Going On My First Trip ALONE

[@sarahgoddard2001]

Nothing makes me feel like a classy, elegant woman like dressing up, drinking champagne, and having dinner on my own before going to a show by myself. I love it. I always take a book or my journal and I just let my brain turn off. It's amazing.

[@MonicaChurch]

Yesss its great

[@mrc6182]

I'm convinced ...

[@marknaughton6798]

I carry my ipad with me. It's like my security blanket when traveling alone.

[@lotto5742]

You take a book with you to a show? Why? You can't read at home?

[@ChristineLozada]

I second the drinking champagne part! It's my MO. Definitely did it on my solo travel trip.. with tips on how to plan last minute solo travel. You can find it on my vlog here! kzbin.info/www/bejne/qXTIiIqDqs2Yqas

[@TheBADGamerx]

I think showing your weakness actually shows your strength.. you didn't lose your EX you gained knowledge Keep it pushing your a positive energy

[@Arvabelle]

Solo travel can be really fun once you get over the initial awkwardness of it! Sending you lots of love girl ❤️

[@sidsid954]

The leopard skirt and cropped tank are giving me total 90's Rachel Green vides!

[@Talymeytin]

sidsid 95 yes 🙌🏻

[@kggroom]

Same👏🏽

[@swimmingtinyf]

I'm dying for that outfit

[@sidsid954]

@@swimmingtinyf SAME!

[@ItsJustJanine]

lol that's crazy cuz i thought that too

[@amandag5388]

solo travel gives you confidence, makes you better at decision making, and makes you more independent!! ... I'm happy for you even though I don't know you personally ha :)

[@christinenewhouse1264]

Im going to go out by myself go get something to eat and watch a movie..I need to spend time by myself...♡

[@sunshineblondie1773]

I really appreciate how real and raw your content has become. I love your unapologetic attitude and your empowerment. I resonate with this video so much because I too can never find anyone willing to do things with me. Being alone is liberating, you get do whatever you want and really think for yourself without outside influences. Thanks for continually being yourself. 💕

[@isabellenatalya]

Sending you all the love + good vibes sis. Solo travel has been beyond therapeutic for me many o many times in my life

[@ellacandy]

I really love how you are just letting go and just seem wayyy more care free and just not giving as much of a shit I think this break up in the long run is going to be good for you

[@cherylw445]

Solo travel is such a great opportunity to find yourself, get to know yourself, build confidence. Embrace life for everything that comes your way with all your might for all its worth in good times and bad. Live it gf!!!

[@maureene7138]

I realized that while doing things by yourself, eg traveling, going to concerts, movies & etc, you learn a lot about yourself.

[@jackipenick2631]

I traveled to Seattle by myself and it was wonderful.

[@MonicaChurch]

Yay! We love to hear that ❤❤❤

[@Juliezeneth]

so fun! 💕

[@theartsiful481]

i just did too!!

[@haley2121]

You guys are inspiring me😊

[@kggroom]

Sounds fun!

[@singleoccupant]

I've traveled to South Korea alone twice (Seoul and Busan) and Tokyo countless times! I honestly like traveling alone because I can do WHATEVA!

[@jnrfalcon]

I've been traveling totally alone for a number of years now... 3 times to Europe with 4th time coming during labor day this year and 1 time to New Zealand... Literally never traveled internationally with someone...

[@ARedVelvetBunnie]

Damn what has been your experience like

[@jnrfalcon]

@@ARedVelvetBunnie I'd love to avoid traveling alone but I'm still happy that I'm traveling and visiting places that I always wanted to visit. It is sometimes slightly better alone though, because of the freedom. Like when I was in Switzerland, and the weather was not good for Jungfrau, I quickly decided to just hop on the train and go to Bern for the day without having to worry about anything.

[@luka-me1py]

you and shelby are one of the only twins i know who gain fame and subscribers while not having a channel together!

[@blahblah5727]

What? Does anyone say no to a trip? I'll go with you☹

[@carla4954]

Money ??

[@kggroom]

Same tho

[@ItsJustJanine]

right? I'd love to have people in my life offering to take me on trips with them ahahha! would make my channel much cooler come to think of it..

