Buddha and Khenpo Rinpoche [Dechen Rangdrol] taught the View so we could progressively learn the TRUTH! We call it the VIEW because that is how the Yogi SEES "reality". Biologically all living beings are more like a waterfall than a statue. From moment to moment millions of cells die and millions are created, born, every second in our body. Like looking at a rapidly flowing waterfall the ever-changing water looks like something is stable there; and, we give it a name like Niagara Falls! But this ever-changing waterfall is not something solid although it appears that there's something stable there! This is the biological “truth” of our “Loved ones”. What we Love and hold onto is their genuine essence, not the apparent “waterfall body” that is always dying, not stable. The essence that we love is beyond the ever-dying apparent body. Our love never dies, the unborn essence never dies, but the sadness attached to the waterfall body fades.