Happily Ever After? Or Prison!? | Brendan and Danielle - Follow up | Big Fat Gypsy Weddings

[@karawigley6231]

Her saying that she thought marriage was going to be “a big holiday with parties & new clothes & me, me, me” proves yet again they are far too young & immature to be marrying.

[@anjab4475]

@@Senorabee who's culture?

[@karawigley6231]

@@Senorabee I get what you’re saying I’m from the south marrying young is common here too but it still doesn’t change the fact no one is really ready for that type of commitment at that age. My best friend got married & had her first child at 14, it ended horribly.

[@anjab4475]

@@Senorabee O wow, didn't expect such a rasist comment back! And it's your culture to make marriage about 'me, me ,me, and shopping and spending money. most women around the world aren't 'that culture'. Believe me. She's a child herself, so what might she know? And it is just being childlish, not answering the culture pattern.

[@anthonyhassett]

@@Senorabee Sad but true. It's part of gypsy culture that is bred into them. Marry no later than 16, the earlier the better and you get your freedom. You swap one one cell for another. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.

[@carolinegallegos_]

Getting married as a young teen only has two possible endings: You get divorced. You don’t get divorced because of the stigma around it and you live in absolute misery for the rest of your life. I’ve never, ever, ever, ever, ever seen an example of teen marriage that ended happily ever after.

[@kirstywoodland7601]

Forgive me if I'm wrong but she does NOT look happy at all. She looks so unhappy she's a stunning girl and deserves much more in life xx

[@catherinesmith226]

Thought that myself.

[@hollyw7410]

She looked miserable in the wedding photos and at the wedding

[@kirstywoodland7601]

@@catherinesmith226 just the way she looks at him and when he got released I think she was hoping he'd get sent down xx

[@kirstywoodland7601]

This isn't how a pretty 16 year old should start in life - the whole world at her feet instead she's waiting to see if her fella gets sent down and he's gonna be tying her to the kitchen pots and pans and a pushchair by the looks of things!

[@kirstywoodland7601]

Maybe it's because I'm not from the travelling community but I just think, in this day and age of equal rights to women we should be teaching these young girls the world is their oyster do anything be anyone you want- not you have a life of cooking, cleaning and breeding whilst your hubby is in jail as it seems to be the norm in this video x

[@shubhiaggarwal751]

"As a matter of honor, the wife has to lead a life of seclusion while her husband is in prison " How messed up it is that a community has a TRADITION of what to do when husbands go to prison .

[@celticscribe7887]

It's not a tradition, it's just what you do when your man isn't around and it's quite right

[@patriciabyrne5089]

@@celticscribe7887 So a criminal is send to prison and his wife is expected to live in isolation until he is freed regardless of whether he is serving a long or a short sentence? You think that is acceptable? What century are you living in or what backward society. The state of him boasting about been a burglar and robbing a laptop from someone's home and she tolerating his criminal behaviour.

[@hughiemaughan]

He's a scruffy scumbag and also can I say as a traveller this isn't a reflection of everyone

[@alchemyofcolorandstyle]

I mean, it’s bad enough you’re staying married to a con man, would going out to parties and drinks make your position in life better..?it actually is the honorable thing to do, sort of like mourning.

[@shubhiaggarwal751]

@Watermelon Pink @Celtic Scribe How is it right to be expected to isolate yourself just cause your husband is a damm criminal ?

[@L0zzle]

At 16 she should be doing her GCSE's, hanging out with friends, going to the cinema/shopping and being free of responsibility - not sitting in a house with that idiotic man!!

[@gypsyrobin]

That's not a man. He's a man-child. He's not mature if he can't decide if he himself stole or if it was someone else.

[@ajandrianjafymusic]

Honestly I feel so sorry for these girls I have a few friends who are from traveler families luckily they aren’t as strict to the traditions as these families and I just feel so sorry for them all

[@jamiecronin967]

You mean man-child/thug.

[@anthonyhassett]

Did you ever think of it the other way around? Image a settled person in a class with travellers who have to be there not want to be there. Then when they can't keep up with the pace of the curriculum they want to mess and disrupt the class.

[@cc-so9hj]

@@gypsyrobin that reaction was just beyond my words.. 🤣

[@ohz6793]

Wearing a tracksuit to court should be a crime in itself

[@teachervictoriak3919]

100000%

[@EstherHulst-Artist]

This guy is such trash also from the way he treats his wife

[@keelinrosedoyle5179]

Nah its actually quite normal

[@ohz6793]

@@keelinrosedoyle5179 doesn’t mean that it’s right though haha, it shouldn’t be normalised

[@joycemckeown789]

🤣🤣

[@rhiannajd4412]

I would run away if I were these girls. Nothing is worse than being isolated in a house by yourself for however many years with little to no communication.

[@wine-aboutitshitsgigglesan1564]

I did, after 21 years..it cost me my family. Think on that, everyone you know and love your whole life, gone. I don't exist anymore..I'm all alone except for my new fiance. All alone in the world.

[@rhiannajd4412]

@@wine-aboutitshitsgigglesan1564 I know it’s hard but just know I’m proud of you. You freed yourself from a community that degrades women. You may feel alone but just know that there are women out there who view you as a hero! You’re so brave.

