Why Men Pull Away After Getting Close?

[@anadebeljak9528]

Each man should come with manual.

[@jasminjasmin2869]

Bahahahahaha

[@vegan4theanimals2]

Oh gosh...nooo...i never read manuals...Lol

[@amyyy4]

😂😂😂👍🏼

[@realtalktina]

It would be the same manual they are all the same! Trust me

[@Linda-dc7rl]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@eleseclarke6038]

I'm so glad i found this channel i needed this i have almost lost him I've been doing all the wrong things begging pleading chasing texting calling all the time asking him to be with me.. I need to to just chill and act more high value I'm literally watching all of your videos x

[@danilaroche1156]

My guess is she's not. Married or single it's good to let him be, work on yourself and pursue GOD. That's the biblical principle. What Jesus taught. Seek ye first the kingdom of God and all things added & that includes Greta's pearls of wisdom.

[@fitforever22]

Usually the men who don’t want anything serious are the hot and cold kind. If everything is going well and the relationship is progressing there is no need to ask where is this going...Our insecurities rise only when we feel the men is stalling or regressing.

[@SR77736]

Exactly! We feel uncertain bc of their behavior.

[@Soenedizke]

hot and cold is just a game. watch actions over words

[@faisalrais5423]

Hi me from indonesia

[@leodelicious865]

Most likely you are correct , where did he go to recharge during the lockdown 😒

[@ImranKhan-tj3dr]

I like u really I m alone 😍😍👧👧❤❤🌷🌷🌷

[@aliciam7774]

You always teach something new, i thought i knew all thw reasons why they pull away, but number 3 was a surprise!! I had no idea, but it makes so much sense!!

[@GretaBereisaite]

Alicia M 😘😘

[@deborahvallez1142]

I met the guy I like in October in Tuscany while olive picking. I was not yet high value. We had great chemistry but I had some low value moments that almost ruined everything. I found Greta late January and since then, things with him are going slow and steady in the right direction. He has noticed the change in me. I am much happier when high value because the drama I created for myself is not ruling me. I am being coached by Greta and I am a member of the VIP High Value Tribe. It is also changing and improving my relationship with my 33 year old daughter. I look forward to the Self Love Group coming soon and absolutely recommend any and all parts of this for you.

[@ImranKhan-tj3dr]

I love u really I like u I m alone Single 👧👧👧❤❤❤❤❤🌷🌷🌷🌷

[@titag.1607]

Thank you its been 3dys and i will not make same mistakes from the past. I will not chase and will trust that if hes the one he will come back on his own.

[@janethriosalaga7716]

I love the way you explain coz it is direct to point and very comprehensive ... it is very clear the way you deliver your input! Good job! Keep it up, Ms. Gretta...

[@GretaBereisaite]

Jhan Neth thank you 💖

[@blondiexoxo1286]

@@GretaBereisaite yesterday my boyfriend whose mother has cancer he has been more distant but about a week before this we had gotten over a disagreement about our 30 minute distance in the relationship but he said he still loved me and we agreed to stay a couple so is him being distant now more likely from the stress of helping his mother or is he losing interest in me ? he still texts me but he did not send the usual good morning text today i had to send it this time he did respond to every text i sent this morning but i just feel a distant vibe is it just because his moms sick or should I be worried ? Any advice would be greatly appreciated

[@Amina-kz3cf]

blackroses xoxo did everything work out?

[@MichelePearl]

This works like a charm. This works with all men. When he pulled away I went back to my hobbies and posted new updated photos of me shooting pool, having fun as I had been neglecting that. Not even a day had passed and he started texting telling me about his busy day, I was completely nice but kept it short texting back texts briefer than his. He was asking how is what he did in my house working? Great, you did a great job I said, being positive. He then texted me non stop. Greta is a genius.

[@paigeheartly8936]

Every time he pulls away I get so freaked out lol. But thanks to you I know that he’s not going anywhere I just need to give him the space he needs to recharge for a few days :)

[@rebekahsumer7980]

In same situation now, i miss him but will pacient 🙂

[@danilaroche1156]

Do you have abandonment or father issues. Fear of rejection? That used to be me in a nut shell. No more. I have a very fulfilling life and I have Christ.

