You'll See These Signs When God Removes a Narcissist From Your Life

[@Kris_Reece]

FREE Narcissist Survival Guide krisreece.com/narcissist-survival-guide/

[@skdais]

Thanks sooooooo much❤

[@roslyntucker590]

I needed to hear this.

[@roslyntucker590]

Wow !!! You’re right

[@godisgood9173]

Your a LYING BICCH! Stop misleadng people to make a BUCK! False Prophet!

[@lyndadoerner5341]

💛

[@danieb4273]

It's been said.... When the devil can't get to you, he'll send a narcissist.

[@1Immanuel8]

100%

[@Dandelion0962]

Their 1 in the same robes.

[@skdais]

@@danieb4273 I like that saying

[@楊宜強]

I was just saying to a friend I don't know why I married him. This is the reason ! Thanks for sharing 👍

[@skdais]

Looking at it that way does make it a tiny bit easier to take.

[@Clevelandsteamer324]

Sometimes rejection is God’s protection. He hears the conversations behind our backs

[@nicholasaltieri8333]

I love that

[@beautiful_one5915]

They are definitely trying to sabotage..even worse when it's a spouse

[@rhondae8222]

@@beautiful_one5915 Agreed!

[@theresaruemenapp3563]

Exactly

[@mistythompson5356]

Amen!!

[@jewels4817]

So glad to see the Christian community addressing narcissisism.

[@rynnykitty6945]

@jewels4817 unfortunately they are in the church! Be careful

[@deksper]

@@rynnykitty6945 Yes. The instituted church was never God's template for fellowship and true growth. Narc's (Devil's) favourite playground ... Thanks pastors - NOT!

[@Leannot35]

​​@@rynnykitty6945they sure are, it is shocking to me

[@immirvine2825]

Yes agree. I know now that God removes to protect me and my spirituality. The removal is not permanent. On a daily basis, he is removed for an hour at a time when he seeks other company where we live in a community. I use these times of separation to pray and heal and welcome these pockets of time. I used to resent these times, bit now I understand and welcome it. Praise God.

[@mic396]

Apathy has replaced Empathy! In communities 🎉🎉🎉

[@Gail-j8r]

I am being discarded right now. I believe God is pulling me closer to him . I understand God wants me away from this person.

[@Liz-in8lu]

I wish I was as confident as you are. I’m going through discard and the guy leaving, but I’m second-guessing if I could’ve done something better if I listened to God better.

[@mikefigueroa4075]

I was discarded one month ago. I am pretty devastated. I do see God in this. She slowly but surely stopped all church going and seeking God with me. I see All this but I still miss her so much. Or I miss what we had so much. Just hurts.

[@whitedoveoutpouring]

God bless you! ❤

[@mikefigueroa4075]

@@Liz-in8lu same. But. That won’t bring her back. She is done. I just have to deal with it.

[@Delfina-Zafira]

@@Gail-j8r Going through discard out of the blue 😭 after nearly 10 years together. I am abroad, visiting my home country, he calls me one day and says I can't even go back to our home because he doesn't want me anymore 😭😭😭 All this when I was already very stressed dealing with dentist appointments and an accident that left me with some level of concussion. I just can't comprehend the whole thing 😞

[@CHDRCJ]

Narcissistic mate died in his sleep. No illness total shock. Just dead. Left quite the financial mess for daughter and me. Please pray for us. ❤❤❤❤

[@ShawnStokes-fu9wp]

You are definitely in my prayers so sorry for your loss. God will provide. My late husband passed away from covid 19 in 2021. He was a narcissist, big-time 😢

[@realestatecoach8626]

Wow!

[@childoftheking2214]

I am sure the time and stress sorting out the mess he left behind will be far less damaging than the damage he would have done to you and your child had he lived. I speak from experience. God will help you get through this. Surround yourself with wise people.

[@LHarris-h8y]

My narcissist husband died one yr ago. He also left a huge financial mess for me. Not a penny in the bank and a broken down suv. And he had gone on a smear campaign, so I have several neighbors who won't even speak with me. I'm close to having the bills caught up. The suv is a whole other problem. I wish I could fix it, but I'll likely never have enough money to do so. In the months before he passed, I prayed to God to let me come home. I was at the end of what I could continue to take. Instead, my husband died. I'm on O2, and for several years, I have had breathing problems. Oftentimes, feeling like a band was wrapped tightly around my chest, crushing me. In the last year, I haven't felt that crushing in my chest. It's completely gone. I can relax and breathe.

[@redafro321]

@@LHarris-h8y It’s my thought 💭 that God removed your spouse permanently bc his presence was absolutely unhealthy for you. You couldn’t endure anymore toxicity. God’s protection is everything‼️💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝 What a breath of fresh air for you‼️💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝WHAT HE WON’T DO⁉️🙏🏽

[@JESUSCHRIST91126ad]

I just wanted to say anyone that is going through this my heart truly goes out to you... Praying for you and your future, DONT GIVE UP

[@JC7-Syracuse]

A woman can’t teach the Bible. So whatever she says in this video is not of The Most High of the scripture..

[@lulu-qw8xy]

@kevinwilson6270 Thank you ❤

[@Kellycantlose]

Thank you I needed to read that

[@Kellycantlose]

Thank you I needed to read that❤

[@eaglesview888]

Thank you 🙏🏻

[@kelly-sg4pw]

The narcissist has a mental stronghold that needs to be removed. It is spiritual bondage.

[@lizielita]

How? Some spiritual tool? I'd like to hear, ty.

[@russellfield5010]

​@@lizielitaDemonic strongholds can only be taken down and cast out by the power of the Holy Spirit.