[@miawinter7251]

No we don't stay in a house by yourself the girl goes back to her mother and father till their man gets out 😉

[@rhiannajd4412]

@@miawinter7251 that’s still incredibly isolating

[@wine-aboutitshitsgigglesan1564]

@@rhiannajd4412 thank you but I don't feel brave. It's scary, it's lonely, it's a total new world basically. It's amazing to think you know what it's like until you're in it. People behave differently , community is different..it's a big world compared to the one I know.

[@rosieravenclaw1521]

I feel so sorry for these poor girls, i reckon domestic violence is a big thing in the traveller community and most of it goes unnoticed and just accepted :( these girls deserve so much better :( .

[@C87-q9j]

Apparently it is a big thing, a majority of traveller women experience abuse :(

[@kayleighweston8793]

It’s so sad, I watched a clip on this channel that said that women who experience domestic violence think it’s something they have done wrong when it happens 😢 I hope these women are ok

[@tashaharris2138]

If an Irish traveller woman???? GETS knocked TF around by her husband???? She automatically questions???? What she's done ✅✅✅ to deserve it!!!! I know an Irish traveller girl who knows most of the people on this show!!!! She once told me that her sisters husband was knocking her up down and around the house 🏘️🏘️🏘️!!!! When she told her parents???? The first thing they said was???? What have you been doing wrong to your husband??? For him to beat you!!!! Can you just fuckin imagine???? Sad AF but true!!!!

[@sanniek.1512]

@@tashaharris2138 oh god I didn't know it was that bad, the parents like wtf.

[@sinalina5882]

@@tashaharris2138 I am sorry but reading that comment almost gave me a stroke.

[@pigeon51]

That wedding photo is the funniest thing ever. They both look as miserable as sin 😆

[@michellek2083]

It’s so bad!!!😂

[@cottoncandy4486]

Looks like a couple Goths.

[@lainewhite5691]

I remember thinking how miserable she looked at her wedding 😂 a lot of gypsy brides get all dressed up just to barely smile lmao

[@Kathie6767]

🤣🤣🤣

[@OldJoeBlows]

4:19

[@jamieharrison192]

“That’s just life” “Tings happen” No, no I don’t tink so. You don’t just happen to steal a laptop. This should be a little sneak peek of life with old Brenden here. He’s just “looking forward to his past”. What an intellectual 🧐 Lucky girl

[@Alexandria250]

Lol so cringey!!! "Tings happen just don't get caught he says 🤣

[@joycemckeown789]

God help this girl, she married trash 🗑 🙏

[@loulou1356]

He’s never been to school a day In his life though he said so in the last episode

[@blondecat666]

She's no scientist either.

[@NC-ij9rb]

This honestly cracked me up 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@coldaqua3143]

When he pinched her … just reminded of my abusive upbringing where my father would pinch me and my mother in public settings to warn us if we didn’t obey we would get beat later. This is clearly a very abusive dynamic already and it’s only going to get worse

[@hampsterlove1]

Im so sorry you expierienced that trauma. I do want to tell you that that is not the only reason men pinch women on the butt and is in fact a sign of affection for a lot of people. And putting your trauma responses onto unrelated situations can make the world seem a lot scarier than it is

[@donnanoe6736]

@@hampsterlove1 Being pinched is still a form of violence. It leaves bruises. Just because you liked it doesn't mean that others have to.

[@hampsterlove1]

@@donnanoe6736 I'm not saying that. I'm just trying to help them not get triggered everytime someone pinches their significant other in public. Because that's a terrible way to have to live.

[@caitlinyoon9006]

The pinching triggered me too. It’s obviously something he does a lot that she doesn’t like. Such disrespect.

[@leonamay8776]

@@hampsterlove1 Her reaction made it clear that she isn't enjoying it!

[@haleywhitten1947]

I remember watching a gypsy wedding and he said “this way I can mold her into the woman I want her to be” like wicked controlling. And these poor girls shouldn’t be forced to deal with men like this and that. It’s awful

[@Mambo-dk7px]

I watched this episode a couple of days ago. My jaw dropped to the floor.

[@rosiecheeks.k]

Ahhh yes the boy marrying Cheyenne or Cheyanne!!

[@Sydney.graccce]

just saw that a couple hours ago

[@wowso4]

That wasn’t him different boy

[@ggenda1217]

Yeah that was john and Cheyenne mcfaylen, they have 4 kids now and hes just out of jail for threatening to murder and kidnap a baby infront of the mum during armed robbery…

[@bingleybiker6643]

She looked absolutely heartbroken when he walked through that door. If i had a partner who looked like that id spend every single day of the rest of my life trying to make her happy

[@sandrafinbar]

The girls are always gorgeous and the guys are brutish and immature. The girls are brainwashed to think they need marriage.

[@dionneop1amnotithebestg08m3]

You can see all of the regret written all over her face

[@8DIBa]

She is the same girl who said on her wedding day that, there's no difference in marrying and having children in her age(16) and doing it 10 yrs after where she may have been financially, physically and mentally ready.. i guess now she's finally realizing the huge difference..

[@anthonyhassett]

They say love is blind and marriage is an eye opener. Never truer words spoken

[@notthedoctor8621]

Not like they have options in that community

[@anthonyhassett]

@@notthedoctor8621 explain? There is funding for education, special classes, integration and they still cannot get an education. How is that the settled community's fault?

