Gratitude: The Foundation of Confidence | Tara Gooch | TEDxMaidMarianWay

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4 ай бұрын

Have you ever wondered if it was possible to gain confidence and sustain it for the rest of your life? Perhaps you have experienced adversity, trauma, or failures that led you to question your value or made you believe you were less than or unworthy.
Most of us have faced some level of hardship that has worked to lessen our confidence and made us question our worth. For many of us, this can happen in childhood and if unaddressed, it can impact our success, career, the amount of money we make, our relationships, and how we show up in life.
In a world where self-doubt and insecurities can be overwhelming, confidence has the transformative power to change lives. Drawing from her own life experiences and professional expertise, Tara weaves a narrative that resonates deeply with individuals from all walks of life. Through captivating storytelling, she shares her struggles of overcoming adversity, underscoring the pivotal role that gratitude played in her journey to developing lasting confidence and finding fulfilment.
This talk highlights the benefits of gratitude, which reveals the astonishing impact it has on rewiring the brain and fostering emotional resilience. As a seasoned coach, Tara skilfully breaks down complex concepts into simple actionable steps, equipping the audience with practical tools to infuse gratitude into their daily lives. Using relatable real-life examples, this talk illustrates how practicing gratitude can dissolve self-doubt and instil a sense of purpose in every individual. Tara provides eye-opening insights into the ways gratitude can help us recognize our unique strengths, paving the way for the development of unshakable confidence and success. This talk is a catalyst for positive change and growth, reminding us all that gratitude is the key to unlocking our fullest potential.
Connect with Tara on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram, and KZbin @TaraLaFonGooch and visit her website to learn more: www.TaraLaFonGooch.com or via email: Tara@BestBranding.Solutions
This talk was given at TEDx MaidMarianWay in Nottingham, England using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Tara LaFon Gooch started her consultancy and coaching business during the global pandemic in 2020 and has been serving clients since. She is an international best-selling author of the book, “How To GRASP Confidence & Own Your Power” that has received global recognition and acclaim. In addition, Tara has been featured in Forbes, LA Weekly, Fox News, The Nasdaq Entrepreneurial Center, Microsoft MSN, Yahoo! Finance, and more. She works to elevate businesses, brands, and leadership potential through keynote speaking and workshop facilitation, teaching executive leaders and teams how to become the best versions of themselves and develop unstoppable confidence that becomes a differentiating factor and competitive advantage.
Tara’s story is a reminder that no matter what adversities we have faced in life, we can become the confident leaders we were meant to be and through daily work and action, we can inspire the world around us.
Tara believes that confident leadership is the beacon that inspires trust, fuels innovation, and fosters resilience. It’s the catalyst for effective communication, decisive action, and enduring growth within individuals and entire organizations.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
In a world where self-doubt and insecurities can be overwhelming, confidence has the transformative power to not only change lives but also save them.
Drawing from her own life experiences and professional expertise, Tara weaves a narrative that resonates deeply with individuals from all walks of life. Through captivating storytelling, she shares her personal struggles and triumphs, underscoring the pivotal role that gratitude played in her journey to developing confidence and finding fulfillment.
Tara delves into the science-backed benefits of gratitude, highlighting the latest research and studies, which reveals the astonishing impact it has on rewiring the brain and fostering emotional resilience. As a seasoned coach, she skillfully breaks down complex concepts into simple actionable steps, equipping the audience with practical tools to infuse gratitude into their daily lives. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
"Remember that the foundation of success is confidence, but the foundation of confidence is gratitude."
@sheraararastu4949
@sheraararastu4949 4 ай бұрын
Amazing quote!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
@@sheraararastu4949 - Thank you! Writing and speaking are my strengths that I am leaning into more and more! I appreciate your support!!
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
Game-changer!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
These comments are so amazing, positive and supportive! Thank you everyone who has watched already!
@josefinewanner
@josefinewanner 4 ай бұрын
You're a star!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
@@josefinewanner Thank you so much for the support! ❤️
@peoplepreneur
@peoplepreneur 4 ай бұрын
Tara is a force to be reckoned with! The world needs her leadership; it's real, refershing and empowering! Go Tara!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your support and encouragement! I am grateful to call you my friend! 🙂
@Woman_inWorth
@Woman_inWorth 4 ай бұрын
I absolutely agree!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
@@Woman_inWorth Love you! Thank you! ❤️
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
She is a natural leader stepping into her power and fullest potential. It is so great to watch it all unfold. 😊
@DrNadiaBoutaoui
@DrNadiaBoutaoui 4 ай бұрын
Congratulations Tara. Indeed Gratitude is the foundation of confidence.
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, Nadia! I am grateful for our friendship!!
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
You said it well! Gratitude is the key to confidence and a more fulfilling life!
