HANGING OUT WITH AN ENFJ AND INFJ COUPLE

[@keithmustanggt]

His body language is so infj, listening, fidgeting and thinking too hard to respond in time before the subject changes lol i can relate

[@John-ih7gp]

So true! I can't get over how similar I am to this guy in how he responds, moves, ticks, etc.

[@sanoj92]

Yes. Teh ENFJs are just emotionally vibing off at high speed from my perspective. Typical extrovert/introvert interaction trait

[@johno9921XC]

Wow, yeah I totally feel like this guy is spot on INFJ.

[@somebody9369]

Lmao :D

[@mrinvisible6235]

The infj guy is me foreal. Messing with hands. listening observing body language etc. I tend to fixate on an object clean or tinker with stuff until spoken too directly. Thinking about what is going on around me especially energy.

[@failedbooli6028]

A friend once told me: introverts don't make friends, they get adopted by extroverts'' and I thought that was the funniest way of looking at it ever.

[@failedbooli6028]

Also I like the long videos

[@stevedavenport1202]

LOL 100% true

[@AFBoerste]

At one point you can see him just processing what the ladies are saying then it looks like he shifts off into his own thoughts (appears like daydreaming to others) but hes really just taking what they are saying and applying it to patterns of recognition. I do this all the time so its cool to see another INFJ in that train of thought, all of this was very relevant to my own life and experiences as an INFJ with ENFJs

[@themeghmuse]

Yes!! this is a great point to mention. I can always sense when an INFJ is still interested in what I am saying, even if the body language might look different

[@thynisia396]

Yes I kept noticing that too since I do the same thing

[@jakobaarav7722]

Sorry to be so offtopic but does anyone know of a way to log back into an instagram account? I was stupid forgot my account password. I would love any tricks you can give me.

[@MegaWeegee64]

One of my favorite things, as an INFJ is to have a couple of other people carrying the conversation and just being able to sit there and listen to it, interject occasionally, space out if necessary, and just be near them.

[@calbeeee2]

Hahahah exactly like him , I was actually looking at him the entire video and wondered how could he be this silent and not have the urge to interact 😂😂😂

[@ekajamz7808]

The way that guy talk and think is literally exactly like me~ INFJ squad here~ 🙋🙋🙋 Awesome video with awesome people's~❤

[@Rose_garden_wanders]

I could tell the guy was the infj straight away! He wasn’t making eye contract but I could tell he’s taking everything in and listening. Completely what I do!

[@yesthatisababytoucan.youre6983]

Yes. People who don't know me well assume that I am not listening, when in fact, I am. I just focus my eyes on nothing so that I can fully process everything and put all of the puzzle pieces together. 😂💛

[@WanderingWorldwidewithLiz]

Wow I am an INFJ and I do have some INFJ friends but it is really cool to see that Intuition and thought process from the INFJ because I can really tell he is thinking about everything and connecting everything. I loved watching this interaction. And how the thought kept naturally bouncing off each other and also observing the different mood and wavelengths how quickly the ENFJS adapt to each other so easily

[@dev4746]

Devin here, how awesomely random is this? I was thinking at about 2:30 am, sleep schedule is all off. And I had this thought about this video so here I am lol. The only things I have to say are. Wow! I'm so happy to have this video to look back at "myself" it's like therapy but in public lol and if it brings, clarity, healing, understanding, humility, I'm down for it. Also, I found MBTI and my INFJ type through searching the internet for answers as to why I had certain experiences that others didn't, in other words I sought healing and I did find it here and I still do, I just don't hold my identity there, a point of reference but not identity. Thank you guys for your responses, I feel blessed to have had a platform to speak on, thanks Meghan! And that you guys found enough "value" in our conversation 😌 And also, it's hard to fit every detail into one comment!

[@VgNDC]

Go Devin!😁

[@dessys600]

And now it's my turn....😭 2021.

[@dev4746]

@@dessys600 You're in the next video?

[@dessys600]

@@dev4746 my scheduling sleep fall off because of watching this😂 you did in 2020, I did in 2021.

