Have You Set Boundaries Between Love and Limits

There are two parallel tracks that run through just about everything we do: Love and Truth, or put another way-Love and Structure-or yet another Love and Limits. To get the good out of something we need to apply a structure, a method, a limit, but we need to do it lovingly. This applies broadly in life. Not just in how we treat others, but also in how we talk to ourselves. When you fail at something, do you give yourself feedback with love? Probably not. That’s the big divide. Get Love and Limits to be better friends and your life will be better.
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[@leekflower1]

"the truth is unusable when it does not have love" 🤯

[@AllForHisGlory1]

👏👏👏

[@leekflower1]

Love and justice are together. I thought I was having trouble unconditionally loving others. Which still may be true but I now have a new framework that love also has limits.

[@cobyteune]

I love the Bible and I love God. All the wisdom is in Gods Word. Psalm 85:10-13 Mercy and truth have met together; Righteousness and peace have kissed. Truth shall spring out of the earth, And righteousness shall look down from heaven. Yes, the Lord will give good; And our land will yield its increase. Righteousness will go before Him, And shall make His footsteps pathway.

[@karenr5870]

This is a great video, as a new boundary setter, I was definitely stating truths and limits without grace. Thanks for clarifying.

[@lesshustlemorecoffee]

Love looking at things in unique ways. You do a great job explaining. And in a soothing tone. Thanks for the KZbin videos you share.

[@sh6460]

Amazing, this pairs with the drama triangle vs winners triangle, a way to avoid being a prosecutor, caring but not responsible for another's choices. Have had a hard time pairing.

[@Will_Bryan]

One of your best thoughts of the day 🙌

[@fgbowen]

2:23 - see, I don't think i got either of these things growing up.

[@AllForHisGlory1]

Thank you Dr Cloud for this video and all of your videos. Appreciate you breaking down this deep truth.

[@lenorenail1934]

It suffers long, is kind, doesn't envy, doesn't brag, Is not arrogant, doesn't behave unseemly, doesn't seek for self, is not EASily provoked, doesn't think evil, doesn't rejoice in iniquity BUT rejoices in the truth; It bears all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 1 Corinthians 13: 1-7. Through Christ only can we live in such a way.

[@copperskycoppersky6074]

Amazing how he unpacks this scripture in this teaching

[@FLACALMU831]

Can you give some examples of how these two play together in real life situations?

[@Deelitee]

I’d love to get this answer too!!

[@Deelitee]

BEAUTIFUL❤️

[@nancymcgrath6283]

Great video! Thank you.

[@hiwathajones6799]

That’s was good!

[@maylissbjerke9204]

❤

[@scottfranson4215]

two parallel tracks that run through just about everything we do:

[@rdbeckett590]

Excellent! Thanks 🙏

[@leecooper1459]

are u still doing call in groups?

[@tamelashafer8852]

💜♾🙏🏼🕉

[@fgbowen]

10:03 - love - hm. - now...What is love again?