[@pinklovenikki]

i just went to nyc a few months ago by myself as well and felt the same exact thing!! def some pros and cons but also a liberating feeling to be content with yourself in a situation thats out of your comfort zone

[@TheJessicaKent]

Your day 2 experience is so relatable - I think people underestimate exactly how awkward and uncomfortable travelling can be at times.

[@MonicaChurch]

Yes! Just wanted to be real! But then day 3 was much better :)

[@oliviacarney9827]

But I love how she still agreed it was better than staying at home- she was still brave enough to get out there

[@TheJessicaKent]

@@oliviacarney9827 oh definitely! Travelling > being at home any day

[@alisond965]

I want to be Monica when I grow up. This is so badass and just cool.

[@alexiablack2281]

You are amazing. Don't let anyone bring you down.

[@kaymacy8345]

I appreciate your honesty when you expressed how you felt awkward or uncomfortable or bored during some situations ... it shows an accurate / real experience of what it’s like to travel alone.

[@miranda0298]

Perfect timing, I’m going on a trip in a few hours haha. Love you Monica 💓💓

[@unknown4life913]

Miranda Luckyyy! I’m going at the end of this month.

[@miranda0298]

Potato 4Life have fun cutie!

[@unknown4life913]

Miranda Thank you! :D you too!

[@ItsJustJanine]

woah that's so crazy

[@Tanamontana]

Your videos always have such a great vibe! I loved this trip and your earrings are sooo cute!

[@NicholasG28]

I also went to NYC as a solo trip earlier in the year and had an absolute blast. After that I wanted to travel more by myself and this fall I'm going to be going to London!

[@MonicaChurch]

Amazing!

[@Natalie_Explores]

Have fun in London!!! I went there for my first solo trip and LOVED IT

[@luka-me1py]

you should be a movie editor tbh im so jealous of your editing skills!

[@MonicaChurch]

Wow thank you!

[@ItsJustJanine]

LEGIT ME TOO! I'm binge watching her videos to try and improve my editing skills for my channel

[@tooksross]

I went on a solo trip to Munich, Rothenburg, and Salzburg a few years ago. It was so scary and daunting but one of the greatest experiences ever. You can do whatever you want, no compromises, and it was so life changing to challenge yourself and come out of the trip knowing you can do absolutely anything. Congrats on doing this Monica! You’re a strong, smart woman and you can conquer anything ♥️

[@maddynicks163]

This just convinced me to finally book my trip alone to Vancouver Island. I'm so excited now!

[@TheJessicaKent]

Discovered your channel after your last video and you and Shelby have inspired me to start making videos again. Thank you for sharing your story ❤️

[@MusicLeanne]

I’m going to Canada by myself in three weeks from the Netherlands. Kinda scared but also so freaking excited :)

[@TweenTime101]

How did it go!?

[@sakshikulkarni29]

How'd it go?

[@pnwlinloo]

After a breakup a couple years ago, I went on a solo trip to Kauai. It was the most amazing thing I've ever done for myself.

[@MonicaChurch]

Wow that sounds perfect

[@lust4lyfe101]

I broke up a 12 year relationship and I plan to go Kauai before the end of the year .

[@drdecco1]

I wanna go to Kauai TOO.... I wanna, I wanna, I wanna 😣 - breakout a new chapter in my 30 something year old marriage......🤗💪👍

[@KiaraMadisen]

okay no one can top your artsy montages 👏🏼

[@holly3085]

I love this so much, my three year relationship ended recently and I booked a solo trip to New York (I've done it before but i'm so excited to go alone properly this time)

[@missxshiny]

Pretty please do a video with tips on filming while travelling alone! Like, how to get over thinking about being judge about putting tripod out? Or not freaking out if someone is gonna steal the camera? And also pic? Would highly appreciate it. Loved the vlog, glad to see you had good time!

[@savannahleslie3515]

I'd so appreciate this!

[@danielleknight8447]

I’m 34 married with 4 kids...I’m taking my first solo trip in 4 weeks for 6 days to Orlando 😱 I’m super excited but also super nervous! I don’t go to the store alone! The quiet and only doing what I WANT is going to be magical 😍😂😎

[@MonicaChurch]

Fun!! Go to disney

[@Moose185]

Why are you going alone?

[@danielleknight8447]

Moose185 My husband is a chef and under normal world circumstances this time of year here in Maine, the restaurants are at their busiest! No time off for him. But I needed the alone time, it was definitely a great experience that I’ll never forget!

