MAKING TOUGH DECISIONS: Choosing Motherhood, Marriage or Career with

[@bumploveug]

We’re all on a journey, and wish that we could make the best decisions when it comes to our finances, relationships and work, but that just isn’t the case. What’s the biggest decision you’ve had to make lately and how did public opinion affect it? Let us know in the comments. Come to the Golden Tulip this weekend and reflect on those decisions. If you’re a content creator like me, I’ve got a plug for you! Airtel Xstream Wifi is here to support your streaming experience as you watch our Friday episodes with blazing-fast upload speeds. Dial *125# or call 125 to activate #AirtelXstreamWifi #BumpLove #DecisionMaking #Motherhood

[@batamurizapraise699]

Is there a contact you can share for me to make a call.

[@DaphineKusasira]

A mini pumla in me

[@kobusingyejoan7484]

Hey bump love I request u bring us Cindy on this show please

[@shamsinantege6742]

This was very enlightening. We need to learn and be okey with our truths/decisions

[@richby50]

_yvg GGIT, ITS Y

[@Zladok]

Pumla should consider life coaching. She speaks with such conviction ❤

[@akwerodeborah5270]

Pumla really does the research, she’s always informed about the topic being discussed. Such a gem!

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you Deborah. We owe it to you guys to bring you relevant and well informed content

[@zalwangograce1110]

💐 🌹 🌸 🏵 🌼 💐

[@scovie5571]

She really inspires me alot😊😊

[@doreenhumura]

She's a Nammagunga girl for the love of christ

[@kansiimepeninah5960]

​@@pumlanabachwa8668 I love u pumla u speak my mind I love ur content en I pray to God I meet u one day

[@suzannedaphine6158]

Thnks so much for yo wisdom u real change our lives. .whenever we watch Bump love...God bls u ba dear

[@lukomalian3425]

THOSE WHO MATTER DON’T MIND, THOSE WHO MIND DON’T MATTER. Period. ❤

[@kunihiragloria5009]

I'm here in 2024 and at the verge of making very important decisions.Glad to rewatch this.

[@claire6ify]

Same

[@nampalamastulah4240]

After watching bump love for more than one year without subscription, today i have decided to subscribe.clap for me ba dear

[@frankmusoke7016]

I just love Rosette , she seems a simple happy soul and rising 4 kids makes you a super woman

[@roseviela.30]

Thank you dear

[@baramassarah5094]

​@@roseviela.30❤❤❤❤❤❤I adore how real simple content with yourself

[@Fablyflane]

Yas yas , she is a Queenie

[@carolynekirabo4811]

@Rosette you are so precious. I just feel that you have a good heart

[@annetnk2369]

I used to see roset at compass I used to love her from afar

[@muganzijonefischer7222]

Banange lets be grateful to these girls. They share their privacy something that many of us cannot do. Through their stories, people have learnt alot and we should always be there to defend them and support them. Nze nja kuffa nomuntu avuma bano abakyaala

[@gloriaclare8]

Pumla..true definition of Beauty with Brains ❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you Gloria ❤

[@amutuhairesharon9911]

Pumla, I love your energy. You are so knowledgeable

[@k.latifahk.l8312]

After watching this, im yet to make my hardest decision.

[@rashidahkakimba8996]

Kudos Racheal you are so composed even in your submissions. Love you

[@oyellapatricia138]

This has really been impactful on me. I have rewatched this episode thrice. I love the composure of Rachael, the happy Rosette and the bitter truth that Pumla and Manuela always point out. I have been struggling with a decision but now I feel I am more empowered to make a choice.

