I definitely believe this. I always told him if we don't work out, it'll be because of him and I was right. After the love, dedication, empathy, support and understanding I provided, he still discarded me. Today in my healing journey, I am so blessed and thankful for the discard. He never deserved someone like me.
@byhistripes3162 күн бұрын
I told her the same thing, if it doesn’t work out it won’t be because of me. And she could never understand what I said, she even used it against me in arguments. I’m like yeah, that went right over your head. And now look…exactly what I said came to fruition. Be well sis. ❤
@MaryJaneGiles2 күн бұрын
Wow, thank you! It has been 4 years, and this brought tears for everything you said is absolutely true. My love was pure beyond words. God keeps giving the narcissist mercy and opportunity to change but those demons wouldn't allow it and their own choices is what they have to live with forever.
@helenduffy6642Күн бұрын
Hi, I agree with with you. I had it for 50yrs. I'm still alive to tell people how great God is. ❤❤
@VictorianTexas2 күн бұрын
I hadn't considered these things. I have experienced God using brokenness for my good. Letting go is the beginning of healing and I'll embrace the temporary pain. I wish you all peace and joy along the way!
@MaryJaneGiles2 күн бұрын
You are awesome. God bless you!
@MaryJaneGiles2 күн бұрын
They do.hoover, they are experts at this. It's been years that he left and messaged me through someone I forgot to delete. Don't forget those flying monkeys they send, too. Piece of work. I still pray for him, but I was through when he walked out. It's taken a lot of hard work to get over him because of the trauma bond. But the best thing I ever did. To all of you survivors, peace, and love.
@helenduffy6642Күн бұрын
What great information and very encouraging. I am thriving and going in a new direction. The Lord is good even if i was struggle for years he was always there. Thank you. ❤❤
@TheFelix243 күн бұрын
Amen, Amen, and Amen 🙏 🙌 👏🏿
@ninak5124Күн бұрын
I hear you. I lost my only son in the same way. Im sick of people saying that "God" was using me as a lesson! The narc is cruel and so is any God who allows this. The final nail in the coffin is that narcs are fine. They don't care and just go on. Disgusting creatures, demons, and they get away with it becuz they are SO FING CRAZY!! I have pain and disgust.
@khanjanki82074 күн бұрын
Well said powerfull motivation brother really lm following you everyday and not missing your vibes your"e blowing my mind and opening it the way brain should fangsheng Amen
@tijanilamin689Күн бұрын
Amazing words of wisdom. Spots on. Many thanks 😣
@JacquelinePletscher-x9w3 күн бұрын
I keep hearing non my head “You will be their karma”. I instinctively know this
@roseboll13664 күн бұрын
Loved this so much!
@erichargaden3974 күн бұрын
Powerful insights
@ozraine751Күн бұрын
Thank you❤
@chitramarathe7619Күн бұрын
Thanks so much ❤
@vashtiwilliams18743 күн бұрын
I job I didn't want! Why did I have to suffer for their lesson 🤮
@bgbinoy82763 күн бұрын
Amen🙏🙏🙏❤️
@kenneth74913 күн бұрын
Thank you
@kenneth74913 күн бұрын
Gosh going thu it with the narc wife. And now i gotta live with a guy who dwells on his past all the time . Ugh this is torture. Where are the true children of God.
@breandabrown46833 күн бұрын
❤
@bettywinn82962 күн бұрын
I was "used" by GOD as a "sacrificial lamb!" I am furious finding this out becayse I fell in love with him. He broke my 💔. I was shattered. I had just lost my only child, my son, yo suicude. I didn't deserve this "cruel" lesson to me only to teach him a f'ng lesson! I suffered fir the last three years. I will never be the same. I'm was destroyed just to save this piece of s***. I'm FREE!!! What a price I had to pay. Screw you.
@VictorianTexas2 күн бұрын
I know your pain and I'm so sorry you're going through this heartache. Dad, brother and son-in-law took their lives. Much of our pain is believing we could have stopped them. That' couldn't be further from the truth. God gives us all free will. Remember our sufferings are temporal. We'll be reunited with them in Heaven. God tells us not to lean into our understanding and I've found this to be true.