Great advice for men my husband did all these things when we were dating he has passed now we were 44 and 53 what a gentleman I miss him so. Had 29 blessed years God bless you and Mr Bill!!
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6026 күн бұрын
When you have had a good husband and lose him the pain is so much harder. God comfort your heart. 💕🙏
@kathybriscoe147427 күн бұрын
I agree with all your comments Sandra. I would add that a man should always walk behind the woman. I’ve seen men walk into restaurants or at church going up for communion in front of their wives. What I’ve missed most is my husband made all the travel arrangements when we took vacations. Also my husband always complimented me.
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6026 күн бұрын
Your so right, Bill said the same thing, thank you for your input, very good.💕🥰
@dustdevil192726 күн бұрын
One manner I always look for is taking their hats off to be respectful of the place you’re in. I guess it’s too much to ask but it irks me especially in church.
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6025 күн бұрын
I think that one is nearly gone. But in church it would be nice if they took their hat off. 💕🥰
@theresamckeown826026 күн бұрын
Turn offs: perfume/cologne, disrespect, drinking alcohol, drug use, cursing, or smoking. Good manners are essential.
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6026 күн бұрын
Your so right! 💕🥰
@janetstraw19127 күн бұрын
Oh Sandra! If only every man in this world could hear this - and take it to heart!! FANTASTIC advice! ❤
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6026 күн бұрын
Thank you so much Janet. 💕🥰
@musicnotes475527 күн бұрын
Sandra you are so spot on with these tips! I hope men are taking notes!
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6027 күн бұрын
Thank you so much, I would just like men to know what women really want. 🥰💕
@susanblanche968427 күн бұрын
My first boyfriend when i was 16 and he was 18 was soooo mature for his age. Hed always open and close my door; he liked holding hands, he was always on time and made plans with reservations. He was always clean and used good langage. He respected me his family and my family. He loved buying me gifts. He went to Vietnam and i felt too young to marry him. I was a fool never met a good one after him and married a creep who made good money but divorced after 25 years. Happy alone
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6027 күн бұрын
Oh Susan, I'm sorry you missed out marrying your first boyfriend. Did he make it through the war?
@nowandthennn27 күн бұрын
That’s so sad !!
@lindapreciado534926 күн бұрын
Exactly, what happened to me. Too young too appreciate what a good guy he was…..
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6026 күн бұрын
You just can't appreciate things when you are young, we were all the same when immature.🥰💕
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6026 күн бұрын
It is.🥰💕
@rachll790426 күн бұрын
One thing NOT to do: Order for her. I actually got in a huge argument on a first date when my date thought it proper to order for me. He ordered seafood...I dislike seafood. Lol
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6026 күн бұрын
To funny, Mr. Bill would in no way eat any seafood!!🐟🦈🐠🐡
@Sidney678027 күн бұрын
Great advice, spot on!
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6026 күн бұрын
Thank you so much! 💕🥰
@GeraldineFaust26 күн бұрын
Excellent points Sandra! I know the younger generation have different ideas these days but these points are as important today as they were way back when. I know some of the younger ladies want to be ''independent'' of being ''taken care of''. But I truly believe these points are so valuable, no matter what era we live in! And one of the things I see that irritates me, is so many people are on their cell phones when they are out for dinner. that really bothers me, Sandra. I am grateful for technology as it has many benefits but what's missing these days is personal interaction and talking together!! Put away the cell phone. Thank you for this wonderful video! Have a beautiful day!❤💝 Geri
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6026 күн бұрын
Some people turn their phone off and put them in a bowl on the table while eating. 💕🥰
@jaiemacarthur61213 күн бұрын
What a lovely thing to do... taking us along on this Autumn outing. Thank you.
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6012 күн бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! 💕🥰
@ricklowe52025 күн бұрын
Very good advice. To be a gentleman is important. You are a lovely lady Mrs. Sandra.
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6023 күн бұрын
Thank you so much!💕🥰
@frankmandy198127 күн бұрын
Sandra, these are some great suggestions. I agree with each one. My husband does many and it is such a good feeling. Thank you for this practical advice. I'll bet Mr. Bill cherishes you.💕🌟🤩
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6026 күн бұрын
You are a blessed women, thank you for sharing.💕🥰
@debbriggs581126 күн бұрын
Very nice. You are so right. 🙂 your surroundings look as if all is well following the hurricane. So glad to see that. ❤
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6026 күн бұрын
Yes, thank you! 🥰💕
@trudyramgren881727 күн бұрын
Awww Sandra, you're such a romantic and everything you said is so true! Some guys have done theses things for me and some have not. In today's world I think some manners are lacking in interacting with a woman and some women don't expect men to do these things. Alot has to do with the feminist movement but I love everything you mentioned in a man. It shows respect and care! Thank you for sharing this !!! Hugs and ❤
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6026 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing your feelings, your right on! 🥰💕
@susanford435127 күн бұрын
This is a video for my Grandkids to watch, let them learn in high-school how a female should be treated. Guys, learn to be a gentleman, females will love it. This is a great video Sandy!!!
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6026 күн бұрын
Your right, they do not know how it feels to be treated like a lady. 🥰💕
@Sarah-yq2mj27 күн бұрын
So true! I love this..wonderful tips. Thank you Sandra 💜
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6027 күн бұрын
Thank you Sarah, I appreciate your comment.💕🥰
@Ann2088127 күн бұрын
So much helpful information in one video! Manners maketh the man!