[@christinenakazzi280]

Yall are preaching but Pumla has preached today 😂😂❤, I had to pause, process the information i'am receiving then continue watching i'am forever greatfull for this channel as a day 1 subscriber.Thank ladies. 😘😘

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahaha! We must all preach on Bump Love 😅

[@ceciliamwebaza9377]

I will always applaud Pumla for the detailed research she makes for this show, and all the ladies, lots of appreciation ❤❤❤ and for the lumpens, shame on you, they could never bring us bump lovers downs, we came to stay😂😂😂

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you Cecilia. We did love our Bump Lovers ❤

[@stecykaren9319]

​@@pumlanabachwa8668hey Pumla am here watching this episode in 2024 but can't find you in the new episodes.. Did you leave banange

[@sheilaokiror2533]

Rosette is right when in marriage love should be put aside l have liked the tropic it’s teaches a lot

[@karene_B]

I like Rosette’s firm stand on God oh Yes not forgetting Manuela and Racheal…

[@carolinemayende7917]

yes first to comment .that moment am just scrolling and boom!

[@marthamasiko8862]

Hi Pumla ...please consider life coaching? Always good to learn from you! Happy Friday errybare

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Oh! Thank you for your vote of confidence. Blessings received 🙏🏾

[@prossykiconco9552]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 I real love how you look at life. I too make decisions for me not for anyone.

[@precioustimes8043]

I wish each of us would mind their own business coz this would would have been a better place but some of us fail to try our chances bcoz of opinions

[@tsitsimafarachisi9236]

Yeyyy...I'm the first one here today 🎉

[@kembabazidoreen9927]

Rossete is becoming a pastor one of these days, good of her

[@roseviela.30]

Right 😂

[@julietajok4126]

Teacher Pumla, please consider life coaching outside the bank work😊.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you for this vote of confidence. ❤

[@owenivanmuhwezi145]

❤❤❤

[@faithbirungi2438]

Rachel is sooooooo my twin because eh 🤦🏿‍♀️ nga I've suffered with "being soft". Goodness 🤦🏿‍♀️ even my family has always told me that I'm not aggressive enough, my supervisor at work recently told me that I need to develop thick skin because I'm always looking for more peaceful ways to resolve conflict and avoid confrontation at all costs. So many times I have had to find myself trying to morph into a version of who they say I'm capable of becoming, which would then in retrospect propel me to where they think I should be in life and it always backfires, sadly, on me alone and going through the repair and rebuilding always takes alot out of me and I honestly feel lost at this point. I feel like I've allowed so much noise into my life that I've forgotten who I am. I hope to find myself one day. Thank you ladies for always holding space for us, in every way, shape or form in a world where it's so easy to forget oneself.

[@rachellorna5109]

Wow..this is so relatable! You took the words right out of my mouth..life shapes us and builds that thick skin consciously or unconsciously. It takes a deliberate decision to start looking more inward than outward for validation. It is very liberating. People slowly begin to adjust to the new version of you. Start slowly by setting some boundaries and stick to them.

[@DawnNqobaMoyo]

I like how self aware Rachel is❤

[@shamimkagere]

Rachael is quite a wise mind, she extensively looks into issues. Great conversation ladies, you are all really smart.

[@karene_B]

Racheal speaks with ease like an intellectual

[@lakiizarungi1760]

Haha, I've been a quiet listener, but I couldn't resist commenting today because of Manuella addressing those naysayers who just want to bring you down. Big shoutout to you ladies! I absolutely love every episode you broadcast, and it's refreshing how each of you brings your own unique flavor to the table.

[@kirundazuena9219]

Kati oba what was i grapling with to miss watching this episode 😅 banange this Life! First, the lumpens that Miss Manuela spoke about banange,,,,, don't they realise that you always give 2 sides of a coin? Watching this episode now,,,i had a hard decision to make this morning. I thought all through it while peeling matooke😅. And came to a conclusion that it's not the kind of life i want. If i were to follow, i would be breaking my personal principles and it would catch up with me though it's enticing as per now. I decided to let go. Personally i also never struggle with making my own decisions because i put myself first and through it all. I learnt ignoring public opinion a bit early in my life. Thank you for this episode. With love from bump love viewers ❤

[@berthatendo8776]

I relate to Rachel, I seek validation from others about my decisions. I'm working on stopping this and being confident in the decisions i make on my own

[@mwebazacharity1240]

Me too...🙋thanks for the show ladies

[@dianeseromba5743]

I love how different u ladies are here..the show is meaningful & well balanced. Pumla u just said everything right. U're so articulate.