@jasont.2222
@jasont.2222 4 ай бұрын
One of the most authentic speakers I have ever heard .
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Wow! I truly appreciate that! Thank you for your support! 😊
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
I agree 💯
4 ай бұрын
As someone who has struggled with imposter syndrome for my entire career, the simple raise your hand if you’ve struggled opener and then realizing you’re surrounded by others in the same boat is eye opening! Congrats Tara!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for your support, Nick! The realization that we are not as alone as we think we are is indeed powerful! Thanks for sharing! ❤️
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
I love that take away!
@nathanhill1511
@nathanhill1511 4 ай бұрын
This talk has me thinking about my hopes for my own girls. Confidence is built through practice and that building DOES require a strong foundation!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you, Nathan for your support and you are correct, this is a talk that all parents need to hear to instill confidence within their children, especially for girls!
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
Such a good point! We need to instill confidence in girls early and keep them confident.
@kathryndawe
@kathryndawe 4 ай бұрын
Tara is an incredibly inspiring leader! Her GRASP technique is actionable for all of us! She bookends her technique with the practice of gratitude which makes it really powerful!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thanh you so much for your support! I’m so glad my book brought us together and created our friendship. Thank you for always being in my corner!! ❤️
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
Thank you, Kathryn!
@zehiofficial
@zehiofficial 4 ай бұрын
Welcome world! Great you are catching up with the wonder called Tara!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you my dear friend! You are one of the best supporters I know. What was your favorite takeaway from the talk? Did any part resonate more with you?
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
YES! Tara is so inspiring!
@JacquelineWales
@JacquelineWales 4 ай бұрын
Well done, Tara! Breaking through the cycles of self-limitation is the key to living a fulfilled life.
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for your support! 🏆
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
Absolutely true!
@bobbyjackson6495
@bobbyjackson6495 4 ай бұрын
Well done Tara! I appreciated the sincerity and authenticity of your TedTalk! Confidence begins with the acceptance and gratitude of who we are becoming, and how we got there!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, Bobby! I can sleep well tonight knowing that this talk has been published!!! LOL
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
Thanks for being the first to comment and support, Bobby!!
@KevinMonroe_LivingInGratitude
@KevinMonroe_LivingInGratitude 4 ай бұрын
What a beautiful journey and wonderful to see you weave gratitude through your past, present, and future as the foundation of confidence. Grateful to know you!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you, Kevin! I am grateful to know you my friend! ❤️
@dr.susanbaumgaertel
@dr.susanbaumgaertel 4 ай бұрын
Tara, you delivered this talk with passion, sincerity and raw emotion. Congratulations! So very well done.
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much my dear friend! I am glad to have brought this message to the world!
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
Thanks Susan! 😊
@leahgneal
@leahgneal 4 ай бұрын
Beautifully done, Tara! Congratulations!!!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you my dear friend! ❤️
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
Thanks Leah! 😊
@ChrisTheJobHunter
@ChrisTheJobHunter 4 ай бұрын
As one that helps Jobseekers land dream jobs every week! Confidence is a complete game changer for so many, even the C-Suite executives that I assist. Understanding where you came from, what you have overcome and achieved is integral to my process in building compelling stories for my clients to share during the interview process! You each deserve to be heard whether it’s in a room of 2 or 10,000!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
We all deserve to be heard, Chris! So many great people out there who need to be bold and share their authentic stories with the world!
@bigsmokev2269
@bigsmokev2269 4 ай бұрын
The energy in that room and among the audience was incredible.
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
It really was quite moving! I am so grateful that there were so many people in the audience, it made it special. Did you have a favorite takeaway from the talk?
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
So amazing!
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
Holy cow, it's amazing seeing the number of people that this message has reached and it's just getting started here.
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you, it is amazing to see! It makes me so grateful! 😊
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
Such a wonderful message! So happy to see this shared on the TED stage.
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!
@thinknetwork3614
@thinknetwork3614 4 ай бұрын
Fabulous talk !! I could really feel your passion in this ! Many congratulations 🎉
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, Gary!
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
Thanks, Gary!
@tracyclarkcoaching
@tracyclarkcoaching 4 ай бұрын
This is spectacular and so powerful! Thank you for sharing this with the world. Gratitude for your past, present and future is transformational!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you! The three powerful foundational layers of gratitude are key to a better life and they continue to build on each other when practiced consistently. I appreciate your kind words and encouragement, you are an amazing friend!
@AnaLopez-fd4pz
@AnaLopez-fd4pz 4 ай бұрын
GRATITUDE IS A SUPER POWER
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
It really is! Do you know the best part? It keeps building and deepening as you continue to practice it. ❤️
@user-po5ks7lz7e
@user-po5ks7lz7e 4 ай бұрын
I've personally witnessed Tara grow into this gratitude and confidence, and I've seen her leverage it to help organizations like ours. Her TedX is vulnerable, honest, and brave. Thanks Tara!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind words,Todd! I am so glad this message resonated with you and am excited for the opportunity to talk to your staff about this in the near future. It's amazing how much this message is impacting global audiences and even leadership teams. The leaders I work with have come back to me reporting increased happiness at work, higher productivity, and employees are even having less sick days! All because they are practicing gratitude and making it a daily habit within their organizations.