[@dev4746]

@@dessys600 😄

[@johnearnshaw5036]

Just revisited his video and I noticed the moment Devin's feelings were hurt and he stops engaging after the girls share a look and laugh and Meghan says "What did we just think there" 55.46. I felt it buddy. Any other INFJ's feel that ?

[@EmpyreanFalling]

A few times! For me, it's like "I am putting my heart on my sleeve to say something, please give me full attention and respect" especially if they laugh, but I know I'm more sensitive or easily hurt than the average person. At the same time, I don't hold any grudges. Just wish people could pause and breathe and think before carrying on a discussion.

[@JaneDoe-yy2dr]

I’m an ENFJ and one of my close friends is a INFJ. His mind is so beautiful to me, I understand he needs that space, so I tend to ask if he has gotten alone time and he always tells me I’m never a bother to him. We relate so much but I also know when I’m being to extroverted that it’s making him uncomfortable. He’s opened up and admitted he’s willing to try new things with me, wants me to be alone with him, always tells me he likes my touch, we can be on the phone for hours and bounce from topic after topic. I look forward to learning more about the INFJ

[@yesthatisababytoucan.youre6983]

When he was explaining his thoughts on the INFJ doorslam, I felt that. I don't think I will ever get over how much I relate to my fellow INFJs. 😂

[@anapoe9605]

OMG! It's like listening to myself! Amazing!

[@AP-uc8rr]

I love that the INFJ didn’t need to talk for an entire hour to get his point across. The extroverted taking up 90% of the conversation and being ok with it, long, drawn out stories make me want to scream GET TO THE POINT ALREADY. So many long pauses and tangents aren’t really my idea of a good conversation. So much more to do in life than take forever to make a point. This video could have been 20 minutes if they hadn’t gone off track so much. Respectfully, an INFJ

[@shro_okee]

As another infj, I guess this is the point of the video as well, everyone being their authentic self so that we can see how this dynamic goes as an example irl

[@anthonymoreno5431]

I really wanted the guy to speak more. But the girls wont stop talking.. haha

[@hfortenberry]

Yeah, INFJs do like to talk and they are fascinating when people will let them. But they are not going to be rude and interrupt so people really should make space for them to talk.

[@j.davila4523]

@@hfortenberry pretty much lol

[@hfortenberry]

Side note: I LOVE that textile on the wall behind your couch.

[@davidnotte4424]

51:20 ‘I thought there was something wrong with me’. I still feel that way but its accepted now & I love it, I would not change a thing. Thank you guys for letting us into your world. I have an ENFJ partner as well so this was like looking into a mirror. The (INFJ) mannerisms, ideas, speech, look, blah blah blah all hit home so dramatically. I cherish these qualities so very much. It is a welcomed reminder that I am not alone. You guys are wonderful👍

[@davidnotte4424]

I promise I am not being mean... in the beginning of the video he was ‘fidgeting’ with an object in his hands. I have a fidget-spinner I carry to do they same.

[@JonasAnandaKristiansson]

Toootally David!! :)

[@PaulWBruce]

David Notte Yeah, that was so cool to see. I'm a fidgety person, sometimes even twitchy. Se gets bombarded, it's nice to focus on one physical stimuli to keep it at bay, and make more space for Ni.

[@davidnotte4424]

Paul Bruce ~ agreed, when Se becomes too much I sometimes find myself biting my nails. If I catch myself, it’s a sign to take a break from that environment (or person/people!)

[@yesthatisababytoucan.youre6983]

When you guys were discussing the "ENFJs are manipulative" stereotype and he said "I can see that" you guys freaked out. That was hilarious 🤣

[@AriesSimmer]

"I've learned you..." That was so *sexy* to hear him say. On so many levels! 💜 I enjoyed watching you all together. *All* of my best friends are INFJs. SIDE NOTE: Meghan not sure why you assumed your friend would be "aggressive" when you first met her?? She is very friendly, feminine & pleasant.

