GRWM for Spooky High Tea w/ Friends & Major Life Update

[@maureenl1448]

I'm sorry you're having to go through this. Medical stuff is so scary. I'm glad you have a proactive medical team and they caught it early. I had a minor surgery recently and taking off from the gym for a month was really hard. And I tried going back a couple times and it kinda fucked up my recovery a bit. So definitely wait until you're completely healed! Especially with such a major surgery. Also thanks for sharing about planned parenthood. Just recently I was saying to my dad that PP did other things besides abortion (which I'm 100% pro choice) and he didnt believe me 🙄. Anyway love your outfit and makeup look, hope you enjoyed tea. 💜

[@Phyrra]

Thanks Maureen. It's been a lot to process. And Yes, Planned Parenthood first and foremost provides healthcare for people who can't afford it.

[@mayretterosario9823]

You look absolutely beautiful, I love this look. Wishing you all the best on your surgery!

[@Phyrra]

Thank you so much! 💜

[@kitten103083]

Stay strong. You got this 😊💜 love your outfit and hair’. !!

[@Phyrra]

Thank you! 💜

[@ghoultiful]

Wishing you all the luck with your surgery and health issues!!! Please keep us updated when you can.

[@Phyrra]

Thank you! 💜

[@marilynrosenfeld2302]

Your outfit and makeup are ‘spot on’ .. I love Kuromi! Thinking about you .. we’re gonna get thru this together! 💜💜💜💜

[@Phyrra]

Thank you so much Marilyn! Sending you hugs! 💜💜💜

[@1015SaturdayNight]

I’m sending so much love Cordelia ❤

[@Phyrra]

💜💜💜 Thanks!

[@nicolemoscatelli7571]

I am always happy to see you. I feel so sad what you are going through. I am sending you special blessings for your surgery.

[@Phyrra]

Thank you Nicole! 💜

[@trinity4214]

I’m so very sorry for all that you’re going through. I can only imagine how stressful it will be to endure everything regarding your surgery! I am sending all my love and healthy wishes for a successful surgery and speedy recovery when it happens. I love your outfit and makeup! The pink tones are super cute. It made me want to use pink in my makeup again! 💕

[@Phyrra]

Thank you so much Trin! Sending you lots of love and hugs!

[@julieheleneg]

Hi spooky beauty! I'm sorry you have to go through such a journey, it's a lot to process but you seem at peace with your decision. It's so important you found good medical advice, and a team of serious health specialists who pays attention to your situation. Wish you to stay strong and healthy, and take all the time you need to focus on your recovery. I keep you in my thoughts 😘

[@Phyrra]

Thank you so much Julie.

[@fourducksoriginal]

Hi, I was scrolling back through the last few days of my YT subscription notifications and despite being low on time, decided to procrastinate my tasks and click on this video. I'm glad I did (although I'm usually glad to see a video from you; this year I've been glad to see more of your fun makeup tutorials). Like you, I am high risk for breast cancer and also like you, had to put off for a few months my yearly round of different types of imaging. Now, thankfully, my imaging will take place this week. Having watched this video and seen your composure (even if internally you might be freaking out) and watching you go through the familiar rituals of makeup application and creativity despite the hurdles to come makes me feel more prepared for if I get similar news or worse. You sharing your experience has helped me, and will probably help others. Thank you. I hope after your surgeries and recovery you will continue to make content here (and on your classic blog, which I didn't realize until I subscribed last year was from the same creator as your channel here)!

[@Phyrra]

I'm so glad that you're able to do your imaging ASAP! I'm sorry to hear you also have to go through the yearly round of stressful imaging + extra imaging. I've done a lot of crying and being scared off camera. The waiting between the 2nd set of imaging and talking to my doctor was the worst. Now that I've spoken to her and we've got a plan (I'm speaking to a top breast surgeon), I feel a little calmer about this. It's still a hell of a surgery to go through, but I'm grateful to be doing it now before things are worse. I plan to continue to make content here, I love it! I'm still updating my blog, just less often than I used to. People don't comment on blogs very much anymore; more people comment here on KZbin, in the Facebook group, or on Instagram. So I tend to focus my efforts where there's more interaction. I don't know how long I will be recovering from the surgery though.

[@fourducksoriginal]

@@Phyrra Thank you so much for your reply, and your support! I'm actually relieved to have an "excuse" to get regular and different types of screenings (since my mid-30s) because I am rubbish at figuring out what I am feeling in a breast self-exam. All the natural tissue lumps may as well be tumors to my fingers/mind, and it gives me anxiety to not know what I'm touching. If in the next few years I find myself facing a similar choice as your now, I might consider it a blessing in disguise to reduce anxiety long-term. But that's speaking only for me, reflecting on my own situation. All the feelings you describe--including the feeling of unreality you hinted at in the video--sound extremely relatable and expected to me. I think you are doing brilliantly including any bouts of sobbing that may come upon you. I'm glad you found good doctors. I'm so glad you have a creative outlet in the social media platforms on which you are a creator! I admit I am guilty of never commenting on blogs these days 😶, even though I still visit makeup blogs a few times a week via Google searches for specific products. I too prefer YT for long-form content and ability to interact with others in a centralized location. Can't wait to see more of your videos. As you go forward with your procedures, please carry with you the earnest best wishes and warm thoughts of many people, including me!

[@Phyrra]

Thank you so much for your kind words. Wishing you all the best with your screenings!

[@1015SaturdayNight]

Hey Cordelia the ELF Putty Bronzer in “feelin shady” is a very cool toned cream contour, it looks great on my N10 skin and blends out so easy. You might like that one too!