[@stacynewton34]

@@anthonyhassett you really should get a life

[@vrbixby]

He is very flippant about his irresponsible behavior, and despite saying that she loves him, her body language sometimes indicates annoyance and discomfort. I loved the look on her face when he said that he wanted to learn his history, and she said, "I think you're gobsmacked you fool'.

[@gb9612]

She said ‘you’re a gobshite’ 😂

[@darleenmccauley8220]

Basically she is going to have to raise this child to a man.

[@nber1954]

​@@darleenmccauley8220 soooo true!! He is older than her.... 😂

[@chloeloebell1998]

She is so beautiful, I find it so sad these girls are conditioned to settle for these men due to their culture. They have no life.

[@joanchristenson5761]

She is married to a thief. His words . . . "I don't think it was me. haha" She will be waiting for him for many years in the future. Of course, she said "Well I watch my mother and father go through it. And now I'm going through it." What a family tradition!!

[@SnarfSnarf1]

It's not just a family tradition it's a cultural tradition for them. It's common for the men and sometimes the women to do long or often prison stays.

[@joegreen8248]

@@SnarfSnarf1 not at all 🤣. Just because her father went jail . Could have been a fight . Could been anything. Stop judging people as a whole .

[@joegreen8248]

Nothing to do family tradition. Plenty travellers hard working out there . Stop being a bigot an racist

[@mountaineergirl255]

Ugh, he's such a slimeball. He was joking about committing a crime and acted like it was no big deal - like he's entitled to other people's property and he can't believe the police had the nerve to arrest him for it. I hope the person he stole from got their laptop back.

[@joanchristenson5761]

@@mountaineergirl255 You are right. He acts as he is entitled to other people's property. They want something . . . .they take it. Guess it's easier than working for it.

[@butterflysnme724]

I'd watch a series on just them. I'm afraid her eyes are opening to how hard and limited her life is now.

[@marialee6098]

What a waste of life for this poor girl!

[@tamielizabethallaway2413]

They're divorced

[@butterflysnme724]

@@tamielizabethallaway2413 not surprised. Where did you see that?

[@melliev7]

@@tamielizabethallaway2413 Thank goodness!

[@RaenbowBlight]

@@tamielizabethallaway2413 God I hope so.

[@FloresFatKat]

Its like he doesnt care or truly understand that he is damaging his family with his actions. She doesnt deserve this

[@Nyquil5]

He is a bit of a dim bulb.

[@mandyellis876]

He definitely couldn’t care less. Unfortunately his type are all about themselves and I hope Danielle gets rid of him pronto if he doesn’t shape up immediately. She’ll run rings round him! How sad that she’s tied herself to such a waste of space at such a young age!

[@tamielizabethallaway2413]

First off, he just said it's been dragging on for 14 months, the court proceedings. He did this before meeting her! So he didn't do it to damage his "family"....he was single at the time. And aside from that, they're divorced! This is years old!

[@laffytaffy2916]

He doesn’t care, ALL THE MEN SEEM TO GO TO JAIL FOR STEALING! None of them are educated, the community doesn’t believe in education after age 11, they have no trade or honest way to EARN money. So many updates on these shows about husbands in jail, going to jail, about to do another stint in jail, they gang up with other male relatives and break into houses, heck that’s most of the reason they want their faces blurred out! 🗑

[@Crystal11Skulls]

@@tamielizabethallaway2413 Source on divorce please?

[@Elfiegirl]

This is so sad the parents subject the girls to getting married so young. They will never know there’s better men out there and don’t deserve to be treated this way.

[@anthonyhassett]

What makes you think better men want them? I certainly dont want to be married to a traveler.

[@justhereforthevideos2798]

@@anthonyhassett why have u been on every comment on this post for over a week???😆😆 poor thing

[@ggaffgaff966]

I think her mom was actually against it -thought she was to young. At least I think that was this girl. But yea-totally agree. Some of these age differences are borderline illegal

[@anthonyhassett]

@@justhereforthevideos2798 Shure nothing better to do than bash travellers

[@justhereforthevideos2798]

@@anthonyhassett get a life😘

[@baybeegalkk]

Is it me or did she not seem so elated that her husband had avoided prison? 😂 It certainly would have provided her some respite.

[@joycemckeown789]

I think she's realised what a major mistake she's made.

[@dhop2821]

She really looked like she was sad he didn't go. I was in a similar situation at 17. I knew the guy needed to be my ex, but it was so hard to get rid of him. I pictured asking the clerk on my way out how much time he got. I couldn't believe my eyes when I saw him come out of that courtroom. Even worse, they withdrew all charges. When I successfully got out a year or so later, they renewed all these charges plus new ones. He ended up going to federal prison and did 80% of his time. If he had been convicted by the state that day, he would only have to do 30% of whatever time they gave. So it worked out in the long run.

[@bluelight922]

@@joycemckeown789 I don't think Women in the Gypo community have a choice. Once they get caught, who ever caught them they marry... and I literally mean caught. They run around grabbing Women and which ever one they grab successfully they normally have to marry!

[@swagon4545]

@@dhop2821 To be honest, You shouldn't have to wait for your boyfriend or husband to go to prison to get out of a relationship... Recardless if your married or not... You can get divorced for many reasons... They are still a young couple & many things to learn & experience in life.. I wish the couple a happy future...