[@themeghmuse]

She is probably a little camera shy as I was when I first started out, but when we first met she seemed very direct and a go getter which I appreciated

[@AriesSimmer]

Meghan LeVota thanks for replying. :) I just hate the word *aggressive* - comes across as masculine & overbearing. *Assertive* is a much better fit for you both as women. Great video though!

[@themeghmuse]

That IS a better word! :D

[@violet18]

"That was so sexy to hear him say" Ma'am I'm choking lol

[@drawntoicehockey]

It's so funny watching other ENFJs, and I keep seeing facial cues/hearing vocal inflections or ways of wording and explaining things and thinking "I do that." or "I'm like that a lot." XD

[@Maria-gg5yv]

Yep... Sadly we are passionate communicators... And we get so carried away with our thoughts on the topic... Oh when she said she can't articulate how she feels and how intuitive he is 😊😍😍😊

[@FoxyRoxyReviews]

Your mindset attracts what you believe you deserve. This goes for relationships as much as any other types of relationships / opportunities. The strongest people I know embrace their vulnerability and the weakest desperately cover it up (to run away from it).

[@samyal8r]

To his point at 14:50: We as INFJs want to be understood, and it's 1. a challenge for us to explain how we feel (we know how others feel more easily than how we feel!) so once we know how something made us feel we are 2. afraid that we won't be understood by that person, and it would be a zero sum game for us if we have to "put ourselves out there" with the added potential that the person won't get it. Thus, we close right on up and that's the slam.

[@DeezyRYG]

Notes as I watched (just cause I do this with long videos and thought at least someone would find it interesting lol): -Wow. She does the exact same authentic but exaggerated laugh that I do. Throws her head back and everything. Lol, nice. -Yeah, I get mistaken quite often for an introvert until I am either put on camera or leading a group in discussion. -The INFJ has an almost ISTP kind of edge and energy. That is pretty cool. -Veronica's energy is so still, warm, and inviting. It is interesting to observe this because then it is like looking in a mirror and people tell me this about myself alllll the time. -Wow. All of what she said around 7:00-7:30 or so, me. x100. -INFJs are soooo good at exactly what Veronica is saying about Devin at 9mins. It is indeed scary. Lol but I also love it. I find that I have the same effect on my INFJ friends. -Oh yes. Our emotions for sure radiate throughout the whole room. Lol Made a video on this myself. It is quite a pro and con of the superpower... -I resonate with the whole discussion at around 12mins. -Ahh, yes. I do not think I personally give ultimatums, but I DEFINITELY give hints lol to at least leave seeds to let the people know what my thoughts and feelings are but not to heavily influence in the way I want. -I love how analytical Devin is. He is tactfully explaining what can be going on (28mins or so) and that is really cool to observe. -Very fascinating that Devin played sports and how that has influenced both his Fe and Se. -Absolutely disdain drama. Lol absolutely. -42:00 I have absolutely mastered hiding my emotions as well, and I think that partners usually do learn us, because my ISFP fiancee is LITERALLY the sameeeee way. I cannot hide it from her but everyone else thinks she is crazy (even my INFJ friend haha) and I make her feel crazy till I am ready to explain. -Ah. Most of my exes were ESFPs...I wonder if being a male ENFJ made that difference in need for a "logical" partner... -50:30, YES. Lol "what can I be doing that is more productive? Can I reschedule? Hmm.." -I super relate to Devin about meaning. If there is no meaning, I am not with it. This was great!!! And I am so happy to see Meghan interacting with others! It shows a different side of her imo. :)

[@lorennicholej]

I could tell their personality types thru the thumbnail before pressing play. His body language says it all that he’s an INFJ. I can relate to a T because I’m dating an ENFJ

[@allieperson8647]

I love INFJs. They are superior forces of nature. They love universally, most of all H

[@JonasAnandaKristiansson]

Beautiful! :D And I have to agree, both subjectively and objectively ( as objectively as one can be in the ego-mind )

[@allieperson8647]

TheAwakenedINFJ come again?