[@Moose185]

Danielle Knight ive always wanted to do it but usually go with my partner.

[@liun142]

The two guys' conversation about kids killed me haha. Also, thanks for keeping the video real and letting us know that everything wasn't all fun. I know you could have made a cool editing making everyone feel like everything you did was amazing, but really liked that you were honest about pros and cons. xx

[@MonicaChurch]

Seriously ppl watching is the best

[@annahkmon]

It was your first solo trip and you did well!! I was in the city for a few days myself last year and felt awkward at times, but I planned a lot of museum and sightseeing and made it fun!

[@MonicaChurch]

I think it def can get better with experience!

[@zzkeokizz]

I like solo trips. I've gone to conferences by myself too. It's very freeing when you live without the burden of other's expectations

[@lamode4935]

This video was filled with so much emotions. I genuinely could relate. And it's not always therapeutic. Nor is it necessary that you have to go on a trip alone. I wish you all the good energy :)

[@greatest_bumble_bee_dude]

One act of random kindness at a time

[@liliyamarushchak7143]

this was such a perfect video. your editing style and even your voice over is just amazing. I love your videos so much

[@MonicaChurch]

Thank you! Sometimes I wonder if my voice over is too cheesy sounding 😅

[@shovey9329]

Monica Church Never! Its always amazing!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@KellyStamps]

I'm binging your videos and I'm glad someone loves Aritzia as much as I do

[@veliciahiley7652]

Monica you are going to be better than fine. It is nothing better that a reality of life to show you who you are and how strong you are. Thank you for sharing your life with us. Virtual hug 😊

[@TokyoMusic5]

I’m 25 and have been done a solo trip! Been lookin to plan one soon and I love the honesty in this video ! I think once we get over the initial awkwardness of it all , it’ll get better ! And I’m terrible with directions so that’s my biggest fear which is getting lost.

[@TokyoMusic5]

Never done *

[@ildemg9026]

That’s the content I loooveee watching on KZbin 😍

[@elpli9]

I traveled to Norway, Portugal and france by myself. It was amazing meeting new people and doing whatever you want.

[@calliegardiner2595]

I’m so proud of you for doing this, like I want to be able to do this

[@AliceLucyBradley]

Wow I needed to see this! As a journalist I am always travelling alone. I find the scariest part is when you first get to the airport. I think as soon as you arrive at your destination it can be such a liberating experience. I can't recommend travelling alone enough. You really do learn to be a peace with yourself xx

[@hannahslife201]

You don’t need a man you will be in my prayers and your so pretty just to remind you😉

[@itunupeace]

ekim andersom calling someone’s beliefs delusional is disrespectful. Respect, you need to get it

[@altrademark]

@ekim andersom I agree if the religious person is doing harm but they were just trying to be nice in their way so it's really just rude and pointless of you to shoot them down, just spreading negativity ya know?

[@ItsJustJanine]

She's an absolutely stunning person inside and out

[@bethanmacdonald2593]

nice to have a channel that's so transparent and sets a good example for us all x

[@mollynicolehome]

This is on my top 10 bucket list things that I want to do! 🙌🏻

[@MonicaChurch]

Do it!!

[@KaitlynJordanBesLoh]

I just recently went on my first solo trip to LA. It was one of the worst experiences of my life. I’m so glad you were able to make the most out of your solo trip to NYC! Happy travels!

[@lolamay4245]

All your videos are so entertaining Monica, your sister Shelby’s videos are also great! I love your guys collabs! 💕 THANKS FOR THE LIKES! 🙈

[@savannahlimon6066]

Thank you for your authenticity and how real you are in sharing your experiences. It’s so encouraging to see how things don’t have to be picture perfect all the time to have fun and ultimately grow. Thanks for sharing your experience and being real!

[@keeliaelizabeth7010]

I love this now I’m inspired to go on a trip that I’ve been wanting to go on forever but I’ve been waiting cause nobody wants to go there but I think I would be fine just to go alone

[@jaguarized]

Your style of editing and storytelling is so worth watching. Really enjoyed the ride. I'm pretty much a solo traveler myself. I travel all around the world, plan all trips myself and I enjoy every bit of it. No rush, nobody to think about, no worries, no stress.

[@MonicaChurch]

Thank you!