[@dhop2821]

@@swagon4545 Well, obviously I shouldn't have had to wait for him to go to prison. I was fresh out of high-school and had no clue what I was up against. In a perfect world, I would have been able to call for help and just get right out of it. In the real world though, he preyed on me as a minor,was psychotic, stalked me for months, committed crimes against me and my family and so much more. Some people are so seasoned as far as arrests and plea bargains go. Even if you do manage to get them arrested, they're back out and at it again in 24 hours. Yet, I guarantee if I had defended myself, I'd be the one in prison.

[@Star-qh5wp]

I see genuine disgust on her face. She doesn’t respect him.

[@anthonyhassett]

Jeepers, how could you go to bed with him and still respect yourself the next morning?

[@HaveCommonSense76]

He doesn’t deserve respect

[@Yyyyyy5]

She lies and says she’s in love with him. Can’t find a better man.

[@nber1954]

She said it: she wanted to be married. I dont think she wanted him (immature, stupid). Reminder: he is older than her!!

[@amyhyde70]

He needs to grow the fek up

[@gabrielleframe5262]

A 16 year old should not be going through this😑

[@cathyabrahamse1929]

He doesn't give a rat's ass about her, his jail time extremely childish.

[@caseydominick7806]

Why is,she wearing a,whore outfit to court

[@WildeWolfe7370]

I think she was slightly annoyed he came home. . .

[@everynewdayisablessing8509]

Yes, she didn't look too thilled! Perhaps deep down she was hoping they would jail him and he will learn his lesson and will never commit a crime ever again. Now he may be cheekier than before since he got away.

[@chin_chilin_1019]

The way she just sighs in disappointment when she corrects him about the word future gets me every time 💀

[@silvanamarkovska7486]

I love how he says "just don't get caught", how about trying "not to steal"?

[@kgrant3184]

Yes, and also HER comment about observing male relatives all around them "going to jail" --- um... *maybe*, there is somethng "rotten" in that culture and its "accepted" behavioural standards for MALES. As I read somewhere, when people get older and THINK on it, they find that stereotypes are almost ALWAYS based on TRUTHS, no matter how unpleasant/ unpalatable that seems. Although I have no direct experience with the culture, and watch these & other videos to learn MORE about it, and I watch & appreciate the burgeoning travel - life culture (in vans, trailors, tiny-houses, etc.) that they have DEFINITELY influenced & impacted GLOBALLY, and appreciate the incredible physical beauty of so many gypsies, I ALSO observe that the prejudices against the gypsy community "seem" to be proving to be based on observed "Truths". His comment about "just don't get caught" says much. I have been watching these vids for a while trying to learn of the culture, seeing their magnificent weddings, and have been distressed & commiserated over venues not wanting to rent to them if they are gypsies. "They dislike us and don't trust us for NO reason", and yet (they/ gypsies ) "lie, cheat & steal" (but just don't get caught), often seem to have huge brawling drunken fights & destroy others' property, but "(they/ gypsies) are "the innocent victims" and unfairly discriminated against. Hmm. Yet, they see to NEVER examine their own actions, or relate their personal behaviours to group consequences. "Good Catholics"? Right. SMH. I am glad for her that she doesn't have to go into "purdah"/ isolation, and I truly hope that HE (and other gypsy males) will change their ways to those of honesty & integrity. There is room in this world for ALL lifestyles that do NOT harm others. Personally, I am REALLY attracted to a travelling lifestyle, though one NOT of theft or dishonesty. Just my opinion. Oh - and BTW, when I was teaching in China, years ago now, I realized that I was not only representing myself/ my parents/ my family, but ALL Westerners/ Caucasians, and tried to always keep that in mind in everything I did. I wanted to leave Good Will for others who came after me. Perhaps something for "their group" to think on...? Cheers, and Best Wishes, to All.

[@silvanamarkovska7486]

@@kgrant3184 well said Grant, I couldn't have said it better

[@oliviamartini9700]

The traveler women all thieve as well.

[@anthonyhassett]

@@oliviamartini9700 Shure they are 75% of the dochas women's prison in Ireland.

[@mr.wilson9941]

Its like telling a dog not to bark

[@woodsandcreek7589]

When I saw their wedding episode, my first thought was...Brendan is violent, he likes to drink, he's in trouble with the law, he's uneducated, he's misogynistic, it won't be long before he starts to beat on her.

[@Q89-f4z]

What’s funny is one of the kids that attended their wedding from the episode said “I don’t want to get married so young what if he’s stupid”. 😂

[@everynewdayisablessing8509]

Brilliant!

[@toothfairy430]

"I wish I could bring Danielle to jail with me" bruh, he already did. Her life is jail now because he's going to drag her down with him in this marriage but he's ok with that because he's all that matters to himself.

[@amyhyde70]

You nailed that right on the head. For a women so pretty and calm, she could have done 100% better had she only let herself grow up a few more years. She married an irresponsible boy not a man.

[@lisacastillo7220]

What a sad existence. Want more for yourselves ladies. You deserve better and it's out there.

[@anthonyhassett]

Explain why they "deserve" better? What did they do to deserve better? Did they have a job or a science degree before they married?

[@bluelight922]

They don't have a choice in the Gypo World! If they do chose their own life... they're shunned!

