Q&A - Modesty, Materialism, Sex Before Marriage, Botox, & Toxic Friends

Today, we get into it all.... Jeanine addresses YOUR questions you asked her.
She talks about:
- Toxic friends
- Drinking at bachelorettes
- Modesty
- Botox
- Materialism
- Sex before marriage
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[@athsrox]

Unpopular opinion but I think Botox promotes vanity and I really disagree with it. By constantly getting your nails done, hair done, Botox and face things etc, I think it sends the message that physical appearance is really important, as well as saying God made a mistake when he made you. There's a mismatch between words and actions.

[@daniscarantino]

I think doing all those things to post about it and constantly take selfies is vanity. But upkeep and wanting to look good is not a bad thing.

[@blagoneraspadljivonanebesima]

Me too. Being undefiled. Through Christ's grace I'm make up and nails free. Yet it's my biggest vice so I try not to judge because if I snap I'll become a glittery pumped up monster lady.

[@plavaovcica]

and I think not caring and improving your appareance is lazyness.

[@athsrox]

@@plavaovcica there's a difference between making an effort to be clean and well presented and making your physical appearance everything.

[@marinamarquesd]

But botox doesn’t really change your appearance, it just prevents wrinkles and freezes up your muscle I honestly don’t think it’s a bad thing, but with that and most things, the heart posture behind it is what really matters

[@mikgonzales]

Also the best decision I did was wait for my husband after previously not waiting but when we met we both agreed to wait and it was so worth it! We now have two beautiful sons and God has blessed our marriage and family more than I could ever imagine and I wholeheartedly believe that it’s because we put Him first and He is at the center of our marriage. So absolutely wait for your husband! I encourage this as well❤️

[@Xnovality]

Poor guy

[@username25256]

Jeanine he needs to have deliverance from demons. Those night terrors are demons tormenting him. If you need more info on that is Isaiah Saldivar, Derek Prince, etc

[@gabriellapavlov3308]

When you casually mentioned the sleep thing I remembered my testimony when I was a small child I suffered from night terrors, I would scream, cry and try to frantically leave the house. Around 5 or 6 years old my parents took me to the doctor (he was a Christian MD that I saw all the way until he retired during my first pregnancy lol) and he prayed that the night terrors would leave, I went home and slept peacefully and gave my life to Christ a few days later after sleeping peacefully each night. I’m 31 and have never had a sleep terror since! God you said you do not give us a spirit of fear but of power love and a sound mind! I pray that You would heal Caleb from night terrors and that You would fill his sleep with peace and the fruit of your Spirit. I pray you would protect their sleep, their marriage and continue to bless them for Your glory. Amen 🩷 this podcast is such an encouragement to me I’ve been following you for a few years. Love you guys!

[@madisonhill4025]

What a testimony! That put chills on me! Thank you for sharing! ❤

[@kelseyclark4237]

I had to see if anyone else noticed, but just cracking up because she said “extra day in your hour” (5:50) twice & i thought i was hearing it so wrong 😭 but i LOVE it because I work in social media & it is so easy to make these little common errors so this is so real. thank you LOL

[@ItsNicoleAnderson]

Yess Omgosh 😂

[@irakozeflorence6907]

Jeanine, During in the night terrors, you rebuke and pray.

[@danikacarter9589]

I have a shirt that says modest is the hottest! It has a verse on it that says the parts that are not presented are treated with special modesty!

[@taraleasure]

Married for 2.5 years here. I would even go as far to say that I wouldn’t be dating if you’re not in a place where you could see yourself potentially getting married within the next 18 months if the relationship got to that point.

[@kerirooney5251]

This was seriously one of the best responses on modesty I’ve ever heard, thank you for boldly and lovingly and humbly sharing ❤️ I whole-heartedly agree!!

[@mikgonzales]

Praying for Kaleb’s night terrors!! I know my nephew suffered them when he was 4 years old until around 6 but my brother just kept praying for him every night and eventually they stopped so I pray that they go away for Kaleb too! I can’t imagine how stressful that is 😩

[@username25256]

Girl you forgot to say Jeanine Amapola WARD! haha

[@HappyandHealthyPodcast]

I’m sorry!!!! 😂🤍

[@Solodolo18]

Love you jaenine ampola ward can't wait to God brings us together this week amen amen amen 🙏

[@katelyncrozier2428]

Every time I listen you talk about just what I need to hear 😭 I love what you said about modesty attracting the right people! Thank you for not being afraid to speak the truth 💕

[@oliviapos3397]

Masseter botox is a wise decision and I think you should continue with it. I have this same problem and my teeth grinding has lead me to a couple tooth fractures, and even wearing down some of the length of my teeth. Also helps with tension headaches. Facial slimming is just a bonus, but there's no vanity in this at all- I totally support:)

[@evanbalch222]

To the question about going to a bachelorette party as a non-drinker. I’m a guy and quit drinking late last year. It is awkward at first because everyone assumes you have a problem with alcohol (I don’t), but I also went to a bachelor party a few weeks ago stone cold sober. People were surprised I wasn’t drinking at first, but they mostly got over it. And it became a running joke how not hungover I was each day. Basic bar etiquette: you’ll probably get some of your drinks for free because they don’t have alcohol, BUT carry cash and tip the bar tenders and waiters A LOT because you are taking up space and they aren’t directly making any money off of you.

[@SarahAnnJohnson]

With modesty I do think that we shouldn’t be showing everything but for me growing up I was told that my body is shameful and what my body does is shameful and the “your body is a temple” was often used in a your body is evil and needs to be hidden. Any desire to be proud of my body and the work I’ve put into making me healthy was also out down like I want to show it off and again this isn’t a I show everything but I am still struggling with seeing my body as good rather than shameful.