[@jdm3762]

Racheal, theres strength, resolve and wisdom in that place you sit. A quiet yet sound kind of strength. I really appreciate your vulnerable and honest takes.

[@ajNKaj]

Pumla is my crone!!! Am 60 and i hear me in her view!! Love ya!! But must admit she is the new improved version❤

[@adultspurpose]

The wind took me to my destiny... as a grown up, I have decided to start ADULTS an organisation to help young people find their purpose early in life. Raising Purpose-Elevating Impact. Today is my day...I will learn a lot from you girls. Thank you for coming up with this topic

[@daphinenamuli7566]

@adults-groomingyouth how does one get in touch with you

[@preciousrushwaya4640]

You guys are awesome… the whole lot of you. So smart, so God-fearing…balanced, vulnerable…beautiful, well-groomed! Your fellow African sister (Zimbabwean-Australian) loves you so much. One month into my Bump Love journey… I am watching at least 3 shows a day… hey, there is so much goodness here…I need it ALL. 😀 Sending you love from Australia… ❤❤❤

[@lydialynkyagera5231]

Proverbs 22:6 is for Sister Pumla today. Much as she's not practicing Christianity today(from what i've heard her say), she can quote the bible sooooooooo well and i am so happy for that. All in all your panel is full of brains and every friday is a lecturer for me. Thanks for educating the world and being real❤❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

"Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it" I love that verse. Such truth. Thank you.

[@yustaqueen3857]

Am just thinking if u could be training the up coming bumb love squard hahahhaha

[@peruthmwenkanya2508]

I can relate with Manuela on the marriage decision... My husband was not my type but am glaaaaad I chose him🥰🥰.. he's one of the best decisions I've made in life.. Am so sure God created him for me❤

[@OliviaByamu]

Same here.

[@DamalieK]

And how do u gals then deal with them for it to work out? Coz it isn't easy

[@Dorcusmuhenda]

I'm at this moment now so confused God

[@peruthmwenkanya2508]

@@DamalieKI dint like him at first, but later fell for him coz of how he treated and loved me... then I fell for person that he is.. I had judged the book by its cover and I was going to miss out on a wonderful person

[@DamalieK]

@@peruthmwenkanya2508 and then there is a situation wea yo heart loves him but he is literally not the type u wanted. I don't know if u get, or it makes no sense🤩

[@phionahbobo8781]

Pumla, what a lady my goodness. How do you know almost everything. I love you much ❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahaha! I hardly know anything. Just learning.

[@MarionAsingya]

Today am just appreciating Racheal's glow😍😍😍 Racheal you are looking very very beautiful, with positive energy 💪💪💪💪

[@MeloXtie]

Its called self healing.. Extremely important

[@marykujukira7430]

Listening to this has reminded me that, intimacy with God is a cure for all insecurities 😊thank you for the show❤

[@karene_B]

For sure, with the knowledge here, bump love should get 100k subscribers by the end of this year … With love from bump love 😁

[@mcLeah1]

Seeking Social approval comes from insecurities....our decisions affect us. People can advise but deciding is mine and am like Rosette... once God validates ebirala background noise. Thanks guys, from each one of u I learn something 🎉❤

[@kevinbukirwa8923]

Pumla is such a blessing to us❤

[@ckks0nyoutube]

Rachael was right about personality types, there are people who are not rational, logical in their approach to life and while they will arrive they are wired to sit in their emotions and must marinade in them to go forward! They actually don’t like to be rushed through their emoting process. There is nothing rational about emotions

[@gracegift7994]

Purpose filter The assessment check list Life is for me When God validates. What do I want Asanteni ladies ❤❤❤❤❤

[@lizzienntate]

Hi ladies, Great topic. I made a decision of taking care of my kids cause my hubby has a busy schedule. But now I am doing an online degree in year 3. Looking at more of my career now because the last ones are 6 years. Thax for the show, I appreciate.