[@kelly-sg4pw]

@lizielita Praise all day music. Demons cannot have power in the sanctuary. Did it it worked. God began healing me of codependency and the spirit of PAIN. Deny self and we win. PlacingvHim back in His rightful place in that area. He then removed the enemy and I had PEACE. AND HE SHOWED ME THE LIE WHEN I RANDOMLY OPENED THE BIBLE...JOB 21 AND 22. DO NOT LOOK AT THE PRIDEFULL AND WICKED, IT IS SIN. HE IS A GOD OF FREEWILL AND GRACE NOT BONDAGE AND JUDGMENT. NOT UNTIL THE SECOND ADVENT. THE WICKED ARE HERE TO CORRECT ( VESSELS OF WRATH) AND BRING OUT WHATS IN US. CHOOSE SUFFERING HUMILITY BECAUSE THAT IS WHERE HE IS. HE IS NOT LOOKING AT THE PRIDEFUL. HE IS ON THE CROSS IN CERTAIN AREAS OF OUR MIND, UNTIL WE LOOSE THE HOLY SPIRIT, WE DO THIS THROUGH...HUMILITY TO GOD. HE LED ME TO JOB 21 AND 22. DO NOT LOOK AT THE WICKED, IT IS SIN. Itcsays too when you are healed you will tell others that God raises up the humble one. THAT IS THE MESSAGE FROM GOD. ❤️ HUMBLY SEEK AND RECEIVE THE GOODNESS OF GOD FOR IT IS CHASING AFTER YOU. ( THAT SONG CAME TO ME 4 XS IN 7 HOURS IN STRANGE WAYS. IT IS TGE TOOL TO USE AND SAYS SO IN THE LYRICS) HS GAVE ME THIS SONG TO KEEP ME IN THE PROTECTION OF GOD, TAKE EVERY THOUGHT CAPTIVE WITH THE WORD💥✝️❤️ PAIN IS A SPIRIT. THE WALLS OF JERICHO FELL BY PRAISE, WALLS/ MENTAL STRUCTURES IN THE MIND FALL BY PRAISE. ALOT OF PRAISE.

[@kelly-sg4pw]

Praise.

[@kelly-sg4pw]

Praise all day music. Demons cannot have power in the sanctuary. Did it it worked. God began healing me of codependency and the spirit of PAIN. Deny self, and we win. Placing him back in His rightful place in that area. He then removed the enemy, and I had PEACE. AND HE SHOWED ME THE LIE WHEN I RANDOMLY OPENED THE BIBLE...JOB 21 AND 22. DO NOT LOOK AT THE PRIDEFULL AND WICKED. IT IS SIN. HE IS A GOD OF FREEWILL AND GRACE NOT BONDAGE AND JUDGMENT. NOT UNTIL THE SECOND ADVENT. THE WICKED ARE HERE TO CORRECT ( VESSELS OF WRATH) AND BRING OUT WHATS IN US. CHOOSE SUFFERING HUMILITY BECAUSE THAT IS WHERE HE IS. HE IS NOT LOOKING AT THE PRIDEFUL. HE IS ON THE CROSS IN CERTAIN AREAS OF OUR MIND, UNTIL WE LOOSE THE HOLY SPIRIT, WE DO THIS THROUGH...HUMILITY TO GOD. HE LED ME TO JOB 21 AND 22. DO NOT LOOK AT THE WICKED, IT IS SIN. Itcsays too when you are healed you will tell others that God raises up the humble one. THAT IS THE MESSAGE FROM GOD. ❤️ HUMBLY SEEK AND RECEIVE THE GOODNESS OF GOD FOR IT IS CHASING AFTER YOU. ( THAT SONG CAME TO ME 4 XS IN 7 HOURS IN STRANGE WAYS. IT IS TGE TOOL TO USE AND SAYS SO IN THE LYRICS) HS GAVE ME THIS SONG TO KEEP ME IN THE PROTECTION OF GOD, TAKE EVERY THOUGHT CAPTIVE WITH THE WORD💥✝️❤️ PAIN IS A SPIRIT. THE WALLS OF JERICHO FELL BY PRAISE, WALLS/ MENTAL STRUCTURES IN THE MIND FALL BY PRAISE. ALOT OF PRAISE. Also, they are vessels of correction sometimes. Unfortunately God said... He gave " them power over His children" but they went too far and will be punished for it. Breaking a person's or animal's ➡️ spirit is ...going too far.

[@NicoleMcL-to1hy]

Was raised by 2 Narcs and broke the generational curses!!😊

[@godblessksusha]

You are so strong and great❤ God bless uuu

[@jaye3848]

Praying the same for our 2 Grandaughters ❤ To break the generational curses of their father's family🙏

[@NicoleMcL-to1hy]

@@jaye3848 praying 🙏🏻

[@julesgreen5079]

@@NicoleMcL-to1hy congratulations 🥳 it takes courage (action) to love yourself.

[@ZoeyLovesHawaii]

Congratulations ❤

[@moto3463]

I got discarded on my birthday. God heard what I didn’t and saved me. He’s always a step ahead. Amen.

[@NitaReed-rt8ms]

Oh no! How mean of him! Im so sorry! I was dumped by my husband a few months ago but believe Gid removed him for my good...but it hurts terribly regardless! Waiting for better days ahead

[@annmarievalenti9264]

Every birthday

[@slellis3]

Yes, God removed him…prayed daily…I saw the “demon” in his eyes…scary….Divorced him.

[@latonyaturner3729]

@@slellis3 I saw the darkness, demon, depravity in my husband eyes also.

[@ntswakireginahmakale2482]

Saw the same in my husband The coldness, hatred & cruelty. & other people don't see it I served him divorce papers last week & came thru this today

[@KM-kn6nu]

⁠So sorry you all went through that. Proud of you for leaving! 🫶🏻

[@Tami7884]

Same here.. flat black eyes, and a crazy look while yelling and over what I didn't know most of the time. Was very intimidating and I literally felt it, in my spirit.. I was at war. The way it looked at me, it wanted me gone. He moved out because of my health was suffering bad and doctors told me to get a hold of the issue causing the stress.. They knew it was him. My primary the first go around said he was borderline... And I was better off without him! These kind of people are not from God, and I don't see how God blesses that marriage... Especially when it is so chaotic that after a while and you know something is really wrong that as Kris said, God is moving them out of your life for your protection!!!

[@heatherschmidt109]

I’ve seen the eyes over and over again. Same eyes, different men. All demonic, hateful, and abusive. I could tell those eyes wanted me to die a slow death.

[@rhonnesanelms8969]

When narcissists couldn't find any recent mistakes,they're quick to remind us of our shameful past.❤

[@skdais]

Or they'll just make up something.

[@rhonnesanelms8969]

@@skdais 😳👍WHOA ‼️You know what? I really like your response. You're absolutely right.💐

[@dee1380]

@@skdais that part..