[@t.l1357]

Wow this is great seeing the INFJ in contrast to the extroverts. As an extrovert I despise when I can't get a concise answer if I ask. I feel like I owe an explanation if someone asks because I think they r actually gonna take it constructively. Even at 40 yrs old I'm still learning to just walk away with no explanation. I loved just observing how you all are interacting in this video. I realize that I have to give more time for some people to respond....they may need more time getting their thoughts together. I'm not censoring myself a lot like the guy is here. I can see him being so thoughtful in his responses. Thx so much. I really have more respect now for my friends who it seems like I'm pulling teeth with them sometimes. They are compelled to soften their words just as much as I'm compelled to outwardly express my thoughts. I'm really thankful for yall introverts showing us extroverts how to take it down a notch lol

[@Raesquess]

This guy is the person I've related the most in my whole life..sorry I forgot his name..but yeah it was like I was seeing myself in him

[@ChristineCeralde]

Haha I knew who the INFJ n ENFJ before it was said. (infj here) ☺️💗

[@glebolkhovsky2531]

The girls' reaction is golden! The ENFJ-INFJ dynamic is something marvellous. I had an ENFJ best friend and it was so similar. We drifted apart a little bit because we switched high schools. But the dynamic is still the same.

[@ilovemyself2028]

INFJ taking in everything, observing. The answers . Damn that is me

[@mrz4252]

This was a nice video. The main thing I take away from this is....Meghan, NEVER become a professional poker player.

[@themeghmuse]

HA soooooo true :D :D

[@t.l1357]

As an ENFJ woman I feel really masculine because I'm actually really certain and decisive. One of my friends noticed that I get this like mood change and become very rigid especially when talking about career or money.... I guess I'm turning on my masculinity a lot in these areas. I definitely need that with outsiders but I don't know how to turn it off with friends. When he picked up on it I felt like a loser because it's something I recognized years ago that I could possibly have a problem there.

[@wildwestwashservices7612]

As an INFJ when it's over after that we don't give a f¤¤¤!!!!

[@johnearnshaw5036]

I wish you'd given him a bit more room to speak. I felt there was more to come out, but you kept going off on tangents and talking over him, but he was too polite to say.

[@themeghmuse]

John Earnshaw also this is my channel, I told them I would lead the interview to make them feel more comfortable.

[@johnearnshaw5036]

Hi Meghan I understand that but maybe a split second more of a pause to let him finish would have helped, maybe it illustrates INFJ ENFJ interaction where we aren't responding quick enough for you, I experience this too, I was a bit frustrated for the guy.

[@themeghmuse]

Well, that’s a valid interpretation someone could have of ENFJs I suppose, this is how the interaction normally goes. He can speak for himself and have his own opinions about me if he is bothered by it

[@EAl-ju4ej]

Meghan LeVota 27:27 is an example of what john is speaking about. And it happens to us often & people say, "well, you could just interject" but most times, if we interjected when we want to, it would come out too harshly. I loved this video because my partner is an ENFJ & It gave me insight. It's just a little bit frustrating to watch someone else get talked over, knowing they have insight to share.

[@EAl-ju4ej]

and then @ 27:49 you see where he realizes he won't get to say what he wanted to say & it may be forever gone because our thoughts move so quickly

[@blastoff2086]

29:04 - 29:07 Is that the micro-aggressions he’s referring to? 😂😂😂 “Love you babe” “Don’t touch me...” :punch: 34:09 too

[@annerittwage1401]

How come that I identify with both mindsets so clearly?! I always thought I was an INFJ, but I understand the ENFJs in this video so well. It's like I'm speaking two languages at the same time.

[@hfortenberry]

You said Ti is Devon's blind spot but his blind spot is actually Te.

[@stevedavenport1202]

What a trip. Two ENFJ females dating two INFJ guys

[@OfTheMindscape]

Steve Davenport Actually, she’s dating a girl INFJ, not a guy. 🌈

[@Intu11110]

I'm just like that guy, analyzing everything, and I'm also extremely calm around a feminine woman.