@bestbrandingsolutions
@bestbrandingsolutions 4 ай бұрын
Yes! Our fearless leader is getting her message out! Time for the well earned spotlight.
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Love this! Thank you, team! 🏆
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
🔥🔥🔥
@thedougthompson
@thedougthompson 4 ай бұрын
Wonderful talk. Very well constructed and delivered.❤
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you my friend! There are a million things I would have changed about how I presented but it is done and I am proud of the final result! Thank you for being there for me! ❤
@martieconner7890
@martieconner7890 4 ай бұрын
I’m so impressed by your positive message, class and poise. You are truly inspiring Tara! Your message of gratitude in your book truly changed my perspective on my traumatic childhood and I began keeping a “gratitude journal “, which was a game changer for me. Implementing your ideas have honestly made me a better person. I’m so proud of you and I’m blessed to call you friend. It gives me so much joy to see you living your best life. Keep doing you and enjoy the ride! ❤😊
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
Your words are so touching, Martie! We are grateful to know you.
@user-wc2iv2ed4y
@user-wc2iv2ed4y 4 ай бұрын
Congrats Tara! You're an amazing speaker and I love the perspective that gratitude is the foundation for confidence.
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you very much! It took a lot of courage to share my story, I'm glad it resonated with you!!
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
I agree! Tara is one of the best speakers because she speaks from her heart and soul. There is no presence, just pure authenticity.
@DrStephanieStoddart
@DrStephanieStoddart 4 ай бұрын
Tara, such a powerful and heartfelt talk on gratitude. Congratulations!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, Stephanie!! I appreciate your love and support so much!
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
Thank you, Stephanie! 😊
@scaredsowhat
@scaredsowhat 4 ай бұрын
Tara, your friends at SCARED SO WHAT send you congratulations on an amazing talk and message!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
YAY!!! Thank you so much for your love and support! Let's keep this momentum going my friends!
@nolasimontjo
@nolasimontjo 4 ай бұрын
This is a phenomenal talk. I find that most TED speakers have a hard time voicing emotion so that’s what I appreciate most in Tara’s talk. We can hear how hard this has been for her and yet she is on stage persisting. It’s very brave and authentic.
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
YAY! Thank you so much Nola!! Your words mean the world to me and I am so glad that you enjoyed my talk!
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
The emotion pulled us in!
@rebekah.meredith
@rebekah.meredith 4 ай бұрын
The amount of goosebumps and emotions this brought is crazy. I will never look at gratitude the same again. Thank you so much!
@jess794
@jess794 4 ай бұрын
Tara, what a beautiful and passionate journey. It's amazing to witness my own growth due my children. Love for others can help heal our traumas and find that deep rooted gratitude that as you've discovered and said, will change our lives. Well done! I am so proud of you!
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
Thank you Jess! 😊
@tomikasnodgrass1580
@tomikasnodgrass1580 3 ай бұрын
This talk is fantastic! I love what Tara says about gratitude, keeping the confident version of yourself at the forefront of your mind, and being grateful for that version of yourself. This message resonates with me deeply because although I am very confident, self-doubt still creeps in sometimes. During these times, I can reflect on all the love and encouragement that my parents poured into me over the years, which gave me the confidence to believe that anything is possible. For that, I am immensely grateful and passionate about paying it forward by pouring that love and encouragement into my children and everyone around me. Well done, Tara LaFon Gooch!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for the thoughtful comment, Tomika! I'm so glad this message resonated with you and had an impact on you. I just subscribed to your KZbin channel! ❤
@accessiblecreates
@accessiblecreates 4 ай бұрын
I love the initial engagement from the audience I love the construction example! Strong and stable foundation! Love that. I love that you talked about your struggle with a lack of confidence during childhood, the shift to adulthood, and being more confident. The self-discovery journey after hitting bottom is so relatable and glad you shared it
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
The construction example was a great visualization!
@user-zf4bo8xq2k
@user-zf4bo8xq2k 4 ай бұрын
Finding gratitude in the small things in life is so important I feel
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Indeed it is! In any situation we can find gratitude and be forever changed as a result. I'm glad it resonated with you! Have you ever tried gratitude journaling? It's really a game-changer!!
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
Find the gratitude in everything!
@NaveenOfficial94
@NaveenOfficial94 4 ай бұрын
Loved this Tara, you are the best!!!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you, my friend! What was your favorite part of the talk? Anything that resonated with you?