[@rhonnesanelms8969]

@@dee1380 🤣👍You're funny (in a cute way).

[@immirvine2825]

Yes how true

[@kelly-sg4pw]

They neglect your words and feelings and boast to you about their doings.

[@jeffjohnsonfutdoc]

So true...I experience this almost each day from a narc in my life

[@felinaoreite]

Oh yeah. He put out 2 trophies he had from our young days. So I put out all mine. 28 yrs. Done. He got a new girlfriend at work, gave me her diseases, and uses the gate at the HOA where they both work to make even getting clothing, a tortuous experience. I thought he was loyal. I knew he just sucked up my money like a hoover, but I thought he was too lazy to cheat. I wish I could go back, so bad, and never meet him.

[@donnadallariva8377]

It is always about them & the attention they demand to get.

[@BahunR]

Dear God I pray that you will protect my children from narcissist abusive and disastrous marriage relationship and protect them from evil men and women Amen

[@lindaaih]

@@BahunR amen 🙏🏾

[@wisdomyashagral3058]

Amen Amen

[@OroSkillz78]

If we have kids, God is not removing them from our lives. We are stuck with them, and so are our kids. Am I missing something?

[@cld1900]

When you said the “hardening of their heart toward you,” it rang so clearly true. I shared with my husband recently, “it feels to me like you really enjoy the notion of being married, you just don’t want to be married to me.” Thank you for sharing that truth. Discernment is important, but can be very painful at the same time. Please pray for me, I am painfully struggling. Bless you.

[@ResourcefulYem]

I stopped praying for restoration 2 months ago and started praying for God’s will to prevail using Proverbs 19:21. Then, God removed him effortlessly by their own doing.

[@oldsouloriginal]

Oh man, I followed you all the way until you started talking about the divorce and "let no man separate what God has put together" but sooo many marriages, most of the marriages, God did not put together, they were outside of God's will from the very beginning.

[@LittleKitty22]

Very true! Think of all the "marriages" that are based on dishonesty... one partner only in it for a visa/passport (immigration marriage fraud) or money or status, all the "marriages" that are only based on the man thinking with a bodypart other than his brain/heart (and soon getting bored because such relationships never last), and - the majority of marriages - where one party is loving and genuine but the other is an abusive narcissist whose only intention is to destroy his/her partner... All of the above are not marriages. They are scams. Any innocent party who got involved in that, ie the party who entered the marriage with a loving heart expecting to be married for the rest of his/her life, will have to realize that this "marriage" was a scam and that he/she therefore was never married. There was no husband or wife - there was only the devil!

[@kelly-sg4pw]

@oldsouloriginal My ex and myself were saved in two different places at the same time without knowing. Answered my prayer, recently he got.... divorced but God is using both of us to grow in truth. GOD LEADS. HE revealed to me he healed my ex, so now I wait to SEE THE MANIFESTATION. NO CHANGE NO US. SAFETY AND God's will first. Stay safe always. Adding.. The Bible states that if a man and woman no longer want to be with each other, then let them go. It is written in the OT. The NT states that divorce is forgivable. You might want to get a teacher who can take the words in the Bible back to the original language in the transcripts and LEARN WHAT THE FACTS. How bless you. No harm, churches teach doctrines of man, ideology subversion. Began after WW2. Yuri Benmenov KZbin ideology subversion is one of many sources. Oh, and for proper translation ifvthe Word of God ; SMYRNA CHURCH OF KOKOMO KZbin. IF YOU WANT additional sources, let me know. You, too, can take every word back to the original transcripts for the proper meaning using THW COMPANION BIBLE BY KREGEL AND THE STRONG'S CONCORDANCE ❤️

[@kelly-sg4pw]

THIS IS A REPLY for those who do not know what the Bible actually teaches concerning DIVORCE . Separation for sure. It is written what fellowship does light have with Satan 😳. God is using me and him to heal and restore, but we are divorced. God can separate and restore, trust His lead. AMEN 🙏 🙌 👏 ❤️ ✨️The Bible states that if a man and woman no longer want to be with each other, then let them go. It is written in the OT. The NT states that divorce is forgivable. You might want to get a teacher who can take the words in the Bible back to the original language in the transcripts and LEARN WHAT THE FACTS are. God bless you. No harm, churches teach doctrines of man, ideology subversion. Began after WW2. Yuri Benmenov KZbin ideology subversion is one of many sources. Oh, and for proper translation of the Word of God ; SMYRNA CHURCH OF KOKOMO KZbin. IF YOU WANT additional sources, let me know. You, too, can take every word back to the original transcripts for the proper meaning using THE COMPANION BIBLE BY KREGEL AND THE STRONG'S CONCORDANCE ❤️

[@tongueoffireministry]

Yep. God told me not to marry my husband and I did anyway.

[@NoName-dr8wt]

​@@oldsouloriginal No. Marriage vows are sacred, regardless of consequences. The Bible says only for adultery is divorce justified. Of course, true abuse---REAL abuse, not mere "I don't like his tone of voice" bean hills---is already assumed (by Christ's holy character as well as common sense which He gave us all) to be grounds for divorce as well. Divorce, per the world's mamby-pamby logic, is repulsive to God. Unacceptable.

[@kimtreneman-pape6107]

They don’t change. Arguing with them is worthless. I’ve learned the hard way. I’ve mourned my relationship with him for years. Things can be going great, then boom he will blow up in my face, over and over. I’m tired..

[@VictorianTexas]

Do we ever know what sets them off? Mother, ex-husband and both daughters, all personality disordered. Now I worry for my 2 year old grandson and his daddy. My daughter rages at them. She wasn't always like this. I feel responsible. I can't protect them so I petition God to look after them. Was told I was too sensitive growing up. I think it sabotaged my ability to trust my perception of people. Maybe this happened to you. Trusting our gut could have been a safety net from what would later befall us. When I meet someone for the first time, I do a quick take. Within a few minutes I know my comfort level or lack of one. I'm tired and not living under the same roof. I wish you peace and joy. Be kind to yourself and do this often. You matter. Easy to forget that. 😇

[@freddahallford8856]

@@VictorianTexas I was frequently told “you’re too sensitive.” I’ve finally learned to love that part of who I am and no longer feel there’s something wrong with me. Divorced 35 years ago.