[@silentecho4445]

Lol you gys are KOOL.. im an E-INFJ-S...i found a place on FB INFJ groups...the reason im so frickin lonely ive never met anyone that understood me. Ha, I'm 68 it's never 2late. By the way two yrs ago I got off Celexa, antidepressant which made me feel strung out on Coke it me gave me an active high...i had to get off it cuz I would be ANGRY if someone looks at me wrong. Thats not me.... .

[@OMGwtfSTFUbrb]

Lol I’m INFJ and I have been that tinder guy exept I give up after just one conversation if I feel like the way I am is not attractive to the other person. So I’m on the level of “I’m unlovable and waisting another second of someone’s time and attention is an affront to all that is holy so I must never ever again appear before this person and stay in my sad little hole for the rest of time because I am not worthy of human love and care”

[@someonerandom713]

You three are beyond awesome :D

[@brandonmorales7998]

I absolutely love this video only bc of their dynamic, but do you ever let people finish their thought process or do you need to ALWAYS be the center of attention & last word? 😩

[@RubyRobbins88]

A lot of talking about ENFJness at the beginning lol Quiet INFJ just sitting there....

[@RubyRobbins88]

7 minutes in and he's included :)

[@themeghmuse]

Are you an INFJ? Something that confuses me about introverts, is that, you are always open to just include yourself. They asked me to take the lead in the questioning because they didn't know what to say. Sometimes, introverts like this because they don't like the spotlight. If he wanted to be included more, he would have been.

[@RubyRobbins88]

Sorry, I didn't mean it as a criticism. It's just funny because that's exactly how us INFJs can be. It's pretty much what I would expect of one introvert with two extroverts. We don't always know when to speak up for fear of interrupting and sometimes we like to listen or like you said we don't always want the spotlight. I thought it was good that you asked him a question and included him. It's true, a healthy INFJ will not have a problem speaking up :)

[@RubyRobbins88]

Also, thank you for sharing the video. I know it sounds like I'm criticizing, I've just been taught that my opinion doesn't matter and I've been bulldozed so much growing up that I'm at the point where now that I know I'm allowed to speak up I take the opportunity.

[@themeghmuse]

it's ok! I always need to remind myself that others aren't as bold as me and that it may be beneficial to ask them if they have anything to say.

[@GulNadar]

I definitely know what it means to “learn” about someone in a relationship. I just need to know what caused that smirk, etc. The whole talking to someone and finding them boring. Especially when they give short answers that don’t spur on more conversation. “Do you like going to the movies?” Yes. “What movies do you like?” Comedies. (Me getting ready to slow blink because the conversation is pulling teeth) “So what comedies do you like?” ...... OMG the xNFJ “I know I want that.” than it snowballs. I only had one relationship at my high school. Afterwards I just felt the “pool” was dry. Oui! Hiding emotions because I don’t want others affected by them. I definitely have the “spend way too much time together talking” that magically snowballed into its 6 hours later. So much xNFJ goodness. 😆😎 The long videos are fun. 😉

[@hfortenberry]

That's so true about the ENFJ and toxic relationships. I have a good friend at work who is an ENFJ and she is a beautiful person but her husband is a piece of work! I am like what does she see in him???

[@aayala1gd48]

So both my sister and boyfriend are enfjs and I am an infp. I feel like I have to talk really loud and to the point otherwise they will not even acknowledge my viewpoints and keep talking forever and ever. But its different when it's just me alone with one of them then I'll actually feel like I'm being acknowledged.

[@njules6428]

Similarly, in this video, I noticed the INFJ was easily and frequently inturrupted by both ENFJs. I'm an INFP and I can relate to this. It's easy for people to interrupt me because I am not loud and to interrupt them I would have to speak up...or yell haha...so I just don't...I wait my turn lol

[@Rinsuki]

I think that the most soothing conversations happens between an INFP and an INFJ. There is just an unspoken understanding and a level of attentiveness that they provide for each other. I mean yeah there are problems when they both can't make up their minds because they go along with what the other says, but it isn't like this conversation here. They will actually let each other finish their sentences.

