lets kiss their asses. We are so happy for this 14 minutes. What have we done to deserve all this goodness? Ain't Jesus great? Amen...

[@zora99ny]

Miss Trinidad and Tobago - it's a girl chat from last year

[@LABEAUTEADDICT]

Miss Trinidad and Tobago - They read the comment section; people were asking olds clips from past sessions as we can only watch them from KZbin..🙌🏾😅

[@fayepatrice1672]

Whoooo! Hallelujah🙏🏾👍🏽😇

[@intrinsicallyme8404]

Miss Trinidad and Tobago - I'm wondering where in the bible Jesus invited anyone except the lost sheep of Israel to his message? You need to look at your bible and read it cause that is your lifestyle, you don't wanna have to end up meeting with God only to find out it wasn't Jesus, because Jesus never asked anyone to worship him. He was a servant of Abraham's, Moses' God. Just like Moses and Abraham were also servants of God; serving God is the highest honour one can get. So read your scripture carefully. It's there in black n white. Before you wake up one day and realise you didnt get salvation but by then itl be too late. Best wishes.

[@stepstoleaps]

@@intrinsicallyme8404 🤣 alright😁

[@nicolem1865]

Wow! The Real actually posted a full, satisfying and long clip!!! THANK YOU

[@cwchris_]

Y’all tripping on the daycare I ain’t leaving my kid with some random ass lady at the movie theater 😂😭😂

[@kennybaby]

I’m so glad you guys started making these clips longer so I don’t have to go and find “part 2” or whatever!!!!! Hahah

[@italivictoria]

Loni is telling the TRUTHHHHH ! 😂 "just take me to the hood " 😂😂😂

[@derrti8632]

They're playing old videos on purpose guys read the description box 😂😄

[@intrinsicallyme8404]

Derrti ooh the conspiracies... wonder why they doing it are they running out of decent content to talk about? Also I think they're not as real anymore as they were back then... especially not in the last few new clips.

[@moria5632]

“Tell them I’m definitely gonna be there but I’m probably not going to make it “ LOl that is trifling! 😂😂😂

[@princetontmccovey]

The grinding Jeannie was making at 11:37 had me ROLLING😂😂😂😂😂

[@brightpage1020]

The movie theater changes are amazing! Our church school shows monthly movie nights for kids of all ages. They show them in a lecture hall, darkened, with cushy seats and a screen. They put blankies, crayons, paper, and a few quiet activities, like fidget cubes, or other dollar store toys on the carpet for the littles. They had a popcorn machine, offer corndogs, small candies, and mini water bottles. With labor shortages for sitters at reasonable prices these days, a theater like this would be a blessing! I could bring all my kids - even my Autism Spectrum suspect. It would be awesome. Not every theater room has to have this, but for people who know they're going to bring kids or that it's going to be like that and don't mind the distractions, this would be great!

[@Manuel66318]

“Michelle Obama” “BEYONCE AS WELL” 😂😂😂😂

[@blameitonablackstar]

The real finally gives us the full videos and people are still complaining. My goodness!

[@liveyourlife243]

Wait does it say 14 mins or I need to go back to grab my glasses

[@pinkfairydust83]

Adrienne was just as successful as Tamera....I feel like she never get the recognition she deserves

[@avafreeman336]

No integrity or self respect

[@a.sydney5036]

pinkfairydust83 is um, no. I don’t believe so.