@Nutrifong
@Nutrifong 4 ай бұрын
Such an inspiring speech, Tara. Your words motivate me to envision the best version of myself-the one that has already achieved so much. Thank you for spreading confidence-building messages.
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your support, Fong!! I hope my talk helps you get clarity on your future self and imagine that person with gratitude. Every day you are one step closer to the person you were always meant to be! Keep shining, my friend!
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
Thanks for supporting, Fong!
@dianalondonomd
@dianalondonomd 4 ай бұрын
LOVE IT!!!! It is so beautifully stated, articulated, and delivered!!! Great job:)
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, Diana! ❤️
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
Thanks, Diana! We appreciate your continued support and encouragement!
@RemarkableASpeakersBureau
@RemarkableASpeakersBureau 4 ай бұрын
Congratulations Tara! Great message! You look and sound confident and you show others what gratitude has to do with confidence and success! Your story is amazing and so happy for you that you found the solutions for yourself and how to help others! i can certainly resonate with you! Can't wait to have coffee soon!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
I'm so glad you enjoyed it, Sue!! It took a great deal of courage to deliver this talk and share my story openly but I am so glad I did because I know it will help MANY people across the globe develop confidence. Thank you for your support!!
@RemarkableASpeakersBureau
@RemarkableASpeakersBureau 4 ай бұрын
@@TaraLaFonGooch yes it will! You are so welcome! I am your fan!
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
Thank you, Sue! I look forward to meeting you one day! I heard we were practically neighbors. 😊
@RemarkableASpeakersBureau
@RemarkableASpeakersBureau 4 ай бұрын
@@goochjm Yes we are! That would be great!
@LynnDanielleTreasure
@LynnDanielleTreasure 4 ай бұрын
Tara, you did a beautiful job sharing your story and framework for self improvement. Congratulations to you on this accomplishment! Gratitude is the way to sustained success.🎉
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Indeed it is! ❤️ When gratitude is your foundation you will sustain success, confidence, happiness, and fulfillment. While I say that gratitude is the foundation of confidence, it’s really the foundation of all things good and positive. Have you ever tried gratitude journaling? It is life-changing! 💯
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
Thanks Lynn! I agree!
@thinknetwork3614
@thinknetwork3614 4 ай бұрын
I journal every day expressing how much gratitude i feel
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Gratitude is the law of INCREASE!!
@janelehman5290
@janelehman5290 4 ай бұрын
Great talk! It's sad that so many people suffer from low self-esteem. I have worked hard to overcome it and I wish we would put more emphasis on helping children gain confidence earlier in life. It's a subject we must continue discussing.
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Hi Jane! Thanks for commenting and sharing your thoughts. So many people, especially girls are suffering from low self-esteem and then it carries with them for far too long in life and they believe it is a fixed reality for them. It doesn't have to be this way, there is a method to developing confidence and it starts with GRATITUDE! 🙏
@michaelthomascoaching5003
@michaelthomascoaching5003 4 ай бұрын
This is a must-watch: The Foundation of Confidence. Watch how Tara takes the stage with confidence and gratitude she takes us on an amazing journey of self-confidence, limiting beliefs and mindset. You can't be what you can't SEE. Plant those seeds and watch them slowly grow. Feelings of gratitude and feelings of confidence are directly related. This is because the more grateful you are for all you have, the more you realize ALL that you have to be grateful for… and more and more awesome things. Tara, you Truly lead from the front, and you will change and influence many lives. Now and in the future.😃😃😀This TED x talk is gift wrapped for those are looking to find confidence through gratitude.
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you my friend! I appreciate you very much, I’m glad it added value to your life and that it resonated with you! ❤️
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for your support, Michael!
@Nothingisimpossible23
@Nothingisimpossible23 4 ай бұрын
Tara what a powerful talk and story my friend! As you know gratitude is something I've been practicing daily this year will make 4 years and my definition of gratitude is "the light in a room full of darkness. I love the vulnerability you shared in your talk my friend and it serves as a reminder that "Vulnerability isn't a weakness it's a SUPER POWER". I believe the greatest confidence builder is keeping the promises you make to yourself and holding yourself accountable to a standard over feelings ♥ Impossible= I'm Possible 🙌🙌🙌
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Love this message, Paul! Thank you for always being a beacon of love and light on LinkedIn and beyond. I am so grateful that our paths crossed and that we decided to support each other. It's really magical to find alignment with others who share your values. Thanks for supporting and encouraging, my friend! 😃
@johntarantino5258
@johntarantino5258 4 ай бұрын
This is a wonderful talk! Congratulations, Tara.
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, John! You have been a wonderful friend and mentor to me and I am beyond grateful for our friendship. What was your favorite takeaway from either my book or talk? 😊
@johntarantino5258
@johntarantino5258 4 ай бұрын
That we are not defined by our past. We can move forward with gratitude and confidence.