[@TheQdubb05]

Damn I need some ENFJ friends!!

[@yesthatisababytoucan.youre6983]

Same 🙃

[@sunflowerpower642]

Are they still together ???

[@thynisia396]

We're INFJs. We like long stuff.

[@aviobadia9872]

Their interpersonal dynamics gave me more insight into the actual "lessons to be learned" than the spoken words. Amusing to say the least. (Possibly type as INFJ)

[@hfortenberry]

I think I know what y'all are saying about not wanting to let people down. I'm an INTJ and there was a time in my early twenties when I did a version of the door slam on a few friends. I just had had enough and I was done. There was nothing they did specific, it just sort of built up over time and I realized "Why am I hanging out with this person? I don't really want to." I realized I had been just going along with people who wanted to be my friend and ignoring my own feelings of what I wanted completely. So as I realized this, I started acting on what I wanted and just literally ghosted a few friends, one who I'd known for many years. But anyway, I got off track...so not letting people down. I TOTALLY know what y'all are talking about! I also would date people who wanted to date me even if I wasn't really very attracted to them because it was hard to find people that I wanted to date and I felt like I should give people a chance. I am a feminine/hippie lesbian attracted to that same type and I never found women like that who were also lesbian so I never found myself attracted to real potential partners. So if someone was interested in me who I really liked as a friend, I would date them just so I would not be totally alone or just to see if maybe some feelings would develop. Then I'd inevitably realize feelings were not going to develop and I'd have the urge to break up with them and then I'd feel guilty, like they would fall apart without me. I remember one time I was talking to my INFJ Mom because I was so distraught being worried about this girl I wanted to break up with like it was going to ruin her life or something if I left her. I was 20 and she was 23 and she had acted all in love with me and I was realizing I was really not into her. My Mom let me talk and get it out and then she looked at me calmly and said very kindly "Honey, just think, you are actually being a little arrogant. Don't you think she has more going on as a person than just you? Give her some credit." She totally called me out but she did it so gently and sweetly. And it was SUCH A RELIEF! It totally made me feel better because of course this girl was going to grieve the loss, as we all do, but then she was going to be fine. That was one of those really wonderful nuggets my Mom gave me. After that, I was much more authentic in my interactions with people. I still ended up being with people who were more attracted to me but then they were much more compatible in that we were great friends so the relationships lasted longer. But in the end, I still ended up breaking a couple of hearts. I felt so guilty that I never will date anyone again unless I feel a strong attraction for them. No more of this dipping your toe in the water. My current girlfriend of the last 8 years has been the perfect combination of friend and lover and romantic partner. I feel like I finally learned how to let MY feelings matter in the relationship too. It's not just about what the other person wants, but I deserve to feel in love too.

[@michellewei9139]

Ok. I do NOT have a lot of friends. How can I be an ENFJ???

[@RubyRobbins88]

Also, you are a bit harsh on your INFJ friend there. Let him speak his peace.....you were both bulldozing over things he was trying to get across. You were like already mad at him for what you thought he was going to say....kind of a rude way to treat him.

[@themeghmuse]

Hm.. I wasn't mad. Where did you perceive that? This is interesting, just another way different personality types can misperceive each other due to our different mannerisms.

[@RubyRobbins88]

I guess....when you guys were getting on him to not say the wrong thing about their relationship. There were eye rolls and all sorts of little jabby things like that. Maybe you were meaning it as a bit of fun though....I think if it were me I'd feel a little ganged up upon.