[@vm6796]

You look so pretty in this video ❤

[@GretaBereisaite]

V M thank you 🙏🏻

[@prettyjane30]

You make me feel ok by explaining everything

[@peaceandserenity22]

The Phone metaphor is creative and unique ! You are very dazzling, elegant and attractive , Greta

[@CRpatriot]

I love this video I have it on repeat 🙏❤️

[@hellothereinternet]

My guy said he feels like he’s getting serious with me then went a lil cold! Thanks greta 😇 I knew it

[@florr756]

Loving this video and the science behind testosterone and oxytocin’s relationship. Video Came at the right time Greta :). I always liked the bridge background too :)

[@MsRipley76]

Yes. I have experienced this several times with different guys I´ve been dating. And I have also sadly reacted the wrong way. Not understanding why they pulled back, seeking answers and therefor nagging and chasing. I´m working with myself and hoping things will be different. Been seeing a guy who after he pulled away lost genuin interest and stopped chasing me. Now he wants us to be friends with benefits, and I´m reluctant cause I want more. Going to enjoy my one life not minding him so much and see If he regaines interest. Otherwise I will move on, just focusing on myself. Hoping though he will turn around since I like him and we have fun together.

[@HopefulInterventions]

Please, don’t be friends with benefits if you want a relationship. Once you set boundaries with men, you will attract a guy who wants something real with you.

[@gratitude5740]

I would be offended if a man asked me to be friends with benefits. I find that disgusting!

[@MsRipley76]

@@gratitude5740 Well he did't so much ask. Think it was more of a mindset for him.

[@dancingwithspirit5588]

In the past I did chase him because I was afraid of losing him but since I have learned to love my Self first he is actually the one chasing and texting me all the time,he even told me that I must have been doing some magic on him because he can’t stop thinking of me 😂😂😂thanks 🙏🏻

[@bw-dn1wp]

When a man pulls away from me, I appreciate it bc it lets me focus on myself instead of him. Especially because the man I have been seeing is fairly impatient and needy himself. Lol

[@Sabrina-mw4qm]

Ha he has to recharge once a month huh! Well I’m tired of the once a month thing.

[@Dianelane10]

Imagine he is like a phone 😁 love it! U are so beautiful 💙🙏

[@CRpatriot]

I love your descriptions. Very clear and understanding super funny phone charge, be at full charge. Thank you reminder to love myself, friends and family.

[@landriahm6161]

#3 😳freaking out over it... we spent such a fun weekend n now nothing... he replied telling me it was fun n we need to do it again and planned for another date but nothing else after that... but sometimes I forget him and he tells me he miss me... but I feel neglected..

[@galaxygamer9069]

I love ❤️ all your videos because it makes relationships work. But also I love your beautiful face with the nice make up, your eyeliner is fantastic 💞

[@opkelania338]

u are awsm nd a good teacher . the way u explain is very creative .. thanks for making ladies know their worth :)

[@ambica.n3476]

Wow thank u soo much Greta,u r soo wise!

[@jennifere4641]

I love the guy/cell phone analogy📱🌼🎉💕 You may just have cured my anxiety..... Married 28 years. Divorced for 18 months. Thank you for preparing me for my new chapter 🌈🌈

[@yanagolub2629]

YOU ARE THE GREATEST,THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU

[@eumesma4725]

6:44 I need to know thank you !!! Im confused. This guy is my Facebook friend for two years. Finally we went out on couple dates , now he is pulling away. He is in the law enforcement so he is cold not affectionate etc but damn 🤦🏽‍♀️ turn me off so I stop talking to him all together. And I really like him.

[@tasleemmaslaihat9311]

The best video ever on this subject!!! Thank you

[@debk5227]

Thank you so much Greta. I like so much listening to you,

[@antoinettegorman8833]

Excellent advice. Well explained. Tks greta xx

[@sept2866]

Great advice Greta

[@shums77]

Love it!

[@GretaBereisaite]

shums77 thank you

[@patriciaearley4177]

Yes true most men like to figure things out themselves while women like to talk things out.That can create some confusion on the woman's part.It's best to let the man do his thing he will communicate and take action if he's truly interested.I found this to be the case more often then not.I figure if he doesn't do anything he's doing me a favor by staying away lol.Either way a win👍💯

[@jennyp32]

Love this neutral look!

[@tiqbal2874]

your explanations are just awesome❤

[@mariamichellesitko3062]

Very wise advice here

[@natalialecce7111]

Thank you for this advice. ❤️

[@ipsitabehera5931]

Excellent description..