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
@@johntarantino5258 AMEN! It is so empowering to know that through gratitude we have the power and capability to move beyond our past and become the person we were always meant to be. Thank you again, my friend! You are truly one in a billion. ❤️
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
Thanks for your support, John!
@lifeturnedon
@lifeturnedon 4 ай бұрын
Your personal story is so relatable! Great, easy delivery, touching, and inspiring!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you, Sharon! I greatly appreciate your support!! 😊
@ShaleighFerguson
@ShaleighFerguson 4 ай бұрын
You are a very inspiring lady Tara, you've come so far!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, Shaleigh! I appreciate your kindness! What was your favorite part of my talk?
@ZenRabbitVideo
@ZenRabbitVideo 4 ай бұрын
Wow, such a fantastic presentation, Tara! You know gratitude is my jam - and I've never thought about it as the foundation for confidence and self-esteem. Rock on! No doubt you've got way more to share with the world. 🤩
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
I’ll tell you more about this when we meet soon, Lori…but it was YOU who first planted this seed of a deeper meaning to gratitude in my head nearly 2 years ago!!! We have much to catch up on, my friend! ❤️❤️❤️
@andyclevenger6274
@andyclevenger6274 4 ай бұрын
Tara. Such a great message to ground everyone and remind them to enjoy the journey. Maximizing the positives in every experience you have had. Be grateful for these experiences...they made you who you are today. Great job! Keep inspiring....
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for the kind words, Andy! I am grateful for your support and friendship and I am so glad my talk resonated with you so deeply. ♥
@Brian-to1du
@Brian-to1du 4 ай бұрын
Tara I bought your book !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
It's such a great book! You will love it!!
@user-wj9bj9nf4h
@user-wj9bj9nf4h 4 ай бұрын
Tara. Thank you for sending this video. My thoughts.....is that you nailed it!!! It was excellent, and so well presented. I could feel your pride, and your immense desire to give these gifts of knowledge to your daughter. As a parent, we want so much for them, and it is so tough some times. Your presentation touched me, as an "older" guy, as I have strived to live my life while building my foundations of gratitude and confidence. And as you so clearly emphasized, this can be done in spite of our challenges, which we all experience. Now, I live for the good of what comes today, surrounded by positive people and environments that inspire and propel me towards the future that I have envisioned. So again, an amazing presentation. You should be very proud and confident in a job well done.
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement, Dan! I am proud of the work I did and I know it will continue to impact many people across the globe!
@Tarek-ew3uz
@Tarek-ew3uz 3 ай бұрын
"I enjoyed reviewing the Arabic subtitles for this talk because it really resonated with me. I have always struggled with a lack of confidence, which has affected many aspects of my life. Listening to someone else talk about their own experiences with this issue felt like hearing the story of my own life
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 2 ай бұрын
This is wonderful to hear, I am so glad that you were able to listen to my talk with subtitles and that the message resonated with you and helped you!
@HEB027
@HEB027 4 ай бұрын
Fabulous talk Tara! A must-watch for the staggering 85% of people (Psychology Today study you quote) suffering from low self-esteem... I particularly loved your point about breaking the cycle of low confidence. Great message, superbly delivered.
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
I appreciate you so much! Thank you for sharing the stage with me on the big day! I can’t wait for your talk to be published, I will comment on it straight away! ❤
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
Hey Hillary! I look forward to catching yours once again once it's live here with Texdx.
@HEB027
@HEB027 4 ай бұрын
Thanks so much @@TaraLaFonGooch - see you've already done it 😁
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
It is crazy to think about how many people lack confidence. It's often the silent struggle that many face and few admit to.
@user-mr8yt8kr6q
@user-mr8yt8kr6q 4 ай бұрын
Believe you can achieve what you want in your heart, thanks for the reminder Tara.
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
It starts within most definately!! We have to believe it in our hearts in order to become the person we were always meant to be. I'm glad it resonated with you!!
@byemma7245
@byemma7245 4 ай бұрын
Grateful to have heard this - randomly came across it too, thankful
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
So grateful for your support! Thanks again!
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
So glad the talk found its way to you!
@ginevra5295
@ginevra5295 4 ай бұрын
Love your accent, could listen to you all day.
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank You!!! ❤
@jonathangonzalez93
@jonathangonzalez93 4 ай бұрын
Thanks for the reminder Tara, be grateful everyone
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Yes, let's all become grateful for the lives we have and for the journey we have been through. What was your favorite takeaway from my talk?