[@VictorianTexas]

@@freddahallford8856 Thank you!

[@lindad6351]

Rhetorical question: what do you need to do?

[@vitisbp1131]

​@@freddahallford8856 I heard that, too. It was used against me by an "elder" giving marital counseling. An "elder",... you know, those men who have "zero" training, little secular education, and who were trained "where" to put the blame during their "elder training school". What they mean is "don't feel, don't need, don't defend yourself, and don't ask for anything. Your husband is your head (in Christ) and he will tell you what to think." Christ NEVER gaslighted his bride.

[@kelly-sg4pw]

Codependency is idolatry of man and narcissism is idolatry of self. They are attracted to each other and they are tormented by each other to TURN THEM BACK TO GOD. BEEN THERE. GOD heals❤

[@Jessica_Lynn3007]

I'm using that one! I think the biggest lesson God was trying to teach me was to not put my faith in man.

[@HeSaidICouldntDoIt]

Well said

[@beatrixatthecchwclub5620]

well said

[@blaquecinderella3560]

This👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾

[@oliverhill113]

Wow! You sum it up beautifully.🙏🙂

[@lynettedebeer5312]

Please Lord let this be long term removal. I've been through enough the past 18 years of this 28 year marriage with this man and his cheating, manipulation, narcissism, heartache. I need to heal and live a happy life now 🙏🙏

[@latonyaturner3729]

God will strengthen you to not let him back in your life. When you let them back it gets worse.

[@jesmonitesingapore7779]

Im going through the same now and is dying to my self every sec. Praying for u

[@AmandaPanda83]

You can do this! You must get away, or start making the plan if you need to. I got away from mine and I’m probably only alive today because I finally left.

[@KM-kn6nu]

Break the Trauma Bond!! Seek counseling and support groups. The withdrawals will suck but trust me, freedom is Beautiful and PEACEFUL!! And when healing your wounds you will be confused what u saw in him. Praise God for his protection

[@lindad6351]

@lynettedebeer5312 Infidelity is an acceptable reason for divorce. Seek wise counsel as the N will become enraged.

[@SA-ud9nf]

So right. No matter how gentle you are in your boundaries, the narxs don't care. 😮

[@audreyflannery5270]

God moved me three times in two years to protect me. God is good all the time. Praise God Praise Lord Jesus Amen

[@georgiabray8746]

I truly believe that God was involved in my narcissist husband leaving. I was at the end of my rope and didn’t even want to live anymore.

[@MiriamTyler-l9i]

@georgiabray8746 same! I wasn't quite there yet, but I was pregnant with my daughter and I regretted being pregnant even after trying for a year. My pregnancy with her was soooo rough and high risk and I was so terribly depressed and sick, it was an attack from the devil because she was my strength to leave and get my sons outta there! GOD has reveled sooo much, I prayed for years to show me what was in my husband's heart and boy is he showing me! My daughter has been my anchor from falling all yje way down. So arr my boys but my daughter was just 3m when I left so I couldn't fall, she needed me!

[@ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood]

Oh these real life accounts break my heart, having gone through something similar. May God help all Christian women going through this form of persecution from intimate relationships. Sometimes there are no words to describe what women and their children go through but there is comfort in knowing that our Creator understands, loves us unconditionally and makes a way out of certain situations. Maranatha.

[@tiffanyi.6459]

@@MiriamTyler-l9i - Sounds like my story! God is so good! Kids have a way of being the light in a dark room. Good for you getting out of there! They deserve a happy and healthy mama.

[@tracylynn7149]

I resonate because I felt my divorce was God saying “I need you to get out of my way” because as long as I was there the blame could continue to be put on me. Now there’s only him and a mirror. And I am no longer in constant turmoil.

[@kelly-sg4pw]

@tracylynn7149 lol, good for you. Now he really has TRUTH IN PLAIN SIGHT, SELF IDOLATRY. STAY BLESSED.

[@Traciwokeup]

@tracylynn7149 that is very encouraging. I don't plan on staying in this situation! I'm saving, & planning.

[@tongueoffireministry]

@@tracylynn7149 SAME!

[@AbamfoAtiemo]

It really excites me!

[@trevorphillips9576]

That is very good.

[@JourneySmith-t2b]

You described my husband of 22 years to a T, TRUTH! God help me. He has cheated MOST of our marriage. The only time he is intimate is for control. He has 3 characteristics: Offense, Control and Anger. He doesn't talk of Anything that is SUBSTANTIAL. I have felt the growing underlying hatred whilst he lovebombs me with words and promises he never keeps. All the while I am passionate about my relationship with the Lord and seek to serve Him More.

[@KM-kn6nu]

I’m so sorry he’s betrayed you. That’s biblical grounds for divorce.

[@lindad6351]

Get out. Infidelity is grounds for divorce. Seek wise legal advise and have an exit plan.

[@Heidi-xm6li]

I’m not a narc but I have had my heart hardened and it’s not a pleasant way to live. However, over the past few months, I have started to choose to heal and grow closer to God.

[@kariroderick1507]

I was discarded in early January. Years ago the Holy Spirit told me he wasn’t going to be around long . It came out of the blue and I am happier now and I now see God’s plan for my life .

[@WortundGebet]

i can relate to your expierience

[@godisgood9173]

carry your cross and deny yourself. Go read your bible and apply it to your life. Christianity is NOT a feeling its a commitment to obey GOD over YOUR WILL till the end of your life.

[@Liz-kr4pr]

?What if their hardened heart has made mine hardened? I tried, but the well has run dry. I am fighting to come back. I have hated and can't pray for them. I just can't yet. May God change me. I prayed. I distanced on God even. Horrible thoughts. You have enlightened me. But not there yet . Pray for me.?

[@grisselday905]

Thank you! I was recently discarded, and it's such a difficult journey, but thank you for reminding me that there is a life after this pain.

[@tah4397]

Did he die?

[@unamigo1977]

I feel like this video was sent by god for me, thank you very much

[@WortundGebet]

same

[@georgiabray8746]

Same

[@tammymcginty123]

@@unamigo1977 God ❤️

[@julieogorman501]

Same❤

[@tamikocoleman4488]

I recognized a spiritual disconnect! I noticed it long before I left him. Now I'm in a healthier place with Christ. I know God made a way of escape and I’m so grateful!