[@itskleng]

Sri Lanka! Alone :) and it was a liberating experience. I loved every minute of it.

[@Anna-vr1gl]

I think it’s so important to learn how to be by yourself and still have fun and make memories. It makes you stronger knowing you don’t need ANYONE to be happy and thriving, all you need is yourself!! Also helps later in life when you know you can count on yourself. I find solo traveling very therapeutic. ps. Really liked this video Monica, keep it up!!

[@cuatro978]

I know I'm not the common audience member of your videos but this trip looked awesome!! I'm really glad I stumbled upon your KZbin channel! Your videos are awesome! Glad you finally got your trip to NY and had this experience! Even with decisions you didn't like you still put yourself out there! KEEP IT UP!!!

[@1132539]

I just recently got back from a solo trip to Australia/Singapore and you’re spot on about being selfish. I get to do whatever the hell I want without a care in the world. Your video got me inspired to travel again thank you.

[@megancheraehodges]

Travelling alone to NYC sounds like a dream!! But I’m never alone so going alone to a grocery store is fun to me😂

[@Lishabright]

I’m Australian and have traveled on my own to both the USA and Tokyo. Theme parks, parks, exhibitions, museums and shopping are my fav things to do while travelling solo

[@sandraxo8819]

You have no idea how many lives you've changed with your channel. I love your transparency ❤️

[@drewbee6192]

Monica! This is AWESOME. I loved watching this. Solo travel can be so hit or miss, which can be frustrating. I loved seeing you explore and treat yourself. This is exactly what I want to do when I am out of school and making good money. I have done it before but it's been a while. I think it is so important for young women to travel solo.

[@EsraaBassiouni]

Wow I love that you took this step to get this solo trip but I don’t think I will do it myself

[@stephaniecantu6973]

I think it one of the most important things in life to learn and love to be with yourself. And then company is just an added bonus !

[@carolinecallahan7196]

I was scared to travel by myself too but after 6 weeks study abroad in Berlin I’m going to Krakow Prague and Vianna all on my own!

[@ilovejulie89]

I recently ticked off my bucket list traveling solo overseas and went to Bali from Australia. I was incredibly overwhelmed with everything I took in by boy I'm so proud of myself for doing it. You learn alot about yourself by stepping out of your comfort zone especially in foreign territory. As long as you have yourself, you are never alone

[@chloefernandes2212]

OMG MEAN GIRLS!!! 😍😍😍 I want to see that show so bad and i’m jelous that you got to see it!

[@kt493]

You are so smart to know that you are not okay. But remember if you hang in there one day you will be okay again. I am so sorry you are hurting. You have so much life to live and I look forward to seeing you heal and get to a better place. You are supported and loved. And you can heal. Proud of you for moving forward, but don’t forget to allow yourself time to grieve. Don’t just ignore those feelings. You will make it. Love from CO

[@amelie9368]

Sending all the love + good vibes sis x I personally haven’t experienced solo travelling but I bet it is thrilling! From what I heard it is really therapeutic and a great way to find yourself! X💖

[@loridresner7635]

Major props to you for going out and doing things independently, Monica! Any time I don't have anyone to go do something with, I just plain avoid going out because I'm afraid of how it will look, and I always think I won't have a good time by myself. Inspiring to see you overcome that and have fun by yourself!

[@denisestuur]

I just went on a grouptour alone, but before that I went to Dubai on my own because I just really wanted to, so I did it! and I really don't mind being alone, so that's a good thing. loved to see you experience btw

[@moriahmann1000]

For my first trip solo, I road-tripped across the country from California to North Carolina with only my pup. Life-changing experience!!!

[@IsabellaDemarko]

thank you for sharing this i think it's really important and actually made me feel less alone.

[@LeoHernandeznyc]

Very good point about getting bored and lonely...that's the one thing I hate about going on a trip alone...but yeah definitely find something to do

[@musclemommymichelle]

Im a planner, I wonder if id be good on my own in a city, probably not because I have major social anxiety and also I have major travel anxiety aswell

[@MonicaChurch]

Yes but it would be great to get out of your comfort zone, and you do not have to be social if you dont want!

[@dannyburnam347]

@@MonicaChurch let's have dinner sometime?

[@toniMFstark]

It gets easier and better! I work for an airline and have traveled alone all over the world! Keep exploring!