@Woman_inWorth
@Woman_inWorth 4 ай бұрын
An absolute must watch! Tara has left us many life changing gems in this talk. Well done!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
THANK YOU for your support, my friend! I am so grateful for you, you changed my life and believed in me enough to give me the gift of being on your amazing TEDxMaidMarianWay stage! You are an inspiration and I am just so blessed to know you. Keep shining! ♥
@Woman_inWorth
@Woman_inWorth 4 ай бұрын
I am grateful for you. It's up from here!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
@@Woman_inWorth - AMEN to that! It's only up from here my friend! Keep soaring!!
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
Thanks for everything, Mitzie! 😊
@Woman_inWorth
@Woman_inWorth 4 ай бұрын
@@goochjm It's an honour Josh. A phenomenal woman indeed!
@emilybird9761
@emilybird9761 4 ай бұрын
You shine bright now ! No more fading away
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you, Emily! No more fading away, it's time to shine!!
@aurora2928
@aurora2928 4 ай бұрын
Best talk I've heard today- so much gratitude!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
THANK YOU!!! Gratitude really did change my life and it is changing many more lives now with this talk going out to the world! Let's keep this gratitude wave spreading! Tell your friends about how gratitude builds confidence and encourage them to watch my talk. We never know who needs to hear this message and it could change lives or even save them! Let's go! ❤
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
TRUTH!!
@lifehacks797
@lifehacks797 4 ай бұрын
So emotional after listening to this, many congratulations :)
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you! What was your favorite takeaway from the talk?
@ChameleonResumes
@ChameleonResumes 4 ай бұрын
Gratitude is where your happiness potential lies!
@allensmall5448
@allensmall5448 4 ай бұрын
Truly wonderful Talk, you are so confident on that stage
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your support and kind words! Did you have a favorite part that resonated with you? 😊
@vivianakesel9298
@vivianakesel9298 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this Tara, it hit home as I have been focusing more on gratitude during hard times. I really liked what you said about that the foundation of success is confidence, the the foundation of confidence is gratitude. It helps so much to stay focused on those things we already have while we are growing to become the person we want to be.
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
So helpful to know where to start, sometimes it's about the first step and then we are off!
@K.I.S.S.Roxane_Tran
@K.I.S.S.Roxane_Tran 4 ай бұрын
Beautifully presented! So grateful for your friendship and proud of you, Tara 🙏
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Oh, thank you so much for the kind note, Roxane!! I'm grateful for our friendship as well. I honestly feel so blessed!
@TimoneSmith
@TimoneSmith 4 ай бұрын
Passion and purpose, many congratulations
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your support, Timone! What was your favorite takeaway?
@bradleyferree5377
@bradleyferree5377 4 ай бұрын
Wonderful TEDx talk Tara! Keep up the great work inspiring others by sharing your powerful story!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your love and support, Bradley! You are a good friend and I appreciate you!
@JamettaWillis
@JamettaWillis 4 ай бұрын
You can't be what you can't see- loved this moment Tara
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
YES!!! You can't be what you can't see is so powerful because so many people have't considered the visualization aspect that comes with it! True, lasting confidence comes through sustained vision and action built on a foundation of profound gratitude!
@jonathaninman602
@jonathaninman602 4 ай бұрын
This Ted Talk was wonderful. I really love how you intially showed the audience how common low self esteem can be, and then showed how it can directly change the tragectory of your life as you shared your personal journey. The three steps towards using graditude as a catalyst to confidence are brilliant and so needed. I think this is truly going to inspire others, as I know it has inspired me. As a professional with a goal for success that is tethered to my daughter’s future and well-being, I can directly relate to this. I am happy that you are going the distance and sharing your vision.
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your love and support my dear friend! I truly appreciate your kind words and belief in me.
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching and commenting, Jonathan!
@sebastianmontenegro8394
@sebastianmontenegro8394 4 ай бұрын
Having gratitude for our past can be so difficult for some people including me
@pauld.kreiterpresentationc1162
@pauld.kreiterpresentationc1162 4 ай бұрын
A very thoughtful keynote. A nice mix of personal and practical advice and experiences.
@Singawayek
@Singawayek 4 ай бұрын
Well done Tara. The personal anecdotes built a solid foundation for the rest of the talk. Your story is humbling and powerful; keep sharing it.
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for your support and kindness! I’m glad the talk added value to you. Keep shining, my friend! ❤️👊
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
Thanks for supporting! 💯
@dorritkarlsen9594
@dorritkarlsen9594 4 ай бұрын
Congratulations on a perfectly performed TEDx talk Tara🎉👏🏻👏🏻⭐️ Honest and raw, with a great story and 3 simple steps to follow. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏻
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you, Dorrit! I appreciate your support, thanks for commenting and engaging!
@martinnyahasha3810
@martinnyahasha3810 4 ай бұрын
Magnificent! ✨Love it ! Well done Tara 👏🏼🎉
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your kindness and support! What was your favorite takeaway from my talk?