[@cyntrez1]

“Just let God be God” Couldn’t say it better 👌🏾

[@Jessica_Lynn3007]

I saw this on a comment section somewhere. "Codependency is idolatry of man. Narcissism is idolatry of self. They are attracted to each other and tormented by each other TO TURN THEM BACK TO GOD. BEEN THERE. GOD heals ♥️"

[@MissPooz]

I definitely have experienced the spiritual disconnect with my narcissist, absolutely!!! He's displayed cruelty, manipulation, and gaslighting. He's increased the frequency of his hatefulness. And he has now gone full discard of me, which, he thinks it's hurting me but in reality, I'm loving it! No longer do I hear his insults, passive-aggressive comments or ghosting. There were times when his smile seemed demonic and I sure don't miss seeing that!

[@GreasyBaconMan]

Contorted facial expressions that you don’t see in others.

[@Kharizmah]

Total Jekyll and Hyde, where they look like someone else. Black eyes and physical violence.

[@beverlyfox1688]

I begged God for years to help me respond correctly, but I got so broken in the end I said "please give me strength to keep handling this, or else remove him". And he left!

[@Puppylove82-gv3gm]

@beverlyfox1688 me in a nutshell. I was always a reactor to their b.s. and have been deemed a horrible person for standing up for myself and my son and husband. No contact really is the best way to go, but it's soo hard when it's your parents and inlaws .

[@Sheila-q4g]

Yup,that's me as well,except I'm still waiting for God to remove this covert narc away from me,I don't know,maybe I'm too damaged now for it to make a differrence,I'm a christian but because of the toxic abuse I swear more than ever and have a very bad attitude,kinda pessimistic,a broken vessel no doubt,but your comment is what I've always said,really nobody has the strength to endure the continuous assault from a monster,who knows what will transpire in my life,only God knows right?😇

[@Indy__isnt_it]

Ahhhh, maybe I'll try that tacticaler approach!!! We're divorced, but we've both been in and out of the hospital a few times EACH this year of 2024. The election was exciting with a positive result for us and the people around uss. Between hurricanes 3 good ones that kept us in the National news. Ian, 2018 got me the worse, 30" water made it's way under my travel trailer, in it also! They love to soak up the sun.

[@michellesucco396]

@beverlyfox1688 that is exactly what I dropped to my knees for and prayed the other morning🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@conniebabiuch5140]

I was married to a narcissist. I recognized this behavior at the same time I found out I was pregnant so I stayed too long. I got depressed oppressed and anxiety. Couldn’t get out of bed. My older kids ended up catching him cheating and told me. My divorce date in 2018 ended up being the birthday of my fiancé now that I met in 2019. He’s on fire for the lord and I’m a different woman today for what god did for me then tho hard at the time best it was the best thing that ever could have happened to me. Amen. Gods so good!!! He sees the bigger picture we can’t see. I’m seeing gods vision now and hearing his voice and my life is so much more fulfilling.

[@rmmottu]

Thank you for shedding a whole lot of light ... you always speak directly to me. "Do not see it as rejection, but as protection" I'm that empath that has decided NO MORE, Irefuse to accept this another day! Thank you Jesus for giving me a way out. This narc husband of mine finally committed adultery. I'll pray for him, but I'm out of this 15 year marriage. God, please help me on this new journey, we need healing & guidance. So thankful to grow nearer to you. I'm trusting you Lord and I stand on your word. Amen

[@Kingdomliving43]

Yes, please pray for my marriage. I really want God to deliver every demon spirit out of it the spirit of control, manipulation and condemnation and narcissism in Jesus mighty name.

[@rynnykitty6945]

You know them by their fruit! Acts like a Christian, knows the word but not walking in it! He pointed out others faults but not his own! God told me to "end it now"! Thats what I did!

[@2mckeans]

This is my narc to a tee.

[@OliveWeitzel]

Not every Christian, we don't get along with, is a narcissist! There are still different backgrounds, different education and different mindset... Do I have to tolerate every stupid talk because the person claims to be a christian?

[@rynnykitty6945]

@OliveWeitzel the person I'm speaking of is a narcissist! Now I know why the Lord told me "to end it now"!

[@dee1380]

the self-righteous pharisees..

[@MiriamTyler-l9i]

Yes! When he asked for me back, I prayed with so much pain, and God told me in bold letters HE WILL NEVER TELL THE TRUTH. That's all the confirmation I needed... it was the lies that were killing me, I knew the truth and he knew I knew it but still played mind games 😢

[@dancindebs1]

Bring justice and honor us with truth. Help them understand and know the power and glory of truth.

[@positivevibesjd]

The narcissist behaving people(some family members)brings a disruptive spirit to someone’s spirit who is healthy…. So I have learned to distance myself from disrespect… prayerfully always but let them go their way with their lies and I’ll go my way with truth👏🏼

[@sashmax2189]

Every bit of this speaks to me! The Lord separated me from my mother 3.5 yrs ago. He has taught me soooo much. I pray for her daily, but her heart is so hardened. I do not miss any of what she brought to my life. Father has given me hope and a new life in Him.

[@ashleyluna1735]

God did this for me. Earlier in spring

[@Pilgrim06]

Very wise observation at the fourth minute! It happened to me recently. When my narcissist stopped growing in Grace, the eyes and ears of his soul stopped picking up God’s messages. Yes, the fruits of Grace are the signifiers of a God- fearing person. Their dark oppressive character was affecting my relationship with Christ. So I prayed and the Lord answered my prayer in a flash! I am free to love Jesus with all my strength and all my love.

[@missjennygutierrez4691]

Wow I thought for many years that there would be answers for my separation and later divorce. I struggled a lot because I believe in the unity of the family. But Until this year after 9 years since he left us God talked to me during a prayer time and wispered into my heart ... I made him to leave you! and looking back I understood why... It has been a challenge every day to deal with all responsabilities as a single mother of two teen boys. l have done a lots of mistakes and asking God to lead my family to transform my children's hearts and guide them to salvation. Looking at him as a father nowadays as a role model... there is no way!! I am trying to do my best to rase my children to become good men and good christians, lots of tears every night, a lot of praying every day... Please pray for me and for all single christian mothers is not easy at all. But God has the power, the glory and the magesty to transform our situations and give us strenght, peace, and hope to overcome them.