[@Janae2000]

@@anthonyhassett ? Anyone deserves better than to live in a culture that claims girls are fit to be married before they mature and boys are not taught proper consent and respect. No one is taught respect. They do Absolutely deserve better. These are children for fucks sake. You do not have to have a degree to deserve better than this you weirdo.

[@sagewowomg]

Something really interesting I’ve noticed with a lot of these follow ups is that most of the husbands have served time. Particularly for theft of some kind. Most of these guys have it drilled into them from the time that they’re toddlers that as a man your goal is to provide for your family at all costs, and if you can’t you’re essentially worthless. Considering that and that (from what I’ve heard) travellers do sometimes get discriminated against at their jobs, to the point that many of them don’t disclose that they’re travellers so they don’t get fired, it makes sense that A LOT of these guys turn to crime. I’m not condoning committing crimes obviously but it does make sense that this is the path that they end up going down.

[@summerrain888]

It's a choice not a path you end up on. They choose to harm someone else in their favour, and they don't really care for the other ones struggle that they had inflicted. They laugh as you can see. Their education is just upside-down from a regular home.

[@hyperionparthalan]

I agree. Wonder how different it is with the US population of travelers?

[@vixxxenfoxxx3660]

It's there main source of income. They actually consider it a career.

[@sagewowomg]

@@summerrain888 sure. It’s definitely a choice but when you couple extremely limited education with poverty it’s not at all surprising to me that they commit these crimes. Maybe it’s cause I grew up in poverty and as an extension of that my neighborhood had a very high crime rate.

[@mlledj22]

@@sagewowomg But the community is WHY they have limited education! The girls don't actively learn in school because they know they are going to leave anyway. How does a 15 year old not know how to read, write or do basic math, things that are learned before the age of 10? And that's pushing it! Same with the men. If they encouraged staying in school and graduating, then they could have a better way of life that doesn't involve theft. Not to mention they can spend these crazy amounts on wedding, which should be going to living expenses. And travelers aren't discriminated against for simply being travelers. They are because they have a reputation for being unreliable, doing shoddy work and theft.

[@asvir9110]

Looks like honeymoon stage ended pretty quick. Sad how they have to rush into marriage and now they figure out “what now?” when married. Wishing them the very best. He seems a bit too cocky…

[@SACHKIGAL]

I hate this for her.

[@sweetheart-xg2yy]

They were only together for 4 months before getting married :/

[@lah1667]

@@sweetheart-xg2yy not true, 12 months

[@johncoates441]

The wedding photo tells me this marriage will end in a very emotional way.

[@Lulusnotreadyforthis]

I fear it'll end in a violent way looking at the way Brendon behaves.

[@sandrafinbar]

I read on here that they are divorced.

[@jabberwaki1625]

I thought the men were required to work hard and pamper the wives. If they make such good money, why is he stealing laptops?

[@darkpninja]

Not to mention they're living with his family! They don't even have their own place!

[@natalieblack6192]

Nah....men pretend to be single and women wait around.

[@LisaFrank39]

That's how this show use to present them. Hard working travelers looking to make a living.

[@juliuscaesar5593]

Because he’s an empty head down and out bum

[@jamescollins-ci6hg]

These 2 are a poor representation of gypsy life, i live with gypsies abd they dont steak, they graft hard every week.

[@dianethompson2458]

I am appalled that they both seem resigned to a life where he is in and out of prison. To keep the poor wives at home during their husband's sentence is really quite cruel. The answer is education and training for a good paying job. Then there would be no need for them to commit crimes. Everyone's life would be happier and the crime rate would drop.

[@rachelbradford6369]

ok but most travelers who are smart can't get jobs because they are all discriminated against. If their boss finds out, they find any reason to fire them.

[@dianethompson2458]

@@rachelbradford6369 Discrimination in all its ugly forms need to abolished. We as a society have to grow up and face reality. We are one human race period. All living sentient beings deserve to be respected. A time will come when this will be obvious to everyone.

[@EstherHulst-Artist]

Most of them drop out of school and their priorities ar upside down

[@katep6179]

Most Irish traveller men have their own or go into their family businesses. Usually construction or landscaping type jobs as a lot of employers would not hire them. I worked in a shop where I was told to pay special attention to anyone who had an Irish accent or 'looked like a traveller' which is wrong. But then here's Brendan breaking into people's homes to steal and laughing about it which cements people's views and opinions. I feel sorry for this girl though, he seems like a right dickhead

[@anthonyhassett]

You cant be discriminated against if you apply for a skilled job and you have no marketable skills. Travellers do not fit into the conventional educational system. Its not because there is not finance, incentive or opportunity there. They are just stupid, they cannot keep up with the harsh curriculum and refuse to do the work. Who want to employ someone who cannot learn skills in a short time.

[@believeinyourself7511]

These two are so young. I feel so sad that the teen girls got to get married and be stuck cleaning, cooking, while the guys can do whatever they want.

[@eleonoracaponero8956]

SHE is young, that guy apparently was 20 when she married her. Poor girl

[@celticscribe7887]

The man cant do what he wants he has to work and provide for her

[@SW-ug7zh]

She was 16 and he was 21 when they married. Although she stays home and cooks and clean…he has to support her and all the children they will have in the foreseeable future which is usually a lot. I’m surprised she’s not pregnant yet due to the fact most traveler wives get pregnant immediately after marriage a lot of the time.