[@tiamaria1581]

Love ur illustrations

[@vegan4theanimals2]

I love your videos. Thank you! 🙏

[@soulsearchtarot]

ehhh when I showed signs of self-love and high self esteem he would say "you overestimate yourself, you're not that special." So what did he want? To bring me down? To test me? To neg me?

[@irmelinjohansen2569]

He is a low value man.

[@annanni9730]

Leav him .don't respond anything. Start dating other guys ..eventually if he don't bring the best him leav him

[@ImranKhan-tj3dr]

Or u marriad 😍😍❤❤🌷🌷

[@samiyanahimana7517]

Okay? If he needs to charge like a phone, how many times is he going to pull a way and charge? Am going to wait for him each time he is pulling a way? Mmmh then he don't really love you periode.

[@loveispatientloveiskind2205]

The trouble is, it's causing me to be too upset, my moods are going lower and lower... because it's hell.. he's done it too much, and it spirals me ... my friend is dating a girl who got rejected, so she broke her back after jumping from a railway bridge... this is serious stuff. Some of us can't cope as easily as others

[@kitahoho6072]

Ure the perfect coach u GïvE real advice o love you so much @Gretta

[@blythe68]

Wow your so awesome.. Love love love this video

[@FEEDING_BIGFOOT]

He has pulled away for a week and I’ve given space. Messaged once and he is not replying 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@andreeaciobanuc404]

But we don't really know if he pulled back because of the testosteron which went down after a great day or if it's a stupid game of hot and cold/ push and pull ( emotional abuse and disrespect, manipulation on purpose to chip away at our self-worth and self-esteem) . It's hard to know.

[@positiveme9349]

You are an angel Greta.... Love you alot 😘😘😘... May god bless you ♥♥♥

[@myrahouse2368]

No 3 Brilliant!

[@agnesiluobe3090]

What If we had a messy quarrel where I disrespected him and he says he wants to reconsider things.

[@Sweetiepie_Jess]

Greta you are great !

[@Carvegirl]

Miss Greta I have been binge-watching your videos I'm sure you've noticed cuz I've liked every one of them. I've had these contact with this guy for about 8 months we have never met in person but we have facetimed almost everyday. He has now pulled away for the second time and I'm just staying foot. First time he came back he was apologizing with the longest letter and felt really remorseful . Then we progress our connection and feelings for each other . I'm sure I've made my mistakes too being needy but I've backed off big time . He's now wondering where I'm at when I'm doing . I don't answering right away but I am politely answering him in my own time. We were both agreeing to meet each other sometime in October 2019 but so far I have not seen any actions only words. Now I'm continuing with my Fabulous Life I let him pull away but what do I say when he comes back because this cannot be a pattern that I should tolerate as a high-value woman right? I'm not sure if he's the right one for me to be honest with you but we have a great chemistry and attraction. it will be interesting to hear your opinion on this one. You are such a wise lady thank you.

[@ImranKhan-tj3dr]

I like u I m alone 👧👧😍😍❤❤🌷🌷🌷

[@lovelykitten9967]

Thanks a lot :)

[@sitizulikha3552]

well said.

[@CRpatriot]

Love the advise. I want to start loving myself. Question while he’s “recharging”, do I have to ask or let him know that I’m going out With my friends?

[@CherrellMishelle]

Just go! Think he’ll do the same?

[@gratitude5740]

Tell. You ask when he is your husband. 😊

[@melissabennett4019]

Seems like it had to do with having trust .

[@stephblenheim4283]

What if he pulls away for a week after spending nice time together?? Is this the testosterone thing? Or just lost interest?? We had a lovely time. Everything had been going so well. I haven’t contacted him or chased. I don’t understand what’s gone wrong. We had been talking and dating and were serious. The only thing I can think of is when he said “you know how much you love me” and I jokingly said I don’t being cheeky but he looked a bit hurt and took it the wrong way and thought I was serious and said at least you’re being honest. I do love him and we had said it to each other in texts but I was very afraid of saying it out loud recently because of fear of scaring him off and seeming too keen and over eager. We were talking about marriage and moving in together. It doesn’t make sense.

[@danilaroche1156]

Maybe y'all had sex and he's feeling confused? In my experience, oftentimes premarital sex causes major problems.

[@yasminnamaz1074]

I miss the old him !! 😭❤️ I always cared and cartered for him. Why is he behaving like this.

[@danilaroche1156]

Your doing too much. He's feeling mothered and smothered.