[@WhiteytheLab]

God protected me. After knowing him (the ex) and being married for 17 years, he told me a story about the cops asking him about a murdered woman. I never put it together back then, but God did certainly see and know things I didn't. I once suggested that we confess our sins and pray for each other that we may heal. He turned into a vicious animal at the idea that he confess anything - now I know why.

[@cathierobbins445]

Glad you were under God's care and protection.

[@WhiteytheLab]

@@cathierobbins445 Thank you... 🥰

[@ElizabethPykosz]

I've definitely felt the spiritual draining, and my relationship with GOD was slipping. We're in the " ghosting phase" I'm confused and had enough. GOD WILL be my #1. Am in so much pain, yet feel more peaceful. I never know what's going on with my daughter.

[@robertcarter6887]

Thankyou, realizing it’s about me and GOD, takes the desire for justice or revenge out of me. It allows more light to enter. Thankyou my friend in CHRIST

[@cyntrez1]

There’s nothing we can do once their heart is hardened. “It’s all up to God” Thk u for shedding more light for me…I’m at the beginning stages of my journey, and couldn’t be happier that ur video popped up in my feed We are all truly blessed to hear your wisdom 🙏🏾

[@diancooper7186]

I’m so blessed by your counseling. You helped me through family domestic violence from a narcissist. I stumbled on to this today and listened. Everything you stated, I lived. Confused by the narcissistic behavior and as a Christian, forgave and forgave. I’m healed and yes God removed this person for my protection. Grateful and blessed. Thank you for all you do to help us. Sending love and blessings…❤🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@kahalacromwell9741]

Amen same here

[@andrezinhogamer7208]

"They are filled with pride...They are easy prey... They're in the hands of the evel one.The enemy wants to use their pride to trigger you... to get into you..." uau.. I have felt this...once I had this insight, because sometimes felt like I was feelling his emotions..I still feel like this sometimes...and I feel like the evil one is trying to get to me...I feel down and I pray to God to protect and restore my heart.😢

[@passerby6168]

Thank you Andre. I felt like this today and did the same and am feeling more uplifted. Reading your comment serves as confirmation and a reminder to do this often.

[@ConfidentNotConceited]

Not only was there spiritual disconnect, we were spiritually unequally yoked. We even tried Godly marriage counseling where he blew up on the counselor out of anger to the point the minister asked if I was being abused at home. I was told I was the narcissist and even still question if I am. The emotional & psychological abuse is so damaging. Secular and Godly therapy was so helpful. To whomever is reading this, you WILL get through this. You WILL overcome. You WILL find joy again. This video is so comforting, thank you Kris Reece🤟🏾

[@john7263]

Thank you. You’re the best!! I never thought I would be saying this but now 4 1/2 years after my covert narcissistic wife divorced me after 29 years of marriage I am beginning to see how God allowed that to happen to get her out of my life and so that I would bring God into my life. I had become a lukewarm Christian, but now I am on fire for the Lord and involved in three different ministries. God hates divorce, but he does a lot to happen and I have to believe he allowed this one to happen to bring me back to Him!!!!!

[@AaronAlbertson-l8d]

Amen brother! The same thing happened to me after eighteen years. Was on fire when I met her and she supposedly was converted, as I did feel the holy spirit come upon her and I believe that was the sign that god wanted me to be with her for so long. Though I kept having feelings of needing to get out of there, and eventually he brought someone else in her life to give me the out. Praise god as I am on fire, big time!

[@WasemeSaangz]

This was absolutely helpful. I’m at peace leaving my entire immediate family including my narcissistic mother where they are. Over a decade of being pulled down by them all led me here. I see Gods hand on me through it all and I’m moving on and upward. Thank God I’m free

[@saracheca3791]

You just confirmed what the Lord has been showing me . Thank you! Shalom!

[@terilongacre854]

You’re describing my mother and what I tolerated most of my life. I went no contact permanently this year. It was the best thing I ever did. I have peace within freeing myself from her.

[@janicetelfer6211]

God removed so many so quickly for me. I haven't looked back. I had a spiritual awakening and it was loud and clear. I have very few around me now. But I have room now for the right ones to come in. 😊😊

[@rachybooo]

This hit home for me in every way. I already knew God removed me from the situation, but this just really confirms it for me. Even though it is such an unbearable pain, I am trying to trust God completely in this. Thank you so much, Kris. 💜

[@SandraV-vt4ec]

17:17 this excites me!! My narcissist (my sister) moved to another state 4 months ago and it was a blessing! God removed her from my life although she tries to manipuliate still even though she lives in another state. I could not see it at the time and I was so upset because she told me she was moving one week prior to moving, God revealed a lot to me about who my sister really is! There is no mistake that your video popped up on my KZbin feed! It was eye opening! I blamed myself for everything! After watching a few of your videos this ALL makes sense now! I couldn’t see it because I was too deeply involved with my sister. She used and abused me and I constantly blamed myself. I forgave her numerous times because she is my sister. Thank you for using biblical scripture with narcissism. What a revelation God has shown me through your videos. Thank you! Life saving

[@thereseElder-y8p]

@@SandraV-vt4ec amen Holy Spirit

[@Texas-Idahoan]

AMEN to all, Kris! Ex of 6 years after a 34 year abusive marriage would like to be restored but there has been no heart change. I’m thankful for the growth God has worked in me.

[@kathykujawski7279]

It is so important to learn how to deal with a narcissist in a Christian manner. Thank you Kris! 🙏❤️

[@keriboneschans5197]

No accountability or round about accountability by blaming me for making him do it.

[@TiffyCorbin]

God never wants anyone to hurt someone else. Ever.

[@lilyfee5651]

Thank you for stressing out that God loves us. I 've been struggling for 50 years to be loved by my narcissistic mother, but I can replace her with God. I only hope my father can do the same so as to heal the wounds of sharing his life with an abusive narcissistic wife. I 'm grateful for your podcast Mrs Reece.

[@ronaldus1011]

Thanks! A great joy to discover a truly Christian counselor who knows her Bible. A gifted person.