[@Phyrra]

Thank you so much for the recommendation! I have that one, it's a great color, but i struggle with the formula.

[@AngelicaNyqvist]

I am so sorry this is happening to you. But at the same time I am grateful they are taking this serious so you can be pro-active about this risk

[@Phyrra]

Thank you Angie, it's so much to process.

[@CHRowan73]

You look like a lovely, spooky ghoul today. I love it! That foundation is gorgeous. I’m gonna have to get a sample. I’m so sorry your gonna have to go through major surgery because of f*ckin’ cancer. It has taken loved ones in my family away far too soon and I hate it. I’m so glad you’ve found it early and can do something about it. I know the surgery and recovery will be hard, but you can do hard things. I’m so grateful you have a strong support system. I will be thinking of you.

[@Phyrra]

Thank you so much for the love and support. And you can find this foundation at Sephora and on the Beautyblender site.

[@kathryndresbach6289]

Courtney, all my 💗vibes are going your way!!! You can do this, I’m sorry you have to, but you need to for a better future! Thank you for being brave to share this topic, which many women may not be familiar with Prophylactic mastectomies. And, you are beautiful inside and out, nothing ever changes that!

[@Phyrra]

Thank you Katie! 💜💜💜

[@talon_craft4734]

I love the idea of High Tea! Your outfit is adorable 😍. I'm sorry to hear of your medical issues, but I'm glad you have access to healthcare and have a supportive network. It's a tough decision, but IMO the right one (I've done a lot of breast cancer research as an epidemiologist). I wish you all the best and a speedy recovery. ❤️

[@Phyrra]

Thanks so much! Yeah all the research I've done and drs I've spoken to say this is the best thing to do even if it is scary.

[@moonbeammuse2767]

Oh, darling girl. Sending you so much love and support. I can't pray for you but if positive thoughts count, they're beaming your way.

[@Phyrra]

Thank you, I appreciate that!

[@Emmers1983]

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[@Phyrra]

💜💜💜

[@jenniferw392]

I'm sending you love and full healing as you go through this. It's great to hear that you have good support around you. Your hair looks gorgeous, by the way.

[@Phyrra]

Thanks Jennifer! 💜

[@gabriellel249]

I have survivors in my family - one has been over 20 years cancer free. I'm so sorry you've had to go through all this surgery.

[@Phyrra]

Thank you! Happy to hear about your family survivors!

[@jennyx3x375]

You look so beautiful as always and your hair!! I love love the colors. I really hope you're okay 🙏 take care Cordelia.

[@Phyrra]

Thank you!

[@stacyharvey1383]

This look is absolutely perfect! I'm sorry about what you're going through...so much in such a short period of time. It seems like you have a good team of doctors, and I know they, and you, are not making this decision lightly. Plus at 44 you are young and healthy and your recovery should hopefully be quicker than going through this surgery at, say, 64 instead. Sending healing vibes your way 💜

[@Phyrra]

Thank you so much Stacy. Life seems to throw a lot of obstacles at me but I manage to keep going.

[@stacyharvey1383]

@@Phyrra You're welcome! I know this is coming from a random stranger, but let us know if you need anything--I can't do much, but I can certainly light a candle to put some light out into the world, or send some purple emoji hearts if that would help.

[@Phyrra]

Thank you so much Stacy! I would love for you to light a candle for me. I'll keep you updated on when I'm having surgery. I want to do it ASAP but may not be able to do it until July depending on surgeon schedules.

[@jennyx3x375]

I lost my insurance recently and I really need to get on the ball of filling out an application it sucks. Everything medical wise is a pain in the butt but we all run into problems with health sooner or later and we need to take care of ourselves. Anyways your beautiful and I hope you can get your surgery sooner than later and that it's successful and you have a fast recovery.

[@Phyrra]

Thank you! All the research I'm looking at is saying it can take months to fully recover, which is daunting.

[@Jessinking]

i'm just seeing this now. i'm sorry about your medical news that would make anyone take a break from youtube and it's totally understandable. i hope everything goes as smooth as possible.

[@Phyrra]

Thank you. As soon as I have a solid surgery date I hope to feel better

[@Jessinking]

@@Phyrra man i feel that everything here in texas is backed up with covid too.

[@Phyrra]

Tampa's population has exploded since COVID. Our hospitals can't keep up with the demands, so everything is overloaded and taking longer here than expected.

[@floofymuffin]

I'm so sorry you have to get a double mastectomy! Sending love and all the good vibes. I hope it goes smoothly and your recovery goes well

[@Phyrra]

Thank you! I'm healing well. Today is my first day back to work after the surgery. I had to take 2 weeks off.

[@floofymuffin]

@@Phyrra So glad you're healing well!!! Hope work wasn't too bad and that your pups and man are pampering you!

[@zimm2295]

Wishing you the best of luck with your surgery! A good (inexpensive) mastectomy pillow helped with my discomfort on the ride home after surgery a lot. Glad to hear you have truly supportive people around you in your corner :) This eye look is lovely n_n

[@Phyrra]

Thank you for that suggestion! 💜

[@SuileanAirgid]

I know I'm literally talking to you right now but I'm also wanting to send you a message here of so much love and support. Gof and I adore you

[@Phyrra]

Dave and I love you both so much!!!

[@CarlyRjackytheripper]

Holy shit, best of luck in so sorry 😔 you revealed that you're Ashkenazi Jewish, that increases the chance of fatal breast cancer. I really wish you the best

[@Phyrra]

Thank you.