[@mandyellis876]

@@celticscribe7887 are you having a laugh…’work’??? It’s not like this guy understands anything whatsoever about putting in a decent day’s work for a pay packet!!

[@celticscribe7887]

@@mandyellis876 and I take it your a multi millionaire yourself? Take a hike slag

[@KD-wz8tp]

He’s a liar and has zero contrition. She should get an education and leave him.

[@billybigboll2885]

They can look forward to a wonderful history together.

[@diariesofafreespirit5124]

Hahahaha

[@sofiaeriksson0109]

😂😂😂

[@memes_leserene]

😭😭

[@thatonebihhh1761]

Lol

[@sinalina5882]

You can see that poor girl already regretting her decision.

[@cacti3225]

She seems so disappointed with her "husband", what a plonker he is. I feel sorry for her.

[@anthonyhassett]

Too late you bought as "sold as seen". I bet his mother was laughing at her going down the aisle, "Her problem now!"

[@michellewall6748]

He’s so immature..... poor Danielle.... she’s stunning and seems like such a nice girl..... so sad to se her wasted on him!

[@judymay4469]

Respect you're self and you're wife. Stay out of trouble, be a good man and husband and take care of you're marriage

[@SACHKIGAL]

I agree

[@ajandrianjafymusic]

Big facts but they’re just kids who haven’t got their heads fully screwed on yet

[@anthonyhassett]

@@ajandrianjafymusic they are not kids, he is 21. Also the most important part of psychological development happens before you are 4 years. It's like the cow on top of the roof, no one knows how they got there but people want to see what they do next.

[@ajandrianjafymusic]

@@anthonyhassett I’m their age and even though I have a kid myself I’d still very much class myself as a kid, as opposed to say a 25 year old

[@anthonyhassett]

@@ajandrianjafymusic So you are classed as a minor, not a kid. So you have no responsibility for your words or actions? You dont think there should be consequences for words or actions? Interesting. So when do become an adult and assume responsibility for your actions?

[@marieforster1147]

These young women put up with a lot and are treated like second class citizens, I respect that’s how they are brought up but “ clean it, feed it, kiss it” would never want daughter treated in such a way! These women deserve so much more

[@greerstirling9665]

I love how they claim they're not criminals but nearly all the men have been in jail

[@b.m.t.h.3961]

True, and sadly the poor victims they rob and con suffer on.

[@vixxxenfoxxx3660]

According to other travellers they have to choose crime bc they are discriminated against & can't get regular jobs. I doubt that. I'm guessing their criminal behavior may have something to do with getting a job.

[@mandyellis876]

@@vixxxenfoxxx3660 education doesn’t seem to be encouraged from what I’ve seen. That’s sad because it’s a very limited style of life you’re signing up to without the opportunities education brings.

[@okimahitt7413]

And apparently when they go to jail, the wives get put in their own prison

[@greerstirling9665]

@@okimahitt7413 well considering these girls helped raise their siblings and kept house for probably more than ten years of their lives, peace and solitude might be a good thing. I know I'd be hittin' the clubs an hour away. There's bound to be another child bride in the same predicament looking for a bit of fun

[@maryloy967]

Young Brendan seems rather immature. I hope for the sake of both their sanity and wellbeing, he grows up soon(though I’m sad to say I’d not hold my breath for such a thing to happen anytime soon)

[@gypsyrobin]

He is now 21. He met her a year ago. She was 14 when they met.

[@anthonyhassett]

Seems? I looked up immature in the dictionary and saw his picture underneath it.

[@anthonyhassett]

@@gypsyrobin People used to call that courting years ago, now at that age we call it something else.....

[@BlondieBow]

She deserves so much better 😔 Young, beautiful and bright. I hope she finds happiness.

[@bluelight922]

Doubt it the Women don't pick who they marry. They marry the man who catches them!

[@anthonyhassett]

@@bluelight922 *Shudders*

[@anthonyhassett]

why do they deserve better? the women are as rough as the men.

[@setayesh.j4349]

Just being beautiful doesn't mean she deserves better only our actions determine what do we deserve

[@BlondieBow]

@@setayesh.j4349 I also said bright. But you choose to only see what you want. She does deserve better than him.

[@emy_kovy2532]

Finally follow ups !! 👌

[@SACHKIGAL]

I want everybodies follow ups

[@anthonyhassett]

How could it have gone wrong?

[@lynneanthony168]

She doesn't even look happy in her wedding pictures. What a life.

[@janemcnaughten7275]

RUN GIRL RUN !!! GET OUT OF THERE NOW BEFORE YOU HAVE ANY CHILDREN. You have chosen this life, but your precious children to be haven't

[@kelly_Dee.]

It’s nice that we’re getting updates but even the updates are old. They’re like 10 years old. Anyone have any actual recent updates?

[@Dempsey222]

They must have got divorced. That Brendan guy is a moron.

[@eirenex233]

I saw on Facebook that they were still together in 2018 with 2 kids. But who knows over the last few years

[@Dempsey222]

@@eirenex233 Maybe she stayed and endured that little fat moron.

[@Kurious_Kiwi]

@@Dempsey222 she's likely be disowned or treated like trash if she divorced him, its unacceptable in their culture

[@Dempsey222]

@@Kurious_Kiwi That guy Swanley got divorced the guy who got married on the show in another episode. So it is part of their culture now at least.