[@nancywethington270]

Amen yes we need a person that is saved and trust and believe on Jesus Christ our Lord and Saviour

[@steenzthatsall3215]

LOVE THIS! It’s not rejection it’s protection!🥰

[@karlready7610]

I was married for 34 years and when the covert narcissist was in the discarding stage by filing for a divorce. She did it without any discussion. She started screaming about nevergoing to church again. Screams come flying out of her mouth when l suggested to her that she read the Bible tonight. Her eyes seemed to have a black eye that seemed to have a lena that covered her eyes with all black for a couple seconds and I did a double take and shook my head, "did I really see that?" She is not the same person I married, nothing like it. She told me as she was getting ready to leave to go have fun roller skating, she said, "you aren't good enough," I need someone who has more so I can have fun and go places and do stuff I never got to do. She would destroy the marriage for her narcissistic pleasure. I a listening to your videos and a few others. Thank you so much for being here. I didn't even know what was happening until she said, "I need some space." I was sure the Lord was telling me that this was the end of the line. I tried to hold on, but things just got worse and worse. I a out of the marriage for 3 months now and I am doing so much better. I can plan and live now. I didn't have a clue, but I did almost everything she needed me to do. You think you are helping them and they could care less about you and you don't even know they don't like anyone but themselves in a twisted sick way. Thanks again, God bless you.

[@Hawaiiansky11]

That is why I say that narcissists are not 'possessed' by demons - they are instead, aligned with and in partnership with them. They also all seem to despise the Bible. Like my mother, they can go to church every day of the week, become leaders, teachers, get on council, etc. But mention the Bible, they screech like...well, demons.

[@wendybarton5565]

She sounds like a total nightmare and a Jezebel. I am so sorry she said those awlful words to you. Why are nice people like us drawn to these evil people? All we are is their supply then they drain us and move on.

[@tekajohnson3514]

I seen the black eyes myself. Yes it’s really real. There are demons living in them.

[@jhobson6901]

I love how you hold us accountable for not establishing boundaries.

[@kennethmassie860]

I wish the church had taught on this 20 yrs. Ago. But,I'm thankful 🙏 that many Christians are learning now and teaching this because it is rampant in the world.

[@beverlyfox1688]

Wow, God bless you Kris. I didn't even know what a narcissist was, but I was married to two! The last one was passive aggressive, said he was a Christian but in 16 years there was never any fruit, everything you said was spot on! God removed him and protected me, because I promised to stay.

[@ashleighasempire]

You shared my entire testimony in how God removed my spouse from my life. You gave me language and confirmation. Thankyou!

[@robertchristensen5425]

Finding this program was a God thing for sure. Ive never heard of Narcissistic people,how I wish I didn't identify so much. I'm at a loss for words. God bless you for what your doing. Robert

[@luchicks0332]

Believe I am going through this right now. 20 years married now and not sure what to do besides pray and wait for God.

[@TracyNewton-q3b]

So sorry for you. If you are seeing red flags, talk to a counsellor or a friend who does not know him. Write down your thoughts and feelings, what they say. Go as far as recording them. You can end this, but quietly by planning your escape. Get things together to leave in a bag but hide it. Save some money, if abuse esculates, I'm warning you this is very dangerous indeed. Talk to someone about what's going on, god listens to us just get it out and validate if necessary. You are not going mad, they don't care about us, they love any reaction that's negative, be positive be very confident, see how he will knock it. Please don't waste time thinking he will change, you have to make the change don't waste your life healing a piece of dead meat. It's not lobe it's trauma bonding. Trauma. Good luck and get out ASAP. Never look back.

[@georgeblackwell4670]

Yes God will remove a toxic person from your life that you refuse and o do yourself! I’m a living witness of this!🙏🏾 darkness and light can’t comprehend

[@sophiemillington8864]

Yes there definately was a spiritual disconnect. I called out to God and said I can't take this anymore. The Lord immediately stepped in and the truth was exposed. It was miraculous in watching how God unfolded everything and how much the Lord gave me peace through such traumatic time.

[@TheAlfredcamacho]

Humble in tears, with a grateful heart. I believe and always. Thank you, Yeshua, and for Kris Reece.

[@audreyflannery5270]

God is my defender in battle. God is my provider and my provision. God is Love. Praise Almighty God. Praise Lord Jesus. Thankyou Holy Spirit. Thankyou Guardian Angels Thankyou Devine helpers Thankyou Universe Amen

[@MarileeMills]

It is as if you know what I have been going through since 1991. Oh, it wasn't easy before 1991, but the pain, the abuse, the neglect, the blame I lived with 1991-2006! Then the ripping and tearing of an ugly divorce! The last 18 years have been a slow realization of what I have lived through. Just recently, the last couple of weeks have been a beginning of gentle spiritual rain, healing rain. And now this specific video has been brought across my path! This is Godly design. You have been a great deal of help over this past year. Thank you for your ministry.

[@Lynn-V11]

So this past year and a half there was a distancing of a friend after spending a lot of time with… always going to their house, 2 family vacations together … I have come to the realization, just like you mention, that the purpose of this distancing was for me to develop & maintain a closer relationship with God. I was putting so much of myself into this relationship I was neglecting Him! Now as I look at this person and their character- they are not nice! She calls when she needs help or wants something, but I’m not good enough to have around anymore. I praise the Lord for opening my eyes!

[@Watchingonthewall24]

Everything you said is spot on and is helping me answer some tough questions. My Ex did display these characteristics and no fruit. I was in despair and felt so far from God although I was pressing in with every ounce of my being. God brought it to an end in a way that only he could and he delivered me. Now I'm healing and on the other side with a court ordered no contact for a year. This was a 36 yr abusive marriage that ended with financial devastation. Im 62 disabled and living without a home or any kind of provision for my future. It's scary but I trust God to make a way for me where there seems to be no way. 🙏

[@lavishg7234]

@@Watchingonthewall24 God bless you❤️❤️❤️

[@rhondagraves5983]

I was definitely spiritually being drained

[@mekalavaseekaran9102]

Yes it excites me that God is working in our lives for my sake, he has seen my struggles.

[@terryvos1638]

This was one of the best videos to date. I went through a very difficult divorce and it’s sad because my heart so wanted us to be restored. All I can say is please heed the words spoken by Kris. You cannot fix them and boundaries are crucial. This has been so difficult for my children and why it makes it’s so much more important to stay close to God and keep safe and healthy boundaries. It seems like a narcissist and a Jezebel spirit are very similar.