[@cimaknewdeal]

PUMLA YOU ARE VERY INTELLIGENT

[@viviennenabukenya2568]

The fact that i am currently reading "THE MIDNIGHT LIBRARY" . Its a book about choices and regrets..... Everyone relates to this discussion for real❤

[@miriakasemiire4529]

Yello, who is the author

[@viviennenabukenya2568]

@@miriakasemiire4529 Matt Haig is the author

[@collettenakabuye9180]

Like when i start listening to Pumla mba sagala amale kwogera. Kudos Governor Pumla

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahahaha! Kudos received ❤

[@KatereggaJanepher-ci9zu]

Have been struggling with a hard decision but pumla’s way is a waaawooo for me.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

I swear to you. It works. All the best with your decision making

[@HellenKabasiiga]

Pumla with the brilliant explanations, you ladies are so filled with wisdom, love it for you all, kisses and hugs to Racheal my fave 😘

[@munduaoyiru]

Everything Pumla has said, I have been living sub consciously. from how I make decisions to learning to forgive myself and understanding that my decisions have consequences I cannot run away from. A lot to take from this episode. Thanks Ladies!

[@komugishaconnie8348]

Bambi sure you gals are so real, go gals, let the lumpins be❤

[@shamimkagere]

Pumla is well informed, I like her analytics on issues

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you Shamim. I try to do right by our Bump Lovers

[@shamimkagere]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 and you are doing a fantastic job!

[@kammusic22]

I have made the toughest decisions in life, I don't care as long as I am happy I move.

[@farahkimera9376]

Thank you ladies,I learned the hard way after my parents passed on that I don't have to please everyone,for as long as my spouse,my children are happy,I don't care about public opinion.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Sorry & hugs to you about your parents. Glad you sought the lesson 🙏🏾

[@Deedor72]

Hugs dear losing a parent is the most painful thing I've ever faced. I can't compare it even to an after surgery pain awww..bless you

[@joanahbeckiejojo1339]

Ooohh wow...... In some conversations, this crew reminds me of my school time girlfriends. 🤣🤣🤣😍😍😍😍😍 I love the way you people connect during the discussions. Go dear ladies,, Love.❤

[@karlosovia3726]

You ladies have got me addicted to this this program, your always spot on, I personally love the fact that you have taken over Ssenga's job description in Uganda, companies like UN should consider working with you guys to reach out to people in various communities

[@rasheedahbintali7100]

Amen❤

[@thurayyanaslo3478]

Addiction is the word

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Blessing received 🙏🏾

[@MarthaAseu]

Oti lumpens hahahaha....Ladies this episode is🔥🔥Lots of love...That aside public opinion 🙄Missed Angie my former classmate and OG🤗

[@EuniceAdubango]

Last week I was teaching my teenager and preteen about decisions (choices). I told them that sometimes you don’t need to even go to the prayer meeting, if only you made the right decision. And most people are going about from prayer meeting to another because they started off with a bad decision. And coming from me (a prayerer) is such a big one. We must make informed researched well thought out prayed through decisions.

[@lornahrashel1920]

Well said Eunice, i have made decisions and then when they back fire I start praying and beat myself so hard.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Oh yes Eunice. And we must teach these children of ours about the power and process of decision making. We must host you on Bump love one of these days ❤

[@praisepheonah337]

The 25 year old me wishes this video had been available, then..... Thank you ladies, this was great

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

You and me both

[@grace30383]

Yeah.Decision Making so tough but necessary. Eveyone ought to make a decission in life and own it.