[@laurentruong]

Planning is a big must when you’re traveling alone! Happy for you though. ✊

[@brookeogorodnikova8735]

I haven’t gone anywhere for fun yet, but I love traveling solo!! I traveled to Honduras and Nicaragua these past two summers and loved the freedom of not waiting on anyone. I did meet up with a group both times, but it sparked my desire to try a solo trip! This was fun to watch, great shots!!

[@maurice5451]

Hello I am going on a trip by my self while I am in Vancouver next month for one weekend with the Amtrak to Seattle.

[@alexandrasofiiia]

I think when you're taking a trip on your own it's a really good idea to plan out all your activities, places you're gonna eat at and transportation so that way you always know what to do and you don't feel alone

[@xXxDiamondOPxXx]

that's so weird, I just flew into NYC from Orlando a few days ago, also on JetBlue, and I ate at the same breakfast spot as you...

[@mariahfloat]

this was such a cute vlog. something about being by yourself and doing whatever you want is so fun and refreshing.

[@eeeo2196]

yeah you don’t know what’s inside those who put on a smile on their faces.. “be nice to people” thank you 💙 .. and i’m sorry for what you’re going through.. it’s gonna get better! 💜

[@amberhines576]

I traveled to Arizona alone, and I’m from the east coast. The only thing was I was going to meet someone so when I got there I wasn’t really alone but I still felt like it. It literally was one of my biggest accomplishments.

[@LissFisher]

Omg! I would love to go on this trip with you!!!!!✨🔥🔥🔥

[@msneetfreak]

I've been watching solo trips videos to NYC and this is the best I've seen. You didn't spend all your time in the hotel room, you actually went out and did things! That's the content I wanted to see (:

[@Marlouchiboudichou]

Hi! I just discovered your channel! I love your videos. Quality content

[@jamiereef]

If you need someone else to feel whole, you'll never find happiness. I travel alone all the time and have met some amazing people that I would never have met if I was wrapped up with someone else. You are so much more approachable if your on your own. Mingle and you'll be amazed what you find. Keep smiling and love your videos.

[@ElleStar20]

Loved this video because I’m going to NYC really soon. It’s giving me some ideas of what to do.

[@sir9integra9jr]

Dude having a good time alone at a bar is like my superpower. It's so much fun! Going with other people is fun too but I loooove finding a cozy corner and getting my drink and my book and switching off for a while

[@JerichaG92]

So fun! I have a 2 year old so my perfect solo vacation is going to the movies alone 🤣

[@april8tost]

yesss extra coke and popcorn gurll >;3

[@krisg3984]

Make it happen !

[@xdarialovesbeautyx]

I had a layover in Lima, Peru on the way back from a trip and I was by myself for about 12 hours. It’s so easy to feel aimless and like you don’t need to be doing things because there’s no one else there to do them with you, but I am so glad I had the chance to see Lima and its food, views of the Pacific, and people (I spent a lot of time people watching) instead of just sitting where I had been for 6 weeks for another 12 hours!

[@KristinaMassa17]

Yay happy to see you uploading!

[@KallMeKarma89]

I’m going to Seattle by myself in less than 2 weeks (I live in Northeast Indiana), I’ve never traveled this far alone. My itinerary has been planned for a while now. Thanks for this video!!!!

[@ashleyyy1]

This was very well put together, glad you had a nice trip on your own. Keep up the good work gf🖤

[@gracew4204]

I was just travelling alone and GURL I feel you! Felt so good to be independent but at the same time when you’re eating alone at restaurants it’s kind of sad :/ being alone with your thoughts is a scary thing but sometimes necessary! Hope all is good 💕 new subscriber

[@lauraleewilliams]

lol! i can relate! i solo backpacked europe (a lil louisiana girl) and got caught up in atlanta and NYC to and from europe and llllawwwwddddd- ... this vid, can relate.

[@itsfriedpotato]

i didn't know about you or watch your videos or anything but i saw this recommended and i'm so glad i watched this. i don't understand why traveling is something you have to do with someone else because being alone can actually be precious reflection and self time even though a lot of people make it sound sad. wishing you luck for whatever you're going through right now 🌟🌟

[@SevenTenSarah_]

awesome video, traveling to LA by myself next month

[@engagingtragedy5895]

I travel solo all the time and love the freedom it brings.