@ghizlainebennani
@ghizlainebennani 4 ай бұрын
So powerful talk, very important topic to bring awareness to! Thank you for this amazing delivery!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you my beautiful friend, Ghizlaine! I enjoyed our chat today and can't wait to take over the world with you!!
@ghizlainebennani
@ghizlainebennani 4 ай бұрын
@@TaraLaFonGooch Amen! Back at you beautiful lady! 🔥🙏
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
The delivery was on point! Getting the audience engaged right from the start!
@robertkornfeld655
@robertkornfeld655 4 ай бұрын
Great talk, Tara. Everything you said resonated with me. Gratitude is a powerful tool. Thank you.
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for the support and kindness, Robert! Gratitude is a superpower! 🙏
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
Gratitude is a game changer for sure!👍
@SwedishWealthInstitute
@SwedishWealthInstitute 3 ай бұрын
Powerful story Tara, amazing! Thank you so much for your vulnerability and amazing turnaround! Thanks for sharing!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 3 ай бұрын
Wonderful, thank you so much for your amazing support!!
@yaquelynelizethgodinez3512
@yaquelynelizethgodinez3512 4 ай бұрын
I hear so much about the feel good chemicals, thanks for this Tara
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Ha! Thank you! It's all about producing those "feel good" chemicals and gratitude helps us do that! If you do it long enough, your life will change!
@klaraprice2355
@klaraprice2355 4 ай бұрын
Wonderful presentation Tara, really loved this talk everyone. Please watch
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your support! What was your favorite takeaway?
@sachdhr
@sachdhr 4 ай бұрын
Wow. I truly related to your narration. You were authentic. Your humanity shone through. Your message resonated. Simplicity, elegence, emotion cane together to create the perfect conditions where I was looking forward to your every single next word, sentence and thought.
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
That's amazing to hear and thank you so much for your support! To be authentic and vulnerable is not easy but it is the only way to truly connect to your audience. I made it my commitment when I delivered this talk to be as open as possible because I knew it would truly resonate an leave a lasting impact. Thanks again for sharing your thoughts!!
@ronnie_dove
@ronnie_dove 4 ай бұрын
Great talk!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you, Ronnie!! I appreciate you so much!!
@mikepowell8044
@mikepowell8044 4 ай бұрын
This may very well have just changed my life- its hat good, I can feel it
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Love hearing this, Mike! I hope it does change your life and help you. Thank you for your support! What part resonated with you the most?
@dorritkarlsen9594
@dorritkarlsen9594 4 ай бұрын
I loved your talk. So honest and raw. I see what you’re saying here even though I have a different approach to helping people gain confidence- but one thing is common for us both: we use gratitude. In my work it is used when a client are under hypnotic induction and we find a piece of information from the past ( this life or a prior life time). It is important to acknowledge and be thankful for the reason it came to the client in the first place, and to the lesson it teaches. Anyway, thanks a ton for sharing this with me and congratulations on a perfectly performed TEDx talk 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💝🥳
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
I love your approach, Dorrit! I have found that we all have different approaches but what matters is that it works and people are helped as a result. Gratitude is indeed what we have in common because it really works! Thank you so much for highlighting that!
@siyathakkar6472
@siyathakkar6472 4 ай бұрын
This is such a refreshing take on gratitude and confidence! Resonated with many of the things you said- thank you for sharing this with us!!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your support! I'm so glad you enjoyed my talk and message!
@joshgooch-scc4553
@joshgooch-scc4553 4 ай бұрын
Very inspirational, so much to consider and apply!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your valued comment! I hope it helps you live a more confident life!
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
It's a goldmine of useful information for personal development!
@ShealynnMorton
@ShealynnMorton 3 ай бұрын
Most of these talks are can but this one is just the best thing I've heard in a while - IM GRATEFUL
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 3 ай бұрын
Wow! Thank you so much, Shealynn! I would love to know your favorite takeaway that inspired you. 😃
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
The 3 Foundational Layers of Gratitude To Build Confidence: 1.) Gratitude for your past and your life's journey. 2.) Gratitude for your present and loving the person you are. 3.) Gratitude for your future self and everything you can become and stepping into the person you were designed to be. So much power in this! Share your thoughts. Let's start a conversation!
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
Gold!
@Jeonginsiiitooo
@Jeonginsiiitooo 4 ай бұрын
One of the best talks ive heard I a long time, GRATEFUL
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
THANK YOU!!! I am grateful for your support!! What was your favorite takeaway?
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
Truly! Tara is a phenomenal speaker!
@user-de4kr1eb6h
@user-de4kr1eb6h 4 ай бұрын
Super super confident, you really commanded that red dot Tara!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you!! To tell you the truth, I was super nervous but I knew it was a message that needed to be delivered to help as many people around the world as possible! It's all about IMPACT! Did you have a favorite takeaway from the talk?
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
I agree! So powerful and poised!