[@mutonijustine8232]

Thank you bumplove ladies youre doing a great work please if u get time discus on financial issues between married couples

[@asiolydiaomiat7518]

Recho,I too struggle with the desire for validation. And I feel like its affecting mostly my marriage. I really always lookout for my husbands approval yet many times, he just thinks I should just do what I want

[@sarahKnabukenya]

Pumla just reflects what my life's Story is. Can't share much but atleast now I've the confidence to know that I've not been weird😮😊

[@zaharahbadru7736]

Yesterday my husband told me that iv changed positively wc has given him alot of peace, loved me more and also he feels lyk he owes me alot of his tym, care and a better husband coz of my change. I also acknowledge that iv changed but i was doing it for my self but little did i knw that it wl positively cbange my marriage. Iv been able to do all this coz of Allah's guidance and the weekly lessons i learn from u ladies. Uv honestly been a greatest pillar in our marriages to us who find it hard to speak up and even seek for guidance and help. Please continue changing other people's lives and May the God Lord reward u fo this.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

I'm totally awake for this comment. Thank you Zahara for not just being here but also doing the work to make your life even more beautiful ❤

[@ajNKaj]

Love you all!!!!❤ mama bonus from Hungary formerly in holland

[@MorayoAhunanya]

This platform has been such a blessing 🙌 Thank you ladies... Pumla, Manuela, Rossette, Rachel, Angie, you all are loved all the way from Nigeria ❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

NIGERIAAAAAAAAA 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 WOOOOOOOOT! Karibuni Morayo

[@MorayoAhunanya]

​@pumlanabachwa8668 Whoop Whoop!!! There are many of us here learning from and rooting for you all 🎉🎉🎉 Love you specially Pumla, thank you for all you do ❤

[@nimusiimasarah]

​@@pumlanabachwa8668hello Pumla,I would love to talk to you personally.. Thanks..I need some kinda of advice from you dear

[@Hbr990]

Thanks for the Edutainment ❤.

[@nivycarolnamanja7089]

i had to come and watch previous episodes. i miss you guys. love Nivy❤⚫🔴🟢

[@nassuunachristine1223]

People think I don't forgive simply because if I let go am never letting you in again in my space but they forget that before I decide to let go I have given the friendship or relationship all the chances and finally am completely done👌 work related decisions still I compare and contrast then add and subtract 🙆🤦then make a decision which am always ready for the out come

[@daisyskitchen_uganda]

Forgiveness doesn't equal access! Forgive and deny access

[@privilegedewah765]

You have been speaking to me throughout this year.l am becoming the better version of myself

[@rankzkate]

I am so multifaceted .I excelled in sciences and went on to become an Engineer but I can also belt a tune to the heavens and run and swim and cook and do everything .One day I want to be a journalist, the next time I want to become a lawyer ,next minute I want to be a doctor .It is so hard to make decisions on where or what to settle for.

[@Flourish_today]

Yours are good problems to have😊. All you have to do is pick what you want.

[@flavianabendene939]

Your not alone😂😂😂😂😂

[@privilegedewah765]

Ladies you rock .Have been glued to your episodes since the beginning of the year.Continue the good work

[@florencestanford3032]

Thank you so much ladies for always opening up mind, I’m proud that my home country has these intelligent women, I look forward to the program! Please let arrange a meet a great for all the bump lovers xxxx

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Meet & Greet is coming 😊 Thank you Florence

[@nakalembemaidah4723]

The way you inspire me Pumla❤!

