Good Manners For Men When Taking A Lady Out

[@patriciablankenship6546]

Great advice for men my husband did all these things when we were dating he has passed now we were 44 and 53 what a gentleman I miss him so. Had 29 blessed years God bless you and Mr Bill!!

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

When you have had a good husband and lose him the pain is so much harder. God comfort your heart. 💕🙏

[@kathybriscoe1474]

I agree with all your comments Sandra. I would add that a man should always walk behind the woman. I’ve seen men walk into restaurants or at church going up for communion in front of their wives. What I’ve missed most is my husband made all the travel arrangements when we took vacations. Also my husband always complimented me.

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Your so right, Bill said the same thing, thank you for your input, very good.💕🥰

[@dustdevil1927]

One manner I always look for is taking their hats off to be respectful of the place you’re in. I guess it’s too much to ask but it irks me especially in church.

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

I think that one is nearly gone. But in church it would be nice if they took their hat off. 💕🥰

[@theresamckeown8260]

Turn offs: perfume/cologne, disrespect, drinking alcohol, drug use, cursing, or smoking. Good manners are essential.

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Your so right! 💕🥰

[@janetstraw191]

Oh Sandra! If only every man in this world could hear this - and take it to heart!! FANTASTIC advice! ❤

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Thank you so much Janet. 💕🥰

[@musicnotes4755]

Sandra you are so spot on with these tips! I hope men are taking notes!

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Thank you so much, I would just like men to know what women really want. 🥰💕

[@susanblanche9684]

My first boyfriend when i was 16 and he was 18 was soooo mature for his age. Hed always open and close my door; he liked holding hands, he was always on time and made plans with reservations. He was always clean and used good langage. He respected me his family and my family. He loved buying me gifts. He went to Vietnam and i felt too young to marry him. I was a fool never met a good one after him and married a creep who made good money but divorced after 25 years. Happy alone

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Oh Susan, I'm sorry you missed out marrying your first boyfriend. Did he make it through the war?

[@nowandthennn]

That’s so sad !!

[@lindapreciado5349]

Exactly, what happened to me. Too young too appreciate what a good guy he was…..

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

You just can't appreciate things when you are young, we were all the same when immature.🥰💕

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

It is.🥰💕

[@rachll7904]

One thing NOT to do: Order for her. I actually got in a huge argument on a first date when my date thought it proper to order for me. He ordered seafood...I dislike seafood. Lol

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

To funny, Mr. Bill would in no way eat any seafood!!🐟🦈🐠🐡

[@Sidney6780]

Great advice, spot on!

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Thank you so much! 💕🥰

[@GeraldineFaust]

Excellent points Sandra! I know the younger generation have different ideas these days but these points are as important today as they were way back when. I know some of the younger ladies want to be ''independent'' of being ''taken care of''. But I truly believe these points are so valuable, no matter what era we live in! And one of the things I see that irritates me, is so many people are on their cell phones when they are out for dinner. that really bothers me, Sandra. I am grateful for technology as it has many benefits but what's missing these days is personal interaction and talking together!! Put away the cell phone. Thank you for this wonderful video! Have a beautiful day!❤💝 Geri

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Some people turn their phone off and put them in a bowl on the table while eating. 💕🥰

[@jaiemacarthur612]

What a lovely thing to do... taking us along on this Autumn outing. Thank you.

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Glad you enjoyed it! 💕🥰

[@ricklowe520]

Very good advice. To be a gentleman is important. You are a lovely lady Mrs. Sandra.

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Thank you so much!💕🥰

[@frankmandy1981]

Sandra, these are some great suggestions. I agree with each one. My husband does many and it is such a good feeling. Thank you for this practical advice. I'll bet Mr. Bill cherishes you.💕🌟🤩

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

You are a blessed women, thank you for sharing.💕🥰

[@debbriggs5811]

Very nice. You are so right. 🙂 your surroundings look as if all is well following the hurricane. So glad to see that. ❤

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Yes, thank you! 🥰💕

[@trudyramgren8817]

Awww Sandra, you're such a romantic and everything you said is so true! Some guys have done theses things for me and some have not. In today's world I think some manners are lacking in interacting with a woman and some women don't expect men to do these things. Alot has to do with the feminist movement but I love everything you mentioned in a man. It shows respect and care! Thank you for sharing this !!! Hugs and ❤

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Thank you for sharing your feelings, your right on! 🥰💕

[@susanford4351]

This is a video for my Grandkids to watch, let them learn in high-school how a female should be treated. Guys, learn to be a gentleman, females will love it. This is a great video Sandy!!!

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Your right, they do not know how it feels to be treated like a lady. 🥰💕

[@Sarah-yq2mj]

So true! I love this..wonderful tips. Thank you Sandra 💜

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Thank you Sarah, I appreciate your comment.💕🥰

[@Ann20881]

So much helpful information in one video! Manners maketh the man!