@evebarry369
@evebarry369 4 ай бұрын
Great talk and very well delivered too. Grateful
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for the support!! What was your favorite takeaway?
@cesarvalentinramieezvala-lp7qz
@cesarvalentinramieezvala-lp7qz 4 ай бұрын
This made me cry- it just touched me, very brave, well done you
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for your support and kindness! I'm glad it touched your heart and resonated with you! What was your favorite learning point from my talk?
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
Me too!
@geraldinespurway3399
@geraldinespurway3399 4 ай бұрын
This is such an incredible life lesson. Your energy is infectious and I am so grateful to know you ❤
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
I am grateful to know you, Geraldine! This amazing stage is all about sharing your greatest life lessons, your purpose, and your pure authenticity. I know it is in your future as well. I believe in YOU! ❤
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
Good to see you my English/French friend!
@StandupforDoctors
@StandupforDoctors 4 ай бұрын
I was so happy to watch this Tara, amazing job! Awesome bottom-line summary of your book, congratulations!!!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, Kim!! I thought you would like step #3, having gratitude for your future self and what that means and looks like based off our conversation. It is an interesting concept but I believe that when we can have gratitude for things yet to be, we are able to visualize them clearly and feel them in a VERY powerful way that makes it even more real and tangible. Does this concept resonate with you?
@StandupforDoctors
@StandupforDoctors 4 ай бұрын
Wow, you remembered 😊 @@TaraLaFonGooch, absolutely! I'm still working on that, thank you so much!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
@@StandupforDoctors Absolutely, of course I remembered! ❤️ I have a great memory for conversations with amazing people like you!
@StandupforDoctors
@StandupforDoctors 4 ай бұрын
@@TaraLaFonGooch you're just all kinds of awesome; we'll have to do it again sometime 🥰!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
@@StandupforDoctors Anytime! You know I support you and your mission greatly! 🙏
@klaraprice2355
@klaraprice2355 3 ай бұрын
Oh My God! Your video is really Enormous Graceful Frame
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 3 ай бұрын
Thank you! Have you ever considered gratitude could be related to confidence? It's interesting to think about and consider.
@niadthomas
@niadthomas 4 ай бұрын
Great Talk. The third point really resonated with me and made me reflect on where I'm going
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, Nia! I'm glad it resnonated with you. Thinking about our future gives us so much clarity and helps us understand who we truly want to become! A true game-changer!!
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
Reflect on where you are going and who you want to become. It's such a powerful concept!
@OG_Original38
@OG_Original38 4 ай бұрын
Love to see raw emotion ❤
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! I appreciate your support. It’s not easy being on the TEDx stage, it is a bit intimidating but what matters is that we step out in courage and conviction and help others through our message. 😊
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
I want to hear from you!! What was you favorite takeaway from my talk? Have you ever considered the power of gratitude at building confidence?
@AntonneNash
@AntonneNash 3 ай бұрын
You deserve a hug right now
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 3 ай бұрын
And so do you!! Thanks for your support! What was your favorite takeaway?
@goochjm
@goochjm 4 ай бұрын
The people have spoken! 200K+ views in 20 days means many people need to hear this message.
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
BOOM! It's on fire! People want and need to hear this message. It is truly life-changing and for some it may even be life-saving!
@daverivas4292
@daverivas4292 2 ай бұрын
Great message Tara, appreciate your realness and authenticity!!!!
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for the kind note! What was your favorite take away from my talk? Also, feel free to follow me on social media. I'm just about everywhere. 😃
@daverivas4292
@daverivas4292 2 ай бұрын
I really appreciate your deep vulnerability on the obstacles you’ve overcome and all the hard work and dedication you put forth in reaching your true potential!!! I felt like you would understand the trials and tribulations I had to overcome in gaining confidence and clarity in my own life?! I love the references you draw upon and the facts you speak of in building the foundations in our new outlook on our lives. I could literally go on and on, you have a new follower as of today and I thank Raul Riuz for guiding me your way, thank you Tara for sharing your perspective view on attaining personal growth.
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 2 ай бұрын
@@daverivas4292 WOW! That’s wonderful to hear! Thank you so much for your support and encouragement. Raul is an amazing person and I am privileged to call him my friend also, he is a gift that keeps giving. Thank you so much for finding my talk and connecting with me. 😀
@daverivas4292
@daverivas4292 2 ай бұрын
Looking forward in hearing you share on your awesomeness 🎉🎉🎉
@FreshIdeasWorld
@FreshIdeasWorld 4 ай бұрын
Very touching ❤️Gratitude 🙏 and acceptance are key 🙏
@TaraLaFonGooch
@TaraLaFonGooch 4 ай бұрын
Yes indeed! Gratitude is the key to accepting and forgiving our pasts and moving on so that we can enjoy the present and step into the ideal future. All success starts with gratitude, it's a great first step!
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