[@christinenjeriwaithaka7293]

I have been a BumpLove fan for a while but I must admit this is probably the one episode that struck me the most. Such a timely episode ❤I relate most to Rachel and the need for external approval. Challenged to go away and develop that decision-making muscle. “Life is for me” - my greatest take away (Pumla) Ladies you are doing an incredible job, keep up the good work.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Life is FOR you Njeri ❤

[@zalwangograce1110]

Me too 😢

[@simplymollywin7591]

This is so informative dear girls. Thank you 😊

[@kaitulillian5794]

I have gone for check up,but us am waiting for my doctor, am tuning in my bump love session. This upload was for me bambi,nayee public leave us alone 😂

[@mirembemonica8540]

Hi Lillian

[@kaitulillian5794]

Hello Mirembe

[@rasheedahbintali7100]

Indeed

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

I hope the check up turned out fine. May it be well.

[@kaitulillian5794]

@pumlanabachwa8668 it was Antenatal check up . But it was successful

[@ingridstef3931]

Dear Bumplove, i am from Burundi and this segment just help me on a decision that i am struggling with. thank you for sharing your journey

[@riza6558]

🎉 This was a conversation I needed to hear!!! Thank you so so much ~ You gals covered all areas; Faith and Emotions in making these decisions!!!! At midlife, I am making changes but above all else, am making them True to myself and Trusting God. No regrets!! Thank You for validating my optimism Xx

[@haliimanamuddu8110]

Bump love is a real force to be reckoned with. Bakyala tusiima❤

[@ABrenda]

Ladies you are actually sent from heaven to make us have a good life here as we sail through our chances of this life and navigate our decision making struggles.All i can say is that thank you so much.God bless you for sure Ladies 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉I totally appreciate you for helping me in person to learn how over come public Opinion because i used to really struggle because of that but today i am walking away with enormous confidence after watching this show that i can totally achieve my dreams no matter what the world says. Thank you once again 🎉. Note i wrote chances not challenges because i believe each day God gives us a chance to life so what we face are not challenges but chances ❤

[@bakiyanandhegonabutanda9728]

I struggle a lot with decision making,let me camp here and thanks a lot for the show.

[@virendavictoria5174]

Watching you from Tanzania, your program is amazing thank you girls ❤

[@salmahassan2652]

I’m a non decisive person I struggle so much but trying to drive it in a spiritual direction always asking God on big decisions these days

[@MVal250]

Seek the lessons! Give Pumla her flowers 💐

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Seek the lessons 🙏🏾

[@namatachristine8359]

I love you Pumla you are such a genius keep up. And all women on the show I love you thanks for the good work

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thankful that you are here ❤

[@barbraayesiga2036]

Manuella and Rosette, i relate so much with what you have shared... above all, we consider God's will for us

[@FlaviaMushabe]

Ladies, nze big fun mbade mbuza, when are we celebrating our 5th anniversary(2018-2023) and where😂

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahahaaaaa! I love this foras 😂. Let us work on it.

[@idahnjeru3582]

This feels like it's speaking to me.. Being uncomfortable/unsettled in a space that is "desired" and a space I had prayed for,for years.

[@heygirltoday]

I truly appreciate your consistency. Please keep up the excellent work, and I also want to express my gratitude for the valuable content you share.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you Heygirl ❤

[@AliceTusubira-ef5nb]

You guys don't know what you have done for a 20 year old today.... thank you ❤️❤️

[@jackiezcribbabycenter8083]

This I have been waiting for. Rosette, I hear you. My hardest decision was between my career and my children. Giving birth at the onset of my career woo, it was hard to leave my babies for a job. As much as I needed the money, God had His plans. From wanting 2 kids, I found myself to 5 . 3 boys first, my desire to have a girl... God knew I had to get her at the 4th try and God has been faithful, I don't regret taking care of my babies than chasing the money, but woo. That came with many public opinions.

[@grace30383]

Its well my dear.Public Opinions my.... 😡

[@roseviela.30]

Oh wow.. It can be tough but God is faithful

[@faidajackie9149]

I am glade to be part of the program. I love al the program 😊

[@angelatumuhairwe5545]

Ladies, this was powerful👏👏👏👏👏

[@MozePrince699]

Rosette spoke so well. love /marriage is a commitment/covenant