[@Krsw432]

This!! I totally understand! Something that really helped to change things for me is remembering that we are daughters of the KING!!! He knitted us together in our mothers womb, beautifully and wonderfully made… that is a TREASURE and a gift! So we should treat them as such, knowing we are more precious than rubies, our bodies aren’t just for anyone to see/have! We can confidently stand in our beauty (not needing to show anything off or be ashamed) - We are daughters of a royal King! :)

[@reneegraber]

Loved this episode! I can’t wait for the Patreon episodes/Bible study!!! 🥰💗

[@producTIMity]

Hey Jeanine! Love your podcast. Probably one of the few guys who does. I appreciate your Character, hence the interest

[@markietaylor3411]

Girly so needed this morning! I love what you talk about it, sure does help me! Bless you!

[@justineelliott767]

You handled the modesty question so well!! 👏

[@idkwhattomakemyhandleso]

honestly this is the most legit conversation anyone’s ever had about modesty, like even if your not a Christian it’s kind of creepy to know that someone can just have your photo like that, I mean like your just saying facts

[@HappyandHealthyPodcast]

Aw 🙏

[@JaciMoody]

night terrors advice- sleep with your bible open. Specifically I have Psalm 91 always open. Also in the dream to actively imagine where the Lord is in the moment whether that’s in front of you, between you and whatever is attacking you and to openly rebuke the thing. I have suffered from night terrors in the past. hope this helps 🧡

[@hey_brea]

If you want to accept Jesus Christa as your lord and savior and become a child of God plus a citizen of heaven pray this prayer and change your life and eternity today,(Repentance Prayer Jesus thank you for dying on the cross for my sins, I believe that you lived, died, and rose again from the dead. I am choosing today to repent of my sins, and put my full faith ans trust in you. Not on my own good works but in your grace,mercy,forgiveness, and love. Fill me with the holy spirit and give me the strength to obey you and love you all the days of my life. IN JESUS NAME AMEN) God loves you, welcome to the Kindgom

[@kerirooney5251]

Ps I had extreme nightmares from very young until I was in my early twenties and I actually had a prayer session with someone where a lot got broken off of me spiritually and they stopped! I also had to say out loud “I claim protection over my dreams in Jesus name- the enemy has no authority over my dreams and only the kingdom of God may influence my dreams tonight” or something like that before bed every night and that also helped. If any come back I go back to that prayer and take back authority and ask God if I’ve allowed any doors to open that could have caused it. Sometimes He does show me something I shouldn’t have allowed in front of my eyes or in my ears and I simply repent and ask Jesus to wash me of it. but sometimes the enemy is just attacking me and Jesus gives all authority to us by His blood to say no to those attacks 🙌🏻 God is so good and has freed me for about 5 years now when I used to be tormented nightly!

[@nz7780]

I think you were very well spoken on all of the topics addressed and think what you said about modesty was spot on! Well said.

[@erinnsequeira6776]

Where do you get these read it on read it? Is it a certain app? Also do you read these comments to help people out? Anyway, this was such a great podcast, thank you so much for always beinig so kind, loving and thoughtful.

[@jalesa7961]

I have a question for your next q and a. How would you handle a situation where you accidentally befriended someone who has an extreme potty mouth? I mean they use profanity every other word kind of friend. Naturally, when meeting new people, we do not really know them until they become comfortable around us and really let go, so I want your opinion on this situation.

[@LoverofJesus26]

Night terrors definitely an evil spirit. I had them and had to cast them out. Ever since I did self deliverance, I havent had the problem.

[@erinnsequeira6776]

Heyy girl. I just wanted to say, you are Jeanine Amaploa- Ward. ❤❤❤❤

[@Sweetnfin3]

When I would bring up peoples past was to make myself feel better about my ugly past.

[@ronnie-lynn]

An extra day in your hour?? That was cute 🥰 I had my last session of therapy with someone I have been working with for 2.5 years. It was so bitter sweet. She is going off to have her baby.

[@producTIMity]

Who came up with the modesty rule in Christian faith

[@daughterofthemosthigh3366]

God did! 😇😇😇

[@pisicacutecat4869]

God did

[@jjjasmiin]

Hi Jeanine, this podcast is exactly what I needed to hear! Perfect timing, thank you girl!

[@Sweeber15]

I just want to say I love your channel and personality!! I’m so glad I can hear your words and learn through your faith. I view you like a mentor. Thank you so much!! ✨

[@HappyandHealthyPodcast]

Thank you so much!! 🤍🤍

[@nathalieeugene8718]

Thank you Jeanine! I loved this episode I need to pre-order your book asap.

[@producTIMity]

Already put the book on my buy list 3:30

[@starlightzz1480]

I'm new here. I love you channel already! ❤

[@Lravg]

Over 5 minutes of ads

[@plavaovcica]

yes to botoxxxx❤❤❤❤

[@hey_brea]

God bless you God loves you❤ so much

[@amandamensah316]

min 44:01 Matthew 5,33-37!

[@graceschumacher1630]

So excited to listen! Love your content Jeanine!

[@laurenmartinez6708]

Hope you guys feel better too!

[@lilydejong]

listened on Apple Podcasts this morning and loved this ep !!

[@JeanineAmapola]

You’re the best!!!

[@katerackley7633]

Woah early

[@briannamathes9316]

Hi Jenine, night terrors are demonic oppression and I would recommend deliverance for that. I started having night terrors every night at the age of 5. There is freedom in Jesus the deliverer! I no longer have them🙏🏻

[@Isabelizzo1028]

Lots of great advice Jeanine! 🩷