[@emrwa2008]

This ministry is needed and long overdue. Sadly, divorce is rampant, and narcissistic is often so toxic and underdetected. Everyone finds out the hard way. Me, married 27 years. I stayed but stress contributed to cancer. When I wised up, I went back to school and he resented it and got worse. Then he did a smear campaign. Then he died. I'm free. I survived, mostly.

[@dee1380]

Thank u ma'm.. This needs to b preached in our Christian community alot. Especially in church. We only hear forgive, forgive, forgive!!! And yes, I agree, we should forgive, but alot of us(including myself) get forgiveness confused with tolerance of mistreatment. In my life, satan has used narcissistic family members to prey on my vulnerability & my exercising forgiveness towards them, especially my parents & elders in my family, whom I have to honor & respect. Each time, I would go back to them thinkin if I didn't run back to them at their request & submit to their control, then I didn't truly forgive them, only to get ate up all over again. This cycle never ends, mainly between my father who is an alcoholic narcissist who is also a freemason, & a mother who defends his actions who is a Christian, as well as an Aunt who is also narcissistic.. I only wanna do the will of the father, still honor my parents without bein controlled by them. It's a challenge, my mother condemns me with the Word of God, if I don't do what she wants, majority of the time it stems back to fear of my father.. I praise God for u ma'm.. And I really appreciate u Blessins on u woman of God..

[@painawayart]

So true, I am going throuht it now. So tired of it. I am drained already...

[@artgirlmermaid]

I don't want to reconcile with the 2 "christian friends" anymore. They destroyed my heart.. and there is no going back without contrition and demonstrated change... and that hasn't happened.. and probably won't. Proverbs 4:23: Above all else, guard your hearts, for everything you do flows from it.

[@DivinesDoor222]

Absolutely masks vs fruit I love this !!God doesn’t want anyone to hurt us However God allows it to reveal to you who they are and what you need to see and know about that person so that you can remove yourself and learn from their tactics wisdom and knowledge not only comes from God but comes from the experiences we go through …I changed removed redirected myself right on my path because incorruptible to the point they had no choice to stay away from me but it didn’t stop their evil inside of them from working behind my back to which Hod God took over and Spiritually blocked him 🙏🙏

[@laprechespeterson4297]

It’s all about me… The work God wants to do through me.. I’m excited

[@meceu2]

The beginning of the summer, I began, holding myself more accountable for my own actions, both in thoughts and deeds. I realized that I needed to dive deeper into my own personal relationship with God. Through this personal spiritual journey, I realized that my own sister and mother were treating me in a way that was not in love. I also started to watch and read about unhealthy relationships, and to my surprise both of them fell into that pattern. I also was to blame as I had allowed it over the years. I did not want to go no contact although it seemed the only route for me. Due to a situation, I did not have to make that decision as they chose to have no contact with me. Although my heart is troubled and I grieve, and I’m reeling from this rejection, there is also a peace. God is blessed me with friends coming out of the woodwork to support me.

[@Hawaiiansky11]

They 'reject' you the way a prison cell 'rejects' you. Perhaps that was the Lord working in them somehow, to give you back your peace and freedom.

[@arizonan1]

"If they only knew" lol! You can NEVER explain and help enough for a narcissist see and understand. It does not work! They are totally messed up! Thanks Kris, couldn't have said or explained it better!

[@tsimmons794]

This really spoke to me. I have an estranged daughter whose husband won’t allow her to have anything to do with her family. Thank you for your ministry.

[@JanetMeyer-hi2pn]

I am on the outs with my three siblings. I finally gave it to God and prayed for my siblings. They have now turned on each other.

[@lisa.s.headley7]

😮

[@BizeeC]

You have hit everything I needed to hear. And the answer to the question of the guy who filed for divorce & still felt guilty, I needed to hear that. I love your prayers and am very prayerful my guys heart will be soften and his eyes will be open, and whatever ill spirit attacking his judgement is removed. This has helped me greatly wrap my mind around it and feel confident in having boundaries.

[@donnadallariva8377]

Absolutely true prayer , healing & setting boundaries Amen 🙏

[@alliebelle6887]

Thankyou for affirming my sanity! Being manipulated and told I am crazy while they play the victim and manipulate my empathy has mde me doubt myself and see that they really are doing this and what they do because your outlining this makes it SO clear and I feel freer from thinkiing it was my fault, and did something wrong to ruin chances in a relationship I see now it was not a loving relationship from the beginning and the only thing I did wrong to ruin it is no reflection on me as a woman, because I saw the manipulation and mistreatment and triggered them blame me and make me feel like it was all my doing. I really started to feel crazy, thank you!!!

[@mairreanerjohnson4795]

Yes I recognize a spiritual disconnect in a hatred for accountability

[@kathleens4497]

Amen! Thank you Kris. About 3 years ago my niece and goddaughter discarded me and I don't know why. However, without the discard I would have never seen the true person. I remember thinking that she has crossed over. You've taught me how to pray more specifically for her; yet see that God has a purpose (Romans 8:28).

[@aciddiver1978]

Thank you God, for removing girlfriend. I didnt understand then, but i do now. Im so grateful, living alone and @ peace❤

[@Freedom-dx7kq]

My story ❤ I’m glad God intervened. I’m doing a lot of praying. Let go and let God. 🙏

[@Angel-lq6rc]

Everything you have said up to this point is 100% who and what my husband has become over the past three years. He says it’s my fault we don’t go to church together. Then we’ll go to church and he’ll find an excuse to stop going. I have been feeling over the last several years God is showing me things and allowing things to get worse to grant me a separation.

[@ninanegronGodsWarrior]

Thank you so much Heavenly Father work in me, I surrender to you and your will❤ Amen

[@hawk43130]

Thank you for sharing this video. My name is Chris, and I was married for 23 years to someone who displayed many of the traits you’re describing. The marriage ended after I discovered she was cheating on me, which was devastating. It was a difficult journey, but I’ve been leaning on God through it all, and He has me now. Your insights are helping me process what I went through and continue moving forward in faith. Thank you for the work you do-it’s truly appreciated!