[@whisperingwhiskerss4877]

Yes intimidating is a compliment and I’m not easily amused or impressed but it sucks sometimes 🤦🏾‍♀️💯

[@ayjaybay93]

When Jeannie said “Freddie” I was like 😱😱😱 then I realized this is an old clip

[@sitatheyoutuber]

being labeled as intimidating isnt a compliment to me because im the nicest person ever & immediately smile if someone approaches me in public but im aware i have a serious face when im walking around minding my business haha

[@shamimkagere]

Loni's opinions are always too real and funny! She is fun to listen to😆

[@indigobeauty1]

11:34 😅😅😂🤣😭 Jeannie forgot where she was at for a moment! Tamera in disbelief 🤣

[@lifewithcaroline8196]

When Loni said "when you questioning alot of things...like why will you do that .." i immediately know she was talking about Tamar 😂

[@krissysmiley4]

Adrienne killed me with the "I don't like intimidating personalities, it's not cute" but was soo up Tamars butt when she was on the show🙄 especially when she was being so mean to Jeannie

[@MZGURL1]

Fam please start posting the whole episodes, your subscriber count would skyrocket! ☝

[@ZionFame]

Some people are intimating by me because of my job but when they get to know me they realized I was the sweetest and goofy girl ever😂😂😂

[@marleyjanim5033]

What's your job tittle?

[@imanxious275]

I wouldn’t sit next to Tia or Tamera because I’d think they wanted there space and privacy you know what I mean ? Like Loni said it’s more about respect. 🙂

[@kayleighandjoe2523]

7:29 I thought Adrienne was saying she took A JET to see the movie I was Shook 😂 till I realised it's her neices name 🙈🙈

[@robynbeckles]

I would have sat by you Tam! It's not a bad thing to want to sit next to them because they're on TV. That's how you knew who they were in the first place! The difference is only being their friend because of who they are (actors) versus getting to know them for who they are (normal people) and becoming friends that way.

[@Makeuphungry]

Exactly Adrienne. I wouldnt sit next to Tamera or even any of y"all for that matter because I would wanna treat you normal but it is like a grew up with you so I wouldnt wanna come across like a super fan or a groupie

[@yaya_97]

Damn the Real is getting bold. Sure they are old clips but I’m still watching

[@turquoiseblue1784]

I’ve been told I’m intimidating because of my face🙍🏽‍♀️but then they get to know me and they get over it 💀

[@jackrobins1221]

Turquoise Blue omg me too lol

[@rubykanja]

Someone recently told me am bossy at first I wanted to be in my feels but then I decided to look at it in a positive way

[@juliettepierre8289]

Wow Adrienne I can relate so much! I dated a guy like that and I feel ya sister. So not worth my time and my friends and family's time. After dating him I realise, I really can't be laying down all the ground work for a guy to just take me out on a date, if he is meant to be with me, he'll pursue me.

[@cynthiamatee7972]

Hey guys watching from Kenya and Im totally amazed as well as inspired by how real you are @Adrienne gal have followed you since im in love with the Church girl.Have had so many challenges but you've been true inspiration and all you need to do is keep moving, never look back, next time i visit the state ill make sure i make it to your audience

[@MichelMawon4982]

yes dammit, men who can't plan are exhausting. It is attractive when a man can plan.

[@DamnDemi]

There's a difference between being intimidating & arrogance.

[@dreafar4137]

Whoever is in charge of the Real KZbin needs to be FIRED. These clips are old af.

[@MajesticMyronn]

Andrea Far it's a new playlist they have... consider it a throwback type playlist... so they're uploading The first 14-18 minutes of girl chats from previous seasons ( FALL 2016- NOW )

[@animemangaluv13]

It's a vault

[@PrincessToad]

Thank youuuu for the long video!!!!!!

[@selinet19]

Thank God for long videos!!! Please do MORE!!!

[@MananaMoeng27]

🤣😂🤣😂😂Jeannie when saying “sister sister “is priceless

[@johnnyulysse638]

Hi

[@krazikashh]

I like how they covered all aspects/outlooks of planning

[@sharonp4094]

I am intimidating because I am romantic and a great planner for parties because I know what people like based on our friendships, whereas no one ever can be bothered doing the same back for me cos of my expectations being “unrealistic”, in that I expect something, anything, and get nothing.

[@seana_momsen]

OKAY. Whoever did Loni’s makeup here needs to be doing her makeup forever! Loni finally looks warm and not ASHY! Stunning.