[@themeghmuse]

Haha! Ok, that’s fair. ENFJs like to tease, and I guess we use Fe to know if it is our place to tease. As Varonica is his girlfriend, they gave that sort of jovial relationship where they tease each other. I am dating an INFJ, as I mentioned, and she says she thinks it’s cute when I do this. I think all ENFJs know that there is a time and a place for pointing out such things, but we are definitely bolder than INFJs and may feel more comfortable sharing. I can’t speak for him, idk how he felt, but I am ALWAYS trying to help INFJs feel comfortable to get out of their shell, if they so choose

[@RubyRobbins88]

I think a little teasing is good....I guess from the outside I didn't have enough context to catch that dynamic. I'm glad you try to make INFJs comfortable, that's very admirable :)

[@exdamariis]

SAME!! I felt that, and have been there. I understand those around me aren't trying to "bulldoze" over my talking, there's no malice intentioned, but with some extroverts there are times I feel I'm not actually being listened to... And I know it takes me a fat minute to articulate myself (just like this INFJ), but a little patience is deeply appreciated. No way will I ever force my thoughts into a conversation if others aren't willing to take a minute and pay attention to them (this could have to do with my pride too). So I end up with half finished sentences still trapped in my throat, and decide to let everyone else keep talking, while I drift off into my thoughts. As an INFJ, I can be bold in conversation, it just takes practice. So in every group conversation I'm always extra attentive to the quieter members because I see myself in them. And because I enjoy being around extroverts, I'm constantly reminding myself they have no idea how their actions are being perceived by me, so it's not anyone's fault it's just a misunderstanding of types.

[@EmpyreanFalling]

Within a few seconds I saw myself in the INFJ. Wish he had a little more space to expand his thoughts. People always (unintentionally) steamroll INFJs and introverts.

[@lauriea.6737]

Wow about the masculine/feminine energy Veronica talked about I said exactly the same thing to my therapist the other day omg 😮 ENFJ gurl

[@djrn1621]

Meghan I love you, I’m an ENFJ too, but wow girl you talk so much!!! 😂 I wanted to hear the other two talk more, specially the guy 😩 No hate, I’m guilty of this as well 😅

[@delocian]

yeah lol, i also wanted to hear more of the guy's perspective but it often gets cut ofd 🥲😂

[@danyella1579]

I love extroverts

[@darrenchappell3380]

Not so. I am ENFP and I hate disappointing people. I have a lot of trouble disconnecting from situations because I feel indebted to them. So I identify with what you NJs are saying.

[@hfortenberry]

This was so interesting! But in a lot of parts, I can't hear Devon and Veronica :-(

[@shro_okee]

seeing the thumbnail and the first frame of the video, yeah I know who the infj and enfj is :D

[@grumpyschnauzer]

Haha! That was great about how you described seeing people ENFJs know... asan INFJ I try to avoid bumping into people I know to avoid having to say “Hi” 😆 I hide. Also, when I was younger I’d sometimes test as INFP but after more research I’m a firm INFJ.

[@dystopia-incognito]

What is he, the ideal man?

[@RubyRobbins88]

It seems like the ENFJ "hints" can be kind of condescending to others. :/ Like being straight forward about thoughts goes a long way instead. I've had to learn that as an INFJ who used to hint, but no one would notice lol

[@ChristineCeralde]

What's with all the judgmental critical comments? Lol. Not all INFJ/ENFJS are created equal. So will you people stop saying they aren't real E/INFJS. It's annoying asf lol

[@themeghmuse]

YESSSSS!!

[@mws12345]

Kind of wish I was there to but in and blow everyones mind on what I know about them. Even Devin over there on the right would be like wtf this guy is in my head lol. Anyway I'm out for good gotta go watch my little cousin her last year showing horses in the fair. Meghan I might respond if you write to me or I might not. In the end it doesn't really matter lol.

[@Laverso21]

I just want to hear about some other infj girls.

[@kaylaphillips6007]

You look like Abbi Jacobson and that makes me adore you even more.

[@drawntoicehockey]

Funny what you said though about liking gay guys, Meghan, because I'm straight, but I'm a bit of a tomboy, and I tend to find men who are a bit less masculine more attractive a lot of the time for some reason. Not necessarily campy types, but guys with less masculine interests or a unique sense of style who are more willing to be vulnerable with you and wouldn't hesitate to marathon High School Musical films given the chance. I also find it sweet if he's like shy or a bit less tough lol. There are more masculine men that I find attractive, but they tend to be masculine men with creative interests so they're kinda quirky (my main celebrity crush is a folk singer called Gwilym Bowen Rhys).