[@rhiannon.ogilvie]

"Your a gobshite, I think you mean your future, fool."🤣 I absolutely can't

[@plk_0626]

This is the exact reason why they warn you not to get married at a young age. You need time to grow up and mature. I'd rather be single rather than live a life being miserable, lonely and invisible. What a sad existence.

[@natashalafontaine2807]

They get married at a young age because the life expectancy in the travelling community is 55 years old! Gorgers life expectancy is 79 years.

[@Shelbydee3030]

The wedding photo made me laugh out loud lmfao 😂

[@isabellouis3529]

Looked like a prom photo 😂😂😂

[@theprimitiveblackhatsociet8274]

The fact that she can say every traveler man has gone to jail, may be some of the reason people do not want travelers in their community.

[@charleycurls_]

Well he's quite the catch isn't he 🙄not.

[@SACHKIGAL]

He's gross

[@munichmoon5711]

Hahahahaha

[@jeanettejeanette1199]

This is what happens when you don't educate your children, you have a 16yo getting married to someone who's in crime, and you have a 20 yo man going to jail for theft rather than getting an honest job. He doesn't care about the people he's stealing from, people who work to pay for the items they have.

[@bettydamnboop3030]

You should be questioning your own husband being good instead of saying if God is good. These girls know exactly what is expected of them because they are raised in the gypsy culture.

[@ammarahismaeltaug3127]

He's packing his clothes as if he's going to a vacation, even wanting to bring his wife with him. Oh gosh

[@fe.bonetti1537]

If the wife is supposed to be reclusive while the husband is in jail, who is supposed to provide for her?

[@anthonyhassett]

Ahhh the joys of the welfare nanny state. Welfare keeps people poor, not encourages them to develop and get out.

[@sinead7475]

She would probably get lots of help from her parents and family

[@Janae2000]

@@anthonyhassett here comes Anthony with an opinion no one asked him for.

[@missandry2669]

@@anthonyhassett Are you a irrelevant thug ?

[@fliconmigo]

Why are the girls so pretty and the guys so homely?

[@sunflowersun343]

She looks disappointed that he didn't get time lmao

[@walkwithmeASMR]

I feel so sorry for her.

[@SACHKIGAL]

Me too

[@anitacathrine8942]

Wow 😮 he mistook the court for the gym… All dressed up for running..That wedding picture captured pure misery 😹

[@anthonyhassett]

Happens more often than you think....

[@sandrafinbar]

He's certainly not a good catch to throw your life away for.

[@jennidelavega5234]

I didn’t know a criminal “packed “for prison.

[@anthonyhassett]

Prison? Prisons in Ireland are so cushy with every prisoner gets his own TV, gym facilities and what not. You wouldnt get it in most 3 star hotels

[@Loosewire2]

They are in Leicester, did you even watch the video?

[@anthonyhassett]

@@Loosewire2 same thing prison life in the western world is a cushy number. It should be like prison in South Africa, where it should be a gateway to hell.

[@Janae2000]

@@anthonyhassett as it should be. Even criminals deserve basic human decency. If you want them to stop acting like animals start treating them like basic humans. Leaving them in concrete cells with no contact to fresh air or tv to watch news is no way for any human to live even criminals. Anthony you are truly twisted. All you comments prove you need to humble yourself.

[@anthonyhassett]

@@Janae2000 Any psychologist will tell you its too late to reform them. They are kept inside for our protection. He will be back in front of the judge in 18 months. Very very few of them reform.

[@HiGlowie]

Laughing about stealing a laptop while on bail? Seems like a great guy. I’m sure he won’t return to a life of crime.

[@LaLagunz187]

Imagine being on earth only 16yrs and think u are mature enough to be married? Your brain isn’t even developed enough to see the consequences of how horribly this could end.

[@melindaroop1346]

That girl is gorgeous...she could have easily found someone else.

[@mamarobyn]

She's so beautiful!!! And JUST A BABY!!

[@anthonyhassett]

She could have, but she didn't. Not the sharpest tool in the shed.

[@Janae2000]

@@anthonyhassett ?? You’re comments are so infuriating. You have no compassion you clearly lack critical thinking and are commenting such grotesque and demeaning replies when you are no one to judge these KIDS. you’re probably a grown man. You’re disgusting. These kids need proper guidance. And you’re judging them even though you said it yourself it’s generational. Yes it’s hard to break generational issues BUT that doesn’t give you the right to insult these people since you don’t understand what they go through. Anthony you’re a poor excuse of a human being.

[@danae7054]

It's so sad that these kids who marry so early have so little respect for themselves and each other. The way they speak to and treat one another is often appalling. Traditionally 'young' weddings from decades ago worked because life was so very different to what it is now. Far more pressure and exposure to many, many things that weren't around decades ago.

[@charlotte5372]

The look he had when pinching her. He's not all there. I think he's dangerous. That was a warning. When they get home, she'll be receiving more than a pinch ☹️

[@Dempsey222]

This Brendan guy thinks he is a boxer but he is horrible at boxing. He needs a new hobby.

[@anthonyhassett]

He should try crochet, cos he couldnt beat an egg.