[@MasonPerry7]

I can plan I prefer not to, things just go better unplanned for me. And it’s exhausting.

[@japnzgurlx23]

Tamera, don’t worry. In college, it’s unspoken etiquette to not sit right next to people in a lecture hall/ classroom unless there aren’t any other seats left.

[@glamgalchel]

I watched Get Out at the Baldwin Hills Crenshaw movie theater and it was a whole ass show lmao! Ppl were screaming and having a good time, I loved it! 😂

[@elleeley6718]

We do this in Australia but the kids don't play during the movie, there is an interval midway through where they get time to shake it off and play and then come back to their seat to finish the movie.

[@g.pearson4726]

I love the random dances 💃🏽💃🏽

[@boxysay7664]

Kindness, strict, bossy etc. People need to know what category you are in. And you will still be intimidating to people who know better than to try you! Intimidating is a compliment. If it ain't ...cool. I'm still in my categories.

[@hunterkynna]

I’m so happy with longer segments ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ thank you the real

[@mardyjoseph8203]

Loving seeing the fuull girl chat

[@QueenofK]

Finally 😫 longer videos 😭 oh how I’m jumping for joy

[@CourtneyAverett]

I’ve been told I’m intimidating. I was always on the fence between it being a compliment or insult.

[@Yeahthisisme7]

Humm so when it's old episodes, you don't mind posting 14 minutes but when it's new we have between 0:59 to 4 minutes.... I see you the real...i'll be looking towards the new ones.

[@kesandrawilliamson2464]

Loni looks so cute. Lmao jeannie and loni dancing. I like the way tamera says chicken

[@Chamberlee]

My social anxiety makes my personality intimidating because I get overwhelmed in external stimulation so sorry not sorry but that can be beautiful too if you dont have a social skill and takes time to come around and learn to get to know someone is just as amazing. Your flaws can be beautiful too .

[@Kekeforever-n6q]

14 minute video today. Love it

[@adedoyinkudehinbu5039]

Jeanie gave out really articulate and intelligent responses. She deserves an applaud.

[@resolute1922]

It is annoying to have a man who doesn't plan. It can get exhausting.

[@Shinel]

14 whole minutes??? I literally screamed so hard!!!

[@tcoleman6167]

JM: "I wouldn't want you to think that cause I'm Asian you think I want yo money cause you SISTA SISTAAAAHHHH!!!" 👀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@OrdinaryAviator]

Intimidating persona can make me bored sometimes because I have a tendency to stop pursuing half-way if the person I chase is playing tug of war while exuding strict personality.

[@eliskacharlottew.2408]

pull throughhhh with these long videos yessssss

[@coolgamer2950]

Tarama as an intimidating beauty..she also as a kind heart

[@HalloweenHappy]

Ahhhhh each 2 min clip I watch I wish you guys uploaded longer and here we are!!!! 🤘💋🤘💋💋💋💋💋 edit... I’m still excited even if it’s from the vault!

[@RecettesPeuCaloriques]

*I really enjoyed this girl chat. It was diverse and interesting!!!*

[@seyboraarmymoo1057]

14 minute KZbin video?!!!! i had to double check if this was even their official channel

[@xoox6492]

Let us be grateful!!! Thank You "The Real" Managers or whoever this 14 min clips may be old, but they're still 14 mins long. 😘💙💕

[@pamelahough3896]

My husband is a great planner. He even planned a surprise party for me!

[@Kayyyoxh]

Adrian’s hair looks so gorgeous here!! 😍🤩😍 her and tam look so pretty! Actually they all do 🥰

[@johnnyulysse638]

Hi

[@jeromebaxter2987]

11:34 😂😂😂 Loni being Jeannie’s hype woman

[@colourqueen22]

Jeannie said "Jordan Peele 'Keyls' it" and nobody got it 😭😭