[@gabrielalmeida2490]

Tbh you look more extraverted than your friend (maybe she is camera shy or something) Plus your "air" reminds me of one friend of mine (who i think is an ENFJ). I love this type! :)

[@themeghmuse]

I definitely think that since it’s my channel and i told them “don’t worry I will lead if you don’t know what to say” haha but idk I might be more extroverted 🤷🏻‍♀️ idk haha

[@gabrielalmeida2490]

Meghan LeVota Yeah, the enfj being 'the protagonist' hahah

[@gabrielalmeida2490]

Btw, could you make a video about ENFJ characters? That would be nice

[@JonasAnandaKristiansson]

AWESOME!! :D

[@JonasAnandaKristiansson]

Teal Swan is an INFJ by the way! :D 4w5 I believe. Seems many others are of that "understanding" too.

[@djrn1621]

Can you share devin’s Instagram handle?

[@mws12345]

Meghan go to 4:25 now listen to devin look at his face and listen to him speak. ISTP 6w5 sp/so get it? Got it? Good. I'm very introverted and intuitive, not enough to get your type right it appears. Or even meghan. The only one who got her type right is the one who actually is an ENFJ. Funny its almost like her naturally having Ni as a 2nd function and not 3rd like Devin or 4th like Meghan or the fact that she also has Ni / Fe in the top 2 helped her to connect the dots more accurately. Ding Ding Ding.

[@VyNguyen-dp7we]

Meghan, you're too loud. Pick up the tone of the group and match it. Also, stop trying to turn things back to you so much. I still appreciate the content though. So thank you. TBH, I don't think you're an ENFJ. You don't seem intuitive enough.

[@themeghmuse]

It’s my channel so they asked me to facilitate the conversation, so yes I did lead the direction of the conversation. If you’re interested in learning about ENFJs, I have plenty of videos about how we operate.

[@mws12345]

So we have a ESTP on the left, got it right in the middle she is an ENFJ 2w1 and on the right ISTP look at that guy on the couch lol can you not see that introverted feeling is his last function? That Fe is his 4th function? lol. this is on july 10 2018. Meghan you are obviously trying to build your Ni web of connections and understanding of this and you are so close and zoning in, but you are going to have to be more analytical and honest of what really is or what you are really seeing. He is intuitive, ISTP's are intuitive it is there child function. ISTP's are the other introverted type that shares Ti/Ni Ni/Ti as our internal world and we are introverts so yes, istp's can be really intuitive. Steve jobs was an ISTP he was pretty intuitive right? So ya... but INFJ intuitive this guy is not completely, but when he isn't supressing his fe and really is taking it in, then yes it works, but he most definitely shuts it off at times or gets drained by using Fe all day.

[@themeghmuse]

Why do you automatically think when you see NFJs sharing ti that they must be an STP? Lmao

[@Pitoeng1]

???

[@mws12345]

Meghan I don't know if you want me to delete all these comments or not, you can if you want to. In the invent that they stay the viewers below need to know that I was wrong. That Meghan is an ENFJ and she honestly has one of the best channels on you tube to learn about this stuff. I mean honestly it is in the top 10 of that I'm sure and It's probably extremely worth paying the $10 a month to learn from her. She is really good and accurate at this stuff and I'm sure she will only get better. But even she is possible of having a few missing puzzle pieces. Once again Meghan I'm sorry I didn't mean to be an asshole.

[@annabelldroz-berrios7828]

Loved this video with the three of you. It would be awesome to see more with all of you covering even more topics from ENFJ & INFJ perspectives. Thank you for your work Meghan. It is truly illuminating.

[@bennyhinn7239]

hey.you have quite a lot of subscribers lol.hope you earning some extra cash

[@yuganshboi1307]

My boy

[@bennyhinn7239]

im very interested in the occult.it teaches you how to become one with the divine inside you