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6027 күн бұрын
Thank you! Glad it was helpful! 💕🥰
@lorraineshea29625 күн бұрын
Thanks Sandra i loved this in my day men did open doors and hold hands i think they did have manners in my day but i'm 80.... Thanks so Much for that Advice 🥰❤
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6025 күн бұрын
Yes, if women do not expect good manners from a man they won’t get it.
@littlegardener705226 күн бұрын
You`re so sweet Sandra, I`m happy knowing you have a wonderful husband. May God bless you both. You asked for any other suggestions, so here`s 2 that I believe to be importan for a married couple. 1 - Always remember to say "I love you" to each other every day and to kiss each other goodnight. 2 - NEVER go to bed on an argument (some say: NEVER let the sun set on an argument - both mean the same thing) That is so important because tomorrow is never a certainty - and if that dreadful day should be tomorrow then I don`t believe that a surviving partner would want to face the rest of their life knowing that the last words they exchanged with their partner were words said in anger. Take care, stay safe and God bless x
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6026 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing your wisdom on this subject, I totally agree! 🥰💕
@jettrenning165120 күн бұрын
You nailed it, Sandra! This video should be required watching for all high school boys. Get them thinking about this young. The only thing I would add is when a man kisses a woman’s neck or face, it should be gentle kisses. Nothing worse for me than when a man kisses me too aggressively. Thanks for your advice for men. So well thought out. 🙂
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6020 күн бұрын
Thank you so much. I totally agree kiss soft and tenderly, don’t grab us and kiss roughly!💕🥰
@cremetwirl185925 күн бұрын
So important for women to respect themselves too. Many with trauma and low self esteem.
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6025 күн бұрын
Absolutely, no way would I lower myself to moving in with a man. I feel he has little respect or value for you if he would want to do that.
@cremetwirl185925 күн бұрын
Yes. Many come from broken homes with no father figure.
@DeniseCornett-j7v27 күн бұрын
I'm so grateful you found a husband that is a true gentleman, Sandra, because you are an upstanding lady that deserves it. I have never been completely treated with the respect I would long to have from past dates & my late hubby showed a lit of affection until he was disabled & wheelchair bound, with oxygen, nebulizer, meds, CPAP, etc., so I cherished taking care of him. He dud what he could, until he could no longer. So many men today are just plain "lewd", when it gets right down to it! So disappointing!
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6027 күн бұрын
I’m so glad you had time with your husband and I’m so sorry you no longer have him in your life. God comfort your heart.❤️
@Teresa-K26 күн бұрын
Nice suggestions!
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6026 күн бұрын
Thank you, Teresa, 💕🥰
@MarieSmith-yi4pe27 күн бұрын
I love these. ❤
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6026 күн бұрын
Thank you, Marie,! 💕🥰
@patriciag579712 күн бұрын
Nice video Sandra
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6011 күн бұрын
Thank you Patricia!💕🥰
@janithmathews419527 күн бұрын
Very good advice
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6026 күн бұрын
Glad it was helpful! 🥰💕
@melmurphy010327 күн бұрын
Haven't bn able to catch up w/you for a while. Think a lot depends on how men are raised...some men either have it or not. All excellent tips Sandra.
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6027 күн бұрын
I so agree, how they were raised is a big factor. But some men rise above a bad up bringing.💕🥰
@melmurphy010327 күн бұрын
Your absolutely right, Sandra so true.
@jeannettebahler834827 күн бұрын
So true!!!!
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6027 күн бұрын
Thank you Jean!💕🥰
@jilliananderson550921 күн бұрын
You should ask Mr. Bill to write down 10 things that are good manners & appreciative to men when dating & marriage.
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6021 күн бұрын
I’ll ask him!💕🥰
@krisb746525 күн бұрын
I want to send this video to my boyfriend! I will ad, guys, get a mani pedi. Make sure to wash your hands well when you come in from outdoors, and that your nails are clean and filed smooth, and calluses smoothed down with a pumice stone.
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6023 күн бұрын
Please do! Thank you for sharing!💕🥰
@gumbogirls27 күн бұрын
Great advice. Do many men watch your channel?
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6026 күн бұрын
Sometimes, mostly women. 🥰💕
@nowandthennn27 күн бұрын
I don’t know if it’s a gauge, but looking back most of the guys I knew that had good manners turned out to be good husbands , but I know it’s not 100% . 🌸🌸🌸
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6027 күн бұрын
That is good to know, I kind of wondered if that was the case.💕🥰
@christi777426 күн бұрын
My dad was a gentleman, a true christian man who loved my mother and his family. I sure wished I could meet a real true honest christian gentleman. Never really have.
@ChristineS-sf3rc26 күн бұрын
may God answer your prayer! ❤
@Sandrabrownhappinesspast6026 күн бұрын
Wow, I'm so sorry to hear that. 💕🥰
@cindykane622727 күн бұрын
Sandra, im agreeing with you and also im getting disgusted with my husband. He has broke all those rules. Its been 39 yrs. and sometimes Id like to give him a good swift kick. Lol. Hes nothing like my dad he was a true christian gentleman. My husband is reliable, and very generous, but he cant stand feet.😂😂😂