[@miaheranandez8257]

👏👏👏👏

[@eumorphiaartemiou5748]

So we must act like Buddhas s all the time

[@pandorapink1227]

I didn’t know that.

[@shield9085]

Finally, I found the solution. Thank you Idol.👏

[@irenekerford4727]

Mine pull away and came back for 5 years than he said something he said so I lost interest than he wanted to come back after the 5 years I let him back I didn’t fell the same he had changed so much we talk all day yesterday than last night he turned nasty I told told him to go play his in the morning I ask him if he treated all woman the same I said I like him better 5 years ago he told me to fuck off I said I will thanks his answer was good

[@emeraldrose6503]

What if he pulled away after a really good time we had together, and before i knew this advice, i made a mistake of chasing. He is still there, but i feel he is cold and not that interested. Will this advice still work, or should i just completely give up on it?

[@Lana-jg7lg]

Please update on what happened.

[@BeccaL2016]

Greta, I had a past situation but I wonder what you think of it. So I met this guy a while back through business. We agreed on doing fwb, fine so I acted like we were fwb, he also told me I was needy I was not his type, and he liked this other girl (but she didn’t like him back) and he said we could sleep before finding someone else serious. Fine. But he asked me out for drinks twice, he always kissed me when we met and kissed me goodbye, and he also asked me who I dated blah blah, he complimented some of my stuff too. He always answered my emails on some of the things very quickly.I wonder why, he didn’t need to do all that. He sometimes asked many questions yet he kept telling me he didn’t like me enough to date me, I also told him I was ok with fwb...then he made me jealous too by going out with other women he told me that too. And he then saying he didn’t like jealousy women. That tuned him off..I feel like he was playing games or he confused me..but when I said no more sleep or something, he blocked me, then he unblocked me, we then started fwb again few times. The last time I said something to him probably was not nice. So he told me he deleted my number, blocked me and now he ghosted me for 1 months now only responded to me twice. I tried not to contact him but I was sending him email still.. did he play game with me or he was just not that interested enough like he said? What do you think?

[@adj5767]

You're too cheap. That's it. Get back some self-esteem.

[@kenyakalex]

Wow, having sex with him while he is open about not liking you is waaaaay to cheap. Such a behavior will send him running.

[@queenofwandssagittarius1116]

Wow this is waaay too much energy to invest on a man. Smh 🤦‍♀️ then they wonder why there’s so many lesbians out there 😑 Y’all need to get it together you’re men!!! Not little needy boys!!!! Grow TF up!!! Smh that’s major turn off and we women pull away too #facts ain’t nobody got time for that BS!

[@ImranKhan-tj3dr]

I m alone

[@keitumetsemotidi6663]

Can't I even text him and ask him to meet up with me so that we talk about all this so that we reach a conclusion and move peacefully?

[@Moespeaks]

what did you end up doing?

[@rounddawaygirl2.042]

How do this work if you two live together????.. this is abdurb lol

[@nahidochka954]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@umacuty5478]

What to do if he start behaving cold after sex?

[@GretaBereisaite]

Uma Cuty I have a video how to behave with a guy after sex .

[@carleylula]

love

[@salandersalgado4038]

It's amazing that it's considered to be high valued woman when you let a guy shit on you and we need to adapt to them...🤯🤣

[@wambsmie]

Wueh really confusing..

[@faisalrais5423]

Hi me from indonesia

[@vegan4theanimals2]

Why men are sooo complicated...

[@Alicenailsart]

If he lost attraction my answer is bye i find better

[@aGamingTurtle]

I need you 😊

[@lapas]

Why Greta is single? Or she isn't? i Don't see a ring on here finger.

[@dorethamoses6202]

He will get with one of his other women, but that's because you and him are not girl/boyfriend yet so it's best that you continue dating as well when he come back it's ok just dont nag him if it been weeks past dont allow him to just think that's ok he will consider the relationship as friends and he will behave like that again. Move on please.

[@sanafatima3766]

you are so beautiful ❤

[@obvfayyy]

What about if he never comes back after you both had a good time!he called you 4 times that night! How good it was and all that! but he never calls you back 20 days after!! no call or text!!! It’s So confused 🤷‍♀️ really 🤔..

[@trancer03]

Men pull away because you crazy women want them to. That is a fact. You women need these messed up mindgames to stay interested. "When he realizes he has a little bit of emotion for you" LOL what kind of men have you been hanging around with that don't even know their own emotions