[@aaroncunningham8478]

Going to court in a tracksuit is definitely the way about it 😂

[@tbrookereventing860]

Saw me stealing a laptop... 'Wasn't me' Doing me for burglary... 'Wasn't me' 🤣😎

[@purpledragondc7532]

Sad.. I hope she has a friend that’s also a traveler that she can confide in & talk to. She is absolutely stunningly beautiful. I hope the family they create is healthy & with the least amount of drama.. so young & full of hope 💗💗💗

[@bluelight922]

Doubt it. The kids would most likely attend the next burglary he commits. Running down the street carrying lead pipes for him off someone's bath installation!

[@GrainneScarlett]

Oh Brendan I'm sure it wasn't you 🤫😂. He's giving out how long the process takes. Forgive me If I don't feel sorry for you... My empathy goes to the victims of your crimes. Oh I'm sorry you didn't do it 🤫🙈

[@tru3293]

16 and married can't see this going wrong at all.

[@KushBs112012]

She seemed so pissed off he got no jail time 😂

[@sarahyork4118]

Looking forward to your history😂😂😂😂😂😂 I can’t🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@hayleyrose5936]

Stuff being with someone who thinks your only good for cooking cleaning and going to bed …. Not the life for a young woman at all

[@tamarak.8800]

She would have had a better chance in foster care, it's sad that they don't get it early enough to leave before getting married at 16 to a criminal...

[@gypsyrobin]

No need for foster care. She was living with her family up to her wedding day.

[@GenaF]

I just love the way she put him down when he was on about his "history". "Ya gobshite, I think you mean ya future, fool"😊

[@jpp7866]

So glad he wore his special tracksuit with the hood to court

[@LisaFrank39]

It's his lucky tracksuit

[@christinaweinmangeriatrics1689]

They have kid’s now and he has been in and out of jail the whole time. I feel so bad for her.

[@nikitamcphail3875]

How do you know? I've always been interested in where they are now lol

[@butter-fly16]

@@nikitamcphail3875 facebook, I found their facebook and they are now separated

[@faiza515]

@@butter-fly16 What's the Facebook?

[@mandyellis876]

@@butter-fly16 at least that’s one good thing, but now she’s the heartbreak of raising the kids alone.

[@butter-fly16]

@@mandyellis876 in their community they always remarry. She is probably with someone

[@shwetapatkar5097]

'We don't need no education' is screaming out to me whenever I watch these gypsy docs. Communities far poorer only with the aid of education have just gone far ahead. And look at you living in the best countries and getting married at 15-16. And yes with immaturity being in abundance. God bless.

[@anthonyhassett]

What do you think 30 hours in a semester will change versus 30 generations of social conditioning?

[@Janae2000]

@@anthonyhassettALOT. Anthony a lot. It’s better than your solution of just continuously discriminating these people??? As someone who came from a generation of sexist and crime provoked community being offered a basic education helped me learn there are things that peak my interest that I want to continue to study to help myself. Even then it doesn’t have to be education. There are programs like JOB CORPS that can teach young adults to learn skills to work for themselves doing labor or working remotely.

[@anthonyhassett]

@@Janae2000 Double dosing the women with Depo-provera until the problem corrects itself. Worked in Israel

[@LillyRose23]

Her life now is a real prison ... Greetings from Poland and thank you for this series.

[@danielabaptista7682]

"I don't think it was me" It was definitely you sir...

[@nostalgicblondie]

she is genuinely so gorgeous, looks like a model i swear💯

[@milanagregg2167]

He’s a waking red flag. I feel so bad for the girl, you can tell that she’s not happy at all

[@Lucailey]

If he broke the law, there is no reason she needs to be secluded. What a sad life for these young ladies - being brought up to serve a man and marry at like 16.

[@heatherlorscheider7758]

She looks so miserable even in her wedding picture. Horrible they have to live like this

[@feroxartem]

What history? U gobshite, u meant future Omg Ive died laughing

[@jeangilchrest2209]

Right?! I was literally laughing out loud at the last zinger when he asked her if he could do was he pleases. Super quit witted.

[@lenablack4115]

First 14 months of their marriage without him sounds like heaven.

[@Lstss249]

Can you imagine 16 old and married... these girls are going to have around 3 kids before their 20's... if the guy decide to leave them, they have nowhere to go, they can't support the children, have no education or profession to get jobs.... how miserable is life for them?😢😢😫

[@KatMo126]

They should Have a drinking game tradition for this couple. Take a drink every time she says “shut up Brandon” 😂

[@fertblu5514]

6:41 says it all how happy she is😂

[@christinemerritt974]

Danielle is gorgeous and I love listening to her talk.❤ Her husband better man up and treat her with the respect she deserves.

[@xochitldiaz695]

I love Danielle’s sassy personality.

[@lady_grimm_242]

Girl didn’t even look happy when he walked threw the door 😂😂

[@keeshalafaye9074]

I'm 32 and stuck in the house with my toddler due to the pandemic and I'm ready to run away! I couldn't imagine being a teen stuck in the house like that!

[@puddlespickles8810]

Bless him, he ain't the brightest bulb is he.

[@lottieglendinning4260]

She looks so unhappy but it’s the only life she knows, she has no education if she leaves she’ll be ostracised it’s heart breaking- I hope she’s happy now

[@natashalafontaine2807]

Not always. Lots of the brides from that program are now divorced! Some are back living with their parents and some have remarried or moved on and had a family with another guy....