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Thank you! Glad it was helpful! 💕🥰

[@lorraineshea296]

Thanks Sandra i loved this in my day men did open doors and hold hands i think they did have manners in my day but i'm 80.... Thanks so Much for that Advice 🥰❤

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Yes, if women do not expect good manners from a man they won’t get it.

[@littlegardener7052]

You`re so sweet Sandra, I`m happy knowing you have a wonderful husband. May God bless you both. You asked for any other suggestions, so here`s 2 that I believe to be importan for a married couple. 1 - Always remember to say "I love you" to each other every day and to kiss each other goodnight. 2 - NEVER go to bed on an argument (some say: NEVER let the sun set on an argument - both mean the same thing) That is so important because tomorrow is never a certainty - and if that dreadful day should be tomorrow then I don`t believe that a surviving partner would want to face the rest of their life knowing that the last words they exchanged with their partner were words said in anger. Take care, stay safe and God bless x

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Thank you for sharing your wisdom on this subject, I totally agree! 🥰💕

[@jettrenning1651]

You nailed it, Sandra! This video should be required watching for all high school boys. Get them thinking about this young. The only thing I would add is when a man kisses a woman’s neck or face, it should be gentle kisses. Nothing worse for me than when a man kisses me too aggressively. Thanks for your advice for men. So well thought out. 🙂

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Thank you so much. I totally agree kiss soft and tenderly, don’t grab us and kiss roughly!💕🥰

[@cremetwirl1859]

So important for women to respect themselves too. Many with trauma and low self esteem.

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Absolutely, no way would I lower myself to moving in with a man. I feel he has little respect or value for you if he would want to do that.

[@cremetwirl1859]

Yes. Many come from broken homes with no father figure.

[@DeniseCornett-j7v]

I'm so grateful you found a husband that is a true gentleman, Sandra, because you are an upstanding lady that deserves it. I have never been completely treated with the respect I would long to have from past dates & my late hubby showed a lit of affection until he was disabled & wheelchair bound, with oxygen, nebulizer, meds, CPAP, etc., so I cherished taking care of him. He dud what he could, until he could no longer. So many men today are just plain "lewd", when it gets right down to it! So disappointing!

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

I’m so glad you had time with your husband and I’m so sorry you no longer have him in your life. God comfort your heart.❤️

[@Teresa-K]

Nice suggestions!

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Thank you, Teresa, 💕🥰

[@MarieSmith-yi4pe]

I love these. ❤

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Thank you, Marie,! 💕🥰

[@patriciag5797]

Nice video Sandra

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Thank you Patricia!💕🥰

[@janithmathews4195]

Very good advice

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Glad it was helpful! 🥰💕

[@melmurphy0103]

Haven't bn able to catch up w/you for a while. Think a lot depends on how men are raised...some men either have it or not. All excellent tips Sandra.

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

I so agree, how they were raised is a big factor. But some men rise above a bad up bringing.💕🥰

[@melmurphy0103]

Your absolutely right, Sandra so true.

[@jeannettebahler8348]

So true!!!!

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Thank you Jean!💕🥰

[@jilliananderson5509]

You should ask Mr. Bill to write down 10 things that are good manners & appreciative to men when dating & marriage.

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

I’ll ask him!💕🥰

[@krisb7465]

I want to send this video to my boyfriend! I will ad, guys, get a mani pedi. Make sure to wash your hands well when you come in from outdoors, and that your nails are clean and filed smooth, and calluses smoothed down with a pumice stone.

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Please do! Thank you for sharing!💕🥰

[@gumbogirls]

Great advice. Do many men watch your channel?

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Sometimes, mostly women. 🥰💕

[@nowandthennn]

I don’t know if it’s a gauge, but looking back most of the guys I knew that had good manners turned out to be good husbands , but I know it’s not 100% . 🌸🌸🌸

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

That is good to know, I kind of wondered if that was the case.💕🥰

[@christi7774]

My dad was a gentleman, a true christian man who loved my mother and his family. I sure wished I could meet a real true honest christian gentleman. Never really have.

[@ChristineS-sf3rc]

may God answer your prayer! ❤

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

Wow, I'm so sorry to hear that. 💕🥰

[@cindykane6227]

Sandra, im agreeing with you and also im getting disgusted with my husband. He has broke all those rules. Its been 39 yrs. and sometimes Id like to give him a good swift kick. Lol. Hes nothing like my dad he was a true christian gentleman. My husband is reliable, and very generous, but he cant stand feet.😂😂😂

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

You made me laugh out loud!!! 💕🤣

[@susanford4351]

Make sure you wear underwear men on your dates.

[@Sandrabrownhappinesspast60]

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